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Monday, 13 January 2014

8 out of 10 Nigerian men don't use condoms - SFH survey

According to statistics, 8 out of 10 Nigerian men do not use condoms. This was revealed by Bright Ekweremadu, the Managing Director of Society for Family Health, SFH. He said over 1.8billion sexual activities occur in Nigeria yearly, and 80% of them are unprotected.

Mr Ekweremadu said if Nigerian men were to use condoms, no supplier in the world would be able to afford the quantity of condoms Nigerian men would need. He said their research showed that young Nigerians between 18 and 34 years in the cities of Lagos & Abuja make the highest use of condoms.

He said many sexually active Nigerian men have several excuses for not wanting to use condoms. Excuses like "I am healthy, I dont have infections, flesh to flesh is sweeter" etc...

He said there are so many cases of sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies reported yearly because of people's refusal to use condoms. He also said their research shows that the women don't insist on condoms.

175 comments:

Toronto Finest said...

Yea right... lol. Nothin like flesh

Anonymous said...

Hian! Has to be the scariest thing I have read in a while...Ladies I take God beg Una o! Be careful...get the men to sheath their swords biko!

Onye ISI Anonymous.

BONARIO NNAGS said...

This is fallacy of argumentum ad ignorantiam.
Btw never bought one with my money,never in need of any,never ran outta it,never done that, still Innocent but not Idibia

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

Alloy Chikezie said...

Hahahah.. They want to have a feel of the real thing, very risky, can't try it


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Chuks said...

True Talk.

Anonymous said...

Lol is so true...................

Anonymous said...

how can ladies request for CD while they enjoy it without?

the fault is from ladies

Anonymous said...

Lord ♓αvﻉ mercy. *cagey*

Unknown said...

My Research shows Dat Women wants Fleshly feels & demands Withdrawals if U wanna CUM... PKAFRO ¤

Anonymous said...

That statistics is very correct, I'm a single girl and most guys I would ve dated dnt want to use condom

ary said...

So na ABJ and Lagos dey use condom pass?! Interesting!!! Social capitals of Nigeria, you could say.

Goozy said...

Hehehe very correct survey few women insist on condom and most men just dont like to hear that word CONDOM! Women carry ya own condom always ooooo

Anonymous said...

Honestly! Me dnt lik using condoms#unless na order wise# "Waitin concern me"

Anonymous said...

I am married with two kids..i use condom all d tym with my husband. my 2nd child is just 10mths and i dnt want to get preg PS we dnt want to go for family planning. i enjoy sex with or without condom.

Anonymous said...

Honestly! Me dnt lik using condoms#unless na order wise# "Waitin concern me"

Anonymous said...

Na so naa! E go de look like say nutin de happen till d person contracts some deadly disease, ehee mgbe ahu omee ha vam na anya! Who wan cum do witout? U de craze? Cum touch me naa! (Witty lady)

Anonymous said...

On the real tho, flesh to flesh is sweeter so they have a point!

Anonymous said...

Linda u dey use? No make me burst ur bubble 4 here.....miss saint!

Visages Parfait said...

hmmmmm.....na wah o! lagos and abj indeed. not a surprising stat indeed.

Visages Parfait said...

hmmmmm.....na wah o! lagos and abj indeed. not a surprising stat indeed.

Anonymous said...

Bonario no get problem! His in a very good terms wit his vaseline.....

Anonymous said...

ntin beta dan flesh to flesh... tho d risk is high,

Anonymous said...

ntin beta dan flesh to flesh... tho d risk is high,

Anonymous said...

is their own palava,,,,,,,me do use condoms very well,,,,,,i dey fear girls ooo.........yaxx

Don Peror Francis said...

Hehehehe...LindiPeror wat are trying to say so bcos of 2face,Obagoal n co?......... Personally me dey use m wen I was in d world..........Finally I don't believe dem especially wen it comes to abuja

Don Peror Francis said...

