This past weekend, I did something I thought I was never capable of doing. I had sex with another man who wasn't my husband. Yes, you read right. The best part about it is that I feel great *dancing*. I thought I'd hate myself for doing it. But I don't. I thought I'd regret it. But I don't. I thought I'd feel some guilt. But I don't. In fact I can't wait to meet my lover again. Once again - *dancing*.
I love my husband, don't get it twisted. He's the father of my four children. We have been together for 23 years. But you see, he was never a faithful man. Not from the first day. He cheated when we dated. He cheated when we got married. In fact, he has another baby by another woman. A love child he had while we were married. I stayed. I never cheated. He slept with a friend. I stayed, I never cheated. He slept with 6 of his female staff, I stayed I never cheated. He slept with so many random women, I stayed, I never cheated. He even slept with our neighbour, I stayed, I never cheated. Then he said somethingYou see, I saw a text on his phone which he sent to one of his lovers. The lady had apparently had an abortion for him and she was threatening to contact me to tell me about their affair and guess what my husband told her?
'even if my wife catches me on top of you on our marital bed, she will ask us to continue, go into the kitchen make my dinner and still make love to me that same night on that same bed so please feel free to contact her. She's not going anywhere"You see, he's wrong! His cheating affects me. For 23 years I have had to endure his constant philandering. My husband is rich so the women are plenty. I have cried, I have pleaded, I have threatened but it never stopped. And he thinks I'm okay with it. He thinks I am not going anywhere. Oh but he's wrong. I am going somewhere alright. To another man's bed.
I'm stuck with this man, 23 years and four children. And I love him with my life. But I'm done being the wife he thinks will catch him on our marital bed and give him a standing ovation. He wants to cheat? Well, two can play that game. After 23 years, I try now? I feel so liberated. I can't wait to meet my lover this weekend again. The last time was amazing. He's a great lover. *dancing*
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Rubbish. Didn't bother reading ur thrash
"are you gonna danceoo! If I show you your HIV status"
Two wrongs can ever make a right.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
Ok? And you are telling us this so we should do what with it?
Please, don't allow the devil to trick you. Our faithfulness is to God and not to man. God Himself will reward you for your faithfulness to Him.
Do not cheat because your husband/wife cheats. Be faithful to God and He will reward you abundantly
U and ur husband can keep sleeping around. Remember AIDS is real. Ashawo couple #sigh
And this doesn't make you any better.
WOWWWWW!!!
I feel good for you too jarey.
you have been through a lot, but dont let your children find out oh.
they will despise you for it and not him.
Congrats on your freedom jarey....
WOWWWWW!!!
I feel good for you too jarey.
you have been through a lot, but dont let your children find out oh.
they will despise you for it and not him.
Congrats on your freedom jarey....
You are not normal
God have mercy on u
Ngwa nwanyi 50 gbozaa 4 u! D 2 of u can help urselves out wit HIV.....ndi ara.
hmmmmmmm! what shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and looses his soul? your soul is more important o(in bishop Dammy's voice) linda pls post
Lol...I can feel ur excitement from here, my dear YOLO u're an adult and you know what's good and what's bad, if you feel it is good and u're this excited my dear ride on dem no dey advice a woman in her 40's on adultery
Lol! All is can say is.....well there's nuttn to say. YES! Ur husband is very very wrong...but @ d same time ur actions ain't justified o madam! If d cheating affected u dat much u wldnt have married him in d first place knowing fully well he is a serial cheat! but Noooo, u went ahead...even after finding out, u cld have still left d marriage @ anytime but nooo..u didn't! so pls don't expect us to help u justify ur ridiculous behaviour just coz u didn't have d strength to leave ur husband. No worry, ur husband will still sleep wit ur lover! Lol
My dear! I am a christian but I feel you well well! Just be cautious o! Such a man can kill you off if he finds out or even kill your lover! Cheating is sooo wrong walahi! You tried o! 23 yrs and you still stuck with him! i for plan take all my children to an unknown destination! You made the bed the way it is dear! You can do better than cheating! Open up and let him know you are no longer that baby he thinks you are! Threaten him! Take his kids to an unknown destination for a while! Seize their passports! Shame him! He is taking you for granted! Horrible man! He doesn't deserve your love!
