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Sunday, 14 June 2015

Toke Makinwa finally reacts...see what she posted on Instagram

Media personality Toke Makinwa has shared her first post on social media since news broke that her man of 12 years, Maje Ayida, allegedly got another woman pregnant. I was hoping the first thing she would do is deny it but she didn't...feel so bad for her and other women in similar situations. See fans reactions after the cut...


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Davido's driver said...

Ekpele o

Davido's driver said...

Stay strong for we men are dogs. Lindaobserve

Unknown said...

Real men still exist.


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Davido's driver said...

If you like cry blood. Linda take note!

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

It is well o

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

BeforeGodAndMan whatever the case maybe, just have faithinGod,be strong $ move on with your life. Love you Tokelicious

Unknown said...

Phew** she's enjoying the whole attention...enjoy toke

Anonymous said...

This too shall pass just like d way Annie got over tubaba cheating with his baby mama early dis year
..

Unknown said...

I had a feeling Toke wasn't gonna react to all this.. exactly like I expected. Kudos!!

Mzz_Mary said...

Eya

Unknown said...

It is well.

Anonymous said...

Linda see as u carry dis gist 4 head.. but refused to carry d news when tubaba cheated with his baby mama.. ode!

Unknown said...

This too much pity is not good for her.

Jasmine Joseph said...

Kai am so pissed feel like smacking him in d face, the Lord is ur strength Toke

Jasmine Joseph said...

Kai am so pissed feel like smacking him in d face, the Lord is ur strength Toke

Jasmine Joseph said...

Kai am so pissed feel like smacking him in d face, the Lord is ur strength Toke

Anonymous said...

Poor her.
~D great anonymous!

Bonita Bislam said...

I've always known Toke has some steel beneath that cool exterior of hers.Falling in luv this days is an act of faith,a wager that against all odds things will work out fine.More flesh to ya heart Toke!

NMaa said...

Be strong jare. Umu nwoke Ana ezuzu. Mscheewww. Very stupid beings.

Unknown said...

The heart of men/women is evil and deceitful..yet who am I to curse or lay blame. I don't knw wat transpired in their marriage life.

Anonymous said...

Yeye dey smell ..change ur ways and rediscover urself..Party eryday ... waka about 247 and u want husband to be faithful to u...story for d gods

Bonita Bislam said...

Only luv can break ones heart like this.Choi

Unknown said...

Oro oko pelu iyawo, oju oluwa lo le to. She shd 4gt abt it n move ahead wt r life. Ori omo lon pe omo waye

Unknown said...

Oro oko pelu iyawo, oju oluwa lo le to. She shd 4gt abt it n move ahead wt r life. Ori omo lon pe omo waye

Unknown said...

Toks dear, please be strong,don't allow it weigh u down.men will always be men.this institution called marriage sef,na real strong thing

Jite said...

The face that people are just discovering does not mean she didn't know and has already dealt with it as a couple....... U guys should allow them be..... Haba

Unknown said...

Dear God,ma heart to toke...i feel so bad for her,how painful...to all you young ladies sleeping around with married men n to all unfaithful married men,may your life be in ruins

Unknown said...

Pain doesn't make us more evolved, but it
can make us stronger....never a failure, always
a lesson....learn from this and bounce back
stronger than EVER!

Unknown said...

Wow, if this is true then I wanna see d strong lady that she has always preached about

Unknown said...

Sorry babe....men r lik dat.wit dem everytin is pusycat.

ary said...

Same ass holes forming shoulder to cry on will go on twitter and beef her! Bloody two faced whores!!!

Anonymous said...

All that glitters ain't gold. Confirm this story before criticism and comments. People could frame up stories. Nobody has the perfect home.

KINGING said...

She is actually the type of person you'd hate from a distance but love when u get closer. That used to be the case for me until I met her in person in Oxford street in London. I wish her the very best and happiness

Unknown said...

She's the epitome of a real woman. Beauty, wt brains, and strong character... my kinda gal. She's gonna pull thru this, m come out stronger. #respect.

Unknown said...

