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Saturday 2 August 2014

"I won’t advise any man to have more than one wife" – OJB Jezreel

Singer/music producer OJB Jezreel who has 3 wives (pictured above with him) says he won't advise any man to have more than one wife. Speaking with Saturday Punch, OJB explains;

Was it by choice or design that you have three wives?
It is everything. But predominantly, I think it is by design. Some people believe in destiny while some others don’t. I think it was destined to happen. I believe in destiny. I don’t think I would have survived it if it weren’t destined to be. People get shocked that I have three wives because I don’t live like somebody who has three wives. Come to think of it, there is no particular way to live life. Am I supposed to wear three shirts because I have three wives? I don’t even advise people to have three wives and when I talk about it, they are shocked. Continue...
But you married three?
Oh yes I did. When I was growing up, I even said I was not going to get married. I said I would just have children. But see, it is not the same story now. I just feel it is destiny.

Don’t you regret it?
There is no regret. Initially, you would tell yourself that if you had one wife, this would have happened or that would have happened if you didn’t. But then again, you have to check and understand that life is in stages. I am appreciating life the way it is. Out of the marriages, I have eight beautiful children. When I look at them, I am happy. They are my investment.
I still can't get over women being okay with sharing one man...especially young, modern women. But everybody to their own...

95 comments:

www.glowyshoes.com said...

Now hz regretting...

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www.glowysofiscated.blogspot.com

Scarlett said...

Anything that makes you sleep well at night. I wonder how content your wives are. I don't believe there are no rivalries

Unknown said...

Everyman for himself.....

Anonymous said...

So you are wise afterall, am sure Azadus agrees wit ds advice...... Linda even me too ooh, still don't get why a lady would like to share her food.....#cheEzyjayne

Bishop Dammy said...

I second you bro! The bible ascertains that ..so please guys think wisely before u choose a gurl cos u ganna be with her for the rest of your life except death says NO! Matt 19:4-6. BishopDammy#

MACBOOK said...

Na chi ebola? Haaaa Mbanu

Ceeflo said...

He's just realising it ? Polygamy is like swallowing Venom ..

Ceeflo said...

He's just realising it ? Polygamy is like swallowing Venom .. Although he looks very satisfied in that picture

Eya Ayambem said...

Women and our wahala then multiply by three. Tripple wahala but can never go hungry. Food is always ready.

Unknown said...

Loool.. He sounds confused.. Its really unneccessary .. 1 man τ̲̅ȍ 1 woman Ȋ̝̊̅§ enough trouble.. Gudluck τ̲̅ȍ them though..

Cute G said...

He is one of those that believes in the phrase "men are polygamous in nature"..I'm sure he's presently not having it smooth wt his legions of wives.Even those with one wife have their torn in the flesh.

Unknown said...

Only one of them is cute...well I won't mind being a 3rd wife to a billionaire though lol

Anonymous said...

A case of don't do as I do..

#king said...

I cant do such..marry 3 women mba................................#KingOfKings

Unknown said...

Eeeh ? True talk though but it was one of 'em that saved ur life, if u hadn't married 3 maybe u wouldn't have married dat angel dat saved u. Well glad u aint regretting.

Angie said...

He made no sense whatsoever..

Even the thought of a side chick at his business trip scares the hell outta me, not to talk of another wife.

Destiny my foot!


*My R1.50c comment*

Anonymous said...

HA HA HA HA

Souljagurl said...

Na so ouh, Lin' Lin'

Unknown said...


" theres no regret, initially " ...lol ! then what ?? OJB killed his promising career, simple as that! The Jimmy Jatt, Tuface, P square are still forces in the industry while OJB is licking regrets.

Unknown said...

Story story advice urself *notinterested*

*i Like Don jazzy

Steveosky 4 Real. said...

That's sudden death !!

Anonymous said...

I just love this man #bright bravo#

Anonymous said...

U try but u are on fire, sorry pkele ndo ooh

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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This guy try die i swear.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

Opelicious Morgann said...

Linda, you took the words right outta my mouth. I can never share my man and I pray he too is satisfied n contented with me.

Anonymous said...

I feel you on that not sharing a man in these modern times comment. The lady in yellow is a stunner. She can pull any guy.

agbajebunmi said...

why wud he have 3 wives

agbajebunmi said...

why wud he have 3 wives

The Man said...

I don't like reading this man's story. Annoying! I don't blame him, women with low esteem,they are ready to be second, third and even fourth wives.
If he was wealthy, one would say they are after his money. Broke ass! Abi na jazz! Smh

Amaka.u.l said...

Na wa o

Anonymous said...

"I still can't get over women being okay with sharing one man...especially young, modern women."

Jazz join inside. Nothing can convince me otherwise...

ary said...

First hand experience!

ary said...

First hand experience!

ary said...

They say experience is the best teacher.

NaNcY DreW said...

Tell it 2 d Allahji's and promiscuous men

Anonymous said...

They re on their own. LIB Princess! Pretex4luv@yahoo.com

Unknown said...

You're 3 wives are looking so robust and you're looking like d house boy....hmmm! I reserve my comment.

Michael said...

There You have it.... from a man who have seen it all, good advise.

Unknown said...

Anyone dat wants to marry 10 can go head ooo,,na him own cup of tea

ade said...

its his destiny my ass. if you told him its his destiny to be a 3rd husband, he'll re-write it. dumb people. 10 children and when it came to taking care of his health, nigerians had to donate. TEN friggin children like for what? mchewwww. Children are a blessing but at some point, it starts to be a curse people. stop having more than u can afford

and unfortunately for these women, its a conclusion that they are better off been sister wives than been single per society standard.

Olori Jojo said...

