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Tuesday, 7 October 2014

Dear LIB readers: Should I marry him?

From a  female LIB reader
"I have been dating my boyfriend who comes from a political family for close to 4 years now. One thing that attracted me to him was the fact that he was nonchalant about politics. He always maintained he wanted no part of it. But late last year, after his older brother (who is the first son) was ordained a priest, my boyfriend suddenly started taking keen interest in politics. Last week, he finally told me he plans to be a political figure and that he'll join APC when he clocks forty (I'm sure his family pushed him into it after the family meeting they had). He also said he plans to marry me next year after my NYSC service. I love him wholeheartedly and I know he loves me but I know how murky and dangerous Nigerian politics can be. I don't want to endanger the lives of my family just because of the family I married into. I'm so confused right now. What if I marry him and end up hating him in the future because of the danger that might befall us? What if I turn him down and regret it for the rest of my life? Please Libers I need your help.

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Alloy Chikezie said...

Its your call. You know what you want.


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Anonymous said...

Marry the motherfucker. You don't have any problem babe. People who ain't into politics even die before politicians. Who told u marrying a civilian guarantees long life and peace for your family. Everything is in Gods hands.

Anonymous said...

IS BETTER U DO UR MIND
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FROM NWA NKWERRE

ugo said...

My go and sit down! You don't have anything serious to talk!

Anonymous said...

IS BETTER U DO UR MIND
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FROM NWA NKWERRE

Anonymous said...

IS BETTER U DO UR MIND
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FROM NWA NKWERRE

obietrezy said...

My friend are you a learner? Marry him and stop blabbing biko.

Neekee said...

Follow ur heart o jare and pray about it u might date him and then he becomes a governor like fashola that will better nigeria

Peejay said...

Marry him. If he loves you as much as you love him, you'll be his anchor to prevent his getting lost in the murky waters of politics. He will remain level headed because of you. Besides, how close is he to 40? Getting married and having children may change his political ambitions. If the love isn't so strong however, run for your life now.

Eugenia said...

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Unknown said...

What if he becums d President and u d 1st lady? U go still hate him? Biko rikpuo na ime onu ebe isi puta! Na akogheri......ijiro okwu hia

Anonymous said...

Ma dear listen to ur hrt again...if you truely love him..i dnt think politics is a rzn to b afraid...cover ur family with the blood of Jesus..wat else do u hv to fear ......@candidcamzz

Anonymous said...

Mschew,ask goggle.

Anonymous said...

I advice you to marry him, pray for him n make him see d good side of politics..u can be a good impact on him if u want to..

Unknown said...

Talk to him madame.. make him see reasons.. whatever he says will determine ur next move. Talk to ur mom about it too.

Anonymous said...

Don't try I ooo

Unknown said...

The choice is yours....

Unknown said...

The choice is yours.....

Unknown said...

The choice is yours.....

Funso Samuel said...

Meaning your cant marry a politician?

Come to think of it.What if he didnt inform you about his decision to join politics when he's 40?
By telling you shows that he loves you. Another thing is that if you leave because of him joining politics,what assurance do you have that the other person you will marry wont join politics too?
Sister,think well before you make a costly mistake o.

The best thing to do is for you to sit your guy down and let him know your take on the issue.Give him your reasons. Hopefully,he may have a change of heart.

Anonymous said...

Ode Oponu....

BONARIO NNAGS said...

Hehehehe and this is your own definition of problem?
Some women like fight pass quarrel,so getting involved in politics will diminish his love for you?
To me you don't have issue at all.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

Anonymous said...

d answer is in u,cuz at d end of d day,u re d one going to make dat decision alone nd b left with d consequences or joy it brings....b wise..at d end love is all dat matters nd its hard to find dat dis days....

deevah said...

Lmao....40!!! ur eyes af tear ooo.Man friend or "sweeter daddy" as ibu calls it...nt boy friend Biko...loool. be belittling our sweeter daddy anyhow..

Anonymous said...

Tsew!

Anonymous said...

do what you think that is right !

Unknown said...

But if he eventually becums d president and u d 1st lady, will u still hate him? Abeg go sleep jee jee for gutter!

khali said...

