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Wednesday, 20 August 2014

Dear LIB readers: Follow up on ring and car proposal

On August 7th, a LIB reader shared her dilemma - she said a guy proposed to her with a ring and a car but she only wanted the car and not the ring (read that here). Well, she just sent me an update. Read below...
"So I told the guy I didn't love him enough to keep the ring but I needed the car. I offered to pay back in 6 months. Meanwhile the car was a 2012 Toyota corolla. He gave me 2 resounding slaps, I can still hear the echoes in my ear. I had never seen this side of him. I broke down in tears and walked out on him. 
The next day I returned the car keys and the ring and called off the relationship. Well he showed up again yesterday with a much cheaper car and offered me that as a gift. I accepted the peace offering of course on the condition that the relationship was off and I didn't owe him anything. He readily accepted probably to ease his guilt, I care not. 
I have no regrets. Any man that raises his hands on a woman is capable of murder and I'm glad I walked away before my obituary appears on Linda Ikeji. Meanwhile I attached a pic of my new ride. Hehe

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Anonymous said...

my dear, I Pity You! (IPU)

ify said...

The guy na proper mu-mu

Anonymous said...

Fool.u av no regret bah.u truely deserve dat slap I must say y av u been playn with his feelns all dis while.useless gurl

Oge Nsimah said...

Babez you have your reasons, pray don't make mistake. Congrat on ur new ride.

Anonymous said...

silly!!!!

Unknown said...

Linda please tell that lady or I think I will call her a girl because she is a cheap and low life babes, who does that? I am not talking about the guys money or car but for real is girls like her that makes most men take women for granted and for a joke, why will you date a man or woman you can't marry? She is a stupid and lazy girl who can't go out dere and get a job and make out something from her life. The guy is so nice he only slapped her and had time to give a gift, someone like her is to be forgotten. She is a selfish and low cheap no good as a wife material thing. She needs to get a life and stop taking someone else love for granted because what goes around comes around oh yea it will come.

Unknown said...

The girl and Ojukokoro. "NO" is a simple and stress less word. It's even easier to say than "MAYBE" or "YES". But Ojukokoro is in her genes.

fly guy said...

Idiot, u like awoof, dat guy is either very generous, or a mumu, na dem dey spoil all this small girls

Anonymous said...

U lucky no b small , it's not good to be using a guy when u know u don't luv him . U are lucky u guys settled and parted ways bcos d way karma for hit u ehh , u 4 reset

Loisy said...

So the slap is an excuse u r using to assuage ur conscience huh? Did he ever slap u b4 u told him u want his car and not his ring? That is extreme provocation my friend! And the guy got u ɑ̤̥̈̊ car for 2 slaps? What ɑ̤̥̈̊ man!

Unknown said...

This girl Bad oooo,hahahahahaha you eating the fruit of your Labour lol

Anonymous said...

Well he just showed you d kind of car u deserve for even think about keepin d previous 1....the 2 resounding slaps wr an added bonus..

Peepingfromafar said...

I think you dont deserve a good man....try placing ads, you may get a rich man to satisfy all your material needs but treat you like shit eventually. TheGreedyOnesAreInMyGeneration.

Anonymous said...

May gift(material tins) don't kill u

Anonymous said...

U r a fool e suppose beat u enta hospital. Ode

Anonymous said...

U are just a stingy bastard. Oloshi

Anonymous said...

Trojan horse

Anonymous said...

Loool, all sort of things happen o. The guy still loves you to even buy a car for you. You deserved that slap mehn, but u got a compesation. Pele.

Anonymous said...

case settled,lol

Anonymous said...

case settled,lol

Anonymous said...

I hope the car is not "laced" with some mechanical fault that will end your greedy life...Be careful..

Ayo said...

You are so cheap. This car sells for N750k? Is that all you are worth? No shame to even say no, after the dirty slap! And to imagine you could share such condescending story? You be ashawo. Shame on you

Littlefinger said...

It's good you got the slap...the guy did it very well. Kudos to him

Alozie Paschal Okwara said...

