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Tuesday 9 December 2014

Dear LIB readers: My lesbian partner is threatening to expose me

From a female LIB reader
I would like to share my problem and hopefully get some good advice on this predicament I have found myself. I am 24 and grew up in a Christian home where going to church was the only recreational activity allowed in my house. My parents are pastors and they pastor a large pentecostal church in lagos.
Growing up in my house felt like a military camp, friends from school weren't allowed over and the only kids I got to associate with were pastors kids like myself and all we were allowed to discuss was the bible because watching TV wasn't even allowed except its a gospel program.

So naturally not having friends turned me into a quiet girl and I was the obedient and perfect girl to everyone and most parents wished they had me, but what all didn't know was that behind the quiet charming girl I was a totally different person. Years of being monitored and not being allowed to interact socially had messed up my sanity and sexuality, because since I was allowed to play with only girls I had learnt to develop emotional feelings for only girls.

Fast track to 4months ago, I  have always kept my sexuality in check because I'm a pastors kid from an influential home and I couldn't just act out even if i wanted to. So one evening I was visiting a friend after work hours and I got introduced to this other friend of hers, and from the minute I set my eyes on her I knew I needed to have her and nature smiled on me and somehow we became an item.

She was everything I wanted and she fulfilled all my guilty pleasures and she was my first,  thou I kept my last name and family background from her. Two weeks ago she calls me up and says that I haven't been treating her right that I never told her I was from a super rich home and since I had a name to protect that she needs 5million naira for Christmas shopping.

At first I thought she was crazy but now she's threatening to tell my folks and the entire church. My parents may have gotten it wrong in the child training section but they are good people and it would ruin their reputation if the church finds out.

So do I tell them the truth  about my sexuality and impending disaster or do I pay her the N5m or do I just take the long rope and walk away from home and never return. Because either way I can't change my sexuality and I have 2weeks to go before all hell breaks loose.

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Love Treasure said...

Pls n Pls my dear.Do not give her a dime.Blackmailers always come back for more.I know it will not be easy.but first open up to your parents before they hear it from outside, also inform them about d blackmail.

hadyzat3@gmail.com

Crystal Bloom said...

LOL. omo pastor. expose urself b4 she exposes u. cos if u giv her d 5m, she will still come back for more. wait oo, isnt Oyedepo very rich? u re his daughter??? lol, just kidding. winkz

Unknown said...

Na wa oo!

Unknown said...

Tell ur parents the truth, they can handle it better. If u walk away, she'd prolly still spill it to them n if u give the money, she'll come for more.

becky said...

I think u should just come out straight with ur family they aren't going to kill u they would just need time to heal

Anonymous said...

Tell your parent..don't give her the money..cause if you her she will surely ask for another...

Unknown said...

Tell your parents instead of them hearing it from an outsider, its gon be difficult. Then for ur partner let her go to hell, if you give her the money today she will come back tomorrow. Please change...may God help U.

Kamal said...

She should go back home and get closer to her God

Sojest said...

Also try to change ur sexuality by going on dates with guys. And see dem as d ideal partners. Open ur mind. Lesbianism is a psychological condition not physical, its wrong. How do u intend to concieve by dating a woman. God didnt fashion it dat way.

Unknown said...

Baby, you can change your sexuality to start with. Then, fast and pray to God who has control over the kings' and chiefs' hearts to talk to ya gf and also your parents. The bitter truth is you have to tell your folks. It's even helpful you having gone far and messed yaself much. But the sun up is enough to dry clothes. God help you.

Chumchic said...

So so sad. Hmmm. I guess no need to talk about why now. Please lesbiani relationships are perverted and offend God. Please mobe away from this. If you pay this girl she will never let you go. She will bleed you until something dire still happens.

Suicide is also not an option. Call her bluff. Also have a plan b ready. Identify an aunt that you will be able to talk to and will gonwith you to you parents before all this Go belly up.

This is so sad though. This is the height of being relegious and no Spirituality bthe devil thrives in such environments and takea the place of Christ.

I pray you find your way back to God. God bless you

Didel Napoleon said...

