Well, to me d number one tin is lack of truly accepting each other for "WHO" each other truly is.
Some people go into marriage only accepting WHAT each other r mostly in Nigeria not accepting d real personality which is d "WHO" is d doomed for most marriages in Nigeria.
Definitely not money or infidelity, I've seen women stay with broke men that cheat, not sex either cause lots of women allege their husbands haven't touched them in months. Its probably lack of love since people who fight everyday can still stay married i'll rule out communication problems.
All of the above, but most importantly, when there is no determination to stay in the marriage no matter what is obtainable in the society or trend that seems to be in vogue (divorce)
I think it's boil down to lack of genuine love frm both parties involve. Is nt just enough if one out of d two hv dis genuine love bt it's enough if d two hv d genuine love for one another... And wit dis they can fight whatever p in their way and strive for "perfection" in their marriage.
It's communication problem, when couples fail to communicate properly with each other they are not been able to discuss the problems on ground, rather they keep things for so long and before you know it they pour it out in one day and marital problems begin
It depends on the couple and what each one of 'em can tolerate....All of the above can cause marriage failure and it also depends on the couple tolerance.
To me, the number one problem which is EGO is not there in the 5 options you provided. Most marriages fail simply because of stupid pride and ego (of mostly women)...and this is common with women with strong professions, independent business women, stars (be it actress, singer, athlete etc), they usually see themselves as capable of being independent and could be the "husband" if they choose to...however this is not to nullify the fact that some men possess big egos too, but for the purpose of this topic...I'll pick EGO above all the options you gave.
Firstly, I would like to say "one man's food is another man's Poison". Why ? Because different folks different strokes. Marital problems differ. But these problems stem out from issues that lead to eventual displeasure in relationships. There are instances based on spousal behaviour (which is something that can change during marriage but never detected during courtship/dating ), or infidelity (from either side) or lack of mutual respect or communication gap or love, because some people marry for the wrong reasons ( sex, fame, money, etc..) or ego or pride but above all. May God grant us our own partners
Because most people get married because of what society is saying...'Oh,Aunty u don old o,go and marry' so they find one guy and 'manage him' with no genuine love whatsoever.
its definitely communication problems. Most people go into marriage hoping its going to be a bed of roses. They get married to anyone they come across just to answer the title 'Married Man or Woman'. What they fail to realize is that Getting married is the easy part, Staying married is the hard part.
Lack of understanding of what marrige is all about before getting into the marriage because marriages of now adays in nigeria is just all about #RUSH# RUSH#...either because their mates are getting married, they also want to, or because of age is nolonger on their side without getting the understanding of what they getting their self into and what marriage really is all about.
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Money leads to infidelity, infidelity leads to lack of love, lack of love leads to sex problem, sex problem leads to lack of communication. ^ ^ ^™THAT EDO BOY.COM~
No,dere can b anything number one reason marriage fail, pple are different, different ideas,views,likes,dislikes,attitudes, what may be mr A problem isn't mr B problem. So no number 1 reason marriage fails Linda ikeji
its the silliest thing but lack of COMMUNICATION is the main reason why marriages fail in NIgeria today. just taking out time to hear each other out. hmmmmn so sad
Of these enlisted problems, money is d least problem. I think d major problem is communication. Where there is no time btw couples to share thoughts and rub minds together, there's bound to b problems......my thot
Lack of love -If there's thru love, infidelity won't cum in, money (d understanding dat there is good times & bad times will be understood),Sex will be something u look forward to,when there is love, there is no communication problem
From money To sex Lack of communication Infidelity
If u are a man...if u like make u tumble for bed....do takwando for bed sef... If u are lazy and u don't have.money....just stay were u are with ur sex skills....no be sex go put food for my table or money wen I go use buy designers and other things
"Heaven on earth!!!Wonders without end,that's my new realm"
Money is the number one problem of failed marriages in Nigeria. Reason is simply because if a man doesn't have money the woman will always compare and complain. If a man has money money such man doesn't have much time to spend at home then the woman will start complaining that he doesn't have time for her then she sleeps with cook, security or old male friends.
Poor communication is the number one reason why marriages fail not only in nigeria. Couples now prefer their phones to their spouses and when they try to talk the manner of approach is zero. money is another reason
Communication Problem, Bks if u communicate well I dnt tink U will hav moni prob,sex ish nd infidelity ish,or Trust ish... so learn hw 2 communicate wit ur partner 4 berra nd long lasting Union.....
