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Thursday 13 March 2014

Dear LIB readers: Can my sister be my Husband's PA?

From a female LIB reader
My husband is suggesting that my young sister become his Personal Assistant as she has been out of school now without a job but am skeptical about that knowing that the job would afford her to be too attached to my husband which can result to emotions building up. Is my reservation in order or should I just allow it?

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Marshall Matters said...

#TRUST ISSUES Pt 5# :) #just saying#

Anonymous said...

Yes she can, nothing is wrong about that is even for your own good.

Anonymous said...

U dnt trust ur sis well enough 2 let her do it, den dnt take d risk. Prevention has always been preferred 2 cure.

Anonymous said...

First nd foremost ur question is as a result of lack of trust for eida ur hubby or even ur blood sis......I knw some Myopic minded libers wld start givin their opinion "No ooooo...bla bla.....young lady its no big deal in every sense of d word....learn 2live ur life free of "wat ifs"...ur husband in my opinion is jst extending d love he has 4u 2ur sis....(Agapa love oo).....chances re nothn wld happen nd if smthn happens errrrr well "Gobe!!!!...lol

Anonymous said...

U r rite.if ur husband wnt to help ur sis let him find her anoda job nt PA to him...let ur hussy find anoda PA nd if any emotional feelns comes up it cn be settled bt emotional feelns wit ur sis is nt settleable,it distroy ur home nd family.if ur hussy is willn to help let him find her noda job.nd u need to be very vigilant if notin suspitous has all ready began btw dem.for ur husband to think lik dat.. Guess he's lookn for a way for both of dem to be close.as his PA ani closeness btw dem will nt be taken serrious by pple since dey knw they work together. It ur home get up frm ur slomber

Anonymous said...

If u don't trust your sister don't allow it..

Anonymous said...

Your fears are genuine. But then I've seen in-laws work together without strings attached. If you think your sister is the loose type, then don't allow it.

Anonymous said...

Trust issues tho! Bt den I support d poster becos I had a friend she was sleeping with her elder sisters bf..people are diffrnt.,.4me I wouldn't stop my sisters frm working with my husband even if I don't. trust my husband I trust my sister. (Jennifer ojay)

Anonymous said...

Pls don't allow it period. It's not a gd idea

Anonymous said...

Sweetie get your sister another job and your husband should get a neutral personal assistant....u never can tell they could get acquainted and u know it hurts when it is famuly

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmmm......I think you shld consiher helping your sister, since getting good jobs doesn't come so easy anymore. She is the best candidate to watch your Hubby's every move and finances. She would definitely help you in 'every other area'.......go on and give it a shot! Ode Mumu! Buy one get one free.

cakrap said...

Yes she can as well be his F* mate. Dont you trust your husband?

Anonymous said...

omg is this afmag or what? are u for real she is ur sister. mehn some women have fish brain, u dont trust ur husband or sister full stop.infact tell ur sister to stop visting ur house. silly fish brained psycho

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmn! Madam no use ur hand pour sand sand inside ya eyes

NK said...

Is totally unacceptable! Y must he be d 1 2 suggest? Who knws if he has a skeleton in his cupboard

Anonymous said...

The issue is trust. There's nothing wrong with your sis becoming his PA. Try not assume or conclude yet.

Anonymous said...

My dear pls don,t make the mistake of allowing ur younger sister to be ur hubby's PA. Just saying out of experience

Miss Foxy said...

Dnt try it.

gloria said...

That means you don't trust your husband or you sister so why should you if you don't trust the,because from the way you sound you don't.

Anonymous said...

Am always on dis blog becos of d funny comments hahaha just started commentin yesterday+ linda am un d usa too would love to meet u.

Emeka Nnewi said...

Fela rightly stated.,When Cat dey sleep..rat go touch im tale..na wetin he dey find?? Chorus: whahala he dey fine..whahala he go get o!
Do not even think about it allowing ur sister to be ur husband P.A..NO MATTER WHAT!!

ROMANREIGNS said...

ur question shld be can ur sister snatch ur husband?

Unknown said...

Never Ever Allow Such. Family affairs must be separated from business/office affairs. It is more important that you protect your family than for your sister to get a job. Never allow emotion to run you over.

Unknown said...

