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Thursday, 5 February 2015

Dear LIB readers: My wife is too sexually uptight / rigid

From a male LIB reader
Its unfortunate I have to share my intimate secrets with total strangers on this forum but this bothers me a lot. My wife and I have been married for 4 years but its all the same.
Sexually my wife is too uptight. I have tried all I could to liberalize her mind concerning sex, but to no avail. Here are some issues I have with my wife's sexual inhibition. She does not think a woman should initiate sex and she doesn't.
We have only had sex in the bedroom because she wont get turned on if I try another place. We only do missionary style as she is reluctant to learn new skills and doggy to her is somehow animalistic.
We cant have sex if we are in mine or my parents house. We cant have sex if any of her siblings of mine are around she doesn't want them to hear her moan.
We only have sex on weekends as she get tired after work.
We have never had quickie. like sex after she is fully dressed for occasion.. for where.
I asked her if she had any sexual fantasies she replied NO
She doesn't shave her pubic hair. No sex with lights on
Blow Job? my D can not even touch boobs talk less of her mouth. Neither does she allow me to go down on her
The issue is I am not faithful to her. I have slept with numerous babes after our marriage. I kept using her sexual up-tightness as excuse to cheat. Now I want to change but my wife too must change.
Some advised counseling, others advocate porn to dis-inhibit her mind.
Pls Libers how do I turn my wife to a freak in bed. I have discussed with her many times with promise to change but still the same.

295 comments:

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AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

Then u are married to a man!

Unknown said...

Accept her the way she is

Kukere said...

U know shes like that before u marry her! Stop being a male slut and just go with the flow! Its NOT all about sex!

Unknown said...

Hehehehehe was d marriage arranged, cos I dunno wah happened to ur sense wen u guys were courting

Karlsson said...

Lol. If na only dis dey bother U bros, U don't ve any problem. U should ve noticed all dis before U decided to marry n U still went ahead. U just ve to find a way to get her to loosen up. Ubanagum

Unknown said...

eleyi gidi gaan...this one is a strong one

jboomboom said...

Na wah o, God help us oh. The reverse is the case with me and my husband. Sex is a luxury, he never initiates sex because he sleeps around and masturbate. I always dreamed I married a man like this poster because I feel so sad about my sex life with my partner. I'm tired of being the 1 who initiates sex all the time. My dear poster, maybe we should hook up o, we for fit. Which city are you in? Lol

ujunwa said...

Hahahahahha...childish wife

Bonita Bislam said...

Lol sounds like your marriage to her was borne out of family arrangement than luv.kikikiki pray brother or take her to a marriage counsellor

ALLYBERRY said...

It's a good thing you've decided to change, counselling is the best option for now, and also try and sit her down and talk to her, tell her u don't want to have to go out and sleep around (even though you've been doing it) . Also give ur life to Christ and pray to God for guidance and his intervention

seunLondon said...

I really don't see a change in her, those issues are too numerous..sounds like a typical girl with a very low libido #SeunLondon

Unknown said...

U want to change indeed...Cheat oshi...nah ur cross ...carry am

Anonymous said...

It happens.

Unknown said...

it WL take a process...like teaching her to b more romantic...go to movies, weekend get aways, n please tie her with rope n shave her properly....whaaaaaat???

Anonymous said...

Some women are just devils. All they want is to push a man into adultery and fornication. Tell me any other reason she's doing this. She knows thats what you want and that after a while you will be frustrated and start looking outside. For God's sake, why can't she meet your sexual fantasies?

@MEETD®EALEVANS™ said...

Dated a girl like DAT...always rigid when it comes to sex...

Anonymous said...

I just hope that it iis not my husband that wrote this! If it is you, am sorry I am tired of sex wwith you. Simple! I need change

Anonymous said...

Cheating on her was wrong, keep working at it,it would get better,cheers.

BONARIO NNAGS said...

Can you imagine.
And if the man decides to get it elsewhere she will start. Complaining.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

Unknown said...

