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Saturday, 27 June 2015

Dear LIB readers: My sister is married to a homosexual

From a female LIB reader
Am from Ananmbra State, a family of Five, 3girls and my sister is the eldest. My parents are not poor, we were all educated to the university level. Last 2 years, my sister came home and told us she's getting married to a man she has not met, just through the guys mum because she stayed in their flat when she was in Uni. The marriage was arranged between her, my mum and her mother inlaw. The family in question is very rich and famous, they all stay abroad. My dad was against this but she and my mum never listened. They did the Trad in the guys absence, she danced alone and took pictures with empty chair that the husband was suppose to sit on.
They made mockery of our family in that wedding because it was so funny.
He came back a night to his white wedding and during the vote of thanks he could not say my sister name because he doesn't know her name.......He left 2 days after and my sister got pregnant. This guy never came back until his daughter was 2years and few months.

The problem started when he came back, with a white guy claiming to be his friend. He spends sometime during the day with his daughter and the night with the young man at a hotel.

Meanwhile since he came back, he's refused touch my sister saying he's tired. They had a fight which got the attention of the two families, all he could say was that he had a penis surgery and the doctor said it can't stand until after a few years, and that the white guy is just a friend that he enjoys spending the night with.

At the mention of his white friend he became aggressive and said he never wanted to marry, that his parents forced him, that they should allow him live his life........he left the country the next day with the friend and since then has not called.

 My sister is broken, my family is bothered, and his parents said they will sort things out.
What do we do now?

178 comments:

Bishop Dammy said...


It's such a pity seeing what Mr Etcetera has become.. it pains me seriously and I tend to ask you sir if you are an agent for change or destruction! I'm not just happy, and I'm asking you sir.. do you run your writeups for personal fame or for good sentences commendations and applause!  
In what way are you supporting the change for good of Nigeria.. do you think this country is that easy to control? Do you know the kind of individual greed that needs to be treated? Even if there's this man that wishes Nigeria gets better, what of the many wolves with pot bellies that have refused to turn new leaves.. 
Why do you just rush and start condemning here and there ? Aren't you you sensing transparency to a reasonable extent among the new leaders?
"Is President Buhari capable of providing direction, implementing a NASS approved budget, prioritising and recommending budget changes, negotiating legislation, submitting qualified candidates for the courts, appointing and supervising staff and cabinet members, including the joint chiefs of the military, and effectively communicating volatile, uncertain, complex, and ambiguous issues to the Nigerian public? Absolutely, NO!"
 For Christ's sake.. what do you mean by this? Who's capable then? Jonathan? Or who?name the person! 
I'm asking you sir.. what do you stand for now! Ehn.. could a country be worse than Jonathan's administration Mr Elcetera.. I'm asking you! Things are terrible and you know that! So why don't you just quit making undiluted noise everywhere..  
I think the so called change has to start with you keeping your "pen" and stop writing for now..  but go on your knees and pray that Buhari's administration succeeds. You don't even have a choice. 
I'm very sure you'd read this that's why I posted it here.. I don't know any other means of reaching you. 
God bless you. James 1:26, Gal 6:10



















Anonymous said...

Una dey mad. Forced marriages. Una just start. Useless ladies everywhere that wanna use that God bless the man behind my smiles foolish status on bbm. Una go hear wennnnn!
Myscheeeew





*** mynameisSkelewu

Unknown said...

Hmmmm odikwa wosky, ijuomu njuo onye?

Anonymous said...

Some of you women are too stubborn. When the head of the house was not in support, you people hardened your hearts to go ahead with it. Now see what it has caused you guys.

Anonymous said...

Ur Sista shuld take comfort in ha baby, nd move on wit ha life.... Da dude ain't comin bak.... He puts d "A" in "Asshole"......

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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NTOR NTOR NTOR NTOR NTOR NTOR NTOR to ur sister.... Mumu gal, na money and abroad make her loose her dignity and respect... Make i die if i pity her.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

Unknown said...

So what should we do? Pls dnt bother us with. All this una chicken story

Unknown said...

Hmmmmm

Anonymous said...

Lmao! At least she has a beautiful daughter, she should count her blessing (the child) and leave NOW not LATER and start searching for another man. She was just used to pacify his parents. He's obviously GAY!

