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Wednesday, 3 December 2014

Be sincere guys: which do you really prefer in women?

A lot of men complain and make fun of women's weaves/wigs...but to be sincere which would you rather your babe wears - long luscious wavy hair  (left) or carry their natural hair (right). Or it makes no difference to you? Would majority of Nigerian men prefer women to leave Asian, Brazilian, Pakistani, Chinese and Indian hair alone and rock their natural hair? If yes, why? Why are y'all always complaining about weaves?

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Unknown said...

Simple is the best

OkpotokpoTchidi Nwokoye said...

I dont like natural hair on my girl, she looks more beautiful on fixed...

Mischievous said...

Fake is fake. I love a woman with her natural hair. I love to play with it.

Anonymous said...

She looks FABULOUS with her natural hair; very fresh, young and cute. #TeamNatural

Kimmy*****

Unknown said...

I'm having my hair cut straight up

Anonymous said...

ffggghhhjjjjjkjk

Anonymous said...

Leave hair palava linda
Tiwa has been grinding Patoranking during their Channel O Awards performance ans your girl didn't even mention her hubby in her "thank you" speech.

And i know u won't talk about it...hmmm

Unknown said...

carry her natural hair for what kwanu? she have to fix hair and look classy...my future wife,dont worry i will take good care of you..you will always look good hehe...


#GodblessNigeria

Neymar said...

Ova to u guys ! As for me, I love rockn both

Unknown said...

I'm for natural hair all day everyday...but when I suggest it dem girls say bcos U broke or stingy that's why U don't want weave/attachee/wigs

Unknown said...

I prefer the natural hair look.....

KWEEN said...

To be honest, Genny looks prettier in the 2nd photo with her natural hair. But the thing is, natural hair doesn't work for every girl. Especially for those of us with Very stubborn hair. I have been growing mine natural since April and combing it is usually a tug of war lol. I don't mind though. But Many ladies won't want to deal with that stress.

Unknown said...

Prefer weaves.. crushing Gene from day 1

Anonymous said...

I used to love the human hair,i never let anyone see my natural hair except my family members. when I take off my weave today,the next day i relax and immediately or after a day I put the weave back on. It only took me changing city and church that made me stop putting another man's hair on my head. Since i did the difference is clear. my natural hair has grown, its healthy and I get more compliments from both sexes. Now if am not on braids am on my natural hair. I have gained my confidence back. As for me natural is better than putting other people's hair on your head,people you dont even know if they are possessed with bad spirits. Look at these pics of Gen,on the bottom one she looks 5 years younger and prettier. Come on girls natural is better.

Unknown said...

For me I prefer ordinary hair bcos all dis Ghana hair, Brazilian hair all nah died people's hair just believe me

Unknown said...

I like women with Natural hair.

Anonymous said...

All I know I that I love genny scarra

Anonymous said...

All I know I that I love genny scarra

Suya said...

There's a border beyond which fakeness becomes unbearable. The problem with fake hair is that too many women cross that border without realising. Keeping it natural is more real!

Unknown said...

i think they prefer a long natural hair.

Topaz said...

A girl's perspective: I honestly prefer my natural hair. My hair is long and black and le boo loves it when I leave it that way. Plus it's less stressful to maintain. Tangled weaves and all that shii- I can't deal. and please nobody should bring the 'my hair is weak or damaged' crap. it will never get better if you keep gluing and manipulating and over -relaxing it so that the weaves will look nice. Let your hair rest! Nigerian women are blessed with beautiful kinky hair. Embrace it biko.

Candid BFL said...

Linda nawa for you o...did u lack sumfin to post???? the makeup and the lightening in both pictures are clearly different for you to compare them...bfr we do dat kin comparison...we need two picture of the same quality jus diff hairstyles....ff on IG ...cammy_lish

Atobatele said...

Between the ages of 18yrs and 45 I want to see her with different weaves/wigs but which n she's 50 make she just give me her natural hair.

Unknown said...

Lindibaby.....u and ds genevive paro sef don taya me.is she d only one wf natural hair dt u can't use som1 else?abegi...stop over-hypin ds babe,its beginin 2 irritate me....both pics ar lovely tho

Anonymous said...

I will love to marry a natural girl but date and fuck a fake girl

Sope Edwards said...

Natural HAIRRRRR

elovi said...

