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Saturday, 23 August 2014

Dear LIB readers: I had 4 abortions for my man without telling him

From a female LIB reader
Hi Libers, I'm 27 years old and I've been dating a married man for 3 years. And in that 3 years I've had 4 abortions, which I never told my boyfriend about, so in his heart of hearts he thinks I've been very careful hence no pregnancy palava for him. I think that's the main reason he loves me so much and he's taking good care of me. 
Just found out a few weeks back that I was pregnant again, I've begged God to stop giving me these pregnancies until I'm ready, Cos I'm tired of aborting.
So he came to my house as usual and for the first time ever I told him about my current pregnancy. Continue..
He  hugged tightly me, gave me a cheque and told me to terminate it because of his family bla bla bla. I collected the cheque and jokingly told him that I've had 4 abortions already for him without letting him know because I didn't want to stress him. 
Immediately, he gave me a slap, collected the cheque from me and told me he would get me arrested, just imagine. That I'm evil and should be left to rot in jail for killing four innocent children.  
This is the same guy who just asked me to abort for him o. How stupid can men be. I thought I was doing him a favor.  
He eventually sent some money into my account and told me to do whatever with my pregnancy. But I should get behind him Satan. Who is the Satan, me or him?
Anyway, I don't want to lose this man because I truly love him. Please what can I do to get him back, right now he can't stand me. 

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Anonymous said...

amosu.......gth

Anonymous said...

U should go and hug a transformer, that's how u get him back.

Steveosky 4 Real. said...

Some stories we read here amazes me and wonder if some of them are true stories. How can you be this stupid? Of course you are the devil here and without mincing words you are a big FOOL. How could you not tell him and you had 4 abortions? Quite pathetic I must say. Pray to God for forgiveness.

Anonymous said...

Stupid things girls do this days, if d guy did not marry u then u start cursing.

Anonymous said...

U luv him or his moni.......dear beta start a new life....it wont lead anywhere.....

Stobmedia said...

I don't believe your story jor!!!

Anonymous said...

U beta stop loving him and don't ever go back.. if u kip d baby, u wld raise a child dat wld b fatherless Yh, cos dat man ain't want nothing to d with d baby..nd if u av a 5th Abortion, u might DIE so d choice is urs. AwesomeB ;)

Anonymous said...

Girl u r such a daft and maybe dt u wil b forever......go get a life

Hadiza Ibrahim said...

Like seriously! I don't know who is daft between you and this man. Its so clear he doesn't want to hurt his family and you are here talking about love.
My dear, Go look for someone who will love and marry you. The man doesn't want another wife from his reaction.

Queen reign said...

You are they biggest fool I can ever imagine, 27!! Nd still talking abortion? Wen u've had for already.. you don't know what you want in life.. the handwriting is so so clear that you are just a sex toy for that guy and he will never ever marry you...Nonsense!!!!!!!!keep loving and don't want to loose her idiot. I wish I can see you and flog sanity into your head, cos u r mad.

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Anonymous said...

Am Advising you and talking from Experience..Do not think or try to Abort it cos it might be your last chance,it shows he doesn't Love you and might eventually leave you for someone else..All is left for you to Decide and its your future ahead of you..

Anonymous said...

Get him back when he's married? He condemns you for abortions but asked you to have one done on this pregnancy. Two confused idiots and hypocrites.

Olaleye Adisa said...

Ur Name is Sorry. You are more wicked than Boko leader. {Shakarau} after killing almost 5 innocent lives, u are still saying u don't wanna lose Man who is giving u bullet to reload ur gun. May God forgive u o.
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Anonymous said...

Stand up from ur bed first thing 2mao morning, look left, right, up, down, back, front and centre then call his name seven times and u'll get him back

Eugenia Ekeji said...

Things we hear these days.

Debbie Chelsea said...

Why cnt some gerls just open dere eyes 4 once....which ♡? Infact 2 of u are satan

Anonymous said...

My dear clap for your slef ,u they do with married man abeg I no get anything to tell u. CHI.

ONYX GODWIN said...

Dis is wat happens wen two loose pple date each other!! Foooooools...do these things really happen? choi

Dee said...

Lmao, Jokers!!!

chukukere chikaodi said...

Really?!

Anonymous said...

Ni akoko,eleribu ni e(that's for dating and eventually falling in love with a married man)..
Ni ekeji,4 abortions????and u didn't tell d dude?ur d devil.my advice is forget about him and keep the baby...na ur head catch u and u never can tell what this child will become so keep the baby and move on with your life.i don't even think u need anyone's advice cos na wetin dey ur mind u go still do and that's if this story ever happened ...I no trust linda

Anonymous said...

You are very wicked and I pray u marry and ur husband cheats on you,brings diff women each nite and sleeps on your matrimonial.you love a married man...see your mouth.unam ikot

Anonymous said...