Am not married but my view has always been: once a relationship on its own lacks communication, its heading for a breakup. Aside this the words RELATIONSHIP AND LOVE in our world of today are also known as the material(Money,cars,Houses) These are termed as security for most. A friend once said, marriage should be treated just like a proposal to a company, what you promise is what you should give.
Honestly, I'd say Communication. If we look carefully into this, we'd see that most of the other problems revolve around the lack of communication. Take a man or woman for example having a problem with the partner in the area of money, infidelity, lack of love or even Sex problem. If only the two party would sit to resolve these calmly, then we won't be having failed marriages.
I can tell you that all these factors put together are responsible for 90% of failed marriages in nigeria. in some cases it could be one or two of these factors and in some cases it could be all of them combined with witches and wizards.
i think lack of communication is the major factor, yes we talk to each other but do we communicate, one says something, the other is saying a thing, sometimes both are even saying the same thing, but failing to hear each other out constitutes major loopholes thus giving room for the remaining factors.
Linda, Another major cause is having "High and unrealistic expectations in d marriage" and comparing ur marriage to another person own.
These r d major cause of marriage break down in Nigeria; 1. Not truly accepting d "WHO" which is d personality, character and attitude of d other person.
2. High and unrealistic expectations in d marriage.
3. COMPARISM of ur marriage to another marriage. Dis is deadly and a big blow to instant killing of marriages in Nigeria.
For those of us in marriage we can confirm all dis points above.
'Communication problems' is not exactly a problem. its more like a symptom or result. If you never really had a good relationship with someone or had other money or sex or lack of respect problems then communication will breakdown and dissipate in All cases.
I think is money cus a hungry man is an angry man,lack of money can bring about frustration in marriages especially when family responsibilities arnt solved. Visit deborachidume.blogspot.com
communication problem... Now adays, the social media and our sophisticated smart phones has make things worse. People (both men and women) tends to express their feelings and state-of-mind via social media... Nothing kills relationship more than that, all other factors follows...
There is no way of pin pointing it to just one problem but it is a combination of 2,3,5. Mainly because in our society many people rush into marriage just because they are ready to settle down not because they have found a right partner, which sometimes works out and sometimes doesn't. But then again, if couples communicated better maybe they could just boycott 2 and 3 and make their relationship better.
Abuse (both physical and emotional) , infidelity and lack of communication, lack of love and sex sometimes. Men esp Igbos believe u don't have control over them as a. woman. They don't owe u any explanation for their actions (most times). They hide under tradition just like islams hide under religion(child bride) to torture and intimidate women. Etc. I'm a victim...will do my best and leave the rest to God
1 2 3 4 is the problem gbam! Nigerians wake-up my people lives matter. PDP party and corruption insecurity darkness no electricity bad government must go. vote for #change# vote Buhari and Osinbajo. For president next month 14th!
Foundation problem. Every other thing mentioned changes with time. If good today could get bad tomorrow and the reverse is true, and so marriage that relies on such things would change as those things changes. But, foundation is the only thing that can be laid ONCE. If wrong, forget it would be struggle all the way. If right, then any of the changes to things listed above can be managed - though tough but can be handled. Now the foundation is Jesus Christ the solid rock, because na God first start marriage.
It depends on the people involved in the marriage. It could be anything for any couple, some might even be all, but in all, these issues could still be sorted out if they both want it.
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Communication problems
5,1 and 3..
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Question 4 d gods.
All of the above
Question 4 d gods.
Infidelity !!!
Oya people wit experience start talking.
Oya people wit experience start talking.
1,2 and 4
U listed dem accordingly Linda
Infidelity
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All the above
The way marriages fail these days ehn
It is enough to scare single girls
wait ooo, linda the question suppose be why do marriages fail around the world..
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Lack of love, when you love each other dearly, every other thing becomes understandable.
Infidelity
lack Of love respectgt.rg@gmail
2 3 5
Number 5 any day
Money problem, cos if money no dey, na serious gobe b dat. Money first every other things shall be added to d marriage. Linda take note!
Too much of cheap girlS
I go wit communication problem
Money problem, cos if money no dey, na serious gobe b dat. Money first every other things shall be added to d marriage. Linda take note
Money problem, cos if money no dey, na serious gobe b dat. Money first every other things shall be added to d marriage. Linda take note
Money problem, cos if money no dey, na serious gobe b dat. Money first every other things shall be added to d marriage. Linda take note
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Money problems.....