I'm not ready to lick ass or comfort Toke. I'm actually disappointed in her. Everyone is saying 'it can happen to anyone' but lets be realistic, as a smart woman u can try to AVOID these things. U dated a man for 12 years. Thats enough to know everything. After 12years its safe to even call him ur brother cos then u know him like ur palm.
Reports said he dated d other woman for 8years. Toke didn't know? Can u pretend for 8 whole years?
I'm one of her biggest fans. Watching her on hipTV always inspire me to get ontop of my career game. Its good to be ambitious and popular but once u get married, career comes SECOND. Men are babies. They try to act strong blah blah but trust me they need u. Toke was always going on events, shows. She was practically everywhere. Who knew if she had no time to cook, offer good sex, play & pamper him.? A wise woman knows how to joggle between career and her home.
After 12 years, maybe the man got tired of waiting. He needed a baby and the enemy won him over with that. We cant question why Toke isn't pregnant yet. God is a giver of children but I still feel she was too COMFORTABLE. U can never relent when dealing with men. U ain't too fine, rich, superb to be cheated on. He was always traveling to Calabar. How comes Toke didn't know? Was she even around? Sigh I hate stories like this.
this isn't a justification to cheat as a man. Her husband just ruined her reputation and her Heart. God will judge that man in a way he wont forget. May the Lord help us

Anonymous said...

Wetin concern una including you Linda Ikeji? Una dey carry am for head as if say somebody die. Leave this matter abeg you

Anonymous said...

Linda u are just a green snake on a green grass

ovis prince said...

Follow me back on IG you said No. Now look at this situation... cruel world

Kay said...

MEN CAN BE CRAZY! HOW CAN YOU HAVE A BEAUTIFUL WIFE LIKE THIS AND STILL BE MISBEHAVING MAJE NEEDS PRAYERS!!

Unknown said...

Hmmm srry dear its well##

Unknown said...

it's funny how linda is blogging about toke's relationship but never blogged about tiwa's own....... like the legendary fela would say #observationnobecrime#

Anonymous said...

You feel sorry for her, Linda eh? You that can't even land one correct man, even if just for two weeks! You haven't been able to show anyone off.. yes, I feel you, dem all have k-leg abi? Odiegwu. Na you I feel bad for

Unknown said...

Mtcheeew! Killing ya selves over issues ya know nothing about.

Unknown said...

Whatever!!

Linda cogitate

Debbie Chelsea said...

Eya.....I just pity her......be Strong Gerl

Unknown said...

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Unknown said...

Abeg enuf of dz Toke's issue abeg.. na she dz kind tn first happen to.. thou it's not good atal but then abeg make una stop to dey hype dz babe abeg.. when she's busy attending to one function or d other instead of putting her home in order.. Sorry for her thou

Unknown said...

So behind all those constant shows of luv from her man lies d cheating... all these celebrity couple that pretends as if their marriage is heaven on earth ehn! u need to check behind their closed doors. U will be amazed. Sorry toke!

Unknown said...

Everyone taking this personal issue btw husband and wife as the own just need to chill out.... Why get involve in some else's private life (celeb or no celeb). Majority don't even know her in real life..... Things like this should only be discuss by close family and friends and not some random people.....

umoh Linda said...

All is well hun, jst pray to God, marriage is full of ups n downs, buh calabar gurl? Hun u must pray rlly hard, we r bad hun..

Unknown said...

Eya I really feel for her. If she's still Okay with him let her stay if not let her go after all every human deserves to be happy.

Unknown said...

Sorry Toke.. I hope u have wisen up now!

umoh Linda said...

Jst pray hun, go on ur knees, wit God all things r possible, u can get him back wit prayers..the is no perfect man anywhere.

Anonymous said...

At least, she's not Annie who makes silly excuses to defend her cheating husband.
She is powerful.




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Unknown said...

Any man that can't keep to his woman and be faithful to her is a cheat "casino val" I expected Toke to have leave this man but who are my to tell her. If you like be you the queen of England or queen jesus of the world, a man that will respect keep only you will but the one that wunt will not.

Unknown said...

Really feeling sorry for her. It is well girl. The Lord is your strength. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Okiie, notice to all LIBERs. Didn't want to do dis before but I gex I just have to do it as a disclaimer. One idiot on dis blog stole my identity, my name & signage. So please any negative comments on dis blog is not coming from me but from the thief cos I would neva say anything bad about someone or wish anyone evil. So I have gone back to using my old pix & my email address is (julie3er@gmail.com). Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Okiie, notice to all LIBERs. Didn't want to do dis before but I gex I just have to do it as a disclaimer. One idiot on dis blog stole my identity, my name & signage. So please any negative comments on dis blog is not coming from me but from the thief cos I would neva say anything bad about someone or wish anyone evil. So I have gone back to using my old pix & my email address is (julie3er@gmail.com). Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Life goes on...

Unknown said...

Life goes on...

Anonymous said...

