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Friday 30 December 2016

"A man should be pampered, his undies washed and ironed" Lady says as she blasts feminists

A twitter user, Wasu, blasted feminists stating that their husbands will send them packing in one week for their stance. She advised ladies to wash and iron their husband's undies, cook for them and pamper them. Read the rest of her tweets after the cut and tell us what you think...


150 comments:

JOYOUS said...

what nonsense is she saying? is she for real? SMH cant deal biko!

Eddy Ogbunambala said...

Well...

kunta said...

I love ladies like this, they know how to keep a man..

Who feminism EPP?

Unknown said...

Wasu or what's her name is if truly all this is coming from ur heart I swear ur marriage will last longer than Aso rock ...Too much of friends and social media things will crash so many marriage....

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Dats how she sees it


...merited happiness

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

This is totally rubbish and coming from a woman is disappointing but then again it's her opinion sha.Left to me woman should be treated like a queen, domestic work isn't hers,just good love and respect from her and I'm ok. Maids will do the rest!
#WifeNotMaid!



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Anonymous said...

Leave them now.. That's y divorce rate is going high. Who dey suffer am last last? This is Africa!!!
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Anonymous said...

hahaha! that actually made me giggle out loud. I have been with my husband for 15 years and i dont wash or iron his undies! lol! Wasu abi wetin be your name, your tweets sounds more like a slave than a wife to me. Yes some things are not just worth nagging about but good wifes can use what they call common sense.

Pumpkin

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Unknown said...

Wasu please preach on..educate dis our lazy bitches..u wil live long for sayin dis

Anonymous said...

nice one lady you spoke my mind

Unknown said...

I love this, pls WASU are u married?my name is Daniel and would love to marry u!its only few girl that knows this principle, take a blasssssssss baby!love u with this.

Anonymous said...

And after u do all dat d bingo will still go out and cheat! No tnx.I'm no feminist, but women plsssss live ur life.

Anonymous said...

abeg linda stop trying to cause insults here, what she said is right, we're africans, as a lady i support her, let's stop the madness called excess feminism, thank you

Unknown said...

Is there anybody more mumu than this lady pls? Smh














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CHERYL (aka FROM GLORY to GLORY) said...

If he can wash my undies too I won't mind washing his period!


Long Live LIB

Anonymous said...

Preach Sister! Alot of african women have missed the trick. Submit to your husband and watch him look after you. There can never be two captains on a ship. Education and income parity has unfortunately destroyed the institution called marriage, but smart women never get carried away. How do i find women like this wasu babe?

Anonymous said...

Silly woman,e be like say ur mama no born man. Na ur type go dey respect ur boyfriend but go dey talk back at ur father.

The great punter said...

i dey com marry you sharp sharp

Anonymous said...

Madam,are men now babies that one has to do everything from cooking to cleaning for,if DTS wt u choose to do it's ur choice u can as well back him into d bathroom and bath him,dress him up then spoon feed him.Biko all this kind thing dey make person decide to remain single.This has nothing to do with feminism abeg ,there should be difference btw an adult and a child. Kuku tell us to be brushing husbands teeth.I hope u do all u wrote there.Me am also looking for who will be bathing me.Mtcheww.Men marriage is not by force if u need house help get one and don't turn ur wife into a slave.

Unknown said...

I Agree With Her, So Long as He Does Same to Me(Accept Cooking),No Big Deal...

Anonymous said...

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kaitochukwu said...

I am totally in support of this woman and in fact I love her already!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Not necessarily religiously as she has stated here, but Linda this woman understands how to keep a Man. period.

Anonymous said...

Thank you my dear.God will give you a good husband that will love and care for you because you know what it takes to be a wife.

Anonymous said...

You're so uneducated it's ridiculous.
Wtf is the 'passing salt, got to do with anything? Unless you're married to a barely bodied person, why should your ability to get an education, earn equal pay and not be raped by men, who then get away with, be determined by "passing salt".

Who brainwashed you, and destroyed your life, that you have now decided that you want to ruin the chances of other women, getting out from under the shackles of patriarchal oppression.