You are lucky you have him and he is also from rich home, dts what every woman's dream for. You better grab that man tightly b4 all these sharp husband hunters snatch him from u. You don't value what u hv until u lose it

Unknown said...

Support him, and pray for his protection.

Unknown said...

A beg rest ur case, I think people have bigger problems than this.

Anonymous said...

To see husband now marry na beans?? Marry him and pray God protects you and your family, cause only God protects us all# JustJay

Anonymous said...

Follow your heart dear damij@yahoo.com

Unknown said...

My dear go n kill yoself! Haba!

Niyi Daramola said...

Yes marry him




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Anonymous said...

I dont know if ur problem is stupidity or u are just confused . If u love him stick with him politics or no politics

MJ2J said...

follow ur heart gurl buh for me.....politician is a no

Anonymous said...

ask god to lead u d rite way. And luk 4 an old woman and ask. She wil advice u

Unknown said...

What if what if? If you don't try you will never know. Life is full of ups and downs we can never predict the future. You can only try and Shape yours. All he needs us your continual love and trust, you advice and support and he will never go bad

detutu said...

Can you pray? Do you believe God can speak to you and give you directions? Prayer can fix it alll... go on your knees and God will send you his word! WWPian

Unknown said...

Ask God to give you direction. You need to pray about it. One thing I know with God all things are possible

Unknown said...

come marry me, i will never like politics and you won't have any reason to regret because i am very loving and caring.

Anonymous said...

Its your decision do what u want to do.

Unknown said...

Nobody can help u dear, only God, pray abt it. God alone knows what's best for u not anyone here knows what's best for u,any advice u get here is still somthn u hv to think abt b4 u decide, so pray! See ur pastor for counselleing

Anonymous said...

My dr protect ursef first okk....fear of unknown v led many astray,u no wot u wan .believe n it will cm to u, i dnt love naija politics sha, n for a man dat does v has own mind...hmmmmm ,danger sign ...welll dats jst one of d opinions u will get , howeva atlast it balls back to u...follow ur hrt...tnks,xoxolillyspring01@gmail.com

Unknown said...

If you love him, then marry him.
But if you hate politics so much let him know, if he insist on it then let him go. Gbam!!!

BORN TO SHINE!!!

Israel said...

Go ahead n marry him,politics is never a barrial to love.u v nothing to fear.

Anonymous said...

It all started from the beginning.. Why on this goddamn earth would you love a man because of just a Flauntating attitude??.. all the way,ask God..dnt ask Lib


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ukbliss said...

Abeg follow ur hrt

Anonymous said...

He is deff an igbo boy

Anonymous said...

That shudnt be an issue dear. If you understand the kind of person you are dating and trust him so as to spend the rest of your life with. Go ahead with the marriage plans. Its all about understanding and maybe you should let him in on your fears and watch his response. Best wishes dear. From Babes anonymous

Anonymous said...

Do what makes u happy,,what u feel is ryt

Anonymous said...

See dis mumu... U betta marry him n deal wit d rest later! Men r scarce, u wana leave him n start from where again? U berra shine ya eyes n stick in there

Anonymous said...

Just follow ur heart..

Unknown said...

Ghen ghen dis one na gobe

Unknown said...

Pls Marry him if u lve him..dnt politician get married??fear of d unknown,,tmorrow will definitely take kia of itself!!

Cute G said...

Follow ur heart. If it backfires, lib readers will not be there to cry wt u.

Unknown said...

If u love him marry him!

Okoro said...

Sorry dear but u av to decide on ur own..take ur time
life is all abt choice..and we are victims of our own choices!!
Good night people

Debbie Chelsea said...

Think with ur head not ur heart.....n also pray 2

Ijanyimitch said...

Like seriously? Linda what sort of story is this one nau? Like u really need advice 4 this one? Smh

Anonymous said...

My only advice for you is to pray about it .

Anonymous said...

He never propose yet , u shud b worried if his political family wud let him marry u b4 he does political marriage nd achieve dat dream with or without you .

Unknown said...

