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Wednesday, 8 October 2014

Grandmum allegedly 'kidnaps' little girl in the UK, Nigerian mum cries out

Some people reached out to me to help them share this info. Said it's very serious. Moronke Temilola claims her daughter's paternal grand-mum (her baby daddy's mother) took her daughter from the UK to Nigeria yesterday without her consent and wants anyone who has seen either the woman or the child to reach out to her or report to the police.




188 comments:

Unknown said...

Hiaaaa!!

Unknown said...

Hiaaaa!!

APPLELIPX said...

Whooooaaaa!!!!
The lady is one cutie
I guess grandma just cant have enof of her grand daughter.......

Unknown said...

This is serious

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Bishop Dammy said...

Oh too bad! No harm shall befall your daughter in Jesus name. It is well. Psalm 91:1-3. BishopDammy#

Alloy Chikezie said...

Gobe! That's kidnapping, they should please return her daughter to her before matter pass be careful.


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Unknown said...

Hiaan! Which kain joke be dis naa? All dis mother inlaws sef! Wat right has she? Make she no go use her do one tin one tin oh.

Uche Emma said...

If it is true, why on earth is she doing that? Is she quarreling with her son? Even at that

Dee Tee said...

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Unknown said...

nawaoo!

Unknown said...

this is purely family affai

Unknown said...

This is serious!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Wtf!!! Some women do av guts sha. So sorry temmmy

Anonymous said...

Thank you Linda

Unknown said...

People get mind oooo.

Unknown said...

People get mind oooo.

Unknown said...

People get mind oooo.

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Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Sorry gal but if ur daughter don enter naija yu no go see her again bcos naija no get 911......
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Unknown said...

Oh No, but why?
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Anonymous said...

Na wa o

Ekeji said...

Haba! What was she thinking. That's kidnapping. She must have a reason. Vote Linda Ikeji as the Most Active Blogger of the year. www. Socialmediameritawards.com

mikeogar4jesus said...

Grandmum, please, bring back the little girl.

Unknown said...

Na wa o dis is serious

Princess.B. said...

Nawaooo dis one pass me ooo.Ndi nnedi fear dem.

Anonymous said...

How is it possible? A minor has the passport numbers of their legal guardians on any visa such that only the people with that passport number can take the minor out of the country.

Rosemary A. Chidi said...

Wahala dey o

ONYITEX BLOG said...

Hmmmm.. Nawa oh.
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tina said...

Why will she do that? Don't worry dear you will have your daughter back. tina.agori@yahoo.com

Moronke Temi Fadoju said...

Thank you so much Linda. I just really need my baby back.

Moronke Temi Fadoju said...

My 2 year old daughter Liya was kidnapped on the 6th of October 2014 by her paternal grandmother and its been confirmed by the police that she has been taken to Nigeria. Annette Ehiemere , the paternal grandmother, who lives in Port Harcourt with her son(the paternal dad) Izuchukwu Ehiemere ,asked to come visit her granddaughter in April and since she had nowhere to stay I allowed her stay at mine so she can get to know her granddaughter and spend a little time with her, all these I did in good faith.
She spent 5 months and all these time I didn’t suspect she was making plans to kidnap my baby, I knew her birth certificate was lost but I just thought it was around somewhere in my room and I would find it, not knowing she had taken it.
I resumed at university on the 6th and by the time I got back home, they were gone and after reporting to police it was confirmed that they had boarded a flight to Nigeria. She took my little sister as well and dropped her off at her sister’s in Hackney so I wouldn’t quickly suspect that was what was happening and made her drop my sister off the next day.
I had my baby Liya in 2012 and I have been the only one by her side, when I got pregnant and her dad didn’t want her, I told him I know choosing to have her is selfish but I really want to keep the baby and I would take responsibility for her. I have gone through hell taking care of my baby but it was joy to me, she is my motivation, everyone knows how much I struggled to make my baby happy. She isn’t familiar with anyone else, she has never travelled out of the country before talkless of travelling without me by her side. I didn’t even get to hug my daughter goodbye.
They haven’t let me talk to my daughter yet, I don’t know exactly where she is. You can’t just take someone’s child away from them without letting them know. I didn’t even get a chance to kiss her. It was one of those days when I was rushing off to school so I just told her bye and dashed out the door not knowing I wouldn’t see her again. My baby must be missing me so much, wondering where her mum who has always been by her side is. I don’t trust my daughter being with them for so many reasons. The grandma is a firm believer of spanking kids, she used to say spare the rod spoil the child and I know that is a usual belief back in Nigeria but I never agreed with her, I used to tell her there are other ways you can discipline a child and told her never to touch my kid again and now I am not even there to make sure that doesn’t happen.
I feel like this a bad dream and I am going to wake up soon. I see these things in movies and never thought it could so easily happen to me because I was stupid enough to trust someone who I thought being my daughter’s grandma was automatically family. I can’t survive without my baby. She has never even travelled without me to another town in England here, talk less of another country.
I used to have so much trust in the police force and UK boarder agency and never in a million years thought she could be kidnapped in this country and flown abroad without my consent.
I am never one to put my business out there because I have always felt like I was strong enough to handle anything that life throws at me because I had Liya to keep me going, now my baby is gone and I am weaker than I have ever been in my life, that’s why I need you to help me raise awareness or get someone to help me. I don’t mind getting Liya back and then going through custody battles with them the right way but the way they took her was so wrong. I miss my baby so much and I need help.