Because you live in the kitchen, it doesn't mean that every other woman, with the potential to be more than you, more than a transaction chip, a full time chef, a house keeper, an incubator for babies and a sex object, shouldn't be given the chance to be what she wants to be.

The drive for equality for women, is targeted at addressing the lack of civil liberties and protections for women, where a husband would get away scotfree, for domestic abuse, where women are denied the right to education, fighting against female genital mutilation, as a means of satisfying the ego of men, giving women away like property, giving young girls away like property, whom a large proportion of eventually die in child birth, or suffer from all sorts of psychological or physical issues....just to name a few inequalities.

Cooking and being a female president, are not mutually exclusive, you can do both, just as men who cook and run a business do.

The need for protecting women, goes beyond women themselves, it's a way of protecting their children, and re-educating men, as to the importance of women, not just to their immediate family, but to society.

If you are not in support of every right, for the improvement and protection of women, don't try and pretend. Enough is fucking enough, we can no longer have children being discarded because they are female, nor can we accept men, thinking that because we have penises, somehow, we have super powers.

Unknown said...

Wish her the best in her huz gal home

Unknown said...

finally!! A woman who knows what to do and does not follow useless trends. Most of the girls are just forming feminist online. Even alakija said she still cooks for her husband, so whats the big? those promoting and hyping feminism do you even know whats going on in their homes? No but y'all follow blindly

Don said...

Please tell the single women out there they don't know anything. As long as u are incomplete without a man. Then pamper him wen he's there

Don said...

Feminists will come and yarn rubbish here now. And most of them are single or divorced. As long as u live in a religious society like ours, ur man is d head and not ur equal. Head get it

Unknown said...

I agree with her.. A wife ought to be submissive to her husband as instructed in the bible. One of the reasons we have problems in the world today is because we've deviated from the laid down standards of God.

Unknown said...

She said it all. Bitter truth. I know the feminists will be hitting their heads on the wall over this.

Unknown said...

She said it all. Bitter truth. I know the feminists will be hitting their heads on the wall over this.

Unknown said...

She said it all. Bitter truth. I know the feminists will be hitting their heads on the wall over this.

Anonymous said...

This Wasu Lady desperately needs a husband.God please give her one and may she never be among the pretenders or among those that preach what they don't do.

Unknown said...

Well said.still good to know we still got some sensible women left in this insane world.Where many women have lost the traditional sense of womanhood
God bless you

Unknown said...

Somebody is talking to someone.

Unknown said...

I just hope she's ok though, this one is another extremist! #Madness get level!

Anonymous said...

OK ma, Mrs. Good wife. We have heard you. So you think this guarantees happiness in your marriage, that a man who is inclined already to cheat on you and even leave you will not do it just because you lick the floor he walks on? Just don't run mad when he finally does. Don't shoot him o just because after you enslaved yourself for a fellow human being because he is a man, he still betrayed you. You ate on your own. Stupid woman.

Unknown said...

he will still send you packing if he wants to, no matter the 'boi boi ' work you do. do your thing n leave others to do theirs. Wat works for you will not work 4 others. ur own too much sef

Unknown said...

Gbamest...

Anonymous said...

tru talk, Linda tk note

Unknown said...

I concur

9ja Parrot said...

God bless Wasu abundantly and honour her. Amen. Your 2017 will be a year round of blessing. Amen. For tweeting these truth, The Lord will make peace to perpetually reign in your home. Amen.

9ja Parrot said...

God bless Wasu abundantly and honour her. Amen. Your 2017 will be a year round of blessing. Amen. For tweeting these truth, The Lord will make peace to perpetually reign in your home. Amen.

Anonymous said...