I don't ve issues with politics.. but I will sure be scared if my man wants to be part of it.. but dear it really has nothing to do with ur love for him and happiness ... but we all definitely hv a few list of wat we want n do not want in marriage.. so its really left for u to decide

Anonymous said...

Ogbeni marry him nd stop looking for attention.

Unknown said...

Choose wisely,he can be the change in politics
Linda post my comment o

Toronto Finest said...

Joker.. keep deceiving yourself lol.. who doesn't want to be hon's wife lol.. Linda pls start screening these questions before you post them on here.. we ain't jobless to be answering foolish questions jare.. aba!

Unknown said...

Hmm mm just go to God in prayers he has all the answer you seek and he will even show you a vision and direct you









Breezy-p porting soon to???

Anonymous said...

Nne sorry oh bt dis one is jamb question oh...its ur call to make,urs alone meanwhile my spirit dosent just agree with dt party called apc,weneva I hear apc d only tin dt comes to mind is boko haram

Anonymous said...

Bitch go and die

Anonymous said...

Pls dnt marry him n stay single for d rest of ur life u hear...buh plss advice him to join PDP the winning party!!!

Anonymous said...

You need not comment if u knew u weren't gonna give a nurtured response. smh.

Anonymous said...

This issue is not worth posting linda abeg, when I saw topic 'should I marry him" , I was thinking maybe d guy was an armed robber sef

snowflix said...

Mtcheew! Wat a story... Linda and all this her funny stories. dis one dnt nid any advice na shez d one 2make d decision nt us 'sighs' #onelovefromSnow#

mummy3 said...

It's ur decision to make but, pray about it. I don't mean call ur pastor oo, pray and ask GOD to show u d direction he wants u to go.

uk said...

Follow ur heart for me I don't see anything wrong with that

Busola Ayo said...

May d Lord guide u

nk said...

Mumu question,so all d politians wives and kids are dead ba?is it not pple dat married politicians?everytin dey'll ask

Anonymous said...

Ma dear..love over politics oh...LOVE SURMOUNTS ALL THINGS!!

Anonymous said...

No please don't.. *please remain single.


Pekeyim 09

Otunba Pumba1 said...

sometimes u take risk n it fall in place while u might not be fortunate but put it in prayers n get God direction n am sure u would be fine, cos politics it's not bad as people thinks...
GOD BLESS NIGERIA!!!

Anonymous said...

Marry him. All is well

KASS said...

I'll advise you marry him cos serzly politics is a dirty game but life its self does not promise you a living without hiccup. Moreover as dirty as politics is, it comes with everything you need to protect urself and loved ones, like security, Money and all. You have access to it all. The security is at finger tip, the money to do anything that would atleast keep you safe. So go on. If JONATHAN who had no shoes now worths N16.4billion naira today tell me what else would hold him from keeping his family and relation from harm. They say anything money cannot do, only God can do it.

Anonymous said...

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Unknown said...

Pray over it then follow ur heart afterwards

Unknown said...

If u love him.....marry him, wats der?....Al u need do is 2 be steadfast in prayers.

Anonymous said...

If u v him as u claim u do n u are suo e lovs u 2 DAT much, tok him in2 NT going in2 politics n if e says no, I tink u shud stil marry him n always pray 4him NT 2get in2 trOuble DT wil tear ur future apart cs I bliv Love conquers all things.

Unknown said...

Try to talk sense into him

Unknown said...

Oda ppl dat married politicians nko? Ar dey all dead? Jus sha decide

Anonymous said...

I don't see any reasonable line on this ur jack story ,

Anonymous said...

just pray for d will of God to b done on dis matter.

Anonymous said...

Pray for God's direction...

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmm huge decision but you should know politics changes people

Anonymous said...

You just want advice to feed that attention hungry monster you have become. You already know what you want but here u are acting like a true politician wife already Asking the masses what their opinion is and then go on ahead to do what you initially set out to do... I have no idea what to advice u about, sorry dear.


In grave news, they are trying to bann kpomo! Oooo!!!


Habeebs wifey

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Lifematters-Mattersoflife(PEOPLE AND SOCIETY) said...

