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Thursday, 13 March 2014

Avoid being raped by your boyfriends - Police warn

Following the increase in rape cases being reported in the country, The Nigerian Police Force on Tuesday March 11th through its Deputy Force Public Relations Officer, Abayomi Shogunle, took to Twitter to caution men and women...

110 comments:

Miss X said...

With the number of girls in the world ready to put out...why do men rape?

jaybeyblu said...

Haha @ I'm sick pls come to my house. Really tho! Never put urself in a compromising situation

sii Al said...

Good One from the Nigeria police.....But let us know the outcome from previous cases

ONYX GODWIN said...

D most annoying is wen is d says "she was moaning nd in d mood,she ddnt mean d no".. Seriously?

Oniovo Johnson said...

Linda I they sell ticket o, try buy from me, your next trip oo, here is my number 08122296580.

BONARIO NNAGS said...

Nawao what is this police officer insinuating
Na so dem wan take knock job for person.
What of when they are sick they'll call u requesting for shawarma and yoghurt,are those ones panadol and blood tonic?
In Fela's voice *when she tell u No No,don't mind her na shakara oloje,she wan do*
NB plz vote my adorable cousin Zoey Obidegwu as pears baby of the year. Via pears.com.ng

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

BEAUTIFUL ONYINYE said...

HAHAHAHAHA...... FUNNY POLICEMAN...... AS IF UNA NO GET UNA OWN SHARE..... TKE MANY SEATS JARE

funmite said...

Police iyaff para oo, but na true





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umunas said...

Abi..abeg tel dem o

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm nawa o, guys ar jst too desperate, not on hw to plan der life but on hw to destroy anodas(girls) own.

Chisom Metu said...

LoL...even if she b nurse.

Uyi Ogbeide said...

Ok, Nice message. So any message to the corrupt Ogas' at the top too, seeing the increase in thievery and looting of our resources, plus the corruption in NNPC and the likes, looming fuel scarcity that can't even be justified?

Anonymous said...

Hmmm,but is it only boyfriends that rape?What happened to psychos out dere?

bonita bislam said...

Well said

chemmywalata walata said...

Okay noted but dis police na guy man sha see as he get correct word wey guys dey use "I'm sick pls come" hahaha

Taslim OKUNOLA said...

Nice one. GUYS, TAKE HEED OOOO!!!"

Doctor Gaga™
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henry oguadimma said...

Lol @ are u a Doctor or Nurse. But sometimes no medication is as effective as the presence of your loved ones

Anonymous said...

#gbam#noted....now the truth as been told but still some hungry,desperate ladies just won't take heed not untill the worse happens.....I concur nywayz!!!

Pamela Ugochi Orji said...

Lolz. Laf wan mak me commot my front teeth. Choi. Dis man funny die

Anonymous said...

Bona dis is not an issue to humour with!! No means no!!

Nain s said...

MEN WHO RAPE SHOULD BE KILLED ASWEAH!

Alloy Chikezie said...

I agree with him, most times guys will tell you when a girl say no, she is just trying not to look cheap, a 'No' is No there is no need trying to force her, one can persist a little more but if she refuse then let go and girls also need be wise guys deceive them a lot this days, ladies just seem to have shallow brains most times, relationship wise, that's why guys deceive them a lot, they can't read the lines on the wall
And also ladies, When say no, then let it be 'No' don't say no when you know in your heart that you want the thing, all in the name of shakara, I you want it, keep your pride aside and just say yes


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Olaleye Adisa said...

Seriously, rape cases in our society now is something else. I think government need to do something very urgent to about dis. ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥ 

Eche Slimstar said...

true talk!

motunrayo olaide said...

Lols... Those lines he used gan is an old version of deceit to rape. Make God dey protect we ladies ni jare

topsyfunky said...

serious issue

Sleamshaddie said...

Oga focus on serious cases and no try dey burst people runz

Anonymous said...

deception is in many relationship,girls shd stop collecting sth frm guys then don`t want their ti in them.

AnnMarie said...

Lol. this policeman is really funny

Emmy said...

Girls take note if una do shakara again we no go force una again oh! 14yrs no be 14days.

Emmy said...

Girls take note if una do shakara again we no go try force or beg una 14yrs no be 14days.

Emmy said...

Girls take note if una do shakara again we no go force una again oh! 14yrs no be 14days.

@MeetdrealEvans said...

It seem dey beta @ advicing dan acting on rape...

BODIES FROM THE CAPSIZED BOAT IN LAGOS said...