You are entitled to your own opinion but guard your tongue against insulting others who feel differently especially the feminists you abhor so much. They have self esteem unlike you, able to recognise the dignity of human life whether you are male, female, short, tall, white, black or grey. They clamor for justice so you as a woman can live a just and egalitarian life. If you cannot appreciate their work even though you enjoy their sweats one way or the other, you should keep your ungrateful mouth shut. Wash his undies for all you care, if or when he wants to leave you, that won't stop him. Ask many women like you who have given up their lives for men and ended up with nothing. Many of you come back to these same feminists for help. People like you give men unrealistic expectations of women and thus end up breaking marriages than keeping them. Marriage is about two adults willing to love and honour each other not one enslaving the other. It's give and take and every member taking up roles they are best suited for, complementing each other not necessarily ascribing any roles to anyone. I hope you are very married for your sake because people like you will die without having a man to call husband. And for the sake of the children you have or will have, please have some self esteem so you don't pass this ignorance on. Social media should be used for empowerment and not the opposite. I hope you find true happiness in your life as trying to bring other women down with you is just very pathetic.

Anonymous said...

Cool. So what does he do for you in return?

Unknown said...

Tell them

Anonymous said...

Lol. A fine example of a future husband killer!!!

Anonymous said...

Who of your in law is on twitter that you"re trying to fool?

Anonymous said...

Feminism has destroyed many ladies but they will never accept it. Listen girls, most men are simply babies. There's a power in every woman that she can use to manipulate her man. It is not by challenging him and wetting his authority with oil. Women who know this secret are the commander-in-chiefs in their homes. If you want your man to pound cocoa-yam for you, always use your God-Given female nature. Just be feminine (not masculine) with him and he will turn to your baby boy.

Anonymous said...

Wasu, oh, Wasu, you need psychological evaluation. Wait, why don't you take it up a notch up, use your tongue to wipe his ass all you can, when the side chic is from a place like Edo and she is ready to marry, you are out!

Anonymous said...

Spot on! Ladies jettison pride and take to this ladies advice! Linda please stick to this advice and you'll enjoy your home for sure

Anonymous said...

Spot on! Ladies jettison pride and take to this ladies advice! Linda please stick to this advice and you'll enjoy your home for sure

Anonymous said...

Only few people know this secret this woman is divulging here o. Treat him like a king. And he will treat you like a queen. Simple. And you dont even use your hands to wash the undies. Throw the damn thing in a washing machine, that's all.

Unknown said...

If really pple asking for this gender whatever ar serious, they should first work for it like making sure the women bring out one to challenge de lives of World Boxing Champion then make sure FCB, Real Madrid, MU, select some of them in de Team, and some be Bold n go to Parents ask for some mens hand in Marriage n paid dowry n take man Home. Then u will see there no need of fighting period.

Anonymous said...

As a married woman i love love to pampery hubby cubby. Infact i wash and Starch his boxers and even add fabric softener. Hes my King, make sure hes food is always on time...snacks always available..whether its football time or xbox time thats ways hes happy to be home and invites hos friends over. Women need to chill. I have my husband's love, wallet in my pocket. Internet banking, ATM, Cheque book.This is real feminism not those pillar to post women who know nothing.

Anonymous said...

Na too much of india films they worry you wasu

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Unknown said...

Mumu

Unknown said...

Dope.
This babe is Bae.

Sublime said...

Walahi....love you die for this comment...naa this type dey spoil church,wear long skirt dey fuck pastor...idiot,its a free world..fucking free,i can decide to kill myself...wear undies,i hear naa househelp you be...feminism didn't say ladies shouldn't respect their husbands...its all about respect ODE...keep washing your bf mum's clothes,while you mum's own is dirty.....

Anonymous said...

Ur sisters and mother u mean

ifeoma's verdict said...

So nah man matter dis lady carry for head like gala, i pity u.a man dat will cheat will cheat,even if u worship d ground on which he walks, he will still go out. So madam, give urself brain.

Anonymous said...

U are a fool

Anonymous said...

Bahahahahaha@bingo. No kii me please

Anonymous said...

And the maids are? Hermaphrodite?

Unknown said...

Yes. When u play ur part well enough even God will fight for u. For he is d God of justice. Strive to make sure dat no fault is frm u. Play ur part n leave him to hs conscience.

Anonymous said...

Take a chill pill. Relax... certain thnz cant change. Ur being a woman for instance.

Anonymous said...

My mum was born in the 50's and highly conservative. She respects my dad so much and my dad tells people that his wife is a good woman. One thing I know all the period we stayed together is that I have never seen my mum wash my dad undies. He washes them himself and I have never seen her iron his clothes either. My dad loves her so much, so Wasu or whatever you call your name,I think you are just desperate.

