I love it. I share the same sentiments. Many African men r still on that boat of thought, but by the time love starts to n'atu ka mmaya ... oh, he will fall in line. Note: u don't sober up from true love. Times r changing. Back then, the women were situated as property at home. Now we work, just like u and even bring home more money despite the wage discrimination. I think a hear a clap from above for women ... I know God, we are fantastic :D lol.
Somebody better not quote some adam and eve story now ... lol
Sista is tripping!!!!! Poor girl has just been dumped because she refused to cook or cannot cook. I could feel the passion in her desire not to cook. I no go even chop wetin e cook because dis one fit poison man. Dont expect good sex...... this lady is psycho!!!!! After seeing this clip, the man wey marry this one put for house must know sey na from im village dem throw the arrow.
Too much blah blah blah but i get it! She is right! She knws her shit! Shivery is dead! because it's not required! Most Ladies dnt hve standards anymore, dnt expect to treated well! So most men basically do as they please! What ever happened to romance? What ever happened to a Gentleman's good conduct and manners? i'll tell you what happened! Just like she said, Girls! stop chasing men o! Men r supposed to be chasing you! ah ah! Then they will be green with envy when they see a man treating and loving his woman right! That is bcos in the courting game.... she knws her place, she is the queen and he is trying to impress her to become her king!
Linda, i beg get someone to write her a script... She has comic talent, seriously! A good funny script!
You won't cook? You wont cook? You wont cook? Okay. Stay by thyself. I'm taking a second and third wife with immediate effect. They both will be younger than you. You are free to move out of my house immediately. Call your dad now now. I want full refund with full interest and full compensation (for all the stress and headache you gave me) for the dowry I paid :)
As a man listening to this, I will say that she does not deserve to be insulted and disrespected, she is only expressing her personal opinion about an issue that is dear to her. I think she is disguising some hurt with the cooking issue. It should not be about cooking but caring for a man that also cares for you. If a man can take his time and resources to 'woo' the woman then there is nothing wrong with a reciprocal gesture of caring for him in a manner that pleases as long as it is not slavery. Her indignant stand on not cooking for a man because they are not married however expecting the man to cook and woo her is not only selfish but immature. If after two years a relationship that is based on love breaks down then the love must have faded away somewhere along the line and it might just be that the man that she says love her got tired of loving a selfish person.
Dear Yeesuuuus..........am about to get fired watching this gal at work she just cracked me over am dead!!!!! hahahaha............SO SO SO SO TRUE! am your girlfriend not your househelp i have my own house to clean and to cook in...once in a while when am touched yes.....but dont get mistaken...Xmas isnt everyday!!!!! Marry me first then we sit and talk!
@Anon 10:43 AM....Why the insults? If you do not agree with her, fine.. No need for the namecalling..she is not forcing her opinion down your throat.Be civil!
I think she is hilarious and I agree that women who believe that by cooking and cleaning for a man, they will secure themselves that inevitable proposal are serious jokers.
i like this girl and she makes some really good points. all the girls dissing her i c r the ones that slave for their men so go ahead n do tht but dnt diss someone else to make ur stupid selves feel better.
hilarious!!!! i laffed so much!!! but she does make some valid points. Do everything for the right reasons and with a heart of love most importantly but easy on the insults dear(stupid,idiots?) not very nice. Fun to watch, this girl does not give a Damn!!! lol
*sigh* I suppose my video is everywhere now? Bring on the insults people! I've received the worst of them lol. I'm tired of explaining myself. At this point, let everyone get worked up because of my opinion.
If you have a man, and are loved you wont go on a youtube spree to lay down any opinions and laws about men and their women OR women and their men.
You are messing up your chances. No man wants to hang out with a girl condemning generations of evolving men. No two men are the same, when it comes to personal bonding characteristics. There are flavours. Some men looove to spoil their women rotten in their own way.
Cooking is only one thing a woman can do for a man. What happened to taking care of your body, looking great, being graceful, hardworking, loving, being real, being supportive and expect to 'harvest' what you sow into a relationship.
If you date a 'no-good' man, dump him or get dumped and move on. Technology might turn out to be your biggest enemy. Use your time wisely. If you think I am lying wait and see what happens to a lovely flower when its winter....
I personally see no reason a lady should not cook for my boyfriend. So long as it is done with the right intentions. If u are cooking for a man so he can marry you, then u have missed ur priority and would end up in doom. I personally cook for my boyfriend bcos i love love love cooking. If he dumps me tomorrow, i have no regrets. I would advice every woman who watches this video thingy to be very selective of what message u pick from this video. Some tend to be misleading.