Anonymous said...

Wait! You kidnap a child from the UK u want to bring her to Nija to come and do what naw? To come and join all these suffering going on?? Grand ma,That child will never forgive you!

Anaflox said...

I pray the mum finds her little angel.

Anonymous said...

Some pple are jess wicked sha why separating d child from her mum. She shld be jailed F̶̲̅õ̳͡я̅ dis act

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Unknown said...

Lolz she just want to spend time with her granddaughter.
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Neymar said...

If d story is true, den she shld b arrested for child kidnapping. D way some Nigerian mother in law thinks, oly God knows!

Brown suga said...

Y would she do such? Maybe theirs probably a divorce coming soon or she's having problem with d baby's daddy & it can equally a planned deal btw d baby's & grandmum, sometin is definitely wrong somewhere but no mata wot she has no right to abduct or kidnap d lil gal.

Unknown said...

he should come to Nigeria now abi she doesn't know where her hubby is from? unnecessary drama

@MEETD®EALEVANS™ said...

Doesn't she knw where to find her in Nigeria. U don't knw a man's background to his families door step, but u carried his child...ode

Anonymous said...

Is her husband dead' she should make enquiries from the family first.... But the grandma no try o.... ITS'TYNNA

Anonymous said...

The avatar the Moronke lady is using is quiet irresponsible. But who am I to judge? Hope she gets her daughter back.

ukbliss said...

Sorry o

Unknown said...

There must be a reason for her action.....

Anonymous said...

Beautiful mum. Grandma should be imprisoned, is it her child? And where's the baby's daddy in all this? I hope she won't harm the little girl.

Kimmy*****

Anonymous said...

The woman only wants her grand daughter,where is the father?...don't just bring up a story without foundation,kidnap is too strong.an african parent must have a reason for taking her grandee...I dnt think you'r very responsible.

ary said...

That's just unfair! I hate intrusive grandmothers.

Unknown said...

Chai

Anonymous said...

Dat is very bad. Twitter/@dj_smartt

Unknown said...

Wow, nothing sme1 wunt hear

ejike capable said...

This lil girl will never forgive this woman when she grows up for leaving a better society to bring her to this hellhole called Nigeria.

snowflix said...

Nawa o this gist ain't complete na, she didn't give us d gist wella jor. Sumtin must hav conspired btw both of dem the woman can't jst take her daughter lyk dat #onelovefromSnow#

Anonymous said...

Lol. The story get k-leg. Abeg tell us what led to her taking her grand dota to 9ja. Maaybe u re not capable of taking care of her n ur lifestyle is bad.

Anonymous said...

Sorry.

Anonymous said...

How did she cross d airport,she be winch .she is in UK

Anonymous said...

U forgot to add that she's been the one taking care of that little girl for a while, while you go about doing nonsense! You stupid girl!!!

Anonymous said...

My own na d babe she make brain gan but what is with all dis people living in the uk and usa,na baby daddy dem sabi pass. may God unite her back with her daughter because he no easy o

Anonymous said...

And so? Does the child belong to the grandma? The girl lives in a country with a legal and social service system that works. You don't just "steal kids". You apply to the courts, report the lifestyle!!! Naija mentality rubbish.

Anonymous said...

Yes and the reason will be waiting for her in jail when she gets caught

Kaytra said...

Of course it's just one part of the story! That why she used the term 'allegedly'! What has happened to education in this country?! Hmph

Kaytra said...

