I will be spicing it up with stuff that I don’t often do and some things I’ve never done before...the aim is to make it more interesting...but you guys will be the judge of that exactly two weeks from now...
So let’s go.
We will start with this
You all know I can’t resist gossip...lol
Enjoy
As written by Afolabi Adekoya of City People Magazine
The news of his break up with Sunmbo Ajaba last week actually came to our notice when our reporter stumbled on the facebook profile of Sunmbo, who had changed her relationship status from in a relationship to single. Quite surprise, we scrolled through her profile and there was a stunner. She wrote “It all started well, then it got complicated, but it’s over”In a telephone chat with Sunmbo, she didn’t hesitate to confirm the story saying “It is real. I am single but not searching. We actually broke up on Saturday August 15th 2009, I was on vacation and was spending time with him and then something struck me, and that prompted me to ask him if he still loves me. I was surprised when he couldn’t say yes or no. That was a sign that something was wrong. So, I went ahead to query him on it and it became his decision that we should break up. I was not expecting it. Initially, I thought it was because he was going through some pressures, but I later found out it was what he wanted. We talked about it like matured minds and that was it. You see nevertheless, I will still say that it could be because he’s going through a lot at the moment, or the devil is trying to push him against me, because I pray for him a lot, or the devil is trying to mess him up. I didn’t fight back so I gave him time, but he insisted that we should not be sleeping together any more.
Since I changed my profile to single on facebook, a lot of people have commented and I am very surprised at their comments. It has been very encouraging. You know that feeling when you break up with someone? Rather than cry or want to kill myself, I was relieved. That I felt relieved doesn’t mean I don’t love him anymore. I love him and will always do, I pray for him a lot. People don’t understand him but the truth remains that he’s a very loving and caring person. He has a good heart and dating him was fun at the beginning and like I wrote on my facebook page, it got complicated later. Tuface has been through a lot, that if an ordinary man goes through half of it, he would have given up the ghost. He is very strong.I was relieved when he broke up with me, but I was like, will it affect our children? We gave birth to those kids with a lot of love, so it won’t affect them except that daddy and mommy won’t be spending time together anymore. I think it is a lesson for a lot of people. You see I don’t want to live in denial. He is a good man but he has to correct a lot of things. These are things he can’t change. I still love him and will always do. Like it is in the bible, Jesus had 12 disciples and knew that Judas would betray him some day, but he still thread that path with him till the end. I am a very decent person and even if the devil wants to mess you up, you don’t want to stay in that mess. We got it going on very well at the beginning, I loved him and he loved me to, somehow something went wrong.
You see a lot of people said it from the beginning that our relationship was altar bound, but sometimes some things happen and you just have to let it go. I don’t want to get married because of children, but because of love and all that can make a marriage work. I have been with Tuface for seven years and my relationship with him has made me a strong woman and it has strengthened my spiritual life. He has taught me a lot and has become my source of joy but it’s all over now. I’m not fighting anyone over him. I am out of the picture and I am happy to be who I am now”
*The end*
Wow...too emotional.
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38 comments:
Wow!
very intersting interview,i was actually impressed wit her honesty about the whole relationship wit Tuface.
I hope she has learnt her lesson though, it doesn't pay to raise kids out of wedlock.
As for Tuface i hope he is able to sort him self out rather than going up n down and making d same mistakes over and over again.
Foolish girl--WHAT DEVIL?
FUCKING NIGERIANS GET ON MY DAMN NERVES--
My dear YOU were NOT in a relationship with him for seven years--HE was in a "relationship" with you and EVERY OTHER GIRL he could stick his dick in AND YOU for those years.
Her words reek of denial with a thin whiff of desperation.
How old is this chick?
TWELVE?
With an IQ of four?
All i see is I love HIM blah blah..
People said our relationship was alter bound.
WHAT DID YOU SEE WHEN YOU WERE SPREADING YOUR LEGS FOR HIM?
People had to SEE for you?