Shot ur toilet witch did u say he is a married man ? And u can't afford 2 let go of him oooo no home breaker go look 4 ur man animal u so shameless some pple dnt av sense of reasoning so u post it here so we wil say wat ? Idiot ~ice princess~

Jessica law said...

Wow four abortions and you are proud to say it shame on u.you have killed 3 innocent children with ur carelessness please ask God for forgiveness and keep d present pregnancy.

wilheminna moses said...

Go suck up ur wound yeye geh! 2mr if ur fiance says u shud get pregnant b4 marriage, u go still cum here complaining dat he's disrespecting u meanwhile u don murder all ur pikin. Taa gbafuo hia!!!!

Anonymous said...

You need serious help . Just think about someone doing the same thing to you when you are married . You need to get a life . Look for a single man .

Bishop Dammy said...

Just go and ask God for forgiveness of sin! Dats all. .and pray for your so called boyfriend for same Heb 13:4. BishopDammy#

bruce obilor said...

U r a fool, bye bye!

Anonymous said...

Your just a big shediot. Following and loving a married man????? What happened to getting your own man and at least getting a life. And tomorrow you will marry and Wen u no born, u wld come here to tell us "ave been married for three years without a child " in tiwas voice. What should you do??? Read your bible and find out. Killing innocent children for nothing!!! For a man that would never ever marry you. Side chick. May God help you. At 27 I thought you would know better. Wait till your forty and ask us this stupid question again. Mmmmmmtttttscccccchhhheew!!

Anonymous said...

what happened to contraceptive ooo, imagine telling God not to give you children till you are ready, but u de sleep with man without contraceptive.......

Anonymous said...

U love a married man?...u stupid small oo.do u think he'll leave his wife for u?

Anonymous said...

U are just a fool. Until you are ready Abi? Between you and God who is the master? That's why we keep praying for some married sisters to get pregnant. Who knows if some of them were like you

Anonymous said...

ure a sucker......................

Anonymous said...

Actually, he s right. You re satan. He's married as in married. Haba.

Abatan Usman Bustardru said...

OMG, This care really happening in nigeria shaaa,how could you abort 4 times???

Anonymous said...

Go to hell and rot there u jezebel. Ur mates r happily married with kids u r busy killing children for anoda woman's husband. See ur smelling mouth "I love him" mtschew!!!

Anonymous said...

See u hv to move forward in ur life .Dn't abort it .this is a married man for God sake .leave him .if he says he loves u ,he shld marry u .pls leave him and focus on ur life.there is a good guy for outside.

PRETTY GIRL said...

Am not even going to try to judge you or call you names...But this is what I have to say to you...''YOU'RE INCREDIBLY FOOLISH'' SMFH

Anonymous said...

oti do e pa!
na money you love, you no love am

BONARIO NNAGS said...

Nawao 4 abortions?
Trust me Bakassi boys machete would easily turn red when placed on your body.
Talk of who is satan, you're Mama iwater and he's Lucifer.smh

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

ed DREAMZ said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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What to do is simple. Since yu dont want to loose him just go to chemical any store and buy rat poison and drink it, believe me yu will be very surprise at the outcome....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

Anonymous said...

So baseline you just wanna know what to do to keep him abi? Simple. Quick ABORT THAT BELLE=Keep ur man.
Keep aborting ooo but one day he will leave. N one day u will marry. N one day u go find belle, mke I no hear say u dey worry God like Hannah if belle no enter o. I no wan see ya prayer request for dat altar.

Anonymous said...

You don't love him, you love his money and just because he said something hypocritical about you killing innocent men doesn't give you the right to start questioning the entire population because believe me, women too have their moments of hypocrisy.

Anonymous said...

Infact this poster is very very stupid.you are getting pregnant for a married man?a man that has his home already.and you have a serious boyfriend.May prayer is your current boyfriend should know and break up with you so you will loose at both ends.you can just imagine!aand you have the gut to seek for advice here.mtscheeeeew

Anonymous said...

I Pity ƴǒǘ, Guess ƴǒǘ Doה'† Read ƴǒǘr Bible Shey. Thou Shall Not Kill, Or ƴǒǘ Doה'† No. Anyways, ƴǒǘ Need 2 Ask For Forgiveness From God 1st Ask He Directs Ƴǒǘ. (Liהda's Maה)

FIONA FIONA said...

