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Thursday, 18 June 2015

"The show must go on' - Toke Makinwa talks about cheating men in new Vlog

In her Vlog this week, Toke Makinwa addressed men who cheat on women & why the society needs to stop blaming the women. She directly addressed her own situation, saying;
"I'm not going to carry on like my world has not been completely turned upside down. I know that a lot of you have read what you might have read. Thank you for your prayers and emails" she said
She then tells women not to ever blame themselves if men cheat on them, that they should keep their heads up, saying it's not the end of the world and that the sun will shine again. Watch the video after the cut...




160 comments:

Davido's driver said...

Indeed it must go on

Davido's driver said...

Strong woman. When is he hearing from your lawyers? Lindaobserve

Anonymous said...

THATS MA GURL.......






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Anonymous said...

THATS MA GURL.......






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Unknown said...

Nice one Toke

Amy said...

I love her now more than ever!!!

Anonymous said...

This girl is a liar! she used to sleep with old married men for money back in unilag now she wants to form that she is a victim. What goes around comes around

Anonymous said...

Toke mii. Tokstar of life. Ur the defination of strength of a woman! Love ya. Xoxo

Anonymous said...

Toke mii. Tokstar of life. Ur the defination of strength of a woman! Love ya. Xoxo

Anonymous said...

How many men did you make cheat on their wives toke? You were an aristo chic! Abi have you forgotten? you and AMARA and the whole crew!!!! We know what you used to do.
Please go jare

BLAQ said...

Good for her, make she pele. it is well

Unknown said...

Enjoy the fame, honey.

Blog It With Olivia said...

†ђξ show must go on ooooooo






#ITwillONLYgetBETTER
#itMUSTendINpraise

Unknown said...

Be confident


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Unknown said...

I hope she finds the one that will treat her right.


OKORO UPGRADED**

Unknown said...

Toke just be strong that's all

Anonymous said...

Toke remember when you told the whole Moremi that your Aristo was going to take you on a private jet? Tell me was HE married? He was married abi? Did that stop you from sleeping with him? So who is to blame?

Chyke said...

Toke U have to move on. The sun will shine again I believe. Salvage the marriage and don't form association of cheated wives. It wouldn't help and don't let this define your life abeg!

Daniel said...

am so sorry Toke.... ur so broken...its well

Unknown said...

I admire her courage. Linda take note!




Okiie, notice to all LIBERs. Didn't want to do dis before but I gex I just have to do it as a disclaimer. One idiot on dis blog stole my identity, my name & signage. So please any negative comments on dis blog is not coming from me but from the thief cos I would neva say anything bad about someone or wish anyone evil. So I have gone back to using my old pix & my email address is (julie3er@gmail.com). Linda take note!

Unknown said...

So after every whats the next move toke? Forget long talk.

Anonymous said...

GUD FOR HER....TOMJERRYSWIT

jayseksi said...

you just won my heart

BONARIO NNAGS said...

Better for her.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

Anonymous said...

She's really holding up well...I can't begin to imagine Wt she's going tru...

Anonymous said...

Toke STFU. Take a chill pill and keep your advise to yourself.

Anonymous said...

Toke STFU. Take a chill pill and keep your advise to yourself.

Unknown said...

I think we've had enuf of Toke Makinwa already abeg.. na she be d first person wey go experience heartbreak?? Sho.. its annoying jare Linda. Pls enuf.. na person send an to dey do busy body up n down all in d name of building her career. Nonense.. d truth is if she divorce this one, d next man she's going to get married to will always do same(not a curse) if she doesn't face her home instead of jumping up n down.. smh

Unknown said...

When u talk of cheating in a r/ship is a two way traffic, cause ones action always trigger another to act stupid which results to d cheating. So u can't talk bout cheating in isolation. ....

Unknown said...

Ok oooo. God bless her abundantly, and I wish her well. Thumbs up, and more power to her elbows.

Unknown said...

Most men r controlled by d tin between their leg, I feel for toke but one thing is real, she is a very strong woman and I blv she has moved on. God bless her. Dave

Unknown said...

What I don't understand women is when you people tie cheating on men! Imagine. Married man cheating on his wife with a young girl and that same girl has a boyfriend who she is cheating on! So what the fuck r u all saying like the men when they cheat like they r doing it with goats pls you all women tying cheating to men should look inward by first taking the back seat

Anonymous said...

Please can you be updating us on consequent videos?

Anonymous said...

You are one hell of a woman.

Anonymous said...

Ok

Miz Lu said...

Don't look for ways to win your man back, keep spitting rubbish and keep being MTN.
You contributed to this s**t, so stop b****ing around. Woman up and save your public marriage/property/husband.

