Dear LIB readers: How do I forgive? (ex-gf of "please help me beg my fiancee)

Part two of yesterday's Dear LIB (read part 1 here). The fiancee has reacted...

Linda don't know how you are going to post this but this guy literary came to my house, parked on the road, his car full lights were on with ignition on (about 11:30pm same night he came into town), told my gate man to call me, I came out and stood inside the compound peeping out thinking he had come to apologize (he had upset me earlier that same day), I said "yes what do you want?'' and his response was in an angry voice "what do you mean by what do I want?''. He came towards me and dragged me outside the compound by my night wear and started shouting in an angry tone "you brought a man to my house and came to f**k on my bed, he even used my condom, the gateman heard you moaning, on the bed I bought''. I thought he was going mad so I kept calm, I asked him to leave my hands because he held them so tight. 

I immediately told my guard that was there to call my friend that was with me, and when she came, I told her about the accusation and she said "I was with her last night at your place" (and this guy kept on shouting on top of his lungs with my neighbors and Landlord watching and hearing my supposed fiance accusing me I took a man to his house (my mum heard too - she dint answer my greeting the following morning)…

Please how do women forgive men that would listen to his gate man and react before asking the woman he claims he loves (Mind you, he didn't tell his gate-man he was traveling, so two days without seeing his oga, he assumed it was his oga and myself that entered the house because its was late at night (12:30am). All the guard said to him the following day when he got home was "oga I think say na you enter house yesterday"...