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Saturday, 21 February 2015

"I am 63, and I have slept with 3,000 men" - woman tells her story

Until the age of 28, Marie Calvert had only ever had sex with one man, her husband Barry. Then she took up swinging and everything changed. The body count went from 1 to 3,000. In fact, she claims that one night, she slept with 14 men. Marie, now 63, tells her epic story below...
It was the night I slept with 14 men that I first started to try to work out how many partners I’ve been with. The truth is, I’m not sure. My conservative estimate is about 100 guys a year for more than three decades. I’m 63 now and I’ve slowed down a little – but only a little. Why do I do it? Having sex isn’t something I do for a living, but it is my passion. It’s the most enjoyable, exhilarating, satisfying way to spend your time. Some women like yoga, some like badminton. I like carnality.
I am actually married. Barry and I have been together since I was 15 – we wed when I was 19, have two grandchildren, and he’s my world. But neither of us puts sex on a pedestal. We see it for what it is: separate from love. It’s not natural to stick with one sexual partner for 60 years. Life is about experimenting and experiencing, and that’s what we do. Barry goes with other women. I don’t get jealous because I know he loves me. Until the age of 28, I’d only been with him and we had a terrific sex life, but one day he brought home a swingers’ magazine he’d picked up from a workmate. He sort of joked we should try it; I told him not to be daft, and he never mentioned it again.
But I kept looking at the mag and imagining how fun it might be. Eventually I told him we should give it a go. He looked like a kid at Christmas. The first couple we met – through the listings in that magazine – were university lecturers in their 40s, and I still remember driving to their home that Friday. Barry stopped the car and said, “Are we sure about this?” We were so nervous, but we were also insanely excited. I said we’d try it once and see how it went. And it went… joyously.
As soon as we met them I was flirting with the guy. John was sophisticated and handsome, and over dinner there was this intense chemistry. Afterwards, there were a few minutes when just he and I were in the living room, and I thought it was now or never so I kissed him, and that was that. By the time Barry came in with John’s wife, we were otherwise engaged. I remember looking at Barry’s face and seeing a big smile come over it; I knew everything would be fine, and that life had changed for ever.
We became committed swingers, spending weekends meeting up with couples or going to parties to swap partners. Suddenly everything was exciting. You’d be at work, and you’d think about what you were up to that evening and it sent a shiver down your spine. Some couples – like John and his wife – would become close friends, even when the sex stopped. Others you’d see only once. The night I slept with 14 men was at a swingers’ party in Manchester. I remember driving there feeling almost uncontrollably lustful. The next day I felt achy, in that lovely way, like when you’ve been to the gym.
In 1997, we decided to open a swingers’ club in Sheffield. We were fed up with work and wanted to do something we were passionate about. It’s still thriving today. We never have sex during opening hours – it’s our business and we’re professional about it. But, of course, when the place shuts, we’ve got an entire club full of facilities – and an ever-growing circle of open-minded couples – to play with. It’s not all been perfect, of course. Not every lover is attentive. I remember in my 40s going with an 18-year-old, just to see what it would be like. Quick was the answer.
We’re safety-conscious and I’ve never felt in any danger. Barry is normally in the same room or not far away. I’ve recently had a knee operation, which means I’m walking with a stick, so I’m taking it easy. I had only three lovers last year. I still have the same sex drive but I’m more relaxed now. I’m not someone who’s ever going to dress like a woman half her age just to get attention. But if guys still find me attractive – well, why not? People ask if we have any regrets and we do – we wish we’d found that mag five or six years earlier.
Culled from UK Guardian

195 comments:

Hypertek IshOlawale said...

Eje! Eje ge Gbleje!

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

WhoSheHelp??? Nxxxttt*in mam p's voice*

Unknown said...

She is crazy.

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

WhoSheHelp??? Nxxxttt*in mam p's voice*

Unknown said...

She is crazy.

Unknown said...

jesus christ na lie me no gree

Hypertek IshOlawale said...

Hoekay...She tried.

Unknown said...

its a game of sex..