Davido's driver said...

Serious gobe

Davido's driver said...

Hmmm no comment. Lindaobserve

Unknown said...

Place everytin in d hands of d Lord, and let Him tak care of everyttin thereof. No humaan being can change d life of anyone inside out except d one, and only true living God.

Anonymous said...

just quit the marriage and take care of the kid while you look for someone else.

Unknown said...

Abeg make una carry una cross, who gets married to someone they don't know,? Oh I know. Ur sister

Unknown said...

Linda show my comment na

Unknown said...

Thatz what you get when you are sooo desperate to get married, you are asking what do you do now ryt? You don't know abii? He's parents trying to solve whatever will eventually turn out to be a total crap. My dear, I know it's difficult but please allow the young man to leave his life, don't force yourself down his throat, take care of your daughter and look for something else to do with your life, u'll meet someone else. #Jules

Bonita Bislam said...

Sort what out? Abeg shift.A gay never stops to be gay.Its either she agrees to be his room mate or move out of the house.simple

Unknown said...

This is serious o..

Anonymous said...

she is a grown woman wit a family,she choosed to play d song,let her dance alone.Marriage na better for worse oooooo!! Fyi,God hate divorce

Anonymous said...

HMM...Nkan be...she is married to herself..so she should just move on with her daughter ..Make sure the "husband" and family do the needful like paying for accommodation and school fees ..but let her get a job and move on..i suspect the mother knew v that her son was gay and was living in denial OR just wanted him to bear kids so she deceived this your desperate sister....but as an aside.... na wa for scoring a goal jus 2 days of marriage and she became pregnant..

Anonymous said...

God bless you Bishop Dammy!!!!!!God bless U a million folds.

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

For ones I agree with You bishop, dont mind the headless chicken!

Unknown said...

Hiss

Unknown said...

Dammy INA ako ka onye egbuwaa Isi...etcetera de stay for this blog or is dis d post? Nwanne abeg go find him on any social media and paste this bull crap on his wall, sure he'll see it. And give him enough verse to read. Mtchew!

Damola Gbadegesin said...

Hummmm, A serious one.

Anonymous said...

She deserves no sympathy. She dug her own grave.

Anonymous said...

Very pathetic! She should accept her fate. Apologise to your father and simply walk out of the marriage! Keep custody of the baby and allow the guy live his life. The guys family can't do any thing! God will surely forgive you're sister and show her mercy!#

Anonymous said...

I don't understand. Women. Now you have come here to downplay your stupidity. Marrying someone u haven't seen? Dancing with an empty chair? Sleeping with someone you just met a day to your wedding (a total stranger ooooo) - what's d difference between you and a thot! Just because he paid u with marriage instead of money?
Now you want him to sleep with you again after 2 years... Hehehehe. You dey try o. So anyone can just fuck you with or without chemistry.
OK, you expected us to crucify him cos he's gay?
Nah, we won't. That ship sailed yesterday after Obama legalised gay marriages. Lol
Pele

Anonymous said...

Lmao....@ bonita bislam...u garrit!!! ...

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

They should let em follow the path he loves the most. Wify biko divorce em and move o.

Anonymous said...

Bishop Dammy, tank u veery much for dis.. u brought it all out of my mouth.. I hope d hypocritical fool reads dis.... He's jst a failed musician turned "writer".. mtchewwwww

Unknown said...

@Bishop Dammy, everyone is entitled to his or her own personal opinions, and should b respected.

So don't get it wrong for he is only expressing his views concerning d subject matter.

Moreso wht is d leaving of space for or u want to join Davido's driver's madness... Definitely not frm u.

Unknown said...

@Bishop Dammy, everyone is entitled to his or her own personal opinions, and should b respected.

So don't get it wrong for he is only expressing his views concerning d subject matter.

Moreso wht is d leaving of space for or u want to join Davido's driver's madness... Definitely not frm u.

Unknown said...

Your family should keep praying for him for a change, that's the only solution to this because they are already married and mind u it is for better or Worse.

Unknown said...

@Bishop Dammy, everyone is entitled to his or her own personal opinions, and should b respected.

So don't get it wrong for he is only expressing his views concerning d subject matter.

