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Thursday 19 February 2015

Dear LIB readers: My husband - an educated illiterate

From a female LIB reader
Its with deep pain that I send this mail to you. I'm an optimist by nature. I keep believing that things will be better. I had a successful career in the private sector in banking before I moved to the states where I currently reside. I grew up in Lagos and had my fair share of relationships at the time. Just before I relocated, I started seeing someone seriously. The plan was for him to join me much later on in a year or two depending on when I can file for his immigration to the states. Within a few months of dating he proposed to me and I accepted. We got married a few months afterwards. He has now permanently joined me in the states and I am just seeing another side of him that I cannot imagine.
My husband expects me to do everything including get a job for him! He cannot get on a computer and do a simple job search! And he was a first class student from Nnamdi Azikiwe University! How can a full fledged adult be like that? I am almost loosing my mind because it is almost like I am his mother. I constantly drift in and out of depression. I am even afraid of holding conversations for fear that I might discover more things. Please how do I proceed. My marriage is barely 6 months. My marriage is in trouble.
P.S my husband reads your blog everyday but am going to deny writing this

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Anonymous said...

He's a child. Expecting his mama do do everything for him. Moving overseas will grow U quick. No more parents to coddle U. Let him be, he go wise up soon enough

Anonymous said...



I am Miss Teresa,From kuwait. I will start by saying to all that have experience heart break and also cant do with out there lover should please stop here and read up my story, So as you will know how to go solving or getting your ex back from this spell caster..AND AGAIN I WILL WANT TO ALSO TELL ALL THAT THIS SPELL CASTER I WILL WANT TO TELL THE WHOLE WORLD ABOUT IS HARMLESS AND DO NOT HAVE ANY SIDE EFFECT, BUT TO RESTORE AND GIVE YOU BACK WHAT YOU DESERVE, COS WHEN I MEET WITH THIS SPELL CASTER THAT WAS INTRODUCED TO ME BY THE WIFE OF MY BOSS IN MY WORKING PLACE, HE MADE IT CLEAR THAT HE CAN CAST SPELL ON SO MANY OTHER PROBLEMS EXCEPT IN GETTING YOUR EX OR MAKING YOUR LOVER TO LOVE YOU MORE THAT WILL SUITE YOU. Last year December, My lover was cheating on me and was not also give me the attention that a man should give to a woman,And really that was troubling my mind and tearing my heart apart to the extent that i was not concentrating in the office the way i use to before the break up by my lover.And before that incident,I always see how my boss use to love his wife so much. I was bringing to think that i was not doing the right thing to him that will make him love me forever,So i really gathered my courage and went to my boss wife office to ask her the secret that made her husband love her so dearly,In the first place she refused in telling me,She asked me why i am asking her such a question,That if is it not normal for every man to love his wife.I told her the reason that made me ask her about this question,That my lover started cheating on me lately,When i knelt down before her for her to see my seriousness in this issue that i went to ask her,She opened up to me by telling me that i should not tell anybody about what she want to tell me,The wife to my boss started to say to me that she used a very powerful spell on his husband to love her,And the spell that she used is harmless, But the spell is just to make him love her and never to look for any other woman except her. I QUICKLY ASK HER HOW DID SHE GET TO KNOW THIS GREAT,POWER,DURABLE AND PERFECT WORK SPELL CASTER,she said that a friend of hers also introduce her to him. Then i also ask her how i can meet with this spell caster.SHE SAID EVERYTHING TO ME,THAT THE NAME OF THIS SPELL CASTER IS Dr.uzor .My next question to her was how can i get this wonderful spell caster,She said she is going to give me the email of the spell caster for me to contact him for my problem,Really she gave me this spell caster email: uzorspelltemple@gmail.com and i contacted him and explained all to him,And after every thing that needed to be done by the spell caster, In the next two days, My lover that hated me so much came to house begging for forgiveness and i was so glad that i have finally gotten my heart desire..I was so grateful to this spell caster for what he has done for my life.. So i made a promise to him that i will always continue telling the world about his wonderful work towards me and also to other that came to you before and also the people that will also get to you from my story that i narrated online now..I will want to say to the entire world that you should not cry over noting again, That there is a great man that has been helping individuals to restore there Joy and smile in there faces !! The direct email to get this man is:(uzorspelltemple@gmail.com) he also have a web site if you want to visit him there' he will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck. his web site is/ www.uzorspelltemple.webs.com This is what i want to tell you all out there,That is thinking that all hope is lost OK..Thanks

Anonymous said...

I think you should spend more time showing him how things work in the United States. Please, you need to be kind and thoughtful too. For him to have made a first class that tells you a story that he is hardworking. The only problem I see is that he is in a new terrain and people adjust differently.
Note:US employers don't really value Nigerian certificates unless you are well experienced in the job you applying for. More so, he can re-evaluate his result in US standard or go in and take some more schooling or certification programs to fit into the system.
You need to show him support now. I have been there.

Unknown said...

Am Sammy Elisha from USA This was How i got my lover back, All thanks goes to Dr ALABI for saving my marriage from toning apart.i feel so grateful and only have good words about a powerful spell caster named Dr ALABI who helped me bring back my wife. We had been apart for 4 months, at first I was thinking if I was doing the right thing by contacting a spell caster, but I so much love my wife and won't give her up for anything in this world. I decided to contact Dr ALABI.Trust through his mail address {alabitemple@yahoo.com} I found on several testifiers messages online,and I told him about my situation, he laughed and told me my lover will be back to me in the next 48 hours. I felt it wasn't going to happen at first until my lover called me and was so eager to have me back more than anything on earth.. Now we are together and she cant do without me,and both of us are happy. I feel so happy sharing this testimony because there was no negative act attached to his work. His work was smooth and fast. Thanks to Dr ALABI for bringing back happiness to my life. I swear with my life that Dr ALABI is a man to trust and take your problems to. You can contact him on his e-mail if you really truly want your love back.{alabitemple@yahoo.com}

Unknown said...

Try & talk to him.

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