Better take time out to clear your HEAD...as most of those so called people would not have been foolish enough to spread their THIGHS TWICE for such an irresponsible lout as TUFACE.
I heard you are a quite savvy at what you do---FUNNY how the work smarts are never LIFE SMART
What did you think you were going to gain?
A wedding ring?
FROM TUFACE?
Someone who was dropped in on the fame so suddenly and couldnt belive his luck,and with it came the cheap sex,cheaper women,tashere money etc..
WHAT DID YOU EXPECT?
WHAT you had with him was NOT special as HE HAD NO PROBLEMS REPLICATING IT WITH TWO OTHER WOMEN.
SO KI NI FUCKING BIG DEAL??
All these girls that just drop their pants at the toss of a coin and then start singing devil devil when HE DECIDED HE HAS HAD HIS FILL PISS ME THE FUCK OFF.
Better go and face your life now and think of how you will be a better role model to your two kids-Or better still how you will provide for tehm in the long term-as you cannot and should not be fooled that there will be longevity in this come and go artistes.one hit wonder he might not be--BUT the old maestros he ain't--
because as for tuface......
HE STILL HAS A LOTTTTTTT OF SEED TO SPREAD AROUND AND HAS SOOOOOO MUCH OATS TO SOW
WILDLY IF I MAY ADD.
And the dirty tramp was still attempting to hit on me and FIVE girlfriends on the same night---We ALL said no of course---Mamma raised us better than THAT....
Funny how some men think that little change instantly confers class on them---
Some of us women NEVER get carried away by nonsense--WE are not perfect...BUT when a woman gets to a certain age she has to be SMART,,,,VERY SMART
SOMETHING YOU SUMBO,ANNIE AND PERO ARE FAAAAAAAAAAAAR FROM.
Look at you,good looking,young,educated,i heard very sweet..YET YOU COULD NOT PATIENTLY WAIT AND HAVE YOUR PICK OF MANY ELIGIBLE MEN?
Hope you will forever be happy known as ONE OF TUFACES BABY MOTHERS...
And nobody ever told you that the choices you make will one way or another have an impact on your children.
Silly Girl and the devil HAS NOTHING to do with tufaces decision...
AS IT IS WITH BOYS LIKE HIM--HE NEEDS FRESH PUSSY-YOU HAVE SERVED YOUR PURPOSE
END OF
God Bless you and your kids as you find a new direction in life
Wow @ anonymous #2...well said sha..this is exactly what these kind of girls need to hear...but damn..u didnt spare her at all oh...ko easy rara oh!
i think i understand why 2face couldnt answer the million-dllar-question. Isnt he the same one dat fathered Annie's kids? Im sure its difficult to love both women(and others) equally. So girlfriend shouldnt av bothered asking in the first place.Abi no be so?
Although pretty harsh, anonymous no 2 summed up the undiluted truth!!!
I say no more
i absolutely applaude EVERYTHING anonymous #2 wrote. Spot on! what bloddy devil? abeggy.
enuf said....i couldnt ve said it better
Which Devil?
Anonymous 2, right on point
Sunbo,of all pple.....u disapointed a lot of pple wen u abandoned ur husband dat brought u out of guttar and headed for doom.wat a shame.serves u right.but wat were u praying abt all d time u said u were praying for him,am just curious.its a pity,cos i tink it runs in d blood.ur sister did similar tin.anonymous 2,did a good justice to u....am ashamed of.
she may be hurting now..but this is the best step she has taken in 7 yrs...she is a beutiful girl...she needs a man that will not only luv her but devote himself to only her...
luv is indeed blind
am sure in say 5 yrs she will look back to her relationship with him and feel like flogging herslef
@anon 11.26pm, the reason I uploaded ur comment is because I believe sometimes we all need to hear the hard truth...not that I think ur opinion is the truth...its just ur opinion. maybe she will take something from it, maybe it will cause her more grief or maybe it will make her stronger...I dont know, but pls lets not be too quick to judge or call people foolish. We all make some bad decisions in life...its not fair to be reminded of it every minute. Sunmbo probabaly needs a shoulder to cry on now more than insults...lets be our 'sisters' keeper.
