Dear LIB readers: My GF is threatening to abort our baby unless I come marry her
From a male LIB reader
"Dear LIB readers I have a girlfriend I have been dating for a year now. She said she love me and
she wanna stay with me. We've had several issues in the
past but we are still together. The problem now is that she is carrying
my baby. I need the baby. But I am not ready for marriage now. I told
her I will take care of her and my child because I don't want an
abortion. I love her and I want to marry her. But not yet ready now.
And she is now threatening me to abort the baby unless I come marry her
now. What should I do?
So why are u not yet ready for marriage? U want a child but u don't want to do the right thing! Why are guyz of nowadays so comfortable with this baby mama ishh??? Are u still a teenager? What is holding u back from marrying her proper?? If it's finance, then u don't have to have an elaborate wedding, just do something small, so she can have her baby honourably.....not all girls are comfortable with this new trend called "BABY MAMA". So pls make an honourable woman of ur girlfriend n marry her please, she isn't asking for too much, so pls do d right thing....TAKE HER TO THE ALTER....shikena, Dats my 2cents for u.
Ur ready to take care of her and the baby, but ur nt ready 2b married. I really don't get. U wanto make her a baby mama n den 2mao u'll say u two rnt compatible nymore. Abortion is a sin, but the girl is only trying to protect her future. Do the right thing biko
Shey wen u were having unprotected sex u didn't know u weren't ready for marriage now abi??? Better go and marry her and do everything necessary, cos no woman wants to be a baby mama and later become 'tokunbo' .
You can't be ready for a baby if ure not ready to marry her. Ogbeni, go n marry her if u wan d baby. Baby mama is not a norm in our culture forget dat it is Wat is in vogue.
You can at least do the traditional rights which won't cost much and also have your baby. She obviously does not want an abortion. You cannot impregnate a girl and still won't get committed for some selfish flimsy reasons like I dont have money. You now have to use a right to correct the wrong or do not furnicate at all if you cannot take full responsibilty of your action and then play holier than thou.
u r just a silly boy...y wont u marry her. does she look like a baby making machine to u. so later u wud go and marry another person and she wud be a single mother...shioorrr keep ur thing in ur pants if u aint ready to be a husband #word
Wow! Ma dear, u just have to do right by her.. If u can afford to care for her and baby outside marriage, what stops u frm marrying her? I dnt think u are bn open...
u r just a silly boy...y wont u marry her. does she look like a baby making machine to u. so later u wud go and marry another person and she wud be a single mother...shioorrr keep ur thing in ur pants if u aint ready to be a husband #word
u r just a silly boy...y wont u marry her. does she look like a baby making machine to u. so later u wud go and marry another person and she wud be a single mother...shioorrr keep ur thing in ur pants if u aint ready to be a husband #word
Wow! Ma dear, u just have to do right by her.. If u can afford to care for her and baby outside marriage, what stops u frm marrying her? I dnt think u are bn open...
If you truly will marry her later, why don't you do an introduction first to calm her nerves. Then proper marriage later. But if your mind no dey, free her.
If she threatens you with an unborn child now, what stops her from threatening you with something else when you guys are married? It's not like you are the sole owner of the baby! It belongs to both of you. She's not a serious someborri. My opinion tho.
Tell her parents your intentions & hear from them 1st, but for me, you shouldn't bother marrying such a person that threatens or blackmails you, such person can never be trusted so run away, don't marry & if she insist on aborting, it's her choice, when you finally find the right lady, marry & start a family, that my dear is something you should be looking out for. This your girlfriend would make a bad wife, you don't need such.
Dear poster u are very stupid. Wat will she tell her parents. If u aint ready 4 marriage how certain are u dat u can take care of d unborn child. Common zuzu get out. U need a baby mama nt a wife. Thunder wey go fire u dy do press up.
Allow her do it afterall u have tried your best in pleading with her and promising her to take care of she and her baby and still marry her when you are set. If she does it then it's to her detriment.
You love her?pls Jst do d right thing. U ready to father a child buh u nt ready to be her husband abi...she ain't threatening you! She wants u to do watz right ni. Oga abeg for d sake of love n ur unborn child do wats right
She is a monster, so she wants to take the life of her own unborn baby?? marriage is not by force, she should do what pleases her, the consequences will be on her at least you tried on yoir own part.
Ure a sick man. Ure not ready for marriage indeed. Buh u are always ready to have sex with her. I wonder why some guys reason like this. Do u think its easy? going through the shame n stigma of carryin a baby out of wedlock in this society of ours? respect her wish and do a little ceremony be it introduction or engagement if money is ur problem. Its nt necessary u do a big wedding. Be a man and do ur responsibility!
Go and marry her if she is the kind of lady you want to spend the rest of your life with. Do the traditional marriage, a low key one(it could be between family members only) if you don't have the money to do a big wedding. I am sure she is ashamed to have the baby out of wedlock. Good luck to you
My friend, u are not being fair with dis lady. Y not marry her legally if u truly love her. I'm suspecting u do Not intend to marry her, u just want d baby.
Ur girlfriend is right,just do d right fin since u say u love her,how difficult or expensive can a marriage be,marry her jare,u are equal to d tax,u will be a father soon so shoulder up.
Dont be foolish! atleast make a traditional wedding or engagement. The girl doesnt want bastard and doesnt want to be laffed at! Propose to her atleast or have a traditional wedding! Make it look official that shes engaged and have the right to have a baby!
You want the baby but not ready to marry??? Please if i may ask whats the delay? You mustn't accumulate the whole world before you settle down. Marriage and children has its own blessings. I suggest you do as she says and with time everything will fall into place.
Go and marry her properly man! U knew u weren't ready when u were having sex wit her. Now u don't need to be ready again, u hear? Readiness has found U. And 2 ur woman, she is a joke of a woman! Why would she want to abort d baby just 2 punish a man? Who asked her to open her legs 4 a man datz not her husband? Shez just a desperado! #myview
Do the right thing, after all u said u love her! Guys this days are so unreliable, and society becomes more difficult for her cos she is the one to bear the cross.
How stupid are you? U need the baby but ure not ready to marry yet....if u ain't ready den y pregnant her, did u do it just to get a baby and the girl becm worthless to u? Nonsense!!!
