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| According to Lovely, this was their wedding day in '06 |
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| Prince and the two kids |
My name is Lovely Okojie, legal wife of Prince Odianosen Okojie, the man Mercy Johnson is set to wed in a few weeks. I was refered to you to help me share my story after all else had failed to stop another woman from breaking my home. I used to have a sweet home but now Mercy Johnson is trying to destroy it. I've not been able to stop crying or sleep well for the past few months. I'm appealing to the world and whoever knows her to please tell her to leave my husband alone. I'm married to this man and there has never been any divorced paper signed. We are still legally married, he's the love of my life and the father of my two lovely kids.
We got married back in 2006 in Regio-Emilia, Italy, attached are pictures of the wedding. At the moment, he's busy in Nigeria planning to wed Mercy Johnson, abandoning me and our children. Fellow women is this fair? So with all the single guys out there, Mercy could not find her self one. How can a woman not care that she's destroying the home of another woman, all in the name of getting married desperately.
I'm in terrible pains. What do I tell my children?
After receiving this mail a few days ago and speaking extensively with Lovely and a few of her friends to authenticate the letter, I reached out to Mercy via her PR agency. They promised to issue me a statement, which they did this evening. Read the statement and view more pics after the cut...(BTW, Lovely is based in Canada and she claims that when she initially confronted her husband about Mercy, he denied any affair and said they were just business partners)
On Mercy Johnson's marriage
This statement is necessary due to the fact that stories are making the rounds about cancellation of Mercy Johnson’s wedding.
We wish to state categorically that the wedding will go on as planned and Mercy is fully aware of situations on ground.
We know some people are working real hard to see that the wedding is cancelled; we wish them luck and pray that God will be with us.
Our client will not be making any further statement on this matter.
Thank you.
Bigsam Media
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| Lovely and her kids |
Odianose sent my father divorce papers last month and when they got to the court d judge asked him why he wanted a divorce he said because i insulted him,den d judge said its a normal thing for couples to quarrel and dat wasn't enough reason for him to wanna divorce, then my sister stood up and told the judge the whole story, dat was when the judge adjourned the case to on the 9th of this month.Odianose collected all my documents n d marriage certificate from me when i was coming to canada dats why he's insisting dat i should provide the marriage certificate because he knows i dont av them. Alot of people r saying where have i been all this while,well he made me believe that he didn’t have anytin to do with mercy Johnson, dat they were just business partners,i was surprised to see all mercy's statement dat they av been been dating for long i then called odianose's parents but they told me they don't know any Mercy Johnson dat i shouldn't bother myself. i was sort of relieved and believed everything was actually fine.until i started hearing about a wedding.I'm a member of CHRIST EMBASSY here in canada and when i found out dat the wedding was gonna take place in CHRIST EMBASSY OREGUN BRANCH,i called my pastor and explained everything to him,he den told me he was going to verify the whole story and get back to me but he never did.I then decided to get intouch with CHRIST EMBASSY OREGUN 3days back, i told them everything and they promised to get to the bottom of the whole thing and get back to me but up till now they've not called me.I'm patiently waiting till on the 9th to hear the outcome of the court case. Tanx so much Linda and her readers, may God bless ur homes.
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What goes around comes around. If the man has truly left wife #1, but she's trying to re-attach herself to him by force, then it's one thing.
If Mercy stole him from her, then that's another...
Lovely Okojie needs to be realistic. If your marriage has ended, then it has ended. Marriage is not by force. The fact that you still see your ex-husband as your current husband is your view to take, but cannot be imposed on others. Move on.
dat´s really sad:-(
hope der wil be a quick solution to dis and so everybodi wil live appily afta:)
Na Wa Oh Odikwa very risky and serious.
4get the swine and move on to greater things
Wasn't this also the same case with Ini Edo? Na wa ooooo for all these women...
I keep saying women, we are our greatest enemies...its just sad how another woman can be so comfortable messing with another woman's man...where is your conscience?
Since she's still legally married to the man in Italy....she should take legal actions against him...
Linda has got me hooked on her blog oh. Anyway Mercy, Mercy, Mercy why is it that controversy is always being followed with ur name.. Lets wait for the some real facts b4 we jump into conclusion
LOVELINE OR WHATEVER YOU CALL URSEF,HOW IS MERCY JOHNSON BREAKING YOUR HOME,WAS IT MERCY JOHNSON THAT ASK UR MANS HAND IN MARRIAGE,WHY CANT PEOPLE UNDERSTAND WHEN A MAN IS FEED UP,HOW CAN HE BE THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE AND ASKING ANOTHER WOMAN TO MARRY HIM,THINK MY DEAR,MERCY JOHNSON ISNT BREAKING YOUR HOME,RATHER YOUR HOME HAS BEEN BROKEN ,NOT BECAUSE OF MERCY JOHNSON,THIS MAN YOU CALLING LOVE OF YOUR LIFE ,DOES HE FEEL SAME WAY ABOUT U.ABEG WAKE UP AND FACE THE REALITY OF LIFE.
DIVA O
waow this is heavy. our actresses cannot stop being controversial. remember the cane they used to beat the first wife is the also the same cane they will use to beat you mercy. go and find your own man. you are just too dirty with way too many scandals
Hhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy jesu! !!!!!!!!! Mercy just lost a fan.this is baaaaddd
Mo wonder dem bounced all of them for RMD wedding.
They are all harlots! Olosho! Asahana! Guccirolla! Pay as you go industry.
Still has guts to forge ahead, na wa oo, whosoever that grace that occasion needs deliverance.
Linda, Linda, Linda odnt go to that wedding ooooooooo.
yawa don gassi oooooo
Hmmm @ picture from 08/02/11 is that two days ago, or euro standard i.e feb 08 2011?
I feel that if this is true, I cant imagine how this man's wife feels. Its really heart breaking but the main issue here is not Mercy Johnson but her husband. Marriage is a two way street. Its always the first instinct of any woman in this situation to blame "the other woman" but you forget that you significant other is the one cheating on you. I am not saying that its all his not that Mercy Johnson does not have fault in this but the main person she needs to confront is her husband.
na waoooooo
The dude has a newborn/infant and he's about to marry another woman? Mercy, is it that serious?
Na wa o.
Wow! I am utterly shocked....
will come back to comment when i have recovered....
Omo..na wa o! This is a serious "sumtin". Whats going to happen now? This is a real life Nollywood Movie.
omg!! Men can be cruel , So this guy has a family and he is leaving them for ex-stripper mercy johson... mehn.. this is so bad... i feel your pains lovely... I feel sad writing this as a guy but ladies shud realise that some men they think highly of can be as cheap as rotten tomatoes..
WHAT??? Didn't I read somewhere that she has started marriage counselling at Christ Embassy? Do they condone this sort of thing in that church? Somebody should call that girl Mercy Johnson and advice her that in this life you will always reap what you sow, a thousand fold. As for the church that will overlook this key fact and proceed to wed them both, let God be the judge.
Na wa oh. :O Ahh... Mercy J., dat's hw u now roll, hinit? U gast check urself. Dis tori doesn't hv part 2.
First of all, I am writing this to Lovely without hearing the other side of the story from the Okojie man but let's just assume your story is genuine, Lovely, this is what I have to say to you:
First, there is no need to go after Mercy Johnson. I don't understand why women go after the other woman. The man is who you should go after. In fact, let the wedding go on but its effect will be null and void because it is bigamy, unless he marries Mercy only under customary law. If he marries her under the Marriage Act in Nigeria and you have proof of legal marriage in Italy, him own don finish. Bigamy is a crime under the Criminal Code. And if you have enough clout in Nigeria, that man will be prosecuted and sent to jail.
If they go on with the sham wedding, get the evidence (which will be easy to get as na publicity wedding) and let the DPP go after your husband for bigamy.
But all in all, leave Mercy if she is foolish enough to get married to a man without character. Don't stoop so low to fight for a man who obviously has no respect for you.
I hope you are getting child support. Even if you don't want to grant him an easy divorce, make sure he is taking care of his children. He has that responsibility.
I know your heart is broken but you need to get over the man. He is not worth your tears. Be strong for your children. May God give you strength in Jesus' name (Amen).
this aint good news, why would mercy johnson go on with the wedding after knowing that this man is already married with kids, just like another nollywood movie lol.
Matter don get K leg, let the comments flow......
Is Mercy Johnson MAD? Pure rubbish, shes aware hes still married and she wants to get married to him still,foolish prostitute ...mtchew, nawa 4 men sha..Too bad, d wife is even finer dan dirty colord mercy...nd she feels she'll enjoy d union sha..God 4bid dat.
If this is true, then Linda please make sure you keep us posted o. Not even one kid, two!!! Choi! I'll just sit back and watch the story unfold..
this is one serious nollywood movie story line. there has always been this clause since mercy johnsom announced that she was getting married. something didnt quite fit in. and now the man is already married? typical. well guess the marriage cant hold then cos mercy would be breaking the home of another woman but i wont be surprised if she still goes on with the wedding. what would surprise me is if mercy quits the wedding. guessing the guy is loaded so mercy is ready to die there. smh. some men sef.
Wow. That's all I can say. Reminds me of the ini edo saga. I can't judge sha. But getting married to a young upwardly mobile man is scary enough. Why anyone would want to marry an already married man with kids and a bitter ex or separated wife is beyond me.
aww this is so sad..if this is true... mercy leave him oh biko
lovelyn, quick question for you, where have you being all this while your man was away from you for the past four years? At least, it is a common knowledge that he n Mercy have being an item for the past three years. I think your marriage actually pack up them. you did not have a marriage, you are only making an issue out of this cos its a star he's getting married to. You are a bitter ex.
WOW!!! If this is true then she's doing the wrong thing; and just to say this to Lovely herself, no woman steals a man away from you if he, himself doesn't want to leave...stop blaming Mercy, if you're sure he's your husband and the "love of your life" then he should've known better. Like they say, "the heart wants what the heart wants." I'll advice you to just focus on your kids and stop the crying...Mercy will sure get what she deserves, IF WHAT YOU'RE CLAIMING IS TRUE. Leave all in the hands of GOD!
i am speechless ooooooooooohhhh,Mercy leave her husband alone ooooo stupid desperate woman,you are full aware that the man is married with kids it will not work out IJN.