Hell has no fury like a woman scorned. Two wrongs don't make a right!
IF IT MAKES U HAPPY Y NOT..........CHEERS TO THE FREAKING WEEKEND
When u finally become a single mother come tell us too o, cus me go laugh o
2 wrong doesn't make a right,Y not divorce him instead of stooping so low to his level? You had better be careful so that you won't loose all you've laboured for...
Lol. Mehn! I don't even know what to say. After reading his activities, Calling this your husband a dog will be an insult to dogs in general. He has literally turned you into a doormat. 23 years of all that? You've really tried. Even if anyone tells you to stop now, you won't heed to that. So madam, whatever makes you happy, whatever makes you feel alive, whatever rocks your boat, Continue. Lol *takes cover*
Interesting! Just know that one of the reasons you wrote this is that you are trying to give your conscience the final death. Your husband's conscience is dead, you must not follow him to hell. Also remember, HIV and STDs are still out there.
Madam u are so funny,please be careful atleast for the kids.Love you
2 wrong doesn't make a right,Y not divorce him instead of stooping so low to his level? You had better be careful so that you won't loose all you've laboured for...
Mstwwwwwwwww....we are too busy to judge you please....attention seeker...
two wrongs never makes it right...if ur daughter tells you this as her escapade...wats ur response.
Omg, dis is so wrong. Lord have mercy
loool Madam , you for put your full name and picture naw.so that we'll know that our wife has gone mad again.
my university experience....http://udokajane.blogspot.com/2014/11/a-university-experience.html#comment-form
Its not healthy though for you to stoop down to his level. If hes that irresponsible, I doubt that u r d same way.
Inasmuch as, divorce is frowned at by God and man, its best for you to leave rather than stay and play his game. Be wise.
No maa'm dats so wrong,so you would allow him drag you to hell cuz you want to get back at him,God sees and he'll deliver.Just ask God for forgiveness and still stay faithful,his payback time is near and trust me he will pay in full dose,xcept God isn't God.
Then keep on na. That is the only way you can feel that you are smart.
two wrongs never makes it right..imagine your daughter inlaw telling you dis....
Wow! Madam I understand how pained you are. But personally I think u should have left him totally, leave your marriage than doing what u re doing? Cos it's not going to bring all the joy and happiness u need at the end of the day so please rethink your action, ask God to forgive u.
Bottom line is, you have tried. I think if you can endure this long "23 years", then my dear you can as well continue praying for him because this is not normal.
Both husband and wife have issues...dont stoop urself so low because you want to make a point. U may feel good but in all truth you just brought yourself to the same low level as him...get a divorce if you dont want to be there.
Scorned: Crimes of Passion!
Madam, I understand you have been pushed to the wall but adultery will not give you closure o, God is watching you sha
you are so out of the house when he finds out, hope you are ready for the consequences of your actions.
Go girl....just remember when ur kids turn to sluts and womanisers, pls dont blame as they learnt from their parents....
Hehhehehehe! A mans world is becoming a womans world. Men beware or u will be d ones who will hav to wait nd cry at home over ur wives who hav gone cheatin on u
I doubt d authenticity of dis story
Gosh,dis woman is crazy!!!
ur doing it the wrong way and ur a coward. PARK UR BAGS AND LEAVE. u made ur husband a serial cheat by forgiving him and staying. U made him have kids from another woman cos u allowed it. U don't know what u want and from what uv said ur not younger than 42years.Maybe like the other ladies u want the money so u stayed.
BAD HUSBAND, STUPID WIFE!
its quite sad he never stopped cheating and i condemn him for his wrongs to you cos u don't deserve such my dear, you endured for 23 years? wow! you did pretty well but why cheat now? you know "two wrongs don't make a right" why not walk away (divorce) then get a man that treats you right and sees you for you? don't stoop low like him, his a shame to us married men!