Mtchhheeewww. Why would you want to marry a lady who Is soo comfy to abort an innocent child? I mean. What does she want? A marriage title or you two's happiness? Who marries on condition sef? If she decides to abort a child that is very much hers aswell. Great. God didnt appoint her to be the mother of your child/children and by that. You know she aint good for marriage. Ps. Am a lady too
Dear mr man u could atleast do an introduction,pay a bride price nd marry her later nd 2 d young lady trying 2 trap a man wit pregnancy is old fashioned. Aborting or keeping it is really up 2 u.force a man 2 marry u nd live in hell
Tor are U sure U truly love Her? If U do go and Meet Her parent and do some little marriage not Celebration just pay for her Dowry. She dey fear as Baby Mama plenty Dis days.
Dear .... children are meant to be raised in a home,by both parents legally joined.Since you have the intention of caring for her and the child, then marry her,....there is never a best time"you men should stop this I'm not ready ishh,its becoming stale...do the needful,that baby deserves it.
But are you really sure that baby belongs to you? She sounds dangerously desperate. . Like one of those types of girls that use pregnancy to trap a man.. such pregnancy could belong to any Tom, Dick or Harry. They just find the perfect maga to pin it on.
U know u are not ready 4 marriage why do u hate condoms, now u want her 2 keep the baby, as wat na, baby mama abi baby machine. U think having a baby outta marriage is easy abi, ma sister I don't advice abortion, but if he's not ready 4 marriage just know he isn't ready 2 take care of a baby. Go ask d price of pampers n sma gold in da market
That's d mistake men make. U want her to keep d baby but u re not ready to marry her. Do u think is easy for a woman to have a child outside wedlock? Do u even consider d girls parents? Do u even think about d child's future? If u re not ready to marry, keep ur p****s covered. Don't allow ur s****m to move unguided. The girl has the right to do what so ever she wants to do until u ready duo I don't see ur readiness even in 2020
Go and do the asking 1st and then do the court wedding until you are ready financially for the main ceremony. Court wedding is cheap. What if you change your mind tomorrow after she has given birth to the baby she will now answer 2nd hand. I am married with four lovely kids so I know what I am talking about
U wano marry her leta abi? Nd u say u can Takia of her nd d baby now alredi? Dat means u r evn comfortable so do d needful. She's wrong for threathenin to kill d baby. But oga poster just do d riight fin!
Go and do the asking 1st and then do the court wedding until you are ready financially for the main ceremony. Court wedding is cheap. What if you change your mind tomorrow after she has given birth to the baby she will now answer 2nd hand. I am married with four lovely kids so I know what I am talking about
Isn't she lucky! Mine said he doesn't want the child yet and am in my mid 30's . Well, I will go ahead and have my child.. Who cares about the society or culture! ðŸ˜
Any woman that can easily make up her mind to abort her baby cuz of marriage ish is not fit for a wife and capable of murder. Simple! So u do the math. She wants to use the baby to blackmail u into getting whatever it is she wants from u. How sure r u that she's pregnant sef. All this desperate chics. After just a year. She had all these planned out even before she opened her legs and allowed u make love to her with no protection. Nonsense!
So you want her to be your baby mama, it's obvious she doesn't trust that you'd marry her...atleast get her engaged and do a court wedding the other Marital rights can come later
If you really want her and the baby, then marry her now, even if it's just the two of you and your friends in registry, then the traditional and others can take place later. I understand her stand, she doesn't want to take chances. please understand and make a commitment, introduction or registry. You are not ready for marriage as she is not ready for the baby, so you guys should just bend over a little bit and meet at a point
Isn't she lucky! Mine said he does not want a child yet! Am going ahead to have my child. Obviously he should have known when he was pouring it in there! Who cares about the society or culture!
Marry her at least if not for anything for the sake of the innocent baby. I see no reason why u ain't ready for marriage bou u want a baby, oga nobody wanna b addressed as babymama anymre. So put ur act together and put a ring on it.
2 avoid feud among u guys,use him n moreova u said u L♥√ع him n he loves u too,so where is d doubt coming 4rm?d moment doubt comes in,d love is nt genuine
Go and marry her. Full stop. Whatever excuse you're giving here doesn't make any sense. Since you can take care of her and the unborn baby like you said,marry her into your home and do the care taking inside your house. Haba.
Though I do not support abortion, but you have to go marry her if you really love her. How is she sure that you will not urn her to a baby mama and marry someone else tomorrow. Marriage, I guess is her security, so go do the needful.
Jisos That chick is damn heartless..... Willing to kill a child cos someone dnt wanna get married to u now I think shes bluffing she wont do it Bros u sef gather small money carry ur family go see her familly Do introduction *sigggh* this is why celibacy till one is ready is the best thing to do
If u really wanna marry her n u knw u will marry her y nt just do a lil introduction make ur intention known n let her people knw u are really ready to marry their Daughter not dat u want d child alone n make her knw she is save even after the baby.
Guy nobody is always ready to marry and be committed pls not for the sake of the child but for peace and happiness in your home be wise and think twice if u love her really then y not court her instead
Guy nobody is always ready to marry and be committed pls not for the sake of the child but for peace and happiness in your home be wise and think twice if u love her really then y not court her instead
What should you do? Marry her!!! You want the baby now and the mother later, that's called wickedness, you are selfish and self centred. If ladies stands on their feet like this I think our guys that redi before getting ready will start thinking twice. Babe am with you 101% Abortion is bad!....
Even if its a court wedding and traditional, pls do small thing on her for her family and yours to know each other. Forget the threat. She was taught to do that by her friends. God help you Mrs Feyi
chai ds wan hard!! wont totally blame her shaa, who knows how long she has spent in the relationship, and also una know say una neva ready, y una no use protection....are u a kid?? ka m juo!
you should have known to use a condom.but d deed is done. so u have to commit to the relationship. go n see her parent so it will be known that u are responsible for the baby.
My friend go and marry her biko.you have the money to take care of the child and mother but you aint ready to marry her?then she wil be tagged a baby mama abi?
Am sorry i might sound a bit too hard on u but you are very stupid! You are not ready to marry and you are having unprotected sex with a woman, you claim to love her but u're not ready for marriage now. You even contradict urself. Besides ur babe sef is a fool, she want to abort another pregnancy for an unserious fellow like you? Grow up man, do the right thing! Marry her!
Do you know the story of blackmailers. They never stop until everything is all f**ked up. A woman who loves u will never threaten u, especially to marry her. If she cant understand your choices now, she never will ever.
