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Wednesday 17 September 2014

Dear LIB readers: My girlfriend and ex are in business together, should I stop them?

From a male LIB reader
I have dated my present girlfriend for 3 years and I dated my ex girlfriend for about 4 years. They really disliked each other as a matter of fact my ex girlfriend would call my girlfriend to threaten her. But for some reason I kind of calm4ed the situation but for some reason they got along this year and have opened up a business in a spare room in my house, none of them stay with me though.

I know my girlfriend can be so naïve, so I'm not worried about her but my ex girlfriend can be so mischievous sometimes. So far I am acting all cool about the business and them getting along but then again maybe I and my girlfriend are under some spell, just saying.

So far they already have clients for their small business.

I don't know if I should stop them from getting along and from continuing with the business or I should let the relationship die a natural death. I still have feelings for my ex and I know she does for me as well but I don't want her back except as a friend.

Do you think I should stop their business? Or rather stop the business in my house? Or try to break them up?

162 comments:

Unknown said...

you have to stop the business in my house,i think its better

Unknown said...

Stop d business biko, even outside ur. House! What sort of association is that! Ur ex na witch!

ary said...

let the business be! If it is good why break up a good thing?! Let is run its course.

Unknown said...

I think you should stop the business in ur house, get a place for them else where
Try and educate your girlfriend on the kind of person your Ex is
And lastly monitor your babe
No need to break them up, Ur ex might be over you sef nd its all in for the business

But how them take they close?? Sebi them they cuss their self out befre
Women! We such an interesting being

Anonymous said...

Stop d bizness in ur house but caution your girlfriend and u keep away frm ur Ex cause she is past d future and present is Wat matters.

Anonymous said...

You Better Stop Them Guy B4 They Sell Your House Over Your Head Making You Think They Are Doing Bizness ooo. (Linda"s Man)

Bonita Bislam said...

You don't need advice.The answer is already in your heart.How do you intend to kill a mutual likeness by staying close with the person? You'd better stay as far away from your ex as possible.Damn the business

Alloy Chikezie said...

My guy you better let them move the business away from your house because it will create an avenue for you to always be close to ur ex and always come in contact with her and that's dangerous.


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ChincoBee said...

Lol you still have feelings for her but u don't want her back?yimu.....its just that ur present gf will be the one to suffer it at d end of the day .If you really wanna remain with your present girlfriend, think they should stop the business cos u never can tell....I wonder why they are doing business together in the first place...And you know your Ex so well and her being mischievous is another issue you have to deal with at d expense of your present girlfriend

Anonymous said...

Try as much as possible to avoid being close to ur ex nd let dem cont wit their frndshp,u neva can tell if ur ex has changed.just b careful

Anonymous said...

The business can continue but not in your house, since your ex is mischievous, she has found her way to your house even with your girlfriend permission the next step might be to your heart.

FIZZICHILLIO said...

My brother let me tell you what will possibly happen..

In the near future your ex will corrupt your gf's mind (since you say she's naive) and will turn her against you by any means possible. Your gf will truly turn against you because she doesn't think its worthy to ask you about any of the allegations. Your ex wil come to your house and seduce you and whyl this is happening your gf will walk in and stab you. All this would be worse if you are extremely rich as a young man.

Use your tongue to count your teeth.

#Fizz

Anonymous said...

tell your girlfriend to be very careful and prayerful. Women can do anything when it comes to matters of the heart

Unknown said...

Stop wot my friend go and sleep jor .

Unknown said...

Dis ur story get as e beoh! Start business together as in wat? Why? Abeg no give me headache dis. Morning. Very dry story

Anonymous said...

Senseless story

Anonymous said...

my guy,ask Google

Anonymous said...

Dude don't be silly.

Anonymous said...

Stop the business in ur house let them go to another place n u v to be careful of d ladies too. Shine ur eyes o

Livvsreamblog said...

One day you will just wake up and open your eye in hospital

Blackberry said...

Y wud u hav feelings for an EX? What made u break up in d first place has been forgotten? U shuda made up wit d ex than having feelings for her after dumping her.

Unknown said...

This story makes me feel sick...guy please get married and stop dating for three years and four years

Anonymous said...

