Dear LIB readers
I dated this nincompoop for four years and in that four years, I had five abortions for him. The last abortion was particularly traumatic. We broke up four years ago and within a year he was married to someone else. He has two kids with his wife who is a co-worker he cheated on me with. I moved on with my life and fortunately met a great guy in 2012. I married him in early 2013 and a year later I haven't gotten pregnant yet. I went to see a doctor in December last year and after carrying out tests he asked me if I'd ever had an abortion. I initially lied but owned up after I realized how serious it was. The doctor said that I may have destroyed part of my womb but will keep treating me and I should be hopeful. I know that my ex and his wife are expecting their third child and this makes me very angry. I may never be able to have children and the cause of all this is living a fulfilling life. Short of having him killed, I don't know what else to do. The anger I feel inside is immense and I'm gradually losing my sanity. I wrote an email to my ex and copied his wife explaining what was going on with me, and they both ignored me. How do I forgive this man and myself? There's nothing I want more than to be a mum. I'm going out of my mind and I am so bitter. Can anyone help.
Meanwhile, (this is Linda writing now) I will be MIA for at least 16 hours. I'm going to the US and won't be able to blog for a bit as I fly. As soon as I land, I will continue blogging. Thanks guys and God bless every one of you...
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«Oldest ‹Older 401 – 503 of 503You are a big fool infact the biggest that exists in this universe. What did God say about killing and yet you open ur mouth nd say u had 5 abortion for him. Yet he left u for another woman. Did he drag u to d abortion clinic. U murderer, u should b killed urself. Sick human being, killing innocent child not once not twice but 6 times, cold bitch. Live with d it serves u right. You leave him nd his family alone, leave his wife alone to she wasn't d one who dragged ur ass to d abortion clinic
Stupid Stupid!! Stupid!!!
Ever wonder y when u tell ur boyfriend you are pregnant and he asks "What will you do?" that is because you make the decisions!
Only God can heal you now, to start with forgive him and ask God for forgiveness and get rid of the bitterness eating u up inside...Goodluck
U're an idiot, why wil u tell her to kill herself, if u don't have anytin gud to say, it's berra 4 u to shut it up afterall abortion is nt a barier. Dump fellow.
I don't mean to be judgmental but I'm just thinking about the nice husband that took this lady to the alter not knowing what had gone under the bridge. Guys you also need to hear from God before taking that step. Ladies could be damn tricky and would do everything in the book to get married. For the woman in the dilemma, part of the insanity welling up is the fact that you cannot talk to your husband about this because you know he might take a walk. Some how i think he needs to know what your challenges and fears are. You cant keep deceiving him. For starters i think you should talk to your pastor and walk your way up to your husband and find healing for your heart and then by Gods grace, your body.
My dear, you have to take ownership of your part in this. You could have gone on the pill or taken several other preventative measures after the first abortion, your ex is not 100% to blame. It is well with you, i'll just say "let go and let God".
I'm glad that most of the people are telling you to go to God. It shows wisdom and i chose to be no different from them and i know it's easier said than done but you must first of all forgive, and secondly ask for God's forgiveness, then believe in God. This is very important. But you erred in calling him a nincompoop cos it takes two to tangle. But most importantly please believe in God and His word, it's your only way out now so that you will leave this bitterness inside of you. God bless you. Kingsley
Abeg ô, dont go to any massagers! It doesn't help, can cause miscarriage sef. What are they massaging, ur hand and leg? Ur female parts or womb that shouldn't be disturbed anyhow? How will that help u? Be wise(r) o!
I feel for you sha o.....just trust God, He has a way of fixing things. You'll surely give birth...
Safe Journey Aunty LINDA of LIFE.
OOOOH My Dear, this is really the kind of cases i treat. Im really sorry for your condition. You have to forgive yourself. And be prayerful, hopefully, God can deliver you. www.xperia.com.ng
Emmm? Young lady, there is one important fact about forgiveness that most pple don't knw, and dat is †ђ3 fact dat when ƴ۵џ forgive someone who wronged ƴ۵џ, †ђ3 person ur actually freeing is yourself.. You are so bitter even b4 ƴ۵џ got married, na ƴ۵џ hol urself.. Sometimes, ƴ۵џ feel better when ƴ۵џ lash out on †ђ3 person so ℓ̊ will advise ƴ۵џ mEet †ђ3 guy, lash out on him, give him a piece of ur mind, afterwards ƴ۵џ 4give him. Don't let †ђ3 wife knw abt dis unless he wants to.. Do not try breaking up his marriage. After ƴ۵џ do dis, ℓ̊ believe ƴ۵џ will feel better only then can ƴ۵џ go to God and cry unto him and he will ans you.. Psalm 23 says forgive us our trespasses as we 4give those who trespass against us.
