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Friday, 27 January 2017

Domestic Violence: Lady writes an emotional open letter to her abusive baby daddy

The lady pictured above shared photos of her beat up face and the details on how her baby daddy physically assaulted her several times. up to the point of near death. Thank God she eventually had the sense to end the domestic violence perpetuated on her by her baby daddy. Read her story after the cut...

32 comments:

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

No be small sense o


...merited happiness

Anonymous said...

Go Girl! Am happy you summoned the courage to walk away.

Daily diet tv said...

Good thing you walked out. I encourage every woman to do same

Unknown said...

Tank God u came to ur senses

Anonymous said...

Taaaa! Make we hear word! Dey always go back.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmm, like ur boldness keep it up

Anonymous said...

So Linda brought this gist here. Little does she know that she has started digging her own grave because this supposed baby daddy made her who is she today. Where were we when she was enjoying the Malaysia and Dubai life. Changing phones. He even got her a Benz and opened a store for her which I Kno she can never maintain. Yinka I pity ur outcome cause the bitches that advised u are not loyal to u. U will so return back to the streets cause u can't keep up a low standard. So I wonder how u will feed ur child or take care of urself. I am sure Kanyin will be laughing in Japanese now 😂😂😅. It is well! And to that little Alhaja that forms rich kid on IG @gbemyyy ur sex escapades has been exposed, so u sleep with pples fb. No wonder she carries Gucci bags and frames. Shame on u

Anonymous said...

You're a bastard! So because he bought her things and upgraded her life, he's entitled to beating her to death abi? Thunder fire you for this stupid comment you posted!

Anonymous said...

Made or no made is not a reason to accept being battered pls! Kilo de always against the women for speaking up, an expensive coffin is still a coffin! Better a morsel of bread and peace than than house full of riches and strife.

Anonymous said...

No one is entitled to beat up a fellow a human being becuase he buys her stuff. NOT ACCEPTABLE

Unknown said...

Wow! I can't believe my eyes right now. So because he bought her things she should die? I mean is it until he disfigures her? My God! Did u even see those photos up there?

Anonymous said...

Anon, 07:23, take a second to review your thoughts and if you still can't find something wrong, may God have mercy on your soul.

Anonymous said...

Women! Women!! Women!!! Stop allowing men, any kind to treat you this way. Take charge of your own life. No man can do that for you he can barely take charge of his.

Anonymous said...

Domestic violence is a psychological problem either as result of low self esteem, act on impulse or family orientation unknowingly,they need help ... National orientation agency should sanitise the people to visit guaddian and counselling or psychologist because the effects is dangerous in our societies.... save life save our women and children.

Mirian said...

Jeez my dear God will see you through

Unknown said...

Wow....

Asa said...

I really wish young ladies will learn to behave themselves. you deserve more than a man treating you like trash. I have been there and seen it all. sorry dear, move on you will survive this.

Anonymous said...

Go get a life! One can tell from your epistle,that your "wahala"is too much for one man. Your words and tone depicts a nagging,insolence and larger-than-life attitude. Your were so silly to quit school,just for an opulent lifestyle. Please don't get me wrong,am not endorsing battery,as a matter of fact,I totally detest it but am also saying that ladies should be careful about the decision they make in life. Nuff said,let's rise against battery!

Doris said...

You must be an idiot.

Left handed queen said...

This is sad

Anonymous said...

Are you for real? So all because he got her phones,cars and took her on different trips mean she should pay back with her life???? It ain't worth it Darling, if maybe you like it so much you can easily replace her spot so you get all of it. Some people just place their sense under their feet.

Anonymous said...

LOOOL Commenter No1 how can you be so dimwitted ? so he did this and that it means that he has the right to beat her up ? If youre animal and you like to be beaten then not everyone is like you okay ? e go be

Unknown said...

ladies suffering everywhere!
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

VKOKO said...

Shakara don end oo Yinka don get belle shakara don end oo , Take heart.

Anonymous said...

You are dimwitted as well,if not me, there was no way in hell she didn't see the signs but love of money blinded her, she's getting exactly what she deserves.She already said she blames herself!! She knows, she opted for luxury ahead of comfort! Toor .. I'm finding it very difficult so sympathize with her cuz I know their type

Anonymous said...

Thank you very much for that comment anon 7:23

Unknown said...

See d real ppl commenting as anonymous #wehdonma...since wen did buying things for me warrants beating me up...ekenekwaam gi.


MissVee

Anonymous said...

So the segun as been beating her since 2013 and she sat down there enjoying his money? She left school? Dimwit. Silly ass girl with no ambition in life. She saw yahoo yahoo money and wanted to die there. Issokay. I do not endorse domestic violence in any way but this babe is a stupid fellow.

Anonymous said...

commenters no 1 and supporters i think you are all fools, because he bought her this and that she has to pay with her life. i hope your daughters and sisters get to be beaten and pulverized like that so you can have a feel of what the poor girl was going through.

Anonymous said...

Na wa ooo.. You dey date yahoo boy and complain of been beaten.

If someone can defraud others for a living the beating na small thing now.

People always looking for goodness in the wrong place.


Well I am sure the flashy lifestyle got you attracted. You know all along where and how to get a responsible man if you so wish but the million dollar question is are you even responsible yourself!

Fearless! said...

"Anonymous said...
So Linda brought this gist here. Little does she know that she has started digging her own grave because this supposed baby daddy made her who is she today. Where were we when she was enjoying the Malaysia and Dubai life. Changing phones. He even got her a Benz and opened a store for her which I Kno she can never maintain. Yinka I pity ur outcome cause the bitches that advised u are not loyal to u. U will so return back to the streets cause u can't keep up a low standard. So I wonder how u will feed ur child or take care of urself. I am sure Kanyin will be laughing in Japanese now 😂😂😅. It is well! And to that little Alhaja that forms rich kid on IG @gbemyyy ur sex escapades has been exposed, so u sleep with pples fb. No wonder she carries Gucci bags and frames. Shame on u
27 January 2017 at 07:23

You are dimwitted as well,if not me, there was no way in hell she didn't see the signs but love of money blinded her, she's getting exactly what she deserves.She already said she blames herself!! She knows, she opted for luxury ahead of comfort! Toor .. I'm finding it very difficult so sympathize with her cuz I know their type

27 January 2017 at 09:47"

To the above anonymous, you are very mad for these comments, so the price to pay for wanting a good life is to be battered?!
I can see that you were jealous of her life and the fact that the stupid Segun has been battering Yinka makes you happy for some sick reason, you will get your reward for your wickedness, oponu!jealous bitch!
you can have him now, and i Pray he beats you to death because you will never receive sense. wicked girl, rejoicing at another's pain/mistake.

Have you considered the fact that she may now be regretting her choice? Have you ever made a mistake in your life? if yes, then you are a fool for mocking Yinka. I am sure you are one very ugly motherfucker who gets little or no attention from men, bitter soul!
God Almighty will surprise you and still bless Yinka with happiness and then, you will be miserable again forever, ode.
In all these, did you consider the poor child? No!wicked witch, bitter soul.

There is nothing wrong with wanting a good life, as for the trips, its not worth dying for.

My dear Yinka, I respect your courage, Please leave this Segun of an animal, pick yourself up and start over, may God guide and heal you from within.

Unknown said...

Thank God you were such a good writer. Your story was very emotional and touchy. Nevertheless, you are the architect of your own destiny. You chose easy money to quality education. Materialism is the bane of every society. No young person wants to make money legitimately simply bcos ladies want rich men only. Hope the lesson you learnt will lead you through for the rest of your life.

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