Unknown said...

Hell is sooooo real!!
Very soon u guys will b meeting with horses to swap partners. Oyibos always comin up wit stupid ideas.

Unknown said...

Intresting nd congratulations

Unknown said...

Only? Ur still a learner! I've lost count!

Anonymous said...

This post gave me atleast 5 STD's...WHAT!!!!

Unknown said...

#..**#!!!!???

knowurway.com said...

Bastards a fool, ur a gab

Unknown said...

Jesus, only you? You wan kill yourself?

Unknown said...

Crazy people

SANDRA said...

Today is my birthday!!!

Anonymous said...

Absolutely disgusting!

Rubylicious said...

Swinging is a normal thing for them. It's even gaining grounds here too.

Anonymous said...

Do they have HIV or nah? That's the question.

Unknown said...

Sex was created to serve as a bond between couple! Onyinbos can be very crazy with their free life style.

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uwa said...

OH MY GOD !
what about their kids ? Are they aware of this ?
STD they part of make the sex rain ?

Anyway, it's your body and life , please yourself .

Uche Aaron said...

Wow,Na only you waka come!! 3000 men!!
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Unknown said...

Things are actually happening. Just short of words don't knw what actually to say

uwa said...

AIDS is real o o o !

Bonita Bislam said...

You and Barry are room mates not soul mates.Not the Romeo and Juliet kind of luv, but the Barry Marie kind of flirt

joan said...

hmmmm...Unbelievable!!!

eka said...

hmm, the woman is definitely
talented in that sector
in order to take up such no of men...

Unknown said...

Darn! whatever rocks her boat

www.glowyshoes.com said...

Wow
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Sonipinky said...

Jeez!!!So absurd!..Uwa emebigo!

Anonymous said...

More grease to your vagina,Ma. The devil will surely give you a medal of honour for you achievements on this earth when you eventually meet him.

Anonymous said...

This one is possessed! Nothing else!

Mideybabe said...

This is simply hilarious.

Unknown said...

Habba, am so speechless right now

Unknown said...

3,000....like seriously?????


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Sonipinky said...

Jeez!!!So absurd!..Uwa emebigo!

iyke cindy said...

Absolute madness.....jezzz!!!kinda speechless on dis one.

Peejay said...

As sophisticated as I am, I'm hearing of this 'swinging' concept for the first time.
Woman, I can only pray that you and your husband find Christ before your time on earth is complete.

Unknown said...

Madness at its peak.....smh



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Unknown said...

Psychic milf

Anonymous said...

Madam this is addiction
And you need help
Not about what you like
Taking drugs too is what some people like
But when is too much it becomes addiction
But how can someone survive sleeping with 14men

kidykuz said...

Ok She try..na achievement the

Anonymous said...

Madam this is addiction
And you need help
Not about what you like
Taking drugs too is what some people like
But when is too much it becomes addiction
But how can someone survive sleeping with 14men

Unknown said...

Psychic milf

Unknown said...

This cnt b true, 3000 wot abeg.

Unknown said...

You need Jesus.

Anonymous said...

chai this na craze of the first order.....

Unknown said...

Dis woman has a demonic problem... #ABYSMAL

Thatigbobabe(Lilyflower) said...

Retire that p****y already
Sex aint food

Unknown said...

Jeez!!! Nothing wey person no go hear for this world. Insane people everywhere

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KayMaths said...

Nawa oo

Unknown said...

MR EDDY said this heat wan kill person o.


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Unknown said...

Awwww........ I knw itz bad to practice such in Nigeria, bt itz fun if u consider it d odaa way round except 4 d sin involved in it *thamixbreed*

Unknown said...

White pple are crazy...wheew!!

Unknown said...

Hmmmmm..... Ur life.... Ur biz

Unknown said...

Omg...The world is coming to an end quicker than it was supposed to...what is all these rubbish

Unknown said...

*sighs* Of a truth, no day passes by without my imagining what would become of the world by the year, 2040!

Unknown said...

Whatever rocks dier boat

Unknown said...

