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Monday, 6 March 2017

Did we see what rape victims go through on Big Brother Naija yesterday?

The Big Brother Naija housemates basically tore TBoss apart after Kemen said that she was responsible for his disqualification on Sunday. Although Kemen had the lowest votes and was going to be evicted anyway (unknown to the housemates), he was disqualified for his inappropriate attempt to molest Tboss as she slept at night. This was after he quickly checked to make sure no one was looking and the indoor cameras were not pointed at him.
After his exit, Bisola and married man, Thin Tall Tony ganged up with the other housemates and became hostile to Tboss.

Bisola even went as far as calling her 'an evil white witch, bitch and cursed'.

Eventually, after the truth was revealed to Bisola and the other housemates, they hung their heads in shame as they realized their terrible actions and went to apologize to her.

Nigerians were of course not pleased with their actions and dragged them on twitter. See more tweets and watch the video that caused Kemen's disqualification, below:









47 comments:

Unknown said...

Stupid show... jobless people!!

Unknown said...

Ok, seen!

Joyous babe,Linda ikeji first cousin said...

Bisola is a topical Yoruba woman that is how they behave, Choii! I hate her attitude.

Juliet Iwobi said...

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Unknown said...

Bullshit!

Oghenetega said...

Don't I Just Love Nigerians....
Bisola screwed Up Big time with that agama Lizard TTT wey she dey Follow...
Bassey Na Big Fool and im more disappointed in Bally...
Shameless set of people ...
These girl wasn't herself and they ganged up against her still & she was so Matured and Classy and Forgiven...
I wish I can have her heart.
Shame on Bisola the Ring Leader and a Lady...
Bassey and TTT & im Most.. disappointed in Bally ...

Unknown said...

Abeg they should leave Bisola and this case alone. Judgement has been passed. Tboss didn't look sad when kemen disqualified. Even when they asked her what happened,she said she didn't know. It was Kemen that told them and they acted Based on what he told them,its normal. Buh when they found out what really happened,they apologised so people should stop calling Bisola names,it happens,she was just been human.














Lib addict#just passsing#

Anonymous said...

NOTE: Efe never said a word.

Anonymous said...

Just wondering how many other victims are out there. Can you leave your daughter unattended with a guy like this? 9 days for the thief......

CHERYL (aka FROM GLORY to GLORY) said...

Never voting for bisola and the useless ttt....


Long live LIB

Unknown said...

I JUS LOVE NIGERIANS!
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Anonymous said...

Na spiritual conji.

Anonymous said...

Bisola clearly felt threatened by the emergence of TBoss into the "imagined" love triangle she currently has going with TTT. She's the typical Anti-feminist Feminist: "If she didn't say No it wasn't rape". Watching the episode just shows the amount of rot in the social fabric of our society. Just saturday, Bisola was practically groping and grinding the behind of every big brother male housemate does that give anyone the license to touch her in her sleep? How would she feel if someone touched her daughter inappropriately when she(daughter) becomes of age?


As for TTT, I don't have even respect for him to even make a comment about him. Bally took us two days back to when TBoss asked Kemen to massage her and use that as a way to blame her for everything that happened. What has 25 million naira blinded you all from your humanity? You think you are in a video "game"? This is real life: if Soma banged Gifty in the house without a condom chances are she would turn up pregnant months later. Don't ever joke with reality!

Society places a certain disdain for rape victims. Even as a boy I was touched in my sleep (by another boy) and when I got up, I wasn't sure if it was a bad dream or real and honestly the stigma that comes with being violated prevented me from baiting him out (I had to pretend I couldn't sleep and read a book through out the night to stay awake because I was in his house and couldn't trust myself to catch him in the act!) Now, imagine that for a girl!

Things like this make me sick to the core...Obviously, if TTT, Bally or Bisola wins this show I'll take it as a subtle approval of rape! And Payporte and Multichoice will not be seeing my 1 kobo anytime soon.


~ARightLibertarian.

merikse chinedu eziuloh said...

Linda,do i have to bribe u or ur crew before my comments are approved & published

merikse chinedu eziuloh said...

Bisola time in d #bbhouse is up.its gud d wind has blown & d yansh of d fowl is revealed.it is in a situation like dis dat one's true character can not be concealed just as Bisola has shown.too bad for down right hating ur fellow female housemate, remember God

Unknown said...

Debbie rise is the mumu in dat house, ttt is one tall dumb ass who thinks hez smart and the die for prick bisola will continue to follow... dee

OSINANL said...

KEMEN IS A DISGRACE TO AKWA IBOM RACE...
BISOLA SHOULD BE THE NEXT TO BE THROWN OUT... SHE'S ALSO A DISGRACE FOR MOLESTING A MARRIED MAN

Anonymous said...

Big Brother show must be eradicated for providing a platform for immoral acts!

Unknown said...

