Dear LIB readers: Would you stay with him if you were me?
From a female LIB reader
What is happening to Karrueche happened to me in November 2014. I found out that the man I have been dating for 4 years has a 22 months old son. This means that he got another woman pregnant while we were together and it was not an unbreak baby because we've never broken up, we hardly even quarrel. I got pregnant early last year but got rid of it because I don't want to have a child outside of marriage. He didn't even tell me, I found out by chance after his cousin asked him how his son was doing. Everyone in his family knew but he kept it hidden from me. I left him in November when I found out but reconciled with him this January but I am still bitter over the experience. Things are not the same between us. One mind keeps telling me to leave him and find someone else. Like Karrueche I'm 26 and his baby mama is 32. What should I do?
Marriage shldnt be the reason for her to stay. Its better she walks away than divorcing later..imagine he kept it away from her for that long. Shows how valueless she is to him. My dear, take a long walk before the nigga does more funny shit.
My Dear,u're young and beautiful.u av a bright future ahead of u,a man who cannot be faithful to a relationship doesn't deserve u. Leave him and move on.If u keep holding on to him,a better man will not find u. Dupe him mehn!!!
leave him a guy that respect and cares for you will tell you he messed up and take whatever happens no telling you is the height of disrespect, whats the point of the relationship if your bitter please move on .
follow ur instinct...buh in my opinion.leave him.he does not deserve u.he has no respect for u.imagine,all his family members know and he dint tell u.and u have being with him for four years.my dear sister.be wise.u wil surely meet d one made for u someday.
exactly.only heaven knows wat else he could stil be hiding.run for ur life biko.the one GOD made for u wil surely come ur way someday.be patient and prayerful.life comes with disappointments.
Thats d Problem with Naija babes...always too scared to hitch the next ride, telling ourselves we'll see a lot worse, meanwhile we'll stay in one crazy rship suffering and dying in silence. OP, Pls move on.
U still dey ask? Better run! He cannot be trusted.The deed had been done why hide it instead of spilling it .its supposed to be a make or break.u either take the news or you leave it.
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 221 of 221Yeye reply.Dont leave him for what reason??..didnt u read what she posted?..bae, she will be another Kae if she doesnt dump his stupid ass.
Sometimes, love isnt just enough..
They say it conquers all but it shudnt b 1 sided.. if he ever loved her, he wudnt have impregnated some oda chic much more hide it from her...
Imho... she shud walk away...
Never ever settle for less.. hard as it may be..
Not judging the dude, only stating facts
Babe I would advice u 4give him but remember 'forgiveness does not mean re-union'
Marriage shldnt be the reason for her to stay. Its better she walks away than divorcing later..imagine he kept it away from her for that long. Shows how valueless she is to him. My dear, take a long walk before the nigga does more funny shit.
Babe I would advice u 4gi him but remember 'forgiveness does not mean re-union'
Babe I would advice u 4giv him but remember 'forgiveness does. Not mean re-union'
Madam 22mths is almost two years if you don't know....better do the necessary i.e think with your head and leave emotions out of it.....#period!!!
My Dear,u're young and beautiful.u av a bright future ahead of u,a man who cannot be faithful to a relationship doesn't deserve u. Leave him and move on.If u keep holding on to him,a better man will not find u. Dupe him mehn!!!
So sorry I will. Leave love matter. Think wit your HEAD
If u ain't happy,y stay? bitterness makes u old,angry nd ugly
i think you should leave... clean up your life and depend on God for Mr Right
leave him a guy that respect and cares for you will tell you he messed up and take whatever happens no telling you is the height of disrespect, whats the point of the relationship if your bitter please move on .
follow ur instinct...buh in my opinion.leave him.he does not deserve u.he has no respect for u.imagine,all his family members know and he dint tell u.and u have being with him for four years.my dear sister.be wise.u wil surely meet d one made for u someday.
exactly.only heaven knows wat else he could stil be hiding.run for ur life biko.the one GOD made for u wil surely come ur way someday.be patient and prayerful.life comes with disappointments.
I agree wid naijababe!
Let go of him!
It's hard work falling out of love. U wNt get it if u haven't been in one. But one tin is certain. Happiness is key. Do wat ever makes u happy
Ikechukwu, did Grace mention how long her own Relationship was before she walked away? Oversabi!
Thats d Problem with Naija babes...always too scared to hitch the next ride, telling ourselves we'll see a lot worse, meanwhile we'll stay in one crazy rship suffering and dying in silence. OP, Pls move on.
U still dey ask? Better run! He cannot be trusted.The deed had been done why hide it instead of spilling it .its supposed to be a make or break.u either take the news or you leave it.
I hate him more mehn, he keeps flooding everywhere with numerous comments o, if your network is bad just throw away ur phone.
Was he d one that asked u to get rid of ur own?
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