Never Ever Allow Such. Family affairs must be separated from business/office affairs. It is more important that you protect your family than for your sister to get a job. Never allow emotion to run you over.

Unknown said...

Fela rightly stated.,When Cat dey sleep..rat go touch im tale..na wetin he dey find?? Chorus: whahala he dey fine..whahala he go get o!
Do not even think about it allowing ur sister to be ur husband P.A..NO MATTER WHAT!!

Unknown said...

Fela rightly stated.,When Cat dey sleep..rat go touch im tale..na wetin he dey find?? Chorus: whahala he dey fine..whahala he go get o!
Do not even think about it allowing ur sister to be ur husband P.A..NO MATTER WHAT!!

Amarachukwu. said...

That means u don't trust your husband n sis n since u don't trust them then don't agree.

darlington ford said...

My dear, its a capital NO! Dis is my first tym commenting onn Linda, but its important, babe, u don't wanna be in such an emotional state torn btw husband and sister, if it were elder sis better, but youbger sis dat just graduated, NO! Instead u even pay her from ur salary! Its not a sure risk, but my dear, to avoid stories dat touch the heart NOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. Cos ur husband might even start discussing family matters with her after office matters and start taking her advice on how to handle u believing she knows ur all. Dats if dey don't go into real backyard relationship. Tanx. Linda ur doing a nice job too

ROMANREIGNS said...

UR QUESTIPON SHLD BE CAN UR SISTER SNATCH UR HUSBAND?

Didi 3000 said...

The devil you know is better than the angel u don't know.
If u refuse to let ur sister do the job and he goes to get a lady with Jocelyn Dumas's figure, what will u say then?
Think it thru, pray put (knowing that he can hire anyone, practically anyone) and leave the rest to God.
The man that will cheat will still cheat, no matter what, (and trust that they will always find a way) so don't give yourself heart attack over that, relax.

Miss X said...

Noone knows your sis better than you. I'm comfi with it if it was my sister.

My concern will only be in family working with family. Thats usually a stinker.

Unknown said...

Fela rightly stated.,When Cat dey sleep..rat go touch im tail..na wetin he dey find?? Chorus: whahala he dey fine..whahala he go get o!
Do not even think about it allowing ur sister to be ur husband P.A..NO MATTER WHAT!!

Anonymous said...

Hell no....u beta not try it....evn doe it sounds selfish.....but u sure knw anytin and everytin is possible....Emotional attachment can develop nd helllo,who says she cnt displace u???? Abeg mke I hear word!!! Men are dogs!!! And 4all u care,ur sister can initiate sumtin cos she wants a piece of the action!!! Pls be wise!! Jst gv ur sis sum allowance!! Abeg dnt let man ruin family relationship!!! I rest my case

Anonymous said...

R u out of ur mind

Anonymous said...

no dear...don't allow dat... men r babies..wen dey mes arround,women clean d mes

Anonymous said...

Please don't invite the devil into your home..may God lead you. Cheers!

U Ar Not Alone said...

Don't allow it, Period!

Anonymous said...

if you can't trust your sister to be your husband's P.A then you can't trust any other woman. Your scared cause you either don't trust your sister or your husband. Maybe you don't trust both of them

Anonymous said...

Sis,allow it. What's yours is yours,afterall you are the one married to him,aint it??
If you show him the amount of love he deserves,backing it up with God through prayers,then you have nothing to be afraid of..continue showing him love,(do not start suspecting)and leave the rest to God..
BUT,you must PRAY! cuz if he wants to cheat,it won't be just with your sister,trust me..

*Nita Briggs*

Anonymous said...

No pls don't cos one thing will lead to another

Vivian said...

Pls... I won't allow my sis be husband's pa.... Nrv!!!

Anonymous said...

Sis,allow it. What's yours is yours,afterall you are the one married to him,aint it??
If you show him the amount of love he deserves,backing it up with God through prayers,then you have nothing to be afraid of..continue showing him love,(do not start suspecting)and leave the rest to God..
BUT,you must PRAY! cuz if he wants to cheat,it won't be just with your sister,trust me..

*Nita Briggs*

Anonymous said...

Pls dnt allow it o!emotions can b built nd anything can happen.dnt use ur hand to destroy ur hm

Anonymous said...

