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Tuesday 24 February 2015

Singer Essence on why it's been difficult to get married

One of the hassles of being single is that people never stop asking you about it..lol. After a while, you just repeat the same thing to everyone. When asked if being single bothered her and why it's been difficult for her to get married, singer Essence said;
"It bothers some people. Some think it is destiny. If you can work towards it, fine. It doesn't just work for everybody. If it happens, fine. If not, fine"she said
"Marriage is difficult. A lot of people in it are not enjoying it. Some are enjoying it. It is not just me. I wouldn't be sent to hell if I don't get married" she said

97 comments:

@MEETD®EALEVANS™ said...

Okay, run along

Unknown said...

But u dey fuck nah?

Peejay said...

*yawns*.

Bonita Bislam said...

She's right.No one can send you to hell for not getting married.

Unknown said...

Aunty... Go and marry; Make it work for U

Unknown said...

Eyaaa... Alright.. It is well

Americannah said...

Hmmm. Me I want to get married o. Every mallam with em kettle.

Bonita Bislam said...

She's right.No one can send you to hell for not getting married.

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Oh! She's still single?

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

Na dem sabi

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

Na dem sabi

Unknown said...

yet its kinda necessary

The Monarch said...

its her life anything she like she do

Unknown said...

All ur mates are already married. What is stopping u?


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Anonymous said...

Abrakarian long time no see

Unknown said...

My dear lives your life,marriage is something to rush into

Unknown said...

True talk dear,a lot of people are not enjoying it they are just dying in silent

Unknown said...

Chai its destiny my dear when the right time comes you will be selected.





***floxycares***

MADE IN NIGERIA said...

hhahhhahhahahhhaha @ i wouldn't be sent to hell if i don't get married....no be by force jare my sister but me i want to be married, so different choices 4 different people.

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Waiting for rich man as usual though....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

Unknown said...

True talk dear,most married couple just pretend to b happy while dying in silent

Anonymous said...

she is right its not a do or die affair. some people might be better off single. If a man dosnt come for them shoudl they die ? some cant stay under a man cos they dont wanna be controlled, so dont cos dey wanna meet different men.

Unknown said...

True talk dear,most married couple just pretend to b happy while dying in silent

Anonymous said...

If a man dosnt ask for her hand in marriage will that be her fault ? not at all.

Anonymous said...

Thank you my sister!

Unknown said...

Even if u don't wanna get married ,at least have children!!!!!!

Unknown said...

this lady just dey fat dey go, see her face...
remain single then if you won't be send to hell ode








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Anonymous said...

NA TRUE JARE

Anonymous said...

NA UR CHOICE MADAM......TOMJERRYSWIT

Anonymous said...

NA UR CHOICE MADAM......TOMJERRYSWIT

Jules said...

Awww...God is in control!

kayPee said...

True... Relationships are difficult... Marriage could be Crazy..

Unknown said...

Hmmmmm that's hst the fact, she kuku will nt kill herself. Biko enjoy ur life, if man come jeje if man no come stl jeje

Unknown said...

Hmmmmm that's hst the fact, she kuku will nt kill herself. Biko enjoy ur life, if man come jeje if man no come stl jeje

Unknown said...

Aboki, will u be the father of the children, olodo

Anonymous said...

ITS BECAUSE UVE GOT SQUARE JAWS!CHISEL THEM OUT AND I'LL ARRANGE A DATE FOR U....Mr fix

Unknown said...

Lyndie, dnt mind her, u hear? Me wil b very Api 2c u get successfully married, biko! I pray 4 ds 2!

Anonymous said...

She said it all. C d rate women are cheating on dir spouse, c d rate of divorce, c d rates of single parent, the days of our mothers has gone, Essex 1 advice, adopt or 1 a child. Let God b our husband, I don't stand alone

Mr nice guy said...

This boy u nor get work?


@lwkmd_naija

Unknown said...

Yes o! Well said Essence, it is necessary but not a Do or Die affair. Linda take note!

Mr nice guy said...

Izzz normal

@lwkmd_naija

Unknown said...

Yes o! Well said Essence, it is necessary but not a Do or Die affair. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Yes o! Well said Essence, it is necessary but not a Do or Die affair. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Yes o! Well said Essence, it is necessary but not a Do or Die affair. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

True.

Unknown said...

No it isn't. It is not perquisite to make it to Heaven

Unknown said...

Nor marry na. Who you help???


@Sophia Stephen

Anonymous said...

THAT IS WHY ITS A SUPER STORY.


NWUNYE EMI

Unknown said...

#gbam#

BluntIjebuChic'*GiFTED'* said...

we will definitely survive..I sha no fit marry moi self...#GiftedDiva#

Anonymous said...

she is a lesbian

Unknown said...

It's well with you my sis. If you remain faithful to God,He sure makes things beautiful in His time. I like your response. #KeepFaith

Juleslouis said...

Exactly jare.

Anonymous said...

Sm ppl don't hw difficult marriage is until dy get married. I got married @ d age of 17 nd am 23 nw, 2 b candid I cry everyday cos am not happy. @all ...I jst wish I Cld turn back d hands of tym...#Queenmama...

uwa said...

If you ask me my dear , my answer is and will always be :MARRIAGE IS OVERRATED !
Make your money,take care of yourself and family, be happy , when the time is right for you kukuma make your babies through the best channel that will not frustrate you .