You are actually evil o, you get hard heart! Haba, a whole four kids? Nah that's just too much, and you didn't tell him all this while, hope that slap gave you a huge rethink! But can a woman be this dum? Better go and get a boyfriend that you can have a future with, cuz that man you're aborting for already has a future and you're just the sidechic

Pelumi said...

hehehe.. Lemme ask u a question... What is "strong" with you???? ehn??? there are so many things wrong! 1st of all u are dating a married man! ahn ahn.. Can u hear urself at all?? nd obviously ds man cant leave his family for u nd ya sitting dere claiming i dont want to loose him... r u sure dey are not fighting world war inside ur head. nd u've risked ur life for him 4x... u've murdered 4 innocent children.. smh...
my advce for u is to leave ds man alone, pray to God for ur own husband and ask for forgiveness so u wuldnt be barren for the rest of ur life.

OgeAussie said...

I'm yet to understand this story. 27 yrs old ?

Anonymous said...

God has answered his wife's prayers...So find a life...U knw wat?...#inurface#Nkmama

Pelumi said...

linda post my comment o

Ken said...

Sometimes you should keep some things away from guys.

Try sending him a reflective mail, and ask that you see him. Talk some sense into his head, if he refuses....take a walk.

Meanwhile, I think you should keep this one. 5 is number of concern, you might not get lucky this time.

Angela Richard said...

That man doesn't love u

Bonita Bislam said...

#speechless.Your case dey heaven.

Anonymous said...

Silly!

em jay said...

U re confuse dear,u don't wanna lose anoda woman's husband cos u love him,instead of u to cry to God forforgiveness for d innocent lives u ve wasted and start a new,u re dere crying over anoda woman's husband,am seriously shaking my head for u

#######LIB MY BAD HABIT########

jp said...

babe na u be d devil for dating a married man

Anonymous said...

U really have guts, 4 and considering the 5th? Why dont u have it, u can actually give it up for adoption, or better still keep it. U might not be lucky to have à 6th pregnancy.

Anonymous said...

My dear u need a proper CELE deliverance @ bar beach or u can as well go to REV King for deliverance.

Victoria George said...

Did I just hear you say you love him. Don't forget get, he his someone's husband and he his not yours. and you are wondering who is the devil. well, I think you both are the devil for killing innocent children. Aborting four babies is so cruel of you. what if those are the only children you have been destined to have in this life. my dear think and tell yourself the truth. you both were only enjoying sex with yourselves and as far as this is concerned, that's the ground this relationship is standing. the earlier you know this the better for you. the man in question cannot marry you and will not marry you for he has a family he has built and he his not ready to break that family cord because of you.

Anonymous said...

Later this girl will marry one unfortunate guy and be parading church , babalawo , mami water shrine begging for a child. Eventually she will buy him a baby in port Harcourt claiming its his

Anonymous said...

You are the biggest fool ever!

Dating a married man for that long!

What do you expect? When his wife prays for her husband do you know you are the devil she prays against?

Not wanting to lose a married man! May God punish you and all your generations to come! That is if you will have any with your destroyed womb...hahaha

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RHOSE E said...

U r a big FOOL nd FOOL wil u remain 4eva

Zenki Moye Brown said...

D BOTH OF U RE MAD....... MAY GOD FORGIVE U BOTH ND GIVE U(WOMAN) CHILDREN WEN U DESIRE IT MOST.....
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Anonymous said...

and u think he luvs u too and for him u can go on to abort as many babies as u can? ...truelly u are inhumane,at yr age u shouldnt be told of how to take care of yrslf...Ni'ima

@iseiyanu said...

Please, stop the sinful habits and ask for forgiveness for the past.
The devil used both of you and it's time you turn the table around him.
Don't abort the the pregnancy as this may be the last success story, and don't try to break another family. This is not love but lust. You are already lost into it, find your way back for good.
"Remember, before HE formed you, He knows you."

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Anonymous said...

Every guy is alwys so eager to criticise gurls dt have aborted, am alwys curious to know who are the father/payer/doctors involved in aborting these babies............you and ur guy need Jesus, that's for sure..#cheEzyjayne

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Anonymous said...

my dear, do your self a favor and stop aborting,use pills,condom to protect your self, you might one day want a child and not get it..please..

Anonymous said...

Well, can't kid myself that this isn't real! Can u gain some self respect and leave him? He's married for goodness' sake! And FYI, what goes around comes around o!

NIGHO said...

YES GET BEHIND BE SATAN. BECAUSE YOU ARE ONE

LYNNE said...

U truly love and dnt wanna loose a married man? How mch stupid and dumb can u be? Get him back? U r so sick in d head! He is anoda woman's and u r thinkin of wot to do in order get him bak? Am sure u love d money dt comes wit it cos no woman in her rit senses will act ds way! Stop fooling arnd wit a married man! Get ur own life #dumbass

damzel ephy said...