A lot of women would be happy abt this. What abt you and your sister's relationship has made U think like this? Very suspect stuves

Anonymous said...

If u trust her. If not don't allow it.

Anonymous said...

make una help me see question o!!! u know Ur sis beta Na.

Anonymous said...

For where!? Pls lets her get job somewhere else not as ur husband PA. A word is enough for the wise!

SalmaLena said...

If I slap you, don't even try it......

Okey said...

It is ordinarily an employment relief to your sister. On the other side, history is replete with sad consequences of such attachment. My advice, spare yourself the agony of a likely regret and let your hubby shop elsewhere for a candidate.

Anonymous said...

It obvious that you don't trust your sister, then you should not allow her to be your husband's PA

Makeover by T.E.J.U said...

For u to av thought of it, it means u av doubted it..u av thought of ur siste that u know... You have thought of him.. U certainly dnt want it.... If I was u, I would want it tho... We are family, I trust my sister, and she wud keep tab on him for me sef.

Anonymous said...

I'd rather you than your sister! Don't even approve of it! Your sister and your husband may end up getting closer and more intimate than they would have been thanks to the PA job!

Anonymous said...

I'd rather you than your sister! Don't even approve of it! Your sister and your husband may end up getting closer and more intimate than they would have been thanks to the PA job!

Anonymous said...

Goodness only in Naija sha. No trust or fidelity in any marriage. If my husband trusts my sister enough that would be fantastic. My own sister is so loyal to me that my husband would be worried about having her on-board sef for fear of her reporting everything in his life and business back to me LOL

Anonymous said...

One word,No. Don't allow it. Nothing may result from your sis taking up the job but prevention is better. Thank me later

Anonymous said...

hmmm, won't you rather your sister than a stranger? And what is this reservation you hold towards both of them? Free your mind and if you have trust issues then not allow it.

Walata said...

Nahi nahi not at all cos at the end of the day u will regret it n u all ll be singing "dis na temptation with a lil confusion by P-square"

Anonymous said...

If your husband is a cheater, it might not matter if its your sister or someone else. she might also be the eye you need on your blind side to watch him for you.

Anonymous said...

GO WITH YOUR MIND GIRL.

constantine said...

Insecure bitch!! Unless ur husband na womaniser.

Unknown said...

In simple, plain English. *PLS DON'T ALLOW IT*

*thats how I sEe it*

Anonymous said...

If is not a cool dude he can still do what youy are thinking with any other gal jst allow her to eenjoy her new Job

Anonymous said...

This is 21st century,anything can happen. To be fore warned is to b fore armed..... Apinex

Anonymous said...

nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

Anonymous said...

please don't allow it. Use wisdom and say no to his suggestion. Protect your marriage.

Unknown said...

Truth be told, men are not trustworthy. It takes a man of value and honour not to think in your direction of fears. Have a talk with Your sister, Ŧrust her and let her get to work.

The prophet said...

I see disaster if u allow her,see finish syndrome,I see u packin out of ur home for ur younger sister..

Anonymous said...

Yes. But start preparing 4gobe...cos gbengen go shele.

Anonymous said...

if she hasnt even started and you are already feeling like this....hmmmph its better she doesnt. Dont start what you cant finish.

Anonymous said...

Y r u not happy ur husband wants to help ur sister.has she don anything like taking ur boyfriend from u Bfor
Na Pple like no want their family members to progress like dem nonsense mumu girl
Clear comet from road Jo
JJ wafi babe

Anonymous said...

dot even try it way she get toto u no man nah dey cant resist anytin under d skirt he will do it and beg for forgiveness later danger zone let her kip off

Anonymous said...

trust your husband ......

Anonymous said...

trust your husband ......

mummy Amanda said...

Two things are to be consider first,how much trust did you have for your husband.and sister.i dnt jst like the idea.

Anonymous said...

Even wit 100% trust on him,dont try it.

dhobiz said...

My sister don't agree o,is like that your husband and sister have plan,I'm suspecting them

Anonymous said...

smart move...kip it up

Anonymous said...

U don't trust your husband? No reasonable who loves his wife will indulge in a such taboo. Tufia qua. God forbid

Anonymous said...

at owners risk

Anonymous said...

