The rap artist tells Sunday-Express in an interview released yesterday Dec 18th...
I had my first sexual encounter at 13. It's something I regret whatever it was. I had this aunty, though we were not related, she was just a neighbour who was living close to us, who came into my room and slept with me. She just came into my room and just forced me to do it with her. I was so young and innocent and she made me lose my innocence. It wasn't a sweet experience at all. I was very scared. I saw hell. It was a terrible experience. I am not excited talking about it at all. Sex is not that good. I think sex is overrated. The aunt who slept with me is still alive. But I haven't seen her since then."
Shame on you aunt, whoever you are!
77 comments:
Shame shame shame on her
Shut up.This fake guy cannot sing.He now shouts rape.At 13 you had sex.if you are sincere ,why did'nt you report to your parents.Thanks to Nigeria music which has no quality control otherwise who would have known you.
OH MY GOD!!!
BIG SHAME ON YOUR AUNT. I HOPE SHE'S READING THIS BLOG TO SEE HOW PATHETIC SHE IS. WHY DO GROWN WOMEN THINK THEY CAN DO WHATEVER TO A LITTLE KID. GOD IS WATCHING ALL OF YOU OUT THERE.
Will rather give the aunt two thumbs up...
u sure say no be rape the aunty cos d way u dey act somtimes just make u look like say u be rapist befor
Anon 1:52 pm..beht y? hate small nah, ds one wey u dey use all ur vein type only bcos u sha wan hate d guy...abeg free Ice prince o and enter studio make u do ur own stuff
Yikes. Regardless of what we think or say, he was still a minor and didn't give consent. Hope he has dealt with that and doesn't have "issues" as a result. Meanwhile, wether he can sing or not is not the point here
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FUCK! thats funny
Keeping it in the family, eh, eh, eh, eh...
Did she handcuff him? No. Did she tie him up? No.
I think Ice Prince (Sex Prince) was a willing parner to the sex "crime".
I hate when people tell the truth, but don't tell all the truth. Ice Prince told half truth or made up the story.
Now I know the origin of Ice Prince's preference for mature women and to be dominated (in the bedroom) by older women.
When I was young, my best friend told me he slept with his first cousin. I was speechless. I didn't know people did that. She was older and very sexualized. He was addicted to sex. He enjoyed it but was later consumed with guilt.
Oh ice prince, i am nw a fan finally, a male artist that can tell us his fears, not all of them forming vuga, tell me wat is the name of his latest album let me go and buy it nw.... What i really love from an artist is honesty.
Well i guess why i am saying this is because i had smthing to do with a 28 year old when i was 15 so i know its not fun.
na only God knw weda e rape e aunty abi na e aunty rape am....if na true at all sef
@ anon 1:52pm and Femillionaire
You both are perfect example of FOOLS.
Learn how to differentiate someone's career and personal life. Seriously, this is the same reason why people are so backward in their thinking. Someone just revealed he was practically raped at 13, you are giving the rapist two thumps up. There is absolutely nothing cool or okay about that.
I know, people want him to be bragging about how cool the experience was or how he became a man for sleeping with a grown woman. No, not everyone wants their innocence to be taken like that. The society think they are raising boys to be men based on their sexual experience and girls to be women by how many men they can get. When in reality, the society is raising so many messed up men and women who have no clue what it is to be a real man or woman.
YES, YES, YES, SEX IS SO OVERATED. IT'S BECOMING AN EXCUSE AND EXPOSURE TO ALL KIND OF IMMORALITY, ALL IN THE NAME OF SEX. HOW SEXUAL DOES THE SOCIETY WANT TO GET TO THE POINT THAT EVERYTHING HAS SEXUAL CONTENT IN IT.
Americans are exposed to sex at an early age. So, when your 12yr old is already sexually active, or have babies having babies, while some are molested, some are sexually abused and these kids are not speaking up because some are curious and enjoying it. And some that speak up, their parent will shut them up and ignore it. We have condoms that are passed around in schools to 13yr old. Then, you wonder why the society is so messed up.
In Nigeria, young girls being sexually active but know their way to abort the babies at an early age. So it's okay, as long as I get rid of the baby. This is the same reason many Nigerian men are so promiscuous, can't control themselves. They think they have to sleep with every girl they see.
