When asked about her marriage plans in an interview with Encomium mag, actress Eniola Badmus said she must date a guy for at least five years before she will consider marrying him. Eniola said:
"What is the point if I marry today and tomorrow it's over? What's the essence? I am living my life. I will have a baby when necessary. Marriage is good but what's the essence of me getting married today and tomorrow I'm not in it? For any man I am going to marry or call my husband we should be together for five years before we walk down the aisle. We may have children but at least after five years I will know that you're ready for me. Not getting married today, and tomorrow he's out! I've seen it happen to my friends, I don't want to go through that trauma.
Erm, that you date a guy for five years doesn't guarantee that the marriage will last...or does it? :-)
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She is not an illiterate but lacks wisdom for marriage.
Akpa akpu
I think I agree with her! By the 3rd or 4th year, if you discover that the guy isn't good, you go for another one and begin another 5-yr foolish journey. It is ladies(mumu) like you that guys are looking for. From what she has told us, I don't think she went to school and if she did, she should apply for refund of her school fees asap!
madam please at what age? na wa o
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Ur mate for monkeydon born finish. Wait for me make i cum date u for 5 dayz
God bless you my sister.
Sweet story mama boy. N true too
If u like date him for 15yrs before u say YES I DO .....he can stil dump u a year into ur marriage making 16yrs....so who dey fool who?
Werin do d'eyesz
Babes its all about meeting the right man not by dating till thy kingdom come, no guarantee on that, so be wise n pray also. I wish u luck
Lin Lin, hubby proposed 1 month after we met. 5 years later and two kids, the loving is stronger and stronger. Hardships, tests, trials and difficulties only reinforce the love. And i am born-again; hubby is not.
The lesson i learnt is this: Work on your marriage as if ur life depended on it and pray to God for grace, wisdom and guidance as if everything depended on Him only.
The solution is extreme but it works.
May God equally bless u with a good man who can call your own Linda... just like our dear sister Sunmbo.
Am interested stay in ogba
This girl is just seeking media attention ni and she has obviously gotten it. As we speak she is asking my man out, this shrek of a thing. lwkmd
Just make sure u're not on per seconds to menopause...
As you be like this? ok ooooo eating my Oka crisps and shaking my head in pity.
U go dey there old. orobo
To summarize all wot she said,i think all this nollywood actress want husband they can control at home and i think that is why most of'em have crashed marriage,,,even the slim lepa ladies out there are willing to marry while orobo like her want to play around man for 5years b4 she marry,i pity her.
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha..... Gbamm
who want date orobo self see her mouth,five years ok na u go stal dere tii u old mmmmwwwwwwwwwmmmmmmm
na u get ur mouth nd ur body if u like date for 20yr old woman
So true my dear besides her excuse is so lame, been with a man for 100yrs is not a guarantee that u know him biko next plzzzz
dats not a gaurantee my dear
not a gaurantee dear
Mama go nd marry Jor
it does not o..not at all
Stop giving excuses for stil bn single, 5 years my foot
Anty u beta wake up, veri soon dat tiny gurl on ur strit will giv u her weddin IV nd I knw u wil b very glad 2 grace her occassion. U beta think right nd stop deceiving urself. Who knw sef, mayb u just talk dis 1 2 cova up d main tin wey dey do u. Sha wake up its 4 ur own gd
Sometimes you need to know where she is coming from. She's from a polygamous home where her mother isn't even married to her father....
Anyway, all that makes a marriage work is determination to humble yourself to make it work. I dated my husband for just six months, we have been marrieed 10 years....and happily too! Meet someone that likes you more than you like dem and stay committed shikena. Five yeas dating ke! ?
Fat ass bitch, who go fit kari am
Dating a man for a long time does not translate into a successful marriage. Maybe Eni is still enjoying her life not knowing that time waits for no one.
Girls out there just know that there is no time to waste time if you see a man who accepts you settle down and pray to God for a successful marriage.
Shut your dirty mouth with Ur stupid analysis..... U live in her head so u know what she meant by every word .... Hypocritica fools. It's her life let her do what she wants.... And for Ur information u fools, all this bloggers paraphrase interviews to suit themselves and bring traffic to their blogs.... So lets hope this is how she truly said it
Well i kinda agree with her although it still doesnt guarantee a happy marriage. I have been with my bf for 4yrs plus and each day he does new things to make me reconsider why i am even with him sef. Ok, that said, dating a man for long years still wont guarantee a happy marriage. Men are stupid, women are crazy...the combination of both can always be disastrous.
My husband proposed after 7 months and we married within 5 months. 3 years later and two children later, we are happy and still going strong. I don't know what Eniola is talking about, maybe she's scared and using her friends' situation to explain away her commitment phobia or maybe she isn't getting approached by anyone on account of a lot of thinks like what she does for a leaving and I dare say her weight so it is just easier to say she all of what she has just said.
She needs to be quiet and stop writing checks her butt can't cash. Sometimes, the words of our mouths will lock us into a situation and we wonder why we don't see changes in our lives. It is best to keep your mouth shut rather than say stupid things that will come to pass.
Years of courtship does nt mata, na ur palaba be dat even u court for 20. Mtcheww
#fact.......first class fool
Looooooooooooooooooooool @ fatty of life! In fact the whole comment.
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