Anonymous said...

Nd wat makes her stupid? Her opinion jst as urs sounds stupid to a lot...

Anonymous said...

I think wise and mature women have been given an expo that will end their prayer and fastings for settlement and tips for a happy home.the foolish and immature are always right in their own sight .talking of girl child molestation I ask with tears who will speak for the boy child cos six out of ten of my male friends were sexually abused by mature females and many others too shy to speak out and nobody cared to listen even their beloved parents all because they think he's a boy he can take care of himself. To hell with all this masculine discrimination you ladies can as well eliminate all the guys and keep the world to yourself .

Anonymous said...

You're a better person than I am, a least with your assessment, you are able to hope she finds happiness. In 2017, a woman is on twitter telling other women they should wash their men's undies....

Utter nonsense. Especially with all the fuck boys, populating the world. These kinds of women are as dangerous as those religious fanatics who try to use the Bible or Koran top dehumanize women.

I've seen so hutch abuse of women, with so much potential, great women who, who have sacrificed so much, for men, to be left with nothing.

No one's life, should be sidelined for the pleasure and gratification of others.

It doesn't matter who you are, you have every right to accomplish all your heart's desires.

Anonymous said...

If your mother wasn't a maid, you would respect women more.

Anonymous said...

Because you've accomplished nothing in your pointless existence, and you're desperate to find a woman at all cost, you keep looking for ways to convince women they should submit to you. You're not the kind of peasant any self respecting woman, would be looking for. Deal with it.

Anonymous said...

What you support is your business. Move along, not all women are destined to be useless.

Anonymous said...

What a stupid idiot.

Anonymous said...

I tot you were sensible, but now I know you don't have sense at all. Our mothers never advocate for equality with our fathers and they lived well. So what makes you think it will be better if women are now equal to men by law? God didn't even made it so. Get some sense bro!

Anonymous said...

Anoki son how about people that can't afford maids? I believe a woman should do the bulk of domestic work but a.man should chip in. Like carrying his shoe to the room

Anonymous said...

Shut up, this so called education is your problem.

Naija man said...

She is truly wise

Desertflower said...

Anon 13:43 you will live long. I just wish you can go on Twitter and reply is person. Am just holding myself so as not to call her names.

Mrs D said...

I feel like slapping this idiot from the coldest country where I am. I usually don't insult people on social media but mennnn this nonentity press that button no one has press this hole year. Idiot you should have added she should also shave his biabia join.

Anonymous said...

Wasu,you have contributed your bit to help all these woman.If they like they should take your advise and keep their home or see the man asking them to go.

Unknown said...

This is wisdom. Not that a woman shall slave for her husband, but that she learns to accord him deep respect just as the Bible has said. Yet her husband shall adore her 4eva for her humility.

Unknown said...

Wisdom. Not that she shall slave for her husband, but that she learns to accord him deep respect just as the Bible has said. And most men (as husbands) usually adores such wives 4eva.

Anonymous said...

Ur a piece of shit...u woman beater..asshole. .. APC whore

Gbenga Popoola said...

Dis is so true

Unknown said...

I love u shatter....tell her oo

Unknown said...

All these stupid ladies that is condemning wasu advice, let me tell you that you are the biggest fools ever, I notice say na the ugly once wen no get husband nai dey say dem no go fit. Make una dey there say una no fit, husband no go come cos una no get manner. Na pipo lik una dey stay up till 60yrs no husband. Idiots. Go meet wasu to teach u how 2 control ur home.

Amina said...

So,most people are rejoicing because of a woman's opinion??..

She wants to be a "wife-maid" but I want to be just a "wife",how is it her problem???

Dear future hubby,
I will cook for you as your wife.. We would wash our clothes together or do it alone when I know you're a lot busy with the mindset that you would do it for me too... If you're on LIB reading this post now,don't even have the slightest of hope that I would do any of these this woman ranted about... I agreed to be your wife not your housemaid... Besides,if you do those for me you will not die a pre-mature death abi,I bin tell u say na gud tin na im kill my grnpapa??