Moreso wht is d leaving of space for or u want to join Davido's driver's madness... Definitely not frm u.

Unknown said...

Haaa dis 1 is too much ooo


Lib freak

Juleslouis said...

Well your sister started it. She married an empty chair so why is she complaining? Can't believe this still happens. Its a shame!

Unknown said...

Nsogbu

Beloved #CHIVIDO 2020 said...

I na anu- kwa akuko..



Story for the gods

ary said...

Igbo girls are marrying guys with money, o ihe ne gbu anyi di ifa.

Unknown said...

She gt wat she wanted

Unknown said...

She married him for som other reason and not love,its simple.leave the marriage and find other things doing.im sure she has learnt her lesson.

Unknown said...

Pray

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Unknown said...

U pple shouldn't do anything o, let him be. Next time parents will stop forcing their kids to marry. Hahaha

knowurway.com said...

Thank u so much Bishop Dammy, the idiot called Etcetera is a moron, Artist who turn a writer, I sorry for your father nd your mother who give birth to u. Etcetera u re not re shame of yourself that from year to year u can not sing a single song. I have never hear or see anybody playing your music from record studio, internet or playing your music by DJ, Etcetera u re noting but noise maker, I wish PMB can order security to arrest u now nd they'll teach u little lesson I'll be happy, Etcetera u re a born throw-way bastard.

Anonymous said...

It's funny how our gals see marriage as a life saving boat or a multi-million naira lottery especially when the groom is perceived to be wealthy. She ignored all signs knowing fully well that all that glitters aren't gold. Women should borrow a leave from the likes of Linda ikeji be hard working and independent. She wasn't under duress, she solicited for it and should face the consequences.



#LINDA'S PROTEGE!

Anonymous said...

A million likes, Bishop Dammy

Anonymous said...

The manner at which the wedding was arranged is stupid though, but I think the girl should let the FOOLISH homosexual rot in HELL. All this foolish gays be making husbands scarce for the ladies. Stupid homosexuals.

knowurway.com said...

Anon 11:47 AM, I tire oh for their mother who is long throat, she better quite the marriage nw oh nd look for someone else to marry, that is my advice.

Peace said...

She should move on, there's plenty life ahead, plenty. She go school shey? Ehen! get a job or handwork and reclaim your dignity. He will need that child one day, then you can pay him back. It would do some good to change your circle of people, move far. You don't need pity, not even self pity, you need inner strength and support. Find joy in fending for your child, trust me that will be very purposeful now. My heart goes out to you dear.

elgigante said...

You know what you should do? (that's if this story isn't fiction) Raise your hand up while standing beside ur sister and give her a decent knock on the head for marrying a man she has never met cos he stays "abroad". Keep giving ibo pple a bad name

Unknown said...

Lmao...ur sister deserves wat is happening how on earth will u marry a man u'aave nt met?..really? N I fink she married him cos of d money n d fame! Lol she shld move on ASAP!

Unknown said...

Hmmm notting can be done about it.ur sister should move on with her life.but ur momsy no try shaa

Unknown said...

Marriage is not a do or die thing,pull out if u have given ur best,u don't need advice,is a personal decision.
Linda look alike

Unknown said...

She should move on with her life, this will serve as a warning to many girls

ASAMPOKOTO said...

How about she JST look for a new husband. The man is gay and nothing can change it. Everytime God God. As if he didn't give us brains to use

Anonymous said...

There are sooooo many gay Nigerian guys abroad, they refuse to marry early, always breaking up relationships with women they date to cover up. Eventually their families force them to marry a desperate Nigerian girl but the signs ARE ALWAYS there that he is NOT INTERESTED but "I must live abroad by force" girls no dey ever hear... This is a common occurence especially amongst Igbos, btw I am Igbo & I live abroad.

ASAMPOKOTO said...

Same thing I was thinking about the guys mum. She obviously knew and used the sister

Anonymous said...

Is it now that you know this country is hard to control? Didn't you know that when GEJ was in power? Smh!

Anonymous said...

You're very stupid. Really stupid. Please do yourself a favour and don't be a drop out. Sit still in an English class, graduate and come back here and make your unsolicited comments. Skelewu my ass!

Unknown said...