@ Annon 10:43 AM..ur just mad cos ur part of the mumu women she is talking about..lool..y will u say something like that about another person?..is she not free to voice her opinion?..im sure u r not even half as fine as she is..u r part of those people that enjoy bringing down others to make urself feel good.. and for u n annon 9:35am..she sed..cook for him if u want..but for the right reasons..she doesnt want to cook..but u can slave away in the kitchen if it will make u happy..shikena...ya'll just mad cos u no she is describing u guys..admit it!..the way to his heart is thru his stomach...thats ur moto rite?..lwkmd!..
Am sure ur relationship ended bcos ur guy was tired of eating "true love" for 2 yrs. Personally, there is nothing wrong with a girl cooking for her bf so long as its done with the right intentions. Rather than " So he can marry me" I cook for mere friends because i am a caterer so y cant i cook for my bf? Btw, Modern civilized men are not dating u so u can cook but its part of the traits men want their women to have because it prolongs and excites the relationsp. Well, to each her own. If cooking for ur man did not fetch u a ring or end happily, mine fetched me a ring and continues happily. So let every body do what works best for them. Shikena.
@ Annon 10:43 AM..ur just mad cos ur part of the mumu women she is talking about..lool..y will u say something like that about another person?..is she not free to voice her opinion?..im sure u r not even half as fine as she is..u r part of those people that enjoy bringing down others to make urself feel good.. and for u n annon 9:35am..she sed..cook for him if u want..but for the right reasons..she doesnt want to cook..but u can slave away in the kitchen if it will make u happy..shikena...ya'll just mad cos u no she is describing u guys..admit it!..the way to his heart is thru his stomach...thats ur moto rite?..lwkmd!..
I think this girl was raised in the Western world,her view is from what she what taught by her mum and her enviroment.She sucks!!!!!!! Tell her to beta go find work do.Im sure she no go get a perfect home since she no ready to be humble a man.
I love the way she talks, she doesnt even attempt to change her accent, even though she lives abroad..pretty natural beauty she is..you go gurl!! i feel your sentiment
at anon 10:43 u can go to HELL!! for all we care. she's got an excellent point. i guess she's talking to someone like u dats y u don't agree with her statement. MTSHEWWWWWWWWW!!!
when women say,men don't know what they want it amazes me. The fact that a man gives you the run around and is not committed its cause he knows what he wants and it's not you. Saying he doesn't know what he wants is your escape route. He knows what he wants and he didnt find it in you.
All of you insulting Anon 10:43 have just shown how dumb senseless and immature u all are. she is entitled to her opinion. If you do not agree, bring out constructive arguments rather than insulting. it only goes to show how bush u lot can be. Unless those insulting are imbeciles as well, then it is understandable. Nonsense.
Ok, so you won't marry a girl who can't cook? Fine.
I won't marry a man who has no job (or shall we say, known job), who still lives with his mother, who thinks his ex-girlfriend is the epitome of womanhood (why are you not with her?), who thinks the earth revolves around him, who does not know how to pick up after himself, who is not independent of his mother and father and 12 brothers and sisters and finally who is always trying to set a World Guinness record for fastest sex.
Odds are a large number of men will cheat with or without your cooking skills, so why bother?
All you women are confused because as soon as ur done commenting, you'll still cook for your husband. boyfriend. the igboitic gal is just heart broken. dont worry, she will cook for her next boyfriend. she never see anything . she go old tire. u girls should continue deceiving yourselves oh.
@ anonymous 8:13 really??She is bush because she has an accent?She is igbo what should her accent be? colonial mentality has obviously scattered you brain.You are rather shallow..damn!
Haaaaha LWKMD what!!! my goodness is she for real na typical igbo lady and it looks like she has just been dumped by her man and I would not be surprised if it was because she can not cook.
As Africans, that is part of a woman's responsibility and eventhough I am a highly educated woman and have a successful career i still hold that place of cooking for a man high so all this nonsense that she is saying would not help her in life as long as she does not want to remain single in her old age.
So she better learn to cook period otherwise..... Hahaha this is too funny.
YOU ARE SPEAKING THE TRUTH! men think that a woman has to go all out of her way to please him, AS FAR AS COOKING FOR HIM, but they don't wanna do anything for women? they think using their prick is all it takes? last time i checked, it takes two to tango!
this girl is a natural IGBOTIC beauty. all of you females saying she is this, that, and the other probably have all your brazilian weaves and tons and tons of makeup. as for the males, YOU'RE JUST MAD BECAUSE SHE WILL NOT COOK FOR YOU. is it her job? is she your mama?
for people saying she got dumped? hehehe, you people are angry no be small ooo!
btw....Yegazie, you got me rolling on the floor! hahahaha! those people making fun of your accent are those that suffer from inferiority complex/colonial mentality. they get angry when people like stephanie okereke form accents, but wanna also talk crap when someone is being natural and speaking in an accent that comes natural to her? you are Igbo, so what do they expect you to sound like. don't mind them, RIDE ON GIRL!