Best of luck
my advice to you is to pray to God to have mercy on you bcos u dont have case with the guy. Lesson for our ladies out there
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Sorry for you. You had the womb and the vagina. He was plugging babies. For every relationship that gone sour, signs always show up. Fornication has its pay back.
Lady why are U angry with the guy? U own your body. U should've been using birth control. U can't be bitter cos things didn't work out the way you hoped. Take the L and remain positive. All this negativity can never be rewarded. Cheers
Lets not over flog the problem, she already did. Well the did is done let her just look unto the brighter side of the situation:
1. Thank God you did not get married to him, it would have been worst with him.
2. The number one key to get back your dignity is to let go of the hurts you are feeling now. Secondly seek professional help. You can contact PRAISE FOWOWE (praisefowowe.com) and book an appointment with him. You will get back on your feet.
George.
After reading like 10 percent of the comments I can only thank God that man is not God, if not eh.
NOTHING can separate us from the love of GOD, read and confess Colossians 2 13-15.
She is a serial killer!
How can we reach you?
linda no story today?
We are all responsible for the decisions we make as women sexually. Remove the anger from your spirit and find God.
Adoption is the way out.
Oh my dear! Please pray to God to show you mercy. Then forgive him and also forgive yourself.(..Safe trip Linda, and don't forget to buy me "Okpa Ibi" when returning from your trip.
oh!Dear Trust in God,He is able.Pray whole heartedly with Psalm 51 especially for forgiveness from blood guilt,also ensure you are seeing an experienced geany.ONEA...
My advise, go on a healthy diet of strictly fiber (oatmeal, Kelloggs all bran flakes, weetabix with skimmed milk, you can add fruits to it if you have a sweet tooth), fruits, nuts (walnuts, peanuts and almonds) and vegetables (try to cook vegetable without oil), cut back on all junk foods, anything sugary including carbohydrates (you can get carbohydrates from fruits), Salads without cream (cream can be gotten from avocado), replace red meat with fish, chicken and turkey. Drink lots of water and avoid all sugary drinks. The body has a way of healing itself when you feed it with healthy meals. I wish you all the best. And above all else prayyyyyyyyy.
Cheers xxxxxx
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Linda i wanna see my post o.
we say its ur past, u are foolish to the poster but ladies really how many of u are spotless( with out abortion or sex).
Let he that thinks he stands take heed lest he falls.
@ poster i dont judge u cos i am not God but i pray that God gives u wisdom,forgives ur sins and restores the glory u have lost.
you really need alot of councelling.
Libers is it till she commits suscide b4 u pple will show empathy.
Makavelli
dis geh sha, what were u thinking
My private part is damaged, obesere used me for ritual, victim cries
Just give your life to Christ in a genuine word based church and He'll do the seemingly impossible. God can change that verdict!
please lets encourage this young lady. 90% of us here are not better than her. most of us here have done the same abortions both guys and ladies. The fact that she summoned courage to share her plight with us does not make her the worst person, neither does it mean we are innocent of sins. We have gone wrong in one way or the other, and some of us have even done worse things than abortion. Please lets pray for her and her husband. I believe she still has hope cos no sin is too big for God to forgive. Meanwhile, LINDA my love, i will really miss you. Please buy me okpa Enugu from UK when coming back. Safe trip sweetheart.
This happens al d time n ladies wil neva learn. I pity her sha! life is a bitch, deal wit it
Go and try IVF.
I had some respect for u before Mr Bona,but right now all I have for u is dislike for ur lack of empathy. Men like u never go unpunished. May u end up even worse.