Lesson for ladies; dont wait to experience it but read the handwriting on the wall concerning men cos Men aint loyal anymore. Hook unto the only loyal being in the whole wide world: GOD
Sharumi

Unknown said...

Hmmmmmmm...She still has not said anytin


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Angie said...

Could all be just mere speculations..until she speaks abt it.

Anonymous said...

People should get over themselves. Nobody died and what is the tears all about. Is so
Annoying for people to be crying foul when majority of men in our society either have 2 or 3 baby mamas of 2 or 3 wives. People should stop making like a tragedy when we must either have a family or a friend that does same shit. HE WHO IS A SAINT SHOUKD THROW A STONE TO THE GUY. I know a lot of this so called happily married guy that have a child out of wedlock but their wives turn a side eyes just because our society welcome polygamous nonsense. People should mind their miserable life and let them handle their situation. Perhaps Toke is fine with the situation. No one knows what happens behind the closed door.

Unknown said...

Nigerians are stupid. Always drinking panadol ova pples headache. Small tin faceless pple will start attacking u. Allow toke to deal with her problem ur comments won't help. She cant read all.

Anonymous said...

The guy Fuck up Sha. You for use condom na. But women you guys are so screwed. You want a monopoly on a man because.....ego. and women seduce us in the name of mistress because....ego. they like how it feels to have another woman's man. And we men just fuck all and sundry because we are busting a nut. No strings attached. Maje you're a dumbass Sha. You for use CD. Na like #500 Abi toke no give you allowance.

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Anonymous said...

As much as its sad but this should be a lesson to everyone ,PDA is not an assurance that a man or woman loves you,true love stays in the heart and time can only prove that ,people should stop showing the world social media love cos no one cares about that ,only wanna mock and laugh when it all goes wrong,now its even more painful for her because too much PDA but if she was handling her man like normal person it wont hurt ,peleeeee shaaaa

Annonymoux_Ken said...

wetin @iam_whoolchay talk? didn't see the response o

Anonymous said...

who wants to even live with or be with a woman who is so impulsive everything is social media. Toke get off the blogs/instagram. breathe a bit. you can have a career but that doesn't mean over exposure. make yourself marketable for the next guy by showing some self control. get off the internet.

Unknown said...

Lesson to you all , having the ring on ur finger does not make you the owner , you might be the RING CARRIER NOT THE BEARER!!! Be warned all ye desperado don't let the public pushed you to the wall , I believed make toke was not meant for waje . The First love is the true love I.E Annie idibia !!!!

Thatigbobabe(Lilyflower) said...

Aknow she will definitely pull through.
I feel your pain Toke
She always come out strong and fine.
Keep loving you relentless

Unknown said...

Lesson to you all , having the ring on ur finger does not make you the owner , you might be the RING CARRIER NOT THE BEARER!!! Be warned all ye desperado don't let the public pushed you to the wall , I believed make toke was not meant for waje . The First love is the true love I.E Annie idibia !!!!

Anonymous said...

Who is Toke Makinwa?

Unknown said...

Nigerian me. Are not easy to deal with

Anonymous said...

Linda can be daft/funny atimes

Anonymous said...

The guy Fuck up Sha. You for use condom na. But women you guys are so screwed. You want a monopoly on a man because.....ego. and women seduce us in the name of mistress because....ego. they like how it feels to have another woman's man. And we men just fuck all and sundry because we are busting a nut. No strings attached. Maje you're a dumbass Sha. You for use CD. Na like #500 Abi toke no give you allowance.

Anonymous said...

Toke, chin up..nothing do you ..*hugs*

Dobzi fingers said...

I'm still hoping it's all just a rumour

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Unknown said...

Its a pity..take heart dear
Such is life..


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Anonymous said...

Maybe dats their way of announcin dat shez preggers. Y'all hav forgotten d weddin saga

Anonymous said...

She might just be announcing her pregnancy with this stunt. Remember what they did before her private wedding. Toke and Maje are up to something.

Anonymous said...

She might just be announcing her pregnancy with this stunt. Remember what they did before her private wedding. Toke and Maje are up to something.

Habby said...

Who cares bout her relationship..mtshew

Unknown said...

very very bad. Infidelity must stop in this country

Alberta said...

This might just be a stunt.... the next news we will hear in a few months is Toke and Maje welcomed their baby/babies. Afterall, they broke up or pretended to break up before their surprise wedding news.You people should keep drinking panadol for them and not face your own lives, you hear? Toke and Maje just got more publicity

Anonymous said...