HAHA..
TRUE TALK OOH..SOME GUYS DEY VEX THIS DAYS..
IT EVEN HAPPENED TO A FRIEND OF MINE,RECENTLY.. THEY HAVE TO BE EXTREEMLY CAREFUL..

pissed off victim said...

No justification for rape, but this girls are jus too funny na ur money them wan chop, I toast reach 7 girls within d last 30days but no gree gimme chop na olosho solve my pee last last. So mske dem do law banning girls from "chopping men's money" yet give nth in return

RHOSE E said...

BUHAHAHAHAHAHAHA, CHAI, BONARIO DON KILL ME WIT LAFF

CEO said...

First Policeman in Naija with a good sense of humor, Stupid guys this is a great warning!!! Ashewo house is just #300 if your Girlfriend is full of yanga.*Gbam*

Zenki brown said...

Laffing hard @ wen he says cum to Mγ̲ house A̶̲̥̅♏ sick. Dats so lame.

@edDREAMZ said...

Goverment should allow ladies to walk freely with weapons such as table knives and other little stuffs like that for protection, am sure with that rape will definately reduce....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

@edDREAMZ said...

Inshort, life inprisonment senstence shoulb be given to this touts...
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

FunmiD said...

Well done sir,but please follow through with OBESERE'S RAPE CASE,if he is truly guilty please use him as a scape goat,because if men see that a celebrity is jailed for 14yrs or life,they will stop raping women indiscriminately especially our under aged girls.
Please i'm begging you to take this very seriously before women will start defending themselves by all means necessary.

Stephanie Raymond said...

I pity ur dirty life

Anonymous said...

I don't want to be crude, but abroad, rape and child abuse at some stage became an obsession. In Nigeria, at least for the first intercourse, most girls expect to be 'persuaded' and 'cajoled.' It's considered cheap if the woman puts up no resistance. Except perhaps in the cities, many women are not so liberated as to simply yield to intercourse, even if they are panting for it. I hope these factors are taken into consideration when rape cases proliferate. A woman might be saying 'no,' whilst relaxing on her back and parting her legs. Please let conduct be also assessed in weighing the sincerity of the 'no.'

YMCMB said...

Lobatan!!!!ladies are u a doctor?

Anonymous said...

Some gals are barawo walahi,imagen dis one dey claim virgin and colleting money from wen ever she dey go school until somebody from her school reveil 2 me ao she sleep arround in campus.if not by the rape,I will still be lookin @ her as my virgin mary 2marry,becos it just be like say i jump into 3rd mailand Lagoon.see virgin o, dat one na my fault?ndi ara

Anonymous said...

This is a very serious matter, i am very surprised that frequent visitors who comment on Linda's blog such as Bonario Nnags are making a joke out of it. Seriously? He is not insinuating, he is telling it as it is. Please if you do not have anything to say, must you talk.

Apple said...

Yes guys, when a lady say's no just leave her alone!

cj deboss said...

akuko!!! umz camp

kclub said...

I dey feel u bonariao, lmao, bhu if dem catch u, I no dey oooo

Anonymous said...

You are a rapist still...nothing will justify a rape..monster

Anonymous said...

Seriously....Please tell me u'v not started fucking someone with Ur spaghetti prick....damn, what do you know about Sex

kclub said...

Abi o, if anybody for 9ja dey talk, police too dey talk, police wey dey rape for their station sef.nonsense

Anonymous said...

Make i hear say u never do before.. And he even do for twitter self.. Niaja police kwanu.. Twitter no fit una na to stand for road fit una.

~~Marilyn

Anonymous said...

Bull shit!!!!! All niggas ain't the same

Anonymous said...

This is bullshit!!! All niggas ain't the same

Anonymous said...

Bull shit!!!!! All niggas ain't the same

Anonymous said...

Na so una go dey talk nw, british girls will hear it and if they rape them nw, they will be like ''i thought is only in African u can get raped''
naija polic free us Jor.

~~Marilyn

Anonymous said...

@pissed up victim, ur comment doesn't make sense ok..must u get somethg in return after spending for a lady? Hell no...ur giving was a voluntary act,so her refusing u nt to get somethg in return according to u is still her voluntary act to say no, so pls re-trace ur statement.

hilary obiorah said...

Person wey go rape you, go rape you! Different scopes dey. What we need is providing these girls means to protect themselves, whether it is by providing them pepper sprays or tazzers.

Alozie Okwara said...

OGA POLICE, SO WHAT HAPPENS WHEN THE DUDE IS ACTUALLY SICK AND NEEDS COMPANY. Who told you its only doctors and nurses that attend to the sick? Right project. Wrong message.

Anonymous said...

