According to the victim, she said the officer explained that her skirt will distract the boys in her class and make them not concentrate. Read her post after the cut...
Read her full post below…
Today,
dressed like this, I went to the Law Development Centre to attend
classes. Unlike all other days, I saw two women seated right outside the
Centre's gate, one dressed in a Khaki Police uniform. It was an unusual
sight and I thought there was something or someone epic on campus. I
got off the boda boda and
walked towards the gate. The uniformed woman flagged me down and being
the law abiding citizen that I am, I stopped. She asked me to pull my
skirt down to see how far down it could go. I burst into laughter. Her
request didn't make sense. She insisted, quite seriously. I told her
that was the farthest my skirt could go and there was no need to pull
it. The other woman, ever with a very satisfied grin, told me I could
not access the campus because my skirt was not long enough for LDC
standards. I was shocked. Yes. Shocked. Seeing the bewilderment on my
face, the two women laboured to explain. Apparently, skirts like mine
attract the boys and men that we study with and bar them from
concentrating. So they could not be allowed!!!!!!
During
induction week, the Deputy Director of the Centre, a woman, told us we
shouldn't wear clothes that distract 'our brothers' most of whom are
married. I posted about it here. When I got the so-called rules of LDC, I
read the section about dress-code and it's ridiculous. They even
prescribe the colour of socks that men should wear! Having dealt with
Ugandan systems, including courts which should know better, I know that
until something directly affects you, you are not allowed to complain
about it. This far, these rules have not been implemented. Now that they
have, I am allowed to complain.
A
few years ago, 2014 to be specific, Parliament was debating a law that
was dubbed the 'mini-skirt Bill' for its apparent prohibition of
mini-skirts. As would be expected, the Bill caused an uproar among
opponents and proponents alike. On one side, there was anger about the
ridiculousness of the law along with its discriminatory and sexist
undertones; while on the other side there was excitement over the law's
presentation of fertile ground to ridicule and dehumanise women just for
the fun of it. Activists stood up against the law and some of these
provisions were removed. But the damage was done. Women had been
attacked. Women had been beaten. Women had been undressed. We were
livid.
But how can we be angry with boda boda men
attacking and undressing women for wearing short things when we have
institutions that we hold to higher levels of understanding and
responsibility fostering cultures that say women are only as appropriate
as men say they are? How can we, in good conscience, blame Minister
Kibuule for saying women that dress indecently should be raped when we
have an institution like LDC barring female students from class so the
male ones can concentrate? Our bodies have been so sexualised to points
of madness and like all cases of marginalisation, the victim pays the
price. Why should I miss my classes because men cannot control their
sexual urges (that is if they are as bad as they are portrayed)? How is
that my problem? Patriarchy has been so grossly institutionalised we all
feel the need to legislate and pass rules controlling women's bodies,
by among other things creating de facto dress codes for them.
I
Work hard, and I manage to pay the millions of shillings required for
LDC's tuition. But I can't access the campus to attend my classes
because when 'my brothers' look at my knees and legs, they will get
erections.
31 comments:
And this is the short skirt,right? What madness!
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Hehehe,her skirt is not even bad na.
Lib addict#j passsing#
This one na mini skirt?,this is what Jehovah's witness normally wear na.
imagine! so this is mini skirt,they are not serious.
Dear the skirt is not too Short nah. Nothing wrong with her dressing. Nawa ooo
imagine! so this is mini skirt,they are not serious.
So the skirt this girl wore is mini...nawa..
I think they want her to wear Mary Amaka skirt..
Uganda and their primitivism..
Story! And una believe this huh? Who protest help huh?THERE IS TWO THINGS ABOUT HER STORY. 1, SHE SHOULD BE PROUD TO SHOW THE WORLD THE SKIRT SINCE SHE IS PROTESTING AGAINST HER BAN BECAUSE THIS IS NOT THE SKIRT THAT CAUSE HER BAN. 2, she might be ban for not cooperating or paying her due in the hands of school authority,officer or lecturers by GIVING THEN HER BODY FOR FUCK THIS IS MY CONTRIBUTION.
Bitches can lie.
#sad indeed
Frankly speaking there's nothing wrong with what she's wearing and married men will lust after women even if they are all dressed in a free gown sweeping the streets
But indecent dressing is something that's prevalent this days especially amongst my kind.
But as for me,i have a different idea of elegance. You don't dress like a fop, it's true, but your moral grooming should be impeccable. You never appear in public with a soiled conscience, a tarnished honor, threadbare scruples, or an insult that you haven't washed away. You should always be immaculately clean, adorned with independence and frankness. You may not cut a stylish figure, you hold your soul erect. You wear your deeds as ribbons, your wit should be sharper than the finest mustache, and when you walk among men you make truths ring like spurs.That's a woman of silk...
Serious gobe o
jus negodu people and hypocrisy
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds
That's not even a mini skirt!
BUT THAT IS NOT A MINI SKIRT
Just obey the skul instruction.
Nawa ooo how is this mini
IF THERE IS DRESS CODE IN THE SCHOOL AND YOU VIOLATES IT, WHAT THEN ARE YOU CRYING ABOUT?
She will become a good Lawyer!!!!!
What is mini about this skirt now?
Lind ikeji pls ban this freeborn person he is really getting on my nerves. HE is a disgrace to all Muslims and hausa and I'm not even one of them! he talks uch trash.
Where is the mini skirt??? Linda take note!
What's this one talking about abegi Shakespeare sit down
Lol. Those days when I dress like this to work, my hubby calls me Vornado again sister. Now I have my own biz to have time for my baby.
Lol. Those days when I dress like this to work, my hubby calls me born again sister. Now I have my own biz to have time for my baby.
Nigerians and our stupidity! This skirt isn't even short talk less of being 'mini'.
she should just adhere to their laws and collect her degree,you can't trust students!
What is she was wearing it short by pulling it up to class but draging it down for us to see,just saying
They should come to Benue state university and see nudity competition going on here!!!
Is this how the virgin Mary dressed? Abeg park well
I'm more interested in the composition as well as the grammatical flourishes deployed by the writer than in the message itself. Whoever wrote this is very good writer. I wonder the number of nigerian law students that can write as good as this lady. Kudos to her.
Women are there own worst enemies; the two so-called gate security that barred this lady from entering the class are women. I doubt if she would be stopped had the gate security people been men. Women so hate, dislike and envy each other its horrendous.
The length very okay nah
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