Hehehehe...LindiPeror wat are trying to say so bcos of 2face,Obagoal n co?......... Personally me dey use m wen I was in d world..........Finally I don't believe dem especially wen it comes to abuja

J-WAJ said...

It seems they prefer cure to prevention #upsidedownthings LOL!

Hope Emeghara said...

#Word!
Naıja's got stubborn cıtızens sha..The reasonz gıven above y most nıgerıans dont use condoms for safer sex r true n vewı common amongst youth xpecıally!,But den agaın,We ought to be mındful of our health N unwanted pregnancıes!
*Use condoms for safer n protected sex*

Anonymous said...

Hehehe Linda skin 2 skin is sweeeeeeet ooo "lols"
#WorldfamousVictor

Unknown said...

Soo true...

Unknown said...

me think that 8 out of 10 nigerian women dnt like sex with condoms!

Sandy said...

A word is enough for the wise.

Unknown said...

Hmmmnnnn... They prefer Flesh to Flesh nah!

Cute G said...

Its so true.We now live in a era of so many baby mamas and papas.

Sandy said...

A word is not for the wise

Anonymous said...

LMFAO flesh to flesh is sweeter! My favourite one is: 'is it possible to enjoy a sweet with its wrapper on?' smh.

Sandy said...

A word is enough for the wise.

Unknown said...

True

Anonymous said...

Lmao...Bona oh!

Ann Marie said...

HIV IS REAL OH, spread the news not the virus. Men abeg make una dey use condom

Flante said...

Women also don't like condom. Linda na lie? True, skin use is mostly between familiar couples. after the 2nd time of sex it's skin dey go. If u r a master of her ovulation cycle nothing can happen. Even some married couples can't have kids despite everyday sex.

Mab said...

this is so true

confessor said...

If a girl date a guy dat has never
Done flesh 2 flesh with her
She'd say "u think I some kind
Of disease? U think I wanna
Trap u with a baby? U are treating
Me like a b*tch.
If its a guy" prove to me dat u
Love me..let's make love baby..
U think I sleep with other girls like
I do with u?

Anonymous said...

Yes dis ppls are really correct,I even enjoy it without condom,with my bf ,despite d fact am happy married(dog thing)too sweet.....bola

Anonymous said...

Anu Ewu.

Flante said...

Linda if you mistakenly let me I won't use condom o. Never ever. Infact a friend said if breaking news comes out Genevie has full blown aids he wld still do skin to skin like that

Anonymous said...

Linda is this one news?... Mtsheeew

Unknown said...

hw did he Mr Ekweremmadu know. his assertion ll not pass any scientific scrutiny. how many times has he followed ppl to their closet to know.

Anonymous said...

Sweeter dan asala

Anonymous said...

Our fore fathers did shitty stuff, married as many wives as possible and never got to use condoms.

diamondblinqZ said...

Gurls ma dey fear u broz

FAMMIE said...

Ok...Should I jump from third mainland? We have heard

Roymorgan said...

Hmmmmmmm

Anonymous said...

U do, does yur husband enjoy it too? Fink of him b4 u make him luk 4 a babe hu b givin him jez d way he luvs it.

Anonymous said...

Most guys you would have dated. You say Wetin?

tomiwealth said...

linda, it is SFH not SHF

Anonymous said...

prevention is beta dan cure. Celibate.!!!!!

Unknown said...

Hahaha...totally true mehn...every man wants to skin dive...

olori said...

The things that are very sweet kills,get a condom,its fo ur own good

Anonymous said...

Dear Linda,

It is SFH o! nt SHF. I work with this organisation and Oga Bright is very Right. The survey is 150% on point. We distribute sample condoms too and yet the increase in STI and HIV prevalence is alarming. Behavioural change is the word here. Young people need to change their attitude and behaviour in their sexual relationships. Go to APIN, dem go give you the true picture of the HIV prevalence. The most affected age groups are the young people. my people, PLAY IT SAFE, STAY ALIVE!

Chichi Taichi Okere said...