Lol. U sef wan experiment all those sex technique wit ur wife? It's ur wife anyways. I advice u keep talking and be little more romantic

Unknown said...

Hahahahaha I dun die 4 lafe ooo I don't. Jst know wat to say cos I can feel d level of stubborness ur wife is. Jst keep talking nd be patients with her.make her watch porn movies

Unknown said...

Try explaining and talking to her
If possible invite a third party you can trust to talk to her that's he will listen to
Because sex is a very important part of marriage

Unknown said...

Awwwwww

Nana said...

I think u have to get her to counselling and see what happens after

Unknown said...

Lol wat can I say any married women in the blog pls answer abeg

Unknown said...

In a nutshell you married a complete local woman, goodluck.

Unknown said...

Tie her up and flog d shit out of her,she go dy alrty afta dt.

Unknown said...

In this modern age? Is a serious matter o...
U have all it takes to make her loosen up,so keep try bcos from your write up I know u are very experience,keep buying books on how 2keep your hubby,sex magzines,romantic films$books,blues during luv making,when next u are making luv gently give her head surprisely,she will enjoy it,shave her yourself,just kip trying ,it will work 4good

Onyx's Girlfriend (he isn't gay pls) said...

Ha, gbese. Olorun maa jeki gbe last. #happythurs

CHERRY said...

Ve no idea on this o!

Linda Fashion Blog said...

She dosent like sex, simple and short. Try and adjust, period. Una no do the thing b4 marriage ni? How com u dint knw she's this uptight abt sex?


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Anonymous said...

If u like introduce new skillz & before u know it she will become a monster or freak in bed then go Hay-wire

austine joe said...

u should jst persevere #xavier9jaforLib

Unknown said...

See Gobe. Sorry Dude. Can't help on this one.

Unknown said...

Your wife is a very responsible woman.So you want to turn her to your private porn star.She can never change.You should have married a former runs girl.It is too late.In your next life,you should make sure the girl you want to marry understand the things that make you happy.you should make sure the girl share the same belief like foreplay with you b4 you sign the dotted lines.

HAWTTALKWITHTOSAN said...

She does not let you do the doggy? I almost feel sorry for you. She needs some risque friends in her life! As for your philandering ways; even if she was going on 50 shades on you you would have still cheated. Good luck

Anonymous said...

Lmao @ "No if she had any sexual fantacies". this guys us hilarious. its quite surprising u don't know what women like that need, if she refuses, force her. believe me I was like that before, and each time I turned my man down I will pray he does it forcefully, and he later got my medicine. now we good. try it nigga

Unknown said...

Ur wife needs to seek the attention of a therapist. Haba, dats a very boring sex life.

Unknown said...

Maybe your wife was meant to be a Rev. Sister but due to some circumstance she couldn't fulfil that obligations......maybe try marriage cancelling I think that's what married people does....or maybe she caught you with another person and swear not to make you happy sexually


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Anonymous said...

keep cheating to keep your sanity... even if she was good in bed you will still get bored someday. Only cheating will keep your sanity and save your marriage. Else one day you go beat her out of frustration.

Anonymous said...

Get your wife drunk... she will get freaky..and video it... let's she if she loves it... Pleeaase oo! do that with only your wife. Not advisable to get other ladies drunk without their consent..

Unknown said...

U both nid counseling,n dnt try 2turn her 2a bitch,communicatn is de best

Unknown said...

This is somewhat annoying. Rape her in the nose dude. (Kiddin). Don't think she will ever change until she catches you cheating.

Anonymous said...

Go to APC for change.

Anonymous said...

Chai..come and marry me na!! My husband is just same with ur wife!!!!nawa oo..so am not the only one going tru this yea!!!okbye#PearLZ

Unknown said...

I can't believe women still keep this tight at this new age.








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Anonymous said...

Dude, please continue cheating! U hve bin officially permitted to cheat fully!

Anonymous said...

Na wa o wia this kind woman come from?like seriously she better wake up cos tins don change.@poster sowie jus keep praying one day she might change.

Unknown said...