Who do you trust....or not trust? Ur sister or your husband? U may very well ask your sister not to visit or spend time in ur home because of emotional build up. Better find a good reason to oppose ur husband's idea or create a recepie for distrust. Turn d table around , Should you not have a job and could work for ur husbands's brother, shebi emotions will grow in on ur skin abi?

Unknown said...

Its not that bad but if ur hubby is a womaniser then u should bear it in mind that either ur sis or anyone he ll still date her so its even better its ur sis around him so that if he has a single respect for u, he ll respect him self but if he doesn't then he is a dog..and if ur hubby and sleep with ur younger sis then he is a HE-GOAT

Swaggs isimemen said...

Don't oh don't allow her, she can work else were nt ur husband pls

Swaggs isimemen said...

Don't oh don't allow her, she can work else were nt ur husband pls

Anonymous said...

Pls don't allow dat,cos anything can happen we are all human.

Swaggs isimemen said...

Don't oh don't allow her, she can work else were nt ur husband pls

Anonymous said...

no, dont agree. girls can be very demonic. tell herr to get another job MBA. SAY NO

Anonymous said...

SAY NO MBA NO NO NO MBA NO sister

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmmmm. It depends on ur kinda hubby my dear. If he's God fearing and u absolutely trust him d way I trust my boo"winks" then give it a chance, but if u smworth feel down deep inside of ur that ur hubby cn get emotional wit ur sis. Pls pls pls and plssssssssss, dn't give it d slitest consideration.

Anonymous said...

Well it depend on how well u know ur sis.just pray n give her a try

Anonymous said...

Hmmmn, baby girl odikwa risky(strong igbo accent). Let her be patient God will give her a good job. Theres no need to give room for temptation.

Swaggs isimemen said...

Don't oh don't allow her, she can work else were nt ur husband nd he may impregnate her, becos it happen in my place be 4 pls oh

Swaggs isimemen said...

Don't oh don't allow her, she can work else were nt ur husband nd he may impregnate her, becos it happen in my place be 4 pls oh

Anonymous said...

My dear,you know the type of sister and husband you have..be careful

Neeqilata said...

Are u a Learner? Plz do not allow it!

Anonymous said...

Na wa oo ! U dnt even trust ur hubby , u deserve to b flogged

Swaggs isimemen said...

Don't oh don't allow her, she can work else were nt ur husband nd he may impregnate her, becos it happen in my place be 4 pls oh

Unknown said...

I understand where u are driving to. It all depends on ur relationship with ur sister nd how u trust ur husband. But u cant leave ur sister jobless as well. Just give it a trial. ***CATCH ME IF U CAN***

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm plz dear dnt alow such.. U re playing wit fire... Plz... Let ur sis look else where for job.

Swaggs isimemen said...

Don't oh don't allow her, she can work else were nt ur husband nd he may impregnate her, becos it happen in my place be 4 pls oh

Swaggs isimemen said...

Don't oh don't allow her, she can work else were nt ur husband office nd he may impregnate her, becos it happen in my place be 4 pls oh

Swaggs isimemen said...

Don't oh don't allow her, she can work else were nt ur husband office nd he may impregnate her, becos it happen in my place be 4 pls oh

Anonymous said...

Micky: it is in order,4 u 2 accept dpnds on ur sis...is she rspnsibl enof. Buh ma dear,dnt accept...I mean dre r oda tnz 2 do oda dan bn ur hubby's PA

Anonymous said...

U can so far u know d kinda person ur husband is n ur sis too.

Unknown said...

Don't allow your paranoia deprive her the opportunity of working. Your husband will eventually have a PA and what you fear in your sister's case will happen with another if it does at all.

SK said...

Don't mix family with business. He should try to hook her up somewhere else.

Unknown said...

Don't allow your paranoia deprive her the opportunity of working. Your husband will eventually have a PA and what you fear in your sister's case will happen with another if it does at all.

honest nigga said...

Its not safe dear, don't sleep on a bicycle!

Anonymous said...

OYO,if u allow ur sister 2 b ur hubby PA

amebo of life said...

let sleeping dogs lie...the fact that u re asking for advice means u don't trust ur sister..... don't

honest guy said...

He would definately build some affections for her someday

Anonymous said...

Linda sometimes I find it had to believe these your posts are really true. This person if you're real I hope say you don wear bullet proof for the yabbies that will come your way

Anonymous said...