It is your choice,decide for yourself so that if you do not marry him, after he must have made it years after ,you will not blame any one or curse anyone e.g your lecturer like Ashimolowo's wife after all,former president Obasanjo is some womens' husband and he is alive and will remain alive as long as God wishes him to be.

damilola said...

babe, left to me i'll say marry him bt lemme jst say pray abt it cos he myt nt b God's will 4 u and if he is, God will help keep ur family safe

Anonymous said...

MSCHEW NANSENSE HISS

Anonymous said...

Y are. U scared of the unknown

Anonymous said...

You no wan chop d moni ni? Abeg, sit down jor

Anonymous said...

Exactly.. I second that

Anonymous said...

my dear young lady follow ur mind.

Afolashade Abibat Lawal said...

The ball is in ur court. If u love each other, marry him and put his political ambitions in the hands of God. You will be a happy couple. 4yrs is not easy to throw away so far he has no bad temper and he is not beating u up and womanising. Go girl

Afolashade Abibat Lawal said...

The ball is in ur court. If u love each other, marry him and put his political ambitions in the hands of God. You will be a happy couple. 4yrs is not easy to throw away so far he has no bad temper and he is not beating u up and womanising. Go girl

Anonymous said...

Pray about it the Holy spirit will direct u

YHUR-ZEST-4-LIFE said...

Weigh the advantages and the disadvantages and the one that is more beneficial, you convince your heart and mind that its right.

Anonymous said...

What's she saying.. Is that an excuse or question.. My friend go and sit down jare..what if nothing happens to him..negative mind..

Unknown said...

Take it to God in Prayers

Vee said...

Lol

Anonymous said...

Very few comments says it all.

You are an idiot

love001 said...

You should have a serious discussion with him. What you told us is a good of enough reason why you think your hubby shouldn't venture into politics. If he starts to get passionate about this, make sure that is a devoted man of God and conducts fasting's regularly because he will DEFINITELY need it in Nigerian politics.

Anonymous said...

There are so many what ifs in life.pray abt it, if u don't ve peace, forget it.

Anonymous said...

Lol..NYSC service..pls let him do what he wants..stop making things up in ur head en dont try choosing what en what you'd prefare him to be..after all when d money comes yu'll be happy..

Anonymous said...

You'll find peace if you seek peace regardless of who and what your is.

Anonymous said...

girl u better dont leave him.

Anonymous said...

You know you are going to marry him so why are you asking. You have big eyes and are thirsty that is why you agreed to date him in the first place. Date and marry uncomplicated people if you want an uncomplicated life.

Anonymous said...

Wetin concern us? Ashawo

Anonymous said...

Abi o

Unknown said...

If u don't no wat to do plz kindly send his number 2 me lemme help u out. I promise u won't regret it!

Anonymous said...

Love Is the most important thing... Since u r sure his family convinced him about going into politics... U Can as well do your part by trying to change his mine, its obvious its not his call to do into politics.... From now till next yr play Ur part bu trying to let him ses how dangerous it Is to go into Nigérian politics!

Mysterious said...

wow... its a real tricky situation girl. u're damn right in that question. what if you marry him and hate him? and even worse what if you don't marry him and then end up regretting it for the rest of your life. personally, i am a strict advocate of no naija dirty politics in my life but girl this is your life. in as much as you and i hate politics, would you rather do nothing and then keep on wondering for the rest of your life what would have happened if only you had... i think that would be a very miserable choice to make. babe, you just said you love him. isnt love supposed to cover all faaults? honey do you seriously think you can love someone else as much as you love this guy? what if you end up marrying someone you dont love? i know u will scream God forbid, its not my portion but lets be realistic here. you cant have your cake and eat it. no. my advice is that you be that dream woman that guy has always wished for and trust me he will do anything to make you happy, might even consider not joining politics when he finally clocks 40. its all in your hands girl, you just have to play the game right. after all love, they say, is all about taking risks. goodluck and of course i wish you God's amazing grace.

Aragon 3 said...

really??....so wait...u wan leave am......ladies shaaa

Anonymous said...