I'm sure you're either the guy in question or the woman he married. As much as there's no wisdom in what the lady did, you have no right to be Cold to her. You can kneel at her feet and apologise and both of you should ask God for forgiveness. The fact that you the man has kids doesn't mean they'll turn out well. As for the poster, embark on self salvation. Face God alone for 14days and nights. Explain your self to him and why you want children. Please ask for forgiveness and acknowledge your mistakes before him. God will give you children again
i dont understand women again...when u got pregnant the first time and u had an abortion..why didnt u use a condom because obviously He doesnt want a child or anything serious. now uve put urself in a very bad predicament.
Ladies please if u must have sex please be protected..do not listen to guys that say they dont like condoms..they arent the one to carry the baby for 9mths or they wont suffer from social stigma..
to my dear ..start afresh let the man and his wife go...focus on God He can give you a new womb. tell ur husband the truth though. focus on building ur life..marriage isnt about having kids..God said none shall be barren so have faith and focus on other things.
young ladies learn from this...what u do now can change your future
You shld have known that he was a nincompoop when u had ur second abortion..... Now the blame is on you.... Ladies be wise... The man knew that you no longer have a womb that's why he took anotger girl to the alter..... SeX b4 marriage is a SIN don't get it twisted
I'm sorry you a just a fucking idiot. Yeah, your ex was an idiot too but you a bigger one.
You want me to break it down - abortion 5 times? As in are you kidding me? Did he force you? Why didn't you keep the second one at least you would have a baby now.
Wait, is condom that difficult to get?
Ok, you are already messed up now. Hope for the best but leave your ex's family alone. Remember if he replies your email with your husband in the copy you are going to find your pretty butt on the curb.
Lick your wounds baby!
She is also a nincompoop. I don't know what is wrong with some women self. How can you call a man you dated a nincompoop simply because the relationship did not end in marriage? He did not rape her. She willingly slept with him without protection and she is here now pointing accusing fingers. My dear you destroyed your life by your self. You chose that path. Are you supposed to sleep with a man before marriage? Are you supposed to sleep with a man without protection? if na me be the man I will also ignore you. Please stop embarrassing yourself.
Jus forgive the guy because that is the only way God can forgive you which i would urge you to seek his His forgiveness. MKiracle happen every day and i pray God would grant you. so long you you seek His peace appropriately., you will testify in near tim. I assure you. Visit www.trueinfo247.blogspot.com
Linda seriously this is getting very very annoying! Y are u cheap? Just hire an assistant. Why will you just disappear for 16hours? We are the reason for you o please don't forget that. I need my daily gist abeg. Mtchheewwwww
People shud stop condemning her for what everyone else seems to be doing.sit and ask urselves,' how many pregnancies have I had and how many kids do I have' whether one or five abortions,we are all at risk.
watched games men play where steph had d same experience. ?..my mum claimed no woman could be dat stupid....apparently she was very wrong if dis true....that said....
1) d minute u accept responsibility for the part u played,the minute you can move on with your life....what u did made stupid seem like a compliment
2) our lords prayer.....forgive us our sin as we forgive those who sinned against u.....u need to forgive the man
3) go to God tell him you ve sinned....don't even bring up d guy......d issue here is not if u will have a child or not... its asking God to 4give u and the grace 2 4give urself for killing your own children
4)the only thing God hasn't seen is a sin he can't forgive.....so yes u r 4given
I have been in ur exact condition only that I forgave myself and dropped every bitterness against my ex. He has a son now and I finally became pregnant and reside with my hubby in the US. Until u let go and let God heal u,u won't Make head way my dear...
I have been in ur exact condition only that I forgave myself and dropped every bitterness against my ex. He has a son now and I finally became pregnant and reside with my hubby in the US. Until u let go and let God heal u,u won't Make head way my dear...
Pity u wentvthrough all that. Try to forgive him and forgive yourself. Life continues. All hope is not lost. Try and go for a diagnostic hysteroscopy and then Ivf. God will look upon you with mercy and grant your request.
I hope when you sent the email and copied his wife that you copied your husband too. Nonsense!! U dey try find who u go blame for your troubles. If you like no carry your husband go do fertility treatment. Absolute nonsense!!
My sister people are in the same situation with you ooo. Just pray to God he alone can do it. Even those that have never done abortions are looking for kids and those that have done more than 12 have pikin full everywhere so let the past go and look to God he will do.Leave your EX and his wife alone, they can't do anything for you.Pray and pray and submit to and love your husband, things will get better as long as you hold on to God.#itsbuchi!