Some parents have a distorted view of Child Training.
Tell them the truth my dear; it will set you free.

my opinion said...

Hmmmm...

Poster, u don't need to run or pay her a dime. If u are rly spiritual like u said, talk to God first before doing anything. Believe me, he'll guide u in a way that u won't even remember ur fears again!

Nigeria is not somewhere u say u are coming out or something, else ur family (being too religious) may just damage u with deliverance n casting out spirit flogging. Allow her to tell, they won't even believe her else she's got a proof.

As for u can't change ur sexuality, I sincerely don't know wat to say cos I have never walked in those shoes. Buh I still believe lesbianism and homosexualism is a choice. U chose that part... and u can still make another choice!

A lot'f people develop so many unatural feelings in the process of growing, they just don't act on them, that is why we are gifted with *will power*. Pls, people, tryna choose right abeg!

As for ur family, pls; tryna get some money from them and rent somewhere away from home. U need ur space to grow and become ur own self. Pls, this should be ur sole aim of moving out and not because of some silly threats... I pray God guides u in any decision u take. All d best*

Anonymous said...

I don't think u should give her d money she's is demanding for, if nt she would keep asking for more, talk to ur parents let them see their fault.

Unknown said...

Open up to parents and tell dem everything

Unknown said...

Sincerely U are intelligent but no SMART. At ur age and at this era u will allow someone (GOLD DIGGER) to feed on ur weakness. First, X that girl, delete her from ur memory, Secondly, pray and ask God for mercy bcoz having affection for the same gender is abnormal to my own level of understanding as a Christian. Then my question for u is; what is the worst thing that will happen if she expose u or tell ur parents? as long as u will not die, u will be fine. Also do u know that once she exposes u, both of u will go to jail....I don't see her swimming in that direction..Another question what evidence does she have over u, can she prove it? From ur background its ur word against hers and I don't see a pinch of salt of her winning...That's Y in life u need to have (butter and street life simultaneously ) in order to survive the complexity of life. To this end, I won't judge u about ur sex partner but as a Christian bible doesn't support the same sex. Also go for psychological counsel and ask God for redemption. Give room for men to ask u out on a date and trade wisely...Nobody is perfect; statistically 90 percent of men and 95 percent of women masturbate in their life time.

Edidiong wilson said...

Go and tell your mother first

Jules said...

Nice.

Unknown said...

Expose urself before she expose you

Goziem Oh LORD said...

Ok just come out that evil act and confess to GOD and to ur parents too ask forgives above all give ur life to GOD

Unknown said...

Truth is like sun and it can't forever be hidden,allow her to expose you and seek for forgiveness no need to pay the threatening fee cos someone who want 5m for shopping might want your head for pepper soup later so now is the time to let go all what seems promiscous and illicit before your parents....#Nifemispeaks

Unknown said...

hmmmmm.... dicey!

Anonymous said...

Nice one.... Principles1983@gmail.com

Unknown said...

Kill her

Anonymous said...

Awww that's unfair, I hate when one idiot takes advantage of a person, see Deny that shit if d Bitch exposes u, hope u don't have pictures o, if u do better say yall just friends, idiot oshi. 5m! she shld collect it from her useless father, she dey crase.

Anonymous said...

5 million for what? let her expose you then your parents can give you the freedom and other parents can learn

olatee said...

Ur best option is to tell ur parent n seek for their help


Olatee_seun@yahoo.com

Chuks said...

Don't give her anything cause she ask again and again and again, let her do her worst and U tell your parents first before she does

Unknown said...

I advice you tell your folks about it, make them understand what you really went through growing up and beg them forgiveness which I believe they will understand as people of God. I believe she is a temptation that need to be over come. With God everything is possible.

Anonymous said...

Nice one.... Principles1983@gmail.com

damilola said...

Wao, this is something.. I'll advice u to think very deeply before u conclude wat to do cos this is huge!!! I doubt if God can answer dis prayer, but u still need to go bak to him cos He is ur creator!!!!

Unknown said...

chineloegwuatu@yahoo.com

Unknown said...

