Letter to the Fellas. Volume 3. (Do we Intentionally give ladies false hope? Or is it unconscious?).. Why do Ladies always have to ask us one of the most famous questions ever "Who am I to you?"
As guys deep inside our "Id" i.e our reservoir of Emotions and Feelings ; we know that a Lady may not be the one for us or be our type yet we stand in her way of moving on and getting a man.
We play the role of Boyfriend
to a lady who we don't see as our Girlfriend. We fill her head with
Imaginary love, buy her nice and expensive things, introduce her to our
family, meet her own family yet she doesn't know you're on gear 1 while
she's on gear 6.. I've been guilty of this as well and I hope I've
learned to know better.. But my Question is do we men STRING ladies
along Intentionally ? or is it unconscious? or are we just Mean and
Insensitive?..
Both men and women are guilty of stringing people along
but men have a Phd in Stringing Affairs because of our Ego and
Machismo.. Some men see having a lot of ladies around them as an
accomplishment. Most times the ladies who are victims to this lost years
of their lives being enslaved to a guy in Imaginary Love just to find
out that he's not that into her or he's engaged to another lady who is
his true type or preference.
As fellas I know we all have that selfish
trait and want to be needed and adored by ladies even if its at their
detriment.. Please let's try to respect the emotions of ladies and
realise that sometimes it takes more time for a lady to move on than a
man.. Also, to the ladies ; if you have to ask a guy " WHO AM I TO YOU?"
More than 4 times then rethink that relationship, also try to look for
the signs that a guy is just stringing you along because the more time
you spend with him the more emotionally attached you will be.. I must
also say it takes a strong man to put his selfishness aside and let a
lady move on with her life if he knows he doesn't have serious plans for
her..
Dear Fellas stop blocking the entrance if you're not willing to
step up or your relationship isn't defined. Any relationship that isn't
defined is a waste of time. Ladies make sure he tells you who you are to
him. Its a form of Relationship Insurance. #DoktorMofin #Psychology #LetterToTheFellas Vol. 3
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Tell dem oooooo
Yay
Ok.tel them
funny....
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Tnk u Mr psychologist, tell dem ooooo dereisGod oooo
Tnk u Mr psychologist, tell dem ooooo dereisGod oooo
Tnk u Mr psychologist, tell dem ooooo dereisGod oooo
Tnk u Mr psychologist, tell dem ooooo dereisGod oooo
Tnk u Mr psychologist, tell dem ooooo dereisGod oooo
Linda don do error
True talk
Tnk u Mr psychologist, tell dem ooooo dereisGod oooo
Tnk u Mr psychologist, tell dem ooooo dereisGod oooo
Tnk u Mr psychologist, tell dem ooooo dereisGod oooo
Tnk u Mr psychologist, tell dem ooooo dereisGod oooo
Lol. False hope? Whose fault is it na?
Okay. Ik5_3@hotmail.com
Nice
Yes o my guy u r right...rosepowell0@gmail.com
Tell dem
Seen
Na him sure pass o
......frankotec23@gmail.com
he is on point!
GodblessNigeria
True!
Nice writing.
Ok nice one.Bobbyfefavorirabo@gmail.com
Are the caps giveaways..cos ah can't imagine me buying those caps for #65
i see
U said it all bruv.....
Tell dem again n again
abii ohh
>>>>> couldn't have said it better "Dear Fellas stop blocking the entrance if you're not willing to step up or your relationship isn't defined. Any relationship that isn't defined is a waste of time. Ladies make sure he tells you who you are to him." lovely piece<<<<< corcake@yahoo.com
we have sha hear
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It's sickening how some gurls fall for such.
Oga gan.
Na u know
Lindodo mmezienurum ebere, plss make I win 2dys giveawy biko. God where r u
No b small story fr d gods
Am a winner nt a looser
That's what they wanted to heat (eleyele1@yahoo.com)
abii ohh
Nice write up. Hope all them boys are paying attention to every words he drop there. Lol »»QUEENMAYA»REPORTING LIVE»
Story story.
Tell them oooo
Hehe
Tell them oooo
Girls take note!
Rgt rgt rgt pls tell them, if they will even listen
Ok seen
U ar right bro onyixtra@gmail.com
He's right.......when u ask a guy that question, u'll see hw evasive he becomes........God punish that guy that would intentionally string me along
Hmm. Tor!