Yours future wifey

And for the record,I ain't killing myself for no man... When I would be killing myself for a man and he's frequenting his "mama's" house and you would think it's the care for the woman not knowing it's the house help that he's going after..

Anonymous said...

No wonder you turned up like this. The women in your family must be quite some bitches!

Anonymous said...

Lolz. Spot on!

Anonymous said...

Okay, anon 15:29, since stupid people support other stupid people, this doesn't come as a surprise. I'm guessing you're either a sad pathetic woman, eager to sell other women cheap or you'really one of those lazy men who do nothing at home but still expect their women to worship them like little gods. Either way, you are pathetic. What would make your life change isn't trying to bring others down but a re-evaluation of your life. The universe can only give back what you dish out. Show respect and you will get it in return. No other magic will work. So you want a respectful wife, are u a respectful husbamd? You know what, fool? Middle fingers up for you. Go chew on that, sucker!

Anonymous said...

Well, this is her own opinion but she shouldn't try to force it on other people.

Unknown said...

Ihave never commented on this blog but I just wanted to thank you for this comment

Arsenal said...

Best comment

Arsenal said...

You are blessed

Annie said...

Lol...I bet Wasu isn't married...she must have been watching tooo much Indian movies.

Arsenal said...

As old as you are, your dad still do his laundry? What a family!

Arsenal said...

Fools are right in thier sight.
Receive brain.

Anonymous said...

a million likes for this comment

Unknown said...

very true. Jus leave them to learn from their mistakes. The likes of fana gee et al.
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Anonymous said...

Agun Tina, they can't deal with facts. Imagine when someone is blaming education for people fighting for women's rights. Lol.

If your masculinity is so fragile, that you become scared of women being successful, maybe marriage isn't for you.

Certain things can't change...Let's ask the likes of Linda... Lol

Daval8 said...

Most men are not like babies. They are sensible adults. Stop raising sons with this mentality that they have to be catered to

Anonymous said...

My dear, there is none other. She's the high priestess and ruling queen of the community of mumus. Certified bingo

Anonymous said...

Help me tell her o!

Anonymous said...

As in eeehn! My dear.. .

Anonymous said...

Poor thing that you are.

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Anonymous said...

The so called Wasu is desperately looking for a husband. The likes of her will end up in prison for killing her husband after she has wasted her whole life serving him and he shocks her. Clearly, she's a simpleton. No direction, no goals, no focus, just marriage. I pity the kids you'll bring to this world cos you have nothing to teach them. You're just a programmed piece of shit with no life. Get a life Wasu!!!

Anonymous said...

Abeggie.......wasu abi wetin u call ur name? Are you talking about the same men we are now expected to 'share' domestic expenses with???? A man who does not blink when asking you for money or to split the bill with him? (if ur lucky, that is) or a man who you even end up feeding and putting a roof over his head (if ur reallyyyy unlucky)!!! Please, wake up and smell the coffee, times have changed! What u're suggesting belongs to a time when men were MEN! They've since sold their birthright!

Mr. Douglas Fantastic said...

Even though he knows where the toilet is and has got two working legs, wear him pampers and tend to it when soiled. Even if you got a sweet-smelling punani, if he needs that of your housekeeper give him that! All these feminists talking nonsense, learn how to treat a man. If he beats you up, sit down and pray for God to change him. Even if he beats you up silly, dont go telling your family. Keep family out of it. When he brings HIV home from philandering, sit him down and respectfully explain what he has done to you. When he finally kills you, rest in peace while remembering that Olisah bulu uwa gave you a brain and dignity but you tossed it in the bin all to satisfy the monstrous burden African cultures place on vulnerable women.
Keep helping him wash his pant because e mama no train am to wash e pant. Idiot talk.

odu koko said...

Wasu!!!!! True talk.thats the only way to enjoy ur man.after all these he doesn't have to cheat.its cos the modern wife is lazy that is why the husband cheats.modern wives oyo#brokenmarriages#marriageshorttime

Anonymous said...

You mean the nowadays boys who wait for their wives to bring home food, school fees, house rent , etc, while they either hibernate inside the house or sit with other men in front of that woman's shop, drinking a shot of local gin all day? You think that kind of wash-his-hands-in-a-bowl-for-him respect will be available from the wife? There are many perspectives.