What is behind those smile ehnn

Anonymous said...

Having three wives cant give a man rest of mind. I cant bliv otherwise.

Anonymous said...

Nigerian women and marriage. See those beautiful women, wat re dey looking 4? OJB u re really a confused man who doesn't know wat he wants.

Anonymous said...

If U don't ve anyfin to say. Shhhh...... Aldou

Anonymous said...

Linda get over it already. Even the Bible says seven women to one an, Isaiah 4:1

Faith Ogaga said...

And in all, its his very 1st wife that gave her kidney....

Anonymous said...

YEYE!!!

Anonymous said...

Ehennnn. Mr 3, Ok ooooo. (Linda's Man)

Blackberry said...

Hopefully u will b able to train all of them equally to varsity level. Desperate women can share a man n damn d consequences.

Anonymous said...

Life can't be easy.for him and his wives Mehn. But... *sips lipton tea*

jeff said...

OJB,u r dyin in silence

MeenatNigeria said...

Hahahahaha Lindodo he must have seen hell....... I AM MISS LIBER*MISS MEENAT

Unknown said...

He's seriously unserious.

Anonymous said...

*sigh* Village man with three wives..lol but he's truthful plus great advice and I'm happy he respected those women by not saying he regrets it cos it has happened already. 1man-1wife ----C21

Anonymous said...

*sigh* Village man with three wives..lol but he's truthful plus great advice and I'm happy he respected those women by not saying he regrets it cos it has happened already. 1man-1wife ----C21

Unknown said...

I can't share my man o..I must be his only wife

Amarachukwu. said...

Now you know...lol

APPLE said...

It is men that have mental problem that marry more than one wife. #myopinion.

Anonymous said...

No comment. I don't trust what I will bring out.

Anonymous said...

He is talking real jazz...mtchwwwww...nonsense of the highest order.....

cid said...

This guy msn ooo how old hin be wai hin don get 3 wivies na hin death hin don marry at young age

Anonymous said...

Dere is sometin he don't want 2 say,but well I love his words.he is a real man is nt easy at all .

Okoro said...

Yea. Everyone and their own choice.

whitefalcon said...

My dear, gone.are the days when polygamy was trendy.

Aunty Linda, u couldn't have said it better.

peculiar said...

hmmmmmm,kudos.opelisia@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

Shut your trap.. why you no let people know say you get 3wives whether anybody go donate money for your operation.. well good luck jonathan to you..

Anonymous said...

Hiaaaaaa God forbid!

Unknown said...

U try o, three wives.

jbankzE said...

I cn NEVER share my man wif anybodi,God wil nt let ds bfall me.

~@iamJbankz Olamide's PA~

Anonymous said...

Hahahahahahahaha see story,abeg pack well jor.

Issshhhhh

Rock said...

My guts tells me that at least one of these women will have a boyfriend out there

Unknown said...

No b marry 3,enjy d luv n triplet wahala.lolz

Anonymous said...

this guy na bad guy oh.... ok tell me how this kind person nor go get.... KD problem before.... only him one... egusi, draw soup and owo soup
#beausteven_blog

Gold said...

I wonder how dey enjoy sharing their husband

Anonymous said...

isn't it this same OJB that neede money for treatment the last time... if only he had one wife am sure he would have been able to afford his medicals all by himself.

Anonymous said...

3 ke? God will beat me! Pls guys hw do u manage more dan 1 gal cos only ds ma Elizabeth babe cn mk me start beatin her fada!
Btw...Any gal dat agrees 2 b a 2nd wife has d lowest of esteems....The Architect

Anonymous said...

lol

Unknown said...

He is being sincere. ..welldone

Anonymous said...

Guy you dey try o...
VICTOR

Humphrey said...

Okey sir

Unknown said...

Not cool for me sha..wateva rocks his boat tho

Anonymous said...

I swear I also can't imagine how women are okay with sharing one man,I just can't tolerate it,I'd rather come out of the marriage cos,it seems irritating to me.imagine when it will be the turn of the other wife,all I'll be thinking is how my hubby's dick is inside another woman's pussy,hell no,can't stand it.may God not let me find myself in such situations in Jesus name.amen

Anonymous said...

Please is this not the-same guy that had health issues and was asking Nigerians for help?

Anonymous said...

Abeg Linda no b dis guy Wey b get kidney problem b dis IJB Wey bn dey beg Nigerians 4 support b dis guy.so Na 3 wivies tins he dey runs abi. DarIs God oooo

Anonymous said...

Abeg Linda no b dis guy Wey b get kidney problem b dis IJB Wey bn dey beg Nigerians 4 support b dis guy.so Na 3 wivies $ 8 children tins he dey runs abi. DarIs God oooo

Anonymous said...

LolzzzzzZzz

Anonymous said...

Na wa oooooooo

Anonymous said...

Na wa oooo

Anonymous said...

To thoso that don't kno their God,if u kno d God that u serve d reserves wil b d case ie 7 men to one woman.

Anonymous said...

OJB i beg make weself enjoy polygamy na dont advide usna...abi u nowant make we be alhajis.....visit www.iwonpopular.com now for gist fresh website new n banging

Anonymous said...

Abraham blessings r mine ****singing****

Anonymous said...

He shouldn't have married the other two at all because it's the first wife that saved his life with her kidney!! The other two came up with truck loads of excuses. Now they're smiling and taking pix with him.

Anonymous said...

See the stupid smile on their faces !!! Lesbo foursome tins

Anonymous said...

Eight children though! Fuggy house

Anonymous said...

What most of you women should be saying is 'I can never share my man KNOWINGLY'
Because let's be honest here, those that know there men cheat do nothing about it.

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