The way I see it is that you provoked the guy to slapping you. You not only broke his heart with the refusal but you insulted him by wanting to keep the car. He is obviously a good man because he bought you another car when he had calmed down and you said you have never seen that side of him before. My opinion is that you are missing a good and generous man in him. Its never easy for a man to make up his mind that this is the girl he wants to marry and to decide that with a ring and car is grand only to be rejected and insulted by the same girl he holds highly.

Damochedxb said...

I dont even understand what is happening. First rejection , then slaps, then gift. And rejection still stands ooo. This guy must be a cheerful giver. Nice of you to be decent enough not to have led him on. But i wonder why you dont love this guy tho. I hope you dont regret rejecting this guy.

falilababy said...

*yinmu* @ 2012 Corolla!Why you dey lie?

Anonymous said...

sure,but u are greedy..sometimes i do not blame men who do not act gently

Anonymous said...

Ok... now this is funny.

Anonymous said...

Well any woman that wants only the gift and not the giver is a gold digger and does not deserve being a man's wife.

Anonymous said...

HOW IS THIS NEWS TO US LINDA,SOMETIMES I GET TIRED OF COMING TO YOUR BLOG COS OF SOME IRRELEVANT NEWS YOU POST ON HERE,PEOPLE VISITING YOUR BLOGS ARE NOT BABIES OR IS THIS BLOG FOR BABIES,THE NEWS ABOUT THIS GIRL SHOULD NOT BE POSTED ON YOUR BLOG,WORD OF ADVICE FOR YOU LINDA....NOT EVERY NEWS THEY BRING TO YOU SHOULD BE POSTED,JUST SAYING AND IF YOU LIKE YOU CAN REMOVE MY POST.#am#out.

Anonymous said...

HOW IS THIS NEWS TO US LINDA,SOMETIMES I GET TIRED OF COMING TO YOUR BLOG COS OF SOME IRRELEVANT NEWS YOU POST ON HERE,PEOPLE VISITING YOUR BLOGS ARE NOT BABIES OR IS THIS BLOG FOR BABIES,THE NEWS ABOUT THIS GIRL SHOULD NOT BE POSTED ON YOUR BLOG,WORD OF ADVICE FOR YOU LINDA....NOT EVERY NEWS THEY BRING TO YOU SHOULD BE POSTED,JUST SAYING AND IF YOU LIKE YOU CAN REMOVE MY POST.#am#out.

dont knw said...

Smh

Anonymous said...

Thirsty bitch.... Nigga should have used a belt.

Doggy

dont knw said...

U don't even deserve a wheel barrow.

Anonymous said...

D guy is crazy

Unknown said...

the guy that bought then ride 4 u,is a FAKE ASS NIIGA......why would he buy you a car when you dnt love him enough to marry him?????i just i knw that guy.......i am always in linda blog,but i dnt comment.seeing this,,,really made me mad.....

Anonymous said...

Ur not serz, if u cnt marry him shld u take car? If don't lv a guy reject evryfin abt him. Linda pls post my comment.

Anonymous said...

The thing is that U never loved the guy but U want his money. it is good that he proposed to you with a car. If not, U may still be living under pretense, accepting his proposal just to get more money from him. Women can do anything for money.

Anonymous said...

In fact ur nt a wife material

Anonymous said...

Lucky u, de guy sef the jonse! Only 2 slaps him give u? Fuckup!

miss cruella said...

haahahahahahahahaahahahahahahaahahahahahahaahahahahahahahaahahahahahhahahahahhhahahhahahahahahaahaaaaa...soooo peeps of same gender as me can be this foolish? gosh!

Unknown said...

Hmmmm! Like Seriously! Okay na. A Nigerian man gave U̶̲̥̅̊ a car after U̶̲̥̅̊ broke up with him. Are U̶̲̥̅̊ witless. Wait until U̶̲̥̅̊ begin vomit money inside one closet. Then we ll hear anoda headline on LIB. *clickmytongueandwalkaway* nke ahu gbasara gi ebe ahu.

Unknown said...

This babe shaaaa! Thank God say he no go beyond d slaps! It would have been a different story entirely. Anyway, it was good that you were truthful to Him. Enjoy ur motor!