U can get the skin-2-skin sensation if u use the right size condom I.e. I use large condoms mostly but I use XL sometimes when the arousal's too intense cos my dick increases in length n girth.

Condom;better to have it n not need it than to 2 need it and not have it.

Anonymous said...

This statistic is a kind of wired!..But i think the survey was carried out by 'SFH' and not 'SHF'.

Anonymous said...

Bona d word smith

Livvsreamblog said...

Flesh to flesh sweet like honey,who can resist honey?

Anonymous said...

Skin de sweet die...

Anonymous said...

Na raw ekpon linlin dey like na,na becos she dey take pill she dey add weight.She 2 enjoy am

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry for your husband.. Please have a change of heart for the sake of God and your family if you truly love them.. #JustCan't..

REXOVIC said...

HIV IS REAL OO, BTWS ME DON'T LIKE USING CONDOMS BUT ALSO NA ONE PARTNER FOR LIFE #LAUGHING

Anonymous said...

U sound like opio

If ur gf give u bj with condom u no be bf,u be rosko(customer) n she be ashi

Anonymous said...

Is tru a lot of guys say dey dnt release

Anonymous said...

U guys shld continue to talk rubbish, HIV is real o. Stay there and be doing Flesh 2 flesh. As 4 me and my husband we have sex with and without condom...

Unknown said...

Since the manufacturers can't supply what will happen

Anonymous said...

Hi Linda. I pray u post this. Last year I met a guy who wanted to marry me. We had sex twice and each time o insisted the guy should a condom. Once the condom broke and I told him to discontinue. I got a sexually transmitted infection from that encounter. I quickly broke off the relationship. A couple of months ago the guy died. Of AIDS. The guy had been infected for more than ten years. He was just spreading the disease. I know the trauma I went thru before I had an HIV test. Luckily I am negative. Tell your readers to go and do hiv tests. Use a condom along the time. Be warned

Anonymous said...

Am afraid, I no longer use condom cos it makes me go for over 40mins without cumin and that could be enervating.

Anonymous said...

Linda what is your own view on this? Do your own research Na

Michelle N said...

guys please try and use condoms oooo

Anonymous said...

ABEG!!!!! SKIN TO SKIN NKO?! IF A GUY DOESNT WANT TO WRAP IT UP, LET HIM MOVE!!!THEY ALWAYS LIE ABOUT BEING HEALTHY UNTIL TEST RESULTS COME. LADIES BE WISE. (SK)

Anonymous said...

Sharrap Dere, if I hear

gabon said...

Make una dey use condom yiooo. Chose btw 100 naira to prevent and thousands to cure and u go stil kpaiii @last. Its real!!!! BE WARNED.

Anonymous said...

Condom all d way for mi o,prevention is beta Dan cure

Anonymous said...

Na lagoon u go enta! Ur type na gay so take plenty sit jare! Dis 1 no concern u

Anonymous said...

sincerely i dont dig using it myself, its sweeter witout condom.

Oluwa Jerry said...

Even my babe fit break my head if I mention condom talkless of using it, fleshing tinz on point till d last drop, NA POSTINOR 2 DEY SOLVE D REST

Anonymous said...

We're thinking more about HIV here, not pregnancy. You hear?! A woman's ovulation cycle will not protect you from sexually transmitted diseases.......... Just Me

Anonymous said...

Nobody takes candy with its wrapper......so why have set with condom...... does not make sense.

Daddy's Girl said...

True survey

Unknown said...

Naija men, una well done ooo.

Apple said...

I am not surprised.

Unknown said...

its real tru. but save sex is important

ROXIE said...

omo skin 2 skin make sense oooo chooiii. but u knw say na wetin dey sweet na em dey kill. i think pple like me enjoy skin 2 skin becos condoms sometimes are painful especially wen ur dry... but skin is just smooth n sweet no bruises after d deed has been done. hehehehehe

Anonymous said...

Bona supu oyibo. Begining to like nd enjoy ur comment. Nwa afor igbo ka I bu.

