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Saturday, 23 August 2014

Dear LIB readers: I had 4 abortions for my man without telling him

From a female LIB reader
Hi Libers, I'm 27 years old and I've been dating a married man for 3 years. And in that 3 years I've had 4 abortions, which I never told my boyfriend about, so in his heart of hearts he thinks I've been very careful hence no pregnancy palava for him. I think that's the main reason he loves me so much and he's taking good care of me. 
Just found out a few weeks back that I was pregnant again, I've begged God to stop giving me these pregnancies until I'm ready, Cos I'm tired of aborting.
So he came to my house as usual and for the first time ever I told him about my current pregnancy. Continue..
He  hugged tightly me, gave me a cheque and told me to terminate it because of his family bla bla bla. I collected the cheque and jokingly told him that I've had 4 abortions already for him without letting him know because I didn't want to stress him. 
Immediately, he gave me a slap, collected the cheque from me and told me he would get me arrested, just imagine. That I'm evil and should be left to rot in jail for killing four innocent children.  
This is the same guy who just asked me to abort for him o. How stupid can men be. I thought I was doing him a favor.  
He eventually sent some money into my account and told me to do whatever with my pregnancy. But I should get behind him Satan. Who is the Satan, me or him?
Anyway, I don't want to lose this man because I truly love him. Please what can I do to get him back, right now he can't stand me. 

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Judith said...

hmmmmmmmmmmm, dis is serious. but girl,y not leave the married man alone noww eh.go and love your boy friend as u love this married man. wel, i will advise you go and tel ur bf and plea
d to him.dats wat i feel

Akanle juliet said...

Lucky u

Anonymous said...

miss Lindah, pls wen d part2 of dis movie comes out jst holla me.
*Miz Eddo saiz sow*

Anonymous said...

I can't believe the crap I just read!
Gosh!
Women!!!

Anonymous said...

Asin ehn! When people are our there looking for Children to call theirs... smh

Anonymous said...

You have yo take responsibility for your own actions.

Speaking from experience, keep the pregnancy and have the baby. 4 abortions is no joke. Don't make the mistake if having one more. Raising a child alone is not the end of the world.

I'm 30yo and have a daughter for a married man. It was my first and only pregnancy. She is 3yo now and he chooses not to be a part of our life, which is okay by me. After having the baby, I went on birth control - MIRENA.

This baby might be your last
Have the child and learn to be more responsible about your sexual activities.

Anonymous said...

Hiss,short of words. So this foolishness still exist in this 2014?

Esty kudos said...

Home breaker. Whatever u sow, dat u'll also reap

Anonymous said...

Dont judge her, u haven't bin in her shoes before and pray u are never there. to u d writer, I think u aborted d 4 previous because deep down in ur subconscious, u knew he would ask u to terminate them anyways and would react the way he eventually did. that man was and is just using you and in the process stealing your destiny. you are still young and if u ask me, God has just given u a way out of this man's life and a second chance. I have this strong feeling you have already aborted this child. anyhoo incase u have or u haven't ,either way go on your knees , go back to God, His grace is sufficient to give u a clean slate and never ever go back to dat way of life. u would b surprised how God will turn this situation around for u. find a support system, a loving non judgemental church to see u thru this but never go back.

williams robort said...

Aunt mumu keep this baby if not u might not hv any again in ur life

Anonymous said...

He has his family. Dont waste your life.

Anonymous said...

@ lindaspartner u are careful, u are going out with married man,and u are bold to also say it,? Shame on u slot too, u will never av a home of ur own too,unless u repent, as u are destroying wat God joined together so shall God destroy any good tin on ur way,u will end u I'm shame,u can be careful and deceive people,not God,he sees everytin

lauren thomas said...

Should I insult or just laff! Cn u hear urself? U cnt afford 2 lose a married man, Gush!

Anonymous said...