Anonymous said...

Babe you were right in not accepting the ring Bt be careful this one He gave you the car for free....

Anonymous said...

You deserved the slap abeg! What the hell was that? Sharp guy, he was magnanimous enough
to have offered you a much cheaper ride which you gladly accepted. You nor get shame at all

Anonymous said...

Haba!!! Babe you for give yourself small pride/ respect reject the car naa....this is what yorubas call "gba ma pa mi"...very cheap car. Besides, a guy who had the guts to abuse you will definitely go round town telling the whole world that you were trekking until he rescued you from poverty( as if he bought you a range rover sport) you don't need that kinda crap abeg...anyway, enjoy your car since you need it so desperately...
Cheers!!

Anonymous said...

Smh4u u don't have nothing to do with a man that raises his hands on a woman and you turn around and accept a gift from him. Ask yourself if devil gives free gift?? Since the guy is like a devil to you.

Anonymous said...

I knw some girls will wish 4 dat slap jst 2 get a car nw...

Usom said...

Ah, babes no gree at all. Ifeneme!

nikkiebillz said...

The guy na mumu!

Anonymous said...

The guy is good. if I was in his shoes that slap and no car. But he pitied ur sorry life and helped ur career. Mtcheeew..#nextpls

Unknown said...

lol

Anonymous said...

Well, he might have done juju with the car, just b careful cuz u might end up with him before u know it.....it almost happend to me n I neva evn dated d person neither did I take the car he offered..some guys can go to extremes jst to get a girl.....be careful..

Anonymous said...

Hmm nne u better not drive d car cuz soon wen e go happen you wld say had I known!

Anonymous said...

lmaooooooo

Anonymous said...

He should have not only slapped you, he should have thrown you out as well. Hungry and desperate women like you are nothing to write home abt and I'm sorry to burst ur bubble but that 2nd hand car he ended up giving you looks really old model wise...if I'm not wrong, it's probably not a 21st century Camry

JOYCHY said...

Hahaha......two resounding slaps! Were u expecting a hug???
But d guy na MUMU oooo. Someone broke up with u & u still gave her a car as gift. PARTING GIFT?? Issorai

Where dis kin Men dem dey sef??? Show yasef. lol
Oya girl unto the next maga.

Anonymous said...

if you can not take his ring then, do not collect his car. put yourself in his shoes. if he comes back with another cheaper car, tell him thanks that you will work hard to get yourself a car. why must you reduce yourself to this level all because you really need a car. meanwhile, the guy really likes you even though he was very wrong for hitting you.

Anonymous said...

I don't support men beating women. But nwanne u deserved d slap.

Anonymous said...

U be thief. you 4 no collect am since you no love am. Nothing goes for nothing.

Toyin said...

Both of you fit each other sef. He's an idiot and so are you

Anonymous said...

I laughed out loud.......oh life!

Blackberry said...

Lol, ur mates dey accept range autobiography oooo

Anonymous said...

Silly guy. He didn't even slap you well. You really are a selfish person. No wonder they tag us all as money grubbers

Anonymous said...

Smh

Jest said...

He compensated u with dis old model car after infecting u with HIV

Anonymous said...

Lmaoooooo! Pls dont kill me wit laff ooooooooo! Did he slap u into a Chinese family just like Chris in #EverybodyHatesChris? *EverybodyGotADarkSide* U haven't seen dat part of him cos u never did something to warrant seeing it!!!!!!!!! Am sure u saw nd felt it now, hope u r happy? Greedy being! Dats my type of guy! But he fall hand shaa by giving u a lower car self, maybe he was just feeling guilty! Next time tread carefully or we may see ur obi or okorotuary!





#GozManuel Says#

Unknown said...

Girl u get mind shaaaa! I wisg say I chop d kind liver were u get.

Unknown said...

Lol to d resounding slaps...n he gv u a car as peace offering? HmMmmmmm

Unknown said...

Correct babe. U got wat u still wanted afterall.

Gloriaify said...

That's a one big bold step babe

Anonymous said...

Hhheheh babe do u know d difference between a smart and a wise person,giving you as an assignment go find out(xsexie blingxxx)

Anonymous said...