Walking away to MƸ̴ is out of it and paying the money is also nt a go idea cos she will keep asking for more I thaink u̶̲̥̅ should jst tell them is better dy hear it form u̶̲̥̅

Unknown said...

chineloegwuatu@yahoo.com

Unknown said...

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Unknown said...

What's has happened has already happended.
Don't be scared of facing reality. Tell her she can go to hell or go f*ck herself. I don't think your parents will even believe her except she got raunchy pictures of both of you doing the 69. You just gotta stand your ground. Now its left to you to decide whether u wanna continue being a lesbian or not( if u need help with that, just mail me)
Goodluck.

Unknown said...

U're jus a faggorts das all cos in churches sm pastors has male children dere male choristers nd so many male workers in ur father's church, u could hv gone 4 1 of dem instead u were patiently waiting 4 a lesbian like u, Ode.u're curse already jus run go to UK like de other Faggort nd change citizenship (wasted TOTO). Linda if like no post am as usual.

Anonymous said...

Nice one.... Principles1983@gmail.com

Unknown said...

U're jus a faggorts das all cos in churches sm pastors has male children dere male choristers nd so many male workers in ur father's church, u could hv gone 4 1 of dem instead u were patiently waiting 4 a lesbian like u, Ode.u're curse already jus run go to UK like de other Faggort nd change citizenship (wasted TOTO). Linda if like no post am as usual.

Anonymous said...

Your case is not easy one at all, you need counseling from other pastors#Preshi
Preshi4me96@yahoo.com

Unknown said...

Well id advise you tell someone close to ur family,that u think might understand you better,and help you communicate this to your parent,This is something ul have to involve them,they might surprise u.

Unknown said...

If u pay her, she will surely come back for more. Just tell ur parents.

Oyindamola Tella said...

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IFY OBIOHA said...

Hmmm..i think she's just trying to blackmail you, as for me, if you give her this 5million,she would definitely come back for more so look for another way to tackle the issue, u can lie to her by saying your parents are aware and she can go ahead that no one would believe her even if she has proof,and that you are very disappointed of how she wants to rip you off

imogie said...

If I talk to you would you listen? You need to do the right thing nevertheless,.

Unknown said...

leave what you are doing. emmmandaisaiah007@gmail.com

Unknown said...

Get out of there, idiot. Are u looking for advice or reproach? Evil generation

jane said...

lol this is serious

Unknown said...

There are no justifications for your actions but opening up to your parents would be the best option

Anonymous said...

Please tell your parents the truth! If you give her the N5M, she will always blackmail you. Your Parents will be able to handle it. The deed has already been done.

Oyindamola Tella said...

oyindatella@yahoo.com

Unknown said...

There are no justifications for your actions but opening up to your parents would be the best option

Unknown said...

dear friend.... its unfortunate you had found yourself in this shit... nevertheless call a sped a sped,your parents did what they feel its the best to shield you from this impending doom. listen to me my dear friend,talk to your parents first and then allow them to be in the same page with you. the 5 million she asked of wont be the last its just the beginning cos she will turn to be Oliver twist.finally is a pity you found thyself in this.

Anonymous said...

My point is your story sounds too fake to be true as a behaviour psychologist it sounds like a made up story pls

Unknown said...

If you will pick up my advice, you should tell ur parent cos if u pay the 5million naira now, she will ask for more nd running away is not an option cos it looks like u r a coward. You talk to ur parent they will forgive you

Unknown said...

There are no justifications for your actions but opening up to your parents would be the best option

Unknown said...

Swity lets face d fact here, giving her 5million for xmas means u r still going to give her other one for New-year, Easter, her birthday n so on. And running away is going 2 break ur family n friends heart n wen u finally return wat will u tell dem made u 2 run away? So swity, jst face d shame n set urself free once n 4 all. Go 2 either ur mom, dad or any of ur relations dat u r so close n can talk 2 abt d issue, tell d person n he or she can nw break d news 2 other and make sure u get a very strong DELIVERANCE from d spirit of gay.