See people and their shallowness!!!!Choi! Her delivery is exactly how she wanted it to be....a faux serious demeanor even though you and I know that she wanted it to be entertaining as well as relevant. while I dont agree with all that she said, I still love the delivery. Hate the message not the messenger.
LOL!!! Linda, i posted this video on my FB wall about three days ago and it's still making waves. It's HILARIOUS!!! Can't stop laughing!!! I guess that's just how she feels. She's only 22 anyway, so she doesn't have to cook for anyone right now when you has her studies to concentrate on. Abeg make una free d babe jor, i'm sure she'd change her mind when she gets to her later twenties or so; it really is not that SERIOUS at present, so lighten up y'all and just enjoy the humour in it. It is her view and she did point out that it was one sided anyway.
As for me, you know me now Linda...how can a Calabar babe not know how to cook? In fact, that is one of my GREATEST qualities and I WILL COOK FOR EVERYBODY, be you man or woman, because I LOVE COOKING. Anyone up for some very rich Afang soup with ekporoko, dried fish, shrimps, snails, kpomo et al at my place this weekend? Only yoking oh mbok, i no need stalkers! Hehehe...
u guys criticizing her are falling all over yourselves taking her seriously..wow some ppl are really wound up so tightly...she is just joking and u are being so ridiculous by abusing her..do u really think she doesnt cook??..didnt u see her frozen fish and frozen meat and yam poundo...doesnt that tell u she cooks???...pls lighten up and get the joke!!!...
PS: and for ur info it is her type that men die for...
This was so funny. I think she should marry from another culture and not African. African men are needy and marrying one is burdensome. Most are lazy and really don't do anything other than sit there, give orders and probably infect you with STD from their promiscuous ways. They don't bond with their kids either so being married to an African male is worse than being single. Atleast as a singleton you won't have his family beat you up and throw you out of the house for not birthing a male child..lol
Women like myself married from other cultures and my hubby worships the ground I walk on after all these years of marraige. What more can I ask for if not thank the Lord? lol
A woman must cook for her husband and likewise a man should once in a while make that special meal for his wife too.
How dare you?? boast about not cooking for your man? Where are your African heritages of having respect for the Man of the house?
OMG... Nne please wake up from sleep, if you cannot cook for your man then you are nothing but a white woman or the akatas.
Why must I keep you in my house if you cannot cook for me??!! what will our children learn from it? That is as bad as when two men get married. Only God knows where this world is going to?? Chineke!
Advice for young people; please do have one two or at most, 3 kids that you know you can bring up in the fear of God, in the love for your culture and heritage and in preserving the woman in a woman and the man in a man!
Dr Chinedu you are getting it all wrong people take time to listen and digest what shes saying she didnt say wives should not cook for their husbands o she says girls should stop sucking up to their boyfriends by cooking,cleaning and being a maid the man should like you for you FIRST and the others should be extra icing on the cake
where did this babe go wrong? I guess its the approach besides this was meant to be funny but people arent smiling at all lol this shit is on jaguda.com and everyone is attacking her nne na wa o!!!!
IMO I'm 50-50 on it she makes some valid points women STOP chasing men shikena
DR CHINEDU GET A LIFE AND STOP UR USELESS RANT AND LITANY...UR ARE HURT BCOS U LIKE HER AND DON'T LIKE WHAT SHE SAYS..SOME OF U NIJA MEN CANT DEAL WITH A WOMAN WHO SPEAKS HER MIND..U ARE SELF INDULGENT LITTLE CHILDREN...SOME OF U NIJA MEN ARE VERY NEEDY..AND WANT A DOORMAT WOMAN WHO CANNOT OPEN HER MOUTH AND SPEAK FREELY...WITH UR FRAGILE EGOS...ABEG GET A LIFE AND LEAVE THE POOR PRETTY GIRL ALONE..
some of u small minede nija men are abusing her, bcos u have never heard a woman so vocal.. u are whiny little boys who want a woman to massage ur ego..well it aint happening with Yagazie..and i love it that she has the looks to back it up!!! Girl you rock!!! give it to them!!!
