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Tuesday 29 March 2016

31 year old single woman, who longed to wed, hanged herself after struggling to cope with seeing her friends get married

Danielle Saul, a business development manager who longed to be a bride committed suicide because she couldn't get a man to settle down with. She began to sink into depression as her friends started to wed while she lived alone with her cat. She eventually took her life after hopes of reconciling with her ex- boyfriend were shattered.


Although she was invited to hen parties and was asked to be a bridesmaid, Danielle sent messages to her best friend saying, “I feel like dying”, as well as a photograph of herself crying.

Tragedy struck in June last year after she went out partying with friends in Manchester city centre when she bumped into a former long-term boyfriend.

She invited the unnamed man and his friends back to the flat she owned in Fallowfield, Manchester, for further drinks but became upset when he left the following day without them reconciling.
She was found dead three days later when a concerned friend visited the apartment after not hearing from her. Tests later revealed she was twice the drink-drive limit and it is feared she “impulsively” took the decision as a “cry for help”.
Her mother Karen, from Preston, Lancs told a Manchester hearing:
"She had had a couple of long-term relationships, one of which was around five years ago, and then that broke up but she still had feelings for him and found it difficult.

I think she had an overload that weekend with the upset from her previous relationship. She had a difficult time at work a few months prior to that.

At the time quite a number of her friends were getting married and she was going to hen parties and she was going to be bridesmaid and I think she got overloaded with these things and emotionally things became exaggerated."
Danielle's best friend Lucy Nixon, who had known her for 15 years, said she met up with Danielle before their planned night out on the Saturday before her death. She said: "She was very down. "She always used very intensive words and we were expressive with one another. Saying, “I feel like dying” would not be unusual. She sent me a photo of herself crying on Saturday.

A post-mortem exam revealed Danielle had 162mg of alcohol in 100mg of blood. The legal limit is 80mg. No note was found with her body.

Source - TheSunUk

83 comments:

Unknown said...

Happy to miss u

Unknown said...

Na uwa nkea na ato ka mmimii, Oburokwa mu na gi, Rip

Unknown said...

Sad

STERN said...

31 YEARS old? it's not that bad now. If you had known Genevive, Rita Dominic, Linda and many more, you might have had hope trust me, you wouldn't have even thought of killing yourself.
Na pray I dey pray for everyone of you.

Unknown said...

She is weak mentally. Wondering what her belief was

Unknown said...

Chaiya...RIP #Depression.com

Unknown said...

Eyaah.. And d babe fine na

Anonymous said...

RIP If only she had met a Naija dude. He for mary her sharp! sharp!

Davido's driver said...

This one won't make heaven

Unknown said...

Mtweeeeew! In short I don't even know what to say.

Unknown said...

Dunno wat to say, may her soul rest in peace..na by force to marry?

linaluv said...

Just 31 years nd u end ur lyf, it so sad. Rip

Unknown said...

Dnt even knw wat to say

Olaaliu said...

Mumu,,she come come naija nA😎😎

Unknown said...

She don try.. Na who husband or boyfriend don help?... She's simply mentality sick. #caseclosed

SongsOfSUSSAN said...

Why? She should have looked for a Nigerian man over there at least, they will jump at it.

cutestlove said...

The truth is she has a very strong jealousy in her thank God she didn't kill her friends...aunty linda she should have come so u give her some advice instead of her killing hersellf.

Anonymous said...

If marriage was a do or die affair the population of our women folks would have halved by now.

Ohiren Erimiakhena said...

What now happens to her cat?,that's why in 9ja this useless act can never happen...me killing myself because am not married;what total bullshit!.Hell is already her dwelling place,Very Nice!.

CHERYL (aka FROM GLORY to GLORY) said...

Sad

Unknown said...

Awwwwwwww! Such a beautiful lady! Why didn't any responsible gentleman ask for her hand or could it it be that the wild cat has been scaring them away?

Bonita Bislam said...

Wonderment!!!!! Why? Just 31 & she feels she's become a baggage.Na wa oh

abeggiblog said...

May her soul RIP!! But the envy in her though... kai!

Pretty face said...

Oh no! How could she do dat. When there is life, there's hope. Now she's dead, all hope is lost.

Unknown said...

Such a beau. Pls single ladies dont give up, ur time will surely come. Believe

Unknown said...

Na wa oooo....why are these oyibos easily depressed?

Unknown said...

Ayaa rest in hell fire

Joyous babe,Linda ikeji first cousin said...

eyaa,na so marriage hungry u reach?too bad.rip

Unknown said...

Is hard but people have to believe that is not everybody that is created to get married

Demmy said...

I pity her though bt she shudnt av taken her own life cos it's a sin.

Unknown said...

She must be sick in the head.




Okbye.

Adaobi said...

Stupid lady! people are even using you as their maid of honor and you still died. I never do ordinary ashebi before, ibu onuku

Unknown said...

OMG! Dis is very sad and touching. Life can indeed be so cruel. Such a beautiful young lady. She wud hav found a way of making herself happy. Getting a life partner is somehow beyond our power as human beings. She shud hav put her hope and trust in God. There are many single ladies who are above 35 yrs. They are still hoping in God and I believe God will answer them at his appointed time, amen.

Unknown said...

Nawa ooo

Unknown said...

Chei,y na? She did have to kill herself








LIB ADDICT#just passing#

Unknown said...