Epic.
sex...We see it for what it is: separate from love, that statement melt my heart






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Anonymous said...

Ashiere!

Unknown said...

Stupidity at the highest order.

Anonymous said...

O si no gini. This turned me on thou. Hian... the world most open minded couple. Well isn't sex a spiritual thing?

Unknown said...

Dumbfounded.......No argument towards this.....*No further word*


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Unknown said...

Wowww,oky o

Anonymous said...

I luv dz hahahaaaahaha

Unknown said...

This as definitely got to be a joke....what sum of us take as a big deal is a piece of shit to sum oda pple......

Unknown said...

And the demons in her kept growing........ it's an insatiable journey

HFR said...

Some unimaginable things people do in this world.Suddenly, U begin to wonder if the same God made all men with different desires as this.

HFR said...

Some unimaginable things people do in this world.Suddenly, U begin to wonder if the same God made all men with different desires as this.

Bamidele said...

Mo'fos

CHERRY said...

Hmmm madam u try o!

Unknown said...

Interesting

Unknown said...

Hian, well done mama, thanks for slowing down make we d younger ones enjoy small. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Hian, well done mama, thanks for slowing down make we d younger ones enjoy small. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Hian, well done mama, thanks for slowing down make we d younger ones enjoy small. Linda take note!

Ryan said...

Very good, clap for yaself. There's still enough time to sleep with 3000 more.

Anonymous said...

Ashawo obinagu!

Anonymous said...

Today z my birthdaY

Unknown said...

Go carry cup nah! U dey sleep wit 3000 men

Anonymous said...

Craziness at it's peak

Unknown said...

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm mm

ary said...

3000?! That puzzy would be as used as a rail road! God dammit!!!

Unknown said...

Demons gone on rampage

Carina Kikelomo Jacob said...

Okay.

Anonymous said...

WTF u are insane

Chikata Chidinma. said...

3,000 Men.Now thats serious madness.jezzzz.well,its her life and her choice.

Juleslouis said...

This is crazy! But most couples find this d only way to escape a boring marriage. Whatever suits them sha. I'm not against swinging, but i can't do it!

HRH Jefixx�� said...

Oh chimoooo,nothing wey person no go see for dis una obodo oyibo bikonu!

gidis said...

I can only of 1 word 2 describe dis.... INSANITY,mtchew oshisko

BLAQ said...

OMG that world has gone mad
*Jaw opened*

Kaycee said...

Onyibo and their mentality, they can really be extreme with their views, when u see the jealous type, they would break up just because partner cheated once, but flirting type, would fuck tons of people @ a swingers party

Lady C said...

Gross

joy Egbunu said...

Absolute wereyizm!





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Unknown said...

Wonders shall never end, indeed this world is coming to an end just read the rubbish this old woman published, it that legacy or what? I think u and that ur husband Barry is possess, nemesis will soon catch up with u people.





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Unknown said...

No better definition to "End time".

MADE IN NIGERIA said...

Hmmmmmmm, *wide eyes* WTF??? White people are mad oooo....Lord have mercy!!!

Unknown said...

Hehehehehehe, what won't I hear.

AZEEZ RIZQAH said...

Madness @ it peak.
Davido's GF

Anonymous said...

Wow!! Hope I dnt have 2 count more than the love of my life. Dear future hubby.. Don't break my heart or I might do 4000 :D ----C21

Anonymous said...

Its a pity,see wat d whites count as achievement.....#SB#

Unknown said...

Huhh??? Ure shitting me... 3000 wat??? Quite a story... I rest my case

Anonymous said...

Liar, even if na oil well u get btw ur legs

Unknown said...

keep sleeping long live mama

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm..
what an old slut!....


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Unknown said...

Chai! Oyibo and their small small madness. Try dis here in naija and remain a statue in Okija shrine or Ayilala shrine.

Anonymous said...

Oyibo nd dead life

Unknown said...

Speechless oo

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ENNY said...

Capital Nonsense!

Unknown said...

