Dear LIB readers: My ex got engaged just 3months after we broke up
From a female LIB reader
I broke up with my boyfriend just in March after dating for a 1 year and 7 months. Just yesterday evening his sister who is still on my whataspp posted a congratulatory message to him about his engagement. Apparently he got engaged on Saturday. I buzzed him to confirm about it and he said it was true that if I had been patient, it would have been me. Wasn't a year and 7 months patient enough? I am so broken. I was hoping we would reconcile, only for me to hear this!!
Babes,I can tell it hurts but let bygone be bygone! You never can tell what's in stock for you and for all you know he might not really be the one for you. What will be,will be! I pray you find love again...and that love,will love you more than you love him
Darl, u be so stupid if u think u weren't patient enough, time doesn't matter wat matters is if he truly loved u and wanted u has a wife he will do all in his power to get u back, while u are busy sulking hasn't it occurred to u that it a blessing in disguise this guy will probably been stringing u a long before he eventually dumps u, the earlier the better,if he engaged to this girl in less than 3 months then it prob been going on for longer, maybe he was two timing u. Honey speak to ur God to give u ur real man, check urself adjust urself to anything that needs change, and if I sense you are as lovely as I think it will be is loss. But in your future relationships after getting to know the guy well u should have a talk then u know if he is worth waiting for. Remember there is no point crying over split milk, gurl get back on ur game, Neva let urself go!!!
The truth is that you were not the right person he wanted getting married to. So face the truth now and move on with your life. God will surely connect you with your own husband, that's if you trust Him to do that. Enjoy
Ounpe fun e...heis ur ex 4 crying out loud...he is ur ex s a reason ya'll r nt meant to b togeda, if u as an ex is broken wat should a married a woman dat her husband impregnate anoda lady do...Abeg park well move onto d next 1
move on wit ur life there r better guys out there. mayb he was dating the gal also wen both of u wer still dating. it dont worth d tears pls move on wit ur life.
But thats what they always do. I can count 3 guys who married just after dey said dey wld die if i dont date them.. where did d girls pop up from? Its their way abeg.. movw on
vry Gus lesson to u.. u Dnt HV to wait for 3month to reconcile ..u might tink he has bin cheating all along BT d truth is some gal came along wen u left to cuddle him in his dark moment n for us guys data it .....she was smart waiting for her moment ...I bet u will knew dis girl u might even b ten times more beautiful Dan her .....
Sorry dear, guys r mean trust me...mine got engaged 3 days after we officially broke up.. U just have to move on trust me u will eventually find someone better
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Move on sis, shit happens. The relationship was not meant to be. That guy who will be all over u is looking for u at d moment. Hold on to God n He'll answer your prayers. Cheer
Move on sis, shit happens. The relationship was not meant to be. That guy who will be all over u is looking for u at d moment. Hold on to God n He'll answer your prayers. Cheer
Move on sis, shit happens. The relationship was not meant to be. That guy who will be all over u is looking for u at d moment. Hold on to God n He'll answer your prayers. Cheer
He is never yours that was why u both didn't end up getting married to each other,there's reason for everything, just be strong $ accept it with good heart $ move on like yesterday.
Dis LIB super story is inconclusive for our guidance or wht she actually seek our advice for is not there.
All d same, I wil say "A broken r/ship is far better than a broken marriage". Its obvious dat he was cheating on her bcos all d while he was dating her he was double dating if not d switching over, and not bothering to mak up wit her was enough reason dat he didn't plan to settle down wit her.
Let her move on, and never hav any regret bcos it was not meant to b. God wil surely provide her own hubby for her.
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Dis LIB super story is inconclusive for our guidance or wht she actually seek our advice for is not there.
All d same, I wil say "A broken r/ship is far better than a broken marriage". Its obvious dat he was cheating on her bcos all d while he was dating her he was double dating if not d switching over, and not bothering to mak up wit her was enough reason dat he didn't plan to settle down wit her.
Let her move on, and never hav any regret bcos it was not meant to b. God wil surely provide her own hubby for her.
@BISHOP DAMMY...
I wish u HBD, and LLNP on ur BIRTHDAY - Monday, 22nd June 2015. God abundantly bless u, and everytin dat concerns u.
I wish u all ur heart desires, joy, good health, and a prosperous life. Enjoy ur day, and stay blessed alwaz!
Where have you been when all dis girls are catching their boyfriends cheating? You wern't smart enough to know he was double dating..I feel your pain my sister.
Sorry babe...its old news,u Shud hv seen it coming,u Shud hv read d signs....he quarrelled with u just yo get engaged...u hv to b smart..but if u were good to him,karma wil pay him
Not enough..... Inpatient, I guess that is what the guy notice and dump your sorry ass. on the other hand, the guy has been cheating on you with the girl he got engaged to.
It does not matter how long you dated the fact is you broke up with him not the other way round. And you broke up with him just as he was getting ready, if I would say, he was never yours to begin with.
He's a liar. He was prolly cheating on u with this new girl while u guys were having problems b4 u broke up. Never feel bad abt wat didn't happen. He wasn't meant 4 u. U deserve better
Sorry dear, to him you weren't just the one...that's why I always say that there aint a need for long term relationships, when a man sees what he wants, he suddenly becomes ready and doesn't hesistate.