Na wa ooo! You're dating a married man & u have had 4 abortions,now you're considering a 5th. Girl,u need prayers. @ 27 see how ur life is going. Aren't u even scared of Karma? Dating someone else's husband! Then 2mrw you'll get married & when u find out ur husband is cheating on u,you'd start cursing the side chick. SMH for u. Jst keep this baby & move on with ur life. U love him indeed!love oshi! Shior... #Cutebusybee

Anonymous said...

Hunny, contraceptive is worse than abortion. You either zip up or be ready to have a child, that's what responsible people do. It will wipe off your womb without you knowing, a few are lucky... The reason some hardly get pregnant when they're ready to procreate, better yet, study your menstrual chart, that way you can abstain from sex when you're ovulating but don't trust menstrual chart reading 100%, reason is, God is the only one who can determine real time and season for all things. Meteorologists could tell you today that it would rain but God can make sun shine to let us know that He is the maker of all things.

Anonymous said...

@anon 2:26 aswear guys sha dey suffer

Anonymous said...

Wait. Is this story for real or people just make these things up? Cos I don't wanna believe people can be so Aarrgghhhh!

What help are you looking for? You're dating a MARRIED man for Christ's sake!

Anonymous said...

Which one be die for the matter, na chemist she wan go do the abortion? IGNORANCE.

Anonymous said...

If you were to be God,what would you do?You are in the dark.......Relocate to the light and you will find a way........Trace back you step and follow after.....

Anonymous said...

Ddnt she say he was a married man? ......I sooo hav nothing to say dan for her to ' get a life '

Anonymous said...

You are foolish

Anonymous said...

first of all you are wrong for dating a married man. Did you ever think of destroying someone's home because of "stupid love".
Just forget about the four abortions cus no one is perfect, face the current situation. You have to let him go and if you so love him then keep the child and never go back to him. Focus on finding someone who will accept you and the child.

Anonymous said...

Obviously you don't have any family values or else you would not have dated him in the first instance. When we were young, a friend behaved just like you & today she lives to regret it. She had aborted all the children God planned for her. Repent & surrender your life to Jesus to give you a new beginning. You have committed four murders & your accomplice is an adulterer who God will judge. Don't ABORT. Move on & see your challenge as self inflicted which has to be dealt with.

Anonymous said...

The man is correct. U should be jailed for asking for such advice. U r a bad influence to the society. Shame on u.

Queen Reine said...

You de craze ni for wanting him back. If you love him very very very much, then immortalize him by having his child n dnt tell him or disturb him about it. Things we do for love you know

Anonymous said...

U ar stupid,dis man u luv s anoda woman's husbnd.and bsd he s hvin his own childrn wit his wife.go get ur sef a single guyand setle dwn wit, den pray to God 4 4gvnss

Anonymous said...

Just pray to God to 4give you, let go off that man ASAP. @ 27 you are still aborting, All is well. Rozay talking.

gafar said...

Be wise... u can't create a fly yet you have killed 4 kids.. u need to know that you r a murderer and will suffer 1 day for what u have done and your dumb boyfriend is no good neither perfect match of fools. Do something different for 1C in your days appreciate life and make that innocent baby live... thank God your mother was not like u. U would have been in the soak away

stainless Anneth said...

Hahahaha... can't stop lafin

Lib goddess said...

Ole!!!!! Firstly you are a whore..you are dating a married man and a single man at the same time,okay so you are in love with a married man all because of the money he gives you which the other single guy cant afford, you've done 3 abortions for a married man..do you ever plan of settling down one day? I don't think so cos if you do, you wouldn't be with a married man for 3years knowing fully well that you are just a side chick...my advise for you....Go to the nearest well and jump in...idiot asking libers foolish question

Toyole Akinluyi said...

THANK YOU!!!! I thought I was the only one who saw that!!!

Toyole Akinluyi said...

THANK YOU!!! I thought I was the only one who saw that!!!

Alex Slyce said...

Dear Linda please there some irrelevant stories you shouldn't put up here like this one the lady is out rightly stupid she is very. Shameless a home wrecker

jones said...