You opened your legs for that nincompoop making you one. And then you opened your legs to kill the fruit of your nincompoop activities. I don't feel sorry for you. I feel sorry for the 5 souls your reckless idiotic behaviour terminated before they tasted life. You are a selfish beast to think that you should be given the opportunity to house another soul in that dungeon of death you call a womb. Don't you even fear God. You don't even sound as if you regret killing , you just regret losing the ability to procreate and the fact that your ex is married. You are wicked! Examine your soul and truly repent of your wickedness. Everyone sins, your ex treated you unkindly, he did not rape you, you could have used birth control, but you were trying to trap him, 5 good times you were willing to sacrifice a soul. I don't judge you. You have done that yourself.
God punish you and your barren life, it serves you right, you stupid idiot, did any body abort baby for you. You did this all by your self and now you are angry at other peoples happiness. May you forever be frustrated and barren. Blooody fool
u still have hope dear.in my own case d guy infected me, died and left me positive to suffer for his careless life,am not married yet stil hoping. My advice to ladies and if u have a younger one dnt sacrifice to abortion level insist on protection if he.s nt ok wt it.leav d rship
I don't understand the league some nigerian woman are playing for. Imagin this nonsense. 5 abortions. I mean if you are mentally retarded its a different situation I can say the guy took advantage of you. But you both took advantage of each other. You wanted marriage at the expense of your conscience and he wanted free sex also at the expense of his own conscience? The victims are the children you both sacrificed. And you, feel regret because you did not marry your partner in crime. Well done my dear, now go and tell your mama this idiot story of shame.
You shouldn't have emailed your ex, it's no longer his business. As for advice, just leave it to God and keep praying. Stay strong don't give up
Never be negative...
Free yourself of all hurt and anger for your ex...
That may be your greatest challenge towards being a mother...
Keep fucking your husband wella...
Don't get too desperate...
Before you know it, it will just enter....
Never stop believing...
Never say never!!!
Call me hypocrite if you like. I hate people who take abortions lightly. Like this mother of five dead children. Let me give you a graphic detail of what happens to a foetus, in an abortion. So this life is growing in its dark warm world , nurtured by the mother through the placenta. Innocent and oblivious to the evil of man. All of a sudden it is pulled of the wall of its warm nest, attacked with cold instruments then it is pulled apart and then blended and sucked out from the womb. Call me a hypocrite if you like . What she has done is called HUMAN SACRIFICE . Shedding innocent blood. There should be a law against that sort of thing , to protect the unborn.
Anon @1;22 are you stupid. She killed 5 children. She is not asking for repentance for that, she is feeling sorry for HERSELF . She has not even realised the atrocity she committed , please educate the hypocrite on the sort of forgiveness you are offering. Can you stop touching that bible. Because you are reading it upside down. Those five babies will judge idiots like you that can't acknowledge them and murderers like her. It is people like you that encourage evil to prevail, by your misinterpreted cast the first stone. Cast the stone on yourself. Olodo.
***Forgive and move on and start see the babies flow in***. Hatred is not good and quite dangerous for your health.
Dats wat one idiot want me to do for him. Weda he likes it or not. Am kiping my baby
U can imagine one guy right now want me to do abortion for him. Never. Am kiping my baby. Is even a celeb u all hear his music every day. Na my trap em fall.
How are u, A u there now wish u safe trip Linda
GUYS, YOU ARE NOT HELPING HER. SHE COULD BE YOUR SISTER WHO DID NOT KNOW ANY BETTER. WAS SHE GALEVANTING? SHE WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP AND WAS HOPEFUL THAT THE GUY WOULD SETTLE WITH HER. HOW ARE ALL THE NEGATIVE COMMENTS GOING TO HELP HER? DEAR GIRL, PRAYERS FOR YOU. DO NOT GIVE UP BC GOD HAS NOT GIVEN UP ON YOU.