All i can is accept her that way, you can't do anything about it, some people don't like sex.
tell her to shave her pubic hair, hygiene is very important. stop cheating on her doesn't make sense.
advised counseling, others advocate porn to dis-inhibit her mind lol for wetin na....guy u go like sex die seriously





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Unknown said...

Hmn. Some couples just don't have chemistry together and that could be the problem. Well, talk to her seriously, maybe she had a traumatic sexual experience before she met you.

Mz Lolo... said...

Am not married oh! I hope m not rigid cos some qualities here sha...lol. Oya over to u Bonario and maybe Onyx am sure u'll love ds topic

Unknown said...

Just pray to God.I beleive every good tin comes from him.

ary said...

Alcohol, aphrodisiac. Try them all.

Anonymous said...

I know who said this. ...
Lol

Unknown said...

Oga,testing bfor marriage, didn't u guys date for a while bfor getting married

Unknown said...

Ask her if she has eva ben Abused Sexually it culd b a Factor.If dats d Case she Neds Couselling 2 enable her let go.Ponographic movie is not a Sin,it culd get her in d Mood.Den tell her Keeping hair is unhygienic & dat it cuts ur Dick am sure she wunt want 2 Hurt u.

Femiluv said...

What an idiot! This cheating bastard is complaining about his wife who has done no wrongs. Since when did being sexually uptight (which she is) become a sin? Your wife has done nothing wrong. Yet you repay her with infidelity.

Fix yourself first then we'll give you tips on how to loosen her up.

Moron.

Dinci said...

That woman needs counseling, watch porn, go have an orgy infact everything sexual...

Dinci said...

That woman needs counseling, watch porn, go have an orgy infact everything sexual...

Unknown said...

No advice for u. Since u were sleeping with other people's daughter's even as a married cheat, na so dem go treat ur daughters. Ur daughter's are automatically married men tissues. #respectwomen #fool


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Anonymous said...

Didn't u notice all dis things b4 going on to marry her, abi una two no date

Aw3som3 said...

Personally, I think that's a bad situation to be in, cos it will take a serious revolution to change her mindset, even a little. Am saying this cos am in a similar relationship, it could even lead to marriage, but her sexual uprightness scares. I really don't want to face that in marriage, so, am all ears to anyone who can give an effective solution.

Unknown said...

Wow....tot am in this alone happy to hv seen someone with the same problem! well sorry I do not hv d right solution but of a truth my wife has made me hate sex. Doesn't make sense u going outside just manage d little u get....u can't change her.

Unknown said...

Be patient with her. Make her happy. Always seek her interest. Show her enough care. Engage her in a robust and mutual conversation. If all else fails, pray to God about it. God will see you through.

ABEE... said...

All this complians on social media self tire me. I guess they are just mere fabrications sha, atleast to keep de day going. But if truly, my question is, didn't they atleast court before marriage? Didn't they know that he/she way like before proceeding for de alter to say I do? Biko next PLSSSSSS...Mtcheeeeeeeew!

Unknown said...

Are you sure your extra marital affairs is not d cause of her being uptight??? You may also try being romantic to her, see adult movies together, it may help. Linda take note!

ST. KIZITO BOUTIQUE IG: @stkizitoboutique said...

Turn her to a porn star.

Anonymous said...

my opinion is that you should try to see a counsellor cuz ur marriage depends on this...if not its gon crash,or try getting her tipsy every once in a while to unleash the true her in bed.

Unknown said...

Damn!!! Dear GOD, please I don't wanna get married to a wood just like this man. Amen.

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Bros, nobody force yu marry her shey yu hear.... Am sure she was a gud gal and that turned yu on and am sure yu are aware of this frm the start but yu think everything will change. Na yu do urself yu hear.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

Anonymous said...

Mehn!!! This matter no be Moi-Moi รณ. Bea tried that and am out already. Bro, let know the dangers involved as she might push you out, just talk to her more, if na beg "BIKO, BEG" …if you like tell her she pushed you out already. I didn't send you that one

Anonymous said...

Me I no know abeg this one na for married people . CHI.