If you are ready to father a child why then ain't you ready to marry?....stop looking for bloody excuses and do the right thing. The girl obviously doesn't want to mother a child out of wedlock...I'm not saying abortion is a good thing...but my guy do the right thing...go see her parents and pay the traditional rights....no one wants to be a glorified baby mama.
I'm sorry, did you say you need the baby?! You need the baby for what, when you're not ready to get married? So that only the girlfriend would be burdened with taking care of the baby abi?!
Meanwhile, just convince her about keepn d baby, I wouldn't blame her for wanting to abort d baby, she might be finking of what ppl will say or d shame she's gonna pass through for carrying a baby outside marriage
Another tin is she might want to do it cos of her parents... U guys need to talk (heaart to heart) not somethn to be discussed on social network abeg
Story 4 d gods, if you can take care of her & d baby, why not go ahead & marry her. If you don't have much, you can just do d introduction & do d rest later. Bsyds gf don't use your own unborn child to make threats, make d thing no go backfire. Linda take note!
Story 4 d gods, if you can take care of her & d baby, why not go ahead & marry her. If you don't have much, you can just do d introduction & do d rest later. Bsyds gf don't use your own unborn child to make threats, make d thing no go backfire. Linda take note!
Story 4 d gods, if you can take care of her & d baby, why not go ahead & marry her. If you don't have much, you can just do d introduction & do d rest later. Bsyds gf don't use your own unborn child to make threats, make d thing no go backfire. Linda take note!
You are most definitely not ready for a baby if you are not ready for marriage. You want to ruin the girl's life by making her your baby mama and not marrying her abi, so her chances of meeting and marrying a good man would be diminished.
Oga do the right thing or leave her alone, don't come here and start acting all self righteous and concerned because you are just a selfish dog!!!!!
I won't advise you to succumb to her threat and forcefully marry her because she is pregnant for you. It could as well be her antics to use pregnancy and tie you down. If you really love her, then go ahead, if not let her do her worst, it might just mean she wasn't meant for you.
Bros u are at fault... She should be a single mum and wait till you are ready...u are actually a selFish person....she will carry the shame that comes with it for 9months while u go about getting ready...marry her now or get out of her life before u ruin it...selfish bastard
They should goan take a selfie abeg since d niggz doesn't want to do the proper thing the female is thinking about the next 9 months .. She can't do that alone ... Its the girls right to carry the child or not ... Okbye Sheikh Montana from Singapore
They should both sit down nd really discuss dis, putting themselves in each other 's shoes and come to a decision for wat is best for the child cos it is no more about the two of them.
If you love her and you can take care of her and the baby i don't see any apparent reasons you cant marry her, if there is a reason, no need telling us simply explain it to her, if its logical then it will be clear shes being unreasonable, else you are the unreasonable one. I'm a guy and i sympathize with her cuz our society shuns such women and that's what she doesn't want.
Dear Boyfiend,Show some commitments. Do some traditional rites then marry her proper when you are ready. Dear girlfriend, Abortion is a sin please don't do it.
When u know you are not ready for marriage, why didn't use protection. U want a baby but u are not ready for marriage, the way u sound, she's not sure, if u will even marry her.
You better go and marry her. U want the baby but u no wan marry her yet. Idiot u they look for person sister life way u wan spoil. May God allow all your sisters life to be like that
Biko marry her n dont ruin her life,wat stops u from doing d necessary tinz,im not advocating for an abortion,but d dude shud marry her,its easy for him to say she shud ave d baby.
These one is strong... Since she don't want to see from your angle you let her have her wish and also let her know that if she aborts the child you lads won't be the way u were b4... Bt u like to make babies bt u never ready fr marriage y u come choop nsala na.
You are a fool, you can have sex with her but you don't wanna marry her now, but later, funny guy... better go n take care of your responsibilities fully... and bae, how far na., well you know d type of guy he is, that's y you were threatening him, he is not serious..... the lord is your strength .....
U should b ready to marry Kos u were absolutely ready to have sex wit her!!!!we'av hrd such stories b4 Kos wen d child comes deres notin she can do...Shez obviously Gna suffer alone from wat I see.so go pay ur dues now nigga
She shld have the abortion and kill herself or spoil her womb cos she wants to spite you!! Don't allow anyone force you into marriage, it's not a easy decision though.
Lool wahala..she's desperate oo..And doesn't trust u..Serzly I dont knw what to tell u..Meet her parents and talk it out................................#KingOfKongs #6God
You are just a rabbit. So she should go ahead and have a baby out of wedlock? If someone impregnates your sister without marrying her what will you do? Animal like you. If you are not ready for marriage you are not equally ready to be a father. Ashana!
Hmmmmmmm, me personally I detest abortion, its evil! But bros if you weren't ready why get her pregnant. Pls prepare ur sef nd go see her people. If you can take care of a child now den why not legalise evritin? Ladies go tru a lot wit dis single mother tin. You are a man so iits easier said for you.
Except its a coincidence... but i bet i knw these 2 people involved. In the case i knw, the pregnancy is just God's nemesis upon them!!!!! I wunt say more than this...
I wd advise d guy to just try take a step forward as far as u still plan to marry her. Evn if it's jst court wit only both parents. No woman wnts to give birth outside wedlock or when d guys parents dnt av der full consent. Try n undstnd her. Be assured that the baby wil be a blessing. I went thru d same tin nd we ad to plan intro within 2wks cos my husby is not always around,den d court afta 3months. We ll do d real wedding wen we r bouyant enuf afta delivery.
why una no use condom? guy go and marry her, even if you are not ready, cos i'm not sure i understand what 'not ready'means, if you weren't ready , you wouldn't be having SEX. do the needful dude.
U love her abi? Den do the right thing and marry her... U men r jst wicked, u dnt want to marry her because ur nt ready, but u want a child out of wedlock, pls marry her u idiot.
If u weren't ready, why go down that lane with her in the ist place. Bros you aint d one who's goin 2 bear the stress of bein pregnant b4 marriage oooo. So marry her quick quick jhor
For heavens sake!!! U do not get a girl pregnant and say ur not ready for marriage but u ll take care of the baby. She isn't a baby making machine. If u want kids go adopt one. If u honestly live her like u claim to u will marry her and not want to see her pass through the shame of havin a child out of wedlock.