You are calling people hypocrite, so you can call people names. What will those five aborted children call you and their mother. This Ewu wants us to stand in judgement against the idiot man she opened her vagina to. Meanwhile she hasn't even addressed the victims of her selfish lustful behaviour. So who is the real hypocrite . You think killing those children will silence them , infact she is so convinced that they have been silenced and therefore there is no crime to be answered too. but we must help her judge her ex. May your judgement fall on you. You are pathological God help you
Chei!!! Linda you still get mind to enter plane in this climate of disappearing aeroplanes . You strong o!.
Sharrap.. Why must the girl be the only one to suffer why the guy goes free.. Life isn't fair y'all...#just saying#
Invite boko-haram to his house.. Lmao.. But remember say him no put gun for your head make you go do abortion.. Na you carry your stupid bow leg go the clinic way them use suya knife do abortion for you..
Let me know Linda if you're coming to Los Angeles so I can treat you to a lunch.
U and the OP are both daft. Did the guy rape her all those times? Is she illiterate? What happened to birth control? What do u want to make his life hell for? Idiats!
what do u want us to do..go and seek the face of God
You are not barren wait on GOD
This is really the answer. You have blood on your hands so you need to go before God with a broken and contrite heart and beg him seriously for mercy & forgiveness. Then you must forgive your ex & release yourself from the bondage of anger & bitterness. You must also recognize your role in all this & forgive yourself. I have a friend who confessed to me that she had five abortions prior to marriage but she's now a mother of 3 children! Nothing is impossible. Pray & have faith. I'm praying for you. May God be with you dear.
Linda, assign me to post stories on ur behalf o. Tins cud happen in dis 16hrs. The missing plane cud be found, etc. Moreso, u are rendering the likes of Bonario & co jobless for the next 16 hrs. Too bad.
The same way you are bitter with that your stupid ex is the same way your five dead children are bitter with you. Selfish goat
all ye young ladies.... any man that asks u to have an abortion does not care about your future. know this. a co worker once bragged about the number of women who has had abortions for him like it was something to be proud of.
Pls don't judge, I've had six abortions! Not because I was a slut, but because I cause I didnt t have good guidance growing up, Gosh! I regret Them all! God forgive me
! But I am married now to the most wonderful , handsome man and we have a beautiful baby boy! Of which I give God the glory, just pray about it dear and ask God to forgive you
When I have a girl, I will ensure she knows her beauty is who she is,not want is between her legs
Pls don't judge, I've had six abortions! Not because I was a slut, but because I cause I didnt t have good guidance growing up, Gosh! I regret Them all! God forgive me
! But I am married now to the most wonderful , handsome man and we have a beautiful baby boy! Of which I give God the glory, just pray about it dear and ask God to forgive you
When I have a girl, I will ensure she knows her beauty is who she is,not want is between her legs
First and foremost Linda!!! will miss you, even you Just putting in brackets (this is Linda writing) was so very cute, enjoy US - may God favour and protect you Amen.
Youn lady who wrote to the blog, I can't help but feel sorry for you - you where treated badly but remember that you KILLED innocent children while some people where crying for some - try to make the right choices beforehand because consequences are bad, its not like you were raped! You killed!. However your pain and anger may be overcome by forgiving the man and his wife and this won't be easy but it can be done, also follow up on treatment - all will be well
Jesus Christ is called ‘…the High Priest of our confession’ (Hebrews 3:1 NAS). When you run to Him for refuge, you need only confess your sins. There, at the point of faith, you are forgiven, viewed as ‘a new creation’, and placed in God’s protective custody. Just as ‘the avenger of blood’ couldn’t enter the city of refuge, satan cannot cross ‘the blood line’ and hurt you either. When Jesus cried from the cross, ‘…It is finished…’ (John 19:30 NIV), all your sins from the womb to the tomb were paid for in full. And because Christ your great High Priest died and rose again, He will restore back to you everything you lost as the result of sin’s power in your life. One author puts it this way: ‘If there were a thousand steps between us and God, He will take all but one. He will leave the final one to us. The choice is ours.’ So come to God’s city of refuge today.
Embrace God. What has been destroyed can be restored. Embrace God. he will work out a way for you. The good news is that Jesus death wiped away all the wages of sin. However, you have to call upon him and havefaith to activate the power of his death. Through his death he gave life and by his stripes we are healed.
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Linda, I have told you and I am telling you again, you don't need anyone to upload comments. This is a blog-Linda Ikeji's Blog. You only know the kind of comments you want posted. Nobody-I repeat Nobody can do that for you.