How much sex can a man or woman have that sleeping with one man or woman is not enough. You have to go outside to sleep with several people, when that is not enough you go test drive to see what it's like with the same sex, then when that is not enough you want to try it with animals. LUST OF THE MIND WILL TAKE YOU TO DIFFERENT PLACES WHEN ENTERTAINED.
God made sex, we are sexual beings but we human beings have perverted it and that is not HIS intention at all. Sex is to be enjoyed between a man and a woman in marriage which will sometimes bring another to life.
gosh how can pple be so bias if this were a girl no one would be discrediting her story ya'll would be mad at the 'uncle' that did it, but suddenly its a guy and he is lying? or he gave consent? like seriously???? rape of either a male or female is wrong so say it as it is, you are either against rape or for it. ok enough ranting i hope i got my message across.
Why do I feel all this is just cheap publicity stunt? Shame on the Aunt if its true tho! But Iceprince how can people learn from this? Are you saying they shouldn't report such till they are "stars" . Channel your voice towards awareness and encouraging minors to talk to somebody about such incidents! My 2 cents!
how can pple be so bias? if this were a girl telling her story ya'll would be against the "uncle" but suddenly its a guy and jokes are allowed? rape is in no way funny!, either of a male a female.
@sickworldwelivein,well spoken...!!!
At 13??????Shut up you nonsense boy! I was once 13 you know and some 13 year old boys would tell you that having a slightly older woman initiate you is a dream come true. I actually think he is bragging!!! First question, how can a woman rape a man??? did she give him cialis or viagra to get the thing standing? Make we hear another one jare!!
yea right!!!! Who are you fooling
i was molested as a child and i know it has d ability to destroy a life! Pls pple be sensitive with ur remarks! i am starting to believe that the pple who comment on lib are uncivilised and jobless!
well, to be quite honest that how most boys lose their virginity.. im not surprised.. i ve heard same kinda experience from a number of guys
Why are Nigerians so cynical.Abuse is abuse an it affects us all so differently same thing happened to Tyler Perry and has affected him all his life and is just now coming to terms with the rape despite his stupendous wealth.The guy needs our sympathy not hate
a guy says he was raped @ 13yrs and people claim he is lying. Would this be called lying if he was a 13yr old girl . . of if the rapist was a man??
If you have sex with an underage (13 in this case), it is rappe. period.
Sad world we live in. No wonder why a lot of guys keep quiet...cos peope would laugh in their face
His openness should be applauded; there are so many cases of sexual abuse in Nigeria with kids as the victim that there has to be a voice for it. Half of the people that would comment on this were most likely abused by some form of family member or the other - TELL YOUR STORY. Don't insult him for telling the truth.
Off the top of my head, I know 3 friends that grew up in different parts of Nigeria that were abused in some form as kids, not just girls get sexually abused. PUT A STOP TO IT PEOPLE, ONLY YOU CAN. YOU CAN MAKE IT STOP IN YOUR GENERATION.
THANK YOU ICEPRINCE FOR TELLING YOUR STORY.
Ice Prince is very very brave to speak out about what happened to him, kudos to the young man because there are many suffering in silence after having been subjected to an inappropriate touch.
@ Anonymous 12/19 - do you know the shame that comes with having to go tell your parents that a big aunty was touch your private parts? And are you Nigerian? Don't you know how our parents are dismissive about such issues, they don't even sit down with their children and explain the birds & the bees not to talk of telling their children how to recognize "bad touch" vs "good touch".
What Ice Prince is talking about happens all the time at home and abroad, in the States is often the babysitters who violates the child.
Stop judging another person's pain, just because some of you here would think something like that gives you bragging rights, others like Ice Prince would have rather been given the choice to pick with whom they lose their innocence!
bullshit..blablabla sex is overrated..shut tha fuck up.. lyk say im no dey fuck..
This story reminds me of what an Ex told me his landlords daughter who was much older abused him severally sexually she will call him to suck
her nipples so many times and other stupid things so this made him so. Sexually active,so I believe what this dude is saying some aunty agbayas too molest young boys too
sorry o ! ice
OMG....this comments are disheartening...the poor boy was raped period! Kai...He needs to go for some counseling...This things actually affect one psychologically..:(
Like U̶̲̥̅̊ still boss
I thought most guys lose their virginity at 13 in 9ja? and it is usually to an older woman.There he is seeking sympathy *side eye*
Must he tell us?