So she's blackmailing you with your baby's life? I have a feeling she might not be pregnant, but if she truly is and you end up married to her,you won't be happy with such a woman. Any woman that can threaten the life of her child for emotional blackmail can kill even you. Be wise and pray! Also next time use protection. If you're old enough to have sex, you're old enough to take responsibility for your actions
Marry her if you want the baby. If you can take of her and the baby now but you can't you marry her now? Who are you deceiving?If you are not ready to wife her now , believe me you will never be ready. You are ready to be a baby papa, a father but you are not ready to be a husband? Sit up and do the right the thing! Though, i don't support abortion.
Just try to let her see reasns why you dont want to settle down now she might understand and if she doesnt i guess you just have to marry her because thats the only way you can save the baby.
Wooo, I better b ready to marry her now, or no baby and stop giving silly excuses. Whether u hv money or not they babe is ready to be with u. So do the right thing.
See ur head! So u'r buoyant enough 2 take care of d baby & herself yet u can't do d needful. When u knew u weren't ready y did u indulge? with ur chat it's obvious u don't even intend 2 get married 2 her. U want a child, yet u ain't ready abi? What ever decision she takes, deal with it. #Nonsense!!!!
See ur head! So u'r buoyant enough 2 take care of d baby & herself yet u can't do d needful. When u knew u weren't ready y did u indulge? with ur chat it's obvious u don't even intend 2 get married 2 her. U want a child, yet u ain't ready abi? What ever decision she takes, deal with it. #Nonsense!!!!
It's unfortunate u got urself into his mess. But all hope is not lost. I'll advise u at least take a first of going to see her parents. Probably do d introduction part of d marriage. And then ask ur girl to chill so that u both can plan very well for a proper marriage. If worse comes to worst, then do just court marriage first since it isn't a huge ceremony but with her parent's consent. Don't let her push u above what u can provide. U say u don't want marriage but u'll cater for her and child? Funny bcos dat's already a husband's duty right there. But like i said get her parents involved and i think they will calm ur gf down a bit and protect the baby's live. Good luck
If you've shown her love in some cases in the past, and she love you genuinely, she should reason with you, and keep the baby. But if she's doubting your love for her she may not be able to keep the baby.
Oh, u don't want to marry but u want a child, do you think its easy to be a single mother ? For a guy who might marry someone else after? Do u think if u leave her later she would be able to move on easily as an 'after one'? A beg stop making noise and marry her. If u can afford to take care of the child u can afford to marry her.
Please people pre marital sex is not right. Wait till marriage. While the did has been done, still the girl can't abort the baby. Na mouth she dey. She just wants to tie you down.
you want the baby but u don't want to marry her now, pls like she said do the right thing ok, just make it simple it must not be the Nigerian flamboyant wedding, u no its not all parents that want their children to have babies out of wedlock, pls try to understand her by doing the right thing no matter how small. thank you.
You are not a real man. You sound like a "momma's boy". Grow up dude and stop waiting for someone to push you into marriage. I wonder what you were thinking when you inserted your straw into her!!!!!!Silly guy
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So why are u not yet ready for marriage? U want a child but u don't want to do the right thing! Why are guyz of nowadays so comfortable with this baby mama ishh??? Are u still a teenager? What is holding u back from marrying her proper?? If it's finance, then u don't have to have an elaborate wedding, just do something small, so she can have her baby honourably.....not all girls are comfortable with this new trend called "BABY MAMA". So pls make an honourable woman of ur girlfriend n marry her please, she isn't asking for too much, so pls do d right thing....TAKE HER TO THE ALTER....shikena, Dats my 2cents for u.
You too do the right thing... They are not baby making factory. Better thing can sweet US!
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You too do the right thing... They are not baby making factory. Better thing can sweet US!
You don't have to marry her now, since you guys have the plan to get married you can do like a small introduction between both families.
som girls are so stupid,she wil b d one God wil punish if she does abortion.its not about getting married but staying married.
Marry her man! You love d bitch, u love d kid coming, u seem 2 hav d finances 2 take care of her...why wait!
Ur ready to take care of her and the baby, but ur nt ready 2b married. I really don't get. U wanto make her a baby mama n den 2mao u'll say u two rnt compatible nymore. Abortion is a sin, but the girl is only trying to protect her future. Do the right thing biko
If u love her as u claimed, then wot is stopping you from marrying her.
Shey wen u were having unprotected sex u didn't know u weren't ready for marriage now abi??? Better go and marry her and do everything necessary, cos no woman wants to be a baby mama and later become 'tokunbo' .
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You can't be ready for a baby if ure not ready to marry her. Ogbeni, go n marry her if u wan d baby. Baby mama is not a norm in our culture forget dat it is Wat is in vogue.
Why do it when you were not ready for marriage? Go and marry the poor girl pls.
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You can at least do the traditional rights which won't cost much and also have your baby. She obviously does not want an abortion. You cannot impregnate a girl and still won't get committed for some selfish flimsy reasons like I dont have money. You now have to use a right to correct the wrong or do not furnicate at all if you cannot take full responsibilty of your action and then play holier than thou.
If u luv her then go ahead n marry her..chikena...
Hmmmm, tough one... God be with u both...
Pls my dear do wat she ask u 2 do ooo
u r just a silly boy...y wont u marry her. does she look like a baby making machine to u. so later u wud go and marry another person and she wud be a single mother...shioorrr
keep ur thing in ur pants if u aint ready to be a husband #word
Wow!
Ma dear, u just have to do right by her..
If u can afford to care for her and baby outside marriage, what stops u frm marrying her?
I dnt think u are bn open...
.....A better Nigeria I pray.....
u r just a silly boy...y wont u marry her. does she look like a baby making machine to u. so later u wud go and marry another person and she wud be a single mother...shioorrr
keep ur thing in ur pants if u aint ready to be a husband #word
u r just a silly boy...y wont u marry her. does she look like a baby making machine to u. so later u wud go and marry another person and she wud be a single mother...shioorrr
keep ur thing in ur pants if u aint ready to be a husband #word
Morning linda, Happy New Month.
Guy go pay dowry if truly you love and in dire need of the child. And stop the free things you have been chopping jor
Wow!
Ma dear, u just have to do right by her..
If u can afford to care for her and baby outside marriage, what stops u frm marrying her?
I dnt think u are bn open...
.....A better Nigeria I pray.....