Even self, some of my comments have found their way into your recycling bin. Lol. And I never took it personal.
PLEASE KEEP THINGS THE WAY THEY ARE!
My dear be optimistic, I've had 14 abortions and today am married with 2 kids. If the Dr has assured u that u will be fine why then are u sounding otherwise?
Even if you had married the guy that you did abortion for, what do u think would have been your chances of having children later on in live? Again, if you were aborted, do you think that you will be alive today? you do not have the right to take any live but you did five times. You murder five generations. I pray the Lord to forgive you.
Linda, which part of the US are you coming? I am a regular- anonymous-visitor on your blog and would love to hook up if you are coming close to where I stay.
Jst hold on to God..Safe trip linda
Ur a typical example of a nincompool plus a fool joined together. Why blame only him. Blame ur stupid self too for havin 5 abortions. Idiot!
Very sad post..... But you actually know what your problem is?? You believe you have done so much abbortion and automatically that means you are the one with problems since you cant conceive.. did you ever take your hubby to hospital to be tested and see if he is fertile... forget that 5 time abortion thing,, people have abborted 7 and 8 times and they still make babies.. Dont mind all the castigators on here. they are hypocrite...Take your man to the hospital and have him tested.. nothing is wrong with you.
if you had 5 abortions for this guy am sure you are a fooool yourself.
you are just reaping what you sowed.
that your husband surely deserves better
U preach yet declear that men are wicked. Another bible wielding hipocrite. Relax and go sit down somewhere. We have enough of your kind ard
READ CAREFULLY THIS COMES FROM EVERY SINCERITY OF MY HEART!
You are a very STUPID girl! I am telling u this bcos, u act like a woman with no brains. See I am nt blaming u for having abortions even if u r more than stupid for doing them, what I am blaming u for, is that even after u had 5 abortions, u r still STUPIDLY blaming the guy for it, did he force u, abi they tied u there? U had better accept it as ur fault cos it is, and I really hope Linda posts this cos u need to see this. U cannot blame others for ur own mistakes so u had better start accepting it and start blaming urself, if u kill him u will face the law, besides dnt blame him for being a nincompoop but blame yourself for being the bigger one, I can't fully express how grave your stupidity is but I have to confess, you are really stupid. Now u have an option of believing this if u see it, or u might nt, u also have an option of amending ur ways or nt. Bt i hope u will tell ur husband and both of u will take it from there, dnt hide it from him he is ur husband. Then forgive yourself, that is if u r no longer blaming that man. He is smart and u r dumb. smh. Like seriously i feel sorry for u, blaming another person for ur mistakes.
First of all, those of you saying it's the lady's fault ALONE are insensitive. We do not know her story, or how she was coerced to do what she did. It may have been a stupid thing to do, but there is always someone out there who has our mumu remote.
You guys should stop rubbing it in.It is too late for that now. What she needs is advice, and some sympathy.
These things happen. I have seen people do things in the name of love that they thought they were justified to do. Real love clouds logic. Sometimes love turns humans into fools.
If you have never been deeply in love, shut up. If you have, think of one thing you thought you would never do but did for that person and apply it to this case.
Dear girl, I am sorry. What you did was wrong, but was even more so was his treatment of you. He used you, cheated on you, and then left you in a dire situation. To be realistic, the only thing you can do is let karma play the band now. I promise you, you will have the last laugh but first lessons must be learned.
Leave him be. Do not contact him again. He has moved on, and as much as it is hard, so should you. Visit the hospital often, and pray even more.
Most importantly, ENJOY your marriage. DOn't allow this situation ruin what could be a happy union. If you desperately need a child, you have to be patient else adopt one.
Also you need to BELIEVE you can have a child, even as you pray. Believe and AFFIRM. That will require you to relinquish the anger and hatred you're directing towards nincompoop and yourself. Do you understand?
Just believe everything will be fine somehow, but just don't expect them to turn out how you want them to be.
What you need now is happiness,a really strong faith, and to forgive.I PROMISE you, if you do this, everything will be fine :)
I will say this, you only have yourself to blame because when God said no sex b4 marriage you thought it was stupid. You have to accept that you did this to yourself and ask God for forgiveness. If you had done things the right way you would not be in this predicament now bcos you obviously were not born a barren woman.The truth is that he was only a boyfriend and a boyfriend actually owes you nothing not even his faithfulness.