You are not serious, leave him you will see millions of girls queuing to marry him the next seconds, you see man with greater view wan marry you you dey select and make yanga, go marry recharge card seller cos that one no go get political view.

Anonymous said...

You are just childish and not even mature for marriage. What is wrong with him being a politician? When you begin to enjoy the wealth that comes from politics, you will not ask us to advise you. Abeg park well joor

Ibk said...

Sweetheart, this is probably one of the lamest excuses I have ever read.

Kindly do what ever you want. If you don't need him I'm sure there are countless ladies who will rush and grab him.

As if the job of an electrician (no pun intended) is not also dangerous.

If every good man runs from politics becos of their Lilly-livered women, who will sanitize the place
Biko, on to the next

Unknown said...

Abi oo,its her call.

Anonymous said...

Communication is key.....talk to him explain your fears and hopefully he will understand

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Anonymous said...

Only you deep down know which decision is best for you. Do you prefer the "had I known regret" or the "what if disappointment" ?! Choose wisely lady.

Mysterious said...

wow... its a real tricky situation girl. u're damn right in that question. what if you marry him and hate him? and even worse what if you don't marry him and then end up regretting it for the rest of your life. personally, i am a strict advocate of no naija dirty politics in my life but girl this is your life. in as much as you and i hate politics, would you rather do nothing and then keep on wondering for the rest of your life what would have happened if only you had... i think that would be a very miserable choice to make. babe, you just said you love him. isnt love supposed to cover all faaults? honey do you seriously think you can love someone else as much as you love this guy? what if you end up marrying someone you dont love? i know u will scream God forbid, its not my portion but lets be realistic here. you cant have your cake and eat it. no. my advice is that you be that dream woman that guy has always wished for and trust me he will do anything to make you happy, might even consider not joining politics when he finally clocks 40. its all in your hands girl, you just have to play the game right. after all love, they say, is all about taking risks. goodluck and of course i wish you God's amazing grace.

yimi said...

Prayer is dey key, there is Noothing prayer can't do. Hand everything to God. He knws the end. From the beginning.

Unknown said...

Abeg dis one no b issue to debate on nah.....haabaa, allow d guy to go get him own national cake. Others playing d game, dem don die finish? If he play his game well, he will live long. For ur infor, nah politics nd oil dey give mega money for naija oh

Anonymous said...

Go and ask God... LIBERS will only give you their opinion...but God has the right answer. it is well

Damochedxb said...

What naive Horse shit is this...??

Unknown said...

Yes.. your desire

Anonymous said...

will advice you to marry him bcoz he doesn't want it but now he chooses to be into it,so there is a reason for that....at same time pray and follow your heart dear coz marriage is not an easy thing to conclude on or rush into

Anonymous said...

Please does anybody know about the Grail movement,how do they worship.Am planning of marrying this guy who is into the Grail movement and am a Christian so my family strongly advice against it as we are Christian.Please friends what do I do.Thanks

ary said...

Marry him! Then as a wife make it your duty to prevent any murkiness. Simple. Again, it is your choice, your call.

Anonymous said...

@Alloy Chikezie:EXACTLY!!!

mummy k said...

Abeg follow ur heart and marry him,change is a constant thing in life,there's nothing wrong about politics and pls change ur mindset.

Anonymous said...

What if you marry him and it turns out all right?
What if you marry him and he ends up saving so many lives and doing well?
What if you marry him and he becomes another Fashola whom so many people pray for today?
Im trying to say it could swing either way.
None of us knows what the future holds. This is where God comes in. HE is the only one who knows what the future holds. Why don't you ask HIM instead of asking bloggers?
My candid advice

TinTin said...

I believe the best way for you to get your answer is if you go to God. If God told you his your husband , then go ahead and marry him if he brought you to it, he will surely take you out of it. Good luck love.... pray he answers.

Anonymous said...

Plz since u know what u want, n u able to spell it out better for u. Bcoz a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

Anonymous said...

Plz since u know what u want, n u able to spell it out better for u. Bcoz a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

Unknown said...

Plz since u know what u want, n u able to spell it out better for u. Bcoz a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

Anonymous said...