Like say na u dey holy pass
>>>>>>Dear Fellas stop blocking the entrance if you're not willing to step up or your relationship isn't defined. Any relationship that isn't defined is a waste of time. Ladies make sure he tells you who you are to him. lovely piece. <<<<<< corcake@yahoo.com
>>>>>>Dear Fellas stop blocking the entrance if you're not willing to step up or your relationship isn't defined. Any relationship that isn't defined is a waste of time. Ladies make sure he tells you who you are to him. lovely piece. <<<<<< corcake@yahoo.com
>>>>>>Dear Fellas stop blocking the entrance if you're not willing to step up or your relationship isn't defined. Any relationship that isn't defined is a waste of time. Ladies make sure he tells you who you are to him. lovely piece. <<<<<< corcake@yahoo.com
Dts true
is this really helpful? tell them ladies the things to look out for
Okay. Ik5_3@hotmail.com
True talk,ladies be wise
May God help us #ladies# deliver us from time wasters...
do and post day 5s give away biko, lemme face other things na!
Tell them
ok
That's none of my business.
Rutchie.com
Azin long story for the ancestors. Oga park well.
true talk...
He has done it b4
Ah think am one of the guys he's talking bout..being deceptive
Guys,una don hear?we gals should be careful 2
hmmmm. them no d hear
Guys,una don hear?we gals should be careful 2
I ♡ dis
There is God oh, all dis stringing along,lolz,xoxo lillyspring01@gmail.com
He's absolutely right
noted
'Any relationship dt is not defined is a waste of time' Me likey..#1000 likes.
Ladies biko nu make we shine our eye oh!!!
Live his shoes..he sure dresses smart
Gbam!u nailed it,guys stop blocking d way of any woman whom u quite know u dnt want in ur future,ladies pls be @ alert
Love rather
Joyelekwachi58@gmail.com
Looking for relevance
Ladies be like.. shout it into their ears.
Guy, ur right! some guys are like that but my hubby is different. He stands by his words.
Tell dem
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Even the Nigga can't deny not doing this in his juvenile age
He's absolutely right
Crazy talk for d gods
Hmmm. Does his telling you really serve as an insurance or is it just another string
Thank God you mentioned is both for boys and girls, ladies do it as well maybe because they get some free stuff from the guy. It's all good, your advice is noted.
Let them reason it within themselves
let them not quarrel about it
so true mehn....not just guys though sum ladies do dat too...but it's pretty much something guys r guilty of doing
Almost every man do it....but dats what gals want to hear b4 dey gives u what u want frm dem
Just passing! Re u a fool? Any guy dt plays u, u know bt d gifts n love always keep some greedy gals around. Wise up gals.
chinweokonkwo88@yahoo.com
Almost every man do it....but dats what gals want to hear b4 dey gives u what u want frm dem
You let yourself be strung along if you let it! No matter how hard a person tries to deceive you, I want to believe that your mind and heart can see through all the charade but we choose not to see it because of our blind emotions and want to try or hope.
philippaokonkwo@gmail.com
philippaokonkwo@gmail.com
Super story
#Commenting thru Glo 4G LTE
no be guys fault ladies like liars
Mercy4lee@ymail.com
Tank 4 letting us knw
Miss indomie says so.
Not my biz
Amakadarlyn@yahoo.com
Ehnn now...after u self don finish doing ur own...stringing like 6 ladies life already..u con dey advise!!! Thank u oo Mr Doktor!!!
This is very true. A guy tried that with me once. Guys, don't toil with a girl's emotion if you are not ready for something serious with her. Guys are just too egoistic to admit
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Rubbish and nonsense thats all i see here.
*GLO BRING 3G TO KONTAGORA*
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Guilty as charged but i concur tho
Eyaaaah lol. Truth be told tho'
*Fomer Annie*
True, nice one deo
oro. ut he has a point november007@yahoo.com
Right!
Right
Word! He has said it all!
d issue is many ladies don't know what what they want there4 can't ask necessary questns wen in a relatnship.
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na today... its been long when guys started deceiving ladies as for ladies they should be smart to know when a guy doesnt love them.
Kini Doktor? Please don't demolish the spelling. It sounds like you got your degree from Mars
It's better to be truthful.
Come @ukaria u dey fine dis Linda money by fire by force ooooo u hv occupied like 20 space wit tell dem.
That true biko tell the guys out there
Them no dey hia
Oya tell us ow many men are u waiting 4 dem to tell u de truth?.
Bad belle boys be keeping ladies waiting knowing fully well they will never make her wifey
all this hopes you guys are giving tell them there is GOD OHH
Them no dey hia....
THANK U SO MUCH MR. OLUMOFIN. HELP ME TELL THEM. GUYS, I HOPE U CHANGE FOR THE BETTER.
THANK U SO MUCH MR. OLUMOFIN. HELP ME TELL THEM. GUYS, I HOPE U CHANGE FOR THE BETTER.
Them no dey hia..
Them no dey hia...