Tell me what happened dt u break up for 3gud months dt u felt u r proud of urself to talk to ur guy u av been dated close to 2years, it shows u don't need him anymore, n d gal dt think she need d man av claim it, sorry my gal ur own man dt will accept ur proudness will surely come ur way.
Tell me what happened dt u break up for 3gud months dt u felt u r proud of urself to talk to ur guy u av been dated close to 2years, it shows u don't need him anymore, n d gal dt think she need d man av claim it, sorry my gal ur own man dt will accept ur proudness will surely come ur way.
Sori, u guyz are nt meant for each other urs will come .and is good @ time's wen u have misunderstanding in ur relationship if u wait he did nt come to appologise pls u shld do it take nothing out of u wen u say am sori dts life.take heart dear
Who initiated the break up? Is it you or him? If it was him then he definitely has been planning/cheating on you....But if you are the one that initiated the breakup then blame him not..You should move on with your life since you said he's your EX. He doesn't owe you any explanation again.
thats the problem with women after u have flexed and still want to flex a guys says u should be patient but in the end u break up with the guy, u are all morons. go and be like oshomoles wife marry an old man like your father to feel secure. MONTULAH GIRL.
thats the problem with women after u have flexed and still want to flex a guys says u should be patient but in the end u break up with the guy, u are all morons. go and be like oshomoles wife marry an old man like your father to feel secure. MONTULAH GIRL.
Women and pretending. So you still love him but you were pretending. Acting tough. You were waiting for him to prostrate b4 you. It serves you right. You never valued what you have until you lost it. Abegi, go and sleep.
Don't mind him hoot. It's wasn't ur fault, m sure he did things to frustrate u out of d r ship so dat he would marry anoda. He knew d lady all dis while. No smoke without fire. Dot worry dear, ur own will come.
thats the problem with women after u have flexed and still want to flex a guys says u should be patient but in the end u break up with the guy, u are all morons. go and be like oshomoles wife marry an old man like your father to feel secure. MONTULAH GIRL.
thats the problem with women after u have flexed and still want to flex a guys says u should be patient but in the end u break up with the guy, u are all morons. go and be like oshomoles wife marry an old man like your father to feel secure. MONTULAH GIRL.
Obviously he didn't put all his eggs in ur basket. Bt why did u break up wit him in d first place? It seems ur reason for breaking up wit him wasn't strong enof. U shuld av talked it ova wit him instead of breaking it up, guys hate it wen u walk out for no reason.
Dear Poster, that guy wasn't going to marry you if you had waited another year. He was only waiting for you to call it quits yourself so he can go ahead and marry the person on his mind. It won't be easy but you just need to realise he wasn't meant to be yours and move on. We don't know what tomorrow holds so cry all you want, dry them tears, be strong and believe God has better things in store for you.
What happened to you is evidence that the man is not your husband afterall. It seems to me that you are not a woman of faith, otherwise you should be grateful to God for removing generational courses you new nothing about from your head. Your own husband will come, don't be in haste. What is important is how well not how far.
What happened to you is evidence that the man is not your husband afterall. It seems to me that you are not a woman of faith, otherwise you should be grateful to God for removing generational courses you new nothing about from your head. Your own husband will come, don't be in haste. What is important is how well not how far.
Lmao!!! So You'r concerned about the time frame it took him and not the fact that You were probably the side chick all along ? Aunty, dust yourself, get over him and hope for the best.
Awwwwwwwwww that must feel like adding salt to injury. You have no choice than to move on darling. You're going to meet someone better! 😙😙😙😘
don't deceive yourself dear d guy wanted someone else and not u immediately u guys had an issue; he quickly pursued his wanted choice dont worry, your own man would be better & is nearby
If u luv him dnt bk off cos anytin might happn dt time u decided to tk a break,accept all d rubbish until he propose den u nw tell him d ones u ll tolerate#advice#
It shudda been u buh I guess ur pride was much for him, and probably u didn't wanna send him and u know u are woman, and time runs out for women esp when they hit 30 n above, so it's a lesson 4 you n other women out there pls pocket ur pride n reconcile with ur boo whenever issues spring up cos it saves r/ship
Life goes on dear,,,my hubby daye a babe for 8yrs n they broke up...i met him a yr after n he proposed 2 me 3weeks after I met him...n married 3mnths l8r..shithappens dear..i Neva knew...probably u guys ar NT meant 2 be...
SorrY,wanted 2 take side untill I read d whole shit,u did state y u guys broke up..perhaps dz chap z not ur husband,God ll reward u with all uve lost in double Measures..
I think you should wake up from your slumber. You were not just "THE ONE". If it took him just 3 months to decide to marry someone else, then there was something you were not just doing right in a 1 year and 7 months.
My dear- you need to move on- the chap was either cheating behind your back or more realistically, never had you as his number one in the first place!Forget about him and get on with your life- you will meet someone better and more deserving
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My dear dis is not am issue,d point is dat d guy has a sidechick when he was dating u.he is just using dat as excuse.adjust urself and wait for ur own man.
Why be upset because he got engaged so soon? You don't know tomorrow. He rushing into another relationship isn't that already a red flag on his end?? Count it ALL joy when such things happen. He is the one dancing and celebrating now, even pleased that he got the upper hand. Just RELAX! Wish him well, don't squabble or show hurt.