1. You are a foolish human being
2. You are insane
3. How on earth can u be dating a married man, who does not have ur interest at heart, a man who is ruining your future dat is if u have any future. I have a feeng that you are one of those daughters of jezebel. Leave that man alone for his wife. He is gradually destroying your destiny. Is this the type of life you want to set for ur future daughter? Don't u have any sense of pride or dignity for yoursef? What happened to the virtuous woman in you. The earlier you retrace your steps the better for you. Don't allow materialism or ojukokoro to destroy u. God is very angry with you. My advice for you is to keep that baby, leave that man alone, u can c for yoursef dat he called u a killer and even slapped u. You might survive this last one, don't joke with Gods mercies. May God help u

True Blue Blood said...

Stop!!! You are just 27 year! Take ur life back. You need salvation ASAP...

Anonymous said...

You are so freaking stupid! Thank God Linda's blog opens fast now and I can comment. I just had to say it, you are stupid stupid stupid. And wicked! Daft. Just so pissed to read this kind of stupidity. Mtchweeeeeee!!!

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Angie Cape said...

Just listen to yourself; you love someone else's husband. You are an agent of Satan!

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Anonymous said...

You got served biatch! You are calling another woman's husband your man? What is wrong with the society these days? You don't want to loose him? You are a prostitute and I pray you die during this last abortion, he is using you and you don't know till you reach 45 when you are lonely , no husband and kids .Duh! A married man ur man? you got some nerve hoe! I give up ! Uwa bu pawpaw.

Anonymous said...

Haaaa!!! I don't want to believe this story is genuine.. Sweetheart you're a shame to womanhood! You're the devils incarnate no doubt; the man is just an agent!!

RP

Memes said...

In the first place he is not your man,you've had four abortions for a married man and probably he has children,this affair will end and you will be left without a womb and when you are begging for children,they won't come,you are a woman and I guess you are beautiful with a good heart,find another guy and stop all this abortion before you look back later in life and regret everything you have done.

PURPLE said...

I'm staring at d comment box and I dnt even knw wat insult to throw at u

CINTETIC BORN TO RULE said...

When u now settle down to marry,u will start looking for a child. Its pple like u dat make church grow and load their. pocket.

JESS JESS JESSY said...

Dear linda, please do not answer this Lady . My dear you are asking God to stop giving u kids so that u continue to love a married man.. You are 27, don't you know anything ?? sorry to say but,in this case u are the satan for killing 4 kids n now u are heading for the fifth ... Pray to God to have mercy on you n leave this man alone. He won't take u back.

Olameedey said...

Very daft question. May God 4give u. I wonder why women abort???

Ngozi Itodo said...

You said you're 27? For crying out loud, do you really need an advice? God help this my sister o, please beg God for forgiveness and leave the man alone, start your clean life and wait for your own man! #mytwoCents

ket said...

You are better off without him. I don't think you need him back in your life, but that's my opinion. As for your question, sorry, av got no idea

Anonymous said...

This is the definition of 'Smelling Gist' And if its really true then na only God go help that girl and the married man. Married men nowadays are fucking poisonous, some chase u like they are not married den u ask dem where is ur wife and they are like forget that. Now when dis kind of situation comes up they re like ur d devil. babe why dont u even use contraceptive? Na God go help us all oh!

Anonymous said...

stupid na undastatemnt.

Chinwe Chukwu said...

Get anoda persons husband back??? Remove ur womb and flush it silly!!!

Anonymous said...

I don't mean to be harsh BUT it seems u have mental issues or ur actually MAD. "You want him back" was he ever yours?you said "how stupid can men be" how stupid are u right now? If you are expecting to get comments on advice on how to get him back den be ready for the shocker of your life,nobody will advice u to continue as his side chic,mistress or whatever title you give yourself. Come clean with your self accept responsibility for your mistakes, have the child or have an abortion(if u survive) ask for God's forgiveness nd pray that the law of kamar does not hunt u. Mybe u will find a good man who will eventually marry u. If u decided to continue chasing this man,hmmmm ur digging your ggrave o. May God forgive u and have mercy upon u.

Anonymous said...

Linda biko, where do you see all this kind of mumu stories, forming love for a married man

Anonymous said...

Leave married men alone . He used and dump u. He will never give up his family for a side chic. Be wise .

alphacentauri said...

You should be ashamed of urself for coming out here to tell us a story like dis

Anonymous said...

My dear, I think you need help because you are seeking for love and affection in the wrong man. He is married and will NEVER EVER marry you. Rather, he will find your replacement especially with the series of abortions you have. He will go get himself a fresh young girl. Why do you hate yourself this much that you've chosen to hurt yourself and the man who will eventually marry you. What you need to do now is get out of that relationship and only pray for God's grace and mercy upon your life so you can meet the man who truly cherishes you and is willing to put a ring on your finger.A word is enough for the wise

Eze Chukwumereze said...

Seriously Linda, did you make this up??

lilian ogede said...

Jesus!!! This lady is senseless.Did u say u still love with him?a married man for that matter.At 27 u already had 3 abortion for a married man u dated for 3 years.hmm,if u love yourself,stay away from that man,do not kill ur unborn child and pray to God for forgiveness.Be wise.

uju chukwujekwu said...