Linda your blog is fast now. Well done.

Abiola Adebajo said...

My dear, all u need is Jesus. Give ur life to Him and he will help u out.
That man belongs to another woman, and there are eternal repercussions in what you're doing, run to Jesus my friend.
Do not abort that pregnancy, God will sort u out if you sincerely go to Him.

Anonymous said...

Sowie babe bt @ 27 u are shamelessly immature dating a married man is one ting but loving him to d extent of aborting four times is outright stupidity get a life break up wit him he is not worth it and frankly bitch u mean nuting to him compared to his family,keep d baby no matter what bcos after five abortions gal u might not have any more issues and at 27yrs for God sake tink of settling now u want a married lover back?dem don use yr brain clean witch leg for coven

Wealthy Chic said...

Park your load and move into his house. Am sure u will make a good house help for his family. Shameless woman.

Anonymous said...

I can't believe did! U shouldn't be dis blind at ur age. Pls wake up.

Anonymous said...

Just go on ur kneels nd beg God to 4give u. Clear ur eyes nd run away from dat man. Kemi, bisi, ify nd lola pls be careful with abbey nd beg God to forgive u all for de numerous abortions. Lord ve mercy.

Anonymous said...

Shey.... I agree with u @stobmedia. this story is very surreal. At 27 u really can't be dis dumb. You don't sound naive afterall u've had 4 abortions, dis one ωïll make it 5 so u're no dummy. You enjoy the money he's spending on you and don't wanna give up d good life. It ain't love sweets, it's just money. So quit fooling urself and find ur next aristo!!!!

Zizi said...

Bingo at 27 u r still doing abortion , ur mate dey husband house u r busy sleeping with someone's own. U r senseless I swear, u need jesus in ur life the next one will be that u will take out ur womb and then when u get married that's if u will you will start prostituting from one church to another. Go and get a life, u have none with a married man

Anthony Pratt said...

Lol..Nothing new under the sun,I have heard worse.But i notice everyone is just insulting.What i am sure of is there are many women like this out there..I'm not in your shoes i can't say why you made these decisions.And you cannot be offended by these insults,because sincerely speaking you deserve them.What i keep wondering is an innocent guy would actually marry you and i'm sure you will keep this a secret from him for the rest of your life.These are the reasons i'm afraid to get married.Jeez..4abortions.

Beautiful and GIFTED said...

Tha **uck???!!! Na, this Shit ain't real. Not troubling my head with it.

NEXT!

Chop Chop said...

instead of bashing the poor girl, encourage her to keep the baby and have the man support the child.

May Cee said...

I think you should leave him alone. I know you love him very much and all but it's very obvious he doesn't care much for you. A man who truly loves you will not tell you to abort his baby. You are not a child, you are an adult so decide what you wanna do with this pregnancy and whatever you decide, don't let your 'boyfriend' be a part of it. It time to start afresh and hopefully you will find someone someone who truly cares for you.
God will help you out, have faith in him.
I wish you good luck :)

Anonymous said...

Babe, please keep this pregnancy!! Please overlook all the hate mail you are getting because of this situation. Leave the man alone. Do not cut him off from your life because you are carrying his seed. Let him be, focus on you. Your baby will bring you much happiness and give u a new outlook to life. We all make mistakes. I'm a single mom too, I'm your age and he is a married man. Even though he takes care of us as his wife is unable to concieve. It's not been an easy road, but my daughter is beautiful and when I wake up each day, I thank God for the decision I made. This is your life now, my dear. Prepare for motherhood and bask in your imperfections. You are beautiful and you will be made whole again by Our God!!! Please stay safe and best wishes on your journey. God bless you.

Anonymous said...

Soooooo true about some married men chasing u like they're single....ohhh men. I don see dem tire.

Anonymous said...

I think Linda made dis up just so comments can fly cos I don't wanna believe dis story is true

Anonymous said...

Linda d fabricator

Sylvonce said...