U re a confused fellow. The kind of mess pple create for themselves. When this fire u hv ignited begins to burn with high intensity, u will begin to complain. I think u re old enough to know what is right or wrong. Listen to your conscience dude, I believe its whispering to you right now. Be courageous and do the right thing.

Anonymous said...

Have a threesome with both of them and break up the relationship.

Funso Samuel said...

You still have feelings for your ex and you still want her coming around to your place in the name of doing business with your gf.What if she come around whenbyour gf isnt around and remember that body no be firewood.
Bro,you know the right thing to do,stop the business fast.

Anonymous said...

stop them!!!!!

Unknown said...

In one sentence fool...#marry one...mr jailer be keepin them for year.

Anonymous said...

hahaha...if u ve been cheating on ur current girlfriend then she has teamed up with ur ex to teach u a lil lesson. Its payback time bobo...hehehehehe

Anonymous said...

Allow them to do their business. Take ur feeling off from ur ex and be a mature man for once. By dobis112@gmail.com

Unknown said...

Dats ur business guy

chisom valentinho said...

hmmm..nyc story,but for me i don't care.....will your story make man city win bayern tonight??HELL NO

Anonymous said...

Live them is buissness #bright bravo#

pretty said...

Mumu question!the story looks fake abeg.there is no way ur ex will be friend to her rival,no bi women again?fake story

Unknown said...

You still got feelings for your ex??? hmmm there's a huge chance you guys would make out lol

Anonymous said...

stop dem

#king said...

Abeg bro shut up u have plans..m sure u miss her puna..why will u allow dem to open a bizness wit a room in ur houz..u have plans..Maybe ur head is givin u threesome but bro it cant work..beta stop d bizness.............................#KingOfKings

Unknown said...

Yes please, am very sure dey have sth up deir sleeves, dem dey fight b4, dem cum settle, omo!! dem be AJE??

Unknown said...

Yes please, am very sure dey have sth up deir sleeves, dem dey fight b4, dem cum settle, omo!! dem be AJE??

Unknown said...

Its better you let them be with their business. and ask them to move their biz from your house.

Anonymous said...

what do you mean you still have feelings for your ex girl but you don't want her back?

Lexi said...

Amarom ihe ina ko

Unknown said...

No dnt stop dem join dem...

Anonymous said...

U still ave feelings 4 ex den why did break up with her? nd ur present girl is a big fool cos ur ex has a hidden agenda nd its obvious she still wnts u back so be wise nd do right thing.grace b

Anonymous said...

U are a confused dude. Very soon both of them will sell u off and use d money 4 their business.

BONARIO NNAGS said...

Nawao,this is quite precarious.
I suspect ur ex might still be hidding her fury waiting for when to unleash it. Girls rarely forgive and forget so easily. Your girlfriend should be very careful,you too.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

Anonymous said...

They will soon set your house on fire! Goodluck

Anonymous said...

They will soon set your house on fire! Goodluck

Unknown said...

moron.... there is nothing someone wont read on linda ikeji...a man who is indecisive ..

Unknown said...

you ar on ur own (OYO)

obymac said...

Dats d height of irresponsibility. How can u date two ladies in a space of 7yrs nd no intention of marriage. How can u give dem ur spare room to do business, believe they will sit d office on ur head. Just pay back time.

Anonymous said...

se gobe! u better define what you want and get it. stop their association. is ur ex in a relationship? if NO! then u r truly jazzed!!

if ur gf is naive, she may miss the signs that this will end her happiness. you better correct what must be corrected while it can be corrected!!! I haff tell you sha!

How do u even feel seeing two of them get along in your house? wetin dey worry u sef?? mtchewww... u better advice urself #byebye

obymac said...

Dats d height of irresponsibility. How can u date two ladies in a space of 7yrs nd no intention of marriage. How can u give dem ur spare room to do business, believe me they will sit d office on ur head. Just pay back time.

Unknown said...

I think u don't need to stop their business, u just have to be clear with what u want & who u want.
Even if u have feeling for your EX, just be clear with her make her understand that's u appreciate her friendship & nothing else.