Of course it's just one part of the story! That why she used the term 'allegedly'! What has happened to education in this country?! Hmph

Anonymous said...

People can yarn bulls***Does this Lil girl look lik she's suffering? Who gives anyone d right to take a child away from d mum? Dat woman is insane and should b jailed for kidnapping.

Unknown said...

Wahala

Unknown said...

Wahala

Unknown said...

Wahala

Anonymous said...

And so? Does that justify taking te child out of the country without proper authorisation? If the mum is an unfit mother then the grandma should go thru the proper channels to gain custody of her grandchild!!!!

Unknown said...

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Anonymous said...

never judge yu dnt kno d half of it
maybe the grandmum saw wat d lady does nd quickly thought in the best interest of the child to take her to a safe haven
nd also yu r a nigerian sister we believe in flogging

Anonymous said...

It is well baby girl..

Anonymous said...

why would u let the woman stay with u for 5months? I dont get how u will leave

Anonymous said...

What an effrontery what right do You have to say such, you don't even know this girl for you to say that

Anonymous said...

I know this woman ie the grand ma she is mrs ehiemere her husband used to work in shell but he is late now.She attends winners church in rumuogba and lives in woji,port harcourt.She is not a Nigerian.She had a school which I attended while growing up.

Anonymous said...

looking at her instagram page
omgg she loves dis girl
mehn dnt worry everything will be sorted out
in jesus name

MY TURN said...

I doubt that woman kidnapped the baby...i don't believe your story.Where is the father of the baby? where was the baby taken and under what circumstance.

In the UK we see children giving birth to children and abandoning them to go clubbing and exposing them to all sorts of vices like sex, drugs and alcohol. Look at her face she looks like the baby's sister not like her mother. There is more to this story biko and if grandma took that baby GRANDMA PLEASE KEEP HER!

Unknown said...

You'll get your baby back no doubt cos the world now knows about it.
But pls who's this other brown suga i'm the only brown suga here look for another name biko

Anonymous said...

I'm sure you are the father you pathetic dimwitted ninny... how wud u feel if someone does that to your sister? ASSHOLE!

Unknown said...

You'll get your baby back no doubt cos the world now knows about it.
But pls who's this other brown suga i'm the only brown suga here look for another name biko

Anonymous said...

Good you are no one to judge

Anonymous said...

Bad english bitch

Anonymous said...

I hope they don't kidnap your child and someone calls it "unnecessary"

Unknown said...

She'll be back in Jesus name...... Just be strong k?

Anonymous said...

And they won't spend time with your own child by kidnapping oh rme

Unknown said...

Eyaaa! I feel ur pain and anon 10;34 shut ur trap! Dis is no time for blames inugo? Back to u madam, ur daughter am sure is safe wherever she is and will be found. God isn't asleep...

Unknown said...

She'll be back in Jesus name...... Just be strong k?

Anonymous said...

That's a very silly thing to say Mr ed DREAMZ. How can you kill the hope of a mother seeing her child again... silly guy!

Anonymous said...

Same thing I was wondering tbh!

Anonymous said...

....and you find this amusing, right?

Anonymous said...

Yes the only nonsense she did was housing the insane grandmother and wicked son! You stupid person!!!

Anonymous said...

Babe, arrest the guy by so doing he will tell where his mum and child is. U must take a bold step to get ur child. Act fast and be a bold mother.

Anonymous said...

10:34, are you mad? Is this the time or the place? Hun get a lawyer. Appeal for all the help you can, get you friends to raise funds. Do you know anyone who knows his family? Trace him. And most importantly JUST KEEP PRAYING. Your baby is coming back.

Anonymous said...

How did she get a passport for her to travel with.your story is not complete and how did she get a Nigerian passport for her too or visa as they need consent from you and your passport data page before these travelling documents can be obtained

ASAMPOKOTO said...

Amen! Nigerians and their bloody mentality, most especially the older generation that have refused to accept change. What a ashame!

ASAMPOKOTO said...

Anon 9:51 is a great example why Nigeria is still in the gutters. Wtf! How do you tell someone you have never met about how responsible or not they are? The guts. Only in Nigeria

ASAMPOKOTO said...

THANK YOU! The mentality of some people on here is very very disturbing for real. Like God open the minds of Africans to know it is not always your place. Proper authorities are put in place for a reason.

@MEETD®EALEVANS™ said...

My stand still stays, why get pregnant for a man u don't knw d road to d door step of his family....cos If u do am very sure by now u Shud be on Ur way to nigeria...

