Photos: Nigerian woman thrown out of the house by her abusive husband
A Nigerian woman, who is a victim of domestic violence has appealed to human right activist and lawyer, Emeka Ugwuonye for help, after her abusive husband threw her out of the house.
She also shared photos of her belongings which he destroyed. More photos after the cut...
38 comments:
Chike Ngwube
said...
Linda,look,no man born of a woman would do this to his wife he suffered to marry except that the wife is disrespectful,abusive,arrogant and disloyal.I have an experience of where such things happen especially where the fortunes of the husband has tumbled.The lady so involved here should check herself and see where she has gone wrong.perhaps reconciliation could be possible.
Whoa , another stone age female chimpanzee here thinking out loud , this is the problem with some people soo it has to be the fault of the wife, same way a sane man who suffered to marry his wife will just kill her one day out of anger one day, is it the dead wife that should check herself.my dearest pls before u say anything, think about it.
This is what happens when your wife becomes our wife. Every action has a consequence and every action has a reaction. So before she starts claiming domestic violence and abuse let's hear the full story. Abi you think men just wake up and start beating wife's?
Are you all still going with this retard daft logic to support such archaic parochial culture??Men use their children dt dy produced with their sperm cells for rituals, sexually abuse their child for fun, then what less do you think dt dy can't do to their wives?
Some women will rather die in an abusive relationship than leave.. They don't know when to "jump" as Tonto rightly put it until u throw their load outside. Good for her. If am the woman i will rejoice and thank God for this load outside. Because his next line of action might be dangerous. God will help her..
Keep claiming disrespect and abuse, like you're the victim. The law is on the woman's side. She marries you, you go looking for a side piece and you want to live in peace.
You definitely need exposing, let's see if public opinion will be in your favour.
No man should frustrate his wife to the point where you beat her up in private. It's time MEN start deciding if you're marriage material instead of getting comfortable, because your marriage was arranged and you think a woman is property.
Like the Lady Wura, of the Yorubas said, the veil has been removed.
Hey Chike and the likes. Its high time we stopped blaming a woman for beong at fault in domestic violence. Nobody deserves to be humilated this way. Lets not be quick to judge.
You shall know them by their demand for respect from another human being they have no inkling of respect for. Hell is patiently waiting to return the favour. Keep enjoying your deliberate ignorance.
Women, where art thou? Where is your pride and dignity? Take the bull by the horns. Marriage is not by force. Take your time, be financially independent, have children you know you can care for in case things go south. These men of today are raised to be irresponsible. If you are lucky to find a good man with real sense of respect for mankind, please know to appreciate him. Never rush into marriage. Never marry that man you know yourself has some serious issues. He will not change. Things are only bound to get worst with time. Learn from others. It can happen to anyone if you you don't take the bull by the horns.
He has decided to throw her out so that he doesn't end up killing her one day and wicked feminists will then grab him by the jugular to ruin him...na by force?? She no get papa?? Mk she go im papa house
THE MAN HAS STOPPED HIMSELF FROM HITTING HER OR KILLING HER BY THROWING HER THINGS OUT AND JUST PASSING A MESSAGE SHE SHOULD LEAVE AND NOW YOU STILL DESCRIBE THAT HAS BEING ABUSIVE . WHAT MOST DISRESPECTFUL, ARROGANT AND NEW GENERATION WIVES WILL CAUSE HEN'' A WOMAN THAT WAS CAUGHT RED HANDED CHEATING AND YOU LOOSE YOUR MIND FOR 5 MINS HITTING HER EVEN WHEN THAT IS UNDERSTANDABLE BY PHYSIOLOGIST. THEN YOU ALL DESCRIBE THIS HAS ABUSE AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. SHE SHOULD GO . IF SHE LIKES, SHE SHOULD TELL DONALD TRUMP HER STORY ,.. WHO CARES?
Linda you need to do better than this, what evidence do you have that her husband used to beat her or she suffered domestic violence, do you even do investigative journalism at all, what actually happened, why did it happen, no, you just jumped to conclusions and took sides as usual, don't post this just like my previous posts you blocked
All of u men saying she should check herself are all sick in the head, some of you guys misbehave and mistreat your wives even if she worships the ground you step on.
Enough of this women crusade! So all of a sudden every woman is a saint and all men are animals? Nigerian women these days copy the lifestyle of western women and expect marriage to be peaceful and loving like our parents. For God sake no man will treat a woman that respect and submits to him as an animal. women please humble yourselves.
So every woman abused is disrespectful to their husbands? Men stop making and giving flimsy excuses even at that does that give them the right to beat them?