Anonymous said...

Lame loser..mtcheeeew..the sun will definitely shine always. Women are funny pple who dont just get it. A man is a man. If you do not play your role with zeal, you will lose him. Now she is seeking for support, pity and talking about cheating men. I am sure she is even reading philosophical quotes of Aristotle and co. Yes, its true men are not saints, neither are women too. Wat happened is purely human nature. In this very highly competitive fast paced world,if you dont fight hard,you will lose wat you cherish and end up as a women feelings activist. So dont blame men, pick yurself and move on wit yur life. Let this experience be a lesson to you. Cheers

Miz Lu said...

Don't look for ways to win your man back, keep spitting rubbish and keep being MTN.
You contributed to this s**t, so stop b****ing around. Woman up and save your public marriage/property/husband

Clement p said...

thank God for toke she has already get over the situation and moving on. morals of d video do not let situation to pull u down as if life has no meaning again but continue to move on with your life better things are coming your way. sometimes you see somepple frustrated becos of what mere human did to them. move on sister becos a mere human being like u can never deprive you of your joy. But women don suffer sha.

Debbie Chelsea said...

Kool

Anonymous said...

She is as annoying as they come. Give me a break, Toke.Who made her the relationship expert? She need to focus on her life and understand that the guy heart belongs to the other woman.

Anonymous said...

She is as annoying as they come. Give me a break, Toke.Who made her the relationship expert? She need to focus on her life and understand that the guy heart belongs to the other woman.

Unknown said...

What's she feeling like?? Ehn?? A superstar woman.. na she sabi abeg...as for me I blame u Omotoke for what ur husband's action..evry1 is entitled to their own opinion..so as for me that's my opinion..lobatan

Debbie Chelsea said...

Kool

Bia Bia said...

Okay plenty talk but u go accept the black charcoal toad back?.......@Bia Bia💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

SANDRA said...

Exactly my point, this is wat I tell most of my friends, Grieve and move on life is too short honey

miz classical said...

Aunty toke sorry u hear..#linda dis my first time here* wish to be called linda daughter#

Anonymous said...

Hey Linda, the wall photo that used to be at d background has been removed....����

Anonymous said...

Notice her wedding pic is no longer on the wall...
My dear life goes on.
If you are a nigerian man and have never cheated comment here

Unknown said...

It is well with her....

Unknown said...

Chai

Unknown said...

You're such an inspiration Toks,God bless your beautiful soul dull. I realized more how strong you are yesterday; when i lost something so dear to me,and i was like if this could happen to Toks and she still pulls through and gracefully grins from ear to ear...why not me? Life comes with its' moments of trials but with God's grace,we pull through. In all things,i can still proudly bless my God cos He liveth. *BraveHeart *God'sVeryOwn xo...

Anonymous said...

Ok she don change topic lol ... I tot b4 she was giving tips on how to hold a naija guy .. babe sorry o ... Experience is d best teacher at d same tym the harshest

Unknown said...

Don't create your own storm and cry when it's rain. ....

Unknown said...

Don't create your own storm and cry when it's rain. ....

Angelhil said...

SHE UNDERSTANDS LIFE, SHE DONT NEED TO BE WORRIED OVER THE ISSUE COS WHERE THERE IS LIFE , THERE IS HOPE

Anonymous said...

As for those WOMEN esp that said its cos she won't keep her legs one place.
YOU ARE VERY VERY STUPID.
So she shudn't do her work so that the day he decides to leave. she will have nothing. Clap for urselves.
Your mothers that were stay at home wives didn't ur fathers still cheat bcos "they were not as ambitious as d secretary"
you mothers that gave ur fathers u, didn't they still cheat.
They'll say its bcos they "lost" themselves or didnt take care of themselves
Beyonce and Toke don't they take care of themselves?

MORAL OF THE STORY: A man that wants to cheat will cheat REGARDLESS of what you do, if u like have sex from morning till night, doesn't change a thing.


Just know that if u r ever cheated upon IT WASN'T YOUR FAULT, its a reflection of who that person is, has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.
Be ambitious, Look good everyday, Accept yourself, strive to be better daily, LOVE earnestly but just know that this wouldn't make any human do right by you, unless THEY CHOOSE to and fear God.

Anonymous said...

I like your spirit girl. You are indeed a role model for many cheated wives out their including me. God is your strength

Unknown said...

Oh! Please. Can we move unto another topic!... She's enjoying every bit of the attention like this is what she has ever wanted.. Spare me this sermon on the mount Biko 😝

Anonymous said...

This baby is obviously sick.

Anonymous said...

