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Friday, 30 January 2015

Dear men, please come and explain this. How do you guys reason?

So according to reports, Johnny Depp, 51, is getting ready to marry his girlfriend, Amber Heard, 28, next weekend on his private Bahamian Island. According to Page Six, the wedding will hold over the weekend of February 7-8 and about 50 guests have been invited to the wedding.

Johnny began officially dating Amber Heard in 2012, a few weeks after he announced his separation from French actress and singer Vanessa Paradis, the mother of his two children.

Johnny was with Vanessa for 14 years and they had two children together but he never gave her a ring. During an interview in 2009, Vanessa said she'd never been married, that it was something she was looking forward to one day...hopefully with the father of her children. Johnny later did an interview saying he'd been married once and now understands you don't need a paper to define your relationship with someone you love, so it wasn't something he was eager to do again.

So two years after dating Amber, he's now ready to try marriage for a second time, but not with a woman who was with him for 14 years. Men biko, oya explain how you people reason...:-)

220 comments:

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Manuel Kunmi said...

Looool crazy Americans ....... hes just a fucked up dude

Steady said...

We talking politics you talking nonsense

Anonymous said...

Kk wait 4 men. #oneandonlynwa@gmail.com#

Unknown said...

Wow is dis nt the guy in pirates of the Caribbean
Hmmm i wonder hw they reason too

Toronto Finest said...

We reason the way we want... Simple lol

Unknown said...

MR EDDY said this heat wan kill person o.

There's a difference between a wife and a life partner. maybe the mother of his kids was not good enough to be his life partner. That's his choice sha...
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Unknown said...

Very senseless set of creations!

Anonymous said...

Men re wicked. Dey reason tru de anus. #oneandonlynwa@gmail.com#

Anonymous said...

LINDA !!! Even if i tell you , you will not understand .

Ogechi@ afakos@yahoo.com said...

Men are very unpredictable.

BLAQ said...

That's just wickedness. Am sure Vanessa will be so heart broken. Eyah it is well

Unknown said...

Linda dis man are full of deceit,may God help us in dem hands,am tried of dem................linda listen

Mzz_Mary said...

Very stupid

Walata said...

Ahh dis is personal or individual thang, Linda don't generalize things not all men are fools, johnny is not with his senses for him to dump paradis for heard

Chidinma Grace said...

Men reason with d tail in-between dia legs. Dts as far as dia reasoning goes.

Unknown said...

oregoooooooo
oregoooooooo

Anonymous said...

Hmmm, a man wants what a man wants. But it is never about the length of a relationship, that truly does not count for much. E.g Khloe Kardashian and Lamar. This happens a lot even in our society. They say when a man knows, he knows, so, guess Depp knows now.

Unknown said...

Such is life ooo

Unknown said...

different men with different sense of reasonings .. so u cant determine how good or bad anybody thinks its ok for him or her

www.glowyshoes.com said...

as in ehnn...explanation is needed

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Anonymous said...

Linda the only explanation is, men are ruthless

Unknown said...

it's crazy, really crazy....
just like any other man, we are unstable for real but Johnny is psychopath






#Commenting thru Glo 4G LTE

bola said...

well; shit happens.

Unknown said...

The ways of men re unexplainable...........










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Hintealand said...

Linda the way men reason in this case is as simple as telling him what you want as a lady when his love and respect for you is very high. Linda did u
today
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Anonymous said...

IF i get free milk There is No need to buy the Cow..If you agree to play House with me without insisting on the right thing I too will not feel any urgent need to formalise anything..kapish

Unknown said...

Explain wetin Linda? That man na fool ooh

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Anonymous said...

Our happiness is Key, it's not the number of years we have been together that matters. It's how happy I am being with you.

eka said...

they mostly reason from their pants....

Unknown said...

Things we do for tru love. If she does it(fuck he's brain to climax) right, he wil be under hz spell.

Communication,trust,hot sex,understanding. That's what we see as tru love. If one is missing then its just love

GALORE said...

They are not loyal...
Men
Men
Men


Una reward dey heaven ooo



@Galore

Unknown said...