Anonymous said...

Oh boy! You don expose the mama finish. But the malee na crase woman o. Shey your useless son rejected the pregnancy? Why do you freaks now want something to do with the child abi cos she's a UK citizen? Knowing igbo men, e be like say the man wan use that baby as anchor baby to life in the UK.

Anonymous said...

Are you minding the 'african' fool? pls how was she irresponsible? Your mouth like she wants her grand daughter. is it her child? African idiot

Anonymous said...

people need to understand that even if she is a prostitute that is her child and the grandmother has no right whatsoever to take her child away from her. so shut the fuck up.

Subomi said...

not surprised one bit, plus there is always another side to every story

Anonymous said...

This is another bad attitude we have in Nigeria. when people see something wrong they say it's a family affair. so if we see your husband stabbing you, we should waka pass because it's a family 'ish' abi? onuku

Anonymous said...

I wonder y dis doesn't surprise me....happens a lot in Nigeria....here it is believed that a baby belongs to the father and father's family alone....i've been in a situation where anytime I have issues with my husband, my only son whom I am solely responsible for his upkeep is taken away from me....if u are unlucky to be married into an influential family, the mother in law comes and take the children away. I have seen it so many times here....so unfair...but ladies if u know ur right and can fight ur way thru, no one can take ur child from u. it's unfortunate but she may never see that child again for a long time....

Ese said...

It's typical naija grandma behaviour, often the paternal grandma. Many Naija grandma's consider their son's wives and baby mama's as surrogates. They'll act as though you just carried a child in your womb for 40 weeks to hand the child to them.

They want to decide what the child eats, drinks, where the child sleeps, every single thing!! It is quite upsetting.

It is a criminal offence she has committed and many Nigerians would justify it, even women, only a mother understands the pain of childbirth, of raising a child from day one, the sleepless nights, the painstaking attention to details to ensure the child doesn't suffer SIDS, all done with the greatest love.

NOTHING gives anyone a right to try to take that joy away from a mother. Not even if she's been an irresponsible mother, cos if that were the case then she should have discussed with her!! An irresponsible mother would have been more than willing to give away her child to someone to care for, this mother crying foul is not an irresponsible mother.

Her heart is broken, be sensitive. If you don't have anything good to say, if you have no words of encouragement for her, read and close the page.

You don't know the half if it until you become a mother yourself!!!

Moronke God is your strength. This is a call to action, give us more details, a number, a pin, a contact address!! Let's get this mother safely reunited with her beloved daughter!!!

Anonymous said...

Who is this animal?? If you don't have anything positive to say to don't say nothing at all. Don't come around here commenting on things you don't know about. Go do something with your time then wiring trash. Look at the long essay you are writing I bet your bank account is not half of the word count you used

Anonymous said...

Thank you very much! We know her story she's an irresponsible girl! That's y they took the girl + she's illegal in the UK too

Anonymous said...

Hahahahaha this clown on his bio said his interest is making money in capital letters. Boy you is a loser.

Anonymous said...

You must be daft. Its your type that encourage evil

Anonymous said...

You obviously have not carried a child in your womb or fathered a child faggot.

chidinma said...

all y'all going after Liya's dad and her grandma, have you thought of the fact that liya's mum just started school? dont you think the best decision is to bring the baby back to nigeria so the mum can concentrate in school? The grandma meant well for Liya.
And fyi i just spoke to Izichukwu(liya's dad) about the situation and he said legal actions were taken to this effect and there was no kidnap. Ana whats that cock and bull u telling people that Izu didnt want liya, he has been a very good and supportive father

Anonymous said...

Hi ronke,

First pray. Have you contacted Liya's dad? You probably need to jet off to Port Harcourt. Posting on Instagram and lindaikeji blog won't necessarily get you a cogent answer. My advice, come to Nigeria and inform the police. Or let your parents help out in the search. Trust God. All will be well

Anonymous said...

Am so sorry but how come this story is not on Bbc Local news nd news papers here in the Uk?

Anonymous said...

Possibly the lady wanted the prevent the girl's dad from seeing his child, u knw hw women screw up abroad, but the grand mum still has no right to take the child

Unknown said...

This is really serious. The. Obvious is, they want the child alone, the mother is not welcome. Too bad.

Anonymous said...

God bless you

Unknown said...

U re a big fool for calling dat gal stupid.........dnt worry ur child will b taken away frm u cuz of ur bad character so dat u will knw hw bad she's feeling now.