BORN TO SHINE!!!

amoni said...

In ur house or his house? Abi u ppl r sharing house?

Anonymous said...

swithrt,u betta stp d busines in and outside ur huz,

Anonymous said...

Two option, 1: kill urself and let them be!
2: end the relationship between ur girl and ur X.
Oh there's option 3 : srew them all, I mean bang them all, or FUCK Thier two. Finito. Hahahaha. #flipshairandwalkthefuckaway.








Vickpetes.

Anonymous said...

U're not under any spell u're just as confused as d tower of Babylon. U said ur new girlfrnd is naïve wch means ur ex girlfrnd has a dangerous mission and u must beware snce u said she stil loves u. I advise u chase ur ex away and stop d business else she'll destroy ur relationship. Women can be very desperate and volatile wen it comes2luv matters o. Be warned.

Unknown said...

Is like u don't love ur GF to the stage of marry. You are playing with fire while petrol is also closer to u. Use ur brain bro.
⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥ -̶̯͡»̶̥ 

Anonymous said...

What type of business are they doing in your house

Unknown said...

Business is Business, shift the business location far way frm u, and kill dat mutual feelings if u cant accept her back. *lip sealed*

Anonymous said...

I dont biliv dis story @ all, sounds fake self

Damochedxb said...

Dude are u gay? You type like one. Man I wanna punch u in the face for this annoying write up asking foolish questions.

Anonymous said...

Don't be associate with both of them
...wen females who were both enemies become good friends...you are in for the worst shit...if you stop the bizness in your house...they wld continue outside which even strengthens the bond btw dem...leave both girls

Unknown said...

Ur gf is an ODE! Its obvious she has Not learned anything 4rm her stay so far in this world...u too u are associate ode..spoil the stupid friendship or remain a confused being..

Anonymous said...

Drive both of them away! Your ex is a witch and your girlfriend is not smart. Get a new babe.

Anonymous said...

There's fire on the mountain. They might team up and fight against you. You better be careful or rather run for your life.

Unknown said...

Young man! U never ready! No worry urself, ur just having fun, so far they don't set ur house on fire!

Anonymous said...

There's fire on the mountain. They might team up and fight against you. You better be careful or rather run for your life.

miss Sparxz said...

Lmaooo

Anonymous said...

Your profile picture on LIB, is showing part of your pussy. Pls change it. Thanks

Anonymous said...

Come this is a matter of bring ur friends close and ur enemies closer! U better stop that relationship before she turns ur galfriend on you and you'll before Mr former

miss Sparxz said...

Watch your back dude! 7 years, no marriage or even getting engaged...shiooorrrr

Anonymous said...

pls y do dy paste dumb questions on LIB!!don't stop dem...leave DM..mumu grade 1

Anonymous said...

Made up story. Fantasy

Anonymous said...

This question if from a guilty man. It's either u've done sometin with ur X or u're in love again.

Anonymous said...

There are now understanding that they have something in common..#lesbiantings

Justyswt said...

Infact, na u make sense pass. Yeye story. What a story!

Unknown said...

Dont expect to play around fire without sweating - the price of discipline is less costly than the price of ignorance. terminate any relations you have with ur ex directly or indirectly. and sit your girlfriend down and tell her the risk involved - if she's sensitive she will understand.

Anonymous said...

WERE oloko town council.. God haff catsh u

Unknown said...

Be rugged in dis situation..cause ruggedity is intelligent..be smart bro. U know what u want as a man.

Unknown said...

Hahahahahaha. ..lmao. ..I swear your current go is a serious mum o...chai!! In fact her mumurity no get part two...how can she go into business with your ex? Abeg stop the business ASAP

Anonymous said...

Stop the business in my house?

David Iyke said...

This is not a comfortable situation at all at all. if they unite ehh, bross you will be in a soup!
Scatter that union before it will scatter your relationship.

young conscience said...

In my opinion, ya'll should have a badass threesome and then kick both of them out for cheating on you cuz I'm sure its not all business, they are fucking each other, damn lesbos!!!!

Anonymous said...

they both are up to something that only you can figure out

Unknown said...

Stupid question,fake annoying story!

Mz CIA said...