Things sometimes start falling apart for some people when the RING sit's on that finger, they feel trapped which dig out the worst in them . Before you know it, you don start your own Biafra war for house .
No dear, is not for me biko .
I've seen beautiful people together for 10 wonderful years, got married and everything packed up like a badly made China toy !
Look at rate divorce trends now .

Sorry baby, but this is what I want, tag it Gemini madness , na you sabi .For me, na no!

Unknown said...

Oh well.. it's just basic nigerian mentality that if ure not married, u haven't achieved the ultimate in life.. ure not fulfilled. .ure not normal. May God see us thru..

snowflix said...

I agree with her but I wanna get married jor lol #onelovefromsnow#

Onyx's Girlfriend (he isn't gay pls) said...

Fact#. Let d truth be told. #happytues

GALORE said...

Eya........Peele d thing no easy especially if u are a star.




@Galore

obiora said...

Her problem. Next

Unknown said...

LOL @ 'selected'



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@Osirmah said...

Singer u called her?? Lmao......wen last did she record any song?? Lol, babe abeg help urself

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Anonymous said...

If you don't get married remember not to fuck
its a big sin to fuck while singe

M4 said...

She's fuckin lesbian she stays on my street I knw the bitch fuckin her

Unknown said...

Yes God doesn't care if you are married or not before he will use your sins to judge you and send you to hell fire........good one from her


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ABEE... said...

True..u can be send to hell if u marry a wrong man dat makes u sin (querrelled, fighting, bitterness etc) and u can also be sent to hell if u remain single & unholy...Marriage can either form u or deformed you. Its never a sin in the bible if one isn't married, but if u must be unmarried, make sure to remain holy. No touch touch..lol

prettiyz said...

Don't let what makes pple say let u make d wrong decision

Unknown said...

Truth she said.... There is always a but...

Unknown said...

Not everyone will get married... My dear, its ur life, live it as u please but live it right.

Subomi said...

an interesting way to look at it.. her life her opinion jare

Anonymous said...

make she no lie, one baba agba is servicing her regularly.

Unknown said...

Ok

Chop Chop said...

Don't be pressured .

Princess G said...

Na WA for ur question oooo. Did she tell u that she is calibrate

Unknown said...

Abeg is dis a typo abi ?????????

Anonymous said...

Go and marry Linda and forget about ds peeps.

LA' SUNSHINE said...

The fact that most people aren't happy in their marriages doesnt mean u won't be happy, thats just a stupid thing to say.... marriage is not easy but is the best thing dat can happen to any one, no one should be alone.. the truth is nobody can give us all the happiness we want not even our spouse, there is a vacuum in our heart that is mean't to be for God alone and if his not dere we won't be completely happy..

@osirmah said...

GBAGUAN!!!!!!!! Lawd......*faints*

Anonymous said...

Leave them, this is what they say after they had bungled all the opportunity God gave them. They refused to listen to their mother and chose wayward life and now they will console themselves that it's not important. Many will even choose to be single mother raising kids that will for ever suffer from lack of fatherly love and become another menace to society. Awon were. Linda if you like don't post my comment o.

Unknown said...

I am in it and I am enjoying it. Not like I married early sha. So many questions like that but finally I got married. God's time is the best

Unknown said...

I am in it and I am enjoying it. Not like I married early sha. So many questions like that but finally I got married. God's time is the best

Unknown said...

I am in it and I am enjoying it. Not like I married early sha. So many questions like that but finally I got married. God's time is the best

Unknown said...

I am in it and I am enjoying it. Not like I married early sha. So many questions like that but finally I got married. God's time is the best

Unknown said...

Linda ur turn.

Unknown said...

Which one I s calibrate again????biko calibrate ko caliber neee..celibate

Anonymous said...

WHY is it that mature singles always finger the rate of divorce and bad marriages as reason for staying single ??truth be told you want to marry but no body came yet..so is that a bad reason?? after yarning dem go dey pursue any man wey dem see up and down dey find way to marry am....i think na only linda just respect her self keep quiet...before i met my spouse i wanted to settle down so no need to lie and pretend then wet your pillow at night..just say right man hasn't come yet..simple

Unknown said...

How will you get married when you have boy friend your husband? Marriage have principles and you ll understand it when monopus come staring at you face....Olochi....Linda in copy...

Unknown said...

We hear u...

Ajoke said...

I will marry and start a family this year in Jesus name amen.

Anonymous said...

Marriage is a thing whereby, those that are in it wants to get out, and those that are not in it, wants to get in. On quote!!

Unknown said...

U better don't look for cover from what essen said, hold him tight if u av 1, if u don't av go get 1 and lastly don't use ur husband for a boyfriend

Anonymous said...

Myopic Nigerian

Anonymous said...

Rotflmao @ calibrate. Jezzzzuuusss

Anonymous said...

You wouldn't be sent to hell if you don't get married but Na hell fire direct if you do that thing* without marriage.

GR8BABE said...

Marriage is a beautiful thing and only God can make it beautiful.GOD IS LOVE...

Unknown said...

We wont visit your already failed blog, you piece of insensitive soul. Very stupid, myopic and heartless comment. Wish i could bitch slap you back to that cave you escaped from.

Unknown said...

Don't worry, if u meet d right man now, ur sorry will change.

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