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Tuesday 18 November 2014

Dear LIB readers; I cheated on my husband and I feel great about it

From a female LIB reader
This past weekend, I did something I thought I was never capable of doing. I had sex with another man who wasn't my husband. Yes, you read right. The best part about it is that I feel great *dancing*. I thought I'd hate myself for doing it. But I don't. I thought I'd regret it. But I don't. I thought I'd feel some guilt. But I don't. In fact I can't wait to meet my lover again. Once again - *dancing*. 
I love my husband, don't get it twisted. He's the father of my four children. We have been together for 23 years. But you see, he was never a faithful man. Not from the first day. He cheated when we dated. He cheated when we got married. In fact, he has another baby by another woman. A love child he had while we were married. I stayed. I never cheated. He slept with a friend. I stayed, I never cheated. He slept with 6 of his female staff, I stayed I never cheated. He slept with so many random women, I stayed, I never cheated. He even slept with our neighbour, I stayed, I never cheated. Then he said something
You see, I saw a text on his phone which he sent to one of his lovers. The lady had apparently had an abortion for him and she was threatening to contact me to tell me about their affair and guess what my husband told her?
'even if my wife catches me on top of you on our marital bed, she will ask us to continue, go into the kitchen make my dinner and still make love to me that same night on that same bed so please feel free to contact her. She's not going anywhere"
You see, he's wrong! His cheating affects me. For 23 years I have had to endure his constant philandering. My husband is rich so the women are plenty. I have cried, I have pleaded, I have threatened but it never stopped. And he thinks I'm okay with it. He thinks I am not going anywhere. Oh but he's wrong. I am going somewhere alright. To another man's bed.

I'm stuck with this man, 23 years and four children. And I love him with my life. But I'm done being the wife he thinks will catch him on our marital bed and give him a standing ovation. He wants to cheat? Well, two can play that game. After 23 years, I try now? I feel so liberated. I can't wait to meet my lover this weekend again. The last time was amazing. He's a great lover. *dancing*

458 comments:

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Unknown said...

Two wrongs cannot make a right. Two fools can't lead a team. Cheating is not the best pay back to a cheat.A lair can never impress another lair. Madam you were better.

phlexx said...

Rubbish! Who cares if u fuck the whole men in d world just bcos you think 2 can play d game..yeye talk!

Anonymous said...

She is lying she can not do it .
She is just imaging it.
When she does it she will not say a word
She just want to sample your opinion
Your faithfulness is not unto man but you God

Anonymous said...

Hahahah... Kudos babes! But u really didn't n stil don't hv 2stay with him u know

Anonymous said...

She be italo asawo

Anonymous said...

Hehehe... dancing Azonto to hell fire... Since your husband has decided to make the road to hell fire his own personal plot of land you decided to pitch your tent with him all in the sake of getting back at him and you are feeling cool about it... Dont worry just keep on enjoying while i am dancing my shoki dance.. Linda God bless your hustle...#streetwise#

Unknown said...

Hello Madam, i know how it feels but two wrongs cannot make a right nad have you thought what will happen if you get caught. Things like ruining what you have laboured for 23 years, the effect on your children especially the female ones. The best solution is to pray for him and also learn to speak to him in a calm voice, he is human, one day God will arrest him, i think this is better than destroying all you care about because you love him and also the children. Cheating is not the best way to go

Anonymous said...

Keep quiet jor! So is her husband right? She can do whatever she wants just like the man can do whatever he wants. Shikena! Let no one be at loss here

Anonymous said...

She didn't leave the man because he's Rich na..She's no different than the other women just that she has the wife title. You 2 deserve each other. Women and money. BS. @mcpapillo

Motherhen said...

Oh noooo, Please turn to God and ask Him for genuine forgiveness. He will touch your husband's heart, He will mend your broken heart. Let me tell you, your lovers will capitalise on your situation and cause you further heartaches. Take your husband as a cross and carry him with good heart. The Lord is your strength my sister.

Unknown said...

You are matching on to the road of destruction and equally @ d same time losing your respect as a Noble woman, don't kill your conscience again.

Anonymous said...

I hope you see this message
Cheating is wrong. The best thing to do is to talk to God in prayers. You live for God And not for man. Your husband's behaviour should not make you yield to cheating. In the place of prayer you can change your husband and heal your marriage. Be wise.

Anonymous said...

And this was meant to be a story ...???

Unknown said...

U'd be shocked if u know how many married women that are on the loose. Men are so clueless, Married Women are are BALLING HARD.

