Ben posted that the reader who has been abroad for a while and recently returned to Nigeria is suspicious that his wife might not have been faithful to him all the years he's been away and as such, he wants to carry out a DNA test on all his kids to ascertain their paternity and he was asking to be referred to a good hospital. When the post was shared, it rubbed a few people the wrong way because they felt he had no right to conduct a DNA test without his wife's knowledge, especially considering that he left her lonely for years and he was most likely not 100% faithful to her while he was away.
Soon after he shared the post, Ben got a threat from a female reader who cautioned him against bringing up the DNA test issue and warned him that he was going to destroy a lot of marriages if he continues advising men to test their kids. This led to a lot of arguments; some in support of men taking all their kids for DNA test because a lot of women are no longer faithful. There were those who were against the test and the drama has been going on since last night till now.
The originator of the DNA drama received a lot of antagonisms and his group, Ila Otu, was reported to Facebook and has now been taken down.
Meanwhile, one particular post arguing against the DNA test is from a Facebook user called Mama Denzel. She wrote that if a man requests to carry out a DNA test on your kids and you know he isn't their father, the next course of action should be to kill him. Another user wrote that it is illegal to conduct a DNA paternity test on your child/children without the consent of your partner according to the Human tissue act of 2004 (UK).
See screenshots of some of the arguments arising from the DNA test drama below...
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Lol @ "Kill any Man who goes for DNA test", You wan kill all Men wey dey dis world, You no fit Madam... God no fit give you that chance.
All of them foolishly trusting the DNA test as the "be all, say all" when it can be erratic,wrong and misleading sometimes.
Google it and see thousands of not millions of wrong DNA test. Don't put your trust on it.
Oya let the checking begin biko
wot hogwosh!!! d ben guy needs help....u r supposedly literate so u cant google DNA clinics or hospital in ur choice area and make a call or chek its autauthenticity.y announce on social media..who cares !!!!
honestly mark shd ban unrelated rubbish posts there shd be more checks on wot we see on facebook and social media..
make men dey go do DNA naa shey dey have money ..for those dat dont suspect dia wives now will start rubbish...
but ds is crazy...for a woman to even have sex on her unsafe period to a side guy and have kids outside when her hubby is fertile is just beyond me..
Men do ds shit all d time but d % for women must be low..
its not a matter of mistake naa u must actually have a reason for it
Mama Denzel, The woman should kill her husband because of DNA? Are you effing serious? Does that mean the husband can kill the wife for cheating and birthing another man's children?
This questions needs to be answered please.
I'm a woman by the way.
Things are happening indeed
Women and wahala
Bunch of cheaters..so its now a crime for a man to carry out DNA test on his kids?did I see someone write he left her lonely for years?wasn't he coming home to charge her battery from time to time?so for the few months that he wasn't around will warrant her to cheat?to the extent of taking in for another man..now he shouldn't do DNA test on the kids and just keep them even if they are not his kids?when he didn't say he wanted an adoption or weren't they doing phone sex or laptop sex which ever.look at the ladies shouting..why should he carry out such test on his kids.God will expose any woman to is unfaithful or has kids for someone else outside her marriage. Please all men should go do DNA test on their kids ooo.in fact I'm taking up the campaign ..on my way to my village now to go meet my dad for my own DNA.. Will tell u guys the result later even though I already now what the result will be,dey no born my mama well.
Nigeria is so backward, yet they copy America. DNA test here in USA is done on a daily basis without any brush. When you doubt the paternity of your child, both of you will agree to do a paternity test and clarify it. I don't know why it is causing brouhaha on the internet. It's high time we stop embarrassing ourselves on the world stage. Let the man do the DNA on his kids, is it not his fundamental human right? It is a big deal here in the US to hide the paternity of your child and deceive a man into taking care of another man's child. Almost a criminal act.
Why are the women worried thou? Their online rant can't change anything. The man has made up his mind and that is it.
In developed countries, men do paternity of their children steady. It also helps in self control because you don't want to give another man's child to another man.
Why are you scared?
DNA test should be a regular thing to be doing in every home. It is done in developed countries where the cost of taking care of kids are high. No man wants to fall for that.
The earlier husbands start doing DNA on their kids the better for them and their families.
I'm sure my father will never get a DNA test because the resemblance between us is uncanny, including my sibling. However, the fact that this has so many women quaking in their boots to the extent of making threats is enough reason for men having doubts about their children's paternity to go ahead and be sure of themselves.
This reaction has shown the level of infidelity among married women in Nigeria. Men wise up oh, take your kids for DNA test oh, they are indirectly confessing.
If your home is broken because it is discovered that you lied about the paternity of your children, this man is not at fault. You are the architect of your own fate.
Hmmm
... Merited happiness
There's a similar case that happened in Dallas USA some time ago. When a man went to donate organ for his sick daughter, but it did not match because she was not his biological child. Out of frustration, the man conducted a DNA test on four of his children and found out that the four kids were not his, and the wife confessed that his best friend fathered all the kids he's been laboring and taking care of.
But unfortunately he killed the woman, the man, and the kids and turned himself in.
What a waste, from an uncontrollable lust to wipe out a whole generation.
There's a similar case that happened in Dallas USA some time ago. When a man went to donate organ for his sick daughter, but it did not match because she was not his biological child. Out of frustration, the man conducted a DNA test on four of his children and found out that the four kids were not his, and the wife confessed that his best friend fathered all the kids he's been laboring and taking care of.
But unfortunately he killed the woman, the man, and the kids and turned himself in.
What a waste, from an uncontrollable lust to wipe out a whole generation.