Then turn completely and face your God. Ask Him to send your own true partner and then wait....
It is not who starts first that wins the race.. Wish him well, forget the guy. In fact even worship God daily because He says ALL THINGS work together for those who trust in Him.
Make God your focus. You will eventually dance and laugh greatly. Joy is yours.
Shut up and thank God woman. He's not for you. A man ll always go for what he REALLY wants. He's being praying fervently for you to go so that he ll marry the one he truly loves and it happened. Just dust yourself and move on. Learn from your mistakes. Be prayerful and trust God, your own man ll come.
My friend move on & stop dwelling on past memory or you would keep hurting yourself. Linda take note!
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My own b Say, u know say u like am before, y u let am go??? Y Didn't u jux keep fighting till u av him back but he might neva be yours, jux av a pure heart, go on n be hapi in Jesus, somethn beta dey on the way. The guy wait small na, my ex did his intro almost after we broke up...
He never loved u. Stop wasting ur tears n move on. Get busy with Urself n stop waiting for a man to be the reason for ur happiness. The right person will come along eventually.
Hey gurl, chill.... prolly means he was datin both of yu at d sametime and he had d guts to say if u were patient enuf, as if he wanted to do u a favour. Well dere are two sides to every story. Just move on and stop sulkin. U deserve better!
Is this my story or what? Exactly my own story. Pls make urself happy and do whatever it is to move on and be happy. It was neva meant to be. Love God, make money and have fun.
Its so obvious ur ex was seeing u and the other lady he married,he just didnt know who to pick,buh u made it more easier for him by breaking up which gave him the oppurtunity to quickly engage the other girl,eh ya feel ur pain,God would give u ur own man to ma ba e kale. NB-To all ladies out there,never be the one to press the break up button no matter the signs the guy give,just play along as if u donbt understand,till he gets frustrated with his own acts and breaks up himself.
Pride!Pride!!Pride!!..denied you your blessings..no woman is ordained during birth that this is ur hubby in particular. the scripture says "He dat finds a wife find a good thing"..and a man shall leave his father n mother n clinch unto his own. u F**kd up big time. the guy loved you n waited for a whole f**kin 3 months to see if this pillar of pride in you could be destroyed.. but unfortunately it's there..Pray hard u don't experience it in ur next relationship which is apparently hard to find..God give u d grace dear.
This is so typical of Naija guys sha. You would have dated for 4 years only to break up and him engaged in 6 months. Fact is if you are the one he would not waste time in popping the question. I got engagaed after 10 months of dating to othe best guy ever. I just let God take control and i was ultra humble. Today im enjoying my marriage least i forget sha o im in the UK and Naija guys her are very different to Naija guy in Naija.They seems to be more graounded and value women more. Good luck next time.
my dear u just have to move on,i was dating a guy for over a year, since I didn't see wat I wanted we had to breakup, I never asked for it, but we just left each other and am sure he will be expecting me to come back begging, trust me I have no oda guy I was dating....... lo and behold I met a guy just 1month and 2 weeks he's already asking 4 marriage, no 1 will believe it if I explain to dem. All they will say is ve been dating him for long which is not true,we are really getting along as if we've met for years. so pls move on,ur man will locate u soon.everything work together for good.
Seems he just got engaged to his side chic when u were d main chic. Or u were not his definition of a wife material. Forget d if u had bn patient bla bla bla! He only said it to shift d blame to u. Move on girl! It wasn't meant to be!
He's a stupid boy! If u had been patient... oro rirun. After just 3 mnts u broke up with him. Abeg he doesn't worth the cry n broken heart... he had been doble dating. gaskia
I DONT KNOW WHICH IS WORSE.....FACT THAT HE WAS OBVIOUSLY SEEING BOTH OF YOU AT THE SAME TIME
OR
THE FACT THAT HE PROPOSED TO THE OTHER LADY AFTER JUST ONE MONTH YOU BROKE UP.
....ANYWAYS, I KNOW IT HURTS BUT ITS BETTER YOU LET HIM GO, ONCE A CHEAT, ALWAYS A CHEAT. HE IS NOT WORTH YOUR TEARS, IT OBVIOUSLY SHOWS THAT HE DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOU ENOUGH TO BE WITH YOU ONLY.
Cry for a while & let d moda fucker be... He dated u a year @ 7months he didn't engage u but engaged som1 else in 3months ? Use ur brain pls, he was dating both of u same time & love d other girl more shikina... Make sure u ain't d cause of ur brk up & watch ur next rlship carefully... A better guy is comin believe it
Ogundiran , your analysis makes no sense.. So the 3months time it took to get engaged to another woman after the break up is greater than the 1year and 7months relationship? I am a guy and that's just some cheap excuse, let him just say he met another woman he preferred to her than trying to make her feel guilty....
Well your case is different, you didn't agree to date them so they moved on. I assume you are the type that likes guys chasing you for ages and you still wont budge, dont get why you are so pained tho.
Cheer up girl, he found his spec. Maybe you didn't show him enough green light. Everyman deserves to find happiness. Wish him well and don't go start NFL Osi/sidechick drama.
why didnt he engage you in one year and seven months ?You were obviously used to pass time for what he considers as a better choice.That doesnt mean you are not someone's best choice.