Anonymous said...

Bia Oga sex lover just as you said ehh the issue here is you. I am a woman, No decent woman feels free or loosens up with an unfaithful husfuck like you. There is AIDS ooo the problem is that she sees u as been dirty rather and your mouth with all these things u vomitted out, you are not a born again as such u did observe a holy wedlock or did you? If yes why r u fucking other women outside and if no are u just discoving it now. Otuo ocha

Zamani said...

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Sexydiva said...

Oga this one hard ooo,did you meet your wife a virgin?or she might have had a bad experience which however is affecting her,
Talk to her tell her your fears I am sure when you discuss it with her she might change tell her of the consequences of not been satisfied.
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Anonymous said...

Talk to her about it.

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Unknown said...

My guy i feel for u but never mine maybe u did not discuss sex matters b4 marriage now in missionary style u can hit her g -spot so that she can turn on and allow u for doggy style

Sexydiva said...

Oga this one hard ooo,did you meet your wife a virgin?or she might have had a bad experience which however is affecting her,
Talk to her tell her your fears I am sure when you discuss it with her she might change tell her of the consequences of not been satisfied.
Click my name for more tips.

Anonymous said...

Mix alomo wit burantashi,she go rape u dat nite,I promise.

Unknown said...

Same bro and is driving me so crazy

Unknown said...

I guess u just hav to talk to her n tell her ur needs....try to enlighten her dat its not a sin if she the spiritual type.....

Unknown said...

I don't like the part u said u used here up tightness as an excuse to cheat. Anyway I think ur wife's attitude may be from her upbringing. Parents always talk abt sex like it's one horrible thing.Do this, don't do dat bla bla bla.The gal eventually turns rigid.If I may ask, did u meet her a Virgin? If yes, it may also be one of d causes
My Advice: open up to her how u feel.Promise her one big gift if she agrees to do some sexual act.Start from simple to complex.
2.Tell her that her attitude can push a man to cheat on his wife.
3.Buy he romantic books
4.Watch movie/Cinema with her.Allow her see how oda women treat their men in public places
5.Always tell her gently wen u guys are together dat this and this makes u happy. Take it easy wit her ooo.Her kind of persons, u no go get wat u want by force
6 Shower her wit gifts.
7.Travel away from home wit her
8.Always try to make her happy.She will do anytin 4 u wen she's happy
9.Visibly show her u love her
10.Sext her.
If possible, see a therapist
It won't be easy, but it will be worth it.Goodluck.I feel ur pain

Manuel Kunmi said...

Looool you Don enter one chance ..... I had to brake up with someone I held up high cos the sex wasn't just it ... I can't imagine myself in a marriage with sex issues looool.... ela oju kan

Anonymous said...

Mix alomo wit burantashi,give her make she drink am,she go rape u dat nite,I promise.

Unknown said...

Its hard just take it easy and take it to God in prayer

Anonymous said...

Continue to fuck around... She is not ready.

bgirl said...

So sorry for u

Unknown said...

hmmmmmmm........Linda plx advise him...........











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Unknown said...

Make her visit a sex therapist. I know a very competent psychotherapist: Prof. A. Zamani of Nasarawa State University! He'll be of great help

Juleslouis said...

Oh my. Dude ฯ…̲̣̥r̲̅ in a tight corner. Maybe she was circumcized. #just saying#.

Chinny said...

That's what happens when you are so conscious about marrying the so-called "God fearing woman", now see where it has landed you!
I bet your wife needs some serious counselling! I mean, if she doesn't give her body freely to then who? Biko take her sharp sharp to a good counsellor, or if her pastor can come in, but i doubt as much cos the pastor too will see doggie as animalist too!

Jeni_zee said...

lol unfaithful man like u, bring one of ur flings home dressed provocatively .. Trust me,she wil change

Unknown said...

Looool!!! All dis Men dat will b shoutn, dey want to marry a virgin /S.U, dis is wat it results to, no experience, no fun, dey end up cheatn...lemme tal u b4 she can change, it will need lots of intervention, mayb u shud tell ha pastor or sum1 she really respects, mayb she would change buh I fear she might never change, its more like an hobby, it will b so hard..may God help U

Unknown said...