N.B, im not going to upload another comment that insults this lady...drop comments but be compassionate pls.
1daful..,i do wonder why someone should pick up his old archaic desktop just to be searching on internet a GOSSIPS that he'll use to excercise his biased & sentimental reasoning using anonymity as a criteria for his ignorance.Imagining him (#2 commentator) being better than Tufac..it baffles me..thanks 4 d correction u gave to him Linda.
annoymous 2 was really harsh n yes she did have good points 2. however i feel 4 sumbo.she wasnt very wise all dis while which is not peculiar to her alone but a lot of women out der.but i guess its good she's learnt her lesson. ladies please.. if a man really wants 2 b wit u. he'll surely make it happen. dont make silly excuses for him. men like tuface r really irresponsible. on a lighter note.....tuface shld decide if he wants to grow up or keep doin groupies all his life. i was at a salon recently and the owner of the salon, her sister n friend had all been wit tuface.their stories were all hilarious n should fit for a website. "my groupie tales wit tuface" lol. dat guy is promiscous. damn it!
@anon 2 ,a great job,so she abandoned her hus for youngy?na so now ,u cant have ur cake and it it!on the other way round she was just fornicating with him and what the hell was she praying 4?abeg lets hear word.he waz dating u and many other women ,u mean love,how many hearts he get abeg letz hear word
@ anonymous 11.26pm, well said. Your words though harsh needed to be said. The truth is bitter so we hope Sumbo will learn from this and move on. I don't know how anyone can get attracted to the likes of Tuface. Hasn't she heard of "love is blind but i see good".....
Anyway, this write up sounds like the "world famous ED". She is the only one who will use such harsh words and get away with it....So if you are the one then 'fess up.
@Linda
Please don't make me laugh---
You posted an article I commented.
Read between the lines,if i wanted to insult the girl,i would do so and then you would have a choice of either allowing the comment or not.
I told her the harsh truth.
No point in sugar coating ANYTHING at some certain stages.
What i have told her is the same thing i told one of my colleagues who got knocked up by a "star".Now she is crying foul and attempting to put on a bold face after he made it clear that he ain't in it for the long haul and she should be on her way.When it was happening,all who told her the truth were literally turned into persona non gratas in her books and she only "heard" what the bogus people wanted her to hear just because they wanted to be in certain circles.If sunbmo is hard pressed to tell the truth,you will find that those who were telling her things she thought were for herself and tufaces "progress" together as a couple are people she shouldn't surround herself with.
HUMAN BEIGNS are EXTREMELY SELFISH BY NATURE.
And if a so called friend.sister.etc tells you something,better check it twice as more often than not,THEY would not do the same thing if they were you.
I am my sisters keeper,I just don't do it with TWO sides of my mouth like most people would.
Take it or leave it.
@Maduphilo--
AND YOU ARE?
I can see what "genre" you belong to.
When you use Tuface as a yardstick to measure people who are better than others.
I can only laugh at you.
Clown.
Anon 11;26pm
Damn ppl....harsh but true talk, we all kinda of foolish at one point in our life!
Yes o Sasha, anon 11;26 sounds like ED.
@anon 11;26, i know its ur opinion and believe me i read between the lines, thats one of the reasons i uploaded it. i just feel like we should be a bit more understanding and compassionate and not make her feel worse than im sure she already feels...
abeg whos is "ED"? IS SHE ONE OF TUFACE'S GIRLS? LOL! MY AMEBO PASS lINDA OWN SEF...
As for aunty, i am happy for you and ur kids that the nightmare is over. But i have to agree with 'ED' sha... please stop blaming 'devil'. It is the likes of you that represent the majority of naija women (MARRIED OR UNMARRIED)that run to church blaming devil for man wahala. The devil was Tuface and you were praying for him. I think you should just focus on praying for urself and ur 2 kids. I tire for all these naija women sha.