Dz s more serioz dan it luks,it happen 2 an aunt of mine.nt dt her hubby was gay bt it was an arranged marriage 2 bt it ended up badly aft 2 children dt she can't c again...U jus ve 2 move on wit ur life ahead of u

HOLAMAX WORLD OF FASHION said...

That's exactly what u get when u are too materialistic...Now u are asking for what to do hmmm, when u dnt place value on urself. well I dnt support divorce o, Abeg carry ur cross jooo How der u get married to someone u don't #No gossh but all because of his money

Unknown said...

It's too late to cry when the head is off.

Anonymous said...

That is what is good for your sister when we advice you people to let other people live their lives you'll start quoting bible una just dey start many of u homophobic people will still end up with gay spouses. This is just the beginning.

Oshlan said...

That's one hell of a fucked family

Unknown said...

Confused family with confused write up. They married two years ago and their daughter is 2years plus. LIE FROM THE PIT OF HELL.

you want me to remind you that The United States has legalize it in all the 5tates.

Anonymous said...

I just pity your sister because she's the victim here but on the other I don't blame the gay guy its obvious he did it because of societal pressure that's why we keep telling you people to let homosexual be themselves if the guy was openly gay now your sister would have been in this mess now. Its a pity sha.

Anonymous said...

You dey mind that failure? He is finished in life and only gasping @ straws.

Anonymous said...

Bless you sister you just hit the nail on the head

Unknown said...

Bishop what is ur problem? All dis long note. I cant even read but why force a gay man to marry na? Why marry a man cos of moni? Now u pple shld keep quiet.

Anonymous said...

Terrible

Anonymous said...

Ur most matured comment eva. Nice one

Anonymous said...

As a gay man living in Nigeria this is one of my greatest fear that one day I'll have to marry a woman even tho I don't like her just to satisfy the society. I don't like deceiving people but society wants what its want.

Anonymous said...

Your sister is the foolish one that will live with the wages of her foolishness...you go and worry about your own life.

Anonymous said...

Ur mama train u well
So proud not a single curse.

Unknown said...

marriage is not by force. Let the sis move on wit her life and take care of her baby.

Anonymous said...

Love of money is the root of all evil, ur sister was hoping to see America and eat money but she will have to live with the wages of her greed.

Unknown said...

Hmmmmmm

Anonymous said...

When we say "live and let live" they will say we are anti Christ, we are the devil, we like supporting evil things but now you people have seen the result of what happens when u make laws that make people pretend to be what they are not. Una never start #shioor

ellen said...

This is a different news,why post ur long comment on etcetera here???? Seriously what has ds news got to do with the other

Anonymous said...

I am telling you! Very stupid question! What should we do. You guys better tell your sister to realize nothing else is ever going to happen. I'm sure his mother knew all along. But even though! What about this marriage spelt happily ever after??? She danced with a freaking empty chair. You people are now making it seem like the problem is that he's gay. No the problem is ur sisters longer throat. She should go and stay with his parent that what she should do! Yeye family! Abegi Joe! She made her bed she should lie in it,you danced with an empty chair better get used to sitting alone in it!

Anonymous said...

Lmao!!! Its good na abi when you people pass laws that make gay people sad and depressed its only right that they make you straight people sad and depressed too. Ntor! Na wetin good for una be dat many more of this to come

Anonymous said...

Hmmm who is to blame now? Is it the guy or the lady? Or their parents? Its not good for parents to force to do things they don't want to do. I remember when my dad forced me to eat a local dish that I didn't like I told him I couldn't eat it but he forced me to eat it saying that I was forming, after eating the food I couldn't hold it down I ended up vomiting everything and I made a mess of our living room since then my dad stopped forcing me to do things I don't like.

Emmanuel Fan said...

Bishop, am beginning to doubt your ministry. You hid under it and do politics abi? Ok,let me reserve my bad mouth for another time! Please, if TRULY you are a Bishop, go back to your pulpit.

*Linda's best friend*

Anonymous said...

Your sister became pregnant after spending two nights with a gay guy? Yeah right. Ask yoir sister to tell the truth abeg. She is pushing another persons' child on the gay guy. Divorce already and stop deceiving yourselves.

Linda's ex said...