Pls gals no dulling oh either he use a condom or no show. Aids and std's no dey show for face

Anonymous said...

Bona!! vaseline tinz...remember that advert ' hello Mr Vaseline'?

Anonymous said...

Odikwa very RiSkY!

Anonymous said...

Prevention dξγ̲̣̣̥ say is better than cure! Until U̶̲̥̅̊ go FO̶̷̩̥̊͡Я HIV test Α̲̅πϑ U̶̲̥̅̊я̩̥̊ result comes out,don't indulge in flesh †̥☺ flesh Α̲̅πϑ make sure its U̶̲̥̅̊ Α̲̅πϑ U̶̲̥̅̊я̩̥̊ partner who go FO̶̷̩̥̊͡Я †ђξ test! Ladies be wise †̥☺ avoid stories that touch

Thywill Be Done said...

Most men have at sometime in their lives made use of condom but the problem is inconsistency... They find that putting on a condom interrupts sex. Even women find the physical barrier of a condom dulls sensation which might lead to loss of some sexual excitements.
At the point of penetration, it is usually very difficult to remember and apply condom. However, it may be possible at first meeting but never consistent. A girl will always doubt her guys' trust for her if he makes use of condom in every round of sex; same thing goes for a guy.
That's why it is not good to make mockery of those living with HIV or girls with unwanted pregnancies cos we are all guilty of not using condom at some point in the game - It is just God's Grace.

jaybeyblu said...

Lol @ the reason she is adding weight,.meanies

Anonymous said...

Lindodo< this woman here wan resemble you oooo. I almost mistook her for u until I looked closely.

Anonymous said...

Abstinence is the best, until u get married

Anonymous said...

Benin guys especially.Trust Mi,they hate Using condom have turned down 7 to 8 different Benin guys just because they refused to use a c.d infact I started to wonder if Their is more to it. I schooled in Benin so I knw wat am tlking abut.

Anonymous said...

Pls jump!

KoolChica said...

Bia Bona,e bu Anu pam...Lol.

MY TURN said...

Linda na you be this? this babe sure looks like you.

Anonymous said...

Sex is sex, and will be enjoyed if the partieS involved know the right moves.....my BF and I always go protected, and the orgasm is something out of this world.

Unknown said...

Naija men,fuck responsibly Ooº°˚ ˚°ºo

Anonymous said...

I know of a guy in abuja with hiv and refuses to wear condom and changes women on a daily basis trying to spread the disease round. What do I do? Should I blow his cover? its wickedness

Anonymous said...

Kip saying nobody have sweet wit its wrapper on oh..wen u carry aids den ur mata go change

Flante said...

Linda please it's about time you start commenting. I believe everyone would love that.

chizzy said...

True talk sha

@MEETD®EALEVANS™ said...

Dat good @ least we not complaining

Anonymous said...

naso o

Unknown said...

But you know sex is sweeter without condom :)

Anonymous said...

Can u lick a sweet with d rapper on it? I'm sorry I dnt enjoy sex with condom.

cunle said...

Hahaha

Anonymous said...

I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years and used condoms every time we nacked. I hate the idea of a man's spunk in me and skin to skin isn't safe.

Anonymous said...

LinLin i hope you have heard oh. no more unwanted pregnancies. Wrap up

Unknown said...

Noted#

Baby G said...

na ladies dey suffer am pass oo in case of unwanted pregnancy..

Baby G said...

na ladies dey suffer am pass oo in case of unwanted pregnancy..

Anonymous said...

Oh lord fortgive my Sinz I have had sex with 22 women now without a condom ,am a shame to my family although I don't have Hiv but I am fed up lord I want to start all over again accept me back I love you

Anonymous said...

"Most guys you would have dated"!!! Abeg! Stop fooling urself! U no gree date d guys so wetim com bring talk about use or no use condom?

IkwerreBoy said...