Kenneth. thats not what he is saying. he is saying that when you are old enough to talk abt it let it out. and yeah thats how most nigerian guys loose it.
You know, my husband has been telling me about this 'silent group' of victims for over 10 years. It took some convincing and investigating of my part and unfortunately, this is rather prevalent in this 'staid' society of ours. i think it is partially responsible for the callousness some of these men display.
From moms friends to 'aunts' and house girls..to sisters friends...
What is sad is that society tends to stick their head in the sand instead of addressing these issues.
Same goes for most women that are victims. As for the case of the females, some of which are reading these comments, it is so frequent from date rape to etc (...imagine it...) the victims even take it as par for the course......and don't even realize that they have just been raped and such barbaric behaviour should not be tolerated
I had a similar experience with an older cousin when i was 6yrs or 7yrs and she was in her 20s...its just pathetic the way people view sexual abused when males are the victims!
@ Sickwhatever you call your self, your response just shows how immature you are and how disconnected you are from reality. We can attempt to treat the sexes as same but the reality is that men and women are different. For a girl to succeed in initiating sex with a guy, he has to cooperate with her while it is not so for the case of a guy on a girl. I know that the world is trying to be politically correct and we can paint it anyhow we like, but an older woman seducing a male teen is not the same as an older guy seducing a female teen..
abeg abeg abeg... i don't know of any 13 yr old in his time that would not welcome sex.
make everybody leave story. i know say him like am and him enjoy am
This is very out of character for me but...
To the anonymous imbecile that posted a comment at 1:52pm (2nd comment) and the others that followed, clearly you know nothing about abuse.
You're insensitive, tactless and narrow-minded assholes that don't know better and will probably rot in the vitrolic filth that is your own ignorance.
Happened to me as well..she kept dragging me underneath a bed..and reason why I turned out to be a freak..must have been 5yrs old or so just back home from the UK..was just a kid..but now when I think about it..was pure exploitation!!...
I do not support rape, but if he did not enjoy it, how did the thing stand?
Right now in the UK..there have been many cases like this coming to light..female teachers and boy pupils but people laugh it off..as a passage of rite..
There was a film directed by Denzel Washinghton "Antwone Fisher" that addresses this issue..
Anon. 1:58pm, u are quite a retard: Naija music has come a long way and can now flex its muscles and IcePrince is awesome...P.S. I am sure you are just hating .
IcePrince, you really should not make it sound like it hurts you. I am pretty sure you bragged about it then. It is a common wish for boys at that age to have such encounters.
To sickworldwelivein.you are on point but I will want you to know that it is because the world is sick that not everybody will agree with you
I was abused and I have abused!!!! Ice- Prince I am Proud of yu!!! Yur Aunt shld cme out n apologise to yu . Thumbs up IP.
Rape is rape.
When an adult has sex with a minor, they are taking something away from there using their position of power and authority.
@ the person who said why didn't he tell his parents because rape and sexual abuse is looked down upon in Nigeria and the victim is usually blamed and the parents cover it up to prevent disgrace.
What he is saying is true. Sex is very over rated. He was robbed and I hope he has dealt with the shame since he has come out with it. He didn't have a choice of when to give the gift of himself away, an older woman stole it from a confused child who was confused on what was happening.
Been there, sexual touched by adults in Nigeria, thank God it wasn't more than touch, but it made me feel violated. Thank God for Jesus.