I like the bothe it looks good on her sum1 like me cnt rock my natural hair ooo

elovi said...

Nicey

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urunmatsoma said...

Linda natural hair fine pass. it makes women look like SS2 babe. i always love my wife on low and natural hair anytime any day. it reminds me of how she be when she was in SS2.

Anonymous said...

I will prefer her natural hail sha .to save cost.
Engr. A .A. O

Anonymous said...

Linda you particularly takes this so called weave as your second god, but to be honest i love it natural.

Harrie said...

Hehe...I'd like ma chic to be natural...no wigs, face paint, etc...ion know bout you guys, its just ma opinion....totally unlike Miss L.
#just saying... Cherrio..

destinysweet said...

Weave anyday and time

---------#Auntylindagoddaughter#

destinysweet said...

Weave anyday and time

---------#Auntylindagoddaughter#

Unknown said...

Errm natural, wigs and watnot makes no difference it's ow u choose to wear em dat matters!!!

Anonymous said...

Linda you particularly takes this so called weave as your second god, but to be honest i love it natural.

Best said...

Genny is beautiful any day, any how. I soooo love her

yawanow said...

I love long weavons but i look better on my natural hair/weave.

Anonymous said...

rock the natural hair women. wig makes u look ojojwish!

Unknown said...

I prefer the first one, natural what, impossible just dat some babe's waste their future on hair alone.

Unknown said...

I love weaves n wigs oooo

Anonymous said...

but lili, ur pics comparison is faulty. u posted the best of natural hair and the worst of weavon. the comparison isnt fair. get a better pics of genny in weavon then i can comment

Unknown said...

I prefer natural..... Especially when taken care of...... Makes them more beautiful....... Artificial is just fakery. (•͡.̮ •͡ )

TesterBlog said...

left

Anonymous said...

The pics without the wig

Dozman said...

Anyone is OK with me as long as it makes my woman beautiful.

Anonymous said...

Haba Linda! Natural hair na! Why?? Ok o. You asked. 1. It is natural.. As in when I run my fingers thru her hair and I palm her cute goo and I kiss her? Haba! Can't do that with weave, just be feeling speedbumps. Slow down dia! 2. I can pull her hair without fear.. You know na! 3. When we finish and we shower together.. Hubba hubba.. 4. Did I say since she gave it up I've stopped pulling weave outta my ass, outta the shower, outta everywhere! 5. This one took a while, but I love the way she feels now.. Took a while, but she says she feels more sexier from inside! And I can testify! 6. Weave causes oyibo girls to have extra attitude. Look at these fake niggerbitches wanna be like us, said all white girls ever. Some look fine, but generally, they look as ridiculous as a white girl rocking dreads, or when my granny used to put white power for face because that's what oyibo did. 7. She no longer does the WeaveHeadSmackdown. Now she's normal. I can't believe I actually used to help her slap the head! Disgusting! 8. They smell after a night in club or party and you can't wash it. Although I heard some girls no send o. 9. Just look at the pics above.. Natural hair when done right makes a woman look warm, real, not like dem Jezebel dem... That is all. Thank you. #teamnaturalhair #blackbeautifulandproud

Ochuko Arhiakpore said...

Genevieve don bleach finish,i pity for the future because by 2020 9ja nor go get black gals again,imagine her dark skin was her trade mark.

ORACLE SAYS SO

Anonymous said...

Cos weaves and other hair are fake, unnatural, waste of money and time.

But more than that, it reveals to an extent, the type of woman one is. Either one who is fake and lacks confidence in her natural racial characteristics or one who is confident in her person and the way she was created.

Its mostly Africans, African-Americans that engage in this purchase and it definitely smacks of inferiority caused by colonial and mental slavery to the west!

Guys grreatly admire women who are real!

piper said...

natural hair 100 percent

pipifierce said...

Natural hair rocks joor!!

Unknown said...

Men Oya start commenting. Sweedydiagold@gmail.com

Mz..S said...

My boyfriend actually loves braids nd I think its cheaper and sexier.it last longer.

sammyk said...

as for me there is notting i love most like natural things.. i will go for natural hair. weeve stink. so to say ladies.

Anonymous said...

natural hair is the best (eleyele1@yahoo.com)

Manuel Kunmi said...

I love my bae's and their weaves just don't come asking me for money oooo cos I no complain bout the natural one

elovi said...

