OAP @Mayourspeaks took to Twitter some hours ago to kind of blame rape on the way some women dress, saying to prevent it, women have to do their own parts by dressing modestly. Really? His comments have been slammed by some of his followers on Twitter. Read them after the cut and tell us what you think...
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Nothing can ever justify RAPE! NOTHING
She's right and wrong!
Nice one linda
Hmmmm
Nudity is not a value,but RAPE ISN'T JUSTIFIABLE. MEN ARE NOT DOGS,that HAVE NO SELF CONTROL!
I won't be surprised if the Dad rapes the mum every night with them watching. Fool!
You are addressed by the way you are dressed..if u are naked it gives dem no right to rape u? see MUMH..u for come outside naked nw.. even my friend's dog will rape u
Excuse me!
There is no excuse for d act of rape irrespective of how decent or whtever d lady dress.
Biko those dat commits dis act r mostly those dat can not control wht is in btw their legs even if d woman is dressed lik Rev Sister's d rapist wil still do worse.
Enough already biko
I can't read all Biko! Next!!!
I see nothing wrong with what she is saying, she is making sense here. Why walk around half naked and expect not to be raped probably by a rapist who is high on some rum or sumting and has lost his sense of reasoning. Prevention should be de priority to avoid "Had I known"
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So because there re arm robbers, am not gonna wear my rolex watch so they don't steal it. Cos if rapists am not gonna wear my mini skirt. No excuse to commit a crime.(full final stop!)
Nice one.
One of yoruba bitch with a working brain why other bitches have sold there brain for penis.
I support this how can u dress like kadarshians working around an tell me you don't wanna be rape u are a joke.
It is ladies that are calling for there rape at times the truth have to be spoken out.
How can u dress like amber rose an be saying ur butt without pant an ur butt will be saying come am available come come come an the guy around u dick will be hard as terrorist buharis face an u tell me u don't no wat cause it u are a liar as liar mohammed,better change the way de dress.
Yoruba bitch i know u guys are reading this better repent.
#sad indeed
Nice one.
One of yoruba bitch with a working brain why other bitches have sold there brain for penis.
I support this how can u dress like kadarshians working around an tell me you don't wanna be rape u are a joke.
It is ladies that are calling for there rape at times the truth have to be spoken out.
How can u dress like amber rose an be saying ur butt without pant an ur butt will be saying come am available come come come an the guy around u dick will be hard as terrorist buharis face an u tell me u don't no wat cause it u are a liar as liar mohammed,better change the way de dress.
Yoruba bitch i know u guys are reading this better repent.
#sad indeed
Why wear this around? You are sexually harassing men and you still don't want them to abuse you? You have got to dress the way you wish to be addressed.
D gals wil attack d guy coz Dia is truth in wat hez sayin.
D females, dia fashion is neva complete unless dy bring out dose saggy,stretch-mark like thunder boobs of diaz..
Shame indeed
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Ok. Advice the ladies on modesty, why not advice your sons on controlling Konji. Self control. What about lil kids who are totally covered in cold countries cause of the cold, but they are raped by adults. This man is just a sexist. At this his age in life, nothing can change his way of reasoning. Nonsense . A rapists already has the urge and abilities from what he has seen on TV or online. He only sees a prey that he feels he can overpower
This Guy is absolutely right. some ladies should learn to dress properly in the society. Stop going about half naked.
His twits are on point. There is absolutely nothing wrong with them. She who brings home an ant infested wood has invited lizards to a feast. Period!
He has a good message. The approach is wrong.
A rapist is a rapist and a criminal that will commit that crime rape. Taken.
Just like a thief, who will steal.
The point is do you leave your things where it can be stolen.
Ladies try to shy away from their own responsibility of being protected. It is not an excuse to rape someone whether she is naked or not, but do you want to make yourself vulnerable.
NO..Rapists are criminal. Leave them no chance at at all.
We should all preach against RAPE and shout it out loud.
Hmmmmmm..... Self control is d key for men..... D fact I am naked doesn't mean you should rape me..... If reverse is d case how many MAD NAKED WOMEN have u fcukd????? Abi u no dey see Dem????
The guy said the truth.in as much you kept your money from being stolen so you should keep your ass too from being touched.