We live in a terrible society with terrible people like I have seen on this blog
This is horrible and I empathise with Ice in more ways than he can imagine. The same thing happened to me at 12 and till this day, I find sex immoral and dirty. I am a married father of two. I only engage in sex to please my wife and perform my husbandly duties. Till this day my wife thinks I always shower after sex becos I am a neat freak but I do it becos I feel so filthy afterwards. Let us be careful with our words. Some people are hurting genuinely
ANON 1:52 PM SHUT THE FUCKING HELL UP!!! NAIJA KIDS CAN'T SAY ANYTHING WHEN SHIT LIKE THAT HAPPENS, AND TO BE HONEST WITH MOST OF YOU, ESPECIALLY THOSE OF YOU KEEPING SO CALLED "NANNY", "HOUSEGIRLS" AND "SISTER/BROTHER-INLAWS" IN YOUR HOME WITH YOUNG KIDS THAT CAN'T SAY ANYTHING, CHANCES ARE THE ARE GETTING RAPED, TOUCHED IN THE WRONG WAYS BY THESE IDIOTS. IN MOST CASES, THE ACT OCCURS BECAUSE THOSE RAPING THEM ARE JUST FUCKING INSANE AND HAVEN'T BEEN FUCKED IN THEIR LIVES BEFORE OR THEY JUST CAN'T GET A BF/GF. YOU SIMPLY CAN'T TRUST NO HORNY IDIOT LIVING AROUND YOU OR YOUR KIDS.DISGUSTING.
ACTUALLY BOTH ANON 1:52PM AND OTHER MOTHERFUCKERS TAGGING ALONG WITH WHOEVER THAT ILLITERATE MAY BE TO SAY THIS MAN IS LYING, SHOULD ALL GO TO FUCKING HELL. YOU LOT CLEARLY HAVEN'T EXPERIENCED REALITY. NAIJAS AND THEIR STUPID COMMENTS WITHOUT TRYING TO KNOW THE REAL REASON BEHIND STORIES LIKE THIS. HISS.
This story looks fake.How did he penetrate into the woman without erection?He simply enjoyed the play which led to an erection and finally sex.It is quite easier to beleive a 13 yr old girl than a boy.this is because of the anatomical differences in their reproductive systems.a man can always have his way into a woman as long as he overpowers her.meanwhile, even if a woman overpowers a man,the penis needs to wake up from sleep lol,
Did anyone even think maybe Ice prince does not find this so
aunt attractive? She might be an ugly ass woman and also remember dude was only 13 at the time. STFU and differentiate btw dudes career and personal life.
Am really amazed at how shallow-minded people are. What does Rape have to do with talent? If its dat easy why don't u head in2 the studio let's c aw that goes.
A lot of teenagers get raped at that age. Whatever his fetish is has got nothing to do with been raped. We all have our own fetish so give the guy a break.at least he is not abusing any one.
eeyah sorry iceprince. An old friend was also sexually abused by his older cousin. nawa oo 4 all these abuses. e be like anon 1:52pm na d aunty! shame on u anon 1:52pm we are talking about him being abused and not his musical talent. You dont know how close he was 2 his parents, some teenagers are not bold enough to report such incidence.
Gosh d comments on this post scares me! when i have kids, i would be so over protective of them, God help anybody that tries to touch my kids as i would serve their heads to d dogs. I cant thank my mum enough for putting her career on d backburner, just to make sure she was with my siblings and i 24/7
wow this scares me. Living here in America, i hear Nigerians brag about how Americans are immoral and Nigerians are good Christians. I reality it was the opposite. I'm glad that i'm here because i probably would have been pregnant and God knows how many abortions would have been performed. I was molested by a boy twice as old as i was and i found out that he was molested by his mom eww. He is all over Nigeria now sleeping with however women he can. Sexual abuse of a child leaves dire consequences which affects the child's future. I will not have children because i still believe that there is nowhere in the world that a child can be safe from abuse. It would kill me to find that my daughter or son was molested because i know what that means for their future relationships with people of the opposite sex.
Its a shame that people are blaming him, its sometimes the case here in America. They believe that boys like sex no matter the circumstance when it is far from the truth. I pray for the state of Children all over the world especially Nigeria.
Sorry o. Not trying to be insensitive or anything. I understand that rape is a very serious issue but one question has just been ringing in my mind ever since I started reading this post and that question is this: how on earth do u rape a guy that doesn't hv an erection? As in, u can't force a flaccid penis in, can u? The guy has to be aroused now b4 u can get it in. Ah! Anyways, iceprince, sorry o. And yes, sex IS over-rated.
I am a parent of a 13yr old son and I cannot imagine my son telling me this and ignore it.
My son plays basketball, he gets a lot of compliment from older women. I keep my eyes open, in addition to that, I tell him if anybody touch you inappriopriately, speak up. I know one of his teachers that speaks highly of him, how he's intelligent and has a bright future ahead of him. But, my son recently told me, she's invited him twice to class and it was just both of them. And she told him, I'm here if you need extra time with classwork. I immediately told him, next time, DO NOT GO. In the next parent meeting, my husband and I plan to have a talk with her.