Nice 1

Anonymous said...

most females that use weaves don't take care of it so it usually has a stench. and personally i don't like seeing hair everywhere.

elovi said...

Nice1

Daily diet tv said...

It's something we guys don't understand ourselves. Imagine a guy wearing some artificial wear that enhances his masculinity (just like Weaves enhance femininity). Your primal instinct won't allow you appreciate him in that state. People generally value originality. Weaves are, well, unoriginal.That's my 2 cents people!











































~BADOO OF COVENTRY

snow-white said...

Natural works for me.

kismet kiddies ENTZ said...

Hmmmmm

kismet kiddies ENTZ said...

Weaves and wigs are great,but there is nothing w can compare with originality, it means source,origin, pride and dignity, natural hair is fabulous,when I look back @ the old pix of our mother, they looks like God (you know what I mean) I remember KOLESE,SUKU,PATEWO,DIDI,KOJUSOKO and so on

~commenting via www.jumia.com.ng

CHIKITO said...

I think the white man so brainwashed the world to believe that everything he has is better, right down to skin and hair. Truth is, it is only INFERIORITY COMPLEX that has made us over years to think that the long brazxillian, peruvian weaves and lightened skin are more beautiful than our afro hair and dark skin. And to think that everything the white man made we must import and use - never producing ours. And so their economy grows, dollar and pound grows while the naira keeps on being devalued everyday! I didn't realize this truth until I came to live in america. We really have no worth or pride. Now I understand what Chimamanda is fighting for and I applaud Genevieve for following suit. I love how Solange wore her afro to her wedding!

Why, oh Why will Nigerian girls spend millions on their hair and skin? Some would rather die than carry their natural hair for a day. White gurls spend NOTHING on their hair, even on their wedding day its natural. The worse is that we look at afro as ugly! Ugly? Really? It's just the same with people who feel shame for speaking Igbo. Why will you feel shame for Igbo if not that you feel its really inferior to English. We are a people of very very low self esteem. Its sad.

Unknown said...

As Iong as the weaves re cIean nd not smeIIy.

Anonymous said...

Ode park well.There are other better commenters than Onyx ,Ed dreamz and moses.There bag of shit.And what happened ro Bonita Bislam, Olaleye Adisa, Cute G, Hilary Obiora and Shina Shine? Foan relax, it's left for Linda to choose.

james isaac udoh said...

I prefer the one on the right.

Sasha said...

It all depends on choice. Some ladies don't have long hair, so they prefer to go on weapons.But really, there's nothing like a long, dark natural hair. It rocks..

Sasha said...

It all depends on choice. Some ladies don't have long hair, so they prefer to go on weapons.

snowflix said...

Both are good once they are kept clean #onelovefromSnow#

Anonymous said...

Nice pics

elovi said...

She rocks both it looks good on her aunty linda m Nt seeing my comments oooo

Anonymous said...

SERIOUSLY LINDA, TO MAKE THE GAME FAIR, PUT A BETTER PIX OF HER ON WEAVE NA! SOMETIMES I DONT UNDERSTAND YU SEF, WEDA ITS JEALOUSY OR SOMETHING. BUT ITS NORMAL TO BE JEALOUS OF A GENEVIEVE NNAJI. I THINK ITS ONLY HUMAN. BUT THIS IS BUSINESS RIGHT? THIS IS YOUR JOB, TAKE IT SERIOUSLY. EVEN IF ITS THAT ONE AGAINST TOKE WHERE YU ASKED WHO ROCKED THE CASUAL OUTFIT BETTER? DONT MISGUIDE THESE GUYS PLEASE. THANKS.

Ziggyflex said...

I prefer the natural hair.Sexier than those crazy wigs some ladies wear.

Anonymous said...

YOU DINT SPECIFY WHETHER ON BITCHES OR WIVES? We dont like the same things on them.

Unknown said...

Natural has no comparison Linda

Juleslouis said...

#teamnaturalhairalldayeveryday#

Unknown said...

lindo na wayoo....u shud of posted a pix of her wit a nix weovon,,even a lady would prefer d pix on her natural hair...but take note guys not al natural hair do look good on a woman,,eg me if i carry my natural hair for uu hmmmm u go run,,***note**nt bcox of lack of maintenance oooo

Anonymous said...

Alloy the betrayal

Anonymous said...