Your wife need TB Joshua asap, just like my ex too bored in bed gush.#THAT AKWA IBOM BOY #

Anonymous said...

At least she moans....haha. Except she faking it too!

Anonymous said...

Buy or download a sex tape and play it in ur room..lock d bathroom and room door so dat she doesnt escape...

Unknown said...

Lmao! I dnt even knw wat to write! Rotfl,she must b boring!

Unknown said...

Be patient nd show her d steps. Ehm, u can use porn too. May help

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Obie King said...

First of all U rily did well by wantin 2 change cos of ur marriage cos U hv actually tried ur best as a man...This might sound kinda odd but trust me it works.....Stop asking/having sex with her, Start watching porn(and let her be aware you are) when U r turned on, jerk -off..Don't let all dese b 2 obvious bt mke sure she's aware...I'm sure she will start tinkin twice abt her position as a wife...Ciao

Anonymous said...

hmnnn....thats a serious one. well, wat can i say..jus drop her at my place forvd weekend. problem solved

Anonymous said...

Wooooowowoww!!!!!!!!! Didn't you see this before marriage? Anyways you have to show her you've really changed and convince her!

Anonymous said...

Pls take it easy with her.
U see life,the want that want sex the husband would not .

Darmie said...

lol..sorry bro

Amablaze said...

Was she lik dt wen u marry?or did u marry her bcos she is a good girl n dump ur ex u mite av probably b dating 4a long time?if yes den u brought it upon ursef,if no...den tak it dt sum she is 1 of dose ladies who doesn't lik sex,den try to find out wat reali gets her turn on or better still giv her beta odeku..I ope it's helps sha

Unknown said...

Una no do before marriage? D one that got me d most o that, she doesn't shave her pubic hair. Damn!! That place na forest by now o. I hope she loves u o? My suggestion is: RAPE HER SOMETIMES.


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emi2la said...

Nah,porn wouldnt help judging based on wat u've said,counselling might help,butt den again sshe needs 2 open up like u have 2 som1 abt it who will be able 2 talk her into it,tell her things that will change her mind,aand what u can do is tell her always how u feel abt it and the things its driving u @,that way she might want 2 tell som1 abt it who hopfully will tell her to sucom 2 ur ddesire,but pray she mets the right person who will advice her well.

Unknown said...

Oya na Linda over to you..But bros wait oo!..This your wife so did you just see her and marry her? didn't you court before marriage then you should have known about her sex uptight abi no be so my people?

Anonymous said...

Tie her to a bed and perform all your fantasies on her and see if she doesn't enjoy them...if she doesn't O'boy just put her in your prayers as na for better for worse una sign

Unknown said...

Hi guy, introduced adult films for her, let her wash romantic movies, I think dat we help at lot.

Anonymous said...

Marry another wife

Unknown said...

Oh my goodness! U are in a very long thing. Obviously ur wife is a Muslim where women are taught not to express their sexual desires, I stand to be corrected. Anyways I advise both of u go for counseling. Don't even think of porn, d way u describe her sexuality, she will abhore even u. Wish u the very best in ur journey for a better marital home.

Unknown said...

Oga dint U knw she isn't a freak in bed before U put d ring on it!!metchwww

Anonymous said...

Mmm! Jus passing..over 2 dose who get paid 2 comment on LIB. Wld b back 2 read comments

Kponskii said...

Na wah! Sorry to burst ur bubble bro...there's little or nothing you can do. Maybe you should take a trip outside your comfort zone. Just be patient with her.

Anonymous said...

Please we're many in this predicament ooo. My own wife just told me point blank that she doesn't like sex after 4years of marriage and a baby of more than 3years. She has always be reluctant about sex and will never initiate it. She gave me the greatest surprise when she said she doesn't like sex, I should go and a way to satisfy my sexual. Even if it means I will cheat on her, She doesn't mind.