Rape is rape, abuse is abuse and men shouldn't be overlooked. We expect them to be all macho all the time but many are suffering emotionally, psychologically and mentally. Thank you, Iceprince for speaking up. This makes you more of a man.
Sexual abuse, molestation happens everywhere and it's time to start exposing these sick people.
@sickworldwelivein, thank you for that comment
"It wasn't a sweet experience at all. I was very scared. I saw hell. It was a terrible experience. I am not excited talking about it at all. Sex is not that good. I think sex is overrated."---I feel your words and this is how our women feel even more than when they experience such. We men must promote good values.
OK so I understand his pain of him being robbed of his innocence @13 and all that.I have a close male friend who was also "robbed of his innocence" at about his age by the older housegirl.Initially,he said he didn't consent to it.However as time went on,he was so in on it to the extent of him being the one who initiates sex!He regrets the fact that he was initiated into having sex at such a young age unwillingly.He has however moved on.From all indications,iceprince hasn't and methinks he needs to see a therapist!
PS: I heard iceprince turned 39 this year.Somebody pls confirm or deny this for me.thanks
The belief that all men like sex is what is Wrong with these comments.Abuse makes people feel terrible,used and this feeling of emasculation.there are tales of little male kids who were molested and turned to sadists.they loathe women and find sex without violence disgusting.they engage in all sort of violent sex,rape,sex with aged,pregnant and what have you.
People need to be aware.Most of these violent men you see today come from abusive homes but then again,9ja downplays psychology.
I saw the Antwone Fisher movie and you all need to see it,to understand abuse from the male point of view.When a young male is molested,he may become randy or his character may be so flawed that he finds it difficult to approach a woman.no confidence.the young man in d movie was not only made to penetrate but to suck and lick all kinds of 'yucky' tins.pls tell me how a child of 7 or 8 wil like that?
And finally ,for those who asked 'how did d thing rise'...d male organ is very sensitive.Sometimes when a man is sleepin,he gains an erection.So understand how touch can excite a boy in puberty;whether he is willin or not.Once heard of a boy raped by his gay uncle.beaten and forced to comply.What made him feel so terrible.Wat really got him ashamed was that He couldn't understand why his body was enjoyin it yet he was in tears.his uncle in between thrusts pointed to his erect organ and said to him 'U see,you are enjoying it.you like it'...He is married and not gay now but he is forever flawed
You just want to copy oyimbo, funy enough when a Woman rapes a Man its no big deal.... It becomes a big deal when A man rapes a girl.... So ice Prince I put it to you that you just want to make headlines...........If you are serious fish out that your so called aunt. sue her and get compensated that's the way the oyimbos do it.
an erection a lot of times is involuntary. boys/men are constantly raped all the time.
the cynicism is alarming. pray this kind of problem doesn't fall in your 18...
This really riles me. So are we saying a male can't be raped? Even infant boys can have erections. An adult woman with stinking rancid breath knows that yes, this boy will have an erection if she stimulates him.
An uncle calls your daughter and says touch me under. An aunt calls your son and says touch me under. What is the freaking difference?
@ 13, yo dick stands up to whatever cox at that age you think about sex like all the rime..but with an older woman/ trusted aunt must have been a nightmare but guys move on after stuff like this.. cant even remember what my first time was like. #smh
I had an aunt sexually assault me too at 10. When I become rich and famous, I'll tell my story ;)
it is kinda interesting to see how one-sided people think...the key word in dis story is 13years old!!!!if u critically review dis, u will realise and acknowledge that that guy's body was violated without his permission.And it is wrong!!!
This is sad to hear. I'm glad he is sharing his story..
it has happened to almost every young guys who grew up from the late 80s to early 2000s so i believe his story as i was once a victim as well. though it was an age mate then i was about 10.
girls/ladies/women always believe that boys/guys/men are evil but they are the one that brought the devil out of us
sowie ladies and gentle men.pls am realy sowie zamani'pls people,am dat her aunt,at least u are a grown up man nw,i wont screw u again
ppl shld b sensitive wit deir remarks! na wa o!!! ow many ppl can b open about thns lyk dis! rape is rape regardless of gender! he was raped n was bold enuff 2 say it!!!
at age 13..u must have been able to recognise and must have known her...i hope this story is true and not just seeking attention
@anon 11:44.... U r a clown!!!... Jst cnt stp laughin @ya..