Too bad, suicide is never an option. I have seen someone close to 40 years & still believing God. She said they don't arrest late comer

bukky said...

Happy dyeing to her

Unknown said...

She can now rest in peace

Demmy said...

I pity her though bt she shudnt av taken her own life cos it's a sin.

Unknown said...

Sad face.She's too cute to be single for real. maybe she was very choosy.

Chinedu, Correct Guy said...

Why she no come Naija come collect Chinedu for life?

Unknown said...

Where men like me plenty for 9ja.

Anonymous said...

Depression is a very serious condition which is highly frowned upon or looked at as a white mans disease in Africa/Nigeria to be precise. Depression is no respecter of race it can happen to anyone a lot of people suffer from it in Nigeria but can't share because it is unafrican.

Unknown said...

RIP








Damolia.DEW

PrettyChi said...

Is she too old to marry

Unknown said...

I understand wat she had passed through, but she ought not to have done dat,Rip

Anonymous said...

Winasbet has been unable to pay it's customers winnings for over two months. It's owing it's staff for 4 months. Don't risk ur hard earned money. Spread the news

Anonymous said...

she dey crase for head..some married ones are wishing they never did...husband na passport to heaven? pity those she left behind...ie the woman wey born her come this world

CHERYL (aka FROM GLORY to GLORY) said...

Destinies are different. Its usually not how fast but how well.... RIP

Anonymous said...

Stupid fool!!! I was recently reading about all the Bollywood movies stars in their 4os getting married this year; Preity Zinta is 42, Urmula Thandokar is 42 so what is her problem? Even the finest beauty Aishwaraya was married at 36. End of story!

Unknown said...

Mcheeeeeeeew! Is dat the solution??? Linda take note!

Unknown said...

She just wasted her self. How I wish she met me.I would have only tested her IQ to kno if she get psycho issues since she be oyinbo,so she no go just wake up one day shoot me.lolz and if found ok then we are good to go.

Anonymous said...

Being single at that age is depressing,I know what I am going through at age 30.it's not easy at all but in God I trust.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmmmm

Unknown said...

I don't mind. Cause I need a good wife like her.if can cantant me. Ojogazali57@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

i really feel wat she is going tru. i pray no one find him/her self depressed. so sad

Mademen said...

Buh she's no superstar dem all u mentioned. Nevertheless na whity probs ma broda

Anonymous said...

she is beautiful, she for come marry for Nigeria, what a waste...

Unknown said...

Eyaaa so so sad, she should have find a way to Locate me as a 9aija ninja to marry her cos am also single nd searching, nd I'm 12years older than her. Abeg Linda Ikeji if oppoturnities like this fine nd beautiful woman wey dey correct come again, abeg let me know oo sharpaly .

Unknown said...

Hahahah 😆😆



Okbye.

I MUST WIN LINDA GIVEAWAY said...

Stern and ur bad mouth hahhahahahahabhahahababbaba don't yab Linda oooo else u won't win giveaway oooo.... Linda ayam loyal oooo

Unknown said...

Dear Readers,

This is someone's friend and daughter.

God specifically crafted her for Him and His pleasure.

Something incredibly tragic has happened to her.

Please show some respect, compassion and sensitivity for those she has left behind.

Dear Linda, if your readers are having difficulty responding with mercy and kindness when something as horrible as this happens, I would suggest you stop posting suicide stories altogether.

Anonymous said...

she for don come marry me na.............ig
go love am till eternity as long aqs money still dey flow

Unknown said...

Lol she get energy
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Anonymous said...

Stern your always too harsh in your comments,take it easy please. It's not easy for we ladies to find guys willing to be faithful enough for longtime commitments!

Unknown said...

I hope Linda is not in depression too. Please speak out if you need help.

Anonymous said...

Hahahaha this stan is insane

Unknown said...

This is going to continue to happen..bcause dere are so many females of this age looking for men 2 marry..and the rubbish they have done wif thier lives while they were younger is catching up wif dem..and the poor upbringing given 2 dem also (how will a lady of 30years say she can't cook???)

Even aunty Linda will def be at dis point now...and if she doesn't get married anytime soon...afaimo!!!!!

Unknown said...

31 year old.. ? That's not too old now...

Anonymous said...

You no see me marry, okwa ya! RIP.

Anonymous said...

Too bad

Anonymous said...

Aye lon she.......mtcheeew.

beauty said...

Being stupid is when someone takes away d life he could not create.

Anonymous said...

I dey tell u correct hope naim she for get lmaooooo u're funny dear

Peace nwadire said...

What a sad story, may her soul rest in peace

Unknown said...

Now she has a husband and his name is Mr Satan who lives in an estate called hell fire, lost forever

Unknown said...

Must have been one of those free thinkers thinking ungodly thoughts

Unknown said...

No RIP in hell

Anonymous said...

Peter your brain is upside down..Sorry but true

Anonymous said...

Stern Stern!

kala said...

It's not a must u marry Mr right women can also marry Mr wrong in d begining and later pray to God for him o be Mr right....

Unknown said...

Lolz...
Stern d basket mouth

Prof said...

I have some naija dudes that would have wifed her up and put a baby in her before you could say jack robinson. Sorry love, rest in peace. There are so many people in the world yet a lot of us feel so alone in this life. I hope we all find that person that will come into our lives and make us whole.

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