You deserve it my dear! I don't blame you. I would cheat if I were u as well. How many women would even tolerate what you have tolerated? Keep doing you jare! Body no be firewood
Congrats. Asewo.
We told you but u said he will change... Money lover....
*coughs*
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this one weyn u put person face to the post,hope this is not the lady cos it looks too real. Same age group with the poster and all...lol
Choi! The guy don break you! You shd have kept going! He's a no cheap ass shameless dog. But that don't make it right what you've done
yh Jezebel know no sin. Continue bitch
things some of us women can endure though.
I really feel for you. U r definitely a strong lady..... I couldn't have lasted for 23 years.
We told u but u said he will change... Money Lover....
Just hanging on there because he is rich and you depending on him-you are his slave that is why rubbed it on your face; deal with it, Nigerian woman will take all shits as-long-as if the man is rich: money!
Go girl,dey think dey re d only 1nce dt can cheat,so wit my own husband,i went out as well n got myself a lover,now 2 can play d game,am nt bothered now if he cheats cos we re even now,though it's bad buh mehnn it's fun*lol*
Madam,
This is actually my first comment ever on this blog. I had to comment, so as to assist you in your desperate attempt to disaster. Infidelity is not the solution to unfaithfulness. If you are tired of the marriage kindly dissolve it and concentrate on your children and career as a woman.
If you truly love the side "cock", do him that honour and favour to be with him.
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Damn, i love this woman... Keep living the gud life mummy, yu deserve to be happy...
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Whatever rocks ur boat madam!!!!
Well done ��. You should have started long ago and not wait till now, please write to inform us when u catch your lover cheating......of course it will come as no surprise to u and u will dance ur way into another's bed.
FYI...... a faithful woman will remain a faithful woman regardless of situation. Grow some brains ......*dancing* at ur obvious lack of wisdom.
Waoh
Hohohohho, crazy woman! Go nd enjoy o jare!
LOL. This is ridiculous.
Mtscheeew
Na una two sabi #sips my lipton #
Absolute rubbish! Pls go ahead. Trust me, u'll only hurt urself and regret it for the rest of ur life.
Lol....so funny but remember a man is always the man....
Don't cry to us, wen dis one begin cheat again oh, remember a woman is got no excuse to cheat, even if u catches ur hubby on another woman. Prayers should be ur solution nd not cheating.
You have endured for the past 23yrs buh you should have edure more.if he catches you,dats the end of the 23yrs with him.men cheats i
u r spoiling ur children's life.......
Madam,
This is actually my first comment ever on this blog. I had to comment, so as to assist you in your desperate attempt to disaster. Infidelity is not the solution to unfaithfulness. If you are tired of the marriage kindly dissolve it and concentrate on your children and career as a woman.
If you truly love the side "cock", do him that honour and favour to be with him.
Y u con dey tell us now??. 4 real, u have Don it. So no need telling u two wrongs don't make a right. Which Im sure u r well aware of. U probably just want some public justification for ur action.
Ok
You go girl!!! Thumbs up!!! All d men think d womenfolk are all from Mary's generation so they cheat on us and feel okay with it. We have hung on to d marriages with d hope for a change unfortunately, they get worse. Wish u fun and luck dear!!!
ok. But after one minute pleasure, the guilt sets in. Hope you are ready to live with that?
You've already advised yourself....buh what you should have done was to quit the marriage and with that you won't feel guilty about cheating and you will be free with anyone you're dating and everyone will be happy for you .... Marriage is not a do or die affair.
In that case ur consience is dead marriage is all about endurance and patience come carry award madan great
Ise aye tinx.......... Your Family Needs JESUS OF NAZARETH!!
In that case ur consience is dead marriage is all about endurance and patience come carry award madan great
I don't think cheating is d answer to this.u need a divorce or u'll just still end up heart broken.think about it.