SO HE ws SERiOUSLY CHEATIN N B DOIN LUVER BOY..b STRONG TOKE its ONE OF DOSE ThNGS..TOMJERRYSWIT

Anonymous said...

And not long ago she was celebrating him on social media. Talking so much abt their luv and marriage. I hope other celebs learn from this to keep their private biz, private

joyous babe said...

Huuu ,dats men for u,am going thru d same thing in my marriage of 7yrs i ve been the provider in my home now my so call hubby is cheating on me so painful.God wil be u dear.it is well

Unknown said...

Instead of praying for yourselves .... Una de fams toke or what's her name again..... I bind every aprokolistic spirit in ya all.

Unknown said...

Toke is a strong woman, but she need to leave this guy, he is an animal..

Unknown said...

I hope this ain't true... cos dat woman is my role model, she makes me wanna do well for myself and up the ladder of success... all iz well

Anonymous said...

if after dating TOke for 12 years and marrying her for 2 years without traces of Pregnancy, its better to confirm if one is potent from another source which the husband did.
I don't blame him.
Toke will be the big loser here.
No sane man wants a badly used product that can generate results.
So, she should have kept the news to herself.
ALl these fans pitying and encouraging her wont add to nothing.
Just my opinion.

knowurway.com said...

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Unknown said...

Men are dogs,if u guys like insult me... av said my mind

Unknown said...

I love that she is handling it this way.. May God see her through.

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#GBAM said...

As painful as it is, I think she neglected her marriage. All those occasional instagram love post don’t keep a man. If this is true then it would be really bad for her because all those vlogs about how to spot a bad guy would be a waste. Too bad. I’ll cry for her. That’s the least I can do.

Unknown said...

Be brave

Anonymous said...

9ja people no get work o. What you business with her now na Wa o. #isayso

Unknown said...

You just taled sense into my ass

Unknown said...

I just pray dis drama comes to an end.

Anonymous said...

ITS THE MAN, THE MAN , THE MAN, SHE IS AN EXPERT ON ALL ADVICE YET, THIS... ABEG... SHE LOOKS LIKE SOMEONE WHO FRONTS TOO MUCH. PROLLY SHE WASNT TAKING CARE OF HER HOME, RATHER, POSING AT EVERY DOOR STEP AND TAKING SELFIES. ITS ALWAYS THE MAN. ITS ONE THING TO CHEAT... TO ACTUALLY LET ANOTHER GET PREGNANT FOR YOU... ABEG, THE TOKE GET FOR HER BODY... STOP THE PITY PARTY, NOT EVERY CASE IS THE WOMAN THE VICTIM. DO YOU STOP TO THINK HOW SHE REALLY IS AT HOME... RETARDS... ALWAYS THE WOMAN. THE OTHER WOMAN NKO.... ABEG YOUR ALL THE SAME. YOU DONT DO WHATS RIGHT AT HOME. YET THE MAN IS ALWAYS THE BLAME. THE WOMAN CAN NEVER DO NO WRONG. MEN CHEAT. ANCIENT HISTORY, BUT A MAN THAT WILL ALLOW ANOTHER WOMAN GET PREGNANT FOR HIM, MEHHHNNNN Y'ALL NEED TO CHILL AND CHECK THE WOMAN..... ***ADIGUN...

MADE IN NIGERIA said...

Oh dear!!! The many things women go through.....

Anonymous said...

When toke turn herself to Mtn everywhere you go today party tomorrow party she as to force on her family. I would not blame the guy. He get more attention from other woman than she

Innocentia Annie said...

Its a pity
Toke be good
God will see you through

Anonymous said...

Lol @ Toke makinwa finally react n den thiiiiiiiisssssss!

JUST ME said...

All dz stupid girls of nawa days.. maybe. She refuse to let d man have his tin dts why d man went outsidestate n got another pregnant.. good for her in one way

Unknown said...

God will give her d heart to bear it. Her husband did not do well at all but we should also consider what he might be going through in d marriage. He that wears d shoe knws where it hurts.

Unknown said...

Sorry dear, God will repair and heal your broken hear. Mtchewwww after 12yrs, things that men do...

Unknown said...

Many celebrity do cheat on their partner, or is it bcus maje's infidelity was exposed bcus he got another woman pregnant? All married men and women who cheat on their partner don't have d right to insult toke's husband bcus to me they are all birds of the same feather.

Unknown said...

Men and women who cheat on their partner dnt have d right to insult toke's husband bcus to me they are just birds of d same feather.