Man u r already dead. Bt come to tink of itur gf n ur ex doin biz together in ur ause. Wat sort of biz ȋ̝̊̅§ dat n y did dey choose ur ause? Still confused abt dat. Moreover u r d kind of men dat breaks ladies heart if nt, y would u say u r still in luv wt ur ex bt u dnt want her bk. Guys do u fink ladies r dumb? U dated her for 4 yrs. Woo I dnt v any advise fr u dan to leave both of dem n get a nu gf cos if nt u r already a dead man

iris said...

There association is bad, am wondering what will make me have a joint business with my bf ex when she is not married.

Guy you are so not man enough! Pls what advice are you seeking for?

ninnie said...

y'all are confused. y not snd dem away 4rm ur house n ur life. n start ur life afresh. n ow did u date 2 girls 4 7yrs? r u sure ur responsible?

Anonymous said...

I smell danger......pls try ur best n stop dem cos one of dem z up 2 smtin either 2 teach u lesson or liv u untold....

Chinor2gud@gmail.com

lgho 24e9088e said...

I jus pity your present gurlfrd cos she ain't smart at all cos she will b d one 2 lose...

Unknown said...

Heheheheeeee, I dey smell wahala o.

www.lifeasvira.blogspot.com said...

why is the business in your house? if yu are not comfortable, pls stop it.

Berryblast said...

Guy ur ex is a schemer, she is still trying to get close to u in order to come back to d relationship, dat biz with ur babe is just an avenue she no like ur babe. Ur babe na heavy mukala, (mumu). Dude use ur head n not ur down below. I nor know who even dull pass btw u n ur babe sef. Pursue ur ex like thief commot from ur house sharp sharp.

Anonymous said...

@ Pretty, It's possible! Something is bringing them together! Am friends with my husbands ex... although we ain't so close!

Neematdiary said...

settling the issues between them will definitely bring them together, but as for the business, it should just be monitored by you if its a good business. my question is, do you love your present gf? if yes, why still keep feelings for your ex? please,make sure you don't stay alone with your ex to avoid any sin.

Anonymous said...

You have answer to your question.

GALORE said...

your girlfriend and your ex don dey pass forbidden fruit behind you....dey dere make pant dey wear u

ur mind no even tell u weda dem be "bedmate" u dey here dey worry about yeye buz


@Galore

Chy 🌹 said...

Ur girlfriend deserves to be flogged I swear..she's a big MUMU

GALORE said...

3som await u brother Dundee United


@Galore

Anonymous said...

Who is ds mumu poster? Grow a pair already!

GALORE said...

your girlfriend and your ex don dey pass forbidden fruit behind you....dey dere make pant dey wear u

ur mind no even tell u weda dem be "bedmate" u dey here dey worry about yeye buz


@Galore

Anonymous said...

My dear brother, ur ex ain't thru with u. She's up to something. One day when ur girl is not home, she will seduce u & sleep with u and come weeks later to say she is pregnant. Although this depends on how u broke up wt her. If she still wanted u after u started dating ur new girl then bros, she still wants u. Again, u both still have feelings for each other. I say this bcos u said ur ex is 'smart'. Be wise! Let d business continue outside ur house. I hope she doesn't clear all d money one day and ask ur girl to go to heĺl. It might just be pay back time 4 u two. Stay away from her pls.

Unknown said...

Nah gobe be dis ooo

Anonymous said...

Hahahahaha,naau urr ansa beta pass abeg hahahahaha...hummmmm just passing o jare..

Anonymous said...

hmmmm...some times,storiees here a funny,like two of yr galfriends,one ex and present,forming a business,under your nose,in your house,you still have feelings for your ex and she does too...i just dont get it!

Ada said...

I think you should stop the business in your house, let them continue it somewhere else? And how in God's name did they ever get close? Hmmmm I smell a rat" you better watch ur own back

Anonymous said...

Bros you sef, how can u date one girl for 4 years and then another for 3 years and u don't want to marry any of them. For u to have ur own house that means you have money... hmmm repent oooo

Anonymous said...

Guy you be mumu nothing less than that.

Anonymous said...

Guy u be mumu, nothing less than that.