Lol. Stories we read here though, one wonders if they are fictitious or....
Y even date a married man who probably has another elsewhere, wen u hv someone u "claim to love". Na d transformer fit u to hug. D innocent child I feel for.

Anonymous said...

LESSON 1. ( TO ALL WOMEN)

IF A MAN IS MARRIED, PLEASE AND PLEASE, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE.

DON'T EVEN GO ON ONE DATE WITH HIM (EITHER BECAUSE YOU ARE BORED ON THAT DAY, JUST TO HAVE FUN ON THAT DAY AND ENJOY FREE GRUBB OR WHATEVER FUCKING REASON)

"ITS LIKE BEING HYPNOTIZED. EVEN SOME GOOD GIRLS CAN FALL VICTIM LIKE I HAVE SEEN IN MY COUNSELING SESSIONS"

WHEN YOU START A RELATIONSHIP WITH A MARRIED MAN AND PARTICULARLY IF YOU ARE NOT A BAD GIRL THAT CAN THROW HIM AWAY LIKE TRASH AT ANT TIME, YOU WILL DO THE MOST STUPID THINGS WITH YOUR LIFE. MEANWHILE HIS OWN FAMILY IS DEVELOPING, CHILDREN SELF MAYBE GETTIG MARRIED.
AND YOU WILL JUST BE A NONENTITY IN HIS LIFE. HOW CAN A 27 YEAR OLD GIRL BE CRYING THAT SHE DOESN'T WANT TO LOOSE A MARRIED MAN WHO CLEARLY HAS NO PLAN FOR HER. MAYBE ITS MONEY SHA, INFACT IT MIUST BE SELF

GOD, PLEASE DELIVER OUR GIRLS

Brenda Rice said...

You cannot marry a married man. Go and look for your own single man. I hate when ladies sleep with married men. Thats no different from a B^tch

Brenda Rice said...

You cannot marry a married man. Go and look for your own single man. I hate when ladies sleep with married men. Thats no different from a B^tch

elizabeth tasie said...

1st : anyone cn fall in love( just choose the rite person, u cnt go around claiming to luv a married man cos the truth is he's only catching fun and will only replace u if he sees u falling too strongly for him to caught of complicated issues) he won't marry u ooo except ur shade okoya...

2nd: why wld u leave urself unprotected! Dats is a wrong move! Knowing he has a family he loves and wld die for, u want to complicate his life d more.

3rd: ur 27 darling! Get a hold of ur self ( 3more yrs and uv added 3 decades to ur life on earth) stop fooling with d man and get urs........ time is ticking right infront of u oooo

4th: ask God for forgiveness and really mean it. May ur sins not catch up to u ( not evrione who goes tru an abortion conceives later on in life)...

Linda my thumb dey pain me ( but haad to write dis long reply)

BLUNT said...

There's hardly any chic here that's up to 27 that hasn't dated a married man or had an abortion. So why the pieces if advice from seasoned professional abortionists? As for d writer, go ahead, have the abortion, plead with him, take in and repeat the process once more. You're on course to making history! Good girl.#truthhurts#

maryann said...

i know a lot of people will criticize this lady. few years ago i will do same as most ppl on this blog cause her and all that but now i have done same as her. sometimes you dont plan for this grave sin against God but they happen and you have no choice than doing what you feel is the best thing @ that time, sweet heart iv been there b4, be strong if he cant put up with ur shit he is not for u a better man will come. just b more careful and use protection always irrespective of the pressure from your boyfrnd

ZeeZee said...

O gal, it is very much not about the fact that you killed "four innocent children" it is the fact that you are a four time abortee!! LOL excuse my language but get smart he is disgusted - he feels like he was penetrating a corpse or grave... Men are hypocritical.. they don't want an aborter girlfriend but oboy when u carry dem pikin dem go provide the money sharply to terminate - after that he won't see you the same... he will look for reasons to break up with you 1. Fear that you may kep the next one
2. Fear of penetrating graveyard pele ooo dear
Even though LIBers are judging you - God isn't just repent and move on with your life - close your legs to married men those are curses - but as long as you've asked for foriveness God has heard you - please God has blessed you with fruit of the womb which so many desire - do not abort ever again

Anonymous said...

my God 1st, 2nd, 3th, 4th going to 5th u're fool.