Gosh!....genny is too cute...
**vianson**

Anonymous said...

If there's a way of giving you a big chrismass kiss eheeeee.....I would have don it.....your comment rocks! Shuuuuuuu.

Unknown said...

OH WOW…THIS IS ONE OF MY FAVOURITE AND MOST FRUSTRATING TOPICS. Here is a list but not even exhaustive as to why wearing weaves makes hardly and sense...


1. Weaves are unhealthy because they destroy the hairline and put unnecessary stress on the hair roots. Check with Naomi Cambell.

2. Weaves are un-hygienic because the wearer must desist from washing their hair frequently and wear the same weave for weeks on end. This allows for bacterial action hence resulting in that famous "weave door" that you can expect to pervade any venue full of women of colour.

3. Weaves are a vivid expression of our slave and colonial mentality. The perceived aesthetic benefit of the "flowing hair look" is the result of hundreds of years of Africans being told African Hair is inferior to the whites. Also a very robust system of subjugation and programming through the media which has stood the test of time and kept black women un-comfortable in their own skin and hair. You will NEVER see a white woman in an Afro wig. NEVER.

4. Weaves are expensive and a completely unnecessary waste of resources and Man hours. The weave industry in Nigeria alone is worth Billions of Naira mostly spent in importing the weaves plus another few billions spent on imports to maintain the weaves. Added to this is the amount of man-hours combined nationwide wasted in Salons fixing these mostly unnecessary weaves. It is a colossal waste. Importing the hair off the Brazilians, Indians and Chinese(yuck)??? Come on Sisters, who is buying our Hair…we can do better.

5. Weaves themselves, the procurement of the Human hair is Mafia business in the countries of origin. It is the main stay of dangerous human trafficking/prostitution/ and violent crime gangs. We really shouldn't support such an industry with our money or time.

6. Weaves create unnecessary competition amongst women in Nigeria or black women in General. Push people into desperation and sometimes prostitution to be able to "feel among".

7. If you are religious or superstitious then you shouldn't even be wearing them because they are collected from Hindu temple sacrifices in India. Please do your research.

…to answer Linda's question, as a man with an adjusted mind frame who has travelled the world. I find EVERY BLACK WOMAN NO MATTER HOW BEAUTIFUL IS TAINTED ONCE THEY WEAR THE WEAVE and factually weaves are unnecessary. We must find a way to enjoy our Natural look just like the whites have done for centuries. It's not easy but it is a must.

Anonymous said...

Some look like wili wili in wevon natural killed it! My jenny is so beautiful

PURPLE said...

Alloy is a Judas to this blog so he's totally out for me. Bishop dammy is a crook and total scam as far as am concerned. Inspirational my punani! Mtchew. Now my nominees..
Bonario and Onyx of course
Eddreamz!..Lol. That guy had better got something
Wilheminna is there
Cute G also
And then Bonita or Shina Shine. That's how it should be. Court!!

Anonymous said...

Gene is not a great example to prove your point with. She is fabulously gorgeous no matter what's on her head. #justsaying.

GALORE said...

Lol



@Genny make sense fir d second....ds same reason i like @Chidinma and @Munachi......dey rock d natural hair so well




@Galore

Anonymous said...

Alloy d betrayer in d blog.

Unknown said...

I prefer natural hair......

Ofilispeaks.com said...

Natural hair for me...right picture looks beautiful.

Anonymous said...

Again a beautiful woman is a beautiful woman..hair doesn't make u so. Weave may look good and European looking if that's what u are looking for. So the one on the right is absolutely stunning to me.

elovi said...

Aunty linda m ntseeing my coments y nao

osmond said...

Trust me I gbadun women with natural hair on

elovi said...

I won't rest til!!!!!!!

OMG!WOMAN said...

That's true. That pic on wig does no justice. You love wigs Linda so which are u rooting for .

anonymous said...

As a lady, i'd rather rock the weaves

Anonymous said...

You got me laughing.hahahahahaha

Bookworm said...

The comparism is already biased. When you have words like Long, Luscious & wavy against errm... nothing, the results dont always come out true. But still Ill say I prefer the natural hair and pleeaaassee ladies learn how to make it look beautiful on you. That is one skill not every woman possesses at the moment.

charlesome said...