Now I understand the whole thing is a publicity stunt. 👏🏿

Anonymous said...

it will give me much joy to see the present governor of IMO state arrested he has done worst more than anyone can imagine , nothing like civil service rule deceiving the people with free education , collecting lands at will with his in law Uche nwaosu and present has added another sob in law to join in looting the peoples money . if one should check road constructed you would see non is of standard except that leading to his place , serious people need to look into his case and stop being stupid about the free education cause the civil servants are suffering same goes for pensioners . most annoying part is the people are to blind to see mostly the rural people .... ma eye don see ma ear done hear tire IMO state has been turned to rochas owelles family business , ask about the one thousand job he gave and how many have been paid and those paid how many times they have been paid , now he says IMO government is owing him .... all lies which he is telling , sweet talking the people without brain n putting them out to fight the truth and cover up his evil act ..... please something should be done b4 he completely kill IMO system of government

Unknown said...

Shit apuns jare

Oyakhilome said...

Nigeria's version of Kim k. Now get show rating will skyrocket and she's definitely gonna smile to the bank and probably write a bestseller book detailing her emotional trauma. The whole fiasco is just another avenue to make money. Not moved.

Anonymous said...

Cute toke
~D great anonymous!

farggie said...

You cannot completely rule out that women shouldn't be blamed bcos there are some women out there who are responsible for why men cheat

MADE IN NIGERIA said...

She is a strong woman.....

Anonymous said...


Ah..So, is she still living with Maje? This one we're still seeing the same grey and black background. lol!

Anonymous said...

I love you toke...I see the pain in your eyes buh it's well with you..let's not give up on love,dnt pay evil with evil,let's love one another jst as Christ love the church..as for your husband and Anita karma is still the baddest bitch remember!

Unknown said...

GOOD FOR HER. But obviously I don't see her as a god mentor for married women or aspiring singles.
When you haven't kept your home and you are advising others. Your husband is cheating, you knew yet you poke other men who does that. Oh!! sowee ooo, you knew he is a cheater yet you married him, then advise single ladies not to marry 'cheaters, foolish men' and her other ways of describing men on her vlog. Come to think of her hid and seek wedding last year or two, the reason for it now all add up. Smh!!

Guys see (www.noozyes.blogspot.com)for news that will improve y'all.

Unknown said...

The video is saying something different na.

Unknown said...

Ples toke it's okkk oooo after all u re not d first woman a man has cheated on or u want to tel me u ave never cheated on ur spouse ples u people should take ur relationship mater inside nd stop disturbing us ples, it takes a strong woman to handle her relationship not doing it public after all no relationship is perfect only God knows if u ave not done sumtin to offend d man, so pleesssss.

Unknown said...

Ples toke it's okkk oooo after all u re not d first woman a man has cheated on or u want to tel me u ave never cheated on ur spouse ples u people should take ur relationship mater inside nd stop disturbing us ples, it takes a strong woman to handle her relationship not doing it public after all no relationship is perfect only God knows if u ave not done sumtin to offend d man, so pleesssss.

Uche said...

And she took the picture off the wall, I am so happy she s doing so well.

Anonymous said...

I can't stand dis girl.. she loves the media more than anything even more than her marriage... I don't blame maje at all... that's why she ended up this way... truth is bitter but it must be said... attention lover....

Anonymous said...

WOW!!!!!! unbelievable how strong this girl can be, and when her type of people decide to act according to how they're meant to react to a situation, they end of blowing UP!! plus all she was saying in that question part, i feel was all about her.

thatgirlyouwant said...

Word....I respect the fact that she isn't even slandering the mofo

Anonymous said...

This babe is strong, am sure so many people thought she will hide but she continued living her life. Hmmm life must go on


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Anonymous said...

Never bn a fan of Toke but I just fell inlove with her this period, shez strong. God will Heal ur mind.

Nky said...

thats the spirit huni.

Anonymous said...

this one is more concerned with her wack "fame" than her home matters. i guess. #toeachhisown

Unknown said...

Lol she has removed the pic behind?!
I just dey observe

Unknown said...

I disagree with toke totally women should be blamed if men keep cheating cos wether they like it or not dey keep sayin yes after being enticed. Most gurls now prefer married men to young or single men forgetin wat u sow is wat u reap

ary said...

Women are their own biggest enemies, imagine some women here blaming this woman for the demise of her own relationship, saying she is pretending to be strong when she should be crying, like seriously women, why give her idiot husband the satisfaction of having betrayed and hurt her?!!

dozzy44 said...

nne come here make i marry you. wetin dey work you? i no go break your heart

Anonymous said...