why re u pple raining curses on her...shes entitled to her own opinion.....shes just saying LADIES STOP ACTING CHEAP.....GIV URSELF SOE RESPECT.......U CAN COOK 4 AGUY ..BUT NT BECOS U WANT HIM TO MARRY YOU.....DO IT 4 D RIGHT REASONS....STOP ENTICING GUYS WIT UR PRETENTIOUS:: NICEY NICEY....I CAN COOK..CLEAN.U GO MARRY DEM FINISH...DEY GO COME CHANGE...PLS NOBODY SHLD INSULT...JUST UNDERSTAND SIMPLE ENGLSH
Most Nigerian men are just over grown babies, its so pathetic, so becuase a lady said she would not cook for her boyfriend u people want to cry...so u cannot cook ur own meals abi? lazy men!!! Anywayz i blame the women who always settle for less, are u a slave or a gf? u rush to his hse after work everyday to cook for him, on weekends u go and clean his hse and do his laundry because u think thats a criteria for him to marry you, then he only shows his appreciation on vals day by buying u a bottle of perfume lol, i pity you, the cheap/lazy bastartd would still cheat on and neglect you....Like she said if u love cooking then cook for him, I love cooking, theres always food in my hse and anybody is welcome to eat, but im not going to slave in my boyfriends kitchen everyday to prove a point,when i feel like it, ild cook for him....I would definitely cook for my husband and family, cos thats how i was brought up, but i wldnt slave for one immature bf who has mummy issues!!!! now they throw in the culture/tradition card, you lazy men of these days want to compare urselves with the hardworking men of those days, WOW!!!!!! y'all are dreamers.....
LMAO. Im aguy and it was very amusing. i like her sense of humour abeg. but on a real....this one done kolo. And ladies if you feel the need to follow her advice, dont!! Thank God its her personal opinion and she isnt speaking for womankind abeg. i know women who dont cook for their Bfs but still have a helthy attitude to it. This chick obviously had man issues and whether anyone here wants to admit it or not, it was bad experience for her. She fit don cooooook food tire make man like her and still the guy didnt. Anyway nuff said...men are from mars , women are from venus. the women who get the best men are the ones who study martian. shikenah
i have a great sense of humor but i failed to see the humor in dis y'all that are supporting her u better give her support when shes 38 and single o!! lmao... stay there and be forming 21st century u will just remain single forever... we men like to sleep wit the 21st century girls but when we wanna marry we go back to the 20th century girls and marry them... a word is enough for the wise
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Dear God!!!! She just poke my mind....GBAM!!!!
I love it. I share the same sentiments. Many African men r still on that boat of thought, but by the time love starts to n'atu ka mmaya ... oh, he will fall in line. Note: u don't sober up from true love. Times r changing. Back then, the women were situated as property at home. Now we work, just like u and even bring home more money despite the wage discrimination. I think a hear a clap from above for women ... I know God, we are fantastic :D lol.
Somebody better not quote some adam and eve story now ... lol
Sista is tripping!!!!! Poor girl has just been dumped because she refused to cook or cannot cook. I could feel the passion in her desire not to cook. I no go even chop wetin e cook because dis one fit poison man. Dont expect good sex...... this lady is psycho!!!!! After seeing this clip, the man wey marry this one put for house must know sey na from im village dem throw the arrow.
from the accent, she is an ibo girl, i like her, i mean, she has a point bless u
Im just going to lol at this
cause I dont want to type an epistle
all these female liberation things going on ehn hmmmm
Too much blah blah blah but i get it! She is right! She knws her shit! Shivery is dead! because it's not required! Most Ladies dnt hve standards anymore, dnt expect to treated well! So most men basically do as they please! What ever happened to romance? What ever happened to a Gentleman's good conduct and manners? i'll tell you what happened! Just like she said, Girls! stop chasing men o! Men r supposed to be chasing you! ah ah!
Then they will be green with envy when they see a man treating and loving his woman right! That is bcos in the courting game.... she knws her place, she is the queen and he is trying to impress her to become her king!
Linda, i beg get someone to write her a script... She has comic talent, seriously! A good funny script!
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this gal nah imbe....imbecile..hahahaha!!!! who will even date someone like that? if any guy actually feels this gal, then i'm at a loss.
Her Nigerian accent sounds like a lebanese nigerian's sha.