Anonymous said...

U can educate her by introducing porn films to her.

Anonymous said...

where I wan begin dey advise u now eh? report her to her mother

Unknown said...

Whc kind of nonsense issue is dis? Mr man I swear, if I can see u physically I will shot ur empty head...this idiot has watched porn movies alot now u wnt to practice the magic nd oral sex wife ur wife abi...repent bro. Jesus loves u ok

Unknown said...

Whc kind of nonsense issue is dis? Mr man I swear, if I can see u physically I will shot ur empty head...this idiot has watched porn movies alot now u wnt to practice the magic nd oral sex wife ur wife abi...repent bro. Jesus loves u ok

Unknown said...

Whc kind of nonsense issue is dis? Mr man I swear, if I can see u physically I will shot ur empty head...this idiot has watched porn movies alot now u wnt to practice the magic nd oral sex wife ur wife abi...repent bro. Jesus loves u ok

Unknown said...

If u have a sex freak as a wife, u will also complain o... They can really be disgusting


~Linda na me~

bola said...

feel ur pain bro; buh if u wanna kip ur marriage, maybe u should compromise on ur view abt sex.better yet get a therapist,consellor or wateva they call dem for ur wife.

Blunt Fuck said...

I like your wife for one thing, she doesn't shave her pubic hair. I like pussy with hair. Ladies, please bring back hairy pussy! It's cute.

ogeey said...

Take her out on a dinner date or prepare a lovely dinner(nice meal and fine alcoholic wine),nice music,chilly n cossy atmosphere,nice chat(avoid taking abt sex,she may figure it out),get tipsy/high and she will feel free n let those guardsdown. Then start with gentle kisses here n there,let ur fingers travel and do a lot of magic, n u shud do d rest if u r smart.remember be gentle n pay attention....good luck

Unknown said...

"Sexual inhibition"! Lol

eka said...

hmm,
as a lady ,
l would just say,
be patient,
and introduce ur antics,
one day @ a time,
not all @ once,
so as not to scare her away.........

Unknown said...

Juliet Iwuna,e be like sey u don repent.you no dey post the same comment 4 times again.hope you will not go back to your old ways 2moro.

Anonymous said...

Get her drunk.

jboomboom said...

She probably don't enjoy sex. People that do not enjoy sex, see it as a chore and would ever hardly initiate it. Also know that just a few ladies really do enjoy sex and climax; when you get into a relationship with such, omo you go hear am

Anonymous said...

My guy before u enter dis marriage did u court with her?send ur reply I will tell u wat to do she will be disturbing u I am called prof in dat aspect.

Anonymous said...

Best!

Anonymous said...

Senseless comment

Anonymous said...

Cancellation ni! Ahn ahn! Lord have mercy!

Unknown said...

Bring her over

Unknown said...

Ogadikwa Egu....Is dat ur problem man? U must bring wife to me for lectures, every hour for 20k I blf me after learning from me den u come wit thanks giving...

Anonymous said...

Nigerian men! world's most confused idiots. babe will initiate sex with them and they will call her ashawo. please she's only acting the way naija society has taught her. any woman who is sexual is considered a prostitute

Empressitta said...

Jx go see a therapist

Teacher said...

Low libido, low sex drive, extreme circumcision procedure, her background, sexual trauma whilst growing up, the man does not prepare ground and rushes her, shyness etc
Take time out to actually understand her and stop being so selfish, it is something you will have to meet halfway on .
See it as something she needs help with which you can both pray (the Creator of the body , its functions)and seek counselling/work on together
Oga it isn't always all about your needs, put her first!

Anonymous said...

Counselling nt cancelling. How fine geh like u go dey gbagaun. SMH.

Unknown said...

I guess you both dated before marriage??

Unknown said...

My brother that's the consequences of all this no sex before marriage whereby you tend not to know the sexual capability of your wife.in as much as I don't support fornication there is need to be sure on both sides(many woman) life is way too short to marry a woman that is not willing to learn or adjust when the need be.hate or love it sex is important and it should not be used in a way where the man will deprived of it whenever there is a fight or misunderstanding btw both parties.so as this guy just keep trying if she doesn't improve try discussing your pastor subsequently her parent then your own parent atleast you will know you have exhausted every means to make her improve.if doesn't my brother park her load and put it outside before she comes back from work.

