Writer Amy Chau, who gained notoriety 2 years ago as 'Tiger Mum' after publishing her controversial book '
Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother" where she claimed that Chinese mums make the best parents and ultimately have more successful children, is back in the news.
Chau and her husband, Jed R
ubenfeld, just released a controversial (and some say racist) parenting guide called 'The Triple Package', where they declared there to be only eight successful and superior groups of people in the US.
They eight are: Chinese, Jewish, Indian, Iranian, Lebanese-Americans, Nigerians, Cuban exiles and Mormons
'That
certain groups do much better in America than others, as measured by
income, occupational status, test scores and so on, is difficult to
talk about,' Amy and Jed write.
The couple identify three
distinguishing features these eight peoples have that guarantees them
success over others; superiority, insecurity and impulse control. Continue...
Amy Chau, 51, breaks down the 'Triple Package' for her readers as follows:
1) A superiority complex: Chau believes that any cultural group who innately thinks they are just better than others has an advantage.
Ignoring
the wars, genocide and abject human misery this kind of thinking has
caused, Chau and her husband declare that 'the superiority complex is
antithetical to mainstream liberal thinking...the stuff of racism ,
colonialism, imperialism, Nazism.'
2) Insecurity: Chau and her husband believe that a deep seated insecurity can be a motivating drive to achieving success.
'That
insecurity should be a critical lever of success is another anathema,
flouting the entire orthodoxy of contemporary popular and therapeutic
psychology,' they write according to the New York Post.
'Note that there’s a deep tension between insecurity and a superiority complex,' the authors continue.
'It’s odd to think of people being simultaneously insecure but also convinced of their divine election or superiority.'
3) Impulse Control:
Chau thinks that perseverance and patience are virtues that have been
lost to most Americans - but still exist among her eight golden cultural
groups.
'Impulse control refers to the ability to
resist temptation, especially the temptation to give up in the face of
hardship or quit instead of persevering at a difficult task.'
105 comments:
thats wassup!!! yo!
2nd to comment naija dey oh
At least will recognise for more than our fraudulent nature
need to read the book to understand where she's coming from, but all the same Nigerians were mentioned for a gud cause that wat matters to me right now!
Her opinion. I hope she's right
DON SERIUS
At least it's positive...
This seems to be nice but still we should be the first even though it ain't our country
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So true i agree with them
Oh my my!! Atleat Nigeria is mentioned by someone who knows what we are capable of doing.... We've got innate strength( impulse control)...
finally one positive news for Naija
I really don't knw if this is racist but she is right,these peeps male it better in d US,thank God 9ja dey d list!
@UA
@least not for bad things,though that is their opinion.
Thank God for us º°˚˚°Âºoo Nigeria.
Good for her.
Whether what they posit is flawed or not, I am glad Nigerians are a superior race.
There is nothing racist about this. Truth is bitter
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........... And she is right! The fact is as Nigerians, Iranians etc we never give up in the face of hardship. We are very resilient.
Pumpkin
So wot next?... How dose that affect mi
positive idea...
hearing this from the mouth of a foreigner??Positive
I like that!
Something positive about Nigerians for first time.Nice tho
Something positive about Nigerians for first time.Nice tho
Thank God Nigeria is rated postively this time around. Am tired of all d negative attributes credited to Nigeria and Nigerians.
Thumb up 9ja,always representin.....kudos.
Congrats 9ja....keep d hustle going in a right way so we can attain d top most!!!!
Nice one.
Proudly Naija
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Finally, something good about Nigeria coming from the west
Her points Я̩̥̊e̶̲̥̅̊ so on point 2make it
True talk.Nigga suffering n smiling.
Yeap......,that's so on point. Coz to be a positive happy naija being no bi #Beans.Not with all we see and hear per seconds in this #Caused-Nation......,it thus takes a lot of Gods divine grace and profound #Mental/Psychological therapy on daily basis for 365(1/4) days......!
Hmmmmm! Thank goodness!! There is hope for Nigeria afterall...
Dear Libers, pray 4 ur sis abeg. My degree exams start 4rm 2day to Friday. After 6 months of holidays, these ppl cudn't give us even one wk 4 revision. Unizik won kill person. Bt God deh sha. * Phil *
Dats whts up
She's somehow right though!