LA' SUNSHINE said...

Hmm it is well... may d good lord strengthen u toke I can't say I understand wat u re goin tru cos have not been in such a situation but dis 2 shall pass.

Anonymous said...

The guy discovered that toke may have delay of in giving birth.....so he helped himself. Should have been patient.

Unknown said...

Dear Toke, it is well with you.





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Anonymous said...

Alot of this people have never seen toke makinwa face to face before but yet they all have an opinion. Let this issue rest abeg n pls people should kindly stop slandering all men cos of one man. Abi women no de cheat again. Women shaa always always always playing victim

ibeakwadalam said...

Aunty Linda, another reason why living your life (intentionally) in front of everyone is not healthy.

I agree that the rate of HIV in Nigeria is high. Just look at the number of men/women having unprotected sex.

Sad!

Unknown said...

Nigerians eehhh

TeamToke said...

Toke God is your Strenght. This too shall pass and you shall come out stronger and with greater blessings. Continue being strong!

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Unknown said...

No be dis toke Dem dey yarn anyhow... Now Dem don dey show love...i tire for u Nigerians

Unknown said...

Hmn...m so sorry Toke may God strengthens u...more reason y m gon b a career woman! no nigga is worth all d stress u ave to do all d shits for u cos @ d end of d day it's just u n no. 1 else.

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All is well..

Anonymous said...

Don't be surprised if she weds him b4 the end of this month. Shalie

Chioma Ijomah said...

OMG!! Linda darling, thanks for using Airtel..
@Toke, you'll survive darling..

Anonymous said...

Men am beginning to hate u guys too much

Dela bee said...

Wow! there are lot of jobless pplp in Nigeria

Dela bee said...

Wow! There lot of jobless pplp in Nigeria

Unknown said...

Person die? See condolence msgs. Hmmmm na wah oo

Juleslouis said...

Aww. Ko easy! I bet we won't be seeing any toke and Maje pix together anytime soon. Pele!

pwettylicia said...

Toke love am so proud of you right now. Just keep being strong you are going to get through this.

Unknown said...

I pray for you

Anonymous said...

Before their sudden marriage we heard they split nxt tin dey get married jst like that am sure twas sumtin like this that caused d split b4 dia so called marriage...my opinion is yalll shud chill n let them handle their ish in d end they may settle n Yall insulting maje will b like Wtf? Bt dts life oh bi una neva hear say dem no dey tok 4 relationship matters talkless of marriage

Cas_paul said...

Linda na wa for u ooo...Toke jst shared a foto,she doesn't look sad in fact she is stunning...d news hasn't been confirmed yet so relax.

cheiress said...

I love toke.....move on sweets, you're waaayyyy above

Unknown said...

A beg you guys should stop blaming the man, Toke once said she was not ready to give birth, the young man is dying to be a father. una jes de take panadol for another person headache. they have been together for 12 years, peace must reign amongst dem

Unknown said...

A beg you guys should stop blaming the man, Toke once said she was not ready to give birth, the young man is dying to be a father. una jes de take panadol for another person headache. they have been together for 12 years, peace must reign amongst dem

Anonymous said...

Most of the comments on instangram came from women that are jealous.. Stoke listen, every marriage has their issues... Let no one pity you, they shed pity themselves. Pls don't leave your husband, a lot of people are prsying for your divorce.. Stay strong and love your husband more

pattie said...

She represents Strong women all over d world.......her's public cos she's a celebrity.....its unimaginable what women are going through these days....

Unknown said...

Toke you the best don't worry our God is not asleep

Anonymous said...

People are saying make left side chick to marry Toke. But Toke had been with Maje for 12 year (a slave). My question is, was Maje with side chick before being with Toke? If my reasoning is correct, Maje met side chick while in a relationship with Toke.

Toke darling, please do not go back to that back staber.

Linda enjoy your freedom. Do not let any body force you into marriage.

Marriage is not all that's crancked up to be.

Anonymous said...

Dats wat she wants ........people's pity

Ladun Liadi said...

Luv her wide eyez

Unknown said...

Cinenky*** The lord is ur strength

Anonymous said...

Do not let media make your decisions for you hon. Do that yourslf. Remember Hillary

jasmine said...

Eminadoprincess has no chill whatsoever...I feel bad for toke..12yrs is not beans...I hope this is a prank tho

Unknown said...

All des gals commentin worst ooo...ashewo kobokobo dats wat most of dem are

Relationship counsellor said...