Davido's driver said...

Just pray for her. I can't even marry a chic that don't suck d.linda observe

Anonymous said...

Rotfl... Jesus, this comment don kill me.

Anonymous said...

I was like that before because I was abused as a teen.Thank God for the kind of husband I have. Have been married for 8 years and it took me six years to loosen up. You need to be patient with her and also continue to talk to her. May God keep your marriage

Mr yellz said...

now listen and listen very good. I am going to advice you to avoid her for a long long while. dont give her any sexual attention and act like everything is absolutely fine btw u guys, peck her, tell her a few nice words and all. But make sure you buy her a spanish fly that would even make her horny in minutes and put it in her drink, juice just 10 to 14 drops and when she gives you signal don't fall, if she makes a move, remain strong and bone until its 3 weeks..I bet in days using the recommended german spanish fly she MUST beg you. p/s if she picks up a fight that you avoiding her tell her you are adjusting to her way of life

Manuel Kunmi said...

Ode leleyi sha

destinysweet said...

It's not everyone dat indulge in premartial sex Ok?

Anonymous said...

@ linda there should be like and dislike sign on every ones comment , please try and work on that ..

Anonymous said...

@christie benjamin. Nor be only marriage cancelling. Na marriage addition and subtraction. Lol

Manuel Kunmi said...

You self notice @ peoples man ..... she go post same thing like 10 timed just so we can notice her

Manuel Kunmi said...

LMAO .... who be this ....na poison you give am be that na..... cant stop laughing

destinysweet said...

Well it's ur hubby dear,he needs change tooq

Anonymous said...

Lollllzzzz!

Manuel Kunmi said...

Looool expertrate ... I salute ooo

Manuel Kunmi said...

Sharap there

Anonymous said...

You people are clowns on this blog, haba lollll, the man is being serious and you r joking. Lmao

Diamond said...

Waaaaaa! Rotflmao!!!

Anonymous said...

Wich woman no like prick?seems u marid a man o.

Anonymous said...

Hahahaha, these people are cracking me up so much, I hv tears running down my cheeks. Kai

Anonymous said...

Maybe she dey masturbate to satisfy herslf. Who knws?

destinysweet said...

U think say na everybody be like u way dey indulge in pre martial sex?.Rubbish




Auntylindagoddaughter

destinysweet said...

Nor be everybody dey indulge for pre martial sex lik u

Anonymous said...

On point. Best comment so far.

Anonymous said...

DOCTOR LOVE SAYS: First the word is not RIGID its FRIGID, Linda and my guy take note. And as for you bros don't waste your effing time trying to change her.... it won't work. Either keep her as wife and keep cheating or get the kind of wife you fantasize about. Errrhm just out of curiousity didn't you realize your incompatibility before saying "I do" to her in the first place?

snowflix said...

Lol. Very funny write up. Sorry brother attimes in life we don't always get what we wish for. Take her to a counselor they will help her best #onelovefromsnow#

Unknown said...

Is she growing a forest? Wild animals exists.

Unknown said...

LWKMD @ she doesn't shave her pubic hair.... I think she needs counseling.

Unknown said...

were is the woman from biko. My brother sorry to say these don't touch her again may be her sense would reset..

Anonymous said...

Ffg

Sparkle said...

LMFAOOOOO!!!! SILLY...

Anonymous said...

shes sucking someonelse's dick you are boring

Anonymous said...

Stanley u come disgrace me 4 here abi? I dey house dey wait u.

derby said...

vis man u xo funi....d only fin u naw is sex...dint u naw she was lyk vis b4 u married er???u xo funi ooo..hahahahhahaa.pray hard

Anonymous said...

Face ur books fool

Unknown said...

Seconded
Besides search the blog well
We don treat this kind of case
Lots of advise dere biko

NEXT!!!!