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I think marriages fall because of communication problems.
5 communication problem
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All of the above....richlyblessed007@gmail.com
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Money with the combination of one or more of others. Money is not everything but money is very important to life and relationships.
Na soo
Not married yet, buh i think it is Lack of communication
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All of the above with 5, 4, 2 ,1 and finally 3 in that order. infidelity is almost a cultural thing we should face it.
Yes all the above listed, including lack of trust and wrong foundation..
All of the above.
2) infidelity.
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All of the above and many more.
COMMUNICATION PROBLEM I THINK
Linda...
To me it depend.
Well, to me d number one tin is lack of truly accepting each other for "WHO" each other truly is.
Some people go into marriage only accepting WHAT each other r mostly in Nigeria not accepting d real personality which is d "WHO" is d doomed for most marriages in Nigeria.
All of the above,but number is the main ingredient of any successful marriage,lack or short of it spells doom.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
major prob is money ish, which den leads to infidelity
Definitely not money or infidelity, I've seen women stay with broke men that cheat, not sex either cause lots of women allege their husbands haven't touched them in months. Its probably lack of love since people who fight everyday can still stay married i'll rule out communication problems.
its infidelity
Social media!!! It has caused more harm than good.
All of d above...
1 is money problem then 2 is communication and 3 is infidelities
all of the above
None of the above. Based on scientific research, the number one cause of divorce is marriage! And if you doubt me ask Chris Okotie.
Believe me it's 1.Money problems
True
All of the above! Nothing more, nothing less...
Infidelity of course..... Nigerian men can cheat for africa smh
All of the above, but most importantly, when there is no determination to stay in the marriage no matter what is obtainable in the society or trend that seems to be in vogue (divorce)
lack of love.
Linda did you
Today
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Communication problem
No 3. Simply "Lack of Love" Nigerians no sabi love. A gal is either after ur money or because u are good in bed. No love
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all of the above o
I think it's boil down to lack of genuine love frm both parties involve. Is nt just enough if one out of d two hv dis genuine love bt it's enough if d two hv d genuine love for one another... And wit dis they can fight whatever p in their way and strive for "perfection" in their marriage.
Communication problem is the mega and super problem.With communication, all the other problems can be understood,amended or tolerated.
All of d above....varies depending on couple
Linda is all of the above
All of the Above!!
This options: Infidelity
Lack of love,nigerian men suck at showing affection
All of the above......
I THINK ITS LACK OF COMMUNICATION N HONESTY..tomjerryswit
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No.6 SEE FINISH
MONEY!!!!!
and maybe communication problems
It's communication problem, when couples fail to communicate properly with each other they are not been able to discuss the problems on ground, rather they keep things for so long and before you know it they pour it out in one day and marital problems begin
#communication is very important in relationships
Communication problems
It depends on the couple and what each one of 'em can tolerate....All of the above can cause marriage failure and it also depends on the couple tolerance.
3 and 5
Infidelity...
It's DECIET.
All of the above exactly in order of importance from the back . Lab. Scientist.
I think it's money problems
Communication.. Nigerians are too hot blooded man.Everything is war.
ALL ARE FACTORS>>>>>>.
All are factors.......
Lack of love
Most rampant: money.
The rest follow in quick suit after communication fails.
all bt money problem most
1. lack of love
2. lack of communication
In Nigeria I say MONEY. As a woman.
1
Communication problems
To me, the number one problem which is EGO is not there in the 5 options you provided.
Most marriages fail simply because of stupid pride and ego (of mostly women)...and this is common with women with strong professions, independent business women, stars (be it actress, singer, athlete etc), they usually see themselves as capable of being independent and could be the "husband" if they choose to...however this is not to nullify the fact that some men possess big egos too, but for the purpose of this topic...I'll pick EGO above all the options you gave.
Cheers
Infidelity on the man's part mostly. The other issues come after this.
Sex is totally excluded....cos if u don't want sex don't marry
Firstly, I would like to say "one man's food is another man's Poison". Why ? Because different folks different strokes.
Marital problems differ. But these problems stem out from issues that lead to eventual displeasure in relationships. There are instances based on spousal behaviour (which is something that can change during marriage but never detected during courtship/dating ), or infidelity (from either side) or lack of mutual respect or communication gap or love, because some people marry for the wrong reasons ( sex, fame, money, etc..) or ego or pride but above all. May God grant us our own partners
I think in Nigeria, its poverty or Lack of money
All of d Above!!!.....and not putting God 1st!!