Hell yeaaaa l luv dis country
I sincerely agree with this lady. 99.9%. Seriously. (the people from the developed world have a very stupid sense of entitlement! So they refuse to work real hard, they give up easily, they fall off the track. When the 1% gets up and takes it all, they start crying capitalist!) But we, "the little people" that know we have no one else to rely on, we strive real haaaaaard! I agree with this woman biko.
Interesting. I don't care much for the term 'Superior group' but I certainly agree that those three things she listed define us to the core.
Wen 2 or 3 pipo gather to mk money or hustle naija most b in da miss of dem....lol naija we sure do rock
It always feels good to be praised. However, there's a two-edgedness to swaying to stereotypes. If positive ones are acceptable, is there also truth in the bad?
I'm not Nigerian but i think she makes pertinent points. Black Americans are the worst.
ADVICE TO AFRICAN PARENTS WHO WANT TO MOVE THE US:
- Encourage your kids to move with Asian and Indian. They are better brought up and they really study hard in school.
- Stay away from black american kids. They only know how to twerk,they do not like school and they only want to be basketball players or entertainers. For the girls, they are only looking for a celebrity to trap with pregnacy for child support instead of getting a job.
-Very important: Put your kids in white-asian dominated schools, NEVER in black -dominated schools if u do not want your child to go astray with tweking, drugs and teen pregnacy.
Linda, did u know that the senator of Indianapolis is Nigerian? An igbo man for that matter?
His name is Samuel VOP IFEANYI OSILI. Why don't u write a post about him one of these days?
Linda , google this name:
Thessalonica Arzu EMBRY, she's an american with a Bacelor's Degree in Psychology at 14!!!
At least one young girl who doesn't aspire to look like Beyoncé or Kim K.
Encourage young girls, Lindus with this.
It's not racist. It's the truth!
Nigerians are creative, hard-working,are natural born entrepreneurs; In short, they have so much potential. It's so sad that most of the time, they use it for negative stuff. Thank u for being different , Linda.
Dumb nigerians! When una no gree read d tin well!
The thing is fuckin offensive!
Na wa o! Nobody go school for here ?
I agree with her since Nigerians are mentioned
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For once @ least 9ja is mentioned for good from these white people that see nothing good in us.
She really has a point there,especially on insecurity and impulse control..
Yes I'm a Nigerian n I'm 2 fab----C21
This only says that we naija's are hardworking and ever ready to succeed amidst any adversity. That underscores why no matter the level of corruption or stealing by naija govt officials, ordinary naija person believes he can work out some stuff for himself not taking to street like what haapened in egypt turkey libya & lebanon. naija pepole can always carve a niche like Linda did not waiting for govt to create job but did some stuff for herself.
yes Nigerians do better in Abroad than mostly at home. i luv my country
True talk.Despite all that we'r suffering we still dey smile n still believe that tomorrow will b beta.Linds post dis one O!
Interesting. Very interesting
And this is an achievement? Smh
I agree!!
Impressive!
Attention seeking bitch! Lilybrownsugar.
Attention seeking bitch!
She couldn't b writing dis frm d perspective of racism cos she mentioned Chinese n she's Chinese...glad 9ja is mentioned 4 G☺☺Ï‘ dis time around..make dem wait,very soon,a Nigerian go rule America
Nw m proud of naija
WE NO DEY PLAY MEEEENNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!
WE ENTER ANYWHERE...WE CONQUER!! LINDA IF U DONT POST MA COMMENT I'LL BOMB THIS WHOLE BLOG
For once I agree wit d whyt man concernin racism
And yet our fellow Nigerians are nw trying to be wannabe African American
I live in the US, her analysis is right. Nigerians tend to be resilient and hardworking. We know where we are coming from. Americans have that same opinion about us too. #proud nigerianindiapora#
I need to read d book, Naija dey d list,nice one
So true...African immigrants are d future of blacks in America
yes, we are
@ shina, yes we are. j9a for life
She is right on point!Asians and Nigerians fair better even in the UK,not talking bout internet fraudsters though.We have this do or die spirit even in the midst of a terrible and life threatening storm.Proudly Nigerian
Those akatas will go crazy with our mention.
She couldn't have been wrong ..... Nigerian ar truly a special ppl just take ur time and study us ... Despite all life put us 2ru we still hit the apex of any sector of worlds economy .... ""Honyfactory is the Lord of joke!!"