You won't cook? You wont cook? You wont cook? Okay. Stay by thyself. I'm taking a second and third wife with immediate effect. They both will be younger than you. You are free to move out of my house immediately. Call your dad now now. I want full refund with full interest and full compensation (for all the stress and headache you gave me) for the dowry I paid :)
As a man listening to this, I will say that she does not deserve to be insulted and disrespected, she is only expressing her personal opinion about an issue that is dear to her. I think she is disguising some hurt with the cooking issue. It should not be about cooking but caring for a man that also cares for you. If a man can take his time and resources to 'woo' the woman then there is nothing wrong with a reciprocal gesture of caring for him in a manner that pleases as long as it is not slavery. Her indignant stand on not cooking for a man because they are not married however expecting the man to cook and woo her is not only selfish but immature. If after two years a relationship that is based on love breaks down then the love must have faded away somewhere along the line and it might just be that the man that she says love her got tired of loving a selfish person.
Its Chivalry not shivalry.
Dear Yeesuuuus..........am about to get fired watching this gal at work she just cracked me over am dead!!!!! hahahaha............SO SO SO SO TRUE! am your girlfriend not your househelp i have my own house to clean and to cook in...once in a while when am touched yes.....but dont get mistaken...Xmas isnt everyday!!!!! Marry me first then we sit and talk!
@Anon 10:43 AM....Why the insults? If you do not agree with her, fine.. No need for the namecalling..she is not forcing her opinion down your throat.Be civil!
I think she is hilarious and I agree that women who believe that by cooking and cleaning for a man, they will secure themselves that inevitable proposal are serious jokers.
i like this girl and she makes some really good points. all the girls dissing her i c r the ones that slave for their men so go ahead n do tht but dnt diss someone else to make ur stupid selves feel better.
This may be funny but she is in pain because of what happened to her. She needs to see a Psychologist to talk about it.
Zara's lil sis, lol
hilarious!!!! i laffed so much!!! but she does make some valid points. Do everything for the right reasons and with a heart of love most importantly but easy on the insults dear(stupid,idiots?) not very nice. Fun to watch, this girl does not give a Damn!!! lol
Alot of this kind girls full everywhere. That`s why spinsters full town.Na oyinbo go fit marry this kind girl.
SMH at the anonymous commenters that remain stuck in last century. It's a pity. The world is leaving yall behind.
Guys we are finished, Na to take some months of catering lessons be that else these girl go drop person for jungle.
I LOVE IT!!!! Correct girl, it is tradition to cook only for the husband! Don't mind these fools!
Ever noticed that people who talk like this are the singletons? No boyfriend, no husband. SMH.
*sigh* I suppose my video is everywhere now? Bring on the insults people! I've received the worst of them lol. I'm tired of explaining myself. At this point, let everyone get worked up because of my opinion.
If you have a man, and are loved you wont go on a youtube spree to lay down any opinions and laws about men and their women OR women and their men.
You are messing up your chances. No man wants to hang out with a girl condemning generations of evolving men. No two men are the same, when it comes to personal bonding characteristics. There are flavours. Some men looove to spoil their women rotten in their own way.
Cooking is only one thing a woman can do for a man. What happened to taking care of your body, looking great, being graceful, hardworking, loving, being real, being supportive and expect to 'harvest' what you sow into a relationship.
If you date a 'no-good' man, dump him or get dumped and move on. Technology might turn out to be your biggest enemy. Use your time wisely. If you think I am lying wait and see what happens to a lovely flower when its winter....
Be Wise girls.
Uncle Chinua
I personally see no reason a lady should not cook for my boyfriend. So long as it is done with the right intentions. If u are cooking for a man so he can marry you, then u have missed ur priority and would end up in doom. I personally cook for my boyfriend bcos i love love love cooking. If he dumps me tomorrow, i have no regrets. I would advice every woman who watches this video thingy to be very selective of what message u pick from this video. Some tend to be misleading.
@ Annon 10:43 AM..ur just mad cos ur part of the mumu women she is talking about..lool..y will u say something like that about another person?..is she not free to voice her opinion?..im sure u r not even half as fine as she is..u r part of those people that enjoy bringing down others to make urself feel good.. and for u n annon 9:35am..she sed..cook for him if u want..but for the right reasons..she doesnt want to cook..but u can slave away in the kitchen if it will make u happy..shikena...ya'll just mad cos u no she is describing u guys..admit it!..the way to his heart is thru his stomach...thats ur moto rite?..lwkmd!..
Am sure ur relationship ended bcos ur guy was tired of eating "true love" for 2 yrs. Personally, there is nothing wrong with a girl cooking for her bf so long as its done with the right intentions. Rather than " So he can marry me" I cook for mere friends because i am a caterer so y cant i cook for my bf?
Btw, Modern civilized men are not dating u so u can cook but its part of the traits men want their women to have because it prolongs and excites the relationsp. Well, to each her own. If cooking for ur man did not fetch u a ring or end happily, mine fetched me a ring and continues happily. So let every body do what works best for them. Shikena.