Lmao,, I really like it.. Such an insensitive,selfish and irresponsible man
Hmmmmmmm......some men just shldn't be men. Beasts in men's clothing! Selfish 2d core! I pity some women! I'm speechless dough!!!!!!!
Am suspecting my aunty sent this to LIB cos this is exactly what she's facing in her Hubby's house. they have 4 kids and they av also been married for 23 years....
hehehe this woman don kolo o! sho no send anymore.But woman, an eye for an eye makes the world go blind. I stll believe you shouldn't have done that. pls put a stop to it. That man will definitely rot in hell. the more he thinks he has, is just a visitor that might take its leave unannounced.
On one hand....i feel pity for dis lady..atleast for evrything she has endured..on d other hand..though ur enjoying ur new affair..it still isnt right...n its better u cut off from ur husband bfre he gives u an STD or something worse.
Interesting. ..but two wrong can't make a right. .but I wish you well in your new experience
Madam, 2 wrongs don't make a right... I know it might be hurtful dat ur husby unrepentantly cheats on u, but u shud allow God fight for u!
Nice one. Clap for yourself
Two wrongs don't make a right. You'll regret it more than he will.
Something is wrong wth u.show me d man dat doesn't cheat??becos ur husband cheat,therefore u must cheat??
two wrongs doesnt make a right
Woman I love u for this!!! U go girl!!! An eye for an eye....
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I think you should leave him- with 75% of all He has too! 2 wrongs don't make a right so if you've had enough, walk away with more than half his wealth.
that's a horrible feeling...she should be ashamed of herself
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hmmmm making the husband jealous ...abeg joor she never cheated on him just want him to change his ways
All i can say is two wrongs doesnt make right. Both of You are committin adultery!....kallys
I just fainted from excess laughter.. Oh my days!!! U these men, u see whatchu doin' yeah? Oh well.. *sips coffee*
Since u r fucking comfortable with dat why nt own up to it and be a woman enough to let him know about it.... U r ruining your own life with your own hands. If u want to copy any body copy the good part of it and nt d other way round. Every body is unique. U hv a perfect story to inspire d young ones why ruin it??? Do u think there is no reward for doing good? Wat would benefit you for paying back evil with evil? Do u know what that means? U just let him win!!! Cause literally he'v influenced u instead of u influencing him... Is a shame woman... Think twice and don't get it twisted.
Enjoy On..Na una calling. If u need more lovers sef. I fit help u. LS
This woman is a fool,I wonder which part of Nigeria she erupted from, some ladies have chicken brains.Help me ask her does ds act make her right?Idiot
Wrong approach. You'll regret it more than he will. Two wrongs don't make a right.
well, two cam play the game u say... you knew he was a cronic cheat from the word go yet you said ''I DO'', took a vow before God and now you are dancing after sleeping with another man. you should be ashamed of yourself, did you think of your children and what would happen to their world if they found out? your always being there who knows might just be the only thing that keeps them going... woman FEAR GOD O!!!!
madam i understand your pain and hurt but.............2 wrongs dont make a right, besides.....have you tot deeply what impression your childred will have of you if they ever heard der mum is an adulteress? think deeply of the future of your kids before you regret your few minutes enjoyment.........my 2cents advice. God bless!
Woman after 23 years of marriage you are dancing for sleeping with another man shame on you. Remember two wrongs can never make a right. We live in a sinful world may God save us. Contd *dancing*
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As in eeeh Linda,is this a novel abi na joke,oh my G,if this is real, woman u failed it,u been unfaithful concerns u and ur God not that heading to hell fire husbands of yours,I will advice u to stop cos u are a God fearing woman and that ur husband can not do without u trust me.just pack ur bag and leave him,I bet u he will stop that act just for u to come back.
Good for you madam, do me and do you, man no go fex.
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Okay!