Here is expenses for yesterday..Gave u 4,000 naira for payment of women contribution in Church,added 7,000 naira more for expenses for items to buy for or our son's birthday,bought Airtel 1,000 naira 4d lady In our Lagos office who helps to process my client's claim cheques and sent thro her Mtn 750 naira for her Oga,bought 2egg rolls to eat before I started work in Shell Oil Tunnel,gave I.k 200 naira as he requested for small thing from me to support him this wkend,bought Airtel for my line 1,000,paid addtional 8,500 to the 53,500(to make 62,000.Thank you Jesus!) I deposited for our Home Theathre which we will use to blast music for our son on his birthday celebration 2day,dashed the guy who carried the Home Theathre to the car for me 200,bought meat for my friends(Uche Fidelis and Valentine) 300 naira,dashed the lady(Joy) 100naira for her own meat..Refreshment for my family and provisions bought in Everyday Supermarket 1,400naira..Will inform u later if there is more money I expended but did not mention here now....Thank you Jesus for Your blessings...Praise...God...Alleluyah!!

Anonymous said...

your sister got what is a possibility when you shop blind. when you pick leaves or mushrooms in the forest that you dont Know, what happens? You eat Poison. There is a reason why we have a brain and the brain has been armed with the function of perception that is contingent on our sensory capabilities. Her eyes at least on longer observation of this young man would have uncovered the belly of the Snake. she did blind buying and the apples are rotten. Move on. its no one's fault but yours. And please dont blame ya mama. You could have Said a firm No!

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Unknown said...

Is this d Juliet okonkwo dt I knw?

Anonymous said...

I asume she's stil yung nd must move on now b4 its too late cuz homosexuals to me is modan a choice its a way of live either spiritual or biological wich eva ways. D did has bin done cuz she was caried away wit all she saw; simply put she was either desperate, naïve or jst bein materialistiq!#2627C63

LA' SUNSHINE said...

Your sister should pls move on with her life .

Lawrence Akanji said...

I know you will follow up on these comments, so I will be very sincere with you. You see, your sister was too desperate, and a lot of wrong things were overlooked. But I know she has learnt her lesson the hard way now and I know she will be more careful if she ever has another chance. The guy apparently did not marry her, his parent did. So she should know that she is not yet married. You ask me how, I am prepared. If you observe very well, pastors often say at all wedding processions that 'those who are joined together contrary to the will of God are not joined in the sight of God', such is this case. If I were her ehn, I would cry bitterly as much as I want, get up and wipe the tears off and pick the remains of my life, and LIVE ON!!! Let her for once decide whats best for her life once, no person has the right to chose on her by force, until the day she stands up for what she really want, people will keep offering her different opinion. One of my quotes says "In life, things happen, some sweets and some shits, and the best people can do for you is to comment, opine, and analyse, the really action is within you". AsoConcept.

Anonymous said...

Apostle Paul compared the marriage between a man and his wife as the same relationship between Christ and the church. Why is it that some women are still stubborn? Just as its good for the church to obey Christ, so when the head of the house as ordained by God speaks i.e. the man speaks, the family should listen . Wives learn to be submissive and save the family unnecessary mistakes which some can be very tragic. Do whatever your husband says. God is the wise one and He knows best. Its said in more than 3 places in the bible. Its for your own good. He who said it is God and God is love Himself.

Unknown said...

God go resolve dat una family issue, cos seriously no man can. Linda take note!

Anonymous said...

Lmao!! His d*ck can't get up... So his white friend is the that helps him get it up? Heya your sister haff enter one chance.

Anonymous said...

Nonsense story nxt

Unknown said...

Just pray 4 change, or u will hv 2 face bn a mate 2 a man cos obama hv given dem freedom 2 nonsense

Anonymous said...

So true.God bless you bro

Anonymous said...

One, I don't believe d story, (Linda liar) ow come e came to ninja spend 2day togeda n she got pregnant, it's possible but I doubt it. And if d sis is so distressed and looking for advice on LIB (Wic is stupid) she shd move on, a lot of single parent survive. Cooked up story, go and write script for African magic ede yoruba, I will neva comment on dis stuffs again. It's like som1 callin u a fool and admitting u are. Story story?

Eee said...

What a pity

Endydecency said...