WOW!!! If this is true then she's doing the wrong thing; and just to say this to Lovely herself, no woman steals a man away from you if he, himself doesn't want to leave...stop blaming Mercy, if you're sure he's your husband and the "love of your life" then he should've known better. Like they say, "the heart wants what the heart wants." I'll advice you to just focus on your kids and stop the crying...Mercy will sure get what she deserves, IF WHAT YOU'RE CLAIMING IS TRUE. Leave all in the hands of GOD!
Im short of words! it is neither Mercy Johnson or Lovely's fault. it's the useless men that we av out there that are full of crap and lies. Love, no need to cry and pine, he's not worth the pain. Focus on ur kids, at least you are lucky that the bastard did not kill you. Mark my words, the wedding will not last.
WOW O_O
If they really got married and no divorce paper has been signed then on the day of the wedding when the pastors ask if any body is against the marriage she should simple stand up objecting and state the reason or better still go and see the pastors/church officiating the wedding and let them know your story . She can't be in Germany and be fighting this war
wendu
wow,so her so called PR just succeeded in authenticating d story of her getting married 2 another man's husband,i can only tell mercy this...if this is true,God is not asleep and she DEFINITELY WILL reap wat she sows...
The man is a real ode . He up and left a wife and two kids to go and marry a wowo like Mercy ...
I can't even understand why they are fighting for the man he looks very broke ..
Na wa oh!!! I feel sorry for you and i pray that God almighty comforts you and your children. Its a pity that people getting married these days don't take their vows seriously. If its true what you saying, then leave him to God. But i believe there are two sides to every story so my brothers and sisters, don't let us sin by condemning or judging all the pple involved. I don't believe anyone can snatch someone else's hubby or wife because it takes two to tango only if the other person has been jazzed up which doesn't last. Call upon God. He is the only one help you.
nah, a digital camera was used to take the paper print of the second picture so just ignore the date, thats not the date of the picture itself.
Things dey happen o...I no fit shout...lol
Linda,as i dey read dis story i just open mouth.na wa oh,d way dis marriage scenario dey go na only Baba God fit help us all.
she is such a liar i know her. they have been divorvced before mercy met him. she promised to do this. but y na , u called the guy a fool and laughed at him now someone else has turned ur rags to gold u want it back.mercy carry go joor .for readers listen to 2 sides of a story before u judge. d bitch is my friend
Folks on here talking need to look at legal implication. Since they never divorced, any other marriage being held is not valid legally. If Prince decides to come back to Canada at any point filling out any paperwork with Mercy as his wife, Lovely can report him for bigamy. If Prince were to be sick in the US and Canada, and they were looking for next of kin, Mercy would not qualify.
Point is the man no get liver to go through divorce.
I agree with Esther's advice. Make sure you get child support.
Sad situation either way.
Mercy needs better PR company though, cause even their response is so not professional.
i fnk ds woman lovely or wteva she is called is js a joker how can u say mercy js came n stole ur man?if she has any beef she shud tke it up wiv d prince n leave mercy out of it..in fact m almost certain d gy neva maried ha or has alredy ended it wiv ha.,wteva d case LEAVE MERCY OUT OF IT AND FACE THE GUY!!!...o n lest i forget hapi maried lyf mercy johnson pls kip up wiv ur plans...
Well my tupence in this matter is that women in the limelight should make an effort to be reasonable about the kind of effects they can produce on certain men and be able to see how they can prevent things from getting messy.
From what I see in this case here, we have to understand that Mercy Johnson is very sexy. A lot of men play her videos and fantasize about everything they can do with her. To a man like this, he's on a spell. More like his dreams coming true. He doesn't see the wife and 2 kids right now. He can do anything for Mercy and I guess that's why Mercy got carried away and thinks it's love. From the indication of things, you can clearly see that the wife cannot comprehend because she can't place her mind on anything she did wrong. It's not her fault and that's why she thinks if Mercy says "no", she can get her man back.
But what does Mercy do? "the highest bidder gets it all". That's why she can't say anything except "the wedding must go on". Truth is, she doesn't even have anything to say except that she can grab a hold on her dignity and let this "too good to be true fairy tale" pass her by.
All I have to say Mercy(and the many other people here that are just proving that if they were in a similar situation they'd do the same) is, remember "all that glitters isn't gold" and "what goes around, comes back around".
You can decide to hold on to your conscience and do the right thing, or be greedy and carve your own path to destruction. The choice is yours! We'll definitely read more about this, it's just the beginning of a very interesting journey!
And as a human being that I am, I'll say Congrats on your wedding, Mercy! That is if you decide to go on with it.
I was looking forward to seeing the marriage certificate
wat i knw is dat mercy did not snatch any man becos she dint force d man for marriage he proposed,dis woman shuld go nd beg her husband.the prince okojie sef f**k up big time.besides mercy cn still marry him nd take d children in her home abi because mercy nd d man had been datn for 3yrs so she dint knw abi
Babes! Lovely, abi kini oruko. Na to carry gun on d wedding day. When dey ask "Is there anyone who objects ..." u take action & it's a wrap! #gen gen!!
Esther, u can lyk to write a Family Law Text book tho. #thumbs up
na wa o, i dont know wat to say. take heart wife no1 de yeye man would get wat is coming to him. I think he did jazz on mercy johnson blinding her and making her his mumu. Mercy i beg make u go all night fasting and deliverance. Money is not everything. Once a cheat always a cheat.
Ogene oooooo!! Mercyyyyyyyyyy ooooooo!Abegi jus pity dis woman no need to dey do gragra over recycled dick o. The tin no fresh sef.
some guys are just plain heartless...I don't even know what to say.
Grrrrrr...in thick Nigerian accent; SERIOUSLY, WHY ARE WOMEN LIKE THIS OO. THIS WOMAN SHOULDN'T HAVE DONE THIS NWOAHHH...NNE WHY? SO NOW LINDA IS SUPPOSED TO GET YOU YOUR HUSBAND BACK HEN? ISHHH... I DON'T KNOW WHY PEOPLE CHOOSE TO AIR THEIR DIRTY LAUNDRY IN THE PUBLIC BIKO UNO. SMH...WOMEN OF THE WORLD OO, SEE, SHE IS NOT BLAMING HER SO CALLED HUSBAND O, HE PROPOSED TO ANOTHER WOMAN, SET WEDDING DATE, DENIED YOU IN PUBLIC AND YOU ARE STILL DELUSIONAL THAT HE IS THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE? SERIOUSLY AUNTY LOVELY ARE YOU FOR REAL? YOU HONESTLY DON'T HAVE ANY BUSINESS WITH MERCY OO, YOU SHOULD BE TALKING TO YOUR HUSBAND, HE IS THE ONE THAT CHOSE TO DRAG YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN IN THE MUD. MERCY DOESN'T HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOUR PERSONAL FAMILY BUSINESS. KAI! MY BLOOD IS BURNING HOT SHA.
I DON'T CONDONE CHEATING BY ANY MEANS WHATSOEVER, BUT SERIOUSLY, WHY ARE WE SO QUICK TO ATTACK THE OTHER WOMAN BUT NEVER THE MAN???
Anonymous 9:21 PM
Its obvious you have gone bonkers. how can you say Mercy Johnson wowo? Wowo and he is leaving his wife for her. If you dont have any reasonable thing to write, JOG ON!
Dear Lovely Okojie, I feel for you but I would suggest you let him go - no matter how painful it is for you - no one tied his leg and forced him to marry Mercy if he has chosen to leave you then leave it to God - your babies are beautiful focus on them God is not unjust - He will help you bring them up right and heal your brokenheart - Many guys marry maybe for paper especially if you guys got married abroad - but he has no business having kids with you if that was the case - but these naija guys do it all the time - wen they are desperate to stay in the country - anyway i dont know the whole story so i wont assume this is the case - BUT STAY STRONG - STAY CLOSE TO GOD HE WILL HELP YOU - As for Mercy leave her - no comment anyway - time will tell sha...
Can someone please tell me if this guy is rich or an influencial socialite because I am trying to get my head around why mercy is doing this?
Thank you
Well if her husband is about to get married to another woman and she knows fully well they aren't divorced, it is established that he is an asshole.
No need to start crying. It is time to "woman-up" and "lawyer-up". She should have waited for him to do just that. Then she'll sue his sorry ass.
That way she gets more than HALF!
Wow this is something!!
Lady Lovely as everyone has stated earlier if man no want no matter how u do en go still waka. Try and move on.
How come u decided to do this now when the wedding is around the corner? Why didn't u do it when they revealed she was engaged????
This whole thing is like the Ini Edo saga mentioned earlier. All i can say is Mercy and Mr. Man go handle there situation as they like.....
Every story get 2 sides...who knows what happened in his previous marriage?
All I can say is that all these issues exist and Mercy still decided to quit acting after her wedding? Hmm. I hope she has wise female family members.
puff puff don turn to buns o!!
Linda, tell her to send a scanned copy of her marriage certificate for you to publish.
Let us see 'black and white' before we can lash the busty actress with words.
Men in the Diaspora normally get carried away with Nollywood actresses.
Should we blame the men that are nothing in the Diaspora or the actresses that are in the limelight?
Like Ini Edo like Mercy Johnson. Ini is childless till now after snatching the husband of one Ijebu girl that had cancer. Mercy carry go!
Its not always the man's fault, it happened to my dad n d other lady jazzed him and turned his head around, so he didn't knw what he was doing, he never agreed to my mum that he was seeing a lady until dey got married n she gave birth for him, so many similar stories.....it is well. Lovely pray for your husband. God would intervane.
Big Sam media again . Yeye PR people. It's as if they didn't attend school. The way they write always seems to confirm the story and put the people they are representing in a bad way.
nne eh ihe nke a dikwa egwu!!!!But really Lovely i dont believe you are still married to this man,hav'nt you heard of bigamy?dont you know your rights?you can sue the man if you are still married to him,but if the marriage is over sweetie you should just move on with your life,One truth is guaranteed''in a few yrs time''ARA MERCY GA ADA''they wont be that firm forever,then your hubby will dump her as well.
LOL, i don't mean to laugh at the woman but damn. Mercy did not steal your husband o! That man is the one that walk away. He is not in shackles or chains. He left of his own volition.
I sympathize with the lady, whether he abandoned her or he legitimately divorced her. No woman deserves to go through that, especially after only a couple years of marriage and 2 babies involved. At least the guy should be taking care of his kids. But this is not the way. Trying to shame him into coming back to you will never work.