GameSetBet said...

Regardless of "if" the mom have a frivolous lifestyle, you just can't take a baby from its mom without the right channel. She took care of the baby for two years without assistance at her young age and that should be taken to account regardless of their reasons.
And maybe the granny have request custody of the child but she don't want that because of the granny's cultural belief.
Now these steps taken could land the granny in jail if not sorted amicably ASAp and she withdraw her case from the met police bcos this is another case of a British citizen gone

Unknown said...

I don't blame u, jealousy is just writing all over ur comment......cuz u can't afford to study abroad, it's now a crime to study abroad. So because she's schooling in abroad dat will now justify any PITHOLE to kidnap her kid.....

Unknown said...

Nothing in dis planet earth will justify anyone of taking someone child.....dnt wish ur self wat u can't endure if it happen to u

Anonymous said...

Okay if legal steps where taken why did the shameless grandma run away with the child while the girl was in school?? Why was she not picking up the girl call?? Why won't they let her speak to her child?? Why won't they even tell her where the live?? Where did the shameless grandma leave behind her dirty set of underwear behind??

Anonymous said...

Pls spare us your insider gist. you don't take a child from the mother. The mother in law is a wicked Someborri

Anonymous said...

So they took the child so the mother could concentrate? ? you follow for the wickedness. is she the first single mother in school? Did she ask for your help. next tell ask your brother to put a condom on to account for his own sperm. shiorrr

Anonymous said...

Chidinma you are a bastard and a bloody idiot.....if you have ever carried your child for nine months you won't vomit such rubbish......men reject pregnancy then when the baby is born they want to have the baby to themselves to hurt the mother.....if you are taking the child and it was fond legally like he claims how come the mother did not know? If she was aware she would never come out and claim kidnapping.....what this woman did was so so wrong.......

Ese said...

The best decision for a toddler is to take her forcefully away from her primary care giver?? ...take several seats!!!

If it were a legal action the mother should have been informed.. do you have any idea of the psychological trauma the little girl has been put through?

Anonymous said...

This sounds soo much like izuchukwu. Ronke get yourself a lawyer.

Anonymous said...

Yes o. This nigeria people need to be careful who they marry and what kind of family they come from. especially girls. is your boyfriend a man? is he responsible. is he a mummy's boy. you may think it's cute now but that shit will bite you in t he ass so hard.

girls don't realise how important the mother of their spouses are. If she is wahala, that is automatic wahala for you unless you are very sure your partner can handle her very well.

Anonymous said...

Abeg if you have more details about this shameless woman plz pass it

Riches said...

Good information has been provided above for the woman to utilize in establishing contact and settlement.

Duncanholly45 said...


Gosh! Some LIB peeps can like 2comment without thinkin deep. Plzz how does Two wrongs ever make a Right, even if da Mother is unfit da Grandmum as not right to take da Child without her consent. She's in a country where their Legal system works, so da grandmum shld have done da right thing by her grandchild. Plus the way peeps jst jump to conclusion here is way out of line, you dnt even know da Mother nd her hustle(*angryFace*). @MoronkeTemi jst stay strong dear, u will definitely get your baby back. #LynxxGal#

Riches said...

Good information has been provided above for the woman to utilize in establishing contact and settlement.

APPLE said...

That is bad, but why grand ma?

Anonymous said...

From my PERSPECTIVE, wayward or not,it doesn't give a grandma d right to steal a child frm d mom wid out her consent.she's a criminal.if u look at d tru picture,dey say she's wayward,but she agreed to kip d child and raised d child all alone 4 two yrs. That guy doesn't have shame.he's not a real man cos real men wud take proper steps and not conive wid his crazy mum to steal his dauta. Pls d UK authorities sud do Smetin abt it. Jst imagine,u want d child but u don't want d bae dat produced d child.I dnt knw wen most mothers in law Will learn to start minding their business or stop suppOrting evil

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

EXACTLY WHAT MY MUM WOULD HAVE CALLED,"OVUHUDAA", SIMPLY MEANS A FAT AND NSHAPELESS AMOEBA.

I SUPPORT SHE SHOULD BE JAILED FOR LIFE

Anonymous said...

Linda I can assure you, Liya is in a better place.

Anonymous said...

Lol this is just funny, I feel for her, the grandmother had no right whatsoever to do that, it's not right. But the girl should stop lying izu has been a very supportive father, he travels to uk often to go and visit them, and he loves the baby so much never ashamed to show her off, even though he has a new girlfriend now, which is me (*¯︶¯*)

Anonymous said...