My dear! Datz d story of my life, dated a guy 4 4yrs we broke up n 3months after he got married 2 some1 else. It may hurt, bt it's not meant 2b. 4yrs after am married 2d most 1derful man in d world. Cry if u have 2 bt commit it 2 God n u'll c things happen 4 u
Women and men are the same...I don't trust any....I dumb my woman after she confessed sleeping with another guy after I traveled to the State just for one month vacation, yeah I dumped her and she did her weeding just one months latter, showing she was dating another guy on my back, then next two months the marriage crashed. Women learn to be patient.
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Lol....I couldn't help Buh laugh.
Eeeeeyah. U feel bad she is nt mourning or crying over d break-up.
Eeeeeeehyah sorry. He has moved on do de same
Let him go joo, ur husband will locate u soon. I can bet he was seeing d oda girl while u were busy loving up.
Guys sha
So? Should he be waiting for you?
Eyah sorry.
Babes,I can tell it hurts but let bygone be bygone! You never can tell what's in stock for you and for all you know he might not really be the one for you.
What will be,will be!
I pray you find love again...and that love,will love you more than you love him
Thats life shawty...go find urself another man
Darl, u be so stupid if u think u weren't patient enough, time doesn't matter wat matters is if he truly loved u and wanted u has a wife he will do all in his power to get u back, while u are busy sulking hasn't it occurred to u that it a blessing in disguise this guy will probably been stringing u a long before he eventually dumps u, the earlier the better,if he engaged to this girl in less than 3 months then it prob been going on for longer, maybe he was two timing u. Honey speak to ur God to give u ur real man, check urself adjust urself to anything that needs change, and if I sense you are as lovely as I think it will be is loss. But in your future relationships after getting to know the guy well u should have a talk then u know if he is worth waiting for. Remember there is no point crying over split milk, gurl get back on ur game, Neva let urself go!!!
The truth is that you were not the right person he wanted getting married to. So face the truth now and move on with your life. God will surely connect you with your own husband, that's if you trust Him to do that. Enjoy
Ounpe fun e...heis ur ex 4 crying out loud...he is ur ex s a reason ya'll r nt meant to b togeda, if u as an ex is broken wat should a married a woman dat her husband impregnate anoda lady do...Abeg park well move onto d next 1
This is what happen when the evil people from your village has refused to turn their back at you.
well bitch u shudda been a bit more patient
move on wit ur life there r better guys out there. mayb he was dating the gal also wen both of u wer still dating. it dont worth d tears pls move on wit ur life.
wahala
What is Ur business now though u said u broke up? Pls get over it and fine another man, reconcile ko, reconcealed ni.#THAT AKWA IBOM BOY#
But thats what they always do. I can count 3 guys who married just after dey said dey wld die if i dont date them.. where did d girls pop up from? Its their way abeg.. movw on
Move on. Does he think hiz a trophy or something?
Sorry take heart, he's been dating the girl & you were a side chick. Sorry jor
let say u hot him a lot wen u know u still love him u not have let him go in the first place u only wast ur time
serves u right!
vry Gus lesson to u.. u Dnt HV to wait for 3month to reconcile
..u might tink he has bin cheating all along BT d truth is some gal came along wen u left to cuddle him in his dark moment n for us guys data it .....she was smart waiting for her moment ...I bet u will knew dis girl u might even b ten times more beautiful Dan her .....
Sorry dear, guys r mean trust me...mine got engaged 3 days after we officially broke up.. U just have to move on trust me u will eventually find someone better
He didn't want to marry you sweetie. SStop the regrets
lolz u been de form na sorry next time u see such opportunity don't waist it
Shit happens...
Sorry ooo
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He only wanted to make u jealous mo'fucka never loved u one bit
He only wanted to make u jealous mo'fucka never loved u one bit
Move on sis, shit happens. The relationship was not meant to be. That guy who will be all over u is looking for u at d moment. Hold on to God n He'll answer your prayers. Cheer
Move on sis, shit happens. The relationship was not meant to be. That guy who will be all over u is looking for u at d moment. Hold on to God n He'll answer your prayers. Cheer
Move on sis, shit happens. The relationship was not meant to be. That guy who will be all over u is looking for u at d moment. Hold on to God n He'll answer your prayers. Cheer
Sorry about that but no time to check time, I pray that the almighty God will provide you your own husband that will love you till the end.
Goan sit down joor! If u don't marry ud die ba? Why re u pained???
~D great anonymous!
Mumu... U don carry last. See what shakara has don to ur life
Men are bard hearted people, that is why I never ever pity them, but again maybe u had ur own major faults
He is a fool..probably he was tired of you
He is never yours that was why u both didn't end up getting married to each other,there's reason for everything, just be strong $ accept it with good heart $ move on like yesterday.
Good riddance to him.....
Like seriously, I think you should be thankful you missed this time waster. You think he had been dating his now fiancée for 3months before putting a ring on it? Dear you better thank God.
U better pick up d pieces of ur life n move on. Life continues no sin
Sorry dear, U should move on with ur life
Ubanagum
He never wanted to wife u dats d truth..