Honestly why would you even want him after he clearly has committed the ultimate disrespect? If anything you should just be trying to obtain some sort of child and/or spousal support and wash your hands of him romantically. Its women like this that make me so mad because you just reaffirm that a man can do whatever he wants and there will be some woman willing to lose all her dignity to keep him even when he's not worth the fight.
Taking a critical look at the picture alot of discrepancies and loop holes can be found.
In picture 2 the boy looks like a baby on 08/02/2011 (Assuming the the date is february). The third picture carrying the same date shows the boy is a bit grown up; just take a look at his hands they look firmer.
Furthermore, the time on picture 3 and 2 doesn't make sense as it takes more than 3 minutes to get to the registry irrespective of the closeness. Considering that the start up time, initial reading which are all done before signing the dotted paper. Its either the camera auto resets its timer or she's a bad lier.
There are other discre[pancies that i won't border on disclosing as this isn't my fight. My conclusion on the matter is LOVELY is really wicked and is looking for a score to settle, cos apparently the pictures don't make sense.
seems shady to me...is that the wedding pic? If it is then she's a liar. Cos she said they married in 2006 and the date on the pic is 2011. She just got actors to stage that photo...but if its true, then mercy johnson na you know o since you've released statement
I CAN'T BELIEVE ALL YOU PPL ARE TELLING THE LADY TO LET GO OF HER HUSBAND IF HER MARRIAGE ISN'T WORKING....HOW DARE YOU GUYS TALK LIKE THIS?? WHAT EXACTLY DO YOU MEAN BY IS MARRIAGE BY FORCE?? ARE YOU GUYS IN URANUS, OR MERCURY??? FOR PETE'S SAKE I AM TRYING VERY VERY HARD TO BE CIVIL ON THIS MATTER...LET'S BACK UP THEY GOT MARRIED IN 2006!!!..I MEAN 2006!!!..EVIL IS TRYING TO DESTROY HER MARRIAGE AND YOU ARE TELLING HER TO LET GO...SO YOU GUYS SUPPORTING THIS IF YOUR MARRIAGE IS UNDER ATTACK THEN YOU SIMPLY LET GO?? ARE YOU GUYS IN AN ALTERNATE UNIVERSE??? SINCE WHEN DID WE NIGERIANS START BEHAVING LIKE THIS??
TO SAY I AM APPALLED IS AN UNDERSTATEMENT...LOOK AT THE MOST BEAUTIFUL AND PRECIOUS CHILDREN WHOSE HOMES ARE ABOUT TO BE DESTROYED!!!!...
I HAVE ALWAYS FELT THAT MERCY JOHNSON IS BAD NEWS, AND SO IS THIS LUNATIC AGBORO OF A MAN...SO WITH ALL HER MGBEKE FEELING FUNKY WAYS, THE BEST SHE COULD DO IS SNATCH SOMEONE ELSE'S HUSBAND, WITH TWO CUTIE PIE IMPRESSIONABLE KIDS,!!! SO SHE CANNOT GET A CLEAN SLATE HUSBAND FOR HER SELF, WHO HAS NO BAGGAGE!!..GOING TO SOME LOW END BRIDAL STORE AND TAKING PICTURES OF HERSELF TO SEND OUT TO MEDIA OUTLETS, JUST TO BELONG...NO WONDER SHE IS NOT FRIENDS WITH ANYONE IN NOLLYWOOD!!!
ALL THESE PIMPS AND HUSTLERS FROM ITALY, GERMANY, BELGIUM, AMSTERDAM AND SO ON DOING 419 IN ALL THESE EUROPEAN COUNTRIES TRAVEL EN MASSE TO NIJA TO PICK UP ALL THE ACTRESSES IN NIJA......
TO PUT THIS IN PERSPECTIVE IMAGINE THAT YOU ARE THE ONE WITH TWO TODDLERS AND YOUR MARRIAGE IS ABOUT TO END...
YOU KNOW WHAT IF THIS IS TRUE THEN THESE TWO CLOWNS DESERVE EACH OTHER BCOS AS FAR AS I AM CONCERNED THE MAN IS AN INFIDEL!!...FOR CRYING OUT LOUD WHAT MARRIAGE ON THIS PLANET EARTH DOES NOT HAVE PROBLEMS THAT CANNOT BE RESTORED...OBVIOUSLY IF INDEED THEY ARE HAVING PROBLEMS, THIS WOMAN IS READY TO DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO MAKE HER MARRIAGE WORK!!!....
MY ADVICE FOR HER WOMAN TO WOMAN IS TO GO DOWN ON HER KNEES AND ASK GOD, JESUS, AND ALL THE MINISTERING ANGELS TO WAGE THIS BATTLE FOR HER, I COULD GO ON AND ON..BUT I WILL REST MY CASE HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MY ONLY DISCLAIMER HERE IS IF MERCY JOHNSON DOES NOT KNOW THIS MAN HAS A YOUNG FAMILY, THEN SHE IS INNOCENT, BUT IF SHE DOES AND INSISTS ON MARRYING HIM...THEN SHE SHOULD BE READY FOR THE CONSEQUENCES BCOS WHAT GOES AROUND SURELY COMES AROUND!!!
KA CHINEKE MEZIOKWU!!!!!
Puff puff don turn to burns o!mercy are u sure u want to continue with this wedding? Bcos e get as e be o!
Think about it very well cos dis marriage tin na wa o!
Such stories are never black or white. People be careful before judging especially on marriage issues. If Lovely and Prince were done before Mercy came along, then what is Mercy's fault? The divorced man should not remarry? The only thing he needs to do is tie up legal ends before remarrying.
I'm waiting for the day a man will make this same complaint - that another man stole his wife! No, they understand that in matters of the heart, a person has to be willing to be stolen! And as such, they move on kiakia
lovely or watever u call urself...am sure u re high on some drug, ur husband has been an item wit mercy for over 3yrs so come she stole ur man? who ever gave u dis advise is not helping ur matter.
i dont knw why y'all are blaming mercy, why not the man.
why did u wait dis long b4 u speak out and if ur husband is geting marry to normal girl will u publish ur story? am sure NO..
Enjoy ur 15mins fame, am not even surprice dis is coming out...dat is d price to pay for being celebrity.
same thing happen to alicia keys last year,did breez left her to go back to her?NO..so lovely u re own ur own wit dis ur dirty shit.
shut ur mouth up n do urself some respect
obviously u sound bitter but u ve lost dis battle even if things dosent work out btw ur Ex n mercy he can never come back to u.
Linda am waiting for 2nd part of dis story ooooo my sister.
I have said this and I would say it again. Mercy does Jazz. She knows what I'm talking about. It's not that man's fault.
A sane man cannot decide to marry a lady with much publicity when he knows he has skeleton in his closet. People are already judging because it involves mercy. The man has long ended that marriage. Lovely got prove why so much noise, she should take him to court and not looking for sympathy from people. This is another story of a bitter ex who refuses to accept that it is really over.
Dosumu please those pictures were retaken! Please stop watching CSI ajegunle.
U don't need that kind of man. Don't worry (wife in Italy) that marriage can not last if it's built on such a platform
What are you talking about, saying men don't fight men who steal their women? Do you know how many wars have been fought over a woman's affections?
How many men have been killed, villages razed, cities burnt to the ground?
Lovely Okojie,
Pictures prove nothing. Please provide the following:
Exhibit A: certified marriage license from Italy where you claim to have married.
Exhbit B: stamped passport page(s) showing that you could have been in Italy around the date/time you claim to have marreid there.
Exhibit C: paternity test showing that your alleged husband is father to the kids in the picture.
Exhibit D: affidavit in which you restate your allegations against Mercy Johnson.
If you are unable to provide the above, then SHUT UP AND GO AWAY!!!
Ok we've heard her side of the story abi, we shouldn't be one sided bout this story. There are 3 sides to this story, her side, d hubby and mercy. Maybe the marriage was ova before he met mercy? Maybe he lied to mercy bout him divorcing his wife? Maybe wifey is finding it hard to let go of her hubby? As Lovely said, they got married n Italy, having a foreign marriage cerificate is not always vaild in every country, I'm pretty sure that marriag is not legal in naija. But I still feel sorry 4 her, God will help uut this story. There are 3 sides to this story, her side, d hubby and mercy. Maybe the marriage was ova before he met mercy? Maybe he lied to mercy bout him divorcing his wife? Maybe wifey is finding it hard to let go of her hubby? As Lovely said, they got married n Italy, having a foreign marriage cerificate is not always vaild in every country, I'm pretty sure that marriag is not legal in naija. But I still feel sorry 4 her, God will help u
If this man is still married to the lady, Mercy shouldn't go ahead with the wedding. Mercy please shine your eyes oooo, why settle down with someone that have two kids already and a wife.....common you are telling me you can't find a single guy.
Please the lady need to answer this question, are they still legally married or divorced. The church need to look into this, she need to send this letter or email it to Christ Embassy.
NKAN BE OOOO.....
Puff-puff don turn Buns ooooo......if the man is still legally married then Mercy Johnson is a fool.
Love has no boundaries my dear. Continue to love your husband regardless of your present circumstance. Eventually, you will realize all is well. Our Father is all knowing and surely he will continue to protect and fulfill for you and your children. Cry no more. It is done! God bless you sister!!!
Linda,como esta.anyway see what you think
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pKigaWotw6M&feature=player_embedded
TO THE DAFT PEOPLE SCREAMING "PHOTOSHOP' SHUT THE FUCK UP, AND THINK BEFORE YOU TYPE.
OBVIOUSLY SHE USED HER CAMERA TO TAKE THE PICTURE THAT WAS ALREADY PRINTED. PHEWWWWW
BACK TO TOPIC.
IF THEY ARE STILL LEGALLY MARRIED, THEN THE CHURCH NEED TO STOP THE WEDDING.
LINDA CAN YOU ASK THE LADY, IF THEY ARE STILL LEGALLY MARRIED. THANK YOU
At all the people trying to judge the situation based on the time on the photo. This is it. They were hard copies. In order for it to be posted here, they were retaken with a camera on those dates you see there, hence the dates on the pics.