Make up makes our girls (women ) look good. And I like that. #Smiles#

sammy said...

genny is just too beautiful.... even if na low cut she carry, she'll still look good. some other girls sha just have to make up, for their own good o.

Unknown said...

What's the fuss for!,natural or artificial, who cares, if she feels good in whatever she has on and it looks good on her, I don't have a predilection for any of them.i

Anonymous said...

au naturelle

and skin tone too

the blacker the berry, the sweeter the jwees (juice)

Anonymous said...

Your opinion is very myopic.

Unknown said...

Learn to blend both. Not always on wdsves, not always on natural

Anonymous said...

Make up please and a good cook.



@lwkmd_naija
(Twitter/ig)

Anonymous said...

Natural hair turns me on

Anonymous said...

The list is alright, but Moses should be dropped sharpaly!

Anonymous said...

Lol. Natural biko, the pictures aid my answer. Obumnemeudze@gmail.com

Andy de don said...

Natural. And u which do you wear?

Unknown said...

Not all ladies can present their natural hair,so I will go for good weaves cos they cover alot of ladies secrets and beautifies them Eg Rita Dominic can't go natural cos of her front hair but see how beautiful she looks dis days with beautiful lace wigs and lace closures

Desiree said...

Team natural all the way. Love it!

Anonymous said...

Natural Hair is far the only option for me, Isi Nwa Ada Igbo.

If i need onye ocha i will mary one here why would i come for you and you go back to slavery?

Biko just natural hair, i cry for our sister when is ee them with wigs

Jude Akinwole said...

You know the truth Linda? Most of us guys, even the sophisticated ones, don't know/care if you wear a brazillian, peruvian, chineese or whatever hair! In as much as you look beautiful & sexy in that hair, we're down with you and yes, even in your natural hair! So personally, natural or artificial, i'm good with it; just look embarrassingly beautiful! ;-)

Unknown said...

Natural abeg,even me sef don tire for weaves n wig tin.

Unknown said...

I love my natural hair on me but

Unknown said...

The mere thoughts I have of seeing women wearing bogus hair when they have their own natural hair that is so different from the fake one's they wear irritates me.

Unknown said...

story story!!!

Anonymous said...

bcos na genevieve una no go talk say she dey bleach o

Jade said...

Thank you jare! They claim they want Sister Julie but are lusting over Jennifer with short skirts and long weaves!

Anonymous said...

Natural hair is the best.... Even ladies seems to be so unconfortable with weave... I hate fake things

Damochedxb said...

I have always told the women i have dated that guys dont really care about that Brazilian hair that they spend a fortune on. We dont even know the difference btw artificial hair and real human hair. Any guy that does is gay. But i have also come to realise that women do these things, hair nails make up etc not to impress guys per say but to impress their fellow women.. Infact not just to impress but to oppress other girls and claim class..

Unknown said...

Biko,being natural is still the best anytime

Anonymous said...

It's ridiculous to ask the question. The lady in natural hair is far better looking and more attractive. Have you considered that Asians, Chinese, Indians, and Brazilians are not getting "African" or Nigerian hair for themselves? Why would a person dating a Nigerian want her with Brazilian, etc hair?

Anonymous said...

You have to take a bold step by explaining how it is to be what you are to your family. That thing you are is not good but it's a natural intellectual disability for you therefore, no one should have the right to judge. At the same time, even though it's natural for you, stop trying to over-promote it because you might influence people who are not born that way or people who are trying to do what is right.

Anonymous said...

The one on the right is so lovely

The Traveller said...

Give me a well kept natural anyway. It looks great and I can run my fingers through it without complains. I agree with the alternative only because wife wants it. She knows what I prefer but always trying to be fashionable!

Anonymous said...

Natural hair any day. Those weave are so disgusting.

abujakenneth said...

I have said it before and I am saying it again. Natural is best in everything

Anonymous said...

Clean and natural always the best!!!

Anonymous said...

linda luk for betterb pix, the one on d rite has been seriously filtered, notin natural abut dt pix. notin wrong wit weave just be a minimalist wit it. too much of evrytin nt gud

Anonymous said...

So why do u prefer the first?

Anonymous said...

You can but you have to be ready to maintain it properly. African natural hair when taken care of with natural products like shea butter, egg, olive oil and honey; can make your hair softer and as beautiful as any brazilian weave. We just need a change of mindset

Anonymous said...

anyone dat fits you is d best

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