Y won't he cheat on her, she is so fake in my opinion. Always travelling n she is at every event instead of her to focus on her family. Not an excuse to cheat but sometimes this fame is a reason for broken homes.

Anonymous said...

Lol @to be married to a naija man no be beans! Jeez u guys have bad reputation ooh, am so scared of committing to any naija guy even the white men you learn from have morals than you lots, heartbreak everywhere cos you can't control yourself this is disgraceful , she should dump his arse and move on abeg, even if you want to cheat can't you use condoms at least? What if he had given her a very terrible std? And you all claim you love? That's no love, you naija men don't know how to practise this, this is a disgrace , stop your terrible attitudes it's not healthy to your significant other, just stop!

Anonymous said...

Lol @to be married to a naija man no be beans! Jeez u guys have bad reputation ooh, am so scared of committing to any naija guy even the white men you learn from have morals than you lots, heartbreak everywhere cos you can't control yourself this is disgraceful , she should dump his arse and move on abeg, even if you want to cheat can't you use condoms at least? What if he had given her a very terrible std? And you all claim you love? That's no love, you naija men don't know how to practise this, this is a disgrace , stop your terrible attitudes it's not healthy to your significant other, just stop!

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Anonymous said...

Lwkmd! I don't feel bad for her at all!!what rubbish,tchewww! When she's going for all the parties and stuff all over the world why won't he cheat on her!mtchewww... Abegi she should sit down

Unknown said...

quiet disappointing,,,she will pull through it by GOD's GRACE.. some men are really worthless..

Anonymous said...

All this public display of affection only for this to happen.....men!!!!!! My dear dont talk too much you dont know how many yours have outside.....

Kponskii said...

Toke is a total package. Something must be off to give way for this huge embarrassment. Of course, if this is true, then I wish for her to be strong. But a word of caution to those casting stones on her husband...u never know d true story!

Anonymous said...

Toke, this too shall pass. It is well. You are lucky you have a career going for you. My mum went through something similar to yours and lost out completely.
My advice in all of this is that no matter what, fight no one!

Anonymous said...

She is a strong woman. *Sigh

Anonymous said...

May U marry and love ur husband more when he does a thing like dat! Ode talk

Anonymous said...

Dere 12years of dating was on and off and toke dated oda guys in d process. Toke is vain and a runz girl. I don't pity her a bit,always wanting 2 belong. Y didn't she sit her arse down after her wedding so she can always get pregnant? But she prefers 2 go about thinking her tummy is flat. Rubbish. Maje isn't d 1st per 2 impregnate anoda lady.

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Anonymous said...

You are a very foolish person @Just Me.

Your foolishness is indeed folly !

Anonymous said...

Folly comment

Anonymous said...

One day you would walk down the aisle with your own DOg, idiotic reasoning

Unknown said...

I AM SORRY MY DEAR. YOU HAVE REALLY TRIED AND IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT AT ALL THAT THIS CHOSE TO HAPPEN TO YOU. SO I WROTE THIS LITTLE STUFF TO GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH TO MOVE ON.

PITY OR POWER
In the eyes of the world,
I have had my dignity spat on
My sincerity besmirched
My love called into question
My integrity jeered at.

I used to sit afloat the turbulent sea
Motioning the wind to a peaceful course.
I have broken the chains of Amistad,
Trod through burning coals,
Crushed the sabre held out against the World.
But Now, right now
Here I am,
My own little world crumbling
At the face of the World.
He stares brazenly at me.
He even says “ You see, I told you so.
Let us see what your bravery can afford now”

I try to stand firm and strong
My bone marred and fragile; weak from within.
The bone of my bone, Flesh of my flesh
Whose arms shall I lean on

A flash in my mind
An angel with a placard
“Pity or power!”
“Pity or power!”
A calming touch and a sigh of relief

Then I say
“I may be down and out
Hit the rock bottom
But I am not darned forever
The World will, in time to come,
See me moving Everest”
TO TOKE ..... IF YOU ARE TRUE TO YOURSELF , RAISE YOUR HEAD HIGH ABOVE ALL THE STONES HURLED TO YOU, AND WALK THAT WAY TO STRENGTH..
I DO NOT JUDGE PEOPLE

Unknown said...

Buhahahahaha that iam_whochay got me ROTFL

Anonymous said...

Sorry Toke oooo such is. Nigerian Women's and Men's lives .it would have been much easier if you did not publicise your personal life. See Elohorbshe went through the same thing but it was not so publicised and she even decidedvto stay with the husband even though he messed up and.......continues to. (choose what you want but choose wisely)

Unknown said...