Ur just a cheap biatch......dnt go and work and be independent....be lookin for guys datl buy u stuffs....broke ass civilian

jennyA said...

Girl u cheap no be small. Which kind Corolla be dis. Manage am.

Anonymous said...

Mumu all dat gitters is not gold how do u no dats no a trap or probably he went diabolic on dat car since he can't have u he won't want any1 to a gift u say hmmm from village wit love #jujustuff after breakin his hart nd choppin his moni ur greed will b ur downfall (ignore if u no send) fools dance where wise one fear 2 tread

ANDAM said...

surshima first of all i feel sorry for u for saying nice 1, why not go in search of the same feat?

secondly, for the lady in question, its not cool to slap a lady true, but would you jump for joy if a man u gave your heart to told u he wasn't interested in you anymore and would only like to keep sleeping with u for fun? hence his reaction, people react differently, i personally would not bother hitting u, i'd take my gifts and walk away, cos in the 1st place, u must be inhumane to have suggested he left u with d car. i pray someday, someone would have the opportunity to put u through the same thing and then lets see if u'll post pictures on linda ikeji. oh well,God forgives so i guess we humans as wicked as we are don't have a choice than to follow in his footsteps.

Anonymous said...

Lol linda did u̶̲̥̅ hear da hot slap
But come 2 think of it do u̶̲̥̅ blame d guy 4 giving ha da slap.?? He even try buy another 1 4 u̶̲̥̅ nd u̶̲̥̅ r calling it a cheaper 1 abeg thumbs up 4 dy guy jare his future wife will u̶̲̅sε d new car

Anonymous said...

Honesty pays.

Anonymous said...

You too are capable of anything. Enjoy your ride. Mtcheeeew!

Anonymous said...

Lol wahala

Anonymous said...

Nice one

Anonymous said...

Lol is all I can say...lucky you though

Anonymous said...

Ur 1 of d cheapest female on earth,dt car cud coz ur death u know? Always ask God 4 wisdom,well it appears u don't have morals & will never comprehend stuff anyway NJoY

Anonymous said...

At I'm Ejeh wetin b congrats ??? Nonsense comment. At Eedris asin real DOPE ooo.... Loool but ur conclusion was fallacious

Anonymous said...

Looolllllll.

Anonymous said...

True talk @ wilheminna. The chic is a liar. That gist is a real fake one. Even if the guy is the most stupid man on earth. Babe forget this your gist,it's just in your dreams. Lie lie.

Anonymous said...

The story fake pass fake jor

Unknown said...

LMAO!!!!KAI!seriously???

vikcyfabulous said...

stupid guy

Walata said...

Fool seeking for public attention, u are just a fucking bitch!!! Why not show us ur foolish face let's know who u are instead of ur old model he gave u, nn for the fact u took the car n after the slap, girl u are a cheap whore. Nonsense

SVC said...

BIG LIE!! IT İŞ WELL

Anonymous said...

Hope no be those Boko Haram cars when dey GBAWA!

I Love It BIg said...

Hope the car doesnt end up killing you. if you die, it will be better than you being maimed or deformed. Remember Karma My dear. I'm a lady like you

Anonymous said...

You are a low life girl... Smh

Anonymous said...

Na wa for you o. You no no if he don put juju for the car to make "you miserable for life"
Shine your eye!

Anonymous said...

Well done my dear, very well done!
And pray God to prosper you, not only to be able to buy your own cars and houses but also to buy same for many others.
Halleluyah!
- AE

Anonymous said...

In a youthful life, one has the opportunity to meet two or if lucky three prospective "devine" life partners. Once missed, you can't blame God if you end up with the very wrong person. Ladies can be very naive sometimes not to see a good man when he comes. I can't judge you dear cos am no better but, I will certainly advise that you start doing penance for this and don't be too happy. you should watch it now. A man who is heart broken and probably bitter gifted you a car after all said and you think its luck or out of love? Silence shouldn't be taken for granted. If it seems too good to be true, it probably too good to be true. I guarantee you, he is no idiot or fool, trust me watch it.

Unknown said...