End time indeed,only GOD knows what she did,that led to this?on the other hand she might not have done anything the hubby can be jazzed,most time's it's either there is a strange woman out there .
Throwing out and punches to the face do not jump out of sky. Every woman in DV is an angel. It is action and reaction. Avoid action to eliminate reaction.
I am abour puttinf myv wife through the same ordeal as a prelude to ending my abusive marriage both physically and mentally by mly wife and her entire family. Tomorrow, someone will wake up and tag me "an irresponsible man" knowing the genesis
Please Linda, you should have use ALEDGED abusive husband, because you dont have all the facts yet, be professional in your reporting your stories.....
I quite agree with Chike. Some women can be so terrible particularly when the man is down financially. You will be doubting if this is woman you got married to.
Your comment just sums it all up nicely. A woman shd know when to walk away or run, if boils right down to it. Why kill yourself in a marriage where there's so much abuse??? It beat's me.
Most of us MEN have wife and we dont beat them not because they are perfect for me, the day i found out my wife cheats on me the day she leave my house.....so Linda please do a proper investigation before posting it....... No man in his right sense will beat up his wife
Am not oblivious to the fact that some women sometimes are the architect of their own marital woes, I hv seen so many women misbehave just because their husbands went broke or women who for no reason at all philander, even though they hv loving and attentive husbands. Again that is not discountenanceing the fact that their so many monsters, in the name of husbands. Men shd learn to control their anger nd keep their temper in check, the moment you batter your wife, you hv lost all moral high ground to complain abt anything. Battery makes a man loose respect with his woman. If you must divorce or separate from your wife, do it in a decent and respectable manner. Throwing her things out like this, is the height of irresponsibility. It simply means you hv a problem with self control. Which says a lot abt a person.
All those men insisting the wife must be at fault, that no man would hit their wife without a good reason - they are potential domestic abusers. They will find a reason to hit their wives in future, they have low self-esteem and will claim their wife disrespected them or something along those lines. The bottom line is that there is absolutely no justification for hitting your wife. In fact, let me put it in simple English because men like these tend to be semi-illiterate and will not understand what I said. There is nothing a woman can do that gives a man the right to hit her and the same the other way round. There is nothing a man can do that gives his wife the right to hit him. Even if your wife hits you, call her people and ask for your bride price to be returned!!! Of course, her people will beg and you might reconsider, but if she tries it a second time return her and don't look back. Even a goat does not get beaten before it is killed, what makes you think a woman should or will enjoy that? I think if the courts start handing out sentences to wife beaters, that the wife's relatives can arrange for the beater to be beaten by their own thugs, I don't think we will have any more wife beating. All those idiots saying the wife must have done something to deserve it, I pity the poor women that are going to marry you guys in future thinking they have struck lucky, not knowing they have entered one chance. Just listen to their useless comments, they all have the common trend of - the woman must be feeling to big for her shoes, she must have been provoking him....... You all sound like hungry guys that are looking for a wife to hand her monthly salary to them and if she doesn't you will say she has provoked you. Do you idiots not notice that it is your fellow men that marry wives, treat them well and spoil them rotten. All of you think it is your right to be treated like a kings. Let me tell you the truth. Marriage is like a basket, what you put in is what you will get out. You cannot put in arrogance and stupidity and expect to get a submissive wife. If you put in love to your marriage, you wife will also give you love in return. If you make your wife you best friend, she will make you her best friend and will be your biggest champion in life. Next time you turn your envious eyes to admire other people's marriages and be dreaming of how when you are married you will make your wife kneel down and serve you, how she will be cooking fresh meals for you every day, remember that the wife you saw doing all that can afford to do the fresh cooking every day because her husband insisted she should not stress herself to work, notice that she does not kneel down to serve her husband each day but eats all meals with him because he gists with his wife and tells about everything that happened in his life that day and is asking her opinion on lots of decisions he makes. Lastly, I wish you the best of luck, that you all marry the type of wife that can give you the beating of your life you deserve when you open your mouth to ask her why she has not brought all her salary to you, or why she is giving you rice she warmed from the fridge even though you have not given her housekeeping money. Whenever you get the beating you deserve, I hope you will learn to change your ways.
What in the world justifies this?there are so many ways to express yourself when upset.so what do you prescribe for a woman whose husband is arrogant,broke,irresponsible,useless.....violence?or is it a mans world?hmm I smell stone age
38 comments:
Linda,look,no man born of a woman would do this to his wife he suffered to marry except that the wife is disrespectful,abusive,arrogant and disloyal.I have an experience of where such things happen especially where the fortunes of the husband has tumbled.The lady so involved here should check herself and see where she has gone wrong.perhaps reconciliation could be possible.