Firstly,U are stupid 4 dating a married.secondly,ure wicked 4 abortng 4 innocent children.thirdly,ure a fool 4 sayng u still love hm and dnt want to loose hm.and lastly,Ebola is cmng ur way soon.

Anonymous said...

Both of you. But my dear why? Why should a fellow woman date another woman's husband? Why should a married man date another woman? Abortion is not a joke. That man is evil and so are you. He should go home to his wife and as for you get a life!That man does not love you and I doubt he is capable of loving anyone either. Don't abort that baby. Stop sleeping with that man but u need money to care for that child,he owes you that much since you're obviously not independent.----C21

jennifer madu said...

I don't even knw what 2say 2dis gurl*some pipo r out der looking 4dis pregnancies ure aborting up n down.n I'm sure u wud get rid of dis 1 ure carrying.all I can say is may God 4give u.

Anonymous said...

You truly love him or he truly provides for you??? After the first abortion did you not have the senses to go get contraception??!!

EVA said...

Keep it

ozoekwe chinelo said...

In d name of God in heaven... If u must have sex, use condom! Don't mess up ur 2moro for today's glamour. U don't have an idea of what women go through in search those precious gifts u blindly throw away.

Anonymous said...

This is a huge joke!!! Try something else..

Anonymous said...

I smell fabrication

Anonymous said...

U re such an imbecile, to come to ds platform n ask such stupid question!!! How can u get him back???? U re so hopeless....keep asking such useless questions, until d man's wife get to know that someone like u exist, by that time ur question will be "How did I get myself neck deep into this mess?" use ur tongue n count ur teeth, no need coming here to ask senseless questions.

ezeike chioma said...

For real!

Jen Jay said...

This story get as it be oh!
U need spiritual counselling!
Dey are following u o
Haba

Anonymous said...

You r very silly, serves u right, for goodness sake ow can u have four abortions for one man, amarried man at that. Yes u r evil d man is right

Anonymous said...

you are very silly. He is a married man for God sakes. He is never going to marry you so old your love till you see someone else.

Anonymous said...

Hi dear..
I quite understand ur predicament even though dating another woman's husband isnt morally justifiable. However, quite frankly I think u should consider keeping this baby..u never can tell how much damage your previous abortions has exerted on your womb and the probability of having another baby after this one. Request financial aid from your married man lover or better still get some job capable of catering to u and ur baby..
Oh! One last thing.. Don't invade or disrupt his matrimonial home or wife with this pregnancy matter. Take heart! We are sinners. God loves u.

Ogbatue Chinedu said...

Which kind mumu love is that.27 n u r wasting ur tine for married men come kip bf for house. U r STUPID Yes!!!

Anonymous said...

keep on aborting for him stupid girl

Anonymous said...

my dear dnt think of getting him back, just pray that God should forgive ur sins cos uve really sinned against God.

Yinkerere Brisibe said...

Poster,u r funny o.not to judge.....Hw can u luv anoda person's husband????hw cud u nt protect urself so in 4 yrs u av had 5 pregnancies?if u marry n u dnt get pregnant,pls dnt blame any1 but urself.ma candid advice,keep dis pregnancy and leave dat MARRIED man alone.I am anti abortion!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Sorry to say u r a big Fool.

Anonymous said...

This story leaves me speechless, just wondering if your brain is still working at an optimum level. A married man is your boyfriend? You have been wasting precious years of your life that could have been spent in a meaningful relationship. Women like you with zero self-respect, who lack shame and the fear of God keep ruining homes. Please go and seek God and let him direct your path. Keep the child and hand the child over to an adoption agency, where the child can be given to a childless couple.

Anonymous said...

I guess he thinks you are wicked to have being able to have gone through the abortions one after the other without any remorse. He probably felt sorry for you when he thought this was the first one.
Why are you sleeping with a married man at 27 sef? U no wan marry?
Am not judging cos I have done it before. But I was young.whats ur excuse?

commy Baby said...

Sweetheart....... Both of u need JESUS!

Anonymous said...

Fool

monalisa said...

U won't hear it from my mouth, wait for ur insults. Oya! Prince and princesses let the insult begin. I hate girls dat said I love married men. Yuck!!

dhobiz said...

You actually stink,you're lazy and wicked and i pray God visits you soon.may he never remember you for generations to come.

Tamika Jona said...

Do not abort dat child, keep it. Some day, u will b glad u did. Motherhood is a beautiful experience trust me. And please let d married man go. Use d money u have saved over time to start up a biz so u can use d proceeds to take care of ur child. It is well with u in Jesus name.

Anonymous said...

U're the satan here,one know he is a married man right so u should be blamed...

Anonymous said...