Wht we go thru in life mostly d bad situations shouldn't define who or wht we r but we should define our lives wit wht d Lord says abt us.

I wish her well, and d very best of life therefore. God bless her abundantly.

Anonymous said...

Hmmm...I'm sure you are a woman. Women who talk the way you do will gladly sleep with a married man.

Mufliat said...

THIS TOO SHALL PASS AWAY.





#Hajia Mufliat#

Unknown said...

Rich her

Unknown said...

Lol.
Bt how is she enjoying the attention?

Anonymous said...

You seem to be the same person making terrible comments about this Toke lady. You must really hate her or you are related to the pregnant mistress. What goes around comes around. Go easy....that's my advice .

Anonymous said...

You seem to be the same person making terrible comments about this Toke lady. You must really hate her or you are related to the pregnant mistress. What goes around comes around. Go easy....that's my advice .

ebonydoc said...

U r an illiterate; infact, a retard! Just look at ur horrible grammar...u can't even spell well. shows u do not even know.d.meaning of.wat u have been saying for.years now "who are my"??? OMG! "I expected u to have leave"???? Smh for u. And one man would wife u stupid illiterate? Poor dude!
My candid advice for u is to sit ur.silly ass up and.get to ur.books already, rather.than waste precious time on dis blog. Thank me ONLY WHEN u have done as I rightly said!

Anonymous said...

Oh shutup. Are u a fly on the wall in their home? Abegi siddon. Even ashawos have lovely faithful husbands. Having one is just grace of God abegi. Or u want her to be like those that stay home all day bored waiting for husband to return from club? You primitive scumbag

andre kelvin said...

Yawns* another chris brown and karuche. (Hope u spelt the fucking name right)

NMaa said...

Amen

Anonymous said...

What has she been doing for 12years? The man needs children, he's not getting any younger. its not an excuse for him to cheat, but another woman got hold of him and she's already carrying his child. its a lesson to women, fashion and make up is good, but make out time to be with your man and give him kids. He will be busy paying bills and won't have much left over to cheat.

Anonymous said...

@Agukwe Dominica I am sure you must have given you father bone to eat this morning since you said All men are dogs

Anonymous said...

My thoughts exactly
If the lady is delivering already that means she was 3 months pregnant when Toke married the guy. Under strange circumstances
Who stole whose man

Anonymous said...

i feel we should drop this unnecessary comment about men not being faithful...lets face it, do we know what happened before her hubby started cheating on her? well, dts not an excuse to cheat. we r so quick to judge, typical of human. i wanna believe most of us raining abuses on the man got skeleton in our cupboards 2. Lets also note that telling lies in relationships makes us unfaithful to our spouse.

Let he who is without sin be the first to cast a stone is a well know saying in the Bible, so throwing stones at Toke's Hubby is only saying that we are not sinners.

ALL HAIL THE SAINTS!

Anonymous said...

Toke STAY AWAY from social media it looks like it is now your God ,you are dining with the Devil. This is Africa and not the USA if you can deal with what the kardashian are dealing with (without the dough ) continue.by force I must' be MRS you never start!!

Anonymous said...

Ewu! Anuohia! Idiot! Congo deported rat!

Anonymous said...

I'm a married woman but I don't pity her at allllllll. I follow her on Instagram, shez tooooOoooo busy being vain and posting pouting pics and I'm sure she doesn't have time for the poor guy. Shez hardworking and I love her for it but all d every-minute-pouting pics on IG ain't necessary at allllllll. Y'all check her IG page so u understand wat I mean. We married women know that no matter how busy we are wt work and kids, we still make time to play wife duties! She wants to be a hit and celebrated overnight and she forgets her man needs love/affection too. I don't see pics of her playing or having a romantic dinner wt her hubby, shez always pouting and showing off her 'Chinese women body' and human hairs wit hopes of being featured on lib. I'm not hating on her, but I feel shez tooo vain for my liking. I wasn't surprised wen I heard the news. I wish u well sha, learn frm ur mistakes and move on! Love ya..bells!

Anonymous said...

Am sure your hubby be fucking girls now even with number of time or attention you be giving him. So shut the fuck up. Ass! !!!

Anonymous said...

You must really be a bitter married woman....

Macdonald said...

Everyone should stop blaming the Man and are you sure she is not at fault maybe doing lesbianism with her fellow Women that resulted to the Husband being angry. Some Nigeria Women this days can do anything as some of them are doing.