Good thinking! You can never attack a respectable wife.
What is wrong with some men?
Are They running mad?
Why beat your wife
@Galore
But he can simply ask for a divorce,and allow her move out. Not acting like an animal.
But he can simply ask for a divorce,and allow her move out. Not acting like an animal.
Whoa , another stone age female chimpanzee here thinking out loud , this is the problem with some people soo it has to be the fault of the wife, same way a sane man who suffered to marry his wife will just kill her one day out of anger one day, is it the dead wife that should check herself.my dearest pls before u say anything, think about it.
This is what happens when your wife becomes our wife. Every action has a consequence and every action has a reaction. So before she starts claiming domestic violence and abuse let's hear the full story. Abi you think men just wake up and start beating wife's?
Are you all still going with this retard daft logic to support such archaic parochial culture??Men use their children dt dy produced with their sperm cells for rituals, sexually abuse their child for fun, then what less do you think dt dy can't do to their wives?
Some women will rather die in an abusive relationship than leave.. They don't know when to "jump" as Tonto rightly put it until u throw their load outside. Good for her. If am the woman i will rejoice and thank God for this load outside. Because his next line of action might be dangerous. God will help her..
Hmmmm, apealed to go back and die in abusive home or what? She needs to check her brain or tell the truth.
Keep claiming disrespect and abuse, like you're the victim. The law is on the woman's side. She marries you, you go looking for a side piece and you want to live in peace.
You definitely need exposing, let's see if public opinion will be in your favour.
No man should frustrate his wife to the point where you beat her up in private. It's time MEN start deciding if you're marriage material instead of getting comfortable, because your marriage was arranged and you think a woman is property.
Like the Lady Wura, of the Yorubas said, the veil has been removed.
To every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. There are 3 sides to a story. What did she do??
Chike you are right.
Are u sure he threw her out?with rug and fridge? Looks like they were evicted
Hey Chike and the likes. Its high time we stopped blaming a woman for beong at fault in domestic violence. Nobody deserves to be humilated this way. Lets not be quick to judge.
She get load o. In African magic the woman only leaves with one Ghana must go.
You shall know them by their demand for respect from another human being they have no inkling of respect for. Hell is patiently waiting to return the favour. Keep enjoying your deliberate ignorance.
Women, where art thou? Where is your pride and dignity? Take the bull by the horns. Marriage is not by force. Take your time, be financially independent, have children you know you can care for in case things go south. These men of today are raised to be irresponsible. If you are lucky to find a good man with real sense of respect for mankind, please know to appreciate him. Never rush into marriage. Never marry that man you know yourself has some serious issues. He will not change. Things are only bound to get worst with time. Learn from others. It can happen to anyone if you you don't take the bull by the horns.
He has decided to throw her out so that he doesn't end up killing her one day and wicked feminists will then grab him by the jugular to ruin him...na by force?? She no get papa?? Mk she go im papa house
THE MAN HAS STOPPED HIMSELF FROM HITTING HER OR KILLING HER BY THROWING HER THINGS OUT AND JUST PASSING A MESSAGE SHE SHOULD LEAVE AND NOW YOU STILL DESCRIBE THAT HAS BEING ABUSIVE . WHAT MOST DISRESPECTFUL, ARROGANT AND NEW GENERATION WIVES WILL CAUSE HEN'' A WOMAN THAT WAS CAUGHT RED HANDED CHEATING AND YOU LOOSE YOUR MIND FOR 5 MINS HITTING HER EVEN WHEN THAT IS UNDERSTANDABLE BY PHYSIOLOGIST. THEN YOU ALL DESCRIBE THIS HAS ABUSE AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. SHE SHOULD GO . IF SHE LIKES, SHE SHOULD TELL DONALD TRUMP HER STORY ,.. WHO CARES?
Linda you need to do better than this, what evidence do you have that her husband used to beat her or she suffered domestic violence, do you even do investigative journalism at all, what actually happened, why did it happen, no, you just jumped to conclusions and took sides as usual, don't post this just like my previous posts you blocked
Madam for the 1st time, you have actually made some sense.
All of u men saying she should check herself are all sick in the head, some of you guys misbehave and mistreat your wives even if she worships the ground you step on.
Enough of this women crusade! So all of a sudden every woman is a saint and all men are animals? Nigerian women these days copy the lifestyle of western women and expect marriage to be peaceful and loving like our parents. For God sake no man will treat a woman that respect and submits to him as an animal. women please humble yourselves.
So every woman abused is disrespectful to their husbands? Men stop making and giving flimsy excuses even at that does that give them
the right to beat them?