Why not go and marry a ghost because of money. He lives abroad. You have one option to become a lesbian yourself.

Anonymous said...

Turn it to God, he will do it for u..

Anonymous said...

So sad, but i fit in your shoes. I have been dating a guy i think is gay. The guy is weird and can go for weeks without touching me, pretending that he needs to concentrate on his coursework and that sex is a distraction. I am pretty, curvy and nicely shaped. Sometimes i will just be naked or wear sexy undies around him, but that does not trigger anything in him. When he forces himself to make love to me, he is just not there and therefore i cannot cum, rather i dry out. Also his favorite is anal to my displeasure. I have decided to let the guy be and let him go to other pastures. I do not want to carry on with the relationship and one day come back to my house to find him doing a man.

Anonymous said...

1, I don't believe dis story, dey spent only two nights together and she got pregnant?, it's not impossible but I doubt it. Linda Liar, 2, if it's real (Wic I doubt alot) and d sis is distressed or stupid enuf to seek 4 advice on LIB, I would not judge d person in question cuz d desperation of girls to get married and d increasing unwillingness of Naija guy not to get married is unbelievably high. So I won't judge. Lastly I tink d person dat cooked dis story should be writing script for African Magic ede yoruba. Linda we ain't foolish don't bring up stuffs like dis again. It's like takin us 4 a fool

Anonymous said...

I do not read the etcetera crap but believe he does not write it himself. He is a front for mischievous people who write the crap and pay him to release it. IGNORE THE FOOL AND HE WILL GO AWAY.

Zamani said...

The rich and arrangee marriage..

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Kelly Agbai's Blog said...

Gay is always a Gay

Unknown said...

I beg move on with your husband.......... seriously you are not married at all.

PATALEX said...

is it not only a fool that marries someone he or she does not know.

Unknown said...

@Bishop pls tell him ooo, I so much agree with you, Etcetera you keep saying shit, just stop writing for now and let the positive change begin from you.........

Unknown said...

Return d bride-price..live ur life,take comfort in ur child..

Anonymous said...

Ur foolish

Unknown said...

Ooooooooh my.....!
Marriage is more dan grab ur copy and go like yoruba films
It is a serious issue dat needs to b seriously dealt wit
Can som1 convince me dat d lady seriously prayed abt it b4 she venture into it?
No I doubted it cos our God doesn't disappoint.

Unknown said...

Ooooooooh my.....!
Marriage is more dan grab ur copy and go like yoruba films
It is a serious issue dat needs to b seriously dealt wit
Can som1 convince me dat d lady seriously prayed abt it b4 she venture into it?
No I doubted it cos our God doesn't disappoint.

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Unknown said...

Ooooooooh my.....!
Marriage is more dan grab ur copy and go like yoruba films
It is a serious issue dat needs to b seriously dealt wit
Can som1 convince me dat d lady seriously prayed abt it b4 she venture into it?
No I doubted it cos if she seriously pray and seek God's mercy over it our God doesn't disappoint.

Unknown said...

Ur sis should divorce d guy bcus he will never love her since they are not saying together. They live separately so there is no room for affection not to talk of love. And besides d guy is homosexual so she should jst forget abt him and move on.

Jasmine Joseph said...

No vex but I have to laugh small wat was ur sis thinking, even with d boys reluctance to marrying her she still force follow they go. Na ur mama and sis I blame

Amy said...

What you should do. She should write off that chapter from her life and start again. You can drag a donkey to the stream but you can't force it to drink water. Afterall they didn't point a gun to her head and said she should marry the guy, even an absentee one. It's only the little daughter that has been caught up in this sham of a marriage. But she can dust herself up and making her living okay. It's never too late.

Anonymous said...

Now America has legalised same sex marriage, I guess the man will marry his white guy. I'm not sure they ask if there is any impediment during same sex union otherwise...

Unknown said...

@bishop dammy, what is the correlation to this post. you are also seeking attention whether you like it or not.Etcetera is entitled to his opinion! Don't amplify his write-ups please, rather comment on the marriage issue. Stop this bible quotations of yours, its not necessary. Lest i forget, are u related to Buhari?

Anonymous said...

Wrong post.

Unknown said...

If u ask me an who I go ask

Anonymous said...