Nothing white ppl no go do. Hmmm. Thank God am from a cultured home jare. Linda I hail thee

KIZITO~SANTIAGO said...

Terrible

Anonymous said...

Oloriburuku set of couple.whites cn b so mad. Cnt imagine my partner wth some1 else dt I knw sha

Unknown said...

Orishirishi

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

More power to her elbow o

Anonymous said...

Lol....... cool story.Lagoo too hz swingers club. Mk una enjoy.

Joyce said...

Ds is serious

Unknown said...

Who am I 2 judge r,some young girls mait av done more dan she has,afteral she said it's r own way ov relaxin

Anonymous said...

Wow, to each her own. What about diseases? She doesn't talk about whether she's caught an STD, if she's ever not used condoms, close calls, etc.

semilore said...

dis is so crazy, oyinbo and deir tins.

@Osirmah said...

Hhhhhmmm! Just imagining hw ur Pu**y would look like now! I weep for u ma!

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Anonymous said...

May the good Lord save her soul.

Anonymous said...

Well done ma, more grease to your elbow ma

Unknown said...

The end is really very near......linda I have spoken

Anonymous said...

Isn't this just ridiculously absurd? Lol!

DON PAFEGS said...

No that's not true

Damn!

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Anonymous said...

Keep your opinion to yourself and stop corrupting d society with your crazy fantacy.

Unknown said...

But these whites are just crazy, 3000 men!unbelievable!!...

PRETTY GIRL said...

O boy! Una Ashawo knows no bounds.....14 men is one night?#SPEECHLESS

PRETTY GIRL said...

O boy! Una Ashawo knows no bounds.....14 men in one night?#SPEECHLESS

Anonymous said...

She should have just done it for money. Imagine sleeping with 3000men for money...! Ha!



I better keep my thoughts to myself

Unknown said...

wow, dis one no fit happen for naija o

Unknown said...

She's nuts...never heard anything like this before. Only goes to show that the world is gradually coming to an end. God save our souls

Anonymous said...

These are the people deliberately put out there to deceive people, just to make the young ones more immoral. There's a serious battle going on by the enemy to win the heart and souls of the young. Be prayerful people

Anonymous said...

Linda you can sensor good things in politics but at the same time post things that will turn young people away from God? smh

Unknown said...

Congrats

Zamani said...

Crazy old woman
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Unknown said...

The way she's holding that pole sef tells it all.


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Hypertek IshOlawale said...

Is these the account she will give to God when she getz to the "other side of existence".....May the lord (road) have mercy on her soul (sole).

Anonymous said...

What a story!

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Unknown said...

Sickening

Subomi said...

Her life her P ... good for her

Anonymous said...

Wonders shall neva End. Her pussy ll b as wide as the ocean!

#Hormortaryo said...

I envy whites, I swear" Even if a black woman does more than this, she will never be honest about it... Judge her only if u are 100% sure God hasn't forgiven her.

Unknown said...

Linda dem say na politics only u sabi or mahida show now u come up wit wide story! U don dey angels gate for interrogation.

IWP said...

W.h.o r.e .....na person mama oo she go don be.....wow am sure sef i go don nak her...

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Unknown said...

Cn't comment all dis while,hope your guys missed me.....gud for her

Unknown said...

This one na Iron condemn! Chai

Unknown said...

And that become her achievement abi?
Go for deliverance

Anonymous said...

BIG FISH said........disgusting, what a life

Unknown said...

Hilarious,dts all I can say

IWP said...

w.h.o.r.e...63 year old grandmama....wow onyibo people oo wow MILf www.iwonpopular.com

Anonymous said...

hmmm. visit www.socialwritter.blogspot.com

Goaldyn Boy said...

"Some women like yoga, some like badminton. I like carnality" Inukwa! ........Anyways, there are some naija girls that have beaten her in her own game! They have slept with hundred thousand men!!!

Anonymous said...

If you have been at a swingers party, you would have a different opinion..

Unknown said...

Public toilet

Unknown said...