Strong woman

Unknown said...

Heart break has never killed anyone and would never do. it is how you chose to deal with it that matters. The popular saying that "what never kills you makes you stronger". I love you Toke for the amazing strength in dealing with this issue. I pray God leads and direct you. Proudly Tokstarr General..... If you are going through any heart break, my advice is to channel the energy you use in crying and thinking of the "heart breaker" into a positive energy,something you love to do and you will be amazed. Adele is a good example of that.

Anonymous said...

Ululating in my Zulu language Toke you are kinging if Nigeria dont want you come to SA. You are strong woman and you don't bow down to men. Stupid fools will be telling you to go home and cry because they have no purpose in life. You go girl. Let those who live to fulfill men do it get on with life

Anonymous said...

see ur life, that what happens when you over embrace the yankee culture, display affections onlone. pls take your marriage matter off line and resolve. I wsih you luck and happiness, settle with ur man

Lil Missie said...

Toke, i salute your courage. Yes i know u'll cry in d comfort of ur home ova dis terrible betrayal by ur ingrate husband, but dount we all from tym to tym....U dnt kill urself ova somebody else's stupidity, pick urself up n move on. You alone know wat's best for u. Kip being strong and kip keeping on babes!

Unknown said...

Good.

@will.la.grande said...

i admire her will to go on , but please peo[ple before u start judging remember that you aint in that family and as such no know knows what really happened and that everyone has their own kettle of fish. my two cents

Unknown said...

Good.

Anonymous said...

NICE1

Chi chi said...

The strength of this young, hardworking, and courageous young lady is inspiring.

Show must indeed go on, his loss, your gain.

I truly admire her. Toke double respect. Salute!

Anonymous said...

The first time I ever stumbled on Toke's Vlog being mentioned on Linda's blog. Hmmmph, Linda.....

Anonymous said...

I like that,people should learn to be less judgemental, cos u never know ,nne keep moving forward,blame d dog maye,no excuse for anytin

Unknown said...

She said, '...my world has been...' not 'has not' as you wrote.

Anonymous said...

I'm so in luv wit this Lady.....Bless u Toke

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Na WA o. Dis life is just a pot of beans

Anonymous said...

Can you all leave Toke alone.

Unknown said...

Really? They should not blame themselves? Wasn't she the one that said if you sleep with hair nets on, then your husband should cheat on you? So now she has realized she doesn't kno it all and that she shouldnt force her opinions on others, cos I'm sure she doesn't wear hair nets to sleep but yet... Well, I'm happy to know she has rebounced and that she's not leaving her marriage

Unknown said...

No doubt ur pretty tho.. But have we heard his own side of the story & a fair note before we all judge something must have twitched

Anonymous said...

OMG, did not realize that this girl is local. Her accent is so fake, forced and uneven.

Unknown said...

Awww toke

Just Saying said...

Toke is one strong woman! Sheer bravery in the eye of the storm. My respect for her just went up 1000%. So proud of you Toke....life must continue inspite of the drama.

Anonymous said...

toke is the cause for her man cheating........

Unknown said...

She is yet to see more cos that guy is an animal and she is got tough bones to take it all

Anonymous said...

She's a strong woman

I B M bolubantin said...

So sad but true

Anonymous said...

Linda this is what I call abosi or aproko. You have never featured Toke's Vlog on this blog. So surprising you are doing that. Well, Toke life must continue. And Linda you too should look well ooo. Eyes are on you.

Anonymous said...

God bless you and make you happy always!

Anonymous said...

With wedding photo consciously missing in the background clearly shows is definitely not on top of her game.all blah blah blah. Lacks finesse & Grace, sorry not a fan.

Anonymous said...

I just love her even more!

Unknown said...

Well said, life continue,

Unknown said...

Plesss enough toke, take ur marriage issue inside after all, all marriages ave issue it takes the stronger 1c to be able to handle it nd ples don't tel me u ave never cheated on ur spouse ok dats why I love annie (2face wife) if na u na die u go die.

Unknown said...

WORD!
WORD WORD!!
WORD WORD WORD!!!
The fake whore is like a wounded Queen Cobra n is out to destroy as many r/ships as possible.
Ladies gotta watch out 4 her venoms n thread cautiously while ingesting it.

Unknown said...

Bitch is pathetic.
Folks that don't know bout the whole tale r lookin at her as the Victim.

LA' SUNSHINE said...

Pls keep quiet jare just hear yourself talk u re d bigger liar! ur hate for dis lady have consume u so much.

Unknown said...

Role model?
Common:

Anonymous said...

Right on. Can't a woman be blamed for where a man inserts his penis.

