Letter to the Fellas. Volume 3. (Do we Intentionally give ladies false hope? Or is it unconscious?).. Why do Ladies always have to ask us one of the most famous questions ever "Who am I to you?"
As guys deep inside our "Id" i.e our reservoir of Emotions and Feelings ; we know that a Lady may not be the one for us or be our type yet we stand in her way of moving on and getting a man.
We play the role of Boyfriend
to a lady who we don't see as our Girlfriend. We fill her head with
Imaginary love, buy her nice and expensive things, introduce her to our
family, meet her own family yet she doesn't know you're on gear 1 while
she's on gear 6.. I've been guilty of this as well and I hope I've
learned to know better.. But my Question is do we men STRING ladies
along Intentionally ? or is it unconscious? or are we just Mean and
Insensitive?..
Both men and women are guilty of stringing people along
but men have a Phd in Stringing Affairs because of our Ego and
Machismo.. Some men see having a lot of ladies around them as an
accomplishment. Most times the ladies who are victims to this lost years
of their lives being enslaved to a guy in Imaginary Love just to find
out that he's not that into her or he's engaged to another lady who is
his true type or preference.
As fellas I know we all have that selfish
trait and want to be needed and adored by ladies even if its at their
detriment.. Please let's try to respect the emotions of ladies and
realise that sometimes it takes more time for a lady to move on than a
man.. Also, to the ladies ; if you have to ask a guy " WHO AM I TO YOU?"
More than 4 times then rethink that relationship, also try to look for
the signs that a guy is just stringing you along because the more time
you spend with him the more emotionally attached you will be.. I must
also say it takes a strong man to put his selfishness aside and let a
lady move on with her life if he knows he doesn't have serious plans for
her..
Dear Fellas stop blocking the entrance if you're not willing to
step up or your relationship isn't defined. Any relationship that isn't
defined is a waste of time. Ladies make sure he tells you who you are to
him. Its a form of Relationship Insurance. #DoktorMofin #Psychology #LetterToTheFellas Vol. 3
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First of, You shouldn't have to ask the question "What am i to you'in a relationship! You shouldn't Beg or Ask to Know your role in a relationship. It's just like you're being called to play for a football team and then halfway into the match you ask your team mates "Abeg which one i dey do for this match? Shey na mid fielder, attacker or defender? #NoBrainer!!! All forms of relationship must be defined at the very start. Define the relationship and let each party know where they stand.
It's well
Yea so true
Tell dem oo
Funny enough, dis ar d same guys who will want dia ladies to be faithful to d core, even when they know in their heart of heart that; they can neva marry her. And the aftermath of d trauma experience by dis ladies ar lashed out to other innocent guys who trully want to love them.
na true talk oooo
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Guilty as charged! I ask myself why i do that to. I think it's more of a primal instinct than anything else. May God forgive us men!
~BADOO OF COVENTRY
True
tell dem well well. gist.naija@yahoo.com
Well, you are right,but ladies also avoid change of attitude when a guy tells u the truth,most men want a lady who dey can be free with by been their self,but some ladies will prefare to be lied to
Dear DOKITOR
hOW DO WE KNOW WHO IS JONZING US NOW?CUS DIS DAYS MEN ARE VERY VERY FUNNY.
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its bad
How this boy take dey flamboyant now? This boy way nobody know nA him u say flamboyant lol.., linda you need to get your fist right
Both people in the relationship wield the power of dismissal, lol. Ladies shouldn't wait around to get dumped either. The signs are there if he's not that into you. Drop him if your goals for the relationship aren't aligned.
True talk
Lol, I may be intentional or may be the gal fucked up in the journey Obumnemeudeze@gmail.com
Anything wey any woman get frm any man na waiting dem deserve. Women Wicked linda na me de tell u girls no gud. I no blame any man for anything were woman dey. Ugo-Gold!
Linda, you need to stop calling this fella a Psychologist. To be a Psychologist, you have to have PhD or PsyD in Psychology. The info reveals has masters. At best he's a therapist/counsellor. Stop the misrepresentation. Please!
True talk
Abeg park well
Stupid women falling for men's tricks.
Ur Absolutely right, those guys dt ar against it dey are d one blocking ladies way,dey all kwz d truth is jst wickedness and criminal attitude, there's judgment in everything u do, tanx I love dis write up
Dear Psychologist,
Please write an article on why women dump broke men for rich men and when the rich gets poor and the poor gets rich, they want to reconcile. Dump ass hoes
Clean Psychologist : )
I want those face caps. Pls what those DoktorMofin stand for ?
True talk
Fuck Time runners
Story for the gawds joor. Next plsssss.
It's good for one, especially ladies to be sure of where their relationship is heading to...though, absolute care must be taken bcos some men also hide d real truth they have in mind but would still engage in a relationship...eaglecity35@yahoo.com
Mr, you have good opinions as everybody else does. However, you only have a masters degree in psychology. At most, that makes an industrial orgranizational psychologist (examining workplace interactions) and not a clinical psychologist - which is what you are pretending to be.
True talk
I'm so loving this.
My friend was a victim, had high hopes only to discover the guy with another pregnant girl.
Even when they define "who you are", they can say exact words to the next girl.
When a guy is in LOVE, girls you will know coz e go dey smell like FISH
Wishing every single ladies the best in life, regetting every fake guys IJN.
kinda true....abeg dey shud stop blocking fresh air....
It will be the story of your daughters. Idiots
Oriegwu! Dem neva hear well oga
A lot of guys do it. Even ladies too. What I don't get are the guys that start a relationship with the hope of possibly getting married to the lady but then along the way they know in their hearts that they don't want to anymore and still hold on to the girl...that's the highest form of cruelty. They then give excuses of we had 'issues' along the way. People are generally selfish anyways...
Thanks Doctor,nice article.
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Yea Doktor you're right
Thank you sir for a well written piece
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Ts intentional jare....Lol
plsss sir, tell them
yea very well said. you are on point guy.
Good stuff..............
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Well said.
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Has he not been doing it?
nice write up
He is also Guilty but honest.
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Hmm, You guys never see anything. I know a married man who does not wear his ring and dates clueless girls seriously.
You guys never see anything. I know a married man who does not wear his ring and dates unsuspecting girls seriously. gets them to fall in love with him
Lmao @ as in long story for the Gods! Said Eis own! Yall can call it story and wat not!
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