Public toilet

hrm paul ojeih said...

madam i no no wetein u say make we talk for this ya mater . i picked up one word u used. u say una be swingers.no wahala. una marry for church for holy matrimony to hodl abd to cheerish to hold no other to limit ur Virgina for ur mumu husband and vice versa but now u don turn am to national cake dey sharing am. God go ask u one question and that is why did u defile the tenets of your matrimony vow. marriage is scared but u and ur mumu husband has desecrated ur marriage. banging and sampling various carrots chai this woman u too much well na u and God go judge this matter in the end shameless whore

Unknown said...

I have no problem with swinging, different pple with different sexual fetish,but 3000 men?!!! *dies*

Unknown said...

I have no problem with swinging, different pple with different sexual fetish,but 3000 men?!!! *dies*

Anonymous said...

This is perversion of the highest order and evils of the end time

Anonymous said...

This is perversion of the highest order and evils of the end time

obiora said...

This is crazy!

QUEEN B said...

Leave God to judge her, talk of urs!

Unknown said...

Story of my life.

Redcandy said...

And guys thought they held the world record for playing! Na wa o! lol!

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Anonymous said...

CONGRAT MA FOR KIPIN SUCH AN ACCURATE FIGURE,WIT HW MNY AWARDS??IF NONE DEN U R A DSGRACE TO WOMEN FOLK,SME WOMEN VE FSH HEAD....TOMJERRYSWIT

Anonymous said...

CONGRAT MA FOR KIPIN SUCH AN ACCURATE FIGURE,WIT HW MNY AWARDS??IF NONE DEN U R A DSGRACE TO WOMEN FOLK,SME WOMEN VE FSH HEAD....TOMJERRYSWIT

abraham said...

really... this is my kind of marriage life i've be dreaming of all my life. i desire dis o lord... lol. men.. this is the best. i wish i could find this type of woman in this country ..nigeria.

Unknown said...

Oh chim.. 3000. Hmmm all in the name of experience and experiment odinma... She felt achy in a lovely way like wen u have been to the gym after dancing atilogue with 14 diff men one night. God ur eyes done see 2much ooo.

MAYOR'S ENVIRON said...

Asin dey will be growing in every round.imagine how many she got now

Unknown said...

Ok, madam 63, congrats na. Wah next?

prettiyz said...

These pple r really crazy

Anonymous said...

Great story! I wish I could go with other men too. How can one be stuck with just one man forever??? It'll be great to remain married but be able to sleep with other people

oyakhilome said...

Hahahahahahaha. Thought I was the only one that had that thought cross my mind.

Davido's driver said...

Oyinbo and sex tufia

tochi said...

Linda na waoo

tochi said...

Na waoo

Anonymous said...

Happy birthday Sandra

#myopinioncounts# said...

Is she expecting to get a trophy or what...mccheww

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm world don end ooo! Repent for d kingdom of God is near! Weytin we no go hear

Anonymous said...

Is this what you are proud of? Please you are possessed.

Anonymous said...

shame on u lady
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Baddie said...

These OYINBO people are always trying to justify why something wrong should be normal. Grandma pls WE DON HEAR! Her vagina must be slacked that's just nasty!

Gozie said...

I second that

Unknown said...

Hahahaha
Funny indeed.

Anonymous said...

You re a racist what a shame

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

Hahahahaha....she slayed me with that..what an answer,,,the devil is a liar

Anonymous said...

While I have my reservations about grandma's irresponsible conduct, I am tempted to ask: What about our undergraduates who are commercial sex workers every night and students during the day? They sleep with different men every single day from year to year even after graduation just to buy clothes, shoes, phones, cosmetics, and other vanities. Please, can someone explain the difference to me? Most of them have done a lot more than this grandma...

Anonymous said...

U dey Kolo ooooooo I noticed it since

Anonymous said...

Please start now because ur heart must experience break

Anonymous said...

U try

Odi78 said...

Evil spirit at work. Fallen Angels appear in various forms.

Unknown said...

Ha ha ha ha,Abeg ask her

Unknown said...

Na wa ! :(

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