Dis LIB super story is inconclusive for our guidance or wht she actually seek our advice for is not there.
All d same, I wil say "A broken r/ship is far better than a broken marriage". Its obvious dat he was cheating on her bcos all d while he was dating her he was double dating if not d switching over, and not bothering to mak up wit her was enough reason dat he didn't plan to settle down wit her.
Let her move on, and never hav any regret bcos it was not meant to b. God wil surely provide her own hubby for her.
@BISHOP DAMMY...
I wish u HBD, and LLNP on ur BIRTHDAY - Monday, 22nd June 2015. God abundantly bless u, and everytin dat concerns u.
I wish u all ur heart desires, joy, good health, and a prosperous life. Enjoy ur day, and stay blessed alwaz!
Dis LIB super story is inconclusive for our guidance or wht she actually seek our advice for is not there.
All d same, I wil say "A broken r/ship is far better than a broken marriage". Its obvious dat he was cheating on her bcos all d while he was dating her he was double dating if not d switching over, and not bothering to mak up wit her was enough reason dat he didn't plan to settle down wit her.
Let her move on, and never hav any regret bcos it was not meant to b. God wil surely provide her own hubby for her.
@BISHOP DAMMY...
I wish u HBD, and LLNP on ur BIRTHDAY - Monday, 22nd June 2015. God abundantly bless u, and everytin dat concerns u.
I wish u all ur heart desires, joy, good health, and a prosperous life. Enjoy ur day, and stay blessed alwaz!
Where have you been when all dis girls are catching their boyfriends cheating? You wern't smart enough to know he was double dating..I feel your pain my sister.
Sorry babe...its old news,u Shud hv seen it coming,u Shud hv read d signs....he quarrelled with u just yo get engaged...u hv to b smart..but if u were good to him,karma wil pay him
If she had been patient it could have been her?!? Mscheeeeeeewwwww
Is 3 months not long enough to settle the problem???.anyways,best of luck in the future
Sorrybabe
Not enough..... Inpatient, I guess that is what the guy notice and dump your sorry ass. on the other hand, the guy has been cheating on you with the girl he got engaged to.
Ooops! Eeeeyyyaaa! U'll get over it.
It does not matter how long you dated the fact is you broke up with him not the other way round. And you broke up with him just as he was getting ready, if I would say, he was never yours to begin with.
Move on my dear.
He never liked u @all if u ask me....4o dat wz jus him grabbing his opportunity
U broke up wit him and he got him self a better gurl. No big deal my dear, life continues. Bt seriously u were not being patient enuf
Nor mind the guy. He already had his plans even before the quarrel. Take heart and Move on
Guys shaaaa!!!! Dey jt won't keep amazing me
Sorry oooo,u have bin patient
He's a liar. He was prolly cheating on u with this new girl while u guys were having problems b4 u broke up. Never feel bad abt wat didn't happen. He wasn't meant 4 u. U deserve better
Pls forget him,if u had waited 10yrs,u wldnt have put d ring. He nvr luved,its obvious U were d side chick. Dnt forget karma is a bitch. Pele
Lastborn
He didn't want to marry you in the first place maybe the girl was there all along
Take heart and move on. Besides leaving him hanging for three months, were you serious??
Haven't u heard dat word that says "the patient dog eat the fatsed bone....
Just move on girl. It's not the will of God!
Your bf has been cheating on you with another woman
Just few months he got engaged
My dear move on with ur life joor
Hahaha you see where impatience has landed you..oya start from the beginning and wait twice the years u have waited before..hahahah
Unfaithful! How patient dose he want 10 year?
So? Has d world ended or men finished?
Sorry dear, to him you weren't just the one...that's why I always say that there aint a need for long term relationships, when a man sees what he wants, he suddenly becomes ready and doesn't hesistate.
Don't mind d guy!. He never wanted to wife u
Auntylindagoddaughter
Tell me what happened dt u break up for 3gud months dt u felt u r proud of urself to talk to ur guy u av been dated close to 2years, it shows u don't need him anymore, n d gal dt think she need d man av claim it, sorry my gal ur own man dt will accept ur proudness will surely come ur way.
Better than to have separation before marriage than to have a separation after marriage don't worry ur own man will come be happy
Tell me what happened dt u break up for 3gud months dt u felt u r proud of urself to talk to ur guy u av been dated close to 2years, it shows u don't need him anymore, n d gal dt think she need d man av claim it, sorry my gal ur own man dt will accept ur proudness will surely come ur way.
Lolz Naso life b ma sista buh I tink he nva loved u,mayb u Wia a side chick!! Pele
*lib's namesake*
Sori, u guyz are nt meant for each other urs will come .and is good @ time's wen u have misunderstanding in ur relationship if u wait he did nt come to appologise pls u shld do it take nothing out of u wen u say am sori dts life.take heart dear
Who initiated the break up? Is it you or him? If it was him then he definitely has been planning/cheating on you....But if you are the one that initiated the breakup then blame him not..You should move on with your life since you said he's your EX. He doesn't owe you any explanation again.
you broke up with him remember...?
he's a goat with horn for giving that reason
MISSVEE
The girl was on the side for a while or maybe you were on the side. He wasn't a serious fella. Pele move on!