I pity Ur four children,cos @ the end of the day is Ur children that will surfer the consequences, so my candid advice for u is that too wrong do not make a right. #THAT AKWA IBOM BOY#
I applaud your resolution, I applaud your standing by your man for 23 years, in fact I applaud you for letting this off of your chest, which I think you did because somehow you are angry and know what you did is not you, but don't get it twisted you feel guilty but not necessarily about cheating on your husband. Anyway, bear in mind that 2 wrongs don't make a right, deciding to change your person; who you are instead of walking away from a sh*tty situation is bad! Your husband has changed you to a monster or maybe he has helped you discover something that was already in you! Think of your kids, don't ruin their future because you were coward not to walk away from a man who sees you as nothing but weak! Walking away would have being a whole lot better than cheating on him because now you have reduced yourself to his level!
I am not judging you, I am just saying what I feel. SORRY.
Hummmmmm! Life life life. Is dis ur fault? Hell NO. Should u pay back hell NO! Can I take what u took for all dis yrs? Hell No. It's really sad what men put woman through but pls ma two wrong truly don't make anything ryt. This move ur making might cause more problems than u can imagine so my advise is Pls discontinue ur new relationship and keep talking and praying for ur husband.
so so sweet two can play d game let,s go there.
Na wa oo...Link me up with this woman, I am a great lover too..mschhew
My dear you are definitely unhappy within if you can be sincere to yourself. Both of you got it all wrong and you have complicated issues by being unfaithful. Have you thought of the adverse effects this will have on your four children. Your marriage can still work, have a positive attitude and put God in charge of your marital issues.
IDIOT
I know how you feel? But trust me, you do not love that lover of yours....do not start what you can not finish. 23yrs of marriage means ur kids are grown ups.....how will they feel if ur husband catches u?
lol oya clap for yaself!
pls don't b a sinner yourself
Hell awaits you
Hmmm.......
Madam, I totally understand where u r coming from but I think u can still endure without sleeping with another man. Once u start, i is almost impossible to stop which is wats happening right now. Stay faithful and continue to pray for him. May the Lord Bless your home.
My lady pls ride on,i dey ur back,i luv wot u did,nd pls dnt hesitate 2 meet ur lover ok. Kudos!!!!
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Madam ride on, ur hubby na yeye man, who does he think he is, Bill gate, abi Bill clinton, so he sees u as a fool ab, abeg enjoy ur life with ur new found love cos hubby is not worth the stress, do me I do u god no go vex.
If u weren't guilty, u wouldn't have let it out, how much more on social media. "Mother of four", u must have married him cos of his money cos according 2 u, he started way b4 u married him n u knew about it. Is it a must 2 marry him n after stupidly doing so, isn't divorce an option? "Ile olomo mi ni maa ku si", dats cos ur benefiting from there. Maybe God just kept both of u irresponsible folks together. U didn't cheat, u committed "ADULTERY" n according to the Qur'an n Bible, u shud get a death sentence. God help u, ur new boyfriend has STDs. L'obatan. Awon oniranu gbogbo.
Standing ovation for you. Ride on.
I pity you.
you shouldn't have done that....after all you have been so patient for the past 23 years so what are you still looking for....we are in Nigeria,at the end you will be the one to be blamed.....you have four children already or how many?....all you need to do is to take care of those kids and pray for your dreams come true....yoruba people do say 'oribibe ko logun orififo' and i also want you to understand that the bend on a road is not the end of the road....if you are patient and prayerful you will overcome all this....cause i don't know how sure you are about the new man you've just met.....you don't know if that one will do something that you will never forget in your life and that might put you in the most difficult situation....
Not judging u but in my own opinion, cheating on him to get back at him ain't the way out. If he gets to know bout u cheating on him, nobody will agree with u that u cheated on him cos he cheated on u. How do you think your children will feel if they get to know that their wonderful mother is sleeping with someone else aside their father? A man will always b a man and instead of sleeping with someone else, y don't u just go on ur knees, ask God for forgiveness and tell Him to please change your husband's mind from cheating on u and He will. Just my own opinion.
CARRY GO JARE..U NO GET WAHALA...
that doesnt mean its okey. two wrong can never make a right.