Dem fry una brain? make una see how Madonna and co dey show their men after divorce, instead of moving on, una go dey go meet 'fake' pastor when hungry pass shit for testimony and prayer. When you dey fornicate and sin up and down, you remember God?
Abeg no kill me with laughter, just thank God well well and look for a better man that will look after ur kids properly. Tu face na goat as the comments here don reveal.
Hey enuff ,sumbo has learnt her lessons and now she can start correcting young girls coming behind on how being in a relationship with a celebrity looks like,so they wont make the s ame mistake she has made,everybody has his or her own past.Muyiwa has spoken
wow!!!! COWARD Anonymous @ 11:26pm!!!! where is d hate coming from? whats ur own? u sound like A JEALOUS BiTCH!!!! hAHA!! GET A LIFE JOOOOOOOO!
The lamentations of a jilted lover.
loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool
@ Linda
she should feel dat way
cos if she doesnt, if Tuface comes knocking tomorrow morning she ll open the doors wide AGAIN!!(certainly)
ah ah! Two kids in 7 years,out of wedlock?!! abeg make we hear word, he s been with tons of gals and spreading his seed,obviously marriage no dey him book... at least not to her.
So Sunbo, GET A LIFE!!!
@AYOMIDE...
And i can bet on my favorite pair of jeans that you are one of the "yes ma'am" people who surrounded sumbo..IF you are not sumbo herself.
My dear i know the truth is bitter,VERY bitter and hard to swallow..BUT what most of us have told sumbo on here is what she was meant to have been told 8years ago before she had the misfortune of running into that man whore called TUFACE.
Do you need me to make a list of people he has slept with?
CERTIFIED?Both cream and wowo chicks?Where do you want me to start?
London here?
Or naija?
or???
With him NO PUSSY is sacred..
Every meat na for chopping.
WHY?
How would that make you feel as i am sure you are either;
a)One of those he has slept with,and spunked on and then walked far away from
b)A wannabe baby mama who didnt quite make it
c)a desperado groupie who flits from one concert or show to the other trying to gain his attention
d)One of his baby mothers who cannot bear to handle the truth as you KNOW for a fact that what he has done to sumbo will befall you
e)AN OUTRIGHT IDIOT.
Pick any of the above.
It's a shame that we women especially naija ones always see the need to make unreasonable excuses for men who generally do not give a hoot about us.
When we do things the wrong way and start on the wrong footing and ALL the signs are glaring that there is nothing with said man,we now resort to submitting ourselves to pastors who more often than not will tell you what you want to hear.
We are so crazed for ready made miracles and instant messages from God that out of desperation we lose sight of the fact that NO pastor is better than ANY one of us..We all have the ability to get on our knees ourselves and talk to God.But we forget God when it looks like we know how to sort it out ourselves.
Then it goes the other way and we start hunting for the devil to blame and going for useless night vigils and meetings with one pastor or alagba after another.
CLOWNS.
Because some of us see things for what they are and call it what it is does not mean that we are one of tufaces bed partners--present or past or failed.
Sumbo deserves better,much better but lets hope she has learnt from this and wont drop her knickers once Tuface feels the need for familiar looking Punany.
And while you at it Sunbo,PLEASE LEAVE THE DEVIL out of it,he ain't got nothing to do with all this.
Atimes when i hear rhings like this i feel like hunting for the devil myself and asking him if i can be his lawyer as i know that he will come out NOT GUILTY a lot of times with what we humans blame him for.