All these FBI officers here are just cracking me up. Simple logic can solve that. Even by children LOL
You asked: "what do I tell my children"
You tell them papa was a rolling stone, wherever he laid his agbada was his home...
am not mercy johnson fan but i will say dis over n over again..am on mercy side on dis matter..
Mrs lovely why did u wait till last minute.com b4 u come out? shit happen in relationship n ppl move on stop living in d past n accept ur faith.
am sure dis is just an opportunity for some of mercy haters to pass thier bitter comment..for fuck sake dis guy has been goin everywhere wit mercy for over 3yrs so is not something hiden so y dt u speak out out then so u now wait til some weeks to d wedding.
sorry madam lovely u re not getting my sympathy...LOSER
this is really hilarious...sorry to say, but it is. personally i think this lovely character just wants to generate publicity for herself...God knows why, buh Mercy Johnson known that shes publicizn marrying a 'married man' just makes no sense! #shrug
Lol @ csi ajegunle, my exact thoughts, the pictures were retaken with a digital camera so as to send to linda, for the people forming detectives, are you guys this daft?
Hummmmm...Omo Mehn!
Women!!!! why!!!Mercy i dont care if this man has been seperated from his wife for sometime.. what i care about is the fact that he is still legally married with kids!! Do you have a brain that you think with at all?you see a pit right in front of you and choose to fall in it!! Seriously!!! babe, what goes around comes around o! opt out of this shit to save urself from unneccesary shit!
my own 2kobo to dis whole saga is dis.....Lovely said she and her husband have been married since 2006.meanwhile Mercy and d said mr okojie have been dating for d past 3yrs which makes it 2008.apparently mercy was dating him while he was married.cos i just want to beleive she knew he was married all along,she cant claim to be ignorant of d man's status.so my point exactly is she was dating someone else's husband for 3yrs.
secondly,those passing insults on Loveli dat she should let go of her marriage,remember those living in glass house dont throw stones.one day u shall get married and pls let go of ur marriage at d slightest problem ok?idiots.
thirdly,to those asking where she was and why she waited till now before voicing out.do u know sometimes,the mother is always d last person to know when her beloveth teenage daughter gets pregnant?what if she is d gullible type?what if she is d type that doesnt listen to rumours or third parties inshort what if she is just hearing d news of mercy j and her husband for d first time?pple be careful as u type.its someone's marriage we are talking abt here and what God has joined together......Mercy,a word of advice to u,u dont want d effect of a praying wife on u do u?
Abeg, stop insulting Mercy. Alicia Keys did it, pro-actively for that matter, and with a man who had just had another baby with another woman.
Did anyone abuse her this way?
am sure dis page will run to 200 coment by 2moro morin...LOL
off 2 bed..
For all of you saying mercy has been in a relationship for three years then the wife most have known or that the marriage most have ended don't know how far men can go to cover up extra marital affair. as for me, i knew dirty black merciless johnson won't be marrying a clean upwardly mobile no strings attached guy like my babe dakore did, she'l always follow in the foot steps of her coach ini edo, shameless tarts
With the shameless way these actresses carry themselves in Nigeria, they end up settling for anything that can serve as husband. Be he divorced,still married and stuff..
Lovely, get urself a lawyer.
@ Anon 11:04pm...yea u re rite,the pictures were re-taken. The flash at the background explains that... lol...Dosumu dey really watch CSI-Ajegunle, see analysis.
@ noella. lot's of kisses from me to you. Your words we right on point.
God help us all and may he also help Mercy Johnson to think and act right and not steal another woman's husband because what goes around certainly comes back around. And as for the man, stick to one woman.
Has anyone noticed the pictures put up never show Loveth abi lovely with the man and the kids??? #Justsaying
Perhaps we should investigate more, this sounds extremely dodgy..and if it is true..Lovely sorry o..Mercy may ya yansh & breasts deflate..but if na lie..Lovely..gaan hug transformer..
wow! but we can't conclude till we hear from the other side.
If this is true then it is a case of bigamy. Lovely, your issue is with your husband not his mistress.
A matter for the courts
LINDA !Chei you have fully arrived.Exclusive story ngwa
Lol @ CSI Ajegunle
Lovely, you have beautiful kids.Forget the past, move on ,take care of your kids.Don't return to naija as some people have adviced b4 they use jazz on you/ your kids as is common in your hubby's place.Please,your children need you alive.
God will give you all you need to take care of your children
OH NO!! THis joint just got MESSY!! EX wife, wife, WTHell??? and it is interesting that things are coming out now that its closer to the wedding.
she's getting married end of August right?
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Whether they are married or not, there is something that make men act STUPID when they are with "other" women.
I CAN'T BELIEVE U GUYS ARE SAYING THIS MARRIAGE WAS LONG OVER...ARE YOU GUYS THAT HATEFUL AND THAT MUCH ENEMIES OF PROGRESS TO SAY I AM DISAPPOINTED IS AN UNDERSTATEMENT...TO SUPPORT THE BREAKDOWN OF THIS MARRIAGE AND EVEN ANY OTHER MARRIAGE FOR THAT MATTER SIMPLY SHOWS THAT THOSE OF YOU SUPPORTING THE BREAK DOWN OF THIS MARRIAGE ARE HOME WRECKERS YOURSELVES....
I THOUGHT NIGERIANS WERE REASONABLY COMPASSIONATE, AND EDUCATED..I HEAR SOME PPL STATING AS A FACT THAT THE MARRIAGE WAS OVER A LONG TIME AGO...HOW DO YOU KNOW WHERE YOU THERE??? HOW DOES THAT EVEN BEGIN TO MAKE SENSE... THEY GOT MARRIED IN 2006..I REPEAT 2006!!!.....TO THOSE CLAIMING SHE NEEDS TO MOVE ON...THE ONLY REASON I CAN HONESTLY COME UP WITH IS THAT IT IS MERCY JOHNSON HERSELF PARADING HERSELF WITH DIVERSE ALIASES.....I KNOW MY FELLOW NIGERIANS ARE MORE WELL INTENTIONED THAN THIS!!! HABA!!!!
PLEASE THOSE SUPPORTING THIS LOOK AT THE BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN...
I WILL PUT OUT ANOTHER DISCLAIMER..
UNLESS THE WOMAN HAS BEEN UNFAITHFUL THEREBY MAKING HER HUSBAND STRAY, OR SHE IS INVOLVED IN THE OCCULT, ANY MARRIAGE CAN BE SALVAGED...
MERCY JOHNSON IS HIGHLY OVERRATED JUST BCOS SHE FLAUNTS HER BACKSIDE AND BREASTS IS ABSOLUTE NONSENSE, AND PURELY JUVENILE..THE AVERAGE NIJA GIRL HAS A LOVELY FIGURE, AND IS GENERALLY WELL ENDOWED...SO I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT THE EXCITEMENT OVER HER IS....I GUESS IF SHE USES JAZZ AS I HAVE HEARD SOME PPL SAY SHE DOES...THEN THAT EXPLAINS EVERYTHING!!!!
KA CHINEKE MEZIOKWU!!!
TROUBLE IN HIGH PLACES!!!
So Mercy Johnson if someone doesn't cry you won't be happy abi?
You want to become an OBIAGERI...no wahala,but remember that you may finally end up as the food to be consumed and no longer the consumer!
TO all the people shouting that the lady is scamming with the pics....Are you DAFT?! Geez. It's a pic of a pic, duh! Isn't it obvious that she took a picture of a pic that is already posted on a wall. Some people are so brainless. SMH
As for Lovely, kpele but you are doing theeeee most. It's clear that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you (you should probably be thanking your GOd). Why would you want a man back that has obviously put you through so much? Even if he came back, wouldn't you question his loyalty? Is it really worth it? Please be strong and move on. You will be fine and your kids will be fine.
As for Mercy, I hope you have really checked this guys background.
I think this woman should have come forward years ago when they first talked about this marriage happening. Because if I recall, Mercy was rumoured to be marrying last year: which is to me, where was the wife all this time to only decide to speak up now?
Mercy was in the US shopping for wedding gowns with said husband, where was the wife?
If mercy wants to get marry she must have her reasons. Afterall, Ini Edo wedding went on in the same condition and they even married in the US to prove that the man was long divorced.
I hate to see women make a spectacle of themselves. If your husband left you for Mercy Johnson and you know you are a better woman, walk because he will never know your value. It is Mercy as it could have been any other woman: A man who is capable of abandonning his reponsabilities so recklessly for one woman will do it for another.
If I were Lovely Okojie I would offer him to do things properly and get a divorce so that I and kids get settled and I can move on with my life.
Let say mercy is not marrying the man: do you think he will run back to his wife? heck no! so what is all this for?
Gbe se!
Actors to stage?!? Lol
Where do u suppose she got their lookalikes from?
LMAO!!!
Linda are you now a detective or marriage counsellor? You need to be very careful before putting mouth in these sort of issues o. There is very nearly never a fine line when dealing with other peoples relationships. The same person who has run to you for help will turn against you when she is back to her husband and even use your own matter as foreplay.
She should not involve you in her bukata. Just offer her your prayers and let her sort out the mess with Mercy and her husband.
Stupid idiot is that how much you respect your husband? If you did things right the first time your husband won't be getting married to a bitch. Stupid idiot go take care of your kids and don't be a whimpy woman. Mtcheww
lol @ puff puff Don turn to buns. Lmbao @ CSI ajegunle.
TAAA! That woman needs to disappear. Wetin? Which kind rubbish marriage
AS FAR AS I AM CONCERNED THOSE PHOTOS ARE PHOTOSHOPPED! WETIN!!!
IF THEY ARE NOT PHOTOSHOPPED THEN LET US LOOK AT THE DATES on them. She said they got married in 2006 yet the photos say 2011. All of these photos were taken on 08/02/2011 somebody is lying somewhere and regardless of whatever nonsense is developed to stop the wedding all I am saying is that Naija haters need to stop hating... o gini kwa nu.
NIGERIANS HATE PASS! BLOODY LIAR... go and die
Nigerians can like to be gullible. ALL OF YOU JUST WANT THE DOWNFALL OF MERCY... SEE HOW WILLING YOU ARE TO BELIEVE THIS WOMAN AND HER BULLSHIT.
PERSONALLY I HAVE WORKED WITH PHOTOSHOP AND KNOW IT'S POWER SO ALL OF UNA CAN LIKE TO GO AND CHOP SHIT.