Oyindamola said...

Lmaooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!! This is the most interesting news ever

Anonymous said...

Lmaoooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Jesus christ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1Lmaoooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

oyinda omolara said...

this is very hlarious

Anonymous said...

Which kin tori be dis I swear I no believe dis linda go just cook up tori so dat jobless nigerians will be making comments so dat it will look like her blog iS fun... Oshi

Anonymous said...

ur dating a married man.. u r an idiot.. and u will never have a happy home of ur own. useless bitch.

Anonymous said...

Ashawo like u

Anonymous said...

He does not love you and you dont love him. You love his money. If you loved him, you will not be comfortable playing second fiddle. Your emotions wont let you. I dont know where society is headed with the type of animal behavior we are seeing around us. Quite distressing.

Anonymous said...

What we LOVE is not always good for us.
Some pple love to smoke n it usually kills them

Anonymous said...

Dear Confused n Dear Libbers-FOCUS on the issue, the issue here is wrong choice of partner. Whether single guy or married guy. I know single men who would treat you even worse than this married man. Choose partner wisely. Use your head not your ass.

t-pel said...

When you discovered he was married you should have let go. Dem you are a murderer . stupiditynin its highest. Sorry for ma words

BLUNT said...

Exactly why I admire u and d chics beef u! U say it d way it is. Ride on sweetheart.

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Anonymous said...

1.You now know for sure that this man won't leave his wife or family for you so please what are you still looking for??
2. You have had four abortions, do you really want to have a 5th on your conscience?? What happens if something goes wrong and ur womb becomes damaged and then you can't have children again?
3. Please ask God for forgiveness and pray that you don't face the consequences of your actions.
4. You are in love with him....Babe love yourself, let him go, deal with the loss and try to get over it. He is not the only man in the world.
5. His actions and reaction should be enough for you to see reason. Let him go, have the baby.
You deserve better please and you can do better!

Anonymous said...

I do not comment on Linda Ikeji and as much as I think this story is made up by some jobless piece of shit I will comment anyway.

Marriage is NOT an institution. It is a spiritual UNION. GOD is involved. You are a witch my dear and even in him falling short, he knows well to call you Satan. I hope his wife prays against EVERY STRANGE WOMAN. What God has in store for you, ehn, if you do not repent and face your front on how to reconstruct your womb and vagina. Olosi, Oloriburuku. TEN FINGERS IN THE AIR LIKE I DONT CARE! STRANGE WOMAN! STRANGEST! The blood you shed will speak against you, the tears the man's wife weeps to God, he will NEVER forsake her. I wish I could see you. Don't sit and let a man come in search for a wife and find you oh. shit, my bad, you aint that material...

CONTACT DR.ODOGBE VIA anoitedtemple@gmail.com FOR HIM TO CAST A SPELL THAT WILL MAKE YOU PREGNANT said...

I was able to get pregnant through the help of a pregnancy spell caster Dr.Odogbe whose email address is anoitedtemple@gmail.com at my age of 52 after my DOC told me i will not be able to get pregnant but after this spell caster did his spell for me i became pregnant a week after and i gave birth to twins a boy and a girl. in case u also need the help of this man u can also reach him via his email

hilary obiorah said...

linda I left a comment here, why wasn't it posted?!

Anonymous said...

Ummm could this be real.
I refuse to believe so because its ridic..

TruelyTopaz said...

keep the child...
but really u still love him..if his wife should catch u..she'll teach u the other side of love.

lady stop being stupid, wake up get a job and fend for your self and your unborn child.

u dont know about condom or protection after your 1st pregnancy...this is plain sad

now listen: sex without protection = A Child. easy as ABC.

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