.hmmmmm...... Al doz askin 'hw him tin tak stand'.... Wen u wake in d mornin u gt an erectn...its called involuntary/reflex erection..... Figure out d rest..... Gbam!
Infact the comments i read on this blog at times shows how irrational the thinking/reasoning of some people could be.........for those of u saying he enjoyed the shit,,,did u consider the age at which it happened to him and the fact that it was done against his wish/will??? Its an abuse if it was done against his wish.......
For those saying how come he had erection if he was not interested???can u please explain why a man has erection very early in the morning when he wakes up???abi na witch dey touch men for dia sleep before dem wake up???
@Annon Dec 19 1:52pm.......u must be a retarded fool,,,,,there's a very thick line between someone's personal life and career,,,,why dont u visit the studio and let's hear ur froggy voice???
@sickworldwelivein........u're right on point!!
ÃŽ†'s amazing how ignorant Nigerians can be!! This is real..and believe mε̲̣̣̣̥ no matter how many times you have fantasized about having sex, being 'cajoled' into î† by an older woman who should know better and who pretends infront of your family that she is just an aunt or househelp does such major damage to †Ñ’ξ psyche that î† can sub-consciously control your life...I've had numerous stories like that!
Ice Prince has shown such strength that I D̶̲̥̅̊Õ̳͡ñ† most of †Ñ’ξ men would be willing to, even to truly look deep inside their heart to realise how damaged such experience has made them..
That is why I get so unbelievable protective of ♍Æ” kids, aged 5 and 3. Make sure they feel comfortable enough to talk to mε̲̣̣̣̥ abt anything and keep ♌ strict eye on whoever stops by ♍Æ” or is staying with mε̲̣̣̣̥. These abuses are soooo rampant but we (Nigerians) like to live in denial!
Some of u are stupid and heartless, someone got raped nd u're saying maybe he enjoyed it. wtf?? kmt
ANON 1:50PM Dec 19. You are the reason people do not speak up in Naija. Too many bad mouthed people
Read all the comments and some were just shamefully brutal and lack compassion. U do not know what is like to be molested or abused by either a male or female(maybe, thats why u are running ur mouth).
I know my pastor was abused severely by an older Aunty at the age of 10, YES he admitted his body enjoyed the act but he genuinely didnt want it.. He was only 10, he should have had the opportunity to to discover his own sexual fantasies himself. The older lady should have known better, it was something that affected him and he had to pray for grace to deal with it and MOVE ON.
I also have a female friend that was molested by another female househelp and NO she didnt enjoy it, infact she didnt understand all the blow jobs, masturbation she was doing. SHE WAS A CHILD..With fear instilled in her.. U know Niaja parents, how can a child defend themselves when the child does not even understand what is going on or make sense of it. All they know is, they do not feel comfortable.
I know of someone that also had his innocence robbed from him. He was molested by an UNCLE... ONLY AGE FIVE he was young. He is physiologically affected by it and still has nightmares and serious ones too.
They are males and females that are abused without their consent and they are actually facing some serious demons and they battle with all sorts everyday.
You cannot put people in a box and say they enjoyed it so therefore they should not talk. Sometimes when people like ice prince talk, they are either screaming for help or educating other guys to BEWARE.
PARENTS beware they are male and female rapists and perverted men and women. SO LETS BE VIGILANT..
This is to educate us not give us the opportunity to condemn him.
God pls heal our broken hearts, for the failed uncles and aunties that have lied and robbed us of our innocence, Lord visit THEM AND LET THEM NOT HAVE PEACE UNTIL THEY APOLOGISE. Help us LORD TO HEAL and restore all that has been lost and stolen from us. AMEN.
anon @1:52
its not easy to come up and say someone raped u oh! ....chill..
What do u mean Fake? If he was fake, could he had won the BET award.....the fact that u haven't seen your outcome doesn't mean u can just pour water on someone's burning fire!!! CAN U SING????😒😒😒
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