LOOK AT HOW YOU WERE SO HAPPY TO POINT AT MERCY AND LAUGH. YOU ALL ARE WICKED!!! TRULY WICKED. WAIT TILL YOU HAVE SOMETHING TANGIBLE LIKE A VIDEO OR A CONFESSION OR SOMETHING. NOT USELESS PHOTOS. PHOTO HAS NO CREDIBILITY IN 21ST CENTURY O JARE... NONSENSE
1) Marriage is a sacred institution, you dont jump in and out as you please, thats what makes marriage special.
2)To pursue a man and woman who is legally married, even if they are having issues, is adultery. If you consider yourself Christian, there is no 2 way about it.
3) If everything was really out in the open, then Mercy would have been advised by her PR folks to release that info, since she had long interviews about how she met him, and how he's a "prince" and loves him. No mention of his previous marriage or children.
4) Its one thing to get married, its another to stay married. Its easy to get married, its hard to stay married.
5)The man in question isnt anything to write home about physically, he might supposedly have money but did he go to proper school, what is his educational background. If this is what is left for women to marry in naija, then wahala dey.
6) Folks asking why Lovely hasnt said anything, dont get it. Being all the way in Canada, who is she supposed to contact?? Naija isnt like Yankee, where you can pick up a phone and file a report. We all know Mercy and Odianosen will be on ground, doing all they can to block that side. Linda is one of the few popular online figures that will actually do so. We know that folks like BellaNaija wont. She has aired it out now, its off her chest, now the ball is in Mercy and Prince's court, they know everyone knows now, and I'm sure they didnt sleep well last night.
Here's more info on divorcing in Canada. The prob appears to be child support, if this man is supposedly loaded like Mercy and the media claim, then he shouldnt be running from that. Mercy sorry your so-called fiance is not a real man, and Lovely where did you pick up this trash from? Prince Prince, take hand for being an undercover fool turned mugu for a stupid job badly done.
Divorce in Canada is governed by the Divorce Act.
To get a divorce in Canada, you will have to show that your marriage has broken down. The law says marriage breakdown has occurred if:
you and your spouse have lived separate and apart for one year with the idea that your marriage is over*; or
your spouse has committed adultery (had sexual intercourse with someone else) and you have not forgiven your spouse; or
your spouse has been physically or mentally cruel to you, making it unbearable to continue living together. Cruelty may include acts of physical violence and those causing severe mental anguish.
*Most divorces in Canada are based on one year separation. Note that 'living separate and apart' does not necessarily mean living in separate homes - you can be separated but share the same home for various reasons (children, money, etc.). For example, let's say that your spouse moved out of the house three months ago. However, your marriage actually broke down and was essentially over nine months ago. Your actual date of separation may be nine months ago, rather than three months ago.
@Noella, I like your comments on here as always!
Thats it, she should just go into intense midnight prayers, and ask for God's justice. Mercy and the Odi guy will the one calling her and begging her for mercy.
SO MANY PEOPLE BE DODGING... DON'T BE STUPID, PEOPLE!!!
LOVELY IS A PSYCHO BITCH. CLEARLY.
I used to think these actresses had class, i guess some of them are losing it, This mercy Johnson acts as foolish as she looks. she was the same person that had a relationship with Prince Dumuje last year, that the wife had to pray for her. now this one....i have nothing to say. all i can say is BITCH get a life and stop screwing married men.
This is the very reason I am not interested in a man who was previously married or who has children. Too much bloody drama. If Mercy has truly done her wrong then her marriage will fail or be riddled with discontent. If this woman is lying, then she will face the consequences eventually.
If these actresses cant find a single man to marry, pls be single like Genevieve,Rita and so on... Screwing married men only makes you look cheap and desperate.
O' Girl!
He doesn't want to be married to you again Mrs Canada/ Italo.. Move on!!
My fight with our women is all this hanging on...
Do you really want a guy who treats you this way?
Even JLo left her husband last month..
I'd say good bye yo him and don't let the door hit you on your way out..
You should feel sorry for Mercy who has latched herself to the looser..
SMH
Men like to Creep sha.
Do you know that Lovely probably did not realize that he was creeping on her until the very end?
Mr man must have been lying to both chicks:)
lol@anon11.04!!! "Critical look" by Agent Dosumumu!!!
The man should be blamed, how can you ask another woman's hand in marriage if you are still married. But there are more similar story. Men just believe they can mess around with women. God will punish all that mankind!
To Mercy Johnson: What goes around comes around!
PLEASE MY PEOPLE LETS HANDLE THIS WITH CARE..LOVELY, IF YOUR MARRIAGE HAS END PLEASE LET THE MAN BE AND MARRY WHO HE FEELS FOR..I KNOW THAT PEOPLE WILL TALK BAD AGAINST MERCY BECAUSE SHE IS A CELEB..THIS MERCY WE TALK ABOUT IS HUMAN LIKE ME AND YOU..YOUR MARRIAGE ENDED UP GOOD BECAUSE YOU HAVE YOUR LIFE OR YOU WANT TO END IT UP WITH BEATING STABBING TILL YOU DIE LIKE OTHER ONGOING MARRIAGES ENDS UP MANY A TIMES..PLEASE YOU ARE NOT THE FIRST DIVORCE AND WILL NEVER BE THE LAST, JUST THAT IT INVOLVES MERCY JOHNSON..COME TO THINK OF IT, ARE YOU NOT IN THIS EARTH WHEN THE MAN GO FOR MERCY BECAUSE AM VERY SURE THAT HE IS THE ONE THAT GOES FOR HER..LET THE WILL OF GOD BE DONE.
CHARLES
This is like arrangee for Canaga kpali that went wrong. The guy didnt seem happy in any of the pictures.
Most babes flaunt their ppts to guys in the hope to hook them and even have babies and then think its all settled. If you are married, oya produce all the trado rites pictures and white wedding pics.
This happebs a lot in Jand and Yankee. The guy is desperado to intergrate into the system, babe is desperado to marry and have kids.
Desperado + Desperado = I Single mum with two kids and One 'escapee' Hubby with freedom after sacrificing the number of years required to nationlise.
This babe should surely have seen this coming.
From the wedding pics, to kids, body language gives away a lot!
Sad sha.
Move on woman. Now he is marrying his latest conquest.
Odikwa Kpomkpos.
Uju
I agree with Uju....
The guy doesnt look happy in any of those photographs...He probably married her for Papers or whatever and he's now tired.....
Abeg free Mercy joooo. The Lady should have qualms with her husband and not Mercy.....
This is the same way they talked about Ini Edo and Phillip and years don de pass, dem still de together...
What we need in marriage is God and Prayers because either husband or wife could get tired and decide to walk.... Its only God that can hold a marriage together.....
Hhhmmm Marriage.. a very complex institution....
odianose sent my father divorce papers last month and when they got to the court d judge asked him why he wanted a divorce he said because i insulted him,den d judge said its a normal thing for couples to quarrel and dat wasn't enough reason for him to wanna divorce, then my sister stood up and told the judge the whole story, dat was when the judge adjourned the case to on the 9th of this month.Odianose collected all my documents n d marriage certificate from me when i was coming to canada dats why he's insisting dat i should provide the marriage certificate because he knows i dont av them. Alot of people r saying where have i been all this while,well he made me believe that he didn’t have anytin to do with mercy Johnson, dat they were just business partners,i was surprised to see all mercy's statement dat they av been been dating for long i then called odianose's parents but they told me they don't know any Mercy Johnson dat i shouldn't bother myself. i was sort of relieved and believed everything was actually fine.until i started hearing about a wedding.I'm a member of CHRIST EMBASSY here in canada and when i found out dat the wedding was gonna take place in CHRIST EMBASSY OREGUN BRANCH,i called my pastor and explained everything to him,he den told me he was going to verify the whole story and get back to me but he never did.I then decided to get intouch with CHRIST EMBASSY OREGUN 3days back, i told them everything and they promised to get to the bottom of the whole thing and get back to me but up till now they've not called me.I'm patiently waiting till on the 9th to hear the outcome of the court case. Tanx so much Linda and her readers, may God bless ur homes.
The woman just mentioned her side of the story, have you heard the guy's and did mercy really snatch him cos he has had several relationships before mercy and the wife is aware!!!!
Mercy Johnson is happy, her fiance is happy, the marriage is obviously over , the woman shroud move on and leave them alone seriously no need of coming to the press because nothing will happen.....
Without apology to any1 most nollywood weddings come with controversy they just cant get it right , this is Mercys own: she should deal with it(both lovely and Mercy should know that it will pass) Yes all the hoolpa and brouhaha will pass lol
INI EDO, NOW MERCY JOHNSON
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With natural breasts as big and juicy as that, which greedy man would not to 'die' there? O ga o.
It is lust not love. He never dreamt of meeting a popular actress in his life as a bush-prince.
The wife should get some people to disgrace them at the wedding if she cannot fly to Nigeria on time.
She can also send a copy of her marriage certificate and wedding pictures to the church.
Madam, did u let Linda know ur hubby had started divorce proceedings? It appears you have been economical with the truth. Linda pls review this story so ppl can updated and stop haranguing Mercy .
@Nollywood reinvented..those pics r obviously old pics,the date is not on the pictures buh from d camera with which the pictures were snapped,for use in whateva she wanted to use them for.Most digital cameras now have date settings on them madam.
As for Lovely,mercy and d prince dude they should sort themselves out like the adults they are supposed to be.One thing's for sure tho,if lovely's claim is true about prince being her "husband" and Mercy knowing about him having a real family,then both Mercy and Prince will get what's coming to them.This story shocked me at first buh dats life for you,bizarre things happen to certain pple.But u fight back bizarre situations with wisdom.They all have to sort it out themselves.Whateva decision they make will live with them for d rest of their lives.
Christ Embassy and their matchmaking abilities where art thou on this pls?
Awele
I hope they resolve this messy shit.
Shit has hit the fan!
If this is true, Lovely can sue for Bigamy and that will be big trouble for the man and Mercy. I hope she will think about the hot soup she is about leap into. Lovely is not his girl friend but his LEGALLY MARRIED WIFE. Beware Mercy because you will be badly burnt. The Law goes by evidence and not emotions.