Anonymous said...

And you are a man.

Ewu

Anonymous said...

Thanks u just gave d best talk n advise

Anonymous said...

Unless the truth is said, can't blame d guy. Might be Tokes fault anyway. Let her stop acting like d victim. Its so easy to advise others!!!!!!¡

Anonymous said...

Unless the truth is said, can't blame d guy. Might be Tokes fault anyway. Let her stop acting like d victim. Its so easy to advise others!!!!!!¡

Unknown said...

Wht goes around come around. So she should stop all dis cheap publicity as if she is d first person, and last person dat wil ever experience dis.

Unknown said...

Good advice for her, let her forgive, and embrace wht happened bcos potential hubby r scarce dis days. So she better hav re-think.

Anonymous said...

whc ones?

Anonymous said...

how does she love d media more than her marriage pls explain?

Anonymous said...

@billy, stop defending, might be true

Anonymous said...

Karma!

Unknown said...

Why are people so retarded

Unknown said...

Everybody have a past...so do u

Unknown said...

People

Amycool cyril said...

publicity stunt, life continues

soso said...

The one ingredient missing in the whole talk is the word of God. The word of God is the only thing that can guide a man right and not personal experiences or head knowledge. It is well with you!

Anonymous said...

Is it not better than to lose love and also lose money....my dear bye bye to the days women sacrifice love n money just for societal approval....if u like move if u like no move....okwu akagi

Anonymous said...

Eyaaaah....see u r life, so should sneak into a hole because of another human being's decision....u lie....it won't work this time.....she will speak her truth n she will survive.

Mo said...

Stupid liar. Toke was never hungry and was never an aristo girl. Haba world people!

Unknown said...

Life goes on. Her strength amaze me. Wish her the best.



#TeamBlessed#

Anonymous said...

facking fame seeking hoe!!!

Anonymous said...

If u don't know Billyki...then shut up...hv u been a runz girl too ? Why defending her ? Let those who knw her story talk Abeg..is Toke ur Mentor ?

Anonymous said...

I have more respect for you Toke for being open and vulnerable during this tough period in your life. Shine on lady. This is only a temporary setback. God bless you.

Zizi said...

All marriages have their own issues, make we hear word TOKE

Juleslouis said...

This woman is just wearing a strong face. Deep inside she has exceeded her boiling and melting points. God would comfort her. Its not easy loving an asshole!

Anonymous said...

Yes she can be her mentor. Just shut the hell up and imagine how stupid you sound so if she did runz then one useless and condemned girl called Anita abi na sunita will just think her life revolves around one man even if he will leave her, go and marry somebody else and be sleeping with her by the side. Na so her market bad reach dat nobody is willing to buy except dis man? Haba! Na wa o

Anonymous said...

So? Shoro Niyen?

Unknown said...

Why are you referring it to women,,,,,, you should console yourself first,,,,,,,,,sorry luv

Bimbo said...

Anon 4:09, u v said it all. Best comment ever

Bimbo said...

Do you know if she owns d house?

Bimbo said...

Nawah 4 u oh madam Angelina, causer ni. Wen ur own husband cheats on u, pls remember to blame urself

Anonymous said...

Omg! Your grammar!!!

Kenn. said...

I really like Toke a whole lot, but funny i don't feel sorry for her about this 'cos I have always believed in my heart that her real man is Nanya Diale, I hope they both realize that now.

Kenn. said...

...but again, some of you guys are really terrible. The word "forgive" in never in your dictionary, I mean having to go dig thru her university life? like you are all saints...f@%king hypocrites!

Anonymous said...

Nna tell them..#in omata voice

Anonymous said...

Toke Makinwa the law of karma @ work... remember back then in Unilag you were dating Professor Segun Awonusi and you are fully aware he is a married man...

U see ur life now... What goes around comes around..

Unknown said...

i think they said courage is what it takes move on even when the world are upside.. may God be with you toke....

Anonymous said...

Toke Makinwa law of karma @ work

Anonymous said...

The truth be say toke mouth too smell. Kai! ! If you smell am once, you no go quick forget. Make try! E for no easy to the smell that rotten mouth. Sha, Warri boys get mind no be today.

Anonymous said...

All you losers commenting on the relationship , how do you know he is in love with the other woman? get might have just tried to have a quickie and got caught out.... also I am sure she is the stalker that toke was talking about about a month ago - maybe maje was weak and could resist any more - things aren't always as cut and dry as they seem .....one thing is for sure a toke's husband has got another woman pregnant and you are blaming toke?? really how does that even work - not the 2 stanks that were meeting up to knock boots together - some people are always quick to blame the victim....smh

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