Go nd do the right things. She doesn't wanna be jes a baby mama to u
If you truly will marry her later, why don't you do an introduction first to calm her nerves. Then proper marriage later. But if your mind no dey, free her.
What you should do is marry her #period
If she threatens you with an unborn child now, what stops her from threatening you with something else when you guys are married? It's not like you are the sole owner of the baby! It belongs to both of you. She's not a serious someborri. My opinion tho.
Tell her parents your intentions & hear from them 1st, but for me, you shouldn't bother marrying such a person that threatens or blackmails you, such person can never be trusted so run away, don't marry & if she insist on aborting, it's her choice, when you finally find the right lady, marry & start a family, that my dear is something you should be looking out for. This your girlfriend would make a bad wife, you don't need such.
Dear poster u are very stupid.
Wat will she tell her parents. If u aint ready 4 marriage how certain are u dat u can take care of d unborn child. Common zuzu get out. U need a baby mama nt a wife. Thunder wey go fire u dy do press up.
Ur a mad man..dats was d second tin dat enta ma head UNAM IKOT was d first.ur nt redi 4 marriage thunder fire you!
She obviously does not want an abortion either. Do the right thing and stop being overly selfish!!!!!!!
Brother now or later marriage is marriage you 2 marry her now,cos you guy can be funny... later now you can say she's just a baby mama! .... deeshyer
Marry her no mata d amt u've, just go n do d necessary tings. God will bless ur effort, just do ur own part
Mr man,admit it.You dont love this girl.
Allow her do it afterall u have tried your best in pleading with her and promising her to take care of she and her baby and still marry her when you are set. If she does it then it's to her detriment.
You love her?pls Jst do d right thing. U ready to father a child buh u nt ready to be her husband abi...she ain't threatening you! She wants u to do watz right ni. Oga abeg for d sake of love n ur unborn child do wats right
She is a monster, so she wants to take the life of her own unborn baby?? marriage is not by force, she should do what pleases her, the consequences will be on her at least you tried on yoir own part.
GO AND MARRY HER. . if you were not ready for the consequences why commit the act!
Oga you are ready to F but not ready to marry abi? You try well well. My guy go and do the needful
Marry her....
Ure a sick man. Ure not ready for marriage indeed. Buh u are always ready to have sex with her. I wonder why some guys reason like this. Do u think its easy? going through the shame n stigma of carryin a baby out of wedlock in this society of ours? respect her wish and do a little ceremony be it introduction or engagement if money is ur problem. Its nt necessary u do a big wedding. Be a man and do ur responsibility!
Go and marry her if she is the kind of lady you want to spend the rest of your life with. Do the traditional marriage, a low key one(it could be between family members only) if you don't have the money to do a big wedding. I am sure she is ashamed to have the baby out of wedlock. Good luck to you
U better go and look for little money to marry her, u can do traditional wedding, but u can not eat your cake and have it.
My friend, u are not being fair with dis lady. Y not marry her legally if u truly love her. I'm suspecting u do Not intend to marry her, u just want d baby.
Ur GF isn't a baby production factory. Marry her or pay her off.
YES! I support....Marry her, even if its small intro to begin with she will be happy.
Ur girlfriend is right,just do d right fin since u say u love her,how difficult or expensive can a marriage be,marry her jare,u are equal to d tax,u will be a father soon so shoulder up.
Dont be foolish! atleast make a traditional wedding or engagement. The girl doesnt want bastard and doesnt want to be laffed at! Propose to her atleast or have a traditional wedding! Make it look official that shes engaged and have the right to have a baby!
You want the baby but not ready to marry??? Please if i may ask whats the delay? You mustn't accumulate the whole world before you settle down. Marriage and children has its own blessings. I suggest you do as she says and with time everything will fall into place.
Go and marry her properly man! U knew u weren't ready when u were having sex wit her. Now u don't need to be ready again, u hear? Readiness has found U. And 2 ur woman, she is a joke of a woman! Why would she want to abort d baby just 2 punish a man? Who asked her to open her legs 4 a man datz not her husband? Shez just a desperado! #myview
Cmon dude, you cant be seeking public opinion for a private act.
Are you high?
Go and marry her stop looking 4 xcuses biko...
My friend you need to wife her ASAP..... Wat do u mean by not ready now.....she doesn't want to b a baby mama.....
Do the right thing, after all u said u love her! Guys this days are so unreliable, and society becomes more difficult for her cos she is the one to bear the cross.
Go and marry her lah were u no the one who deposited the semen?
Marry her u can't eat ur cake nd have it. omolicha
Then marry her or u do something on her head to show that she â„“̊S̶̲̥̅ urs
How stupid are you? U need the baby but ure not ready to marry yet....if u ain't ready den y pregnant her, did u do it just to get a baby and the girl becm worthless to u? Nonsense!!!
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Mtchhheeewww. Why would you want to marry a lady who Is soo comfy to abort an innocent child? I mean. What does she want? A marriage title or you two's happiness? Who marries on condition sef? If she decides to abort a child that is very much hers aswell. Great. God didnt appoint her to be the mother of your child/children and by that. You know she aint good for marriage. Ps. Am a lady too
Both of you are not serious.
If u really want to keep the baby, then get ready to marry her
Tell her to calm her blood
Stupid cow. Who do u want to stall? Do d right tin and stop being a cry baby.
nna rie nshi. u want d baby but u aint ready 2 marry her.see ur yeye mouth.assume ur sister came home with dis kinda gist. onye ara
Dear mr man u could atleast do an introduction,pay a bride price nd marry her later nd 2 d young lady trying 2 trap a man wit pregnancy is old fashioned. Aborting or keeping it is really up 2 u.force a man 2 marry u nd live in hell
Tor are U sure U truly love Her? If U do go and Meet Her parent and do some little marriage not Celebration just pay for her Dowry. She dey fear as Baby Mama plenty Dis days.
Bros no vex, na bcos u no be tuface
Dear ....
children are meant to be raised in a home,by both parents legally joined.Since you have the intention of caring for her and the child, then marry her,....there is never a best time"you men should stop this I'm not ready ishh,its becoming stale...do the needful,that baby deserves it.
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But are you really sure that baby belongs to you? She sounds dangerously desperate. . Like one of those types of girls that use pregnancy to trap a man.. such pregnancy could belong to any Tom, Dick or Harry. They just find the perfect maga to pin it on.