Dis is not an excuse in as much as women are advised to dress decently..... Sombori is naked...ehhh...wetin concern you.... Must u have an erection?? How many times do u have an erection wen u see a mad naked woman??? Mrchw
I am in total support of his tweet. You sit in a quiet corner and having a good conversation and she tells ladies are moved by what they hear and feel, and men are moved by what they see. You know this, and yet you expose yourself to some willing predator out there. Like he tweets, let us cultivate the habit of prevention.
Busy Fingers.
Better dress the way you want to be addressed.
I completely understand where he's coming from on the topic at hand. Ladies do all you can to avoid it, even though most times its even people you trust that takes advantage. Rape never makes sense to me, if she says no, you move on. My view though.
No mind them,me wey de dress like deeper live pikin who Don rape me?jumbo
You got Yourself a ONE supporter
the fact is, if you dress like this and maybe walk along admiralty way at night, guess who will approach you. make una dey dress well, it's so unfortunate that youths of these days feels nothing is wrong with many immoral things, i wonder how the next generation will fare. only God can help
He made some sense sha, but then, a man should learn to control himself and not give silly excuse for not being able to control himself.
Maybe his just trying to justify the same heinous act his done before..who knows #face of a rapist# stupid big mouth
i understand what they are arguing, but does it mean if you see a naked woman on the road,you go and rape her
Don't be silly Linda. He makes perfect sense. A rapist is a criminal. That is not in doubt. You ladies should stop putting yourselves in vulnerable situations that makes such outcomes likely. Why visit a man half clad, or go to parties where booze, drugs and shady characters abound and expect a different outcome. While a rapist will get his just desert, the damage is done.
I guess he can rape too if he sees a girl scantily dressed. It's nt all about dressing for some men oo. Having a vagina is enuf for some. Looking Sexy or not!
Dats his opinion, so he's entitled to it!
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The Guy said the truth. The truth is that no one wants to accept this as the truth. Most women who will come here to castigate this guy will dress up and cover-up decently but will advise other ladies to walk naked. "If your body is precious to you, PROTECT IT". Rape is a crime so also Seduction should be made a Crime.
aw can a lady wear dis around and xpect NT to be raped...?
Everyone entitled to their opinion
Lol
Every mallam with im kettle. Linda take note!
In our grand n great parents time, our mothers walked around with a piece of cloth to cover the frontal area. They were not raped. How a lady dresses is NEVER an excuse to rape her. It doesn't hold water in law court.
Tymless Vee
A good number of Nigerian women were raped as children. How do you explain this?
Weaklings
Wow this guy is a rapist, so you have sex with every girl that sleeps in your house? What if she's your gf BUT NOT READY FOR SEX? will you force her and not respect her wish??? Karma will surely catch up with you cus it's obvious u have raped women.
In those extreme cases, we'l deal with it as such.
If you are honest, when a girl is half naked and exposes her self to shady situations, and gets raped. You are not usually so sympathetic with her because a part of your mind asks "why did she wear this at soso time/place?" Or "why did she do that?"
We are being defensive unnecessarily. Some women will say even if he's about to penetrate and you say no , he should stop. Definitely,in the ideal world, and with the perfectly responsible guy, nothing will happen. But is our world ideal? Is every guy responsible? Ask yourself that question and you'l know what to do. In a world where children get raped, just protect yourself. It's just about protecting yourself and not putting yourself in the wrong situation. Even though sometimes rape is not about being provocatively dressed...but most times its because of that...so at all times, just protect yourself the best way you can.
So why not protect yourself against those that can not control themselves
They might have been raped but they would not see it as such. Such was the power of men in those days. It's not like our world is so bad...its just that media and human rights have made previously normal stuff seem abominable....one thing our generation should thank God for at least.
Inasmuch as the Mayour guy is an idiot,i have to agree with him o. It's like saying I wanna hold diamonds in a very rough area,or carrying dollars in a bag while shouting,"I am with a million dollars", without expecting to get robbed. Rape is a disgusting thing,yes! I know. But, in order to be on the safe side,just dress a little bit more decent dearies. XOXO
You are perfectly right
Like that Adam guy that had sexual interactions with a 15 year old...in the olden days, by that age a woman might have dropped one or 2 kids. We are all calling him a pedophile (with good reason), but half a century ago, what he did was very normal. Kylie had a bf at 17, and we all called tyga a pedophile.. even here in nigeria, northern kids even marry at younger ages so..
As in eh. Don't mind @Mayoursepeaks and Valentine Egbuna.
