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Friday 15 April 2016

Read Betty Irabor's toast to Single Mothers

Genevieve magazine publisher, Betty Irabor, shared this toast to Single Mothers on her Instagram page this afternoon.
"Toast to single mothers I would really love to raise a toast to all single mums out there. I was raised by a single mum and believe me, I know what it is for a woman to be both mum and dad to a child.... Mum raised 4 of us by being resourceful; in the day time,she worked at Nigeria Tobacco company and nighttime at NITEL (don't know what it was called then) and in between she was a seamstress.
And when a prospective affluent husband/step dad came along she refused his marriage proposal and a chance to have a life because the package he offered her didn't include us; her children! He wanted her exclusive of us...perhaps he wanted her to drop us off at an orphanage or something like that. Of course it was no deal for mum!!! Who would accept such an offer any way? It's not a walk in the park for single mothers and I think every man who deliberately makes a single mother of a woman because he cannot stand up to his responsibilities deserves a special day of reckoning before God. Here's toasting to every woman doubling up as mom and dad to their kids because of a man who isn't man enough to to be a real dad. - Betty Irabor

37 comments:

Unknown said...

Nice words

Unknown said...

Nice one,bravo to them!!! #NotDesperateBabyMamasOh #SoChill

Musingsofjudgejudyjudy..... said...

Very well said!
Raising my glass ( of juice ) to all single moms too!
It's no walk in the park for women with partners talk more of those doing it single- handedly- may God continue to give you the grace to sail through motherhood in seeming ease in Jesus name. Amen.

Bonita Bislam said...

Being a single parent is twice the work, twice the stress and twice the tears but also twice the hugs, twice the love and twice the pride.
To all the legitimate single moms I say, Single moms: You are a doctor, a teacher, a nurse, a maid, a cook, a referee, a heroine, a provider, a defender, a protector, a true Superwoman. Wear your cap proudly.

Unknown said...

Awww
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

kokoeka said...

God bless you for acknowledging the women of strength- the single mothers. The hustle has not been easy but the Lord has been with us through it all. 20 years as a bread winner, Mum-Dad, the confidant and the disciplinarian, the list is unending with 3 beautiful children. GBU.

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Lovely


...merited happiness

Unknown said...

Nice! Linda take note!

Anonymous said...

God bless you Betty

Unknown said...

True talk.

Anonymous said...

You are awesome. You touched my heart with your write up

Chinnybaby said...

God bless you my dear.

Anonymous said...

Awwwww... Thank U Betty. I for one feel(s) honoured. Thanks for apprcting us.

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Supermoms.
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Holysaint said...

I say thank you to all the single mum in the house, may God be your strength indeed.

tendermee said...

They deserve an applause...legitimate or not...kudos to them and single fathers too..

Jetty Lawrence said...

Thumbs up to all single mothers

Unknown said...

Dear Linda, as a single mother I truly appreciate this post cause for me its an everyday struggle. please extend my appreciation to the originator and my apologies but i shared this on my facebook page without asking first. if it offends the originator then i will take it down but if not i prefer to keep it there for those who would want to tap into it. do keep up the good work as i always look forward to reading your posts Linda.

Cheers.

Anonymous said...

"Legitimate " single moms?
Who are the illegitimate ones then?
#smh....
If by "legitimate" you mean widows or divorcees alone then, SHAME on you!

Anonymous said...

GOD Bless u ma,9ice words.

Anonymous said...

Which one be heroine oooo?
Na hero, lol.
Just kidding.

African foodstuff and Raw Materials said...

Yes o, saluting my mum too. She is my goddess o.. respect, it's not easy.. I pray she lives long to reap the fruit of her hard work, amen..

Anonymous said...

Excuse me who told you that!speak for them who dont have God cos i am a single mom with christ and i aint struggling,i dont hunger for a man,i am happy,even happier, and travel the world with my son with the great job and income God gave me Amen Jesus!!! And a testimony wherever i go of God and his goodness!

Unknown said...

Toast to single mothers (raise ur glass)

Pretty face said...

Nice

Unknown said...

I toast to that tooo.. ya'll are the real MVPs

Anonymous said...

ode!
mumu!!
u must be a prostitute. single mum indeed.

Anonymous said...

For u girls out there not to double up as a mom and dad.. shine your eyes. Dbt rush to a man cos he has small coins to avoid doubling up. its a big mistake using pregnancy as a yardstick for marriage or gaining man's attention Else u will double up oh!

Anonymous said...

I salute my dad and mom for taking responsibility on Us the children. Thanks to my mum who supported my dad anytime salary delays. she always covering up for my dad Anytime he's not buoyant enough.

Anonymous said...

Nice piece Betty... Linda warn ladies to wait for their time and not marry another woman's hubby so dry dnt double up as mom and dad in d end.

Anonymous said...

I will give a toast to my mum as well. Never remarried after my dad died,she never threw us back to her in laws as well because she knew no one could ever give us the best the way she would. Thank God for giving me such a great mother.

Unknown said...

Okay..


#FINEST

Unknown said...

Sweet ma

Unknown said...

A big toast

Anonymous said...

Thank u,needed to hear this...

Anonymous said...

a real toast to all single mums.the lord is your strenght

Anonymous said...

Pls ma I wish to knw u more

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