The love was never strong with you my sister
Sorry babe. He lost u and u lost him, it vice versa. So cheer up.
Meaning he was cheating on you wen u are together let him go he did not worth it, God will provide ur own husband for u
Why r u complaining? U broke up with d dude and u expect his life to take a back seat cos of u? Rubbish mtscheeew. Dave
Most men have several brides in waiting.you just got served the male meal.Tastes like shit and not worth it.
If that was his response to you,then God just saved you from an arrogant SOB,It hurts now,it'll pass at some point.
Take care.
He was definately dating the girl along side with you,so heartbroken,he prefered her over u,jst take heart.
Just thank God for saving u from dt animal, he was obviously cheating.
He never wanted u, dnt kill urself, ur own man will come
Its called moving on...
Deal with it
Sorry sis,that's relationship for u. The lord will strength you
Lmao ntoi
Sorry about. Why did u break up with ur Bf and not ur fiance? Kindly move on. You will surely get a better guy. Warm regards
thats the problem with women after u have flexed and still want to flex a guys says u should be patient but in the end u break up with the guy, u are all morons. go and be like oshomoles wife marry an old man like your father to feel secure. MONTULAH GIRL.
thats the problem with women after u have flexed and still want to flex a guys says u should be patient but in the end u break up with the guy, u are all morons. go and be like oshomoles wife marry an old man like your father to feel secure. MONTULAH GIRL.
Honey it wasn't going to be you. You escaped his scams
Women and pretending.
So you still love him but you were pretending. Acting tough. You were waiting for him to prostrate b4 you.
It serves you right. You never valued what you have until you lost it.
Abegi, go and sleep.
Don't mind him hoot. It's wasn't ur fault, m sure he did things to frustrate u out of d r ship so dat he would marry anoda. He knew d lady all dis while. No smoke without fire. Dot worry dear, ur own will come.
thats the problem with women after u have flexed and still want to flex a guys says u should be patient but in the end u break up with the guy, u are all morons. go and be like oshomoles wife marry an old man like your father to feel secure. MONTULAH GIRL.
thats the problem with women after u have flexed and still want to flex a guys says u should be patient but in the end u break up with the guy, u are all morons. go and be like oshomoles wife marry an old man like your father to feel secure. MONTULAH GIRL.
Keep hoping for reconciliation ode then why did you decide to break up with at first ni. Jor oh
Obviously he didn't put all his eggs in ur basket. Bt why did u break up wit him in d first place? It seems ur reason for breaking up wit him wasn't strong enof. U shuld av talked it ova wit him instead of breaking it up, guys hate it wen u walk out for no reason.
Eiyaah take heart.
Dear Poster, that guy wasn't going to marry you if you had waited another year. He was only waiting for you to call it quits yourself so he can go ahead and marry the person on his mind. It won't be easy but you just need to realise he wasn't meant to be yours and move on. We don't know what tomorrow holds so cry all you want, dry them tears, be strong and believe God has better things in store for you.
Pam
Wow! Move on nd pray for God to bring ur own partner ur way.
Eeehhyaaa. Sorry oo
What happened to you is evidence that the man is not your husband afterall. It seems to me that you are not a woman of faith, otherwise you should be grateful to God for removing generational courses you new nothing about from your head.
Your own husband will come, don't be in haste. What is important is how well not how far.
What happened to you is evidence that the man is not your husband afterall. It seems to me that you are not a woman of faith, otherwise you should be grateful to God for removing generational courses you new nothing about from your head.
Your own husband will come, don't be in haste. What is important is how well not how far.
Lmao!!!
So You'r concerned about the time frame it took him and not the fact that You were probably the side chick all along ?
Aunty, dust yourself, get over him and hope for the best.
Awwwwwwwwww that must feel like adding salt to injury. You have no choice than to move on darling. You're going to meet someone better! 😙😙😙😘
Ntooooooooooooooooo. #in_patience_Jonathan_voice
Linda rotate.
don't deceive yourself dear
d guy wanted someone else and not u
immediately u guys had an issue; he quickly pursued his wanted choice
dont worry, your own man would be better & is nearby
If u luv him dnt bk off cos anytin might happn dt time u decided to tk a break,accept all d rubbish until he propose den u nw tell him d ones u ll tolerate#advice#
It shudda been u buh I guess ur pride was much for him, and probably u didn't wanna send him and u know u are woman, and time runs out for women esp when they hit 30 n above, so it's a lesson 4 you n other women out there pls pocket ur pride n reconcile with ur boo whenever issues spring up cos it saves r/ship
Move on babe, since patience wasn't ur middle name.
The gods are not to blame
Gab2shoessaysso
Move on babe, since patience wasn't ur middle name.
The gods are not to blame
Gab2shoessaysso
Life goes on dear,,,my hubby daye a babe for 8yrs n they broke up...i met him a yr after n he proposed 2 me 3weeks after I met him...n married 3mnths l8r..shithappens dear..i Neva knew...probably u guys ar NT meant 2 be...
u don break up be say u don break. Move on with ur life
u don break up be say u don break. Move on with ur life
SorrY,wanted 2 take side untill I read d whole shit,u did state y u guys broke up..perhaps dz chap z not ur husband,God ll reward u with all uve lost in double Measures..