Anonymous said...

Glorified slave

Anonymous said...

Make i wash smelling boxers. God forbod

Anonymous said...

Bush unrefind villager

Anonymous said...

Words of wisdom.

All you ladies calling her names and projecting your so called feminist ideologies but hide under anonymous should at least come out with your true identity so your husbands and boyfriends can know what they signed up for rather than come here and mislead people with your flawed beliefs.

If say I never marry ehn, I will find you, spoil you with love/affection and marry you before another very sharp brother beat me to the race.

Wishing you a very prosperous 2017.

analuwe.blogspot.com said...

The problem is not education or lack of it, the problem is Westernisation. The whiteman colonised us and impossed his own beliefs.
The is no word for divorce in African languages because it didn't exist and even though the Bible promotes polygamy with Abraham,David,Solomon and many other chosen men having many wives there is no where in the Bible that God promoted one man to a wife but it was a Western way of life just as White wedding is not in the Bible but is a British way of marriage and in Nigeria some are even doing 'jumping the broom'which is an American tradition.
Even in the Bible the enemies of Isreal and Isreal itself understood that if you want to destroy a strong people target corrupt its women.
Our women have been positioned to hate anything about themselves, their hair, skin,accent,names,culture and tradition etc so the change it either by using a White woman's hair,wig,bleaching their skin,changing or adapting their names to sound Western or putting on a fake Western accent in order to be accepted by other women.
This has nothing to do with education as great women who had their husbands support such as Margaret Thatcher, late British PM, Johnson Sirleaf, late Okonjo Iwuala etc cooked for their husbands while in office.
Anyone who claims because you observe your culture and don't observe the Western culture should take it up with Nigeria's only Nobel Loreate, Wole Soyinka who inspire being one of Africa's greatest exports believes in the rich African culture.
Colonisation s greatest impact is still very much visible.

Anonymous said...

Words of wisdom.

All you ladies calling her names and projecting your so called feminist ideologies but hide under the disguise of anonymous should at least come out with your true identity so your husbands or boyfriends (If one exists) can know what they signed up for rather than come here and mislead people with your flawed beliefs.

I ma particularly referring to anonymous 12:40, 13: 30., 13:43 and 19:22. I might be wrong but your style of writing and choice of insulting remarks to people's opinion gives the impression you are same person.

If say I never marry ehn, I will find you, spoil you with love/affection and marry you before another very sharp brother beat me to the race.

Dear Wasu, this is wishing you a very prosperous 2017.

Cheers.

Anonymous said...

If you are African, does that mean you should treat your wife as a slave? When it favours you, you will claim and stress that you are an African but when it doesnt favour you, you will claim and support the Western culture. Hypocrites

Anonymous said...

Dull brain. This has nothing to do with being submissive. If i dont wash clothes doesnt mean i am not submissive. This lady is still living in the past. She has slavery mentality

Anonymous said...

Best comment ever. Wash your private dirty smelling undies yourself. It doesnt mean i dont love you if i dont wash them. Wasu is missing the point.

Anonymous said...

Her own case is even worse than that of feminists'.Slavery of the mind is worse than slavery itself, that's her case!

Peace said...

Cant you see that her name is Wasu? She is obviously a muslim and Muslims have this wife slavery mentality. If i dont wash my husband's clothes doesnt meant i dont love him or i am not submissive. I also work and bring money home to support my husband in paying the children's school fees. This is the highest respect, support and love that one can give a husband than washing clothes because a man's primary responsibility is to work and sweat and bring money home to take care of his wife and children. If i decided to work and assist my husband in paying the children's school fees in this recession, then that is love and support which most women dont give their husbands. Most women just sit at home and allow only the man to work and suffer and bring money home. I think this is Wasu's case. So lets not get it twisted

Atinu said...

After doing all these for your husband, he will still go out there to sleep with an educated, enlightened classy girl that doesnt wash his clothes. In fact, he will respect her more than you. Sit down there and be washing clothes. Mumu

Hawa said...