Why would you allow a strange woman stay in your home? I know you probably did it because you hoped that by staying with you, she could convince her son to marry you. People are wicked. We learn this over time. Get in touch with the British Embassy. Is your daughter British? If so, the UK will pursue the matter. If not, Nigeria is a sexist society and it may be harder. God bless and guide you. Amen.

Anonymous said...

It is kidnap!!

Anonymous said...

Is it not Naija? As if they can't organize anything when documents are involved. So wrong tho.

Anonymous said...

How can she be illegal when she is attending university...idiots!

Anonymous said...

U cant listen to one side of the story and judge, have u asked if the lady has deprived the father of the child the right to see his daughter, moreover I believe if ure a good person u will have cordial relationship with ur family and not shame them in the public, this is a family issue and should be respected, people talk about the trend of family today, do u think a single parent can really raise the best children? She can correct the future of the child with the situation, let her reconcile with the father of the child and make for a better future in this generation where our role models are all divorced

Anonymous said...

i see lot of dumb comments'
how much education do most of these people have'' so much ignorance/stupidity, if you have nothing encouraging or positive to write just stay off your keyboards/pads'
Some issues are sensitive

May you see your daughter soon' God be with her wherever she is

Anonymous said...

Pls shut ur stupid mouth, he never wanted the child and she has been housing him and his mother..pple are so foolish this ur comment is lame, we know u know them thanks for the info..if legal actions were taken she wont be saying she wants liya back..have you spoken to Ronke too?? She can hardly speak so stfu.
I pray this happens to u ..idiot

Anonymous said...

Grandma u've been bursted o u beta return that child because now we know say na woji u dey stay and if we go winners for rumuogba make enquiries from women's group we go catch u..........so do the right thing before dis mata reach Amaechi hand

Anonymous said...

How can she be illegal when she is attending university...idiots!

Anonymous said...

she needs to get the SSS involved

Unknown said...

But there's a certain CHIDINMA here telling a different version oya MORONKE, i'm sure u must have read it, what do u have to say bout it.
Apparently there's more to the story...............

Anonymous said...

Sweetie, I feel your pain but is beyond social media. You know the people involved so it makes the job relatively easier for the police to nab the culprits. God be with you and you will be reunited with her soon.

Unknown said...

Pin point d bad grammar whore!!

Anonymous said...

This is a domestic issue oh!!! Why bring it to the blog??

Clearly the grandma has issues with the girl, can you even see her twitter avatar.

I'm not defending the grandma's issues, but we should be asking questions like

Where is the father of the girl in all this?

Are they together (father and mother) or not?

What of the papers to carry the daughter into Naija?

THis is not one for the blogs.. maybe the courts (in the long run) but definitely one that both parents and their parents need to come together and resolve. Rather than creating a scene that might hurt the child further.

Anonymous said...

Jetting off to PH requires money, and she's just a single mom who is even a student. I don't think if she had the money, she would be here posting online. .. the lady needs help, and the least we can do right now is trade blames and ask questions.

Don't ask how she (the grandma) got a passport, she was in the UK for 5mths. Don't forget she also came prepared.
Please pray for Ronnke and share the link until it gets to someone who can help.

<< LIB Addict >>

Anonymous said...

@meetdrealevans, Shut the fuck up!! I'm sure she would know their doorstep if they all lived in England. You know how many couples only get to see their wife/husband's parents/house during their wedding when they finally go to Nigeria for it? Sure you're not blind and you read how she said she struggles to raise her daughter by herself; so where do you want a single mother to be getting the disposable cash to be flying to Nigeria just to see the guy's parents' doorstep? Yet you continue to ask stupid questions with your daft self! Very typical Nigerian guy, fucking imbecile! Always blaming the female victim, even at a time like this that she needs all the support she can get. Crawl back into the god-forsaken hole you crawled out from you asshole!!

Anonymous said...

Good and supportive father living off Liya's mum with his mum? Hurting liya by taking her away from the first person she met in this world? Legal actions were taken and Liya's mum knows nothing about it?Don't be an ignorant fool! And don't you dare blame it on Ronkes education! Would she be the first mother going to school? And what your saying is the best thing for liya is coming to a place she has never been without her Mother at her age? No u must be a stupid person. By the way what fking grandmother wants the best for Liya she's just a bloody selfish motherfker! And you expected Izu to tell you he kidnapped her when he is just a blood sucking happiness stealing parasite!

