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Monday, 6 March 2017

Mother of four who was in a bad marriage dies in controversial circumstances

Facebook user, Rita Ekeoha Aju, shared this sad story of a former model and mother of four, Mirian Oluchi Okpara who recently died while in a bad marriage. She was allegedly electrocuted while trying to turn on the generator. However, there are allegations that her husband, whom she feared so much and who constantly abused her, might have a hand in her death. Read what Rita wrote after the cut...


"I write this with tears. Mirian Oluchi Okpara eventually died in that marriage. So I received a call last night from my friend, that our friend Oluchi had died. According to report, she was electrocuted while switching on the generator for the kids and the husband in the house. She was found shaking on the floor and died on their way to the hospital. Many believe she was murdered. One of Oluchi's cousins said ''My dear where will I start, what she told you was what she told everyone of us, do you know she can't talk to me on phone, she can't even dare to say anything to any of her cousins, my aunty her mum can't even go to the house, her sim card is always changed, she is threatened always, and just yesterday my senior cousin told me the bastard ( her husband) called him to inform that Oluchi is dead, and this is my cousin he prevented her from calling. Sorry my dear there is no point crying over spilled beans. But that guy will never know peace.'' 
Well I want to believe she was murdered too, because before my friend Miriam died, she called me to explain all she has been going through in the hands of her husband. She said, the man changes her sim like pure water, because he doesn't want any other man to admire her because she is a very beautiful woman with light skinned complexion. She said, he does not allow her to even visit the saloon, she must not go out of the house. She complained that she practically lives in bondage because of her beauty. The day she went out to buy egg for the children, the husband beat her to stupor for going out instead of telling him to buy it for them. 
The worst part is that he stopped her relatives from visiting her including her mother. It was out of pressure, he allowed her to join the Catholic women organisation in her church and he must attend with her on meeting days, and when ever he is not around, she goes no where. My friend Miriam was able to call my line because, during our growing days, she had crammed it plus the numbers are easy to remember. On one occasion I asked if I should seek for help for her, she said no to that, the husband will know she has been able to contact someone outside the four walls of the house. She cried the last time we spoke that, her husband only brought her to this house to breed children for him, while he enjoys himself with other women outside. Now I wished I had helped her then even when she insisted that I shouldn't so that the husband will not beat her for contacting anyone outside. 
Woow, so truly Miriam Oluchi Okpara eventually died in this marriage. What will happen to her suckling 1year old baby, what will happen to her other 3kids. So ends the journey of a 33 year old model.
No woman should remain in a Domestic Violence marriage, No woman should live in fear, Seek for help where you can, Marry your friend not just any man because he is rich."

20 comments:

Unknown said...

Now that she is dead let him remain on earth

Anonymous said...

If he is an igbo man I am not surprised, that is the leg my husband brought because of my youth and beauty, but my Niger delta no gree, my folks no dey for such bullshit, they subdued him and put the fear of God in him, not to mention as I was taking him to police, I no dey for bullshit, hi folks don't like me cause i'm not their tribe and they can't control me, but I don't give a shit. Sometimes it's good to have an iron family behind u, these ones sound playful.

Bree said...

Very sad...RIP

Anonymous said...

All of u knew what she was going through and u kept quite, waiting for her to die. Why re u telling us all ds? Too late, too bad. Rip to d dead.

Fine Nonny said...

What stopped the entire family from going to the man's house and pick their daughter. God bear me witness I can never leave my love one to any devil of a man. If ur stupid brain will not teach u wat to do with such men my people will slap some sense into u. Rubbish! Every time one will be reading all these annoying things women face bcos of ignorance and stupidity.

Anonymous said...

What d he'll is wrong with most Igbo men. This is why your women will run to the so called Yoruba demon. If u don't like her bn pretty, dnt marry her.

Anonymous said...

Chai. Some men are sick. At this modern age?

Unknown said...

Na wah... dee

Unknown said...

sad!
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

OSINANL said...

NA WAOH!

Unknown said...

That is my igbo men for you. They can b annoying. This is jst sad. She shod have reported him and taken all d kids away buh dats neva gonna happen. Not jst d igbos, also the delta and Edo men r lik dis, period

Ririeye said...

I wrote this Story..... the beast of a husband had the guts to reply me on his wall .....guys check Collins Chinedu Okpara.

Anonymous said...

Hmmm speechless but such men will die miserable

Unknown said...

You are a lying fool!

Anonymous said...

Rita Ekeoha Aju, the bastard, that wrote this fabricated this fake story about late Lady Mirian Oluchi Okpara, and her loving husband, Sir Collins Okpara, is an old time rival, of late Mirian, who was happily married. She unfortunately died of electrocution and her family and children are in deep mourning. The said Rita Ekeoha Aju, once went to late Mirian's house at Onitsha,on a short stay and tried to seduce her husband. She equally stole Mirian's gold and trinkets box, prompting Mirian to ban her from ever coming to her house. Rita Ekeoha Aju, who is equally on Facebook, is a low life and her story should be ignored.

Anonymous said...

My friend, don't work yourself up over a fake story. The story poster, Rita Ekeoha Aju, is on a vendetta or hate mission ruin the lovely couple.

Anonymous said...

Please don't mind the story poster, Rita Ekeoha Aju. She fabricated the story of hell marriage and lifted the family photo of late, Mirian online, from her Facebook page. That photo was taken at the Holy Baptism of late Mirian's last child at St Gregory's Catholic, Parish, Iyiowa, Odekpe, Ogbaru LGA, Anambra State,at the frontage of the Rev Father's house. Mirian and her husband are strong Christian, Catholics, while the story poster is a low life and petty thief. She once stole Mirian's jewelries. Ignore her post.

Anonymous said...

The poster or the low life, Rita Ekeoha Aju, goes by the name RIRI EYE, here, on lindaikejiblog. She is on a hate mission, just because Mrs Mirian died. Ignore her post.

Anonymous said...

The poster or the low life, Rita Ekeoha Aju, goes by the name RIRI EYE, here, on lindaikejiblog. She is on a hate mission, just because Mrs Mirian died. Ignore her post.

Anonymous said...

You tried to sleep with late Mirian's husband and you equally stole her jewelry box, prompting her to ban you from coming to her matrimonial home. Extreme hate mission is not good. Repent, Rita! RIP to the dead.

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