Not All Men Dear Linda, anyways he loved her for procreation and not for Love.. Shikina..
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.Disclaimer:: Raise Your Words, Not Your Voice. It Is Rain That Grows Flowers, Not Thunder..

Unknown said...

They reason like mofos!!!!

Anonymous said...

Dear Linda,
I do not know where the confusion is coming from as it seems pretty clear. However, for the sake of irrefutable clarity process this analogy.

A Man (Johnny) is sold on the idea of washing his mouth with chewing stick and one day goes to a store where they are selling toothbrushes. He then proceeds to pick up a toothbrush (the old girl) with the aim of trying it out to see what the hullabaloo is about.

The store keeper at the time (the girls common sense) relinquishes his right to tell the man (Johnny) that if you test it and like it...you don buy market o!

Johnny then tests and tests am soteh him use two picking commot. After that he decides he likes the idea of tooth brushes.
What should he do now, being that there was nothing (no ring) tying him down to the old one

Should he stick with the old one he has tested or now open eye and look for the one he likes.

Thank you!

Unknown said...

Linda your in spirit, abeg help us ask them. Cox 14yrs is 14days nor months. I will kill that man if possible.

Unknown said...

Linda na which one u dey sef. That. Na johnny style na. Make we call yemi alade firat as still dey look for her johnny whether hin fit change mind again...lol!

Unknown said...

Lemme wait too and read comments from men
Because I need answers to this question too

Anonymous said...

Linda u shouldn't be surprise. its no longer news that men only tink wit their dick. example can be drawn 4rm those dat was tripping for buhari's daughter on tweeter e.g bonario nngas

ehisokhai@yahoo.com said...

The only explanation I can giv is dat a white man is nt 100 percent sane

Kponskii said...

As sad as it seems, we need to understand something crucial. Although rare, It is possible to be with someone forever and not be in love. You only hang on cos you feel guilt or a certain emotion but not love...basically, we will never fully understand the chemistry of love and how it works. It's better you commit fully to the one your heart beats for. I feel sorry for Vanessa and I wish her all the best.

Able mom said...

Linda are u asking them? Hmm,I tell u none of them will give u a reasonable answer only defencive one,na them sabi,the problem are those foolish single ladies that will never allow married men legally or not legally married to rest.

Unknown said...

Errmmmmmmmm....

Unknown said...

Wow!
I find dis quite shocking...
If I were him I wil stick to d mother of my children.

He is a free being wit his own personal choice and decision. I can't judge bcos he knw better d in and out of y he married another lady instead of d mother of his children.

Ladies pls hear dis advice, don't move into d house of d man dat has not married u let alone start having kids for him.

Wit MEN feelings and love changes over time mostly choice, taste and preference for women.

A word is enough 4d wise.

Unknown said...

Its called true love....but I thought Amber heard was bisexual...and has a girlfriend for 4years.....well, congrats to them.....


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Anonymous said...

Some reason through their pants. Anyway the ex-wife should not worry, when one road close, another open. She should thank God for her kids

Unknown said...

No comment Men oya nt boys oooo so Onxy Godwin don't comment.

Unknown said...

but dis is totally unfair n reasonable 14yrs of her life haaa na curse na en d man go collect. dats y all dis baby daddy daddy baby me no support, shey she neva lose like dis smh men biko y?

prittyog said...

Sometimes,they reason through their anus





=prittyog in the house=

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Nothing like hw men reason here, the lady should be blamed bcos she couldnt fight for ryt....... No blame the man abeg linda....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

ary said...

He never loved the woman, he was just comfortable with her. If you love a woman, you put a ring on it, make her yours. Move over the woman was okay being a baby mama and not a wife.

Unknown said...

Dats so hard 2 comment bt d two re 2 be blame,bt d guy takes more of d blame

Anonymous said...

No darling, they don't. If they do, the world could have been a lovely place.

shine ur eye for black nylon. said...

Ha ha ha Haaaahaaa but na wa for we men oooo.

Unknown said...

Dey reason based on d satisfaction of der third leg....some tho

Anonymous said...