Nonnybaby said...

I don't care of this girl is a day time prostitute, you simply have NO RIGHT to separate a child, much less A BABY from its Primary care giver - the Mother! It is heartless and excruciating. Close your eyes and imagine how this young mother goes to sleep every night! A baby she's been through so much pain to carry, bear and raise to this point. Even if she's an afternoon harlot, does that equate to not loving her own child??? 'Legal proceedings' or not, this child was talen WITHOUT the mother's consent! How unfeeling can people be? A Child you did not bear??? You can't even take a puppy from its Bitch (female dog) mother without some very serious consequences! Izuchukwu & mother, you people are just HARD - HEARTED and The Almighty Who sees in secret, WILL Judge you both for this! Or 'shall not The Judge of ALL the earth, do right?' Haba!

Anonymous said...

Wow, the woman in the picture is a family friend, very nice and responsible woman, I'm dazed, what could have prompted this, she's not even Nigerian

Anonymous said...

Moronke, they probably think u were not capable of raising that child well, u know how ur lifestyle is and they knew u would never agree to let go peacefully, however, it doesn't make it right, there r better ways of resolving this, mnwhl any curses at me will backfire to the sender 1 million times more

Unknown said...

which kain stupid play b dis huh?? wicked woman

Anonymous said...

Miss Temmy, Stop making yr life public. The Father of the baby daughter comes from a good and a very influential family in Portharcourt. Stop disgracing them

bimi said...

we need the full story,but have heard some stories before about some very nosy mother in laws,that kidnap their grandchildren cos in their own opinion the parents are not doing the right tin or bringing them up the right way.hmmmm

princess dee said...

Sorry dear, she ll be fine.Try n be strong, you will win the battle.Report to necessary authorities in the UK and in NigeriaAllow your family members in Nig help out as well.Ur daughter's grand mum shld be locked up for some days!

ah said...

Some people can ask dumb questions sha. Someone lives with your for 5months and you trusted them. Can't they obtain as much as they can from you and do ills. That woman is a witch. How can you take a child from her own mom. Did they take your own bastard worthless son from you? Temmmy better call all the connects u know in naija. Have them arrest everyone in their house until they produce that child. Unless you MIL is a politician too then you are OYO

Anonymous said...

My dear this is the time to call anyone in a place of power in naija. It's typically hard to "find" people in naija but hopefully someone can assist

Anonymous said...

Talk about conniving and deceitful. The bastard mother in law stayed with her patiently for 5months until she accomplished her mission. That is so scary

Anonymous said...

Only advanced people or better still wiser youths would understand this situation.1st it's a family issue not to be made public yet,u haven't said what the father sincerely thinks about d issue,bcos I blv he wants his baby too n he could have custody too.grandma stayed with u,she critically observed you I suppose and I blv she is convinced u not up to the raising kid task,yur a student and u leave alone wit ur lil sis from ur story,u dnt even blv kids can b spanked,u can ruin a kid and make her have babies while in school(no offense).miss in as much as we loved to hear the girls father's part of the story...it's still wrong she took the baby without ur consent,she's wrong...but try to see the brighter side of this,dey wont harm ur baby ok....finish your schooling,get a job and your baby will be coming to see u....think about it properly...it's true u miss ur baby,Buh they are family still and also love that child,reason u haven't spoken to ur daughter yet is cos dey want u calm first,and not knowing where dey are for now,u will soon ok.women don't attack me.i know what am saying cos am a good Nigerian

me said...

Madam temmy I am not condoning what the mother in law did o but maybe you weren't a good mom? Too much clubbing and going outt? Drinking and smoking around the baby maybe? Anyways I pray she is returned to you

Unknown said...

Gaan sleep anonymous

Unknown said...

This is so sad, what the grandma did is really bad. the woman should just drop the child back. the woman and her son are con criminals and thieves,they want to sow where they did not reap. foolish people. GOD punish them for making this lady cry.

Dee said...

God will punish you and your better place you bloody foolish kidnapper. Give Liya back to her mother!!! Give Ronke back her joy! Give Liya back her joy! Bloody thief!

Anonymous said...

I hope u die..

Anonymous said...

I hope u get pregnant nd abandoned

mordsith cara said...

@Anonymous, still waiting 4u 2 pick out d bad grammar.

Anonymous said...