Unknown said...

LMAO, dude u're still f**kin your ex cos i see no reason why she should still be visiting u and even your present gf allowed it,your new gf is really naive and your ex na witch.STOP THE BUSINESS ABEG,what kind of friendship is that

Anonymous said...

simply put u must be really as naive as ur gf. arghhhhhhhhhhhh

Unknown said...

U still like ur ex........ u cant be in d same building with her....... Ur ex has a plan nd ur gf is dull

Anonymous said...

A business together, you still have feelings, contemplating if to stop the association: guy u are not confused, is just your mind creating an atmosphere for a threesome! shiiiit!

barflow said...

Y'all just popping s##t outta yo mouths.. And who told y'all that all ex's are evil? do you know why they broke up? do you know if the new girl broke the relationship or the guy was just not man enough? Any way guy, I really don't see why your ex and your girl should do business in your house. let them take it away

Olubukola Ozone said...

Even if u can't stop thr friendship, stop them from using your house as thr business centre. Thats if u want to avoid trouble

Olubukola Ozone said...

Even if u can't stop thr friendship, stop them from using your house as thr business centre. Thats if u want to avoid trouble

APPLE said...

STOP THEM ASAP!

Anonymous said...

If your story is true, then you are digging your grave slowly. You had better wake and chase the two of them MUMU.......

Unknown said...

You can't make anyone stop loving another person. It's time you stood on your own two feet. You have become an enabler! Sit her down and tell her you've had enough and it's either him or you. Don't take this anymore. If she doesn't come around break off with her. Sometimes this is a big enough jolt that she will really see how much she does love you. If she doesn't come back then consider yourself fortunate and move on. What she is doing is hurting you and she's being extremely selfish because she had no business getting mixed up with someone else before she went through the grief of losing a lost love. The odd thing about it is 8 times out of 10 if the girl could go back to her lost love things wouldn't be the same and she'd wonder why she wasted all that time being miserable. You've simply let her get away with it. Be strong!

Unknown said...

You can't make anyone stop loving another person. It's time you stood on your own two feet. You have become an enabler! Sit her down and tell her you've had enough and it's either him or you. Don't take this anymore. If she doesn't come around break off with her. Sometimes this is a big enough jolt that she will really see how much she does love you. If she doesn't come back then consider yourself fortunate and move on. What she is doing is hurting you and she's being extremely selfish because she had no business getting mixed up with someone else before she went through the grief of losing a lost love. The odd thing about it is 8 times out of 10 if the girl could go back to her lost love things wouldn't be the same and she'd wonder why she wasted all that time being miserable. You've simply let her get away with it. Be strong!

Anonymous said...

What kind of sick story is this? Linda biko, think of what you post here joor...

Anonymous said...

U better stop dem one debe can always dede ehisarthur@yahoo.com

Debbie Chelsea said...

Poster d handwritin is written on d wall.....

Anonymous said...

Yea yur wrong when u said ur gf can be so naive...it's very,she is a very naive soul,...she'll lose u bro cos no way you getting 2 wifey..dnt try it.u gon sleep with ur ex in a few days,embrace ur self bro.and buy condom keep.play safe she must have had sex with other guys<----this should b ur worries n advice.play safe...meanwhile you can let ur naive babe know she needs to seek more advice from her mom or other friends if she like o 👍👍

Anonymous said...

Hhehehehehehe! U aint serious atals @ Valentino

Chris said...

Before i advise, please tell me what kind of business is that?
I might be interested in doing it in my house too.

Anonymous said...

What rubbish z ds even?????U'r as confused as ds story of ur life!

Chy 🌹 said...

I think ur gf needs to be flogged

KAYCEE said...

Ehehehehehehe wilhemina abeg oooo.....ur comments dey make me laff eh

mary said...

i think you should stop the business in your house or better the association, i have this feeling that your ex may be on a mission, her friendship with ur GF may be a way of getting close to you, if your are no longer into her, then don't have her around your house, something is fishy there

Anonymous said...

Perfect talk bro!!

Anonymous said...

pretty e be like say you,never sbi who women be, when them remember you eh...

Anonymous said...