You can't blame him for refusing to walk in the right path, that is why God gave you a mind of your own.The first step to recovery is to accept the fact that you were the nincompoop as you put it and ask God to right your wrongs because if you do not accept responsibility for your sins and admit that you brought this upon yourself, how then can you ask God to forgive you if you would not even admit to yourself that you were wrong.
Even the lawfully held captive will be set free.
I think barrenness is your prison and not forgiving is your jailer.
I think truth is also a good get out of jail free card.
Go to God confess your sins, tell your husband, be open. understand that those babies were given to you to birth and not your ex.
Maybe you are holding on so badly to his guilt so that you don't have to face yours. The bitterness has to be let go of and the poison it brings.
Moral lesson of this story; actions and reactions are equal and opposite!
I can never and will never understand why women find it easier to commit abortions than using birth control. WHY. Is it that people don't understand the meaning of what they are doing. Birth control is FREE. Abortion is MURDER. WHY. I can see from the comments that some people do not understand what murder is? . It is a worrying trend. Abortion is not birth control. You are just the father or mother of 5 or 10 murdered children. USE BIRTH CONTROL. It fucking FREE. I have no compassion for you. You had no compassion for your dead children and show no remorse . You and your sympathetic crowd make me sick.
5 abortions in 4 years? The doctor or whoever was doing it must have been tired of you and the money you were giving him. Is D and C sugar? Be hopeful . Try every means available to you and your pocket.
Beegfitch , you try for dat advice. You try.
5 ABORTIONS!!! WOW What happened to morning after pill babe? anyway it was pointless telling your enemies how unhappy u r! you just fuelled to their joy. jus pray n trust in your prayers…take it easy
Lindo, enjoy ur vacation jo.
You have children dear, it's just that you killed 5 of them. And now Oliver asks for more. You were Never in love it's called Lust. The actions of one in Love is to nurture not to murder. Desperation to get married and lust is what motivated your actions. Now the desire to stay in a marriage based on lies is what is motivating you to seek more children. For you children are a means to an end. Collateral damage. You don't love children and have no respect for life. The truth will set you free. Before you solicite for pity first go and beg your five dead children to forgive you. Not just forgive you becos you now want children but becos you begin to realise how you invited them into your unstable situation and then killed them before they were born. Accept responsibility for your actions. Then maybe your dead children will release there unborn siblings to come to you. I don't judge you am a nigerian lady who does not believe in Abortion, not becos of Christian values but becos it's just wrong it's murder.
You sef you be olodo! Stupid woman. Better go an get your aborted babies from the bermuda triangle. Ashewo! Tufiaaaa .
DUMB, DUMBER, DUMBEST!!!
YOU DON'T DESERVE CHILDREN. WEEEPPP, CRY. THE HARM HAS BEEN DONE ALREADY. THE GODS ARE NOT TO BE BLAMED. THEY ARE ANGRY.
Nawa oh, May God grant you with the fruit of the womb, just keep praying,Awon okunrin Oloriburuku, mcheww
What abt to tell u now I hope it won't get across to you because it is a true life story I was once in ur position in d past becs right now am a proud mother of a very handsome healthy baby boy. I went thru d same ordeal in d past out of carelessness nd living a care free life. When it was abt time to settle down I started looking for a baby prayed fasted timed my ovulation period and all tht but it was still d same story until one day something told me to ask for 4giveness from d babies aborted I cried sincerely from my heart nd asked d babies to 4give me nd God also I cried bitterly nd asked d babies to come bk tht I was sincerely sorry nd d circumstances surrounding d abortion as it wasn't intentional tht very nite I slept like a baby nd tht same month I took in missed my period tot it was a joke but no hun it wasn't I was pregnant nd gave birth successfully witout a cut to a very handsome boy named samuel. 4get ur past its over ask for 4giveness from God nd d babies sincerely from ur heart nd u wud come rejoicing wit ur own Baby
IJN
And Who Approves Linda
this is really sad and tragic, so sorry about that. but then i feel you are the architect of your predicament, so you should forget about your ex and pray, as well as have faith so that you can become a mum.
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