You r are a stupid girl o, I love him u said? I can see u don't have plans for ur life. You need Jesus!

muyiwa ojo stanley said...

Ole oju koro is disturbing ur life, very soon He will kill u if u dont leave the devil alone. Such and evil man plus madam ojukokoro.

Anonymous said...

my sister, bomb dey ur head? hw can u b ruining ur future for a married man

Sunmola Oluwatosin said...

Both

Lawrence said...

Ur Case z vewi seriouz ! U ve murdered 4 pple ! Leave d Guy joor .. Use dz Opportunity to Repair ..nd have dat Child

Mista Short said...

Moral of the story... Keep your mouth shut sometimes!

Sweet Mary ...@mzz_mary1 said...

Hmmm
Ur case is complicated
Don't abort
Once d baby comes he will luv u more

Ogechukwu Agim said...

Hmmmm.. I really don't want to insult you dear. That's not what you need at this point in your life.
Jesus loves u, so I advise you leave this married man alone. He belongs to another woman honey!
If you decide to keep the baby, that's great. That child may wipe away your tears of shame. If you decide not to, just have it in mind that what people are searching for, you would have thrown away five times. Diaris God sha. Wish you the best.

Anonymous said...

My dear, u re most folish human being on earth.


ijeoma nwachukwu said...

First of all he is a married man, sweeti what where u thinking?..in a case like dis, I will never advice u to abort it, if u have to suffer for it, itz ur cross..buh please flee from a married man

Anonymous said...

Are you for real???? Dumb ass bitch!! Home wrecker! You and the man stupid gaan! It is not a small something o! Hian

winnyTee said...

Hilarious, lmao!!!!!!???????????? Both of them are meant for each other

GOD'S SENT said...

MAY GOD FORGIVE YOU. HELL IS REAL BE CAREFULL. YOU ARE PLAYING WITH YOUR LIFE AND YOUR SOUL. LEAVE MARRIED MEN ALONE AND GO FIND YOUR OWN MAN. PRE-MARITAL SEX IS AND HAS ALWAIZ BEEN A SIN. PLZ! PLZ!! PLZ!!! YOU NEED TO ASK GOD TO FORGIVE YOU!!! 4 ABORTIONS AND STILL COUNTING? GOSH! YOU NEED JESUS IN YOUR LIFE... #SAYNOTOSEXB4MARRIAGE

Anonymous said...

You are a real witch n should root in jail, his right. .

lindaspartner said...

Linda y do u like bringing such stories?u knw lib will finish her,u re d most foolish stories I ave heard bout,u re stupid oo babe,I am going out a married man and I ave never being pregnant 4 him,bcos I am more Dan kiaful,from d way u talk,I feel u re a small gal,handle ur shit and stop disturbing us,

Anonymous said...

How do I believe all this stories that Linda post here is not friction but if it is a true story babe I think you got served. You are dating a married man and can't practice safe sex, saying men are stupid is ridiculous cus you are the stupid one and also the evil one including the man in question. I hope God have mercy on you cus you really need it, I pity the guy that will marry you. UCHE OSEFOH

Anonymous said...

Dis na real faabu story. Stupid writer & nonsense linda for posting dis stupid story

deevalycious said...

My dear its better you stop dis act of aborting all dez fetus cos at some point u wud want to deliver m mayb by den u uterus wont b able to hold anymore babies...and as dor ur man..pls do d ryt thin n move on wit ur life cos a man dat boldly hands a woman money to abort a child dat he knows is his...has no respect for dat womans life...pls make hays while d sun shines...v a great weekend...#backtomypatients...

nwachukwu john said...

My dear u ve done wat a gud woman should do by telln him u r pregnant for him, I will advice u shld ask him if he truly love u for marriage or Jst frndship

Anonymous said...

U r so stupidy and greedy,@ur age u r asking for advice to keep another woman's husband? 4 abortions for a married man? Now u want advice on how to get him back? U need serious help,i guess wat u should b asking of is how to help u out of ur spiritual problems,just go wash ur head in river n plz don't forget to use coconut water as well,ole oshi.

Juliet Johnson said...

Hmmmm u'r dating a married man dts how sum1 would date ur future husband.u beta go nd work nd find ur own man Dan depend on a married man 2 tak care of u damaging ur womb all Bcoz of moni.i hv no advice 4 u just give ur life 2 christ biko

Anonymous said...

you are a fool girl

nwachukwu john said...

My dear u ve done wat a gud woman should do by telln him u r pregnant for him, I will advice u shld ask him if he truly love u for marriage or Jst frndship

nwachukwu john said...

My dear u ve done wat a gud woman should do by telln him u r pregnant for him, I will advice u shld ask him if he truly love u for marriage or Jst frndship

nwachukwu john said...