When you get to that brigde, you will definitely cross it. Stop beating yourself over nothing. Get married first. Who knows he might change his mind before turning 40 or somehow u may develop love for politics so wait till then. You can ask the question again when you get there

Anonymous said...

Lol..what if u marry him and he later on becomes a governor or senator... hahaha kudi kudi. ..enough kudi go dey

Anonymous said...

I think that's a wrong direction of thought, its not about you but about God in the union,and it is with him your answer lies. 4yrs is a long time to throw away for fear of an unknown. Ask God ?
And trust his answer.
May God be with you and give you direction. Phil 4:13

Mysterious said...

wow... its a real tricky situation girl. u're damn right in that question. what if you marry him and hate him? and even worse what if you don't marry him and then end up regretting it for the rest of your life. personally, i am a strict advocate of no naija dirty politics in my life but girl this is your life. in as much as you and i hate politics, would you rather do nothing and then keep on wondering for the rest of your life what would have happened if only you had... i think that would be a very miserable choice to make. babe, you just said you love him. isnt love supposed to cover all faaults? honey do you seriously think you can love someone else as much as you love this guy? what if you end up marrying someone you dont love? i know u will scream God forbid, its not my portion but lets be realistic here. you cant have your cake and eat it. no. my advice is that you be that dream woman that guy has always wished for and trust me he will do anything to make you happy, might even consider not joining politics when he finally clocks 40. its all in your hands girl, you just have to play the game right. after all love, they say, is all about taking risks. goodluck and of course i wish you God's amazing grace.

Anonymous said...

Calm, it's really not that deep. marry him. p.s you shouldn't have been so specific about the party. FUCK APC AND ALL THEY STAND FOR

Mysterious said...

wow... its a real tricky situation girl. u're damn right in that question. what if you marry him and hate him? and even worse what if you don't marry him and then end up regretting it for the rest of your life. personally, i am a strict advocate of no naija dirty politics in my life but girl this is your life. in as much as you and i hate politics, would you rather do nothing and then keep on wondering for the rest of your life what would have happened if only you had... i think that would be a very miserable choice to make. babe, you just said you love him. isnt love supposed to cover all faaults? honey do you seriously think you can love someone else as much as you love this guy? what if you end up marrying someone you dont love? i know u will scream God forbid, its not my portion but lets be realistic here. you cant have your cake and eat it. no. my advice is that you be that dream woman that guy has always wished for and trust me he will do anything to make you happy, might even consider not joining politics when he finally clocks 40. its all in your hands girl, you just have to play the game right. after all love, they say, is all about taking risks. goodluck and of course i wish you God's amazing grace.

Anonymous said...

Well girl follow you follow your heart

Nadia says said...

Don't marry him, if ur heart is not in it. Let him go.

Anonymous said...

Girl hop on that political money

Anonymous said...

Rubbish question.

Anonymous said...

Politics is a pot of soup o, do you prefer him to be jobless or can you survive on his salary? You better support him, else you will regret o!

camriola said...

Follow your heart dear. You already know what you want

talkwalker said...

In prayers you find answers dear,but in my personal opinion,I' say go ahead to marry him and pray him out of politics

Mysterious said...

wow... its a real tricky situation girl. u're damn right in that question. what if you marry him and hate him? and even worse what if you don't marry him and then end up regretting it for the rest of your life. personally, i am a strict advocate of no naija dirty politics in my life but girl this is your life. in as much as you and i hate politics, would you rather do nothing and then keep on wondering for the rest of your life what would have happened if only you had... i think that would be a very miserable choice to make. babe, you just said you love him. isnt love supposed to cover all faaults? honey do you seriously think you can love someone else as much as you love this guy? what if you end up marrying someone you dont love? i know u will scream God forbid, its not my portion but lets be realistic here. you cant have your cake and eat it. no. my advice is that you be that dream woman that guy has always wished for and trust me he will do anything to make you happy, might even consider not joining politics when he finally clocks 40. its all in your hands girl, you just have to play the game right. after all love, they say, is all about taking risks. goodluck and of course i wish you God's amazing grace.

tina said...