After a man has cheated on me outside, so i will still wash the dirty boxers that he used to cheat on me? You must be out of your senses. My husband and i have a washing maching at home which does all our laundry for us and my husband and i love each other. I dont have to wash and iron my husband's clothes for him to know that i love him. Well, everybody is entitled to his or her opinion

David said...

The bible says; Husbands love your wives even as christ loved the church. The bible also says; A man that cannot take care of his wife and family is worse than an infidel. No be me talk am. Na bible talk am. So who is meant to pamper who based on these bible verses?

Pastor Kunle said...

Pampering should be two ways. Husband and wife should pamper each other. It should not be one-sided. This is what love is all about. Stop this village slave mentality please!

Anonymous said...

I dont like the part where she said stay away from single friends. Was that how your married friends rejected and abandoned you when they were married? Jesus never rejected anybody

Osa said...

Have you asked yourself why the white man's country is more developed than African countries? It is because they have dropped this village slave mentality a long time ago. We Africans always like to run to the white man's country to live there but we fail to find out why they are better than us.

Anonymous said...

The moment we stop seeing a particular role as a man's role or a woman's role, the better for our marraige. We Africans have this mindset that a particular role is meant for a man and a particular role is meant for a woman. So we wont want to lift a finger to help each other. Marraige is all about love and love is all about helping each other. Let's stop this mentality and move forward. Ghosh!

Anonymous said...

I dont like the part where she said stay away from single friends. Was that how your married friends rejected and abandoned you when you were single? Jesus never rejected anybody

Nathaniel said...

The moment husbands start seeing their wives as their mother, sister and best friend instead of seeing their wives as a stranger and slave, the world would be a better place

Nathaniel said...

What you know you cannot do to your mother or sister, dont do it to your wife

Anonymous said...

There is not assurance that he won't cheat on you after doing all this
So why bothering yourself

Stan said...

This Wasu lady has very low self esteem

Anonymous said...

A word is enough for???

Anonymous said...

You already sound like a liability.

Anonymous said...

i think all of this has to do with individual perspective, but if am to say anything it would be, if a woman wants to do what wosu said she can but not because she wants to stop him from cheating cos that wont stop him.. but that could plant some seed of consideration if he want to cheat.. but i ask my self what is the purpose of a woman according to our religious book, dont answer that if u believe not in religion.. but if you do then my saying is you are just a hypocrate..

Sandra said...

@anthony elikene You are very ignorant. The old testament in the bible allowed many wives but in the new testament, Jesus adjusted the laws to only one wife. Also, the bible allows divorce only on the grounds of infidelity. Go and read the book of 1st Corinthian and 2nd corinthians in the bible. God discovered that marrying many wives was causing a lot of problems like in the case of Abraham and Sarah, so he sent Jesus Christ to abolish and adjust some laws. I know a case where a man married a second wife and was using her brilliant children to tease the first wife's children. Because of this, the first wife and her son planned and poisoned the man and he died because she wanted her son to inherit as the first son. They killed him because they felt he would change his will and give the largest chunk to the second wife's son who was liked so much by the man because he was a first class brain. This is a true life story because they confessed. Why not just marry one wife to avoid unecessary problems in your home? This was one of Jesus mission

Anonymous said...

Dull brain. Nobody is saying they wont cook for their husbands or be submissive. You are missing the point. The point is pampering should come from both the man and the woman. It should not be only women pampering men. The men should also pamper and love their wives

CNN said...

Aboki just said the bitter truth. Love your wives and stop treating her like a slave. Assist where you can. It wont kill you if you assist.

Ijeoma said...

@Aboki One million likes #WifeNotMaid

Anonymous said...

@Anonymous 17:38 why are you bringing politics into this? What has APC got to do with the topic at hand? Elections are long over. Get over yourself and learn to accept defeat

Anonymous said...

In India and some Asian countries, women pay dowry to marry a man. We now have female wrestlers and boxers and footballers in sports. Go and google all these things and dont come here to comment ignorantly

Anonymous said...

The most senseless comment

Anonymous said...

What! Wash dirty stinking pant in this 21st century??

Miss Vee said...

WHO THEM EPP?

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