Keep acting like the gays dont exist and you will be bound to marry them. Instead of living in an environment where they can be who they and and you also know who they are. Im sure there are alot of men and women who know their spouses are gay but cant come out and say it.

dorothy said...

Hahaha. Na so na so. Tales by moonlight !

Unknown said...

How then did u find out that he's gay? 'Cos I didn't read anywhere in ur article that says u caught them 'doing it'. Anyway, that's the problem with arrangee marriages coupled with distance. The guy may have lost all affection for ur sis, and wants out but doesn't know how to go about it. I don't see this working out, I'm sorry..



#TeamBlessed#

Anonymous said...

Sorry 2 say dis ur sister is desperate 2 leave naija & ur mum wants 2 have an aboard inlaw who wil bombarded her wit money & gift items but u cee al dat glitters is not gold.

Unknown said...

its just a pity. ur sister shud bear it and take responsibility for her gullibility and utter stupidity. finally it shud be a lesson for her type of character.

lami said...

Let ur sister divorce, it is obvious what she has is no marriage.

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Wat won't we read on LIB mbok?

Anonymous said...

What does this have to do with the poster. Bishop pls shurrup!

Anonymous said...

What does this have to do with the poster. Bishop pls shurrup!

Unknown said...

Bad mouth @ Anita. Don't u have human feeling,

andre kelvin said...

She should accept her fate

Unknown said...

Dammy, must u mention jonathan in dis? For crying out loud, dats his opinion. As a matter of fact u r commenting on d wrong post.

OKPAFI said...

God answered the prayers of the guy's mother, your sister is just the conduit to actualize this. Her gay son is lost but she has a grand daughter, your sister can only be compensated. #lifechessgame

Unknown said...

It's well, let her take heart. The fly that refused to listen to advise followed the coffin to the grave.

Mo' J said...

The choices we are forced to make because of the pressure to get married...
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Rita said...

Shut the fuck up! Stop calling God in such a stupid issue! Imbecile!

Anonymous said...

Bishop you're senseless. God punish you with your fake bible quote all the time. Mumu Bishop that doesn't know the post he go and rant. Animal. Homosexual like you coming here to be quoting bible pages. Bingo

Unknown said...

your sister is the most dumb and stupid person i have ever heard of...and to think that she is educated?,,SMH...how can you marry somebody you have never met in your life,,lolzz,,chineke,,abeg,some kind of silly stories..she should better get herself out that thing she calls marriage for her own good.

Unknown said...

your sister is the most dumb and stupid person i have ever heard of...and to think that she is educated?,,SMH...how can you marry somebody you have never met in your life,,lolzz,,chineke,,abeg,some kind of silly stories..she should better get herself out that thing she calls marriage for her own good.

Anonymous said...

Hey just shutup, etcetera is right buhari is confused for now, until he show us his plan

Manuel Kunmi said...

Wel said dami

Unknown said...

Am surprise a gay got her pregnant 2days after n left, #story4dgods#, be it as it may, let her jsut see herself as a single parent n ask God to bless her with anoda man, but in her next world let her listen to her parents n don't allow material things be cloud her.

APPLE said...

It serves you and your family right, to think you are even educated? You saw a rich family and rushed into marriage. THIEVES.

Unknown said...

Na wa o!

Unknown said...

This Dammy guy just hit the nail on the Head! Mumu etc go bak to ur village & keep shut!

Anonymous said...

Man. I'd say kill the mofucking F A G G O T. I can't wait to kill a F A G G OT

Unknown said...

She wasn't forced in2 it, then she should pack ha belongings and leave with ha baby. D mista ain't coming back

Anonymous said...

Linda, you lost my respect with the Toke story. You're just a terrible hypocrite whose business venture lacks pruned ethics, integrity and professionalism. Such people know where they are headed. Keep deceiving yourself. Next time I will comment on your blog will be when you clock 40 as a SINGLE successful business woman.

N/B: I do not expect you to publish this. Shame won't allow you.

Anonymous said...

Majority of the time people don't even know what they are getting themselves into when it comes to marring a strange Americana they know nothing about only to find out that they are better off staying with their African men than falling for these Americana no body.

Anonymous said...