You lack trust..

Anonymous said...

If he really cares about her then he should look for a job smewia else for her. Don't agree. •ZorahJay•

Anonymous said...

Your emotions are not in order. I would trust my sister with my life and vice versa because she knows (and I know) that I would rather cut my heart out than do anything with her husband.
So I guess you need to examine your heart and find the source of your reservation. Could it be that if you were in a similar situation, you would sleep with your sisters husband?

Anonymous said...

Are your reservations due to knowing your man is a bit careless with women? Cause if he isn't, then why not. If you are worried about him jumping her bones, he will hire someone else and do the exact same thing. So, if you married a loosey goosey, then your sister or any other PA (cause you know Naija men will hire a woman), will be fair game.

I'd let my sister have the job, keep it in the family.

miss rollaz said...

Yes, or don't u trust them? For me, ders absolutely nothing wrong with dat.

deejay rock said...

Hmmmm bete Dnt take dat risk. Let ur sis get her job smehwere else! Or mayb u're ready 2 cry

deejay rock said...

Hmmmm bete Dnt take dat risk. Let ur sis get her job smehwere else! Or mayb u're ready 2 cry

Anonymous said...

Dont try it! Have you not heard of husbands impregnating their wives' sisters? There is no point inviting temptations into your home. It should be the last thing for you to think of.

Anonymous said...

Dont try it! Have you not heard of husbands impregnating their wives' sisters? There is no point inviting temptations into your home. It should be the last thing for you to think of.

Anonymous said...

Dont try it! Have you not heard of husbands impregnating their wives' sisters? There is no point inviting temptations into your home. It should be the last thing for you to think of.

Anonymous said...

Dear LIBers, can I shyt in d morning?
~D great anonymous!

Hey papi said...

Husband chooses pa at owners risk. What really is life without risks? Linda sweet caramel honey sugarboo, whats d level? Trust u enjoy yank side. Kisses n hugs

Anonymous said...

That will be the worst mistake of ur life.

Anonymous said...

I see nothng wrong wth that. Or do u prefer ur sis jobless? Or u dont trust ur sis n ur husband 2.

Unknown said...

Y not. If u trust her

Deolar08 said...

I dnt Æ ̴̴͡.̮Æ ̴̴̴͡ anytin bad I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ allowing ur sista to be ur husband PA except Чσυ dnt trust ur sis nd shz a flirting type#

Anonymous said...

uhhhhm...if u decide to tell ur hubby dat u dnt like d idea,he starts to think u dnt trust ur sister or u dnt hv faith in him as ur husband to stay clean...ur sister nids a job and here is one,it wuldnt b nice to hear dat u(whom she calls her sister)dashed dat hope jst because u wer applyin precaution.i dnt knw hw long u both hv lived together as man and wife bt u shuld b able to decipher if ur hubby is sum1 who gets carried away by women if not den hw wont start wit ur sis bt if he is...den u hv a lot to deal with...talkin abt ur sister,is she a flirty type,is she responsible ?...of course shes charmin dats why ure worried...just play cool nd kip ur eyes open

Anonymous said...

You have asked and answered the question yourself. Be truthful to yourself. You trust neither your husband nor your sister. So why take the risk? However, since your sister has no job, you may wish to urge your husband to find an alternative position for her; one that does not afford him the opportunity to crawl into her skirt accidentally. I also believe that your sister is as hot as a freshly baked bread and you have caught your husband times without number ooogling her.

Anonymous said...

All depends on u and ur sister , this kind of issue should be a personal thing , if your sister is like you then allow her , if your sister is like you then dont allow her #checkursyd#Birds of the same feather flock together

Anonymous said...

Pls don't allow it! Your instinct is in order. Some things at best avoided. He can get a friend to give her a job.

Anonymous said...

The fact that you seek advice on blog is a warning. Good men are hard to find. These days you can't trust anyone. Why your sister anyways? Which came up with the idea? If he cheats let it be with a stranger and not blood.

Anonymous said...

baby girl dont dull it o. i wouldnt like the idea if it was me so i wouldnt allow it. let him help her get a job with one of his friends if things are so hard

Unknown said...

Hell no!! He should look for other positions for her, your husband heart might be clean but don't play with the devil

Anonymous said...