End time indeed,only GOD knows what she did,that led to this?on the other hand she might not have done anything the hubby can be jazzed,most time's it's either there is a strange woman out there .
Throwing out and punches to the face do not jump out of sky. Every woman in DV is an angel. It is action and reaction. Avoid action to eliminate reaction.
na waoh
I am abour puttinf myv wife through the same ordeal as a prelude to ending my abusive marriage both physically and mentally by mly wife and her entire family. Tomorrow, someone will wake up and tag me "an irresponsible man" knowing the genesis
Please Linda, you should have use ALEDGED abusive husband, because you dont have all the facts yet, be professional in your reporting your stories.....
I quite agree with Chike. Some women can be so terrible particularly when the man is down financially. You will be doubting if this is woman you got married to.
I love this your comment.
Your comment just sums it all up nicely. A woman shd know when to walk away or run, if boils right down to it. Why kill yourself in a marriage where there's so much abuse??? It beat's me.
Most of us MEN have wife and we dont beat them not because they are perfect
for me, the day i found out my wife cheats on me the day she leave my house.....so Linda please do a proper investigation before posting it....... No man in his right sense will beat up his wife
Am not oblivious to the fact that some women sometimes are the architect of their own marital woes, I hv seen so many women misbehave just because their husbands went broke or women who for no reason at all philander, even though they hv loving and attentive husbands. Again that is not discountenanceing the fact that their so many monsters, in the name of husbands. Men shd learn to control their anger nd keep their temper in check, the moment you batter your wife, you hv lost all moral high ground to complain abt anything. Battery makes a man loose respect with his woman. If you must divorce or separate from your wife, do it in a decent and respectable manner. Throwing her things out like this, is the height of irresponsibility. It simply means you hv a problem with self control. Which says a lot abt a person.
Nnenna marry first ,before you know if you would last a month rubbish notice me or I die hustling for December give away
What happened to divorce or separation must he act like an animal.
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All those men insisting the wife must be at fault, that no man would hit their wife without a good reason - they are potential domestic abusers. They will find a reason to hit their wives in future, they have low self-esteem and will claim their wife disrespected them or something along those lines.
The bottom line is that there is absolutely no justification for hitting your wife. In fact, let me put it in simple English because men like these tend to be semi-illiterate and will not understand what I said. There is nothing a woman can do that gives a man the right to hit her and the same the other way round. There is nothing a man can do that gives his wife the right to hit him. Even if your wife hits you, call her people and ask for your bride price to be returned!!! Of course, her people will beg and you might reconsider, but if she tries it a second time return her and don't look back. Even a goat does not get beaten before it is killed, what makes you think a woman should or will enjoy that? I think if the courts start handing out sentences to wife beaters, that the wife's relatives can arrange for the beater to be beaten by their own thugs, I don't think we will have any more wife beating. All those idiots saying the wife must have done something to deserve it, I pity the poor women that are going to marry you guys in future thinking they have struck lucky, not knowing they have entered one chance.
Just listen to their useless comments, they all have the common trend of - the woman must be feeling to big for her shoes, she must have been provoking him.......
You all sound like hungry guys that are looking for a wife to hand her monthly salary to them and if she doesn't you will say she has provoked you. Do you idiots not notice that it is your fellow men that marry wives, treat them well and spoil them rotten. All of you think it is your right to be treated like a kings. Let me tell you the truth. Marriage is like a basket, what you put in is what you will get out. You cannot put in arrogance and stupidity and expect to get a submissive wife. If you put in love to your marriage, you wife will also give you love in return. If you make your wife you best friend, she will make you her best friend and will be your biggest champion in life. Next time you turn your envious eyes to admire other people's marriages and be dreaming of how when you are married you will make your wife kneel down and serve you, how she will be cooking fresh meals for you every day, remember that the wife you saw doing all that can afford to do the fresh cooking every day because her husband insisted she should not stress herself to work, notice that she does not kneel down to serve her husband each day but eats all meals with him because he gists with his wife and tells about everything that happened in his life that day and is asking her opinion on lots of decisions he makes. Lastly, I wish you the best of luck, that you all marry the type of wife that can give you the beating of your life you deserve when you open your mouth to ask her why she has not brought all her salary to you, or why she is giving you rice she warmed from the fridge even though you have not given her housekeeping money. Whenever you get the beating you deserve, I hope you will learn to change your ways.
What in the world justifies this?there are so many ways to express yourself when upset.so what do you prescribe for a woman whose husband is arrogant,broke,irresponsible,useless.....violence?or is it a mans world?hmm I smell stone age
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