Too funny. Woman sha
Guys, I told y'all!!! Women are coded! I always laugh at Nigerian men, they think they can cheat? Your women are the real MVPs! Lol. I support #DNA. Many marriages go break down lol.
Guys, I told y'all!!! Women are coded! I always laugh at Nigerian men, they think they can cheat? Your women are the real MVPs! Lol. I support #DNA. Many marriages go break down lol.
Hahahahahahaha...Many married women dey fear LWKMD!
DNA is the truth. Buahahahahahahahaa..
Most first born in nigerian family aren't for the husband especially if the girl has a school boyfrirend
So that means most of the married women are cheating or cheated on their men??? Wawu!
Yes its on report and has been analysed..check your 1st born wella
But this can destroy lots of home u know
Ignorance is bliss atimes
Men don't check it pls
It's heart breaking
Most women has confessed to their girlfriend that their children aren't for the husband
Maybe 1 or 2 might be away matches
Things happen in life
We all make mistakes
They're idle
As if my colleague knew about this DNA stuff will happen today and was telling me a story of one nurse he wanted to marry not knowing that the girl was already pregnant for her boyfriend but didn't want to marry him but prefers my colleague who has the fear of God and self control. Men if you suspect anything,I support you to go for DNA test,women cab do an undo.
That offended woman must have a child that does not belong to her husband. She how she take the wahala on top her head.
Men should do DNA and many will ve surprise. Cheating is both ways though. Fathering a child out of wedlock and hiding it from your wife is synonymous to a woman giving you a baby that is not yours
AND THEY BE MAKING STUPID NOISE ABOUT MEN BEING SCUM AND CHEATING A LOT!
THIS A SCIENTIFIC STUDY OF WHY WOMEN CHEAT, HOW TO FIND OUT WHEN THEY'RE CHEATING AND HOW TO PREVENT IT!!!
READ AND THANK ME LATER!
Wonder shall never end, Nigerian women.... God will help we all.
Craxy
Nawa oh. No be small thing. Me sidon with my popcorn and enjoying the whole drama
And here I am, begging wise for DNA and he is running away,so he avoids responsibilities. God help us oh!
The group name sef ila otu.. ha!.. what a group.. as for DNa test. Na them know. If they finds out is not their kids nko. Abeg.
#myOneWishIsToMeetWithLinda
You will post something to us and win'twin' t post our comments on that issue. Confused much Linda
Hmmm. Lindaikeji it not a new thing especially to igbo women, at least 30% of igbo women has children through various means. If they don't get impregnated by stranger ,they will either pretend to be pregnant before child birth, they buy stolen child as if they gave birth to the child. That why says of child is a very lucrative business in east. But they do all this cos their isn't patients with them.
Women have now known how to play tit for tat game
Men don't do it
Stopeet
Remember the amount u spent on ur marriage
Love all children as urs
Mama Denze or whatever she's called, advising women to kill their men over DNA.. shame on you and your mother. U lack home training.
Some women get mind;very wicked people.see that one say make them kill the husband wey demand for DNA test.so,instead wey your dirty undies go show make the world end.
I have always said it that most married women are cheat.the wicked runnet while no one chases.why worried if your mind if then.
If my husband should take my kids without my notice for DNA test I'll arrest and sue him to court. Then when the results comes out saying he's d true father...I'll divorce him. Anyman that can't trust his wife isn't worth being with
Nigerian men go and do DNA on all your kids oh. Don't say I didn't warn you all.
You're useless. Na your type dey cheat pass. As you Neva marry u dey here dey shout. Anuofia!
Why don't you divorce him upfront if you are sure??? Jezebel! Shioor!!!
Not kill any man, just kill ur husband if he suggests that, he will just die mysteriously, I know a poison that is untraceable in the body from 24 hrs after death. Men have been having children from outside their marriages secretly for years, when they die, the outside women and her children just come and take all they worked for, now women want to follow men, it has become a problem. What is good for the goose is good for the gander.
Men have been having children from outside their marriages secretly for years, when they die, the outside women and her children just come and take all they worked for, now women want to follow men, and the men sef that truly own the kids won't come and drag anything like the mistresses would, some of the men don't even know the kids are theirs. What is good for the goose is good for the gander. What some women are doing now, they learned from men
My husband of 20 years died, and a woman from nowhere came to drag the wealth he and I built with her 4 children she said are his, and I have 4 kids of my own, I complained to his folks, it wasn't a big deal, so why should this woman doing same be a big deal? Women learn these things from men, until u experience what I did, u can't understand the pain. In her case if the kids aren't his, the biological father or fathers may not know they are his either, and they will never come to drag anything like mistresses do.
Linda after nw u will be putting up post about men nw u see clearly wat women can do wat a man can do a woman can do it better will neva blame a man dat cheats its bcos dae dnt trust dia wives
What is this one misyarning, you people and your hate for the igbo. Every post you most pour your bile. Talking trash like you've done a survey. Take several seats you deranged tribalist.
Arrest him on what grounds? Sue him for what? Abeg stop making noise, why are you afraid. A smart man who wants a dna test will get it done without the knowledge of his wife and only react if it shows the kid (s) aren't his own.
DNA my foot let the race begins..
ila otu the group name, it sounds like igbo language, lol while the meaning in english language is. The Red tongue of Virginia. Hahahahahahah
Guys, you remember that one they call the BLACKSHEEP of the family?.... There you have it. That one isn't a biological member of that family. He's another man's sperm.
Guys, you remember that one they call the BLACKSHEEP of the family?... There you have it! That one isn't a biological member of that family. He's another man's sperm.
You've been heard, Murderer. Good luck.
Well said!
Ila otu means "fucking vagina"
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