Peace
ANON 11;26p.m
d tin is sunmbo is just looking for consolation by granting an interview but i dnt tink she's gettin it.or is she looking for popularity.but,has she really made up her mind?...d next tin u hear is dat "we have reconciled"i dnt pity her one bit.cos am sure wen she was doing it...some pple would ve warned her.1st baby...then anoda one....dat was not a mistake....it was done willingly.
sorry but i think this chick is in denial. he was sleeping with u and several other heffas on d side which u knew about. Any self respecting individual would have dumped his ass a long time ago but cos of d fame and money she didn't.
biko let devil rst ehn,d devil is not d cause of all d problems in ur life,instead she should blame tufaces trifiling and philandering ass for her problems.
lol at asking if he loved her.yep he loves u,pero,annie and all d other girls he has been with.
Hi, nobody, please has commented on Mary J Blige's pics. with Our Tubaba lol. I am not being insensitive towards Sumbo, mind you. Its just that what has happened has happened, and everyone really - are entitled to their opinions.
Trust us as Naija, we will always rant and rave about it in good ways. And life will still go on.
No offence to anyone,tho.
Lol Tuface is really on a roll. And to think that some women will not say "no" to him. Hmmm, he must be spectacular lol (It is well :):):):)
at least 2 face get proof for this picture say him take this one with Mary J
Anon 11.26 speaks with so much....passion. i wonder where its coming from? hmmm? personal experience? hmmmmmmmmm?
:-D
x
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@anon 11.26p, I am surely convinced you are ED. Your comments always give you away. I enjoy reading your comments, though sometimes i go "no, she didn't just say that"....lol.
You are hilarious...talking about representing the devil as his lawyer.
All that being said, i hope Sumbo doesn't go back to Tuface. She is much better than that, we hope. Afterall,we can drag a horse to a river but can't force it to drink. Lets see how this drama plays out.
@ anon 11:26
u said it all,the truth is bitter but it must be told!stand up for what is right.point of correction 2 the commenter that made mention of taking the sumbo as a role model 2 nigerians hell no!her life style aint at all worth emulating talk less of what hav u?
Talking of 2face 2 as a star,even in holly wood,there re stars that are still very responsible irrespective of their fame.he needs jesus in his life cos that guy is under a curse !hez not at all a role model either
I THINK SEX IS TUFACE SOURCE OF INSPIRATION.........LOL.MAYBE DATS Y HE KEEPS SLEEPING AROUND TRYING TO GET INSPIRED BY DIFFERENT WOMEN.SUNMBO WAS JUST A DAMN CHEAP GIRL ALL D WAY....ALL FOR MONEY...I DNT THINK IT HAD TO DO WIT LOVE....AT LEAST ANYHOW THEY DECIDE TO DO TUFACE WILL IN FUTURE....SHE WILL HAVE DOUBLE PORTION..OLE
Sunbo, hope you keep to your words sha. Cos City pple and co will always let us know when you " make up".
Anon 2, well said. She should see you for more counselling. lol
and she can actually start an NGO for Gals advising them on how to avoid supa niaja stars and their "things' lol
Woooooow i followed Anony8 The whole mess runs in their family blood from sunmbo mother to the last born!her sister Doyin did same thing.I remember when Doyin was with one rich dude at Adeniyi jones in ikeja,this doyin still gose out with ex-boyfriend with two kids at home.Sunmbo was married to her first lover when she pregnant 4 2face.guys we should say the truth she can not eat her cake and have it.Thank God for the punished and pay back,that is just the beginning.fooolish girl.there is no love in 2face novel.
hey people u guys should take it easy on her, i know she is regretting everything right now,she wanted to be heard and seen,i know she is hurting and ashamed of everything behind those her beautiful smiles. i pity her and her sister.but u ppo,or haters should leave her alone.
D'banj could do a duet with Whitney Houston just like Tuface did with Mary Jane Blige.
Sumbo will come out on top and out all of you that are mouthing her now to shame.
She will be know in future as the wife of someone important watchout and you will be singing new song then.
God is on her side.
thank you my dear sunmbo for making that last comment let all of them talk as if they have not done worst things than this, leave them they only wish they were u. many of them are not even as pretty as u, don't worry u will surely come on top one day
What happened to may 4th?
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