U know u are not ready 4 marriage why do u hate condoms, now u want her 2 keep the baby, as wat na, baby mama abi baby machine. U think having a baby outta marriage is easy abi, ma sister I don't advice abortion, but if he's not ready 4 marriage just know he isn't ready 2 take care of a baby. Go ask d price of pampers n sma gold in da market
Pls for God's sake don't kill d baby cos u don't know mayb Dats d only one God written u with
That's d mistake men make. U want her to keep d baby but u re not ready to marry her. Do u think is easy for a woman to have a child outside wedlock? Do u even consider d girls parents? Do u even think about d child's future? If u re not ready to marry, keep ur p****s covered. Don't allow ur s****m to move unguided. The girl has the right to do what so ever she wants to do until u ready duo I don't see ur readiness even in 2020
Go and do the asking 1st and then do the court wedding until you are ready financially for the main ceremony. Court wedding is cheap. What if you change your mind tomorrow after she has given birth to the baby she will now answer 2nd hand. I am married with four lovely kids so I know what I am talking about
U wano marry her leta abi? Nd u say u can Takia of her nd d baby now alredi? Dat means u r evn comfortable so do d needful. She's wrong for threathenin to kill d baby. But oga poster just do d riight fin!
He should just do introduction nw...
Go and do the asking 1st and then do the court wedding until you are ready financially for the main ceremony. Court wedding is cheap. What if you change your mind tomorrow after she has given birth to the baby she will now answer 2nd hand. I am married with four lovely kids so I know what I am talking about
Isn't she lucky! Mine said he doesn't want the child yet and am in my mid 30's . Well, I will go ahead and have my child.. Who cares about the society or culture! ðŸ˜
Oga,what do u expect?Would u want ur own sister bn a single mom?C'mon!...
Any woman that can easily make up her mind to abort her baby cuz of marriage ish is not fit for a wife and capable of murder. Simple! So u do the math. She wants to use the baby to blackmail u into getting whatever it is she wants from u. How sure r u that she's pregnant sef. All this desperate chics. After just a year. She had all these planned out even before she opened her legs and allowed u make love to her with no protection. Nonsense!
So you want her to be your baby mama, it's obvious she doesn't trust that you'd marry her...atleast get her engaged and do a court wedding the other Marital rights can come later
My guy wot happened to the condoms wey dem give u??????
*oparoescalade*
My guy wot happened to the condoms wey dem give u??????
*oparoescalade*
If you really want her and the baby, then marry her now, even if it's just the two of you and your friends in registry, then the traditional and others can take place later. I understand her stand, she doesn't want to take chances. please understand and make a commitment, introduction or registry. You are not ready for marriage as she is not ready for the baby, so you guys should just bend over a little bit and meet at a point
abeg they should park well. ogini bu "dix"??
Isn't she lucky! Mine said he does not want a child yet! Am going ahead to have my child. Obviously he should have known when he was pouring it in there! Who cares about the society or culture!
You are a good and honest guy...
That's all I can say
Wen u were having it unprotected, u didn't know. Its d consequence you get when you can stay celibate. Go nd tie the knot wit her.
Dude yu got er pregnant, just marry er
She probably said so coz she doesnt feel secure, feels yu myt end up dumping er
Marry her at least if not for anything for the sake of the innocent baby. I see no reason why u ain't ready for marriage bou u want a baby, oga nobody wanna b addressed as babymama anymre. So put ur act together and put a ring on it.
2 avoid feud among u guys,use him n moreova u said u L♥√ع him n he loves u too,so where is d doubt coming 4rm?d moment doubt comes in,d love is nt genuine
Go and marry her. Full stop. Whatever excuse you're giving here doesn't make any sense. Since you can take care of her and the unborn baby like you said,marry her into your home and do the care taking inside your house. Haba.
Though I do not support abortion, but you have to go marry her if you really love her. How is she sure that you will not urn her to a baby mama and marry someone else tomorrow. Marriage, I guess is her security, so go do the needful.
Jisos
That chick is damn heartless..... Willing to kill a child cos someone dnt wanna get married to u now
I think shes bluffing she wont do it
Bros u sef gather small money carry ur family go see her familly
Do introduction
*sigggh* this is why celibacy till one is ready is the best thing to do
If u really wanna marry her n u knw u will marry her y nt just do a lil introduction make ur intention known n let her people knw u are really ready to marry their Daughter not dat u want d child alone n make her knw she is save even after the baby.
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Guy nobody is always ready to marry and be committed pls not for the sake of the child but for peace and happiness in your home be wise and think twice if u love her really then y not court her instead
Guy nobody is always ready to marry and be committed pls not for the sake of the child but for peace and happiness in your home be wise and think twice if u love her really then y not court her instead
What should you do? Marry her!!! You want the baby now and the mother later, that's called wickedness, you are selfish and self centred. If ladies stands on their feet like this I think our guys that redi before getting ready will start thinking twice. Babe am with you 101% Abortion is bad!....
Even if its a court wedding and traditional, pls do small thing on her for her family and yours to know each other. Forget the threat. She was taught to do that by her friends. God help you
Mrs Feyi
since u have been with her for years, you ought to be friends with her family. Talk to her mum or dad about it.
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Go hugtransforma u r not ready to marry u go dey fuck .... ! Linda watch it!
Go hugtransforma u r not ready to marry u go dey fuck .... ! Linda watch it!
Bro, she a hoe! Don't fall for the threats
Go hugtransforma u r not ready to marry u go dey fuck .... ! Linda watch it!
Go hugtransforma u r not ready to marry u go dey fuck .... ! Linda watch it!
chai ds wan hard!! wont totally blame her shaa, who knows how long she has spent in the relationship, and also una know say una neva ready, y una no use protection....are u a kid?? ka m juo!
missvee
you should have known to use a condom.but d deed is done. so u have to commit to the relationship. go n see her parent so it will be known that u are responsible for the baby.
If u want the baby den marry d mother of d unborn child. If u were nt ready to marry den u shld have abstained from unprotected sex.
Marry her .mokop
My friend go and marry her biko.you have the money to take care of the child and mother but you aint ready to marry her?then she wil be tagged a baby mama abi?