I like that guy! He should do more PSAs.

jide david said...

very funny but its neva true
linda 

Anonymous said...

Wow, so the only reason a guy should not rape is so he can stay out of jail? Not because its just a horrible thing to do or anything? Mscheeeew. worreva

Anonymous said...

girls d police av warned b careful.nothing more.

Uni Lag said...

but seriously alot of girls lie
University of lagos

Igor said...

Bonario,are you commenting from experience ?

Anonymous said...

Mr man dats nt d way to go against rape. U can say girls shld watch who they follow as boifrend. Which one is no no no.

fase oluwafunmilayo said...

Kinda funny... But its the truth.

Anonymous said...

Stephanie na your life I pity. Na hungry girl wey Dem dey always rape like that. That police man dey talk for twitter, make we check ein record. NA ONLY THEIF GO FIT CATCH THIEF... IF GIRL TELL YOU NO, SOMETIMES ITS NO AND SOMETIMES IT MEANS TRY HARDER AND I WILL. Believe it or not. Oga police na thief wey them catch be thief. If thief catch theif na theif.... Mtchewwwww..

Anonymous said...

14 years or life jail ke . . . why waste state resources for court case and prison space . . .

firing squad abeg

#DimkaTinz

Anonymous said...

If u r sick, go see a doctor. If u r sick, fkg should be the last thing on the brain. If you r lying about being sick just to get a girl to come to ur house and force your perverted self on her, then you're aliar, a monster and yyou deserve serious jail term.

ironlady said...

Pick up lines

Osarhiemen Agbonkonkon said...

@"ur name".....are u for real???

Osarhiemen Agbonkonkon said...

Well said.

Osarhiemen Agbonkonkon said...

@Miss X,same question comes to my mind whenever I hear of a rape case.

Osarhiemen Agbonkonkon said...

Well said.

Osarhiemen Agbonkonkon said...

@"ur name".....are u for real???

Eche Slimstar said...

BONARIO....i went searching for the baby's name but i didnt see it. saw no Zoey there. Its a baby, thats why i am interested.

Anonymous said...

It's a crazy world we live in and dere always will be psychos out there living and walking amongst us unoticed until they perpetuate their evil eg rape, assault etc

The bottom line is girls should be careful of where and when they visit certain places. No one can be raped in the open/public. Try not to be left alone with a stranger and always ensure that you are accompanied by a friend especially when visiting. I refuse to think a bf would rape his gf. It just doesn't make sense to me. But again, girls know who you are with and who you claim to be ur bf. Most of these girls/ladies of nowadays are too cheap in the sense that they jump in and beckon to any sugar daddy's or roscos(guys that have money to spend on them) calls and invitations without properly knowing or even being sure of the fellows true motives.

D truth is I don't pity the so called sharp girls (runs girls) that gets raped, but the innocent girls who in most cases are abducted and raped.

This rape thing is more of a psychological problem/sickness than just mere behaviour.

Anonymous said...

I was beginning to fink am d only one dat noticed d increase in rape cases.. D one dat makes me weak is lil gals n virgins raped to death.. Pls sth be done abt dis coz its terrible. All dez rapists deserve 2b thrown in2 d river n raped by sharks.

Anonymous said...

I don't think this rape issue is as simple as everyone is painting it to be and as so cannot be taken lightly as out daft policeman twits about it. First, we must realize that this is a psychological issue because a sane person, who understands his prospects would never try to jeopardize his freedom or future by raping. We all know the consequences that follows rape and yet it still happens. I want to believe that until our government starts taking psychology and mental wellness issues seriously there would always be a case of rape. A person in his or her right senses would never try such. Rape if you ask me is similar to armed robbery and unless that person is possessed by some unknown factors, he or she would never indulged in such an act.

Also, I think our girls/ladies/women should be educated on being cautious of their movements and whom they hangout, visit or go on a date with. I'm speaking from experiences, not necessarily mine, but experiences gained from certain conversations I've had with friends about how confidently a female would accompany or agree to meet or visit a total stranger at his place of choosing just because she feels he's good looking, rich and so on without even considering the potential danger she might be facing since the person in question she's meet is a total stranger she doesn't know from Adam.

So instead of posting stupid and misguided twits, I expect the police to work in hand with any group or orgs out there to educate people based on true life factors and sensible ways to avoid such acts. Believe it or not there are well dressed but mentally insane individuals out there.

sweetbee said...

LMAO at spaghetti prick.its because of comments like this I read this blog! They make me laff all day

Anonymous said...

uhmm ... well from experience .. Most NO doesnt mean NO sha! #covern my face

Anonymous said...

uhmmmmmm make God protect us from LADIES #Biggrin#

Amarachukwu. said...