Lol well I have never had sex without condoms in all my 20+ years of existence... my fear is not STD I can't stand giving a girl money for abortion... I don't think I can do it.

Anonymous said...

I advice guys not to engage in sex at all rather than using the so called"PROTECTION" it doesn't protect anything,there is safety to be a virgin than using condom as a way out of sexual transmitted disease,though the urge of having sex is HIGH but u still have to self to control,I would enjoy my wife because I'm sure of myself.

#mr pen

Unknown said...

that there business....... from nairareal.blogspot.com

Anonymous said...

Blow his cover ooo, save lives I sure say na one hausa he-goat dey don't like using condoms

Anonymous said...

What is dis old papa saying? U no get mallam where u dey live? Incase u no know, e no rch N50.00 u hear. Go n buy!

Unknown said...

It is better to be safe than sorry .

Anonymous said...

Wow! I didnt know Postinor also prevents HIV. Tellmesumtin!

Unknown said...

It is better to be safe than sorry .

Anonymous said...

U for don put him name n info here na. Afterall, u r anonymous. Who will know?

Unknown said...

It is better to be safe than sorry .

Anonymous said...

Pls guys, use condom..BGM

Anonymous said...

Nice research, please guys take note n use condoms...BGM

Anonymous said...

Women don't like condom,they want to get you to father a son....mstcheew ..that stop my player lifestyle

Anonymous said...

You mean you don't know Egwulucciousness?


Juwon say say via how sex changed my life

Anonymous said...

There's nothing like a warm-throbing-veinous cock sliding in and out of my pussie.

Unknown said...

LOL. LINDAMU, I WUDNT KNOW ABOUT THAT NEWAY,I'M STILL A VIRGIN***ROLLLSEYES***

Anonymous said...

No doubt skin skin is da ish bt Umunne!!! Ihe na ato uto na egbu egbu!been there,done that! Oyibo dey talk sey" do not throw Caution to d wind! We only ask for Gods mercy cos d best of gfs/bfs/hubbies and wifeys r actually not safe! Its Gods grace we are all alive...BZ Kindly post my comment Linda nwa Ikeji biko

Anonymous said...

it depent, sex is dsame wt or wtout condom. Play safe.

Anonymous said...

it depent, sex is dsame wt or wtout condom. Play safe.

Anonymous said...

U're obviously cursed!!! #spits

Anonymous said...

Timaya talk am ooooo..'If u dey do,use condom'

Unknown said...

Pippu just dey blow grammar for here Ooº°°ºoO ...Linda u nid to scrutinize some comments before U upload dem o

Unknown said...

Pippu just dey blow grammar for here Ooº°°ºoO ...Linda u nid to scrutinize some comments before U upload dem o

Anonymous said...

AIDS on the increase....

Amaracchukwu said...

Hahahahaha,ME I don't know oooo.

Anonymous said...

Don't let ignorance ruin you. STDs exists everywhere.
~D great anonymous!

Anonymous said...

Please let's seek for d grace to stop fornicating, its hard but with God all things are possible,his grace is sufficient,it doesn't pay,really, what goes around comes around, sex isn't a joke, its deeper than people know,forget d pleasure and ask God to open ur eyes to see d deep spiritual meaning,not just pregnancy and diseases,God bless you all, Linda pls u need to post this, thanks

Anonymous said...

Ye Mogbe! ...Tintini

Unknown said...

Linda wat is ur own comment on this research ????

Anonymous said...

Help me ask am ooo

Anonymous said...

Me I don't like condoms I like poto

Anonymous said...

9ja men love poto lol wound to wound

Anonymous said...

Linda nothing sweet reach skin to skin I swear

Anonymous said...

Abeg bona doesn't use Vaseline. He uses vegetable oil and he sometimes enjoys using bathing soap too.

Azemobor Sunday said...

Ladies and gents use C not jst 4 AIDS bt against other unwanted circumstances who has ears let him hear,

Anonymous said...

Okpo alert!

Alloy Chikezie said...