Temmy! It's so wrong exposing your child's father famly ... Do u think doing all this exposure will bring ur child back? My dear take a chill pill and handle this issue maturely not ranting round media...... Attention seeker!! I'm sure u always wanted to be famous now every one knows who temmy Iss...more followers on Instagram and Twitter! Mscheeeww !

Unknown said...

Na their matter

Anonymous said...

My dear temmy! I won't lie to u, u took a wrong path! I know ur child's grandmom was wrong taking your baby without ur consent. That's very unfair I understand that. But my dear u just went straight to the media saying all that crap. I'm sure u didn't report to the police 1st u went straight to the media which is soo wrong! How will that help get ur baby back.. At least u would hv waited for some days after reporting to the police, and nothing is done which I know can't happen. Before ranting round media and exposing someone's family. Temmy that's so wrong. Now u hv exposed lliya's family to the world do u think they will let u talk to liya for now??! Ofcourse not after disgracing the family.. u didn't think before u acted. All this would have been done maturely my dear not going to media as the 1st call. Or are u trying to get fame. Oooh the popular temmy whose child was kidnapped by grandma! yaaaay everyone knows that now! Well I guess soon u will get ur baby back. Well yeah ready for the critics by unreasonable pple whose going to reply on this... Foolish pple who think they care asking for updates! Please temmy run far from them, hypocrites!

Anonymous said...

Yes you can.you can take a baby from the mom because sh's a harlot,get ur facts...and stop saying thins because u can,think it all through

Anonymous said...

Without assistance and the boys mother could visit for several months..I can't afford to complete ur write up...think well before you type.the girl is irresponsible that's all I can say for now

Anonymous said...

Who made the authorities??...who told you u got proper reasoning,do not feel too good about your self,yur only educated...A girl that can keep a pregnancy at her age and condition.still in school and no parental help over there can only endanger a kid...that kid might get hurt or abused,she spends more time with her moms lil sister only.She probably gona work after school..so where is the time,plus she could bring abusive guys home *pedophiles*.....and FYI mentally ok one...if yur so smart u would know the Boy's mom wouldn't spend time with her if they haven't been supportive.now how do u see ur reasoning Westerner??

Anonymous said...

Henry yur so foolish you don't even know who stands with or fights you...you think u can just comment and occupy space...read with understanding,I have analyzed u,u not worthy to judge here.its too sensitive and I mean it....plus it's just abroad not *in*

Anonymous said...

Foolish people. Speak for ur self,who told u everyone suffers here...we have better background than any country in the world,if you can afford to travel abroad from here u can earn that...I keep saying Nigeria is the best place to bring a kid,just nurture her well and have the money to send her schooling and know God,she will be properly oriented and wise....kids abroad are foolish,90% of them...talking from experience.they have no regards for nature if u know wat I mean.i for one enjoy life here in Nigeria more than anyplace in the world...so speak for ur self,u might be poor and suffering not every1 is...and mind u most Nigerians suffer over there too

Anonymous said...

Very influential my ass hahahahah. Yet when they come to london they go about sharing houses and living off people

Anonymous said...

It's "mothers in-law" not "mother in-laws"

Anonymous said...

Anyone who has questions answered especially the stupid ones. Check Ronke's page... @officialtemmy

Anonymous said...

People saying the girl is irresponsible, please what exactly has she done? If she was,social services would be involved in this and the grandma wouldnt have had to take her without her consent.

Anonymous said...

Anyone who is illegal cannot attend university. Get your information right.

Anonymous said...

I know the grandma as i attended her nursery. There are two sides to a coin so before we are quick to judge and cast stones we need to find out full information to the whole situation. I do hope things get resolved.

ngozi said...

Anonymous biko idi very stupid ok. Ok.

Anonymous said...

May God bless you with children. Then, you will realise that this lady would have lost her mind all the while that her daughter was away from her.

Anonymous said...

How on earth can any mother remain sane with her child taken without her consent - even by her own mother? I think she did what a every mother would do - ANYTHING TO GET HER CHILD BACK!!!!!

Anonymous said...

How on earth can any mother remain sane with her child taken without her consent - even by her own mother? I think she did what a every mother would do - ANYTHING TO GET HER CHILD BACK!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Watch this space

Anonymous said...

One final attempt to shed light on this matter. The Woman is an attention seeker trying to be some sort of twisted reality star. The truth of the matter is the police aren't involved because she legally gave permission for the girl to go. She changed her mind and saw an opportunity for stardom and to become "@officialtemmy" so started this social media hate campaign without even considering that she's putting her own daughter in danger by encouraging vigilantism

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