Well said!!!

Anonymous said...

Pepper sprays indeed...Lolz! I feel you Hilary.

mummy zarah! said...

@ miss X , u're ryt, d worst tin is destroyn young girls lives, forgetn dey ve sisters n daughters too, forgetn dey will someday be called daddy, n u useless pissd up victim, d name fits u, re u stupid, its now dat fornication turn to something fashionable, in does days our parents re even scared to pronounce d word sex wen datin, bt with d amount of western education now n d turn of things in d society u tot is maturity not knowin is stupidity to d highest order, moron! No is no, we need to start protestn against rape, I ve never seen a rapist in jail in naija, u only hear d case been swept off, in kaduna recently a two year old was raped, if u see d lil girls condition u won't sleep for days.

Anonymous said...

Pls who knows where the venue for immigration exam center is for PH candidates? Very urgent pls! Thank you. Waiting for replies

Paradiseng said...

do u actually know that these girl are the first to rape us by the kind of dress they wear. first they have to be addressed on the kind of things they wear.

Anonymous said...

OGA SAH! GOD BLESS YOU FOR THIS.KINDLY RE-ORIENTATE YOUR PEOPLE AND ORIENTATE THE OLODOs IN THE FORCE COS WE KNOW SOME OF THEM ARE RAPISTS. ALSO SEND WORDS OUT TO YOUR COLLEAGUES AT MILE 2 COS I WAS ATTACKED THIS MORNING. THE IT IS, IT'S EITHER THE POLICE DOESN'T CARE OR THEY GET SOMETHING FROM THESE BOYS.

pissed off victim said...

@anon 1.39 I will not lay out bad words at you, even though u deserve worse, pls kindly re read ur response to me...#really?
So a man shud jus spend for a lady and get nothing in return? Haba, be godfearing na, na she work for me? If u are not game simply say no and let him find a girl that will reciprocate, so he gets wat he wants and she is duly appreciated,#simple...but out of utter greed she go wan chop and clean mouth...so am jus putting the matter to a re think and make a moral judgement, pls don't ref old norm, ref current norms...where sex doesn't guarantee marriage

oyeneyin Rick said...

this police knocking job for boiz

oyeneyin abiodun said...

Huh| police always knocking jobs for boiz..

Anonymous said...

The truth is that some guys re jst perverts!!! The only thing they think abt is sex n this is as a result of the type of society we find ourselves in where there re no morals or Values or even the fear of God, its really disgusting to read guys comment on dis issue seeing Rape as Ok. ITs not OK, no matter wat. ITs dehumanizing and what if that girl/ lady was ur child, sister or even mother? With the mindset that the young men of this generation have that Rape is ok. I fear for the lives of my Unborn Female children!

Pakzi Wokoma said...

Lmao @Onyx - abeg try use ur local dialect! English is not for everyone

pissed off victim said...

Oponu ni e @ anon 1.19...see ur dirty mouth...dats not rape, he already paid for it...#dummy

Anonymous said...

That pretty extreme o..I don't support..even as a lady..and linda,post my comment o if u no want us to fight..
Ify

meroh said...

for once, someone speaking up for ladies in nigeria. well done mr abayomi

Anonymous said...

GBAM! THIS IS WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT. SAY IT LIKE IT IS.

Anonymous said...

Noted well sed


FDJ

Christianah Job said...

Call ur mom or sista, then go to d Dr
#simple

Anonymous said...

Oynx we need a reply please...we sincerely hope you haven't started fuckn someone with that flexible rope🙈😂

Chop Chop said...

sure but why police dey ask for bribe even when drivers say no?

Anonymous said...

no be only spaghetti prick, needle prick! Lwkmd

Anonymous said...

Bonario u sound like a serial rapist. Is that the tactics u use for luring girls to ur house to be raped? *judging from ur statement

Anonymous said...

Lol, all those home chilling guys sef-_-

monster gaziri said...

Wetin b the judgment for ladies dat chop men money come disappear?

monster gaziri said...

But @times No means Yes

Anonymous said...

XXX----I HATE ALL THESE TALK ABOUT BEING RAPED... WHY DO GIRLS SPEND GUYS MONEY? AND DONT WANT TO OPEN THEIR PANTS? DOES MONEY COME FROM TREES? A GUY WHO SPENDS MONEY ON LADY IS EXPECTING SEX IN RETURN ...NO MATTER HOW MUCH HE LIES ABOUT IT OR TRIES TO DENY. SOLUTION= STOP COSTING UR GUY TO SPEND. PERIOD...XXX

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