I love her!
@ Annon 10:43 AM..ur just mad cos ur part of the mumu women she is talking about..lool..y will u say something like that about another person?..is she not free to voice her opinion?..im sure u r not even half as fine as she is..u r part of those people that enjoy bringing down others to make urself feel good.. and for u n annon 9:35am..she sed..cook for him if u want..but for the right reasons..she doesnt want to cook..but u can slave away in the kitchen if it will make u happy..shikena...ya'll just mad cos u no she is describing u guys..admit it!..the way to his heart is thru his stomach...thats ur moto rite?..lwkmd!..
my baby girl yemezi!!iv followed dis girl right from d start!love her 2 bits!she isnt afraid 2 voice her opinions,.,.which r alwaiz on point!
she keeps on saying id.iot, stup.id. is she rally ok?
I LOVE THIS GIRL SHE IS HYSTERICAL..SHE MADE SOME VALID POINTS..I HAD TO SHOW THIS TO MY HUSBAND..WE WERE ON THE FLOOR...
I think this girl was raised in the Western world,her view is from what she what taught by her mum and her enviroment.She sucks!!!!!!!
Tell her to beta go find work do.Im sure she no go get a perfect home since she no ready to be humble a man.
I love the way she talks, she doesnt even attempt to change her accent, even though she lives abroad..pretty natural beauty she is..you go gurl!! i feel your sentiment
she's pretty and funny.like her
This igbo Chic is Hilarious lol
you got a point sister but u lack presentation of it .. over all 40%.. you sound pissed and angry more like an angry black woman
Don't cook naw, shebi some other woman will cook for him.
Well if you wount cook for me another woman will also she will do other things too!!!!! take that
at anon 10:43 u can go to HELL!! for all we care. she's got an excellent point. i guess she's talking to someone like u dats y u don't agree with her statement. MTSHEWWWWWWWWW!!!
@ Anon 10:43
Wow don't you think that is rather harsh! Why call her an imbecile because she speaks her mind....
If anyone dates someone like you who attacks people with hurtful words, I'll also be at a loss of words....
she kilt (not kill but kilt) me oh!! Im subscribing to her yt. there are truths to what she said sha.
lol, this girl and her accent. funny but keeping it real
I am in love! If i was not married i for don rush dis babe. No pretence, natural and there is something about her that makes U think she is sincere.
Anon 10:40. We know it won't be you writing that script seeing as your version of chivalry (shivery) is making us shiver. lol.
when women say,men don't know what they want it amazes me. The fact that a man gives you the run around and is not committed its cause he knows what he wants and it's not you. Saying he doesn't know what he wants is your escape route. He knows what he wants and he didnt find it in you.
All of you insulting Anon 10:43 have just shown how dumb senseless and immature u all are. she is entitled to her opinion. If you do not agree, bring out constructive arguments rather than insulting. it only goes to show how bush u lot can be. Unless those insulting are imbeciles as well, then it is understandable. Nonsense.
Ok, so you won't marry a girl who can't cook? Fine.
I won't marry a man who has no job (or shall we say, known job), who still lives with his mother, who thinks his ex-girlfriend is the epitome of womanhood (why are you not with her?), who thinks the earth revolves around him, who does not know how to pick up after himself, who is not independent of his mother and father and 12 brothers and sisters and finally who is always trying to set a World Guinness record for fastest sex.
Odds are a large number of men will cheat with or without your cooking skills, so why bother?
We all have our limits.
All you women are confused because as soon as ur done commenting, you'll still cook for your husband. boyfriend. the igboitic gal is just heart broken. dont worry, she will cook for her next boyfriend. she never see anything . she go old tire. u girls should continue deceiving yourselves oh.
Later she will say she cant find any man. How would she?
bush girl see her thick accent. her boyfriend was snatched by someone who can cook. now she's tripping
@ anonymous 8:13 really??She is bush because she has an accent?She is igbo what should her accent be? colonial mentality has obviously scattered you brain.You are rather shallow..damn!
I love her!!! This is hilarious!!
This girl is perfect definition of irresponsibilty.
shez in pain...abeg make she go rest...shez talkn too much.
Linda, how can I contact this lady? I can see some maleable talent which I can work with somehow.
hahahahhaha! this girl got me cracking up! but there is an element of truth in what she said.
Haaaaha LWKMD what!!! my goodness is she for real na typical igbo lady and it looks like she has just been dumped by her man and I would not be surprised if it was because she can not cook.