Them de ask person dat kind tin? tina.agori@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

Why are so concerned and worried about the future? His plan to join politics is a matter of at least 10 years time my dear. Anything could hsppen before then. If you really love him and you have prayed very well, don't let the fear of the unknown worry you.

Anonymous said...

Stupid silly question. Politics or not, if you love him then marry him dumbo

Anonymous said...

Leave the kitchen if you cant take the heat

Anonymous said...

Story for the gods...do whatever you want to do. Its nobodys decision to advice you on issues like dis.

Anonymous said...

TAKE A CHANCE ! FOLLOW UR HEART .
U SAID U LOVE HIM WHOLEHEARTEDLY,
SO U MUST STAND BY HIM and SUPPORT HIS AMBITION . IS NOT EASY ANYWHERE , POLITIC OR NOT POLITIC.

Anonymous said...

Sister pray for your husband ans supporT him

Anonymous said...

Unfortunately there is no easy answer to your question my suggestion is that you sit and discuss your concerns with him after all this is someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. With this and a lot of prayer, you should have more clarity on the right steps to take. Good luck

Anonymous said...

Talk to God abt it,if he is meant for u,either he becomes a politician or watevera. He will still be the best husband for u.

Unknown said...

Apparently You have no solid reason of not marrying ya bf ....Think positive lady ...notin wuld happen to ya family.

Unknown said...

Apparently , You have no solid excuse of not marrying ur man ....Think Positive joorrr ....Nothing would happen to your man

Anonymous said...

Monkey tale; story for the gods. You can add tales by moonlight

Anonymous said...

Marry him, be prayerful, Luke 1 vs 37 says with God all tins are possible.
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son of con said...

Risk 4 love

Anonymous said...

Why are you concerntrating on the evils in the society. I advise you focus on the positives and positive people in politics. Its a call to serve, be relevant and make change: which is all life is about. Ask Fashola's wife.

Anonymous said...

Better leave now if ure not sure, another girl is ready to weather d storm with him , and also enjoy d benefits later. I wud have said pray abt it but u don't sound as if ure ready for d challenges dat come with marraige be it politics or not.

Unknown said...

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oshe

Anonymous said...

Decide for yourself.....talk abt it with your parents...

Neymar said...

As far as am concern, U have already made up ur mind to marry him. So Goodluck to ya!

ratty boy said...

Go to God in prayers for more wisdom and understanding. .

Unknown said...

Just follow your mind and your heart

Neymar said...

As far as am concern, U have already made up ur mind to marry him. So Goodluck to ya!

Anonymous said...

U no get problem

Anonymous said...

Love holds no bound politics or no politics wat wil b wil b,follow ur heart.

Anonymous said...

Fear of unknown!! Stupid u

Unknown said...

Smh is love not unconditional?...:(

Unknown said...

Dear....seek God for directions....God knows the heart of all human ok,..

Chop Chop said...

Complete waste of my time..

Anonymous said...

And how is that am advice? Yam head.

Unknown said...

Abi o

Anonymous said...

Alloy u are very stupid. Must u comment.U are just a dull brain.Amimal like u.If u can't adive her u just keep quite.Anunpam

harbie said...

If u can pray over it....Am sure God ll lead U right

Chy 🌹 said...

Follow ur heart...there are lots of women married to politicians.If u can cope with the cheating,lies etc, den go ahead

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Marshall Matters said...

Lol, you love him whheartedly good, all you should do is make sure he loves you too and Leave him be all you have to do is pray for him ceaselessly and consistently. You guys might be the next Jonathan and mama Peace, you never know....lol

Anonymous said...

Secure your own future and marry him cos you know how hard d economy is. You can worry about that later

Anonymous said...

U don't need anyone's advice... cos you've got no issues

Anonymous said...

This chic is just excited and wants us to know, we don hear...... But it's your call and congratulations 🎊 too......T.K from J

Unknown said...

Rabbish!

Unknown said...

Its ur decision to make............ make it wisely...

Anonymous said...

Pls hw can I share my problem with my fellow kib,wan to send u my write up buh dnt kn hw? Text me hw to send it to u...

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