It's simple, they don't reason at all

Vivian Gills said...

my dear linda it is still a mystery how men reason

Unknown said...

Dahs really bad sha! I wudnt hav done dah to any woman...

Ijanyimitch said...

Him no love the woman enuf, simple

paris said...

hahahahah. dats men fir you u o. we do as we want n like. we in control of women affairs. heheheheh

Unknown said...

with their a** somtimes.

Anonymous said...

Probably something he didn't like about her


Tuface had many baby mamas and only married Annie


Some women we love enough to Fuck and have kids with but not enough to marry


Some women don't even deserve marriage

Unknown said...

The man can't be blamed because the wife obviously knew they were just cohabiting because the relationship was not defined from onset. So Shit happens

Unknown said...

Hahahahahaha, that's bad that's bad 14years, what did nessa do? what did amber do to him?.. Linda I reason well some men don't maybe after making few mistakes the reasoning starts booting.

Anonymous said...

@Linda Ikeji. Really? Do we, men, ask you to explain every 'inappropriate' act performed by other women?! How you gonna ask such a stupid question,though? SMH for you.

Subomi said...

easy! sometimes you think you are in love and realize later its actually not love, sometimes you hang in there to see if the love would come maybe for the sake of your kids but still the love refuse to come, its never a good idea to be legally bounded to someone you dont truly love and I personally think everyone deserves happiness, you should not compromise. Its harsh its sad but its the way it is.

Unknown said...

Vanessa Paradis. She sang one of my most emotional songs of the 80s, in french of course. "Joe le taxi" even topped the British Charts in '88. And she was just 14 then. Johnny Depp thunder fire you for hurting my sweet, elegant chanteuse.

Anonymous said...

We reason like animals

Anonymous said...

sis me z speechless ooo

X'tine Neni said...

Marriage probably wasn't a deal breaker for Vanessa because she was with him for 14 and probably would have been unwed for more..Amber on the other hand must have stated clearly her terms...From experience ladies, if something is important to you,don't compromise..State clearly and pls don't give mixed signals..Men like the easiest way which might not be the better?
Then again for Vanessa,I won't beat myself too much 'cos he left after 14 years,marriage or no marriage..Hope she meets someone that would love her forever and marry her(if she wants to)..xxx

Unknown said...

True.ask them o.

G said...

Linda, getting bored of these your men attacks. Go and settle down and raise a family and stop poisoning young ladies minds with 'men are this..men are that crap'

sodablog said...

Have you forgotten that Johnny Depp used to be Jack Sparrow who used to do oddly and weird things. Don't blame him because once a Jack Sparrow always a Jack Sparrow

Anonymous said...

Linda we owe you no explanation. Don't use one isolated case to ask all men how we reason. Go ask Johnny how him dey reason.

Anonymous said...

it's very easy linda, just do one thing, let everything be about HIM and he will never stop loving you and he will do everything, the only problem is who takes care of you(the woman) since it's all about HIM

Anonymous said...

Lmaoo...no comment biko
@RealPrizeOkoli

Shush said...

It's naffin new. For 14 years he myt av been wit d wrong woman. And nw,he've met dat SPECIAL ONE. Simple! And linda,stop acting as if it's only men dat does dat::::::::

Anonymous said...

thats captain sparrow for u

Noble Women said...

That's Men for you Linda!, selfish and self centered. They will say, why pay for a goat you can get freely. It's an unfair world, but it's happening. Get this, " how else will a man divorce a woman who has suffered with him for 17yrs with three kids, called her a witch. After she had fed him from her sweat for years, but yet his own money went to girlfriends and prostitutes. It's a strange thing under the sun.

Anonymous said...

Dey reason 2ru dia anus... I na ju kwa ju... Penis controls dem #hoping4aworldwitoutmen#

Anonymous said...

I want 2 knw how dey reason oo cos in tire me sef

Bunny said...

From their balls

Princess G said...

Hmmmmmm

Unknown said...

Hm! Make I read comments.

Anonymous said...

Biko..I no fit answer this 1...

Unknown said...

They reason anticlockwise Linda.

Able mom said...