Haba!!! you would have stayed still.... you knew he was unfaithful while dating, and you still married him. what were you expecting.and now,what are you teaching your children? please ma,have a rethink!
Nyc one keep it up u guys will soon get the reward
Ah.....congratulations ma'am....Hope u have received ur Hoeaward
Odiegwu!
Lol...go ahead oh mama 4. Do not mean to b supporting adultery, but I guess I am. I'm a wife too .my husband constantly cheated too,thinking I would never find out. Worst of all is, he's a broke man. Hiss! Not like yours. It gets frustrating and you are pushed to the wall .i understand. Enjoy and keep praying.
That's a horrible experience, why don't you just file for divorce instead.
Do you think you love him or just love his money. Well clap for yourself for cheating on him but when you are caught...hmmm, hope you are financially independent. I am not excusing him at all; in fact I believe you should have cut his balls off since. Just be careful, alright. And stop saying you love him. Lone nko, love ni
Not in anyway impressed. Took you 23 years to make a decision and this is what you came up with? You should have left the marriage once you were sure he was cheating on you. You stayed and endured, so why wait all this while? Sickening
I will advise you to divorce him before you start having sex with another man. people will not know about your past suffering with him. Think about how your children will feel if they know about your extra marital affair, they won't forgive you.
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Hmmmmm...I feel ur pain,but wats wrong is wrong,its never bin heard of dat 2 wrongs can ever make a right,ask for a divorce instead of cheatin.#gbam
OK O...
KEEP CHEATING
You go girl
This woman is in pain. She did not cheat. Just wants her idiotic husband to know how much he hurt her since he probably reads this blog. Story is intentionally specific. My heart feels for her.
I still don't think its right for you to do that, but i see your point. Just be careful and also pray that he doesn't bring back any disease oooo. there is nothing God cannot do, i believe God can change him.
Who e come concern
Well what can be said, two can play the game alright. The issue still remains doing the right thing, not jumping into fire because what a man can do a woman can do better. *OKAY BYE*
In ur case, I'd say whatever makes u happy, just use a condom and don't get ur heart broken
Madam it is very wrong to have defied your body. It is immoral to have extra marital affair just because your husband enganged in illicit affairs. The vow you took is between you and God.
As long as you are genuinely happy though. I just hope this isnt frustration from what he has done leading you to what you are doing. If you are consoling yourself then I think instead of turning into something else that you don't want you should walk away with your dignity. It really isnt worth it.
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my dear enjoy ursef jaree...men ar punk cheaterz! its in dia nature
Why don't u leave d man? U cheating back won't lead anywhere. Divorce him
Carry on girl, I do same to my hubby, especially if his cute like my handsome Charles. Send mi ur contact, let's b frnds we can evn swap or do it together.
and so, you cheated on your husband and now telling us u feel great. you should be ashamed, a disgrace to women.
Please dont pollute the minds of other house wife with dignity on this blog. idiot.
* a great fucker* you mean ma'am?
Two wrong can never make a right.....
Lol.Serves him right. He pushed her.Most men re so insensitive dat they take their wife for granted.
Ok. You need to chill. Seriously. This is obviously pay back for you and it feels good. But if u r a christian and don't intend to divorce ur hubby, don't keep a lover.
But then again, I don't know what u have gone thru in the last 23yrs but u need to pause and think. Ok?
You'll be just fine. Hugs.
Hope u have received ur HOEnary award for dat
Hope u have received ur HOEnary award for dat
I have never been more sad hearing a story as this. Please ma'm, you deserve some fun and happiness in your own lifetime too. I think you have sacrificed enough. You go girl and have fun while it lasts.
Who e come concern now
Dear Madam,
U caused this problem upon urself ,when he was dating u he cheated and u still married him becos u thought he was gonna change or u went into the marriage probably becos of money. All u should have done is for you to keep praying for him to change not for u sleeping with anoda man.The sin u have committed now is adultery and becos of him u have sinned against God.Ask God for forgivenness and i pray he will change
Bravo! Bravo!! to you and your cheating husband.