He wasn't going to engage you even if 'you were patient'. 3 months and 1 and 7 months?!
I think you should wake up from your slumber. You were not just "THE ONE". If it took him just 3 months to decide to marry someone else, then there was something you were not just doing right in a 1 year and 7 months.
My dear- you need to move on- the chap was either cheating behind your back or more realistically, never had you as his number one in the first place!Forget about him and get on with your life- you will meet someone better and more deserving
Lol, d break up was his idea so he cild propose to someone else
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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Keep hoping nne o.... Help me send my congratulations to him though....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
IT is your fault stupid woman. Linda take note
I just want to take a moment to abuse that foolish idiot on this blog who is stealing my identity. You are a stupid fool. I took a lot of time to come up with this signage so that linda will know its me and i can collect my 100k at the end of the year. I depend on this money a lot. I tell you say i get work? Why do come and take somebody signage? This is wrong very very wrong. You even took my email sef. Now you log in to gmail as Julia and I am the real julia. So God will punish you for your sins. I will not give up my signage.
He/she was double dating while you were dating just him/her. Engr Emy
''You were hoping u'd reconcile'' life is like dat.... u think you know people then they surprise you. Move on dear, you will find ur OWN.
linda observe
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Move on dear..shit happens
My dear dis is not am issue,d point is dat d guy has a sidechick when he was dating u.he is just using dat as excuse.adjust urself and wait for ur own man.
Linda, Are you talking to me? who sent my story to you?
Just Kidding... Similar thing happened to me, Mine was even after dating for 3 years.
My Girl got engaged to another guy after she left me. #SAD.
Dear lady,
Why be upset because he got engaged so soon? You don't know tomorrow. He rushing into another relationship isn't that already a red flag on his end?? Count it ALL joy when such things happen. He is the one dancing and celebrating now, even pleased that he got the upper hand. Just RELAX! Wish him well, don't squabble or show hurt.
Then turn completely and face your God. Ask Him to send your own true partner and then wait....
It is not who starts first that wins the race.. Wish him well, forget the guy. In fact even worship God daily because He says ALL THINGS work together for those who trust in Him.
Make God your focus. You will eventually dance and laugh greatly. Joy is yours.
pele...try nxt time.
Nah today? It's a normal thing.
Men tho..... sorry my dear but I think he was also dating the girl
Shut up and thank God woman. He's not for you. A man ll always go for what he REALLY wants. He's being praying fervently for you to go so that he ll marry the one he truly loves and it happened.
Just dust yourself and move on. Learn from your mistakes. Be prayerful and trust God, your own man ll come.
❤❤❤ THE PROPHETESS
HE HAD HIS PLANS ALRDY BEFORE DE BRK UP..TOMJERRYSWIT
My friend move on & stop dwelling on past memory or you would keep hurting yourself. Linda take note!
Okiie, notice to all LIBERs. Didn't want to do dis before but I gex I just have to do it as a disclaimer. One idiot on dis blog stole my identity, my name & signage. So please any negative comments on dis blog is not coming from me but from the thief cos I would neva say anything bad about someone or wish anyone evil. So I have gone back to using my old pix & my email address is (julie3er@gmail.com). Linda take note!
Move on.
Not all relatonships must lead to marriage! Get on wit it
I feel your pain my dear...so sorry!!!Always pray to GOD surely your man will come...don't wish him bad okay wish him well
You were a side chick hun lol
everything happens for a reason my dear, i feel your pain. be strong and watch God give you a man that will love and adore you.
Move d fuck on
Order asap for your reconciliation juju..offer valid while stock lasts
It's too late now. Sorry dear.
My own b Say, u know say u like am before, y u let am go??? Y Didn't u jux keep fighting till u av him back but he might neva be yours, jux av a pure heart, go on n be hapi in Jesus, somethn beta dey on the way. The guy wait small na, my ex did his intro almost after we broke up...
Shits happen!
You shouldn't feel bad hun...u probably dodged a huge bullet! He was neva urz! Stop cryin ova spilt milk.
He never loved u. Stop wasting ur tears n move on. Get busy with Urself n stop waiting for a man to be the reason for ur happiness. The right person will come along eventually.
the new babe he's engaged to now is smarter than you.
Hey gurl, chill.... prolly means he was datin both of yu at d sametime and he had d guts to say if u were patient enuf, as if he wanted to do u a favour. Well dere are two sides to every
story. Just move on and stop sulkin. U deserve better!
Wen u lack suru, dats wat usually end up wt pple lyk u. Even 3yrs 4 sm1 I love is nt too much @ll nxt time, u wl learn ao 2 b patient
Is this my story or what? Exactly my own story. Pls make urself happy and do whatever it is to move on and be happy. It was neva meant to be. Love God, make money and have fun.
Stop complaining if u were the one dat broke up with him, but if he was d one, then cool down God will give u a better man. End of story
Urhm...Pls learn how to write good English before posting a comment on dis blog
Its so obvious ur ex was seeing u and the other lady he married,he just didnt know who to pick,buh u made it more easier for him by breaking up which gave him the oppurtunity to quickly engage the other girl,eh ya feel ur pain,God would give u ur own man to ma ba e kale.