Unknown said...

Hmmmm....this one is strong o! Buh for how long will u pay if u pay dis one? As hard as it sounds, my dear.... Open up to ur parents before the bitch does,God will see u tru

Unknown said...

Just come out clean b4 she exposes u

Lat said...

Sorry o, I think you should try talking some sense into the partner.

Anonymous said...

Carry go.. timiforlife1986@gmail.com

Unknown said...

Good expose her

Unknown said...

I think its wise you let them know about your sexuality so as to neutralize the impending doom

Anonymous said...

From my own point of view, I believe you should go to your parents and probably tell them what's at stake, b4 she does, I believe since u say they r good people, they will do anything possible to save their reputation.

Nkkywhite said...

oh and now u re Afraid..when the the tin dey sweet you,U nor remember say na sin..Make she Expose u all she want becos u both re shameless.......isrealnkieruka@yahoo.com

Unknown said...

U and ur fellow p...s...y suckers are shameless and demonic

SB said...

Firstly go to God in prayers and ask for 4giveness. Then what prove do u think she has against u? Pics, text msgs or what? Go to your parents and confess to them. Do not pay her any money because u wont see the end of her. Then u can get the police involved for a case of blackmail. That is if u wont be sent to jail for homosexuality!

Unknown said...

Dis is pathetic dear pls you really need to tell your parent d whole truth so dey won't be surprise wen hearing it else, and dey can't kill you ok....

Anonymous said...

Don't you just hate blackmail. pandiani30@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

Linda, stop this."they" are using you to propagate homosexuality in Nigeria.i see you as one of them.

Anonymous said...

It would be better to inform ur parents.....iyaniwuratoluwanimi@gmail.com

Unknown said...

u are a disgrace to ur parents,u better tell them the truth and be free that stupid lesbian friend of urs,and u need delivrans yeye girl. susanblacky@ymail.com

Anonymous said...

< b > i tink u shuld open up 2 ur parents, let them hear it 4rm u not 4rm d bitch..

mira said...

Tell your parents dear,am sure they will all find a way to help you out,dont be scared, cos ur own parents won't turn their back on u trust me!

Anonymous said...

That's an empty threat. She wouldn't do a thing. Once you give her the money she will go on to threaten you the more.

If she does not have any incriminating pictures of you both, wait for her to unleash whatever threat; when that happens, just stick to the fact that IT IS NOT TRUE. Stand by that and be free.

If all these fail, JUST KILL HER and be at peace.

Anonymous said...

In my opinion, don't be blackmailed go to your folks and tell them yourself they won't kill you! Yes! It'll hurt them but life goes on.

Anonymous said...

lol..as long as she doesnt have any evidence against you..but morealso try your sexuality with guyz..say NO lesbianism

obizzle said...

Yea both of you deserve to cool ur heels in kirkiri prison for 14years

mira said...

Tell ur parents

Unknown said...

Most parents would appreciate your sincerity if you open up to them earlier than they hearing from an outsider.My advice is to either write them a note or leave a video for them telling them the truth and then take some time off so the steam can settle. You could relocate if you want. Yielding to blackmail is never the option. She would keep coming back till she has your head on a plate. Do pray also for God's direction.

Unknown said...

Don't pay her anything! A blackmailer will always want more.Pray and ask God for forgiveness and tell him to give you the grace and courage to speak to your parents about it. Tell them the whole truth cos the truth will always set you from. And pls repent from your sinful ways. Bless you!

Unknown said...

well you are not the fist person to be in this situation,what to do is to tell your dad and as a pastor he can deliver you, cause you are not the first person to be delivered of that spirit ,2 when you give the first money to a blackmailer she we continue to come back for it so dont even start just tell your dad is the right thing to do thanks

Chymdeee said...

Try telling your parents...If you decide to give her the money then you are in for blackmail because she will always come back for money with the same threat.

Anonymous said...

Carry go.. timiforlife1986@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

wel my advice to u is to go to your parent since u said they are pastors and explained everything to them and am very sure u gonna be free from this boundage. 08093832039

Anonymous said...