Guy u have to stop what ever buzi they are doing in ur house....don't think is a good idea..and ur gf has to be careful really careful..

Anonymous said...

Stop d business. Cos 2 rivals can never be friends ur ex is definitely up to something. And ur girlfriend must be stupid to have allowed such closeness. Habba!!!

Anonymous said...

Ur ex na witch. Ur GF na block head. and U na foolish fool.

Anonymous said...

STOP IT NOWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!

kelcris said...

I wonder wah sort of biz it is, pls in God's name ur ex might be up to Mischief. Stop dem both and warn ur gulr too. Pls biko

Anonymous said...

your ex will cheat your current gf...how naïve can she be? I think she will deal with your current gf...I don't trust her..and stop them from doing the business at your house..nawa oh u too...let them get somewhere else for their business

chukss okafor said...

I think u shud explain to us,wat sort of business is dat?



#skaler#

beulah said...

end d relationship n d buss btw them pls. Talkng from experience o.

Jane said...

Mumu story form mumu dude about two mumu girls.#wasteofMB#

Anonymous said...

since u stil hav feelings for ur ex, make ur present gal stop d business wit ur ex. its safer.

DANCE QUEEN said...

One word - Threesome!

Anonymous said...

My Guy. Run for your life.

NaNcY DreW said...

Y complain wen u av a potential main chick and side chick served 2 u as manna 4rm above,2 wives most guys ll jump @ it.
Nuffin scares a guy more dan an ex g/fd and a g/fd relating 2geda esp after all d rift dey must av had. Dey re planning a coup nii

MISS UNDERSTOOD said...

All this LIBers and their story for the gods.
Guy you never talk wetin you dey find yet. You wan chop okro and ogbono soup together, you're the reason why GEJ is confused.

Anonymous said...

hmmn.. Dis one big ooo. Yap, d ball is in yr court

Anonymous said...

Why is he even asking...

Anonymous said...

you are a legend

Anonymous said...

oga anyi jee nua nwanyi...ds women don set trap for u o! Na battle u dey but u no know!DivaliciousJ

Moonshine said...

You're just a weakling and your present gf is really Dumb! What kinda stupid biz Is she doing wiv a woman dat dated her bf 4 4yrs? And y would you be allowing that happen in your house? Ya'll are jokers!

Anonymous said...

Boy friend u better stop d business and make choice of who u really want becos d we use u and dump u. Wise up man

NaNcY DreW said...

Lmao just checked so ranchy

Iamolakuseyin said...

Lol! She is so isn't through with u man... communication is key here, you have to talk to you g.frnd n let her understand if she wants to continue with the business but has to be professional n official in her dealings with her. It's a tough call

Anonymous said...

Thank You For Adding Me Into Ya Confusion List#GiftedDiva#281d27a4

Chyluv! said...

Ppl jst come n give fake stories on LIB, n u guys be forming advisers! Pls do watever u like. It's no1s BIZ! I still hv feelings 4 my ex, fowl!

Anonymous said...

Loooool, myfrend cut off all exes, they are bad news, my hubby's ex came into d country, kept calln me and trying to befriend me, she was so nice and sweet on phone, begging me to come & visit her (knowing fully well that my hubby would bring me) we drove 4 hrs to houston and 4 hours to come back. U won't believe this expired old cargo hag, cornered my husband and made him pay for clothes she was buying in a shop for her 3 kids, cos she left d house and made us meet her in a shop. When we got home & I stood up to take a call, she quickly begged my husband for more money, he eventually gave her. In d begging process she even accused me of not letting my husband give her money, that bitch Ada definitely has more horrible things coming her way

Anonymous said...

R I P dude

Anonymous said...

1000 likes!

Anonymous said...

I hope they read LIB. If yes, you will definitely lose your girlfriend for admitting you still got a thing for your ex. Eventually, they will move their business elsewhere (probably end the business even), your problem will be solved άήδ LIBers won't have to deal with more stories that touch from you.

@single&cute said...

hahahahahah i can't stop laughing here sipping my fav Hennessy...ARE YOU A LEARNER??? they are in biz together? u re been used already...hahahahha guy forget....u re the new EX...

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