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Mumu, there has been rapists lurking around decades ago , even when your mother clothed her body completely. Pls do not wear aN expensive wristwatch since u do not want armed robbers to steal it from you. Practice self control and teach your sons to do same
As in eh
Thank you. ..no matter what girls wear some men will rape if they want to
But shouldn't relate to rape
But men can stare at full covered women and imagine everything in their body though..especially girls with big bum that are fully covered...is it their fault that they are sexy and still get raped?
they will never listen that is truth
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What is different with what she is wearing and a guy wearing tank top on a short. How come women don't go around raping men for indicent exposure. Even if you are tying two rappers with a jihab, a guy who does not have conscience and control would always find a reason to rape. It is all about self control..
What is different with what she is wearing and a guy wearing tank top on a short. How come women don't go around raping men for indicent exposure. Even if you are tying two rappers with a jihab, a guy who does not have conscience and control would always find a reason to rape. It is all about self control..
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He is ryt in some way...
Love your point. Please ladies do what's right besides, we are African, why do we need to follow the negative side of the western world, be proud of whom you are and if you are doing it for the men, such men don't worth it please!!!! Mkat
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I think someone needs to sponsor a bill on indecent dressing and behavior In public place.
There are still some monsters raping well dressed ladies. So it's Not all about the dressing.
I guess every man should rape a mad woman always now, since deyre always naked. Brainless pple trying to find attention. Thunder fire all rapist.
People have proposed in their hearts to see everything wrong with what the person has said, although he makes a lot of sense (he might have been a bit harsh with some of his words and the example cited). He isn't justifying rape or the action of rapists. He is saying that ladies should do what they can to protect themselves because a rapist will have a higher tendency to go for a more unclad lady than one that is well dressed.
People saying he is a sexist should look deep down, cos they're probably the sexist.
Let's be objective. NOBODY IS JUSTIFYING THE ACTION OF RAPISTS...FAR FROM IT.
I blame him? TBH he made just a few points, the rest= truck load of crap! Nothing actually justifies rape, NOTHING!!!
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I'm going to tweeter to slam this idiot. How dare u say most of the people who get raped are willing preys? U must be a stupendous ignoramus for saying that. How about minors who get raped on daily basis? Have u been to court to listen to rape matters? All this idiotic oaps think they have an opinion with their empty coconut head! Talking about spending a night in a guy's house and getting raped is justified.. Ure a bastard son. So people cannot be involved in relationships without premarital sex? Thunder fire u there ewu can coke. Ure the type of person il like to handle in court. Anuofia.
I'm going to tweeter to slam this idiot. How dare u say most of the people who get raped are willing preys? U must be a stupendous ignoramus for saying that. How about minors who get raped on daily basis? Have u been to court to listen to rape matters? All this idiotic oaps think they have an opinion with their empty coconut head! Talking about spending a night in a guy's house and getting raped is justified.. Ure a bastard son. So people cannot be involved in relationships without premarital sex? Thunder fire u there ewu can coke. Ure the type of person il like to handle in court. Anuofia.
I agree. But some women do their own part to encourage it.
Stealing is ungodly to the extent that many are mostly savaged by pple wen caught in the act. Leave your door and gate open 24hrs and to add more go and park to rest or receive fresh air on 3rd mainland from 11:pm upward and claim no need for prevention. I have heard disheartening incidences dat truly grieves my heart, but dat doesn't mean I shouldn't learn from advises. Lady Gaga just revealed that she was raped at the grammys about 10 years ago. Prevention is always the best cure to things in life. Take it with understanding please.
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...d..ck will be hard like terrorist Buhari face-seriously??????
If you think he is wrong, you are a bloody idiot!!! Will you park your car in a bad neighborhood and expect it not to be stolen? Abeg everyone one has a role to play to stop rape. Na how r u dey bring fine.
You perverted bastard!! Why make this statement under an unknown acronym? Mad man/woman!!! So you think what this car wrote is wrong?
let those whom have ears let them hear.
i'm surprised that a lady made this comment
That's the problem u guys have. Silly fake-ass people who just wouldn't tell themselves the truth. Keep deceiving yourselves
@freeborn zinalima U IBO BOY AND BASTARD OF A THOUSAND FATHERS.. YOUR SISTERS, MOTHERS & YOUR DAUGHTERS (WHEN EVER THEY COME TO LIVE OR IF THEY ARE ALIVE) WILL GET RAPED FULLY CLOTHED..SO THen You and the fool talkin rubbish will realise that, it is not how u dress that determines the action of an animal. I Get u are also a rapist too.