Tell your parents the truth

♥ ȊƦȋƺȟ ƘƦȋϻ ♥ said...

Nonsense dnt gv ur lyf 2 christ....bensonneky@yahoo.com

Unknown said...

Fear God and repent so that u may enjoy ur life here on eaeth, for now u are posssed with that demonic spirit that is causing two of u to do de rubbish things u do. Go for deliverance and be save.

Stephen Echefu said...

omo see gobe! Satan at work oo

Anonymous said...

I will advice u 2 just run, if u money, just get out of the country and seek assylum. explain ur situation to them and let the gold digger girl go to hell. u can den expose her.... remember 14years in jail.... come to think of it, let the girl expose, she sef go kukuma go jail for 14 years

obinna said...

i feel you should expose yourself before she does..because even not now she gonna always blackmail you with it

charms said...

U can start by telling ur parents then maybe u can all agree to send u out of d country for a while till it all goes down

Anonymous said...

Don't give her any money. Cos if you do.. She will come back looking for more.

judith A said...

tell ur parents dats d only way out..sure twill result to big problems but will b beta hearing it from u Dan d girl in question.. and also its not too late to change ur sexuality

Unknown said...

re you kidding me? first blaming your parents for whatever wrong you ve done is immature, you choose your part and shouldn't lay blames on anyone but yourself and you should be ready to face whatever the consequences maybe.
i was raised by parents way worst than yours and i didn't turn out gay my advise own up to your mistakes hiding or running away wont change anything it will only postponed the impending disaster better come out and hope your family can survive it cos my dear this is blackmail and if you pay now whats to stop the said girl asking for more whenever she feels she needs to, this will not stop with five million it will only stop if you come out in the open. peace

btw does anyone feel like linda is gradually feeding our minds with her gay agenda not a day goes by without one gay topic?

Anonymous said...

My dear, don't u dare pay her a dime... cos once u do, u will kip paying. Call her wit an anonymous number and tell her how much she has ruined ur family by forcing u to open up to ur family (of cos u r not opening up) den cut off every form of communication wit her. Go awol! Toni speaks!

Unknown said...

re you kidding me? first blaming your parents for whatever wrong you ve done is immature, you choose your part and shouldn't lay blames on anyone but yourself and you should be ready to face whatever the consequences maybe.
i was raised by parents way worst than yours and i didn't turn out gay my advise own up to your mistakes hiding or running away wont change anything it will only postponed the impending disaster better come out and hope your family can survive it cos my dear this is blackmail and if you pay now whats to stop the said girl asking for more whenever she feels she needs to, this will not stop with five million it will only stop if you come out in the open. peace

btw does anyone feel like linda is gradually feeding our minds with her gay agenda not a day goes by without one gay topic?

Anonymous said...

Carry go.. timiforlife1986@gmail.com

Unknown said...

My advice to you is to tell your parent no matter how hard it looks. Because if you give in to her demand of paying her the sum of 5million how sure are you that she won't ask for more and beside it's obvious that she don't have your interest at heart

Anonymous said...

Pls don't give her d money bc once u do she ll keep on blackmailing u.... viamill82@gmail.com

preCious said...

I can totally relate to this. I have a similar upbringing. I didnt turn out a lesbain, bt der re things i av done that I am nt proud of. N my patents can swear on my behalf. If only dey av an idea. My best advice to you is to come clean. My reasons are: 1, There is nothing hidden under d sun. If d truth doesn't come today, it'll tomorrow. 2, letting ur patents In on ur secret is better than them finding out from another source.3, Ur parents love u. They will tough up n treat u like shit, bt dey will knw hw best to diffuse d situation. Truth is freedom. I wish u d best.

Unknown said...

Meet with Her again, try to reason with Her and if she refuses to listen to you then tell your parents and Hers as well then leave town for a while until everything cools off!

Unknown said...

wow! you actually have 5million naira?? interesting... :p

Unknown said...

damn gurl! u r in a hot soup. well, dnt pay her bcos if u do she will cum bk 4 more. tell ur parents d truth n dnt run away.