Money is number one.
Infidelity
Because most people get married because of what society is saying...'Oh,Aunty u don old o,go and marry' so they find one guy and 'manage him' with no genuine love whatsoever.
1)God isn't their foundation (they don't have d fear of God) 2) They do not understand each other
Money money money...sex and love is secondary
its definitely communication problems. Most people go into marriage hoping its going to be a bed of roses. They get married to anyone they come across just to answer the title 'Married Man or Woman'. What they fail to realize is that Getting married is the easy part, Staying married is the hard part.
Lack of love
All of the above
In Nigeria, I think is Money that is leading;POVERTY
2
5. lack of communication between couples
i think it is infidelity
All of the above nd also lack of TRUST
Lack of understanding of what marrige is all about before getting into the marriage because marriages of now adays in nigeria is just all about #RUSH# RUSH#...either because their mates are getting married, they also want to, or because of age is nolonger on their side without getting the understanding of what they getting their self into and what marriage really is all about.
All of the above
Communication problem
Sex problems and infidelity,Poor sex life leads to infidelity.
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Maybe some myt said is money problems,but is not...just lack of love, cos wit love u wil get evrytin in marriages
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Money leads to infidelity, infidelity leads to lack of love, lack of love leads to sex problem, sex problem leads to lack of communication.
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Sex problems!
communication!
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No,dere can b anything number one reason marriage fail, pple are different, different ideas,views,likes,dislikes,attitudes, what may be mr A problem isn't mr B problem. So no number 1 reason marriage fails Linda ikeji
Na money matter ooo, who say money no be problem?
COMMUNICATION NORNI
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its the silliest thing but lack of COMMUNICATION is the main reason why marriages fail in NIgeria today. just taking out time to hear each other out. hmmmmn so sad
Of these enlisted problems, money is d least problem. I think d major problem is communication.
Where there is no time btw couples to share thoughts and rub minds together, there's bound to b problems......my thot
money issues
Communication... Its looks insignificant but people bottle up alot of things that one day they just burst open and every thing crashes
Lack of love
Lack of love -If there's thru love, infidelity won't cum in, money (d understanding dat there is good times & bad times will be understood),Sex will be something u look forward to,when there is love, there is no communication problem
all of the above. they are all critical issues in a marriage. no 1 pass dey other.
money palava
All of the above
ALL OF THE ABOVE
Lack of understanding.
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ALL OF THE ABOVE
all of d above.....
Na everything!!"
From money
To sex
Lack of communication
Infidelity
If u are a man...if u like make u tumble for bed....do takwando for bed sef... If u are lazy and u don't have.money....just stay were u are with ur sex skills....no be sex go put food for my table or money wen I go use buy designers and other things
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Linda! Linda!! Linda!!!
I wil emphatically tell u dis...
All ur options 1-5 r completely out of it.
D major caused is certainly not accepting each other for who they r.
If u truly accept ur partner for who he or she is, u wil found out dat none of ur options r d major cause of marriage failure in Nigeria.
I stand to b corrected pls.
Money is the number one problem of failed marriages in Nigeria. Reason is simply because if a man doesn't have money the woman will always compare and complain. If a man has money money such man doesn't have much time to spend at home then the woman will start complaining that he doesn't have time for her then she sleeps with cook, security or old male friends.
Poor communication is the number one reason why marriages fail not only in nigeria. Couples now prefer their phones to their spouses and when they try to talk the manner of approach is zero. money is another reason
Money problem and lack of communication
All of the above
Communication Problem, Bks if u communicate well I dnt tink U will hav moni prob,sex ish nd infidelity ish,or Trust ish... so learn hw 2 communicate wit ur partner 4 berra nd long lasting Union.....
Am not married but my view has always been: once a relationship on its own lacks communication, its heading for a breakup. Aside this the words RELATIONSHIP AND LOVE in our world of today are also known as the material(Money,cars,Houses) These are termed as security for most. A friend once said, marriage should be treated just like a proposal to a company, what you promise is what you should give.
I think communication contributes to it.
All of d above
Lack of love
And communication problem
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My view...Finances or Communication
I'd say respect. When you lose respect for each others values then it's gone.