Go and marry her then
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Am sorry i might sound a bit too hard on u but you are very stupid! You are not ready to marry and you are having unprotected sex with a woman, you claim to love her but u're not ready for marriage now. You even contradict urself. Besides ur babe sef is a fool, she want to abort another pregnancy for an unserious fellow like you? Grow up man, do the right thing! Marry her!
you need to commite to the relationship so she will know dat u are serious. Go and see her parent
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Go and marry her naa,even if is dowry abeg
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Do you know the story of blackmailers. They never stop until everything is all f**ked up.
A woman who loves u will never threaten u, especially to marry her.
If she cant understand your choices now, she never will ever.
You want baby, not d mother. Are u not an idiot?
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Marry her. No woman will be proud walking around with a protuding tummy without any shiny, round, ornament on her finger to show for it.
You are not ready for marriage... condom na how much?
If you are ready to father a child why then ain't you ready to marry?....stop looking for bloody excuses and do the right thing. The girl obviously doesn't want to mother a child out of wedlock...I'm not saying abortion is a good thing...but my guy do the right thing...go see her parents and pay the traditional rights....no one wants to be a glorified baby mama.
Oh God, Women!
Na wa oooo......... how many a guy will say such.
Keep the baby and give him time so he can come for the proper rites.
Abortion is a sin.
I'm sorry, did you say you need the baby?! You need the baby for what, when you're not ready to get married? So that only the girlfriend would be burdened with taking care of the baby abi?!
Pls Use condom next time u wanna fuck
Meanwhile, just convince her about keepn d baby, I wouldn't blame her for wanting to abort d baby, she might be finking of what ppl will say or d shame she's gonna pass through for carrying a baby outside marriage
Another tin is she might want to do it cos of her parents... U guys need to talk (heaart to heart) not somethn to be discussed on social network abeg
Story 4 d gods, if you can take care of her & d baby, why not go ahead & marry her. If you don't have much, you can just do d introduction & do d rest later. Bsyds gf don't use your own unborn child to make threats, make d thing no go backfire. Linda take note!
Story 4 d gods, if you can take care of her & d baby, why not go ahead & marry her. If you don't have much, you can just do d introduction & do d rest later. Bsyds gf don't use your own unborn child to make threats, make d thing no go backfire. Linda take note!
Story 4 d gods, if you can take care of her & d baby, why not go ahead & marry her. If you don't have much, you can just do d introduction & do d rest later. Bsyds gf don't use your own unborn child to make threats, make d thing no go backfire. Linda take note!
Silly boy, please take a sit.
You are most definitely not ready for a baby if you are not ready for marriage. You want to ruin the girl's life by making her your baby mama and not marrying her abi, so her chances of meeting and marrying a good man would be diminished.
Oga do the right thing or leave her alone, don't come here and start acting all self righteous and concerned because you are just a selfish dog!!!!!
I won't advise you to succumb to her threat and forcefully marry her because she is pregnant for you. It could as well be her antics to use pregnancy and tie you down. If you really love her, then go ahead, if not let her do her worst, it might just mean she wasn't meant for you.
Simple threat she won't abort...it are life his involve
she will regret it
Bros u are at fault... She should be a single mum and wait till you are ready...u are actually a selFish person....she will carry the shame that comes with it for 9months while u go about getting ready...marry her now or get out of her life before u ruin it...selfish bastard
Inorder words...U want her to be your baby mama.....nd U a baby papa.............Think again nd start palnning for dat ceremony
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They should goan take a selfie abeg since d niggz doesn't want to do the proper thing the female is thinking about the next 9 months .. She can't do that alone ... Its the girls right to carry the child or not ... Okbye
Sheikh Montana from Singapore
They should both sit down nd really discuss dis, putting themselves in each other 's shoes and come to a decision for wat is best for the child cos it is no more about the two of them.
Can U imagine? Rubbish People!!! U wanna av sex but u don't want 2 marry!! D Idiot girl self allowed u and wants By force Wedding!!
You don't need to do an elaborate wedding or trad. Do the needful!
If you love her and you can take care of her and the baby i don't see any apparent reasons you cant marry her, if there is a reason, no need telling us simply explain it to her, if its logical then it will be clear shes being unreasonable, else you are the unreasonable one. I'm a guy and i sympathize with her cuz our society shuns such women and that's what she doesn't want.
Marry her...if yu neva ready yu no go give her belle....THOU SHALL NOT KILL...
Dear Boyfiend,Show some commitments. Do some traditional rites then marry her proper when you are ready. Dear girlfriend, Abortion is a sin please don't do it.
What do you mean?What should you do?Marry her jare
When u know you are not ready for marriage, why didn't use protection. U want a baby but u are not ready for marriage, the way u sound, she's not sure, if u will even marry her.
When it comes to issue of marriage, ladies never understand. They just want things done their way.
Busy Fingers.
You better go and marry her. U want the baby but u no wan marry her yet. Idiot u they look for person sister life way u wan spoil. May God allow all your sisters life to be like that
Biko marry her n dont ruin her life,wat stops u from doing d necessary tinz,im not advocating for an abortion,but d dude shud marry her,its easy for him to say she shud ave d baby.
These one is strong... Since she don't want to see from your angle you let her have her wish and also let her know that if she aborts the child you lads won't be the way u were b4... Bt u like to make babies bt u never ready fr marriage y u come choop nsala na.
You are a fool, you can have sex with her but you don't wanna marry her now, but later, funny guy... better go n take care of your responsibilities fully... and bae, how far na., well you know d type of guy he is, that's y you were threatening him, he is not serious..... the lord is your strength .....
VERULE Says-then go n see her parents n explain tins to dem,even if is introductn 4 d nw is better. "Beautifu is life""
WTF, if she can threaten you with a baby,she can definitely do anything out of desperation in the marriage.
Go and marry her since u want the baby. nothing is gonna be worse than this
Dats ow all of u promise nd fail later wen d child is born!!! U will sprang up one excuse of y u won't marry her later...abeg go nd do as she says pls
U should b ready to marry Kos u were absolutely ready to have sex wit her!!!!we'av hrd such stories b4 Kos wen d child comes deres notin she can do...Shez obviously Gna suffer alone from wat I see.so go pay ur dues now nigga
She shld have the abortion and kill herself or spoil her womb cos she wants to spite you!! Don't allow anyone force you into marriage, it's not a easy decision though.
Lool wahala..she's desperate oo..And doesn't trust u..Serzly I dont knw what to tell u..Meet her parents and talk it out................................#KingOfKongs #6God
If she was your sister what advice will you give to her? If you answer honestly that's what you should do.