As Africans, that is part of a woman's responsibility and eventhough I am a highly educated woman and have a successful career i still hold that place of cooking for a man high so all this nonsense that she is saying would not help her in life as long as she does not want to remain single in her old age.
So she better learn to cook period otherwise..... Hahaha this is too funny.
AY, Princess, Julius, Basket, move over there is a new kid on the block.
YOU ARE SPEAKING THE TRUTH! men think that a woman has to go all out of her way to please him, AS FAR AS COOKING FOR HIM, but they don't wanna do anything for women? they think using their prick is all it takes? last time i checked, it takes two to tango!
this girl is a natural IGBOTIC beauty. all of you females saying she is this, that, and the other probably have all your brazilian weaves and tons and tons of makeup.
as for the males, YOU'RE JUST MAD BECAUSE SHE WILL NOT COOK FOR YOU. is it her job? is she your mama?
for people saying she got dumped? hehehe, you people are angry no be small ooo!
btw....Yegazie, you got me rolling on the floor! hahahaha!
those people making fun of your accent are those that suffer from inferiority complex/colonial mentality. they get angry when people like stephanie okereke form accents, but wanna also talk crap when someone is being natural and speaking in an accent that comes natural to her? you are Igbo, so what do they expect you to sound like.
don't mind them, RIDE ON GIRL!
i just subscribed! :)
See people and their shallowness!!!!Choi! Her delivery is exactly how she wanted it to be....a faux serious demeanor even though you and I know that she wanted it to be entertaining as well as relevant. while I dont agree with all that she said, I still love the delivery. Hate the message not the messenger.
LOL!!! Linda, i posted this video on my FB wall about three days ago and it's still making waves. It's HILARIOUS!!! Can't stop laughing!!! I guess that's just how she feels. She's only 22 anyway, so she doesn't have to cook for anyone right now when you has her studies to concentrate on. Abeg make una free d babe jor, i'm sure she'd change her mind when she gets to her later twenties or so; it really is not that SERIOUS at present, so lighten up y'all and just enjoy the humour in it. It is her view and she did point out that it was one sided anyway.
As for me, you know me now Linda...how can a Calabar babe not know how to cook? In fact, that is one of my GREATEST qualities and I WILL COOK FOR EVERYBODY, be you man or woman, because I LOVE COOKING. Anyone up for some very rich Afang soup with ekporoko, dried fish, shrimps, snails, kpomo et al at my place this weekend? Only yoking oh mbok, i no need stalkers! Hehehe...
u guys criticizing her are falling all over yourselves taking her seriously..wow some ppl are really wound up so tightly...she is just joking and u are being so ridiculous by abusing her..do u really think she doesnt cook??..didnt u see her frozen fish and frozen meat and yam poundo...doesnt that tell u she cooks???...pls lighten up and get the joke!!!...
PS: and for ur info it is her type that men die for...
This was so funny. I think she should marry from another culture and not African. African men are needy and marrying one is burdensome. Most are lazy and really don't do anything other than sit there, give orders and probably infect you with STD from their promiscuous ways. They don't bond with their kids either so being married to an African male is worse than being single. Atleast as a singleton you won't have his family beat you up and throw you out of the house for not birthing a male child..lol
Women like myself married from other cultures and my hubby worships the ground I walk on after all these years of marraige. What more can I ask for if not thank the Lord? lol
Culture is Culture! Tradition is Tradition.
A woman must cook for her husband and likewise a man should once in a while make that special meal for his wife too.
How dare you?? boast about not cooking for your man? Where are your African heritages of having respect for the Man of the house?
OMG... Nne please wake up from sleep, if you cannot cook for your man then you are nothing but a white woman or the akatas.
Why must I keep you in my house if you cannot cook for me??!! what will our children learn from it? That is as bad as when two men get married. Only God knows where this world is going to?? Chineke!
Advice for young people; please do have one two or at most, 3 kids that you know you can bring up in the fear of God, in the love for your culture and heritage and in preserving the woman in a woman and the man in a man!
Dr Chinedu
you are getting it all wrong
people take time to listen and digest what shes saying
she didnt say wives should not cook for their husbands o
she says girls should stop sucking up to their boyfriends by cooking,cleaning and being a maid the man should like you for you FIRST
and the others should be extra icing on the cake
where did this babe go wrong?
I guess its the approach
besides this was meant to be funny but people arent smiling at all lol
this shit is on jaguda.com and everyone is attacking her nne na wa o!!!!