NB-To all ladies out there,never be the one to press the break up button no matter the signs the guy give,just play along as if u donbt understand,till he gets frustrated with his own acts and breaks up himself.
My Year Of Linda's 100k
post me a mail...I myt marry u.
Pride!Pride!!Pride!!..denied you your blessings..no woman is ordained during birth that this is ur hubby in particular. the scripture says "He dat finds a wife find a good thing"..and a man shall leave his father n mother n clinch unto his own. u F**kd up big time. the guy loved you n waited for a whole f**kin 3 months to see if this pillar of pride in you could be destroyed.. but unfortunately it's there..Pray hard u don't experience it in ur next relationship which is apparently hard to find..God give u d grace dear.
This is so typical of Naija guys sha. You would have dated for 4 years only to break up and him engaged in 6 months. Fact is if you are the one he would not waste time in popping the question. I got engagaed after 10 months of dating to othe best guy ever. I just let God take control and i was ultra humble. Today im enjoying my marriage least i forget sha o im in the UK and Naija guys her are very different to Naija guy in Naija.They seems to be more graounded and value women more. Good luck next time.
my dear u just have to move on,i was dating a guy for over a year, since I didn't see wat I wanted we had to breakup, I never asked for it, but we just left each other and am sure he will be expecting me to come back begging, trust me I have no oda guy I was dating....... lo and behold I met a guy just 1month and 2 weeks he's already asking 4 marriage, no 1 will believe it if I explain to dem.
All they will say is ve been dating him for long which is not true,we are really getting along as if we've met for years. so pls move on,ur man will locate u soon.everything work together for good.
Seems he just got engaged to his side chic when u were d main chic. Or u were not his definition of a wife material. Forget d if u had bn patient bla bla bla! He only said it to shift d blame to u. Move on girl! It wasn't meant to be!
Eeyah....sorry
same happened to me, trust me its for the best of best. Try and move on. Yours will come in due time. We will all get married to our soulmate.
My dear, it was never meant to be, believe me. Your true husband is on his way my dear, cheer up okay!!!...
He's a stupid boy! If u had been patient... oro rirun. After just 3 mnts u broke up with him. Abeg he doesn't worth the cry n broken heart... he had been doble dating. gaskia
I DONT KNOW WHICH IS WORSE.....FACT THAT HE WAS OBVIOUSLY SEEING BOTH OF YOU AT THE SAME TIME
OR
THE FACT THAT HE PROPOSED TO THE OTHER LADY AFTER JUST ONE MONTH YOU BROKE UP.
....ANYWAYS, I KNOW IT HURTS BUT ITS BETTER YOU LET HIM GO, ONCE A CHEAT, ALWAYS A CHEAT. HE IS NOT WORTH YOUR TEARS, IT OBVIOUSLY SHOWS THAT HE DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOU ENOUGH TO BE WITH YOU ONLY.
U were the side chic all along. Only that u didn't realize it
DO NOT WAST YOUR TIME , PLEASE MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. GETTING MARRIED IS A GAMBLE . MAY BE IF YOU MARRY HIM , IT MAY NOT LAST.
You're a fool to say dat...@ Samuel. If you don't know what to say.. shut up.
Cry for a while & let d moda fucker be... He dated u a year @ 7months he didn't engage u but engaged som1 else in 3months ? Use ur brain pls, he was dating both of u same time & love d other girl more shikina... Make sure u ain't d cause of ur brk up & watch ur next rlship carefully... A better guy is comin believe it
Ogundiran , your analysis makes no sense.. So the 3months time it took to get engaged to another woman after the break up is greater than the 1year and 7months relationship? I am a guy and that's just some cheap excuse, let him just say he met another woman he preferred to her than trying to make her feel guilty....
And u had to b rude?
Well your case is different, you didn't agree to date them so they moved on. I assume you are the type that likes guys chasing you for ages and you still wont budge, dont get why you are so pained tho.
Cheer up girl, he found his spec. Maybe you didn't show him enough green light. Everyman deserves to find happiness. Wish him well and don't go start NFL Osi/sidechick drama.
why didnt he engage you in one year and seven months ?You were obviously used to pass time for what he considers as a better choice.That doesnt mean you are not someone's best choice.
I agree with your comment@ Porsche
My dear! Datz d story of my life, dated a guy 4 4yrs we broke up n 3months after he got married 2 some1 else. It may hurt, bt it's not meant 2b. 4yrs after am married 2d most 1derful man in d world. Cry if u have 2 bt commit it 2 God n u'll c things happen 4 u
It cud b ur fault. Y did u break up in d 1st place? Waiting for reconciliation after 3 months. Check urself if u have d qualities of being a wife
Women and men are the same...I don't trust any....I dumb my woman after she confessed sleeping with another guy after I traveled to the State just for one month vacation, yeah I dumped her and she did her weeding just one months latter, showing she was dating another guy on my back, then next two months the marriage crashed. Women learn to be patient.
Some chicks are sooo stupid. They see guys as trophies. As if marriage is all that matters! I hate this society! Fucking dumb ass set of pple!
Ode!!!..
He isn't yours.
David Uche you must be a very useless boy! Bitch? Patient? People like you don't even know what love/relationship is all about... so park well.
Forget him, he does not love you.
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