The way our women dress dis days is something else. U see some old matured women with tight trouser showing all their kini n d old men around will find it so difficult to take their eyes off dem not to talk of loose boys around now... dee
The most annoying part of it is that some will expose there expired and sagging breast with stretch mark like tattoos even there laps as horrible as most of the Nigerian Roads.
Everybody talking about rape what about ladies sending nude pic to guys, what can u called that, most ladies dis day prefer rape.
mayourspeak is telling the truth...ladies grow up. everything is preventable war can be prevented, disease, stealing etc..RAPE can be prevented as well...the way you make ur bed that's how you sleep in it...
Ary you must be a bastard too. How dare you? So you support this idiotic OAP? So young girls shouldn't visit their bf cos that alone is a licence to rape.
We should all marry in the deeper life way?no contact with the guy.so I should pack out of my husband's house cos he might just rape me?
Being in same room with a man is no right of rape.imagine his flow of thought.the guy is an animal.women should never have a reason to walk at night cos of rape?
Wat of emergencies?I remember in uniben,I never did awoko outside my room for fear of rape.but what of ladies that cant read in their room?
No matter wat this idiot oap has to say,he is damn offensive and would have been arrested in any sane environment thats my point. Not wat he is saying but the manner in which he is presenting it.
its cos the lawyers in Nigeria are just struggling in other fields and not ready for legal bizness yet.
I have seen cases of male rapes in the clinic. Till robbers rape him in his house,his bran will shift.
You men are passing a message that we should beware of men being animals. Hope you can deal with its effect
But you are extremely foolish. When David saw bethseeba bathing naked and slept with her,God was very angry with him. Foolishness is not an insult. Im only saying get wisdom!!! Pray for it. May your daughter not be raped. Then you will know it's about the 10mins brutality alone but a life long messed up psychology. Mayours comments should have been an advice....like help yourself my sister, there are scavengers everywhere. When I was RAPED, I was wearing a shirt and a long wrap skirt all the way to my ankle, everything was covered and no, I wasn't walking alone at night
That's wisdom right there!!
Since u are naked. He doesn't need to rape you anymore.... He only just psyches u up.. that's all dumb fool
He is human, that's why he will definitely have an erection... like you really don't know how the body works.. even pastor or imam would fall for the trap
How can rape be prevented, if the world keeps promoting sex. The girl who dresses modestly still gets raped. The 5 yrs old that got raped by her 17 yrs neighbour, did not dress immodestly before the rape. She only suffered for the sins of some ladies who think that in other for them to feel good about themselves, they must look seductive, or some entertainment geniuses who think that they would not sell if they don't show naked women on their videos. I don't fully blame the 17 yrs old, neither was he seduced by the 5 yrs old, his mind is only corrupt by what he sees everyday.
It all revolves around modesty, on the screen, outside the screen we should stop making pple think about sex.
1. A woman body is like the river of pleasure, and if exposed create wild pictures. Her curves are created in such an attractive manner, so it is worse for a woman to dress immodestly.
2. A woman is naturally moved by care and words and loves before intimacy, unlike men that get moved with everything they see.
3. Women are physically weaker than men
So a normal woman would not rape a man
No doubt abnormal women can.
she is stupid. people dress the way they want.
Okay i cant believe i am saying this in 2016 but here we go...If a woman does not say i want to do. Dont do her. And if per chance she says she wants to do but changes her mind midway. Dont do her. Its that simple its not rockEt science there are no looploles.
First things first. You are an idiot. Now that that beauhas been taken care of, Let me ask you this what lunatic told you you women are yours for the taking? because you are a horny little boy trapped in the body of a stupid'man' women have to pay for that. News flash idiot...Women own their body.They were born with it its their. i am about to drop somE major knowledge so listen carefully...Are your ready?...Women are human beings not object or property. They desrve love, care, dignity and respect.you are welcome.
I love how sometimes your job fits you personality. Take you for example shoes 'designer' -which am sure is code for 'shoemaker'- you are dirt...Destined to clean and fix women's shoes on your knees where you belong...
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Please before posting comments and insulting the OAP, it would be nice for you to note that he stated he was not encouraging rape in any way but he just thought to educate ladies on how to avoid them. Let us rid ourselves of sentiments when addressing issues. There is no justification for rape, but rape can be reduced drastically if only we would cover ourselves up more.
Oh! And I am a lady!
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