You are just a rabbit. So she should go ahead and have a baby out of wedlock? If someone impregnates your sister without marrying her what will you do? Animal like you. If you are not ready for marriage you are not equally ready to be a father. Ashana!
What to do you ask? Marry her immediately
Hmmmmmmm, me personally I detest abortion, its evil! But bros if you weren't ready why get her pregnant. Pls prepare ur sef nd go see her people. If you can take care of a child now den why not legalise evritin? Ladies go tru a lot wit dis single mother tin. You are a man so iits easier said for you.
What to do you ask? Marry her immediately
Except its a coincidence... but i bet i knw these 2 people involved. In the case i knw, the pregnancy is just God's nemesis upon them!!!!! I wunt say more than this...
I wd advise d guy to just try take a step forward as far as u still plan to marry her. Evn if it's jst court wit only both parents. No woman wnts to give birth outside wedlock or when d guys parents dnt av der full consent. Try n undstnd her. Be assured that the baby wil be a blessing. I went thru d same tin nd we ad to plan intro within 2wks cos my husby is not always around,den d court afta 3months. We ll do d real wedding wen we r bouyant enuf afta delivery.
If you really love her as you claim, then u can mak the move. Gv her an engagement ring n mak her realise u are willing to marry her, tho not ready.
U have to sit her down try to explain things to her don't you that you are to ruin her future for her
if truly u love ar..go and marry her nao...maybe a low key ceremony will do....make her happy and u will not abort d child
You say you want to marry her, so what's the diff if you marry her now or later? Pls stop asking us questions you already knw the answers to
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He should go ahead and marry the girl nau. Ohh so she's good on bed and not for marriage?? Yet u need the child?? Guy go and marry her jor
why una no use condom? guy go and marry her, even if you are not ready, cos i'm not sure i understand what 'not ready'means, if you weren't ready , you wouldn't be having SEX. do the needful dude.
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U love her abi? Den do the right thing and marry her... U men r jst wicked, u dnt want to marry her because ur nt ready, but u want a child out of wedlock, pls marry her u idiot.
If u weren't ready, why go down that lane with her in the ist place. Bros you aint d one who's goin 2 bear the stress of bein pregnant b4 marriage oooo. So marry her quick quick jhor
Mr Oga grow a pair of balls and marry her.
For heavens sake!!! U do not get a girl pregnant and say ur not ready for marriage but u ll take care of the baby. She isn't a baby making machine. If u want kids go adopt one. If u honestly live her like u claim to u will marry her and not want to see her pass through the shame of havin a child out of wedlock.
So she's blackmailing you with your baby's life? I have a feeling she might not be pregnant, but if she truly is and you end up married to her,you won't be happy with such a woman. Any woman that can threaten the life of her child for emotional blackmail can kill even you. Be wise and pray! Also next time use protection. If you're old enough to have sex, you're old enough to take responsibility for your actions
Marry her if you want the baby. If you can take of her and the baby now but you can't you marry her now? Who are you deceiving?If you are not ready to wife her now , believe me you will never be ready. You are ready to be a baby papa, a father but you are not ready to be a husband? Sit up and do the right the thing!
Though, i don't support abortion.
Marry her plx! Yimu
Marry the babe jooh
So u love her enuf to full her pregnant, but not to marry her abi?? IDIOT!!!!
Yimu, be there speaking English don't go and marry the girl. I support. Her decision, if u love her like u claim den marry her and stop lieing to her.
Just try to let her see reasns why you dont want to settle down now she might understand and if she doesnt i guess you just have to marry her because thats the only way you can save the baby.
Wooo, I better b ready to marry her now, or no baby and stop giving silly excuses. Whether u hv money or not they babe is ready to be with u. So do the right thing.
So she will be a baby mama abi
See ur head! So u'r buoyant enough 2 take care of d baby & herself yet u can't do d needful. When u knew u weren't ready y did u indulge? with ur chat it's obvious u don't even intend 2 get married 2 her. U want a child, yet u ain't ready abi? What ever decision she takes, deal with it.
#Nonsense!!!!
See ur head! So u'r buoyant enough 2 take care of d baby & herself yet u can't do d needful. When u knew u weren't ready y did u indulge? with ur chat it's obvious u don't even intend 2 get married 2 her. U want a child, yet u ain't ready abi? What ever decision she takes, deal with it.
#Nonsense!!!!
men are so selfish sha.. u're not ready for marriage but u expect her to be ready for a child out of wedlock..u try
U r not serious at all..u want a baby nd u r not ready to get married.you r very insensitive and selfish period.
It's unfortunate u got urself into his mess. But all hope is not lost. I'll advise u at least take a first of going to see her parents. Probably do d introduction part of d marriage. And then ask ur girl to chill so that u both can plan very well for a proper marriage. If worse comes to worst, then do just court marriage first since it isn't a huge ceremony but with her parent's consent. Don't let her push u above what u can provide. U say u don't want marriage but u'll cater for her and child? Funny bcos dat's already a husband's duty right there. But like i said get her parents involved and i think they will calm ur gf down a bit and protect the baby's live. Good luck
If you've shown her love in some cases in the past, and she love you genuinely, she should reason with you, and keep the baby. But if she's doubting your love for her she may not be able to keep the baby.
Oh, u don't want to marry but u want a child, do you think its easy to be a single mother ? For a guy who might marry someone else after? Do u think if u leave her later she would be able to move on easily as an 'after one'? A beg stop making noise and marry her. If u can afford to take care of the child u can afford to marry her.
Please people pre marital sex is not right. Wait till marriage. While the did has been done, still the girl can't abort the baby. Na mouth she dey. She just wants to tie you down.
Poster Ya very stupid!!! Do the damn needful rubbish.. go pay her bride price..
you want the baby but u don't want to marry her now, pls like she said do the right thing ok, just make it simple it must not be the Nigerian flamboyant wedding, u no its not all parents that want their children to have babies out of wedlock, pls try to understand her by doing the right thing no matter how small. thank you.
Call her bluff bro, let's see what she does.
WTF, if she can threaten you with a baby, she can definitely threaten you with anything out of desperation,in the marriage .
You are not a real man. You sound like a "momma's boy". Grow up dude and stop waiting for someone to push you into marriage. I wonder what you were thinking when you inserted your straw into her!!!!!!Silly guy
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