My view...Finances or Communication
All of the above
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Lack of love n communication problem
If u ask me,i'll say it's infidelity and sex problems
2. Infidelity.
Well on the other hand,lack of communication
Lack of love and communication problem
Most often the couples aren't ready for marriage itself
Communication problem.
Lack of love
#Infidelity
Lazy husband...
#Infidelity
it differs linda
Honestly, I'd say Communication. If we look carefully into this, we'd see that most of the other problems revolve around the lack of communication. Take a man or woman for example having a problem with the partner in the area of money, infidelity, lack of love or even Sex problem. If only the two party would sit to resolve these calmly, then we won't be having failed marriages.
I can tell you that all these factors put together are responsible for 90% of failed marriages in nigeria. in some cases it could be one or two of these factors and in some cases it could be all of them combined with witches and wizards.
i think lack of communication is the major factor, yes we talk to each other but do we communicate, one says something, the other is saying a thing, sometimes both are even saying the same thing, but failing to hear each other out constitutes major loopholes thus giving room for the remaining factors.
na money
Lack of understanding and trust
I tink its mostly infidelity, nigerian men are too promiscuous
Truth be told....Is a YES + pretence, dirty husband /wife, wen a wife can't cook jack n lots more
#5 what about domestic violence? Oh well thts a norm in 9ja homes minus my home though
Linda 5,3,1 and 2.
Communication problems
Linda,
Another major cause is having "High and unrealistic expectations in d marriage" and comparing ur marriage to another person own.
These r d major cause of marriage break down in Nigeria;
1. Not truly accepting d "WHO" which is d personality, character and attitude of d other person.
2. High and unrealistic expectations in d marriage.
3. COMPARISM of ur marriage to another marriage. Dis is deadly and a big blow to instant killing of marriages in Nigeria.
For those of us in marriage we can confirm all dis points above.
MONEY
Lack of love!
'Communication problems' is not exactly a problem. its more like a symptom or result. If you never really had a good relationship with someone or had other money or sex or lack of respect problems then communication will breakdown and dissipate in All cases.
All of the above.
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I think is money cus a hungry man is an angry man,lack of money can bring about frustration in marriages especially when family responsibilities arnt solved.
Visit deborachidume.blogspot.com
Communication problem of course.
All of the above but mostly lack of love nd communication
communication problem...
Now adays, the social media and our sophisticated smart phones has make things worse. People (both men and women) tends to express their feelings and state-of-mind via social media...
Nothing kills relationship more than that, all other factors follows...
MrOceanic
There is no way of pin pointing it to just one problem but it is a combination of 2,3,5. Mainly because in our society many people rush into marriage just because they are ready to settle down not because they have found a right partner, which sometimes works out and sometimes doesn't. But then again, if couples communicated better maybe they could just boycott 2 and 3 and make their relationship better.
1,2,3,4 and especially 5.
Abuse (both physical and emotional) , infidelity and lack of communication, lack of love and sex sometimes. Men esp Igbos believe u don't have control over them as a. woman. They don't owe u any explanation for their actions (most times). They hide under tradition just like islams hide under religion(child bride) to torture and intimidate women. Etc. I'm a victim...will do my best and leave the rest to God
Infidelity.every other problems sets in when infidelity occurs in a marriage.
Infidelity.every other problems sets in when infidelity occurs in a marriage.
Infidelity.every other problems sets in when infidelity occurs in a marriage.
1 2 3 4 is the problem gbam! Nigerians wake-up my people lives matter. PDP party and corruption insecurity darkness no electricity bad government must go. vote for #change# vote Buhari and Osinbajo. For president next month 14th!
all of the above Sis Linda
We may not know if its all of the abive hut the truth is marriage fail for many reasons one can only hooe and pray!!! JC
1, 4, & 5 that's the reasons...If u can manage these your marriage will work.
My parents are good example
#LIB Department#
Infidelity na
Foundation problem. Every other thing mentioned changes with time. If good today could get bad tomorrow and the reverse is true, and so marriage that relies on such things would change as those things changes. But, foundation is the only thing that can be laid ONCE. If wrong, forget it would be struggle all the way. If right, then any of the changes to things listed above can be managed - though tough but can be handled. Now the foundation is Jesus Christ the solid rock, because na God first start marriage.
It depends on the people involved in the marriage. It could be anything for any couple, some might even be all, but in all, these issues could still be sorted out if they both want it.
All of the above
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