Anonymous said...

Ooh so you 5M to giveaway? Lol! If I were the gurl I'll ask for more! Wake up from ur stupidity gurl!

Unknown said...

Maybe it's a setup from your friend talk to one of your parent "the one you are closer to" so they can call the girls and settle things with them

olushola said...

I strongly advice you keep quiet about it, telling the truth would ruin a lot of things. If no physical evidence like pictures etc is on ground, my dear keep quiet.

Shola

Anonymous said...

Ode! Give her N5m say you kill somebody abi wetin? Anyway just send me 100k too else I will expose you.

Unknown said...

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Unknown said...

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Anonymous said...

tell your parents they would understand

Anonymous said...

my dear please pray wholeheartedly and fast for God to remove the spirit of lesbian from you and he will do it. lizzypound@yahoo.com

Unknown said...

You get d 5m to give??? U beta gimmi lemme shut d Bitch up for u..dont worry I will charge just 2m u can kip d 3m and use for ursef hehehhehehehehe

prittyog said...

Nawaooo, this is very serious, oh you even have the 5mil to give sef, I have no advice, this one pass me

Unknown said...

If u pay her, Dat means u will keep paying. Just come out straight with ur family it is better

MIZKAYTY said...

A blackmailer never disappears they come back for more

Unknown said...

chineloegwuatu@yahoo.com

Unknown said...

Tell ur parents the gospel truth!

Unknown said...

Change partner no stress

Dazzlnbeau said...

Cm out clean!!

Unknown said...

The only best tin is to tell ur parent they gave birth to u so they will realy undastd

KC said...

Dearie, my advice is for u is to tell ur parents the truth. Dat ur friend is wicked.

Anonymous said...

dolixadex@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

Carry go.. timiforlife1986@gmail.com

Unknown said...

The only best tin is to tell ur parent they gave birth to u so they will realy undastd

Estelle said...

Hmmmm

Anonymous said...

dolixadex@yahoo.com

Williams said...

You were not born a lesbian so why did you choose to become one when you know that you came from a Christian home. The devil is trying to bring shame unto your parent and i will advice you not to give her any money and stay away from her bcos given her the 5million is like paving way for more request in future.

Your parents will forgive you if you can let the cat out of the bag now before it will be too late.

Anonymous said...

Carry go.. timiforlife1986@gmail.com

iyke cindy said...

Tel ur parents nd ask 4 4giveness,dat way if she goes ahead to tel dem ,it won't be an awwww ish to dem**wish u luck

Unknown said...

Oops wat to do. It's only God that u have to run to so pls ask Jesus into ur life again.

az said...

My two cents is just tell your parents. Doing that would help prepare them ahead if your so called friend would be so foolish to go through with her threat

Unknown said...

Somethings happen for a reason. God wants to deliver you from the demonic lesbian spirit that influences u. Thats why this happened. Its about time you told ur parents the truth. Only that way can she be shut up and disgraced cos ur parents will know how to handle her. No matter wat happens, don't pay her a dime. She wil only come back for more

Williams Maslow said...

Linda you have to publish my comment fast

NaeTi said...

If you pay her the money she'll come back for more,if you think your parents can handle the news, tell them. .if not and you're rich enough to leave, just leave ..that's what I think

Anonymous said...

See your mouth like broken pencil 'I can't change my sexuality, but you sure van go to hell fire abi? Or you don't know what your doing is wrong and you do not want to also accept the fact that God can help you???
Please run to God.
That is my own advice

Unknown said...

Only in nigeria.....in these 21 century.Being a lesbo is not a new thing,u choose ur life as u want na,so never be afraid.

Unknown said...

Confess to ur parents and try to stop my dear

Anonymous said...

As soon as I pay the 5million u have open up an ATM for her and she will be milking u. The best is to make ur confession to ur parient let them know before the day.

Dipdot2002@hotmail.com

Unknown said...

Kill that girl,cos she will still come back for more money

Anonymous said...

Calebadebowale@student.lautech.edu.ng

Unknown said...