My dear u ve done wat a gud woman should do by telln him u r pregnant for him, I will advice u shld ask him if he truly love u for marriage or Jst frndship

Juliet Oranagwa said...

Babe you said said this man is married. Don't you want your own family? Your own husband? Why go for someone else's husband. God will certainly just punish you for putting asunder in what he joined together. CNT advice you on how to take someone's husband away from her

Anonymous said...

OYO is your name ( meemee ).

Anonymous said...

Clap for urself u ar still thinking of what to do to bring back a marriage man y not pray to have ur own u better be careful before u wil look for it when you are ready

Anonymous said...

You are a devil, otoro gbaka kwa gi onu ahu, see as she de talk am like say na routine shit that is praiseworthy. Ezi ohia anumanu

winniekoko said...

No advice from me......foolish girl...mtcheeeeeeeewwwww

bolanle Aseyan said...

Smh...mumu ni iwo omo yi sha,baba na mumu,money wil kill u,alaye kip aborting shogbo,dey fuck n abort go, God will bless ur ministry...olosho##homeBreaker#Werey#Abimpabe#Alainironu#Ashinu#Apoda#manPrick

Amaa said...

And u seriously need advice on how to get him back? Girl!! U must be kidding. Haba!!! At 27? U never tire? That's someone's husband u know? Or maybe u wanna do seven more abortions. Babe my sincere advice is, leave that useless man ALONE!!! U deserve Ur own man "single of cause" who would really love and care for u and whom U'd certainty love 2ce as much. U deserve better my dear.

Amaa said...

And u seriously need advice on how to get him back? Girl!! U must be kidding. Haba!!! At 27? U never tire? That's someone's husband u know? Or maybe u wanna do seven more abortions. Babe my sincere advice is, leave that useless man ALONE!!! U deserve Ur own man "single of cause" who would really love and care for u and whom U'd certainty love 2ce as much. U deserve better my dear.

Anonymous said...

Huh?? *scratching my head* is this chick serious?? Someone's hubby is your bf and U don't want to lose him... LoL. I don't even care abt the abortions, U don't love yourself

Arabian princess said...

My dear u really r a saint..

Arabian princess said...

My dear ur really a saint

Anonymous said...

Go and do thanksgiving and leave that son of devil,God gave u a second chance.I see your death if u terminate that pregnancy

Anonymous said...

Honestly we women can make our lives difficult sha....4 abortions???Don't even know what to say to you plus your guy was testing you. Most guys do dt and since you aint d sharpest tool in the shed you failed. I wonder how you got comfortable in a relationship with four abortions u get mind no b small...u con dey tell God make hin no give you more...how are comfy praying to him dou I can't do dt my guilt will eat me up!

Julie Best said...

You are even asking what to do to get your man friend back again ? And continue increasing the number of your abortion ? Na wa for you o

zeenee said...

Na wa o...

Ebola said...

Ashewo... God wll soon abort u frm dis lyf... am wonderin aw wide ur puna wll b... if u abort dis one den I dnt tink u wll eva b pregnant agen... d both of u r evil

Anonymous said...

good for you, keep going after married men, one day you will be married and smone will do same to you. good luck

Anonymous said...

God punish u for sleeping wt some1 s husband,may u rot in hell for all those abortions

me,masef n eyez! said...

Gals geh mind sha...him no even slap u well....

Anonymous said...

Collect the money go and be a baby mama that is what is trending now because if abort you may not be able to conceive again.

Anonymous said...

TB Joshua sef no fit do your deliverance becuz your foolishness is way beyond him. Meanwhile let's make extra cash, click and register www.referbizpay.com/?ref=7508.

Anonymous said...

Ewu Gambia u nid 10 more slaps ijiot dn't lose him u hear

Anonymous said...

he doesn't love you back CLEARLY .Don't waste your time. And this is your fault too you should have told him about the first abortion before you had it .I dont blame him.

Anonymous said...

Please u r 27 n am sure u wud wnt 2 settle down if nt now but sumday..so pls stop dating married men n risking ur life ova it..4 abortions n u still want him back??I dnt knw wt uv bin tru or

Anonymous said...

Kill yourself. Since U don't want 2 lose him, it's better if he loses you

NaNcY DreW said...

Linda are u sure u don't come up with dis stories cuz 1st of all knowing her "man" is a married man is a turn off 2ndly both of 'em re unbelievably stupid she 4 loving a married man and wanting 2 be a side chick 4 d rest of her life cuz dats seem like her position already and like she's cool wit it cuz she said she doesn't wanna lose him and d Married man is so stupid cuz terminating 4 or 1 pregnancy is d same murder.
Eniao linda I don't blive dis poster does she think she's MaryJane wat 'ev jawe

Anonymous said...

Tchaiiii! how some women can be soo stupid is beyond me. No dignity, no self respect.
i have nothing to say to u but i pray sense comes into ur head for once. tchai!

ukwumaka theophilus said...