NAWA OOO, MAY GOD HELP HER....BUT WHAT IS IT WIT THIS GIRLS SELF, THE GUY IN QUESTION LOOKS SO UNKEPT! SHE WLDNT AV DATED HIM IF HE WERE TO B A ROAD SIDE MECHANIC. LET HER GO AHEAD WIT THE MARRIGE NOW, SHE WILL SURE ENJOY HIS MONEY, SHE SHLD JUST REALISE DT , WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.MAY GOD GRANT US LONG LIFE....
Ok Christ Embassy needs to make sure dude is actually divorced before participating in bigamy!
I laugh at those shouting at the Lovely chic and those saying pictures are fraud!
Plus person who said italian marriage isnt legal in naija needs to go and read book. Marriage done anywhere is legal anywhere in the world! Whether na italy, kafanchan or timbuktu!
Even if he married her for papers, he needs to be a man and take care of his kids. Divorce and pay child support! For those who dont understand how much child support is, lets just saying its a huge chunk every mth based on his income till the kids turn 18!!! Mandated by law, meaning if you dont pay, you can get thrown in jail.
The lady is lying. If all this is true then she should take mercy to court. And if not, all these are FABU like the yoruba's say.
Mercy Johnson don fall my hand...
I've read the comments and I agree with Esther. Lovely said she didn't sign any divorce papers. Sooo...let the ball roll.
this is seroius......................
..........................i have spoken!
OMG was that the actual Lovely that posted this stuff. I been keeping quiet all this while but if it is how it truly happened then you were hoodwinked by that useless husband of yours. Don't grant him that divorce Never I repeat emphatically if not to spite him for dumping you for another woman. Men are pigs duh seeking for divorce asap cuz you wanna run into the arms of another chic is ludicrous. This is a challenge to the women folk and we must all stand up in unison to fight this. How dare this cheap dirty man run around his legally married wife for another girl. Mercy Johnson has got to do the most reasonable thing if after the hearing on 9th this month based on Lovely's side of the story swings to her favor. Women are generally bitter over the loss of a boyfriend cum lover how much more a husband. Even divorced women hate their ex's partner totally so pls leave the man in the centre of this showdown alone,Mercy. The woman has every rights to fight for her man in any capacity she deems fit. Dirty n gutter language is allowed in this fight. Don't provoke a woman when it comes to her husband even old women have it hot with young women who dare come across their husband of many years. Just steer off the path of trouble Mercy and stem the tide of this public ridicule that will follow you should you transgress and go ahead to tie the nuptials with prince. The woman has clarified issues enough and she is bitter naturally who wouldn't be. We act all "civil" when debating people's cases. Just close your eyes for a moment and replay this scene with yourself in the drama and come back here to rephrase the abuses and "suggestions" you're giving to the "unknown" woman. The era of husband taking snatching and its sorts is fast running out cuz women fight to finish to reclaim their own. It aint advisable to wade into such waters. Its a clear case of "Try N See". Based on the claims made by Lovely Odianosen I humbly appeal to Mercy and any other woman out there reading this to desist from hanging around men with uncomfortable marriage dissolution issues hanging around their necks, married men and any other man caught in the middle of serious awkward compromise. It might seem a bit hard pruning down your "market" but its really worth it in the long while. Occasional thoughts of flirting with married men might crop cuz they give pressure and attention yeh they do but its safe to advise "shun it". Be focused and resilient prayers help too and one day you'll have your own. Still not deviating from the principal issue am saying that if all Lovely's claims are true or near true then Mercy Johnson should be ready n willing to let go of the man after the 9th august hearing which is exactly 96 hours from today. Not easy yeah emotions time and all have been invested but the ensuing spectacle might be too devastating and horrifying. Pride is in place. A renowned actress is involved and it will certainly set media buzzing and tongues wagging but many situations with a setting like this is a no win no lose situation and the surest path to take is that of good reasoning and compassion. Have the good head to say no to cruelty and rashness by walking away if he doesn't get to divorce his wife legally.
MEHN. THESE QUACK PR PEOPLE SEF. THE BIG SAM MEDIA GUYS ARE MAKING ME LAUGH. YOU HAVE A CLIENT IN DEEP SHIT AND ALL YOU COULD WRITE IS THIS? BIG SAM IS WACK.
MERCY REPENT O, THE KIGDOM OF GOD IS AT HAND---TOM, UK
I have said it before and i will say it again, the truth about these entertainers will come out one by one. All these so called local celebs that people are so fanatic about are all retards. if you really knew them, you would curse them. From your celebrated RMD to your innocent looking kate, genny and omotola. People should open their eyes and stop believing their media lies and PR's. If it was for fame and money most of them would be runs girls and boys! they had nothing before nollywood.
Thumps Mrs Lovely Okojie. you made two salient points... I'm married to this man and there has never been any divorced paper signed... How can a woman not care that she's destroying the home of another woman, all in the name of getting married desperately. IT'S THE ACCUSED PARTY TURN TO REACT.
@ ANON AUG 5 4:55AM. How daft are you presuuming to know all about photoshop and everything must be photoshopped as long as its a picture. Get a life, u dont know nothing.
I think this matter should be properly investigated before we judge mercy johnson.Those saying , why should she marry a once married man?well, do you know the person ur married to or dating once belonged to someone else?
-As for mrs lovely, its an open secret that mercy Johnson had been engaged to your husband(if dts true)for over a year now.Their pics have circulated the internet, how can you claim not to have known all these while?(funny)
-PLEASE, DO NOT ALWAYS BLAME THE WOMAN.nor matter what you say, this man would not come back to you.As a matter of fact, you have made matters worse and have pushed him further into mercy johnson's arms.
- i dont buy the idea that you dont have a single paper to show (marriage paper).Its not proper of a woman who married in court.
-i sympathize with ur children but you made the mistakes already.
show us tangible proof, dont u have other pictures with ur husband, pics that show u were a loving family?something is just not right with ur photos madam.
im not one of those pushovers, in my profession , we balance facts ok...thanks
now madam lovely i see u r a big fool. if the divorce proceddings has started that means he does not wish to be married to u any more if you have been seperated for more than 2 years in most ocuntries its a ground for divorce move on with dignity,cause mercy he will marry , now you have succeded in embarrasing your family and children and its not his family thats marrying you its the guy that his parents say they dont know mercy is bullshit move on dear
@Lovely men r funi entity, if he said he is tired, my advice is u shld gv him d divorce he seeks and move on wt ur lyf, train ur 2beautiful kids, fightn 2kip a marriage dt 1partner is tired is fightn a lose battle, marriage/ relationship is a 2people work, if 1person gets tired believe me notyn woks again, xcpt he/ she have a change of heart and decided 2cm bk 2d relationshp, frm all indicaTion it seems ur husband doesn't wnt d marriage agaIn, forcin it dwn on him is nt d best, even 4dos ur kids, coz if u successed 2stop his marriage 2Mercy, he might cm bk a beast u, very bitter 2wards u and u will turn 2his punching bag, so gv him d divorce and allow him and take it 2d Lord in prayers, if he is urs he will cm bk, I have seen couples get bk 2geda afta divorce..atmx we humans dnt knw wat God is removn frm our lives& path, we just kip fightn 2kip wat is nt on God's plan 4our lyf
I hardly ever comment but I got a feeling dt Lovely's marriage has hit d rocks and she's trying hard to save it. Not ur fault Boo but yea, if it dint work, it dint work. Sad but u gotta move on altho it aint ez considering that u ve got 2kids. Its well. MOVE ON.
Reading Lovely's addendum and the first letter to Linda, what more can one say? It's so unfortunate that this has to be part of Mercy Johnson's story. Whichever way it goes, her marriage to Odianose is doomed (Dead on Arrival/Brought in Dead) and this event will dog her life forever. She got what she deserves. Too late to learn a lesson, the hard way. Odianose appears to be a conman who is not good for any woman even Mercy. On this premise, Lovely should let him be, as good riddance to bad rubbish. On the 9th, hurriedly sign the divorce papers for him. If u'd dotted your i's and crossed your t's you would not have married him in the first place. A chameleon never changes its nature. Otherwise, repent for choosing to marry him before, ask God for mercy for both of you. When God intervenes, forgives you both; He will reconcile you two and make you have the marriage joy that is unimagineable. Good luck!
I don't know Mercy Johnson personally,neither do i know this other woman,so my analysis is void of bias.I read her letter and saw the pictures,but for a claim as serious as that,she could've done better.As far as i'm concerned,her story is far-fetched,i mean plainly bogus.First off,Mercy Johnson won't be unreasonable enough not to know that something such as this woman is claiming is going to bring scandal.So her saying Mercy Johnson is forcing herself on her man is just outrageous.Plus,the pictures are not o convincing,she could've put forward better pictures and finally,where's the marriage certificate? Does she think the people whose help she seeks are ignorant lots?
@ ANON 9:38....you sound as shallow as ur mind. u have the guts to call ur friend bitch? you are a fool.... n judging from ur comment you sound like d husband she is talking about or one of his friends. since she is a liar why dont u JUDGE AMADIEKWE...tell us the truth since you have obviously been in their life right from when they were born?its either you r d husband or mercy herself or u r related to either of the parties definitely not Love herself bc REAL friends which i doubt u will ever be, will ever say such about their friends. KISS MY FAT ASS.
@NOLLYWOOD REINVENTED - YOU ARE SUCH A HATEFUL PERSON - WHY WOULD YOU ASK HER TO "GO AND DIE" when it is obvious the pictures were old pictures retaken with a digital camera - ARE YOU SURE SHE IS A LIAR R YOU IN THE MARRIAGE WITH THEM?- YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO JUDGE - I SEE YOU R A LADY - MAY GOD ALLOW YOU TO HAVE PEOPLE THAT WILL TREAT YOU WITH KINDNESS WHEN YOU ARE FACING BAD SITUATIONS IN YOUR LIFE.