Wow! That rily got me speechless for a 5mins bt after reading d story I clearly saw y she lost er conscience...d woman cheating doesn't justify wt er husband has done tho.#sipping my custard wit chin chin
Hehehehe woman u gather liver Oooº° ,but on a second thought I think u are a very patient n decent woman,to hv put up for 23yrs with such a he-goat of a hubby is nt easy @all,my dear play d gme while it lasts biko,enjoy ur life with ur lover but pls make sure u r nt caught cos if such happens u r in for big trouble
The moment you allow the devil into your life, theres no turning back.
Dnt knw if u ar wrn or rigjt buh he really push u, berryberry093 follow me on twitter~ice princess~
hmm, i rest my cased.
Madam please in the name of God, don't be a fool twice! Once beaten, twice you're a fool! I know deep down you wrote this not to brag but to see which talk would stop you from continuing your escapades that if you've already started it sef.
Madam, you know what, for your husband to know you re serious ask him for a legal separation now now now! I know it f***** hurts for a man you love so much to constantly treat you like garbage and disrespect your emotions but madam you saw the signs before you said I DO and the moment you said I do, you accepted to take all the shit the man brings with him, you could have walked away but you stayed, you could have taken drastic actions in the beginning when all the cheating started but you didn't. This man's continuous cheating is three quarter your fault and one quarter his! You take majority of the blame because you encouraged him with the fact you took all the bullshit for years! Please don't continue this (sexcapades)!
No man is worth loosing your salvation over, madam please don't continue this, im begging you as a person who was a child of a mother in a similar situation,If your children ever get to find out, trust me they will, you will be the one that would suffer! They wont even care if daddy has been doing it for centuries, in fact they think its normal for daddy to do it since mummy took daddy'*s cheating and kept quite for years, but as for mummy they wont forgive her or understand, seriously madam don't continue this.
Deep down you know this is not the way to go,as you are hurting your husband, in the process you're deeply hurting yourself, I mean deeply! The man you're sleeping with doesn't love you one bit, you're just in his book of conquest and trust life has a way of bringing things back to bite us in the ass.You know what, file for legal separation now,that way it would still be understandable if you're seeing other men.
Seriously madam you had and still have the upper hand, two wrongs don't make any right and don't make an already messed up situation more complicated!Take it from a child whose mother did something similar because of what the dad dished, I still have not forgiven my mother and so has my siblings, Why? Because she was the great one who had the upper hand in our eyes until she decided to pay daddy back and everything blew out of proportion and I have never looked at my mother the same.Please and please don't see any lover again biko, seriously its not worth it.
Soon the taste and high of vengeance would ware off and you would start feeling worse than how you felt when your husband cheated!Please stop, I beg, For your children's sake, In the name of God most high, don't continue!You would end up the villain!
Sorry for my epistle,its because I know if this continues its going to end horribly for all parties involved especially you madam.
OSE JOOORRRR!!!!!!! continue please, i dont know why men think they can and we cant. what rubbish!!! please cheat on him well.. you have tried. he even dares say you aint going nowhere see finish!!!
Abeg good for u , don't have strength to talk. When christ comes I wonder . CHI.
you go girl. All these men feel they are invincible
Hahahahaha, 2can play d game woman, keep on and HV ur fun... Lol
well done!!
The moment you allow the devil into your life, theres no turning back.
Madam, you got it wrong. You fell into sin bcos ur husby is a cheat. Ur story does not justify ur action. If the rapture takes place today, u'll go to hell. I'll encourage you to stop now and ask God for forgiveness b4 it is too late. From ur story, you knew he was cheating when you were dating and you stil went ahead and married him so why are you complaining now? If you so love him as you claim, then continue to pray for him. A word they say is enough for the wise.
The truth is two wrongs can't make it right madam, I know ur kids are watching! When they find out that the saint mom whom they believed is worse than the dad, u hve lost them totally, so retrace that step pls
Okay #bright bravo#
WOW...CAN'T BELIVE DIS...HMMMM
Madam Well done. Who are hurting in the process...wat about your kids.