Majority of the time people don't even know what they are getting themselves into when it comes to marring a strange Americana they know nothing about only to find out that they are better off staying with their African men than falling for these Americana no body.

Anonymous said...

You're just a ho

Anonymous said...

Anon 120, just go and die. Skelewu 's comment isn't flawed in anyway. You need psychotherapy.

Anonymous said...

Lol! You seriously cracked me up

Unknown said...

Kill him or something.

Anonymous said...

@bishop dammy! Oh really? You wanna make excuses for buhari? So now we know there are pot bellied wolves huh? Why are you just realizing that but never did in Jonathan 's time ? How come we never saw that Jonathan cldnt be everywhere? He gave orders and did his part but did those wolves with pot bellies follow the orders? The truth is that a tree can't make a forest. What am saying is that, everything happening now was wat happened to Jonathan and nobody made any excuses so it wldnt be fair doing it now. Let this present regime do what they promised. And that is change! No excuses coz they never gave one while campaigning! Am not on any1's side. Nigeria is a very corrupt country! It will take thousands of the likes of buhari to change that. But then one buhari can't be everywhere . Let's just keep praying for our nation! Don't abuse me coz it goes back to ya! Shikena !

Cinderella said...

This is what happens in a culture that likes money too much. How can some1 marry a portrait . This types of marry is very common in the Igbo lands! Which makes we questions and ask" does the igbos really have a tradition"??? Coz it seems that with enough money, their so called tradition can be bent to any extent provided there is money from the people or persons involve. I think these act should be addressed and looked into. A tradition shld stand irrespective of the money any one has. That's what makes them unique and stand out. The igbos should learn from Yorubas , Hausas and even the fulanis.

Unknown said...

your sister got what she deserve, maybe in her next world, she will learn to listen to her father. mother are not left out too, they got brainwashed easily when it has to do with their daughter marrying someone based in abroad. i feel no sorry for her though.

Anonymous said...

Ehhhhh! In this two thwoosand and fiftin dis kain thing still they happen

Mr. Stretch said...

In this time and age, she agreed because of greed to engage in arranged marriage just for ephemeral things (fame and money). They laid the bed, they gon lie and roll in it! No pity whatsoever! #copythat

Unknown said...

@ anonymous 1;33 and 1;36, u both are fools, if u wish to practice your God forsaken life style, I advice you take ur cursed body to America that if u can afford their visa and join ur gay obama. God will punish all of u that support atrocities.

Anonymous said...

Leave them alone until when all of them get married to a closet homosexual they won't learn to let people live their lives.

Anonymous said...

Good for your sister. I plan on doing the same thing, I'll marry a girl get her pregnant then run off with my boyfriend. Everybody wins after all that's what society wants

Anonymous said...

Kill your dad first he is a closet faggot. Thank me later

Anonymous said...

Straight people think that because we gay people are the minority they can just impose harsh laws on us and get away with it. This is what you straight people will keep getting if you don't let us live our lives in peace. This one is even small self I plan on doing something worse than this.

bonny girl said...

Hmmmmm

Unknown said...

Na waoo.no, take heart, God day.

Unknown said...

The best thing is to divorce him and move ahead. Am sure he will be happy for the divorce. At least you have a beautiful daughter to wipe away your pains. There are better days ahead.

SWILL MARTIN said...

Abeg tell her to move on sharply abeg shuoooooo inasmuch de send moniii to her #issallowed

Anonymous said...

Return the bride price, annul the wedding and your sister should move on with her life with her beautiful gift from God, her daughter. Even the catholic church annul marriages on certain reasonable grounds, I believe this is a good reason. I won't advise her to stay married to him cos she could get infected cos there is high prevalence of HIV and AIDS amongst gays, that is if the man is not already carrying the virus with his gay partner cos I see no reason for him refusing to sleep with her again after a child between them, in that case she should count herself lucky.

Anonymous said...

We all use people abeg. Na Mumu go allow his/herself to be used. Let's all get over it!




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Anonymous said...

Hmn.... you too wise!!!!





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Anonymous said...

The typo is there, as difficult as it is to believe- Lo! It is she!!! Alas! Our Julliet has gotten sensible!!!! Hehehehehe





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Unknown said...

Is your sister's fault. She should start looking for another husband.

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