Linda are u asking them? Hmm,I tell u none of them will give u a reasonable answer only defencive one,na them sabi,the problem are those foolish single ladies that will never allow married men legally or not legally married to rest.

Anonymous said...

It's a good thing Vanessa equally moved on. Guess what Linda?
Vanessa Paradis dated american singer Lenny Kravitz for a couple of years, i i think it's five years.She was around 19. Lenny dumped Vanessa because he loved his playboy life and didn't want to settle down. He is the one who even introduced Vanessa to Johnny Depp. Eventually they started dating and decided to start a family. Craze wan kill Lenny.Backstabbing tinz! Lenny, who with time grew more mature, understood his mistake and expressed publicly deep regrets for letting such a sweet girl go. So when the official news of Johnny and Vanessa came out, Lenny seized the opportunity to hook back with Vanessa quick quick. They're together now, but the relationship is very discreet.

Anonymous said...

She knows how to give him exactly
Wat he loves #dontblamehim But love!
Hehehe in lindas voice

Unknown said...

Well its a very simple explanation. If you allow a man to have the cookie, and by that I mean your body and your heart, before you let him know what you want from him and the relationship then trust me he will take your desires for granted because He who controls the cookie controls the relationship *in Gandolphs voice*. Amber Heard understands this basic principle well and used it to her advantage whereas Vanessa gave up the cookie too easily as evidenced by the two kids she had then started talking about wanting marriage after the fact, it dont work that way girlfriend..Niggaz aint loyal period!

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Folashade Idowu said...

Power of a woman.......It all depends on the woman

Pere jay said...

Linda please you dont have to make look like all men are the same this is cruel i have to admit or maybe he never did love the mother of his childred

Unknown said...

the both of them were deceiving themselves.

Unknown said...

Linda its simple... she's younger and She's hotter....plus better sex, men are simple. I'm not a guy by the way...

Cindy# said...

Dont mind dem, dey jst turn u in2 a baby makin machine, afta suckin out d youthful & succulent part of u den dey Wil leave u 4 d next availabl figure 8 dt Wil help dem enhance & revamp dr old blood, dts y old men dis days arent getin old any longer cos dey are either marrying a young lad or keepin dem as dr mistress or side chic.

Unknown said...

Na so so maggot full their brain na.... Mtcheeewww... It's d women dat decide 2 date one man 4 so many years I blame... U date sm1 as if na marriage.. Ontop of it, get pregnant and gv birth, 2 nt just 1, but 2 or 3.. Den d SOB, will still dump u and move on 2 sm1 else, dat he ends up wifing....

Juleslouis said...

Men are so complicated. And they think women are too. Let me sit back and read comments cuz this thing baffles me too.

Anonymous said...

Dey dnt reason at alll.its dier fin dt reason for dem.Except the God fearing ones they can b soo hrtless.

Unknown said...

He is marrying her as compensation, he is already a secondhand good.

racheal said...

Its simple,am a gal but I knw d answer. Men are wired totally differently,he just finally found some1 who culd make him commit.

Branson Jr said...

Like Brymo sang 'prick e no get shoulder,e no get shoulder,u put em head d rest e enta'....dat thing has a mind of his own
*****MBAISE;my land,my pride****

Unknown said...

Men dtz their way.. U have to make them dance to your tone. She went easy on him and Dtz what she got. No wedding

Anonymous said...

Men reason with their Dick and women try and respect your body u don't get a man by giving birth to kids anyhow.self worth Biko. #LASTBLACKgIRLiN9ja#

Unknown said...

No sense,none at all! if a man is gonna marry you he will ,no need to be a wife when he has not put a ring on it,thats the mistake we ladies do.

Anonymous said...

Men reason with their Dick and women try and respect your body u don't get a man by giving birth to kids anyhow.self worth Biko. #LASTBLACKgIRLiN9ja#

Anonymous said...

Men reason with their Dick and women try and respect your body u don't get a man by giving birth to kids anyhow.self worth Biko. #LASTBLACKgIRLiN9ja#

ebonyz... said...

Na wa oh!!! Make una write am make me & Linda baby read biko!