Well.... I think you can deny it if she tries unless there is an evidence like pictures and video that can prove its true. As for me, I will say you deny it and go far way...

Anonymous said...


If she is really into lesbianism, I suggest she should come out & discuss it with our family. They either reject her or accept her. finish.

sweetestJ said...

My dear confess to your parents about it...they know what best to do, let them call the girl up and let her know they already know about the 2 of you..that will keep quiet n useless because there's nobody to treating you with..

Unknown said...

Sorry

Chizzy said...

That's a serious problem you are in. But 1st let your parents in on the issue at hand so they will know how to handle it if the scandal breaks out. PhemiaKings@yahoo.com. Chizzy.

charles A said...

Summon the courage and tell ur folks,difficult as that may seem.do not make the mistake of paying else you become a meal ticket as she will always come back.

Anonymous said...

As a child of God which u are, summon courage confess ur sin before God then call ur parent and tell them everything so that u can b free.

Unknown said...

oh, why NOT?

Unknown said...

Eyya

Unknown said...

EVIL practice!

simba said...

My dear, life aint bed of roses, am sorry tht many Nigerians are gonna attack u and call u plenty evil names..but don't ever give in to blackmail,. Today is 5m tomorrow it may be ur mothers head or fathers credentials.. so why postpone the evil day, better brace up and face wht life wanna throw at u.. cheers

David .O 2020 said...

u should let ur parents know about it

Anonymous said...

Datz a sin against God and man, so come out of it. As a pastor's child i dont want to believe u can associate ur self with street girl or wayward girl so in dat case whoever u did dat with also came from a home and has a name to proctect as well. Let her know dat what so ever was between u two and not just u but dont give her a dime bcos if u do, will continue to give for she will always come back for another.

Anonymous said...

I think you should ask God for forgiveness and go tell your parents yourself. The rule is never submit to blackmail. She will continue milking you for the rest of your life. Set yourself free. All the best. May God help you. Linda pls since I use anonymous, how do I know when I have won?

Unknown said...

Lol sorry is your name

felix said...

Tell ur parents,cos if u give her d moni;she wil nt stop to demand;beside u can't keep secrret forever

oge said...

this is quite messy,all u need do is pray about it and with God,u can change your sexuality

Anonymous said...

My dear tell your parent it will be better to hear from your mouth and pray there is nothing God can not do. C.Ubochi@yahoo.com

Unknown said...

oh wow,u are in deep shit,.but be it as it may do not succumb to blackmail bcoe once a victim,.alwayz a victim and u might just spend the rest of ur life paying huge amounts of hard earned cash to a common criminal who will never be satisfied. my advice,..call her bluff and open up to your parents,we are all humans and prone to making mistakes,.let them guide u and possibly do an open confession in the church and the congregation will pray/forgive you. take the bold step and she will be shamed forever. i am sure she has no picture/video evidence to substantiate her claims. dont fall victim to a petty thief. first ask God to forgive you,then face your parents. Goodluck.

Unknown said...

Do not pay the girl a dime. Drop a note for your parents and take a vacatiion

Anonymous said...

Dis s who u r.if she's gonna talk abouyou dats her p.as for ur church,u shuldnt b borthered.if dey cnt helpchangeyou den dey av no right atall to condemyou.pele dear...richytimi .olaiya.timi@gmailmcom

Yemisi said...

First of all...truly seek for Deliverance after all for all have seen and come short of God's Glory...Talk to your mum first and God would lead you through...As for the blackmailer,she can go to hell cause the more you give, the more she would keep asking...Don't be deceived....Face it! No Biggy

yemisi Z10 said...

It is well.

Yemisi Z10 says so

Unknown said...

Hmmm thats aa tough one... most parents get this Christianity thing very wrong .

bolaozah@yahoo.com said...

tell ur parent the truth

Anonymous said...

dolixadex@yahoodolixadex@yahoo.com.com

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Unknown said...

Hear Yourself Anyway That's None of my Business

Anonymous said...