@anaija great
lovely says her husband has the certificate. very plausible.
lovely im really sorry this is happening to you. my advice is let this man go BUT... DO NOT SIGN ANY PAPERS WITHOUT MAKING SURE HE WILL TAKE CARE OF HIS KIDS AND IS COMPELLED TO DO SO BY LAW. You need a solid lawyer. He is a fool to be setting date for wedding when he sent divorce papers last month. Im sure he must have lied to Mercy that the divorce was a done deal. Now you have leverage negotiate something solid. im sure all his money will now go towards impressing a star so you must lawyer up quickly
Mr little advice for the so called wife: Get a life! it is obvious the man does not want you anymore, he is in love with someone else, cant you see? its so sad and heartbreaking but you've got to be strong for yourself, your kids and your loved ones. People will come on whatever blog/website your story is posted but believe me, it cant stop anything. Resolve to God my dear, He sure will see you through, I understand how you feel right now but that is not the end of the world
-Get involved in activities that make you happy
-Be around your friends and families
-Take care of yourself and your kids
-Be committed to the ONLY ONE that can truly love and not abandon you JESUS. It is well ,BE STRONG
dis............d man is tired so if he doesnt even get to marry mercy J he ll eventually get someone else...diz lady here z proving to love someone who doesnt even care about her... so she should just accept her faith and move forward..,,.,,.,sefini
I am sure most of the people commenting here, calling Lovely a bitter bitch and all sorts, have never been married and have no idea what it feels like to lose your husband and the father of your kids. And for those of you saying the pics were photoshopped and the dates don't match, are you blind? Please carry your low IQs out of here. You all are asking where the woman was when Mercy was dating the guy, didn't you read the part where she said she confronted her husband and he denied the allegations saying they were just business partners? I bet she just found out the gravity of the whole thing on seeing the engagement pictures. Mercy claims to have been dating the guy for 3 years. underground dating cos we never saw any pics of them together and no one knew Mercy was even in a relationship till now. I'm sure all this was because she knew he was married. Any man that will leave his two kids abroad and come to marry another wife in Nigeria is just useless. And as for Mercy's PR statement, they just succeeded in making her look like a desperate slut.
my comment was just too long. Lovely i wish you the best. Please get a good lawyer. Let him go but DO NOT SIGN ANYTHING WITHOUT A LAWYER.
Taaaa! Who is that person Comparing Mercy Johnson To Dakore? They are miles apart,Tufiakwa! Abeg no Stain Dakore. Wedding and Marriage are two different things entirely,They should go ahead with the wedding ceremony,then when Mercy Settles down to Marriage,she would know that a leopard can never change its spot. With this kind of Shaky Foundation......Only a matter of time.
Just watching THE TUDORS. The same cane they used to flog the same woman will be used for the second. In as much as everyone is trying to defend Mercy, we should call a spade a spade. Marrying a divorcee is not the best and not the right thing to do simple. She is definitely a merciless Mercy. Any morally upright person will not feel comfortable marrying a man who still has a family. Mercy remember Anne Boleyn and what happened to her head.
@Lovely Okojie, if you are really the person. Please, maybe the pastors of your church Christ Embassy and your former husband have offered you an option(s) from their point of vieiw, and maybe you are refusing?
I am not accusing you, just saying. I have witnessed a man speaking to his wife like she is his child. And the woman's appearance - unkempt. Making you understand why she looks that way. Husband wife relationship is a partnership thing.
If Mercy Johnson in all her curvaceous figure still lets all out and your former husband is not complaining, then maybe he compliments and encourages her to keep dressing in her provocative manner. If not, Mercy Johnson would have covered up her assets a long time ago.
From the account of your story, if you ask me, I know that you are a good christian woman (God bless our homes), your former husband has moved on with Mercy Johnson.
Sad to say and it is obvious....
This is serious o
Agree with you Lucy & Jen.
My advise to Lovely is that for the man to present a divorce paper to your father and gone to court though adjoined to the 9th of august, it shows he wants out already.
Pls keep your dignity and respect as a woman and mother to your children and let him go! IF you succeed in stopping the wedding between them, would it make him come back to you? NO! he would come to hate you the more and treat you without respect, seeing you as a desperado, which is a blow to any woman's self -esteem. OR they can have the traditional wedding until the divorce is finalized and then have the church wedding.
You my dear sister, would still be at the losing end. Please, let them be and concentrate on your children and career. THEY DON'T WORTH THE TROUBLE OR FIGHT! BECAUSE KARMA IS A BITCH AND NEMESIS WOULD ALWAYS COME KNOCKING, INSTEAD, GET A BAGFUL OF POP-CORN, A CARTON SODA, RELAX ON THE SOFA AND WATCH AS THE INTERESTING DRAMA UNFOLDS, BELIEVE ME, YOU WOULD HAVE THE LAST LAUGH, till then, take care and seek the face of GOD.
my 2 kobo, i had to comment.
Why are people so quick to judge? We haven't even heard the other side of the story.
I have plenty things to say, but i shall summarize. Anon 11.02pm and charles should seriously work on their grammar. These things just confuse me.
Let me start with mercy Johnson: o girl, when will you stop being dirty? we all know you can take a girl out of the streets but u can never take the streets out of the girl. Mercy should have waited until dude settles his marital issues. Divorced people will eventually marry som1 else now, abi? but for you to go ahead with wedding plans when a man has not copletely sorted his past reeks of desperation and shows no class at all. I'm not surprised, mercy's xter is wack, so she wont mind marrying an irresponsible man.
Madam lovely, E DO! be strong and stop whining. Be grateful to God that you arent stuck with that man, although why you are begging mercy to leave your husband still confuses me. she has him, she will marry him, he apparently doesnt love you anymore...sad but true. please madam, let him go. Give him the divorce he wants. Almighty God who is the defender of the helpless and the broken hearted will heal you and make you happy. HE will trade your sorrow for boundless joy IN JESUS' name.
Mr. Prince, **SIGH**, oya do this marriage and get tired abeg, den move on to another one while you are at it, and then another. so that when you grow old, you will be hated by many, die a lonely miserable men, and rot in your house for weeks before som1 finds you. #thatisall!
Hmmm, in this case let's not be too quick to judge the parties. The Bible we believe in says .... for this reason shall a man leave his father and mother and cleave unto his wife (not wives)and two of them shall become one flesh.
Mercy i really will advice you to give these allegations a second thought, do your own investigation and find out the authenticity of this story, incase the guy has not been true to you. If there is an iota of truth in this allegation, ps dear bow out right away, it will not be worth it. Marriage is toooooo deep. The foundation shd not be on sentiment or unneccessary wild emotions. A broken engagement is far better than a broken marriage.
A woman is a creature of value, beauty, intelligence and great worth, dont let any man cheapen u.
@ people looking at the date of the pictures, saying its a lie, you must be even dummer than Mercy Johnson. It says that date because she used a digital camera in taking the paper pictures or are you so blind that you cannot see that it is the yeye so called prince and the woman and his kids?
I AM 200% CONVINCED THAT MOST OF THESE SHADY IDIOTS ATTACKING THIS WOMAN ARE MERCY, AND HER USELESS PR PEOPLE FORMING NEW ALIASES. IT IS WAY TOO OBVIOUS.
JUST SO Y'ALL DON'T THINK YOU ARE FOOLING MOST OF US.
ɪ̣̝̇п̥̥ my own opinion,marriage is not by force...if †ђξ man has told you Hε̲̣̣̣̥ wanted A̶̲̥̅̊ divorce 2years ago,y won't U̶̲̥̅̊ grant him one???like seriously marriage is not A̶̲̥̅̊ Do or Die affair...she Wa̶̲̥̅̊ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇ so lucky †ђξ man said Hε̲̣̣̣̥ wa̶̲̥̅̊п̥̥τ̩̩̥s out,do U̶̲̥̅̊ knw Ђσω many women wish their husbands cud divorce dem so dat dey can be free from †ђξ punishment dey re ɪ̣̝̇п̥̥ all ɪ̣̝̇п̥̥ †ђξ name of marriage?
But come to think of it,all around us divorced men&women are remarrying immediately...take †ђξ case on Monalisa Chinda's ex hubby who got marrid barely A̶̲̥̅̊ year afta their divorce??y dint anyone make A̶̲̥̅̊ fuss about it?wat of Kema Chikwe's son~inlaw dat divorced his wife afta 4 kids and has gotten marrid to anoda woman immediately??†ђξ list is endless...
My advice to lovely is dat she shud grant him †ђξ divorce,get wateva she can get from him&move on with her life...marriage does not define who we're ɪ̣̝̇п̥̥ dis life,it is just an optional part of our existence...
As for Mercy,if U̶̲̥̅̊ feel U̶̲̥̅̊ wa̶̲̥̅̊п̥̥τ̩̩̥ 2go ahead wit him.†ђξ choice is ΰяs...like dey say "Hε̲̣̣̣̥ who wears †ђξ shoes,knws where it piches"...
Ijeoma
my dearest baddest bee... let me just quickly point out to you that a marriage, no matter where it is celebrated, is legal and binding as long as it is celebrated under the and according to the laws of that country. so if this woman got married in italy, such marriage will be recognised in Nigeria.
is it me or does the man look AWFULLY UNHAPPY in ALLL the photos. I mean you guys are missing the point. Take the registering for instance - see how unhappy he looks. He looks like he is about to go on death row on something.
Mercy is a well brought up girl and i doubt she broke a home. That home was already broken.
MY SIMPLE ADVISE TO LOVELY OKOHIE IS AS HARD AS IT IS, JUST LET IT GO!! I UNDERSTAND YOUR FEELING OF PAIN AND BETRAYAL AND THE NEED TO MAKE YOUR EX-HUSBAND'S LIFE AS MISERABLE AS POSSIBLE, THEREFORE YOUR PUBLIC OUTCRY, BUT HONESTLY IT'S NOT WORTH IT. SEE A COUNSELLOR IF YOU MUST, TALK TO PEOPLE IN YOUR CHURCH ABOUT YOUR PAINS, PRAY TO GOD THE COMFORTER TO THE LONELY, AND LET IT GO. IF THEY TRULY DID YOU WRONG, SIT BACK AND WATCH GOD FIGHT FOR YOU. COMING OUT TO CRY IN PUBLIC IS NOT GOING TO DO YOU ANY GOOD IN THE LONG RUN, IT WILL MAKE YOU FEEL WORSE, ESPECIALLY WITH PEOPLE SAYING BAD THINGS ABOUT YOU.
BE STRONG FOR YOU BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN WHO ARE THE GIFT OF THE MARRIAGE. I PRAY YOU FIND PEACE. BUT HONESTLY THIS PUBLIC OUT CRY IS A NO NO. SIGN THE DIVORCE PAPERS AND BREATHE, ITS A NEW DAWN. MOVE ON....
i've bin readin 4 so long, LIB readers, una get mouth, bt dont be too quick to judge...*clears throat*
1. for lovely, If you get married, weda in a court or church, anywer in d world, its legal, so there are ALWAYS copies of marriage certificates, so if d man has d originals, she can get copies 4rm wer dey got married.