I see nothing bad abt it, if u trust ur sis y not but if u r not 100% sure pls don't try it.

Anonymous said...

Please don't allow it.I am begging you in the name of God. It is a bad idea. Let him go and look for his PA somewhere else...period! if you have ears, hear what the spirit is telling the church. God will provide your sister with another job but not this one...

Anonymous said...

The fact that u have thought about it is where the problem lies. Don't accept! You feel conflicted already.



Richard was here!

Anonymous said...

I pity u! Trust no one, not even ur sister even tho u one blood. Dnt make a mistake u'll regret all ur life

Anonymous said...

Nooooh. I ended up trusting my sister and my husband until she got pregnant for him

Anonymous said...

Capital NO, business is differ from family. Let him look 4 dis PA somewia else

Anonymous said...

Don't allow it o! You can't trust emotions when people start getting close. Again if she happens to be his specs na wahala o! Elders talk sey na from clap dem dey enta dance!

Anonymous said...

Lol so even if you don't trust your husband, you don't trust your sister too? To ve such thoughts, you can't be trusted too I guess. Let her ve the job Bae all you've to do is talk sense into both heads. Don't be greedy I beg you #BePositive

Unknown said...

Yor reservation is order @Poster #bless

Anonymous said...

Are u stupid

kclub said...

Nah, its a no go area. U beta don't dare it

Unknown said...

Anytin can happen on d charley boi show.

tally said...

Well u know ur husband and sister better than any of us so u are the best judge. Is ur hubby 100 percent trustworthy? How abt ur sis? I don't tink its a good ides

Anonymous said...

Pls nd pls N̶̲̥̅̊Æ ̴̴͡ ur man shuld look 4 sm1 else is 4 ur own G·̵̭̌✽̤̥̈̊·̵̭̌·̵̭̌✽̤̥̈̊·̵̭̌D oo°°oo°•o

$IR ZuMA said...

Well personally I don't think there is anything wrong with that. It is left for you hobby nd sister to play their part well

thobie said...

It ain't advisable dear. Don't joke with ur home. More over u can't trust anyone

Anonymous said...

If u trust ur sis allow it@mercy

Anonymous said...

It ain't advisable dear. Don't joke with ur home. More over u can't trust anyone

Unknown said...

If not your sister then another woman will. Just keep praying for your husband

Anonymous said...

Dnt allow dt oº°˚˚˚ .... No1 ÈŠ̝̊̅Úª Ï„̅o b trusted & dt includes ur sister. Those dt hv ears let dem hear.
#MyOwnComment

Anonymous said...

As 4 me I dnt tnk der is anytin wrrng if u trust ur husbaNd or ur sis phabiba

Anonymous said...

It is in order oooo my dear! It's best to avoid anything that can eventually or have the prospect of becoming a problem! Some people are actually the architect of their own problems and in this situation if u allow it, you can fall a victim! If ur heart is questioning it, then avoid it!!!!

Anonymous said...

U dnt trust ur sister...u dnt trust ur husband. Am sure u dnt trust urself sef.


Madam if u like no post..na ur way!

Anonymous said...

it depends the trust you have for your sister, because if its me as a guy, hmmmmm i may lose focus. Its not advisable if i must be candid. But its worth a try.

Anonymous said...

Never make a mistake U̶̲̥̅̊ ll someday regreat.except if U̶̲̥̅̊ want 2 share ur husband wit ur younger sis. If he so wants 2 help ur sis he shuld help her secure anoda job not being his PA.

Anonymous said...

Noooo maa pls do notallow it to avoid high Bp..XTY

Anonymous said...

If u let her be his PA am so will be sry for u cos anytin can happen.better ask Ur hubby to look for another jab for her.

Anonymous said...

U already know what u are afraid would happen. So why do u want advice? Is it dat u don't trust ur husband around women or just your sister? Must he have a female PA?

Anonymous said...

nooooooooooooooooooooooo

Anonymous said...

It actually depend on the kinda of person both parties are .......... If u trust ur sister so well to a reasonable level,then u could allow it,cos no man Can be trusted...............

Anonymous said...

Girl, sounds like u don't trust them.

Anonymous said...

All dese ppl dat bring dier stories to blogs to b publishd, is it dat dier families dnt blog too or aren't dey scared deyll find out?