Dear LIBers.. I hail ooooooo
How do u guys do it? In 2minutes the winners of giveaway at already determined. Wow! What phone, network una dey use? Do u live in your phone or rather on this blog. My comments of 5 minutes after the post has never gotten a chance

Unknown said...

Thank God you r from a christian home, running away from home won't do u any Good. Please n please don't run away and don't pay her the 5m, open up to your parents. They can help u come out of it. Good luck

Anonymous said...

Confess to your parents. And let her know that you have. She can do what she wants to do. Whatever she says might hurt you but it won't kill you. In the end, she will lose.

Anonymous said...

I suggest that you tell ur parent than to fall for that cheap scam.

Unknown said...

Do not pay the chick a dime. Drop a note for your parents and take a vacation.

Twixxy said...

My dear, the minute u pay, u will continue paying her forever Bcos d blackmail won't stop here. Let her do what she wants 2 do n then u deny it, but if she has proof then u better go talk 2 ur parents, worst case scenario, they will cast out d evil spirit. For more personal advise. Holla on 08129085800 Twixy

adenike said...

May God help u,ask God for forgiveness and talk to ur mother,by the time ur parents handle in a mature way,forget about her own threat though it wil saddened their heart.

Anonymous said...

All this yeye lesbos....anyway God will see us lol...platinum_godfather@yahoo.com

Unknown said...

If u pay her nw she wil com back 4 more trust me so don't start wat u can't finish

Anonymous said...

Shit does happen , never ever allow any human being to blackmail you , yes you feel bad and all the whole ish coming on your head , please tell your mum and dad they will not kill you , if you pay the five million you would always pay and when your folks know it is over she can never blackmail you again . They should even call her and tell her they would like to meet her folks , sweetheart heaven will not fall , it's just a lesson for you , now you know being a lesbian is bad if not am certain you would have come out boldly . All the best . #Thisondobabe#

Muhammad Umar Pharook said...

I will say come out clean with your folks, yeah they gonna wanna kill you, but when you think of it, these are the only people you can bank on to always be on your side no matter what and together with them, you can minimize the damage

Maromec said...

Yeah yeah

Anonymous said...

Carry go.. timiforlife1986@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

Pray about it o dear, only God can set you free.

Anonymous said...

Firstly, confess ur sin to God then call ur parent and tell the whole story and u will b free.

Anonymous said...

Nothin dey happen.. She can't expose u. Its an empty treat. Tell her to go ahead with d treat, she would be surprised u said so. fash505@yahoo.com

Unknown said...

pay her the 5million and you would going to the bank soon enough when she has exhausted this one..its easier to tell ur parents whats up..that way, the girl's got nothing on u.its gonn hit ur parents hard..but which do u prefer? a one time hit on ur parents or recurring hits ur account...u are probably not a lesbian..but just had to do what you did because of your upbringing..

Dash said...

well I think as a pastor's daughter you should know the best way to go about it is prayer and ask for forgiveness from God and that thing of you not changing your sexuality is just out of it.if you really want to get out of this trouble you need to change your ways and am sure God will also change the girl's mind.God never forsakes his own.

winniekoko said...

Hmmmmm pastor daura.....na wan oooo, go tell ur parents that u are a fucking lesbian! Though truth is bitter but it is the Best thing to do!

adetola said...

hmnnnnnnnnn

Eastner said...

wow...no be small thing o!

Ikeh BerniEchez said...

Better let them know>

rotimi said...

Very funny.

Unknown said...

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Unknown said...

Tell ur parents o

Unknown said...

Wow! Frist I she talks Nigerian Police would come after ur ass, ur parents are the least of ur headcahe now...... Grab ur passport and leave the country....


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Anonymous said...

Praying to win

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Unknown said...

Tell your parents and repent.By doing this you will put the devil to shame.

Unknown said...

Repent of all your sins genuinely.God is indeed merciful

chikaezez.blogspot.com said...

too bad... tell ur parents the truth nd repent frm it. they will help u out.

O D said...

Don't pay her, if u pay her once u will keep pay till God knows wen. Jst come clean 2 ur parent. There is always a way bt don't pay her. oyewusidammy@gmail.com

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