2. ur church/pastor in Christ Embassy canada, and the church/pastor in Christ embassy Oregun hasn't had anything to say or do since u reported d case... how come? somtin's wrong wit dat picture.
3. y all dis stress, if he's still legally married to u, den report him 2 d authorities nd hav him fined and jailed, cos he's comittin a crime.
4.and where have you bin dis past yr dat this wedding gist has bin goin around?
5. for Mercy, stop for a while and make sure d coast is clear b4 marryin d man, ain't no shame in postponin a wedding. be sure you are not marryin anoda woman's husband. make sure he is divorced b4 marryin him (publish d divorce papers like Ini did).
Divorced or seperated, shud d church marry them? jst wonderin.
This man would have walked away, If not Mercy Johnson, it would have been someone else. If it wasn't a celebrity, this story wont hit Linda Ikeji's website.
Church institution cannot force a man to stay when he wants to walk away.
The Catholic church used to make it difficult for divorces,( some of them still do) but now they have realised it requires God's grace and certain level of maturity for guys to get married and stay married and they grant it after certain considerations.
Lovely eeeh, So sad, but I am sure you saw the signs. Every woman is created to be extraordinarily intuitive, we sense these things but we ignore or not pray effectively enough.
This is between you and God lovely. This website is not a church congregation.
Ask God what to do and you will get the answer. The answer will come with an incredible amount of peace.
The blessings of the lord maketh rich and addeth no sorrow to it. - If you have no peace, its not the direction you should be going.
This na Higher level enquiry you need to make.
Your family - wetin them talk?? This is when to go home with your dignity and face your kids.
I know women who have remarried after stuff like this and moved on.
Its not the end of you and your kids.
Seek God only.
And protect your children, they dont deserve their pictures to be everywhere becauSe of this. He is still their father and no matter how much you dislike the whole situation, they will look for their father one day - and they may have careers that wont favor this sort of publication. you get???
You so need a friend right now!!!!
Take care
Boma
My dear fellow naija pple, pls be careful abt wat u say about pple cos we hv not heard 4rm others involved in dis matter.pple r terribly wicked.Let God be the judge, God of vengeance.hv bn accuse falsely several times pls be careful my pple.
I sympathize with Lovely. Having said that, can we as women please stop this nonsense of always blaming the other woman. No woman has the capability to break up anyones home, without the consent of one of the parties to the marriage. Her husband strayed/ looked outside, thus Mercy's involvement. Do not get me wrong, i am not justifying or blaming anyone, but we all need to start taking responsibility and being true to ourselves. If the man wants to leave and be married to someone else, so be it. The fact that he presented divorce papers to Lovely's folks is clear that he wants out. Whether he metes out the same treatment to Mercy in later years, is another thing entirely. But for now, i don't see how Lovely intends to force/ cajole the man to remain in the marriage, when he clearly wants out. If he wants out, please let him go. It is better that he leaves, than he feels forced into staying and tomorrow we read about how Okojie beat his wife to death. Let Titi Arowolo's case serve as a lesson to all.
ALL and i mean ALL the people that condemned Lovely Okojie on dis matter are all FOOLS and shud be ashamed of themselves...how can u say mean things like this,do u knw hw it feels,av u ever been married? do u av kids?...oh please...as for Mercy,trust me,u will reap this and urs will be worse,i dont care wat d dstory is,if dt man did that 2 her,he'll do same 2 u and even worse...all i can say is...GET READY!!!
ini edo had it better,stop d comparisons...dis man has kids,wen kids are involved it's a whole different ball game...i dont av kids but i can only imagine d trauma,wat will she tell d kids,wat kind of evil is this???mercy...i av no words 4 u...let d God that fights 4 d husbandless judge ur case...
oboi...make d woman relax dere....na mercy beg d man to abandon her???d man sub frm him marriage...den by chance meet mercy...
Come on Mercy!
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This is sad, why dont these actresses look for single unattached men, not ones with wife and kids. 2BAD
Methinks this man should have obtained a proper divorce before rushing to contract another marriage. Obviously, he's through with his marriage to Ms. Lovely and wants out, but why not leave properly. And for MJ, 'Pasan ta fi na iyale, o wa laja fun iyawo' A word is enough for the wise! Goodluck to all of them.
Why me Mercy!
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linda, i love u so much and would have wished u were my wife even if i have married 2 times.
linda this the kind of news that makes u a big hit.....
after this news i conclude that you are the number one internet nija site.
back to this story......this story is more than real....this lady is innocent....most of us who live abroad hardly know what is going on.
it is mercy who flopped the whole marriage....why insist that the wedding must hold on your birthday when he has not yet gotten a divorce from his ex....
in the united states....once you are married...the next day it would likely be published ion the local newspaper for free....most states do it...and this woman can go back to the registry and get a copy
I have a big problem with noella's comment saying EVERY marriage can be saved - all you have to do is do night vigil, call on Jesus and angels etc. NO!
The bible itself says if the foundation be destroyed, what can the righteous do? In some cases, there was even no foundation to begin with! I'm not saying that was the case with this marriage here but hello, it's this mentality that makes women miserable. A man has 5 girlfriends who don't know each other or maybe they do. He decides on one not because he loves her but because she is the finest, earns most, has papers, is presentable. He continues with the other 4 girls. Eventually one day, he's had all he wants from her and seeks to move on. You tell her to pray and fast for what? A shell of a husband who doesn't love her. She can do so agreed, but it should be a prayer for God to change the status quo of the relationship. And that may not be answered even. Lovely's husband has been cheating on her for 3 years,has started divorce proceedings, yet you want her to fast and pray for his return. The return of a cheat?
Lovely you can always request a copy of the marriage certificate. For the man to take it, he knew what he was doing. It seems that this love of your life is not exactly the good man you think him to be. Unless you know his flaws and are happy with them.
I think it's a bit cocky of him to just start divorce proceedings so my dear I think you should refuse for now to sign those papers. Let him stew. Let him either postpone the wedding or face being arrested during the ceremony. If you get a copy of the certificate, you can file a report with the police.
Before you sign, make sure you legally get child support and custody rights. To do this, you might gave to counter the papers he sent or initiate new proceedings in Canada.
Lastly, you are a very beautiful woman and it's hard to see anyone go through the pain of divorce. But honestly, there is life after divorce. I'm not divorced and I don't pray to be but don't fight for what is not - without consulting God. You might be flogging a dead horse.
To Lovely i'd say forget this man, move on and focus on your kids cos from what i see "this man dont want you no more" and its unfortunate if you hang on besides you deserve better.
To Mercy, she may not be the husband snatcher infact he might have lied to her as he did you. so dont blame the other lady focus on the man he's the cheat/scheemer
To the church i'd say this is a case that needs to be reviewed carefully for the reputation of the house of God. Such issues should be ascertained with clarity before any action is taken.
May God keep us all...
what i don't understand is that if Mercy knows that such issue is on ground why wouldn't she put her wedding on hold and clear up the airwaves or at least wait until the Judge says the marriage is legally over before she moves on with it, given the fact that her public reputation is not too good.
As for those of you saying that marriage is not by force.. who told you that???? well all i know is that what God has joined together let no man put asunder!!!!!
There are many theories on this page sha. u lot are thinkers meeeen!
Which is true and which is false?
There is her side which we've heard.
There is his side which have not heard.
I know marriages where the man/woman walking away was for the best for everyone. - not ideal for a typical family but sometimes the bitter pill is only way out.
So pray tell, what really went amiss. Is this guy a stray dog or a freed bird at last.
Not taking sides, cos its hard to know the truth. What really happened???
Who is the real victim? Just asking objectively sha. Someone has to.
It is a wah!
i don't think the pictures are fake. its obvious she used her camera to re-take those pictures. lovely just stop bothering yourself with all this. if ur story is genuine believe me just get on your knees and ask God to take control bt in d main time don't fight for him to come back....sue the idiot's ass
it quite unsually what God have join together let no man, or lady put asundar, he should call back and talk to his wive if he want to take mercy as the second wife then he should be realistic and make things work. what we see in nigeria film is now happen life you sure say mercy no jax de man. legel action for legel people let her fire a divorce later before the mairrage that and demand for her own.
From the letter Lovely wrote above,
1. They were married, agreed.
2. She [Lovely] states, the husband already presented divorce papers. Obviously the man doesn't want to be in the marriage anymore.
I would assume no-one put a gun to the husband's head to file for a divorce. If he doesn't want to be married to you anymore, there's nothing you, Linda Ikeji or the world can do about it. It takes 2 to tango.
Even if jazz/voodoo was used on him, again this is not the right forum to get him back; only prayers can handle that one.
To those commenting about Mercy breaking up the home etal. Note I'm not a fan of any of the parties so I'm only being objective. Even if Mercy wooed and proposed to the guy, he still has a mind of his own to say yes or no and he chose "yes".
The fact that a man is in the process of getting a divorce or divorced does not mean no woman should marry him now especially if the man clearly is no longer interested in staying married to the previous wife. Common pple let's be objective.
I'm a christian and believe strongly in the institution of marriage and God hates divorce but if 1 party is clearly no longer interested in the marriage, you can't tie him down even bible insinuates that.
Dear Lovely, intensify your prayers. If God wants you to remain married to this man, he'll definitely work it for your good. And if it ends in divorce, trust that God has a bigger plan for you. Don't air your dirty laundry to the WWW (whole wide world) especially for the sake of your kids. Seriously, you have your kids pictures on a public forum like this; so unnecessary.
If this story is true, my advice will be for Lovely to let the man go, if he has asked for a divorce, pls grant him one so he can be free to marry whosoever he choses, don't get in his way. My people always says "Agaracha go come back" so let sleeping dogs lie. Most times we are quick to judge the woman but ignores that the man himself is not that innocent so don't blame Mercy, she just wants to get married at all cost not knowing what's in store for her in the marriage, if a man can be that callous to leave his wife and two children regardless of the circumstances who knows what he will do when you eventually marry him. You will constantly live in fear of "will he leave or stay" and that is not a good foundation for marriage so I will advice that Mercy cancels the wedding and continue to pray for her own husband, a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage. A leopard never changes his spot.
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