Anonymous said...

men these days re becoming more confusing than women lols
xyz(Dara-ima)

Unknown said...

It's simple. When we are not ready we get a gf to be fucking. When we are ready we find a wife material and fling the whore away.

Tayo . O said...


We Love who we love , that simple !

Anonymous said...

Simple. Amber doesn't "need" him. He's try to tie her down

Unknown said...

linda did u mean "explain this to me" or its just me

Unknown said...

Biko only him can explain..








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Unknown said...

That is men for u. So unpredictable.


@Sophia Stephen

Unknown said...

His biz

gab2shoes said...

Sometimes we dont reason well but na d script we play on earth....

The gods are not to blame
Gab2shoessaysso

Anonymous said...

It's simple....through their anus.

Abdul Adepetu said...

Simple. Different from women folks. heheheheh

Unknown said...

I wonder why!I wonder why !!!! Eee....

Omo Jesu said...

And u don't think women should come and tell us how they reason. After hearing that a man is in a relationship for 14 years and already has 2 kids, this lady still wants to marry him like mumu. Shiooooo

mzmaris said...

Linda what a dumb question......reason ke....they lack the ability to do so...it's in their gene.......or not......infact, they lack the gene that codes reasoning....ur question should be...."Y haven't they found a way around that genetic handicap"?....

Unknown said...

That 2bad so d mother of his 2kids is not good to marry after 14 good years

Unknown said...

That's not acceptable Depp

prettiyz said...

Most of them r just stupid or will I say act stupid

Unknown said...

It is what it is

shollymama said...

Ask them oh linda

Anonymous said...

She did not demand it from him. If she did, he would probably have put a ring on it.

Unknown said...

Why men? Ask Johnny... sebi na him wan follow Cynthia.? who send am? Lol.~cezw

Unknown said...

NAWA 4 U OOHH LINDA, BCUS U DEY RUSH TO POST THE TIN DATS Y U MAKE MISTAKE MTCHEEEEW

MY TURN said...

Shows how WICKED SOME MEN ARE... HABA VERY VERY WICKED.

Unknown said...

Daats how de behave linda..see him face like Oyibo rat!!

Anonymous said...

lINDA, that a man makes you wear the wedding gown, and give you ring does not make you the true one either. Even if you born ten children for am is no better off. MEN ARE JUST LIERS.

Unknown said...

Linda this is just too much for me to write

LuchiDataLady said...

Some Men are fools na, they don't value the sacrifice u make for them

Unknown said...

Oh!that's not fair at all, she's not good to marry but good to be his baby mama abi Depp?mtchew..

ANTIMATTER said...

Dear Linda, He is not a sample for 'ALL Men' and yes he did not give the woman a ring yet she had two kids.Did he force her? Knowing fully well she wants a real marriage she should not have had the second child or any for that matter.

Then there is the matter that she wanted it that way. Some women her treated unfairly cos they let it happen, believing that he will ask her. Having kids for a man does not necessarily mean he will marry you,may be in the good old day not now.

Angie said...

My eyes almost popped out @ 14 years without a ring..was the woman hypnotized?.

ASAMPOKOTO said...

Simple! Why buy the cow when you are already milking it. His baby mama already gave him everything. What's the difference if they get married. Ladies, it's good to hold out :). All this playing wife role when u ain't thte wife yet. Always happens

Anonymous said...

What do u need men to explain to you?its simple!everywoman should know her worth and what she deserves!i bet you the Lady stood her ground saying marriage or nothing!and women don't give 100 percent of your self immediately. there should be some mystery.

AZEEZ RIZQAH said...

Morale of d story... Never b a baby mama to a guy no matter aw rich, handsome or popular he is, cos if he's not rdy to marry u no numba of children will mk him.
Davido's GF

Unknown said...

haaa too bad for venessa,not fair johny

Unknown said...

They reason like fish sometimes. Quite exempted

Unknown said...

We dey reason well.




Busy Fingers.

Anonymous said...

At 51... he had to put a ring on a younger woman. She is much easier to lose.

Unknown said...

Its just one of those things. At times men act irrationally. Sometimes we feel what we've got is not gud enough. #its our curse

Anonymous said...