Anonymous said...

Nope,don't allow it

Anonymous said...

Dumb question 4rm dumb being.. ow wud u allow dat?

Anonymous said...

Fuck you linda wt this ur nolly wood fake ?s.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmmmmmmm if u dnt trust ur sista dnt allow it.

Anonymous said...

Don't even dare to try such a tin.. Trust none, pelu all wat is appenin dis dayz.. if u try it pere ur husbnd go dey climb both of una nd will eventually kick u out. Cos am sure he has seen some potentials in ur sis dat u don't av *heheheheehhe Thnk mi later

Anonymous said...

There are two things involved is either u don't trust ur husband with ur sister or u don't trust ur sister with ur husband......

Anonymous said...

Pls no! Dnt allow it!

Anonymous said...

Don't involve urself in wat U̶̲̥̅̊ ll live 2 regreat,if ur hubby so much wants 2 help he shuld help her sercure job sumwer. Be wise

Anonymous said...

If ur husband is a god fearing man nd u trust him. Den jst allow her bt if he is nt godly. Plz prevention is beter dan cure oooooo by. Pius 07065157448

Peter said...

i wil only advise he gets your sister another job. i c danger ahead!

Anonymous said...

na ur sista biko.. Didnt u guys brng ha up well? If u did, den no nid 2 fear. YES

Anonymous said...

sounds like your yhusband has no selfrespect and boundaries and it bothers you. Also, seems your sister is not trustworthy. He would probably sleep with your cat if you had your cat assist him. What a life. So if not your sister, who else? Could be a guy but maybe your husband has homo tendencies? Problems dey for different levels. I would trust my sister to work with my husband. even if my husband was lecherous, my sister would bat him off.

Anonymous said...

Dnt see anytin wrong wit it o... Expect u dnt trust either of them.

Anonymous said...

Dear writer, the truth is you don't trust your sister, cos I never would even contemplate it I would love my sis as my husband's PA nothing dye happen. But what borders me is y xactly u don't trust her. WHAT triggers the distrust. Or is it your man u don't trust

Lex said...

better ur sister than a stranger.

Anonymous said...

Y not? Or u dnt trust ur sista? Women of ds days sha! Husband! Husband! Husband! Dnt allow her2b hs pa, he wil find CARO and mk ha hs pa. Okpo!!!!! @nanasidney

Anonymous said...

U r in order. don't allow it! Trust no one, not even ur sist, d devil can manipulate anyone. And again, since u r skeptical abt it already, it a sign. Don't allow it. My own opinion.

Anonymous said...

If you really trust her then u shud allow her work... though u have every right to be skeptical.

Anonymous said...

Follow ur hat,ur feelins maters a lot @j~Don

Anonymous said...

You don't trust your husband nor your sister....who do u trust then? u better get ur mind outta da gutter..

Oloori Couture said...

My dear it's a NO NO for me

Oloori Couture said...

My dear it's a NO NO for me

Unknown said...

My candid advice will be not to allow it. She's ur sister, but can't say u know her completely. Pls don't o, to avoid stories that touches the heart and tickles the bum-bum!

i love you (Aisha) said...

The first question is, do you trust your Husband? the second is, Do you want your sister to progress in life? if yes then allow them and wait to see the outcome

Anonymous said...

Mumu!!! See who dey give advice?

Anonymous said...

Understanding matters

Anonymous said...

Quite risky sha




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Sharp mouth said...

See you must be some delusional B*!"£, how can you be asking such a question come on i mean the mere fact that you are having doubts in your mind should already tell you its an absolutely no no, Its simple your silly ass knows your husband cheats and now your wondering if the goat wont eat the new yam your about to put in front of him....... Please Please allow her be his PA, She will work well and he will pay her well... You'll end up on the streets if our not careful.

Anonymous said...

This is More than trust issues, Ur sis Will knw More than she shd ( work + family ). It's nt advisable.

Anonymous said...

as long as you trust both of them, you're good to go :)

Chop Chop said...

Be happy

Mischievous said...

Linda, let me be your PA..:-) Hehehe.

Anonymous said...

You are skeptical because you know their traits…you know what they are capable of…so don't let it happen and trust your instincts…help your sister to find other work.

Mischievous said...

Prevention is better than cure.

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