Dear LIB readers: My fiance insists I get pregnant before he marries me
From a female LIB reader
We've been together for two years and now we are talking about getting married. Only he wants me to get pregnant first. He said wedding preparations will start immediately we find out I'm expecting. I don't know if I'm OK with this. My friends feel its outright disrespectful, saying what it means is that he wants children and not me. I hate that he's insisting I get pregnant first, but i don't want to lose him. What should I do?
Well I advice you not to and its For your own good. If he wants you, He would marry you without seeing any baby. This is an example of a man that can't stand childlessness. You need someone that would be there for you no matter what
You know who I am? Nah bitch, you don't. You just confimed you're a bitch through n through. The name "Kween" without an accompanying clear picture is just as anonymous as the word " anonymous" , meaning you just called yourself a coward. And who else would do that if not a bitch. You're a bitch "kween". A real bitch.
Look, I'm a guy and i know women should not be treated in that manner, they are not baby making machines or vessels to carry one's baby, they are supposed to be loved and respected. I feel if this man really loves you, like you love him, he would marry you first, which is the right way to do things. He should stop been a caveman and act like a literate.
SORRY TO BURST YOUR BUBBLE THIS MAN HAS NO ATOM OF RESPECT FOR YOU, HE DOES NOT VALUE YOU,SOME PEOPLE HERE ARE SAYING LOVE, WHICH KIND LOVE. THE MAN SEES THIS AS A RELATIONSHIP OF GIVE AND TAKE, GO SEE A LAWYER LET HIM DRAW A BUSINESS CONTRACT THAT HE WILL FIRST OF ALL DEPOSIT 2 MILLION NAIRA IN YOUR ACCOUNT ONCE YOU TAKE IN, AS HE IS GIVING YOU CONDITION GIVE HIM ONE TWO, FIRST TWO OF YOU VISIT A REPUTABLE FERTILITY DOCTOR, TWO OF YOU GET EXAMINED, EACH TIME YOU TWO HAVE SEX WITHIN THE NEXT SIX MONTHS HE WILL PAY 10,000 NAIRA, ONCE YOU TAKE IN HE WILL DEPOSIT 2 MILLION NAIRA IN YOUR ACCOUNT. YOU WILL TELL HIM THIS, IF HE PROTESTS TELL HIM THAT HE WAS THE ONE THAT BROUGHT UP THE CONDITION THEN YOU HAVE TO BRING UP YOURS TOO.
So what happens if after you get pregnant he is no longer interested in marrying you? SMH. That's what happened to my best friends sister in law, now she is a single mother. I am not suggesting the same will happen to you, but this man has already shown that he does not love you and is not willing to stand by you should anything go wrong. My sister, why would you want to marry someone like that? Bros is already showing signs of being a fair weather husband.
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 210 of 210Well I advice you not to and its For your own good. If he wants you, He would marry you without seeing any baby. This is an example of a man that can't stand childlessness. You need someone that would be there for you no matter what
You know who I am? Nah bitch, you don't. You just confimed you're a bitch through n through. The name "Kween" without an accompanying clear picture is just as anonymous as the word " anonymous" , meaning you just called yourself a coward. And who else would do that if not a bitch. You're a bitch "kween". A real bitch.
Look, I'm a guy and i know women should not be treated in that manner, they are not baby making machines or vessels to carry one's baby, they are supposed to be loved and respected. I feel if this man really loves you, like you love him, he would marry you first, which is the right way to do things. He should stop been a caveman and act like a literate.
u better pick ur shoes and flee
its somehow okay, but make in marry you o
SORRY TO BURST YOUR BUBBLE THIS MAN HAS NO ATOM OF RESPECT FOR YOU, HE DOES NOT VALUE YOU,SOME PEOPLE HERE ARE SAYING LOVE, WHICH KIND LOVE. THE MAN SEES THIS AS A RELATIONSHIP OF GIVE AND TAKE, GO SEE A LAWYER LET HIM DRAW A BUSINESS CONTRACT THAT HE WILL FIRST OF ALL DEPOSIT 2 MILLION NAIRA IN YOUR ACCOUNT ONCE YOU TAKE IN, AS HE IS GIVING YOU CONDITION GIVE HIM ONE TWO, FIRST TWO OF YOU VISIT A REPUTABLE FERTILITY DOCTOR, TWO OF YOU GET EXAMINED, EACH TIME YOU TWO HAVE SEX WITHIN THE NEXT SIX MONTHS HE WILL PAY 10,000 NAIRA, ONCE YOU TAKE IN HE WILL DEPOSIT 2 MILLION NAIRA IN YOUR ACCOUNT. YOU WILL TELL HIM THIS, IF HE PROTESTS TELL HIM THAT HE WAS THE ONE THAT BROUGHT UP THE CONDITION THEN YOU HAVE TO BRING UP YOURS TOO.
STUPID MAN.
its clear u are already sleeping with him for him to have to d effrontery to make such demands. u dont need advice
Mayb Dats d only way he can marry on time cos sumtimes ur family won't wnt u 2 marry wen ure ready. Speakin Frm experence
So what happens if after you get pregnant he is no longer interested in marrying you? SMH. That's what happened to my best friends sister in law, now she is a single mother. I am not suggesting the same will happen to you, but this man has already shown that he does not love you and is not willing to stand by you should anything go wrong. My sister, why would you want to marry someone like that? Bros is already showing signs of being a fair weather husband.
u'll regret it if you do, he's after having babies and not the marriage.
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