Don't mind them

Unknown said...

Linda simple: men love a variety of women so if they notice ahead of time that you will not allow them to practice their God given talent then consider yoyrself out especially if you are a liability

Anonymous said...

We have buttons, u see. And if u learn to press the right ones, ur man will do anything to make u happy. A lesson for all women.

sarah said...

This thing called love, well its possible that this new lady is making him feel something that he didn't feel with the old lady.

sarah said...

This thing called love, well its possible that this new lady is making him feel something that he didn't feel with the old lady.



*addicted to linda ikeji's blog*

sarah said...

This thing called love, well its possible that this new lady is making him feel something that he didn't feel with the old lady.


*Addicted to linda ikeji's blog*

Bsek said...

Love isn't fair,some time the right one don't seem right to take a plunge with into matrimony

JohnCrown said...

Mouth sealed

Unknown said...

Dats too bad..,

Unknown said...

Till u get married!

Unknown said...

their concern,every man no be 2face as every woman no be Kim kerdeshian







#Linda's give away

Unknown said...

their concern,every man no be 2face as every woman no be Kim kerdeshian







#Linda's give away

kezie said...

Simple connection..when u see the right one it just clicks like that,u can't explain it..naso e be

Unknown said...

No mind them. Their heads dey knock smetyms

Unknown said...

How the brain of men work I dnt knw its God dat undastand dem cos no matter wat a lady do if d man no want am e no want am b dat it mite b 1small tin ds lady does dat made d man propose **just saying**

fynechop said...

Men could be so foolish, all these years he was living with the mother of his children he didn't see her as a wife material, 14 wasted years. Oyibo sef na waooo.

fynechop said...

Men could be so foolish, all these years he has been living with the mother of his children he didn't see her as a wife material, 14 wasted years. Oyibo sef na waooo.

Unknown said...

We are all unique in our own ways. I guess every man shuld b able to answer for himself.

Anonymous said...

Linda don gbaguan"Dear men,please come and explain this me. How do you guys reason?" Loooool

Betty said...

I don't believe Johnny Depp has any explaining to do. Vanessa has already given him everything that comes with a marriage without the marriage itself. 14 years.....I beg after 2 years if there was no ring there wont be one babies or not......trust me.



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James said...

You must be a man-hating bitch to assume all men have the same thought process.

Ochuko Arhiakpore said...

Rational

!!BIG BROTHER SAYS SO!!

Unknown said...

Be wise women

OMG!WOMAN said...

It's selfishness and greed. Like the other one is a woman and she has gotten her self wasted and stocked to him already by having kids. So no matter what she's going to try to stick around. What's the use putting handcuffs on her. This one is way younger. She could run away. So the nigga's git to be smart take her completely his.

Anonymous said...

Find yourself a husband first then ask this question again.

Unknown said...

I think village people are after d oda lady

eviliciouspepe said...

She agreed to stay with him without commitment for 14 yrs, the other one didn't. Simple! No surprises here, it happens all the time. Men are babies, if you keep letting them get away with stuff, they will never rise to the occasion.

vanessa said...

if na mi, i go kill m

Unknown said...

How can u stay with a man for 14 good yrs without a ring?...I blame d lady, she doesn't know her worth.

Anonymous said...

Let me explain this to you Linda & Co. It's like this... He was with Vanessa for 14 years, she's beautiful but marrying her means settling for a less georgeous arm candy like Amber heard. Amber is younger, probably less wrinkles & firm tits.. Typical dick, just like most men...

Anonymous said...

This is the reason why, Johnny Depp is 51, Vanessa is 42 years old while his girlfriend Amber Heard is 28. He just got himself a young blood to rub his back as he grows old. He has forgotten that karma is a bitch!

Unknown said...

Buh john Depp didn't do well..for dating a woman for 14years without a legitimate union

Anonymous said...

You women just won't get it so we won't bother trying.
She obviously has the X factor Vanessa didn't have.

It's not just about good looks and about how 'wonderful' you are with your friends, ex boyfriend and family. Also, If your ex was so wonderful why did you split up?