I just realize dat TTT is stupid and I don't want to wish wat hapnd to tboss to his daughter cos how can some one go tru something like dat nd TTT is saying y dint she tell u. Tell u as wat. And if she tells u wat will u do abt it.am sad that even wit his age he talked dat way but am not surprised cos dats how TTT is he could have done d same as Kamen looking at the kind of things he does in d house I can tell wat he is outside.am just ashamed of TTT nd bisola dey have a way of draging d crowd to doing wat dey want nd like imagine after TTT heard he was still saying dere are two sides to a coin wat nonsense talk nd dats wat we face in dis world nd bisola hate 4 tboss I don't know if it's cos she sees her as attractive or wat

Anonymous said...

God will bless u for this comment. What more can I say?

Athena said...

Lovely piece! They, TTT, Bally and Bisola CANNOT even win. They will be in the house long enough to smell the cash and keep us entertained till end of the show then hand over the money to Efe.

Anonymous said...

like seriously, the way some people thinks baffles me.
now to come to reality, according to the video. TBoss was asleep but she realized on time way-before Kemen went deep that something is going on, and she still could not chase him or raise alarm? and people are saying shes innocent of this act? noooooo...........truth be told. Shes part of the cause.

one, she should not have allowed Kemen in her bed and secondly she should have raised alarm or chase him out immediately such occurred, becos we all know that TBoss is a cautious person, so she knew all along what Kemen wants.

so i see her as a non-truthful lady!

so please lets say the truth when we have to.

For Bisola and TTT, they r playing their games and Bisola is innocent if she falls for TTT bcos shes not aware of his outside person.

Kemen should have received another strike, not a disqualification, and TBoss be given a serious warning.

*mytake

Anonymous said...

I love what big brother did by disqualifying him and ttt n bisola I don't know what to say to you people,so because bisola is so loose and stupid she now thinks everybody is just like her. shameeee.

Anonymous said...

I love what big brother did by disqualifying him and ttt n bisola I don't know what to say to you people,so because bisola is so loose and stupid she now thinks everybody is just like her. shameeee.

Unknown said...

Of all the housemates, Debbie Rise was the only one that stood for the truth, despite the gang up By Bisola and TTT, Debbie stayed, she even talked to Bassey that if Those had opened up none of the housemates will believe which is the bitter truth. Anyways we shud all open our eyes and vote wisely. May the best man wins

Unknown said...

You are right

Anonymous said...

No means No!!! the rape culture is prevalent in our society that it is now a norm.. i cant recall of over a hundred times i have been in this same situation as tboss right from when i was a teenager. is it the man who sat by me in a public bus and was groping me while i was in jss1 on my way to school? or my private lesson chemistry teacher who kept putting his hands under my skirt no matter how frightened i looked? or my mathematics teacher who kept touching my ass anytime i go to submit my papers?

then in my university, a guy would come to your room to visit and would refuse to go untop of it force himself on you with the slightest opportunity? i can go on and on!!! if a woman says no she dosnt mean maybe, stop!!! do not continue it is sexual molestation!!

i remember when i decided not to have sex till i get married after i broke up with my bf. i stayed for 2 years without sex. one day, my colleague came to my room before i said jack he began to caress, kiss i kept saying stop and i honestly meant it.. he kept touching me till he reached my privates and saw i was wet.. hewo to him it was a go ahead. body no be fire wood i was horny because he began to touch me but i really wanted him to stop guess what? i was trying to push him off and what i felt was his penis inside me then i gave in. that is sexual molestation!! when a woman or man says no. stop!!!! if tboss wanted kemen to continue she would have not have said she didn't consent. tboss is a no nonsense woman, she was obviously tipsy which made her sleep so deep. i throw up in my mouth when i see women justifying what kemen did. you are bastards...

Tboss thank God you are European press charges for sexual assault, to add insult to injury the rapist kemen said he didnt do anything wrong, that is the way he sleeps... pervert is that the way you sleep if your sister lies on your bed??? ugly mofo instead of him to tender an apology. this is bullshit!!! linda thank you as you post my comment.

Unknown said...

Who beg uuu....if u no votevfir her...we go do

Anonymous said...

Anonymous 10:49, your take stinks to high heaven. You are a sick pervert for posting the sick comment above. I hope what was done to Tboss happens to your son or daughter, then you will know that sexual violation is no joke. What a disgusting excuse for a human being you are. Shame on you. Pervert!!!! The woman was asleep when he decided to fondle her and you blame her???

So Bisola a mother giving head to a stranger she met less than a month ago on live TV is 'playing the game'? Forget that he is married, because the man never told anyone and he is someone without an ounce of integrity for denying his family/hiding his marital status, the point is should, a mother be giving head to anybody let a lone a stranger on live television? What message is she sending her own child let alone others?