IMO I'm 50-50 on it she makes some valid points
women STOP chasing men
shikena
OMG,this vids got me laughing like crazie,she's got some points tho
more people will just subscribe and now she's getting more and more famous.
let the haters DIE!
these bitch is confused nuff said
please...shes nt mentally disabled... if u dnt like her opinion, dnt use it as a forum 2 insult her and her family...tanx
DR CHINEDU GET A LIFE AND STOP UR USELESS RANT AND LITANY...UR ARE HURT BCOS U LIKE HER AND DON'T LIKE WHAT SHE SAYS..SOME OF U NIJA MEN CANT DEAL WITH A WOMAN WHO SPEAKS HER MIND..U ARE SELF INDULGENT LITTLE CHILDREN...SOME OF U NIJA MEN ARE VERY NEEDY..AND WANT A DOORMAT WOMAN WHO CANNOT OPEN HER MOUTH AND SPEAK FREELY...WITH UR FRAGILE EGOS...ABEG GET A LIFE AND LEAVE THE POOR PRETTY GIRL ALONE..
YOU GO GURL!!! GWABA HA!!
some of u small minede nija men are abusing her, bcos u have never heard a woman so vocal.. u are whiny little boys who want a woman to massage ur ego..well it aint happening with Yagazie..and i love it that she has the looks to back it up!!! Girl you rock!!! give it to them!!!
why re u pple raining curses on her...shes entitled to her own opinion.....shes just saying LADIES STOP ACTING CHEAP.....GIV URSELF SOE RESPECT.......U CAN COOK 4 AGUY ..BUT NT BECOS U WANT HIM TO MARRY YOU.....DO IT 4 D RIGHT REASONS....STOP ENTICING GUYS WIT UR PRETENTIOUS:: NICEY NICEY....I CAN COOK..CLEAN.U GO MARRY DEM FINISH...DEY GO COME CHANGE...PLS NOBODY SHLD INSULT...JUST UNDERSTAND SIMPLE ENGLSH
SHES GEETING MORE POPULAR..U GUYS RE YABBING HER....LEAVE HER ALONE...U HARDLY COME ACROSS SUCH PRINCIPLED LADIES DIS DAYS... I LIK HER!!!!!
U DNT VE TO INSULT HER..BE RESPECFUL
I won't drink what she drank; I won't eat what she eat; I won't walk on the streets she walked on: I don't wanna seem seem angry or troublesome.
Be cool, not vexatious. Be cool.
I beg go cook for me...If I no chop I go vex o...se bi u want my 100% loyalty, then cook plenty plenty.
dat bitch b tripping...
this is RAW!! Yagazie...I see u girl
Most Nigerian men are just over grown babies, its so pathetic, so becuase a lady said she would not cook for her boyfriend u people want to cry...so u cannot cook ur own meals abi? lazy men!!! Anywayz i blame the women who always settle for less, are u a slave or a gf? u rush to his hse after work everyday to cook for him, on weekends u go and clean his hse and do his laundry because u think thats a criteria for him to marry you, then he only shows his appreciation on vals day by buying u a bottle of perfume lol, i pity you, the cheap/lazy bastartd would still cheat on and neglect you....Like she said if u love cooking then cook for him, I love cooking, theres always food in my hse and anybody is welcome to eat, but im not going to slave in my boyfriends kitchen everyday to prove a point,when i feel like it, ild cook for him....I would definitely cook for my husband and family, cos thats how i was brought up, but i wldnt slave for one immature bf who has mummy issues!!!! now they throw in the culture/tradition card, you lazy men of these days want to compare urselves with the hardworking men of those days, WOW!!!!!! y'all are dreamers.....
LMAO. Im aguy and it was very amusing. i like her sense of humour abeg. but on a real....this one done kolo. And ladies if you feel the need to follow her advice, dont!! Thank God its her personal opinion and she isnt speaking for womankind abeg. i know women who dont cook for their Bfs but still have a helthy attitude to it. This chick obviously had man issues and whether anyone here wants to admit it or not, it was bad experience for her. She fit don cooooook food tire make man like her and still the guy didnt. Anyway nuff said...men are from mars , women are from venus. the women who get the best men are the ones who study martian. shikenah
i HEART this babe! she spoke the truth!muah
I beg cook for your man o. It just doesn't have to be fresh soup everyday. I work too so if you can't eat two day old soup, we might have issues.
I beg cook for your man o. It just doesn't have to be fresh soup everyday. If you can get two day old efo riro we might have issues!
i have a great sense of humor but i failed to see the humor in dis y'all that are supporting her u better give her support when shes 38 and single o!! lmao... stay there and be forming 21st century u will just remain single forever... we men like to sleep wit the 21st century girls but when we wanna marry we go back to the 20th century girls and marry them... a word is enough for the wise
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