What is the difference between using a condom and doing it skin to skin? One more pleasurable than the other?


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truth! said...

dem de talk say 'wetin de sweet, na him de kill'...in my work, i hav seen things...na true say e no de show for face oh!!!!

nothing, i repeat,nothing can make me have sex without condom...i value my life too much!!!

Unknown said...

PLEASE MY FELLOW LADIES, DON'T WAIT FOR THE GUYS TO USE CONDOMS BEFORE YOU GET YOURSELVES PROTECTED. IF THE GUYS REFUSE TO USE CONDOMS, PLEASE DO WELL TO USE FEMALE CONDOMS. IT IS FOR YOUR OWN GOOD.IF THE MAN DOES NOT LIKE IT, HE SHOULD GO AND HUG A TRANSFORMER

FDK said...

Aids is real. I work in the healthcare industry and the number of Nigerians being diagnosed with HIV is staggering. Be fearful of the type of different diseases someone who is immunocompromised is susceptible to (e.g. kaposi sarcoma). Hepatitis is also on the rise in the Nigerian community which can eventually lead to liver failure. The treatment for hepatitis is so expensive, & people die being on the waiting list for transplant.
Please, stop playing Russian roulette with your life, wrap it up.

FDK

Jaequinas said...

U havin premarital sex nd uv stil gots d guts 2 say #it takes only d grace of God nt 2 get preggy smh 4 d youths of ds generation wats d big deal in abstaining frm sex? Dat shit is deeper dan yuall knw. Abstinence is jus d best no condoms nd definetly NO SEX. Chao!

Anonymous said...

I choose life over death abeg. No time for regrets, it's better to be safe than sorry! Wrap it up

Dee Tee said...

Hmmm... | #NewsBlist

Anonymous said...

Is condom 100% safe?, abstinence is key, sex is sweet.....balance it out, your choice.

Anonymous said...

You are even lucky to have sex in the first place. Spare a thought for people languishing in marriages with asexual partners.

LINKUS said...

I was once Ignorant like most of you, I said nothing like skin to skin, until my close friend had HIV, he was lucky he noticed it on time and he his now on drugs, but the thing about HIV is that you could sleep with someone who has HIV and you won't have, because his girl tested Negative, if not most people will have AIDS.

Anonymous said...

It is commonsense .... if you cannot abstain, then protect yourself. Ladies and gentlemen, either cross your thighs or use condoms. They are far cheaper than living or dying from a sexually transmitted disease or being saddled with an unplanned child. On a side note, why are we black people so stupid? Go to the US, and the African-American population has the highest rates of STDs and out of wedlock babies because of this same nonsense of unprotected sex with multiple partners. What's wrong with most black men? Why can't they behave responsibly and protect their womenfolk?

Unknown said...

@Jacquinas...am with u on this.If only people understand the consequences of fornication and adultery,i don't think there'll be need talking about protection.I do understand that we're all graced differently but then whats the big deal in sex?

Isn't your life more important than 3minutes of pleasure?

Lady F

Anonymous said...

Bcos caro dun oloyin..ooosh! Oloyin. Ain't nothin like the real ting baby.

Anonymous said...

Sales of postinor 2 are many times higher than sales of condoms. That's probably the research he conducted

creamycream said...

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Unknown said...

Hahahaha...... The comments here can make someone fall off a bridge. But seriously, condom is adviceable any day, (that is if u must have sex) if u want the real deal, wife her.

Unknown said...

Correct statistics

Anonymous said...

I av gone for hiv test 3tyms n I tasted negative and I later had sex wit out condom wit two guys.....lately I hv been tinkin and scared of been hiv positive...wen eva I read or heard abt it ma hrt skips....God pls help me bcus I dnt wanna b infected...ladies pls always use condom wit ur bf bcus d more he slps wit u witout cd dat is d way he do wit oda girls n d oda girls do wit oda guys even some married men do contact n giv to their wives. ...may God help us all...ameen

Anonymous said...

No sex.....its the best

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