Lol...ife motor geme...good for her

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dera said...

happy for u girl

Anonymous said...

Your fada Wilheminna you think every one is a prostitute and liar like you...... Idiot ashawo like mother like daughter

Anonymous said...

Girls like you make me sick. People like you are what is wrong with this world.

Anonymous said...

My dear if this story is true the guy is not a MUMU oooh! I pray driving dis car wudnt lead to ur death U better return that car if u love ur life. And work to get urs

Amelia Thermopolis said...

Wow! LOOOOL. That slap part had me laughing out loud.

Unknown said...

This poster is just a cheap liar, I don't just want to talk, cos this minute I feel like breaking her into 2.

queenreigneth@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

Just one question for the lady, u honestly think that's d end of all connection with dis dude? well brace yourself... believe me u in for a shocker... either soon or in d long run... this is Nigeria u don't get away with things like this... Not a Nigerian man babe.. #Wanda

Unknown said...

Well '' this story seem very funny to so many ladies out there.. to those ladies who think you have done the right thing .. i swear down.. they all lying to you .how could you be so heartless? you got a gift and then you speak evil of him being capable of being a murder. He has given you a car and he is gone with a broken heart .. You murdered his feeling.. his emotions.. his heart .. You lied to him .. You are the biggest and heartless murder.. come to think of it .. You will end up meeting some cute young angel .. you will fall in love with him.. you will give him your keys and he will ride with other bitches like you in tha car and then '' if you try to question him'' Chai'' You will get a fresh double and bouncing slaps from him.. Mark my words.. You careless about how the innocent man will get healed all that matters to you in the car?oh my Christ .. then you accused him of being a beater and maybe a murderer ? listen .. You are in a society where poverty makes people act irrational and judgments are based on what they stand to gain . Go find that due. Be his friend '' heal his heart '' be close to him, talk to him .. make him see reasons why you dont want him and trust me .. GOD will bless you and you will enjoy that car of else .. You F""KED

Anonymous said...

The guy na even idiot for giving you another car except ofcourse he has cut the brakes so you would die of accident. Bastard prostitute

Anonymous said...

The car no reach 750k sef...

I will get this car from Seme for 600/650 at most....what a pity!!!the girl is just a cheap thing

Anonymous said...

Bitch. Just lol right? If it were d other way round you'd rant about how all men were wicked.

Anonymous said...

Go through ur message and then personally appraise ur IQ. I'm waiting.

Anonymous said...

Kween bitch.

Anonymous said...

Methinks he should have slapped you all the way to river nile...

Anonymous said...

GOLD DIGGER!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Gal ure something else a far cry from the virtuous woman of proverbs 31, ure the bitch whom mothers warn their sons of, of whom the bible spoke..theres only one true stop for you and thats HELL FIRE!! Both spiritual and physical if you dont change ur ways. gals ur age buy themselves cars of better value here u are sharing a story of how cheap a slut you are please do n get a life..

Anonymous said...

Gal ure something else a far cry from the virtuous woman of proverbs 31, ure the bitch whom mothers warn their sons of, of whom the bible spoke..theres only one true stop for you and thats HELL FIRE!! Both spiritual and physical if you dont change ur ways. gals ur age buy themselves cars of better value here u are sharing a story of how cheap a slut you are please do n get a life..

Unknown said...

the man try sef,u sef greedy u wan keep car not the ring,longer trowe kill u,u nor c where dem dey sell cars,abi them fence yiur eyes,thief.

Anonymous said...

U ARE A THIEF ND MAY U END UP WITH D GUYS WEY GO SLAP YOU, BEAT YOU, CARRY UR CAR GO SELL, GIVE ANODA WOMAN BELLE AND THIEF YOUR MONEY JOIN AND U GO STILL DEY LOVE DEM. OLOSHI OLORI BURUKWU

Anonymous said...

As a female I don't think what he done was bad he should have slapped you more infact and you don't deserve him for him to feel guilty over your bull**** God help you

Anonymous said...

you even said one of my boyfriend na wow oooo

Anonymous said...

Can I come slap you and give you another car of same value?

Anonymous said...

Stupid thief.

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