Babe, go and get a life.

Nana said...

It is well with you, my dear. You need Jesus, and serious counselling. But, Linda is this story real? 4 abortions??? And on d 5th for a married man at that!!! Someone that is using u to pass time when his wife is not 'available'. And there are families looking for d fruit of the womb! Poster pls fear God o! Dont u want a life and family of your own? Do u not think of your future? Chukwu mer'anyi ebere!

Anonymous said...

Well its simple, in d past you made mistakes n where did it lead you to.? Ask yourself dis question. Do you want to do d right tin or continue with dwelling in the past. Note you are responsible for your actions. Trust you make it right from now. Stay blessed

Anonymous said...

You both hve riding da devils Cart buh dets noh da issue rite??..Dnt worry ur heart my lady...Oga infidel wil come bak for det apple in ur garden of EDEN.

sandra anne said...

My dear what is wrong with u? Firstly, ur 27 years old, and dating a 'married man'. Secondly, 'four' abortions for heavens sake. And then you told him about d fifth nd he slaped u called u a devil nd said his family comes first nd ur still in love? And having the guts to say u want him back, another woman's man? At ur age. My dear I have no words but grow up nd think for the first time! He's married he would never choose u, forget about him nd have ur baby that's what's important nw. Work hard

Anonymous said...

U are such an stupid idoitn with all treatments u still dare open ur moronlicious mouth says ' I don't want 2 loose him' anyway I wish ur mum had flush ur stupid ass wen u conceived ..

stanley iheji said...

I think u jst need to wake up from dat dream

Anonymous said...

You are very stupid for coming here to tell us this cock and bull story. Linda Ikeji, I don't knw what ur blog has become but you should know what to post and what not to post. Next!!!

sonia gabari said...

Mumu in d highest order *in patient Jonathan voice * continue

Anonymous said...

U are really a Satan and shud get behind him and all married mens back don't go and marry, oloshi

Ijanyi Mitch said...

First of all I really want to know why u should fall in love wit anoda woman's man and then back to ur last question , I must confess that ur the biggest fool seen thus far

Anonymous said...

U are nt even ashamed of ur self to mention dat he is a married man and u love him very well. My dear, it is not love u feel, u only feel u love him bcoz of all d good tinz he is giving u. Bt bcareful though with wat u used ur mouth to say dat God shld stop giving u children until u are ready for dem. Dat simply means u are ordering God. U bera pray b4 u end up nt havin one @all in d near or far away future

donald said...

Hmmm, dis is quite serious babe, it has happened to me before. I'm married and had dis girl dat I really loved, same tin happened but I didn't slap her or ask her to abort it, I found out she was pregnant and wanted d baby, but was going to hide from my wife. Unfortunately she had already started using drugs without telling me, and she lost it. The fact that u av done 4 before is risky, and won't advice u abort it, forget if the will laff at u its only for a while. The truth is wen d child grows up, u will appreciate wat I've told u today. People will only laff at u now, and years to come wish they had taken dis decision. #dontkilldatbaby. Also think about ur life. I wish I allowed my girl keep the preganancy of 1995, wud have been so excited now.public scorn doz not matter. #keepdpregnancy. Donald from bside

Anonymous said...

You don't have to get back with him. Ask God to forgive you your sins, and move on with your life.

Why would you want to keep dating another woman's husband when you could easily get yours. Please dear, you are way worth more than that. Value yourself and see yourself as worthy of a good man.

somfabulous said...

U r a fool... God wat is ya heart made of stones...hw do u sleep at nyt......u r nt 15 anymore bi**h grow up

Anonymous said...

Nkita lacha gi ike.... U still love him and so shall someone else get pregnant and still love your husband whenever you choose to settle down.linda some of these your stories can fit to vex person jare#rollingeyes#

Anonymous said...

Ashawo oshi leave d married man to enjoy his home.foolish thing

Anonymous said...

chai!! i actually For ur bf..
Things guys see in dis world.. Smh

Anonymous said...

You need help. You need deliverance. Shou....

Anonymous said...

You must be very very stupid. Married man for that matter. Don't you have shame? Don't you want to get married some day? Linda I love your blog so much that I visit it every single day. Please you should be able to restrict some things people send to you looking for advice.

baby oku said...

Keep the child and don't go bck to him any longer

Anonymous said...

mumu

chibaby helen said...

My dear be ready for abuses I trust my fellow LIB for I no get answer for u.

lauraauj kahi said...

I don't get this story, is the married man different from the boyfriend or same person.
Anyway In this case, the hand writing is written on the wall. The guy is done with you and you should move on with your life. ask God for forgiveness and start a fresh page.
if you insist on maintaining the relation, give him space and plead with him.

APPLE said...

Witch!!!

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