Bros ur psycho knowledge no teach u say girls dis days no wait 4 only 1 man? Abi u no learn say 99% of Naija girls dis days dey friend like 5 senators, 10 footballers, 15 Psqares nd about 3 potential husband, so ow many will dey ask dat Question(who am I to u? Cos dem already knw who evryman in dere life is!.
Fellas you all heard? Nice one (gillsvivian@gmail.com)
OK DOCTOR WELL TAKEN.
Women learn to put a ring on his hand and claim him. Thats faith. Lol cheers
This guy wants 2 be noticed,who has noticed him? Austinsinach@gmail.com
This nigga is fine shaaa*eyes rolling* (gillsvivian@gmail.com)
True talk
motun011@gmail.com
is he himself married?
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Please talk to dem oo maryadell49@gmail.com
Wetin , e do na . Hw many tyms u wan post am abi e be lyk d moni post
Guy why you dey put sand sand for our garri na.... u no go pack well.... Na the game be dat oh... in fact girls dey do worst...#FreshPhBoy
Ride on brother.gentlevivian58@gmail.com
Yea. Right
Tell them ooo
see dem gurls "tell dem ooooo"...una own worse.......morahmike@gmail.com
Funny things
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Could not have said it better... Nice one Doktor
Yes it truth
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But it's true sha
Well said. Hope we all learn (both men and women)
That's a wise one....I do believe men do this intentionally. That's not fair tho, cos it is really heart broken..
And Madam Linda, do you even post any of my comment at all,cos I haven't come across one since the very first day I decided to join the commenters..I have been a member of this blog for 2 years now..but doesn't like commenting but I think it's fun now..promise to keep it on.
wetin dey worry you ? why u dey spoil show like this? if you cant pretend liv us that can
That's a wise one....I do believe men do this intentionally. That's not fair tho, cos it is really heart broken..
And Madam Linda, do you even post any of my comment at all,cos I haven't come across one since the very first day I decided to join the commenters..I have been a member of this blog for 2 years now..but doesn't like commenting but I think it's fun now..promise to keep it on.
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the world will always b cruel! it cant be saved....
The Silver shoes. I love
Can I have one of those hats?
Abeg tell them o, some guys are so selfish, wen Ʊ even make attemp to leave, he starts begging and promising wedding plans will start soon, jst for Ʊ to learn he is with some1 else...
Boys will string girls along for years and marry her friend. Bastards
Marry me Pls. Mr Flamboyant : )
Very right jare
Some guys and ladies are badt and selfish like that.
'but men have a Phd in Stringing Affairs because of our Ego and Machismo' lol. am guilty as charged. Thank God am now a VGBG.
please unless we hold a national conference and broker peace between players and playees mugu and magas ... we shall continue kana ji kwo?
yours sincerely Player
Why do men always promise women marriage? When they know clearly no plans are in it for her ? So sad
Nice one,i wish most guys can reason you r reasoning
Make dem knw jare
A man will lie to a woman for years and dump her bcos he met a better choice.
Hmmmm...ikechukwuani013@gmail.com
Mr Psychologist pls tell dem oo all dem deceivers, dre is God ooo.......
Women stop allowing men decieve you for your years.
I want those hats.
Linda Thanks for posting this article. God bless you
indeed some do ... no most do ..lol
how long is his tie?
Adejoro Olumofin. Nice Article
This is cool... And its a shame that I'm admitting to fall in this category of Fellas! Would make amend.
Why do women fall for men ?
Nice write up. Linda Nice one
...All the LIB ladies in here been screaming tell them
...Note; he said most girls also play the string game, it's just that guys seems to have Phd in it
...But without being biase, what he said is 100% true!
Cool guy!!!! What a great. Concept..
Highly needed
True talk. nsima_dick@yahoo.com
God is watching us in 3D television Sanadaslife@yahoo.com
seriously, who else didn't know this before now? Don't need no attention freak to tell me this really.
Akuko uwa...olakel1@yahoo.com
Why r u still asking why guys do it when u have done it in the past or still on it#dunno? Ladies do it to guys and guys do it to ladies atleast one faction started it and the other chorused
strong words "doktar" hope the guys listened very well.
Na so guys dey do, nikkyqueen2013@gmail.com
Time wasters!!!! Tell them.
Abeg help us tell them.
this is very dull for an actual psychologist. u went to school to study psychology and THIS is what you come up with? this is so dry and so easy for anyone to come up with.
don't rush urself in the future. take time to come up with more interesting and mentally challenging.
Yes that's right but when u tell a man u don't think it's going anywhere he doesn't want to live u alone and move on
Lol
Hez right,,, dheneafollyjnr@yahoo.com
That's true.babe's make we shine our eyes well well oh.
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