Your husband is a he-goat that has been concluded..but what of the kids, how would they feel if they find out that their Mum is cheating.
Is this the same advice you will give your daughters. Haba.....use your head and not your emotions.
Congratulations! The victim here will be the man sleeping with you. He just mortgaged his future. Once again, congratulations on your sexual emancipation.
Jaw dropping!! Madam i think you should get a divorce if you can't stand his randy ways! As a Christian you don't reward evil with evil, rather you overcome evil with Good. Two wrongs cannot make a right. You made a mistake marrying him yes,don't make another one. If a man tries to destroy his family his wife can save it but if a woman destroys her home no jupiter can save it......*auzylicious
Funny part is that you would be thrown out when you get caught and your lover will bang the hell out of your battered p***** and you would live to regret it. Tell me.... will you be bold to tell your kids that you separated from your hubby because you f*** another dude?... you are a bad wife and that's why he keeps cheating on you. He only keeps you just to cater for his kids... you have been long forgotten. Just another furniture in his mansion.... looser
ok! odimma.. ride on... when the hedge is broken the serpent would bite
Water Don pass Garri 4 ds Family, nd woman dat ur Husband is a DOG
Honestly, I pray you don't ruin your marriage. Let God judge him, sometimes, we owe it to God not man.
Chineke napu ekwensu ike! R u really for real,goshHhh! Hv u ever tot of God wrath n dt of ur children whn they find out,do u think gettin bk at him wil make u feel better dnt allow devil to continue usin u,renounce d devil now,u need not only endure but hv u prayed dt God should change him,dnt uknw we r d ones dt God hs given d wisdom to take care of our home spiritually,esp our husbands,think of hw dis step u v taken wil lead ur children to,woman pray!pray!pray harder for ur husband he wil definitely change,remember as u do dis is all to d glory of God n d betterment of ur marriage n dt of ur children.
hmmm.... for all I know sha.. 2 wrongs have never made a right.
Omg
I really can't blame her.
wow, i'm speechless. May God locate the both of you cus u both need Jesus. Please try n be faithful just for God not for him cus u see, no one knows when we will die, u may follow his part n die anytime while he will live long n have time to repent. please be wise. leave for Jesus life is not abt sex.
Wow! That rily got me speechless for a 5mins bt after reading d story I clearly saw y she lost er conscience...d woman cheating doesn't justify wt er husband has done tho.#sipping my custard wit chin chin
Lmao! Who cares? Do whatever u want since u both are living in a fools paradise.
@ the count of 3,2,1 let's read the comments of all the cheating judgemental guys dt wud hv d solution dt the woman should be praying for his deliverance.... I tend to wonder how many Nigerian men with dt logic can put up with a cheating spouse for 23yrsssss!!!! Heaven helps those who helps themselves mehn, two wrongs don't make a right but it makes the both of you even.....#cheEzyjayne
Well I don't really know what to say but what you did wld only make the matter worst not a good one even tho ur hubby is guilty
see what happens when you back a kitten(good woman) to the wall?
#clawsout! lol.
there's no excuse for cheating tho, if you are good, just be good.
Mumu........who are u fooling????
I love dis lady, ride on girl 2 can play
Two wrongs will never equal a right. Be wise while you still have the chance!
OK oo fill free 7c6Ea647
lol. what can i say?
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see what happens when you back a kitten(good woman) to a corner?
#clawsout! lol.
there's no excuse for cheating tho, if you are good, just be good.
what a family... God help you both.... now that I'm thinking about it, sounds very much like a family I know
Adultery. Hmmmm. If you are really happy about this please go to your church any share the testimony and then gather your children and tell them about it. Congratulations he'll is waiting for you if you don't repent. After the vow you made to each oda you settle for this Shit? You need cleansing. Two wrongs can't make a right. I can't imagine cheating on my husband. Its all your fault. You married a cheat thinking you can change him and now you are also a cheat. Wow this woman is celebrating her cheating achievement. Please go get a life.
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