Anonymous said...

madam you have to put in consideration that in this our country what a man does and goes score free if a woman does the same act is an abomination

Anonymous said...

Please dont mind all these people. You go girl!!!! Its called getting your mojo back.

Sue said...

You need Jesus..... revenge only destroys people and changes them into what they are not

Anonymous said...

Correct woman

Anonymous said...

Go girl!! Life is too short to take crap from your bastard hubby. He'll probably kill himself when he finds out but who cares? right?

Kabuoy said...

100 likes!

Kabuoy said...

Lmaoooooooooooooo!!!!
Bonario is crazy!!!!!!!!!!! Buhahahahahahahahaaa!

Anonymous said...

My dear i dont blame you for your act. those blaming her if you are in her shoes what ll you do?

My dear please next time dont do these just put it into the hands of God he ll answer you.

ilo said...

My dear i dont blame you for your act. those blaming her if you are in her shoes what ll you do?

My dear please next time dont do these just put it into the hands of God he ll answer you.

ilo said...

My dear i dont blame you for your act. those blaming her if you are in her shoes what ll you do?

My dear please next time dont do these just put it into the hands of God he ll answer you.

Unknown said...

Don't think is right

Unknown said...

Adultery. Hmmmm. If you are really happy about this please go to your church and share the testimony and then gather your children and tell them about it. Congratulations hell is waiting for you if you don't repent. After the vow you made to each other you settle for this SHIT? You need cleansing. Two wrongs can't make a right. I can't imagine cheating on my husband. Its all your fault. You married a cheat thinking you can change him and now you are also a cheat. Wow this woman is celebrating her cheating achievement. Please go get a life.

Anonymous said...

Don't allow your husband to push you into hell fire. If you are not careful you may end-up in abortion.

Anonymous said...

Don't allow your husband to push you into hell fire. If you are not careful you may end-up in abortion.

Anonymous said...

HELLO WOMAN, SINCE U KNEW HE WAS INTO THAT U SUDNT HAVE CONTIUED TO GO INTO MARRYING HIM.I WILL ADVICE U ALSO ASK GOD FOR FORGIVENESS BECAUSE ADULTERY IS ADULTERY, JUST TINK OF IT HOW WILL UR CHILDREN TAKE IT OR U FACE THEM WEN THEY HEAR.YOU DONT EVEN FEAR THAT GOD MAY EVEN TAKE UR LIFE AT THE POINT OF COMMITTING IT AND PLS GUESS WHERE U WILL END UP.MY GUESS IS AS GOOD AS URS. WILL ADVISE U DESIST, ASK GOD FOR FORGIVENESS AND ALSO PUT UR HUSBAND'S CHALLEGE BEFORE HIM. MIND U HE IS UR RESPONSIBILITY.

prettyjules said...

Shut up!! Who died and made u the judge?

Anonymous said...

I THINK THIS WOMAN DESERVES AN OSCAR AWARD.
BUT BEFORE I NOMINATE YOU, I HAVE SOME QUESTIONS FOR YOU.
MADAM, HOW OLD ARE YOU?
IS YOUR NEWLY FOUND LOVER A MARRIED MAN OR SINGLE, HOW OLD IS HE?
DO YOU KNOW THAT YOUR NEW LOVER BELONGS TO A WOMAN? YOU GET NO AORTA OF SHAME, YOU ARE SLEEPING WITH ANOTHER WOMAN'S MAN.
You didnt cheat on your man, rather, you cheated on your self.

Anonymous said...

So u think that having a cheating man who has hurt you for 23years qualifies to be called a husband. My dear she has been a single mum ever since

Unknown said...

Lmao.....

Anonymous said...

indeed... you try... people fail to understand that the husband brought the lustful spirit...
both of them need counseling... besides the man was cheating before they got married. chia life..

Bebe said...

You go girl ! ! !

Bolatito said...

i feel you should pause for a moment and think about what your doing.. this is absolutely not right. you are simply laying bad examples for your children .. many people say African men are polygamous, i assumed u should have come to terms with that by staying with him for 23 years despite all the cheating. cheating on him wouldn't make him stop rather when he finds out, he would not hesitate to kick you out and bring one of his baby mamas in. your choice, either you stop it now and then continue to remain the madam of the house which you have always been or you continue sleeping with your lover who is only trying to have fun with you and then would reject you in the end when you begin to face the consequences. while you choose, think about how God and your children would feel

Anonymous said...

If it makes her happy ride on Lady

Anonymous said...