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Does she know in Nigeria we have different ethnic groups and this assertion of hers does not apply to all of these Nigerian ethnic groups ?
Just putting facts straight ! Facts that may be obscure to her.
Hmm I didn't quite understand her analysis but I sure know Nigerian's are 'superior quality humans' if there is anything like that and its refreshing to see Nigeria in the news for something positive
I agree@impulse control. Deferred gratification is key to success.
I couldn't agree with her less. Nigerians always stand out anywhere in the world - in Business/ Arts/ sports/ etc.. Out of every five black men - anywhere - in the world in a Nigerian.
Amy Chua, your head is there!!!
Lookin forward Ï„̅o more positive remarks abt 9jerians. #ProudlyNigerian
Linda why u nor post my comment abi I folllow u drag man?
We work our backside off here and folks in Nigeria: Send Dollars!!
Nice one!!!!
Proudly Nigerian# exceeding grace#more good news#
To those saying "finally, one positive news about Nigeria" errm, it's Nigerians living in the U.S. let's not get it twisted. And we only made the list cos of our drive to be successful. But then again, it's just her opinion.
Linda, she is very right, chinese especially pakistanis and indian people occupy govt jobs in canada, chinese are vey hard working so they always get the bigger paid jobs. Na luck Nigerians take cruz inside better paid jobs sef
I 100% agree with her. No more no less
Kinda Agree with Her
Maybe it's cuz she mentioned Nigerians that i don't think it's racist but hell yeah Nigerians are hard working people even Yahoo boys work hard for the scam to work and even when we come to America we still have that Naija mentality and the people she mentioned i agree we do kind of act alike maybe it's cuz we grew up in a society where we got spanked for doing bad things, we saw and understood the importance of hustle, but deep down we all had our fears, so i do agree
Go Nigerians!
Love from Miami
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@ ekpeyong or goat young you must be daft, what has ethnic group has to do with it. Stupid fool. We are one in Nigeria. Or you want to remind us that your ethnic group men are born cooks, and the women ashawos. . What is wrong with you. We with collectively to make Nigeria proud. You are fool for making that comment child.
D tinz concern u bcox u b 9ja.
No! It's not true,we are not one in nigeria.
@orekelewa
I guess u jst spoke my mind..
#moveonteamnaija
Of course, by Nigerians, she means Igbo. The Igbo definitely have Superiority complex and a feeling of insecurity since the Civil War. They also have Impulse control. And they form the biggest Nigerian community in the US.
GOD BLESS BIAFRA.
@orekelewa,I seriously don't understand y some pple r just too tribalist. It worries me a lot.I need answers....
Linda sometimes the way u word word things can be misleading. That nigerians are the top ethnic group in the US is not even a fact its an opinion of someone who happens to live in the US
Word
Finally one good thing for us»»KHEN
I live in Calgary, Canada and I have been told by people of different races that they recognize Nigerians when they see them because we have this bold look abd cannot be easily intimidated. I think it's something that stems from withing us, our backgrounds, our sense of entitlement, being a very enlightened group of people, knowing the stuff we are made of and our resilient nature that keeps us striving for the best to get to the top. I totally agree with this couple!
It's true o, my girl got into a top selective school in Uk after several exams only to find out on induction day that it's full of Nigerians! Go Naija go!! Lol.
Hmmm. She is talking about Nigeerians in the US NOT the Nigerians in Nigeria. Can't you guys read and comprehend?
Nigerians abroad enter anywhere mouth first... it intimidates every other race. This is her opinion though.
So the Nigerians in America r all Igbo now Abi you guys need to get over yourselves
we spread our tentacles round the world.
That's why igbo's haven't been presidents or ruled Nigeria in a while now. I see the superiority.
@Anon Jan 7 9:57pm
YOU need to get over your stupidity. Learn to understand English: Igbo make the LARGEST NIGERIAN DEMOGRAPHIC in the US. Find this out.
@Anon Jan 8 6:01am
With all the other tribes that have handled Nigeria, guess why Nigeria is nowhere. You can have the Nigerian presidency and shove it. We are Biafrans, We are the future. GOD BLESS BIAFRA.
Naija no dey carry last o! Enough said.
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