Unknown said...

There alot of things that could put a woman off sex.
1. She might be on a birth control pill
2. She might have had female genital mutilation
3. Your performance is poor
4. She nolonger find u sexualy attractive.
5. Work/emotional stress

Unknown said...

There alot of things that could put a woman off sex.
1. She might be on a birth control pill
2. She might have had female genital mutilation
3. Your performance is poor
4. She nolonger find u sexualy attractive.
5. Work/emotional stress

Anonymous said...

dear brother, she will never change. U should be happy that atleast she use to moan. Thank God for that.

Unknown said...

Its sikple buy for her what you think that makes her happy...... do it and always make her happy and in return I believe she will satisfy you.

Oke said...

Bros, na deeper life woman you marry?

Anonymous said...

She mostlikely won't change , I don't blame you for cheating, just reading the part abt her not shaving her Pubic hair is enough too repulsive. I'm guessing she's all these pple who never had 'fun' in their youth.

mabiola41@yahoo.com said...

STOP THERE!!!

Bros you married a fresh woman.

You are either a good huy or you must be an ASHAWO before and after you married your wife.

Now let me assist you with advise:

1. Never listen to advisers that ask you to introduce your wife to blue film, because if she eventually fires up, nah your man friends she go dey fuck in your absence.

2. Do not force things, just tone down and accept her short comings, keep encouraging her to improve her sex drive.

3. Do not sign sighs of disaffection otherwise you will make matters worse.

4.Get her mother involved in this. Let he mother do the counselling for a while.

5. Take her to romantic vacations and always be in suggestive mood throughout the trip, she will gradually fire up to what you want.

6. Do not apply extreme measures that you cannot control, otherwise, when HER NYASH BECOMES HOT, she will fuck any man that comes her way which is not good.

I REFER YOU TO FEMALE STUDENTS OF RELIGIOUS UNIVERSITIES WHO ARE USUALLY SEXUALLY INEXPERIENCED WHILE ON CAMPUS, BUT IMMEDIATELY THE EXPOSURE COME DURING NYSC CAMPING - THEY LOOSE CONTROL.

Anonymous said...

Senseless comment!
What has being born again got to do with fucking her husband t stupor?

Dey there dey form born again, make your house help dey service your husband for you.

Anonymous said...

O boi!!! See point…okokobioko :)

Unknown said...

Hahahahahahahahahaha
Wahhahahahahahahahahahahhehehehehehe
Laughing in japanese.Omor see sex laws.LWKMD.It is such a pity.That is all i can say.

Anonymous said...

She must be muslim cos they don't like to shave their pubic hairs, which is not nice.
A cleanly sha puna is everything jor....

Zizi said...

Prick wey sweet like Wetin, na wa my dear u go manage cos as she rigid so to unrigid am lol go hard, doggy wey sweet pas sweet itself Odiegwu

Alek said...

Thank u joor! !

Anonymous said...

Ewww!
I could puke right now. Hairy pussy? I can't deal mehn!

t-pel said...

Repent man

Alek said...

Y should they have?... It isn't right na.

Chyluv! said...

Married people Does!....lmaoooo

Alek said...

RODFLMAO!!!!! THIS IS D FUNNIEST SO FAR.

Alek said...

Hmmmmmm... I have a feeling I know u ๐Ÿ˜ž

Anonymous said...

That canceling part got me sha. Lmfao!

Alek said...

๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…u lib readers are hilarious !!!

Anonymous said...

This is why one should taste the waters before wading through. You made your bed now lie in it.

Anonymous said...

You'll never catch me supporting a cheat. But this anon Cldnt have said it better. You are officially permitted. I'm a lady, not so big on sex, but these your complaints are pretty basic stuff. I'm really sorry for you. What a boring sex life. It's not fair!

Alek said...

I don't understand ooo, do u guys think that's what courting is about???๐Ÿ˜’

Anonymous said...

Sex is a vital part of every relationship & if you frown upon premarital sex be ready to bear the consequences.

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