Macdonald said...

Everyone should stop blaming the Man and are you sure she is not at fault maybe doing lesbianism with her fellow Women that resulted to the Husband being angry. Some Nigeria Women this days can do anything as some of them are doing.

yemisi said...

You are right, that girl should have no business with marriage. She keeps moving from place to place fucking all kinds of men including my politician husband , celebrity my ass. The gut never wanted her bleached skin, she forced herself on him. Fake life, she can't even cook for the man, it's party to party, just fucking around

Anonymous said...

I wish pple can walk in Toke's shoes right now to understand her private pain! The strange woman dat got pregnant for him knowing he is married will never know peace or joy! It's only God that will heal n comfort Toke thru this difficult time to not hang her head but press on!

Anonymous said...

See her she probably does not give they guy any so he will find happiness else where I beg pls.

Anonymous said...

EXACTLY ANON 11.31...SEE HER COMMENT SEF, SHE DOES NOT CARE, VAIN STICK, SURE SHE DOESN'T EVEN GIVE THE MAN ANY, PLS LET HIM MARRIED THE OTHER WOMAN....NO PITY FOR HER.

Thanks said...

@ifechukwu kings your poem got me so teary eyed. I hope toke gets to read it.

Anonymous said...

@anoy 11:31pm. Pls shut up. So being featured on lib is an achievement. What a fool you are

Switch said...

This is the best comment from Nicole King
I'm not ready to lick ass or comfort Toke. I'm actually disappointed in her. Everyone is saying 'it can happen to anyone' but lets be realistic, as a smart woman u can try to AVOID these things. U dated a man for 12 years. Thats enough to know everything. After 12years its safe to even call him ur brother cos then u know him like ur palm.
Reports said he dated d other woman for 8years. Toke didn't know? Can u pretend for 8 whole years?
I'm one of her biggest fans. Watching her on hipTV always inspire me to get ontop of my career game. Its good to be ambitious and popular but once u get married, career comes SECOND. Men are babies. They try to act strong blah blah but trust me they need u. Toke was always going on events, shows. She was practically everywhere. Who knew if she had no time to cook, offer good sex, play & pamper him.? A wise woman knows how to joggle between career and her home.
After 12 years, maybe the man got tired of waiting. He needed a baby and the enemy won him over with that. We cant question why Toke isn't pregnant yet. God is a giver of children but I still feel she was too COMFORTABLE. U can never relent when dealing with men. U ain't too fine, rich, superb to be cheated on. He was always traveling to Calabar. How comes Toke didn't know? Was she even around? Sigh I hate stories like this.
this isn't a justification to cheat as a man. Her husband just ruined her reputation and her Heart. God will judge that man in a way he wont forget. May the Lord help us

Anonymous said...

These advice gose to men.Dont allow anybody to sweet talk you get awife .The so call side chick has been with these guy for along time too. May be he suddenly realise that fame and moey doesnt bring love and happiness. this calabar is still giving him the spark , afterall no crime is commited here .polygamy is allowed in nig . madam should learn to deal with tese for long time

Unknown said...

you re so damn right ..

Unknown said...

you re so damn right

Anonymous said...

I WONDER WHY THEY ARE BLAMING HER HUBBY PLS TOKE SHOULD COME OUT AND SWEAR IF SHE HAS NOT CHEATED ON HER HUBBY THEREAFTER I CAN SEND AMADIOHA TO STRIKE MAJE DOWN!!

Ikuku AmStrong said...

So matured. My respect for her just shot up! 👌✌

Creme of the Crop said...

let me just leave this gem here now, YOU WOULD ALWAYS LOOSE TO A CALABAR/AKWA IBOM GIRL. Point Blank PERIOD! To know an Akwa Ibom girl is to fall hopelessly in LOVE with her, no explanation needed, but no one else would stand a chance, unless of course another Akwa Ibom girl :) Tink It.

But sorry o Toke,these things happen. You didn't stand a chance, but you just didn't know. You're a fine babe and im sure you can do better anyway. Stay strong!

Anonymous said...

You really really think you have the "formula" for preventing your hubby from cheating? Lmao!!! I know women who tend to their hubbies like they are their last borns and these hubbies have "wandering penis" disease. Young and old couples alike (talking about length of marriage here). And as Anon 9:18 implied...likewise I know some who don't even send, but their hubbies worship the round they walk on. A man who is going to cheat, will cheat. A weak man, is a weak man. Period! It simply takes the grace of God. C'est fini!

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