As talented and fun as Bisola is, she has completely lost any respect and rooting most of us had for her. She was on course to possibly win but her behaviour of late and her reaction to Tboss' predicament was vile and disgusting coming from a woman. She should have known better. Blinded by her jealous rage simply because TTT had taken a shine to Tboss, she went for the jugular and said terrible things with her stupid cohorts (TTT, Bassey and Bally). I am very disappointed in Bally's reaction too and hope he doesn't win the show either cause he could have won it really (asides Efe that is). It just goes to show how shallow they all are and they don't deserve to win.

Kemen on the other hand got his comeuppance. He was always fond of dry humping or fondling the women in the house anytime they were under the influence of alcohol. I watched one time when he was dry humping Gifty because she was so drunk and the same Tboss kept reprimanding him to stop it. He has tarnished his image for good. As a fitness instructor, no woman in her right senses will want to deal with him for fear of being sexually molested under the guise of being their personal trainer, so i guess he will have to seek an alternative vocation that doesn't involve close physical contact with women. He should be ashamed of himself and perhaps should seek counselling for his gross behaviour. Only God knows how many other victims of his exist out there. He is lucky he was not arrested and charged; one stupid person suggesting that he ought to have received 'another strike'. Simply unbelievable.

Sick people like you should keep your sick comments to yourself. It is your kind that makes this world a really vile and unsafe place for fellow human beings. In the final analysis i pray that you or no one you know is ever sexually molested, but watch what you say and how you judge carelessly. God is watching all of us.

Anonymous said...

Abeg ohhh when someone is touching your vagina wont you feel it even wen sleeping y did she not question him wen she work up.

Unknown said...

Okay...

Anonymous said...

At last this happening has drumed up a great deal of sympathy support for TBoss, this made me to remember the BB episode in UK couple of years ago ! I will not be surprised if TBoss win the game however I pray that Efe will not make mistake; he is the percentile to win the game.

Anonymous said...

At last this happening has drumed up a great deal of sympathy support for TBoss, this made me to remember the BB episode in UK couple of years ago ! I will not be surprised if TBoss win the game however I pray that Efe will not make mistake; he is the percentile to win the game.

Anonymous said...

Well said!

ajibola said...

Am really happy abt a lot of comments here, need I say more? apart from one shameless anonymous that believed that kemen is not all at fault.Even the cabals in d house(Bisola;ring leader, ttt, bally) realised that they made a mistake

Anonymous said...

Go and hug transformer....like she knows he is married bloody hypocrite!!!!

Anonymous said...

You too remember God...because she did render her apologies..to err is human to forgive is divine.....if u were God what will u do..cut out her tongue!!!

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Unknown said...

We have all been crucifying Bisola,,Bassey,Bally and TTT for there act against Tboss but shy away from the fact that #BBNaija has been the apex promoter of immortality in our country.
How many parents have been able to guide there kids from watching this show of shame?
It all started with kissing,sucking and fondling if boobs,twerking etc all.
All these shouldn't have been allowed not televised.
Just an opinion oooiii

Unknown said...

We have all been crucifying Bisola,,Bassey,Bally and TTT for there act against Tboss but shy away from the fact that #BBNaija has been the apex promoter of immortality in our country.
How many parents have been able to guide there kids from watching this show of shame?
It all started with kissing,sucking and fondling if boobs,twerking etc all.
All these shouldn't have been allowed not televised.
Just an opinion oooiii

Unknown said...

We have all been crucifying Bisola,,Bassey,Bally and TTT for there act against Tboss but shy away from the fact that #BBNaija has been the apex promoter of immortality in our country.
How many parents have been able to guide there kids from watching this show of shame?
It all started with kissing,sucking and fondling if boobs,twerking etc all.
All these shouldn't have been allowed not televised.
Just an opinion oooiii

Emeka said...

Go and look for the definition of deep sleep. At least Tboss had some reflex action & quickly turned away even in her deep sleep. But Kemen didnt stop. He deserves what he got

Pascal said...

Bisola passed some racist comments by calling Tboss a white bitch just bcos Tboss is mixed race. She forgot that her TTT & Gifty are also mixed race too. Foolish local Bisola. She is a dracular while TTT is a Girraffe. Fools

Pascal said...

@NNenna George BBN is an adult show. If u dont like it, simply unsubscribe. It is not by force to watch it. Dont tune in please!

Anonymous said...

being humanly stupid abi? thot courtesy demands that u hear both sides of d story b4 passin judgement. But bcos dose fools all hav an inferiority complex around Tboss, dey pounced with their ignorance

Anonymous said...

Bisola na real wa & TTT is just a desperate fool. Shamefully d two oldest lizards in d house.

Anonymous said...

U are wrong. A woman can be touched without being aware. I was once touched by a friend when I was sleeping. He stopped bc I turned away. He thought I knew what he tried to do. I didn't and wouldn't have known had he not confessed. So quit being judgemental. She turned unconsciously away from an uncomfortable stimulus. Can't imagine being touched by someone I have no feeling for and without consent too

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