Your relationship with your husband or boyfriend is different from your friends and family, if you can't get on with him or understand each other the relationship will fail.
Some women/men understand that and a lot don't. The fact you have kids for him means nothing if he can't settle with you, commit with and grow old with you. A man needs to feel safe with you and loved by you, not nagged, compared, abused and used. If there is something disturbing him about you it won't happen. Just pray your man or woman is honest enough with you to let you know. It goes both ways. Relationships these days are self help ventures. You help each other to understand each other. No one is your Lord and master and sole provider (except Jesus Christ) dont sit there waiting for your partner to perform.
Don't judge your huband like your friends and family and don't expect the same relationship with him as you have with family.

Anonymous said...

he obv didnt like something about the other chic. maybe she was a thot! either that or he REALLLLLLLLY likes something about this new one

respet urself said...

Mr Depp is still in adventure/fantasy land .
Goodluck to him and the women in his life .

Anonymous said...

You are absolutely right my friend... mystery is the key word yet keeping it real. shy*****a@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

everything is men men... the woman who is old enough to be his daughter and knowing fully well he had somone else and still put her head there no one is accusing her. the woman who was there for 14years and was comfortable enjoying the wealth and status of a star's girlfriend instead of looking for someone to marry. if depp wasnt a star, would she be in an uncertain relationship for 14years?
nobody is talking about her. nothing is wrong with men? it is women who dont know their worth anymore.

Unknown said...

Linda how did you swallow my comment cos i know it made a lot of sense.

Unknown said...

In just one word-SENSELESS.

Naughtybunny said...

Abeg anon 2:37 park well jor. What kind of mystery shud a woman hv with a guy for 14yrs. It's clear dat men always move onto something "better" when dey r rich. 14yrs ago Johnny Depp was no shit especially after a marriage dat ended. Nd he became rich nd famous decideds dat he's current chick doesn't deserve him. It's common with u guys, u stay with a girl when u r broke, smelly nd sweaty. As soon as d money comes u nlget d girl dat u knw if it wasn't for ur money nd New status she Wud not go for u. Look at Kevin Hart, short black nd ugly now engage to a mosey, Kanye west Hmmmmmm, . Anyway na una sabi. I will never ever marry a broke ass nigga in d first place. Am d girl your rich boyfrnd leave u for.

Nusitech said...

Maybe she wasn't the right woman. Good enough to have children with, but not good enough to spend the rest of his life with. What can I tell you, shit happens.


Anonymous said...

na celebrity style b dat! linda wen b ur own wedding self! u too fyn! wit all ur coke bottle shape n sizable nyash!

Unknown said...

the lady admitted it herself that she had never been married. so why are you crucifying the poor fellow?

HAWTTALKWITHTOSAN said...

I I am not a man but I can say this...men love younger women.

African foodstuff and Raw Materials said...

Don't blame him o, d woman caused it naa... We all know most men are heartless and wicked, we jst av to be careful.. All is well..

Anonymous said...

You said it well though am a lady. We should learn to love our selves we are not pizza that every man can dip in d box and take a piece there should be dat special germ for ur husband

Unknown said...

Men are heartless nau.. and can never be predicted at all

anon said...

Seconded!

Unknown said...

Hmmmm men sha

FIZZICHILLIO said...

Shuttup ya mouth. Talkin as if you read a manual about life n shit.. everything in life happens for a reason bliv it or not. Till tomorrow Adele wil be grateful to the shitty boyfriend who dumped her cos he gave her the strength to become what she is right now. Chances are, Adele woulda been a nobody judt by clinging to him. Women dump men too so stop talking nonsense.

#FiZz

Unknown said...

Oya men! Let d xplanatn roll if not I will whip som1here or many ;)

Gentletee said...

There is something between them which made him not to marry the mother his children. It is his life.

Unknown said...

U r just a big fool.good enough 4 ur bed bt nt good enough 4 d alter.u hv no self respect

SMURF said...

She might not be the marriage material, just strictly gf and shagging, just like Kourtney and Scott..

Anonymous said...

Such is life. Vanessa waited 10 years too long. Babies or no babies.

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