Hey you what do you mean she is a bad wife thats why he cheats on her? Well woman stop having sex with your husband before he give you STD. Keep fucking out if it makes you happy. We are all same in Gods eyes afterall life na per head. Fuck and don't be caught nothing do u.

Anonymous said...

Shut up.

Unknown said...

Thank u very much for your wise advice. May God Almighty uplift u in knowledge.

Anonymous said...

Forget that tin two wrong can not make it right. Life na per head o. Madam fuck and don't be caught and hope say you gather enuf money to walk away if any tin happen. For you husband make you dey use condom

Unknown said...

This shows there is no difference between u and this evil woman.

Anonymous said...

Shut up. Ride on madam fuck out as u like. She try self

Anonymous said...

Omg you make me laugh cos its the best tin to do when you have a cheating husband. Fuck out come back as if nothing happened.

Anonymous said...

Single ke! If she sharp she won't b caught never. Ride on woman fuck wit condom and for your husband use condom too.

Anonymous said...

Her daughter can mk her own dicision. Woman fuck out but don't be caught that's the spirit. Francis Omoruyi if you are married or when you get married don't cheat on your wife cos it can mk a good gal crazy and cheat. I am married and I have a lot of guys out there wanting me no matter what. Sometimes I am tempted when I catch him but I am still holding strong. Do you know how painful it is to be cheated on? Francis anyways thanks.

Jyde said...

Hmmn, this marriage is gradually heading for the rocks. you are both wrong and when your husband gets to know about your affair with another man, u will that the story will change and your home may never be the same again. look for a better way to call him to order, pray to God, God will do it, you cant do it on your own.

Anonymous said...

Your husband is a dick head and you are a hoe , if you cant stand him cheating be separated or divorce then when you sleep with another man you wont call it cheating , cheating in marriage just makes you a owe and i am sure you seduce the guy what will a guy want from a Nigeria mother of 4 which i am sure with a pot belly , you are not doing the right thing dont be proud about it , divorce shikena and you sound too tasty and slutty though you are just discovering yourself before you know you will have as much count as your husband ripe mumu

Unknown said...

I pegged u smarter Bonario, she's wrong no doubt, and I feel sorry for her too but in my opinion she has a more likely chance of getting HIV from her husband; Mr Philandria than her lover!

Peter nonso okafor said...

What's the difference now

Anonymous said...

lmaoo I still don't understand how some women think a fornicator that is clearly cheating on you when you people are dating will all of a sudden become a SAINT after marriage.No my dear..He just graduates from a fornicator degree to adultery(Masters level lol).What you keep accepting is what you get.Stay there dey think marriage go change person.

Unknown said...

That's great..after crying, pleading and threatening and it did not work,...HAVE YOU TRIED PRAYING?. Well i know the answer to ma question...An absolute no. You wedded on an altar before God, and now you've a problem with going down on your knees in prayer, well that's disappointing. Am not trying to be righteous or a preacher, you tried...you really really tried but not had enough

ARIANNA said...

Wow, I couldn't pass your comment.
You're truly smart.

Omokehinde said...

Ma'am please take note of these five things
1 you willingly married him
2 I have an idea of how daunting it looks if you leave him...years of investment in your home et al
3 right now,you a fresh-adulterer and your chronic-womanizing husband of many years are the same in the presence of God
4 you are accountable to God not your husband.
5 it's either you leave him and start afresh or stop the affair,repent and ask for Grace to cope with him.

My mum has been doing this for close to 26 years cos she has realized at the end of the day....God will judge you based on what you did and not any other thing.
It's not for him but for you at the end of the day.

Anonymous said...

To all these people say trash on their comments - its very easy to say all the rubbish coming out your mouths when you are not going through what the other is going through. That's a woman divided, torn and hurt and you cannot recognise it.

Go easy lady and listen to your heart. It would guide you right when the excitement and euphoria of your affair are over

Unknown said...

if only we truly know and understand what love is. Then we wouldnt be in a rush to profess it. if you don't know GOD, you don't know LOVE and cannot LOVE. TRUE LOVE is beyond what we feel for each other, It does not equal Romantic love. sometimes that feeling of romantic love may not be always present. but when you have the TRUE LOVE, WHICH IS THE LOVE OF GOD, THEN YOU LOVE FOR REAL..... (IF YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT I MEAN)

QUOTE "CSB"

Anonymous said...

GOOD TO KNOW YOU GUYS HAVE REACHED AN UNDERSTANDING!

Unknown said...



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