Dear LIB readers: My man wants me to invite another woman into our bed
From a female LIB reader
I've been married for just two years with a 17 months old baby. My husband has been pressuring me to invite another woman into our bedroom for a threesome to spice up our sex life. Unfortunately we have two married friends who do this and he now wants us to include that element in our marriage. I am curious about it after hearing of it from our friends who indulge in it but I'm not comfortable with going along with it.
When I asked one of the women why she agreed to it, she said she would rather have her man cheat in front of her than behind her back like most husbands do. I don't want him to cheat on me at all but he keeps insisting on this and I don't know how to talk him out of it. Should I agree? I don't want him cheating on me. Please help!
Personally, I think it's very selfish for a person to pressure another person to do something that they are not comfortable doing. It is sad that your husband has succeeded in putting fear into you in believing that if you do not agree to his request then there's that chance he'll do it behind your back. If I was in your situation, I would agree to his request only on the condition that we also invite another man into our bed. Of course you wouldn't do that, but all you wanna see is his reaction to your condition and see if he feels comfortable letting another man have sex with you
U should not even think of it all u have to do is find out what is makin him cum up wit such develish idea, and if it z u dat hav not been doin it 2 his satisfaction employ any strategies 2 spiece ur sex lyf up n believ me he wil neva tink of it again
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Pray about it. What type of demonic request is that. I can't handle sharing my man I will either shoot the woman or him. Just pray about it. Is your husband even a christian?
I tink your hubby and his set of friends are sick, do what your mind tells you, but know that you can never satisfy a man, if u like agree to it, that will not stop him from cheating on you
Very wrong thing to do as a couple. Don't allow that except ou want to bacome a slave in your marriage cos that will be the beginning of your marital trouble.
You are a big fool.Is that how to keep a man? Shameless woman.Sure he knows marrying you was a favour he did you . Tomorrow he will ask for ur daughter and u will submit her.U have lost ur dignity as a woman.The man has no single respect for you and ur union.What a shame.
Uwa mmebi. Please don't even think about it. It's totally wrong. Be praying for your husband and find a way you and your husband to cut off from those so called friends. They are bad influence.
Swinging is something that should be done only when both parties are comfortable with it and it doesnt stop the man from cheating on you with another woman.Swinging is mentally draining and its after effects are immense.if you really love your woman i dont tink u can imagine her with another man sexually.My dear,talk to him,perhaps his pastor or his parents.There are a million other ways to spice up ones sex life apart from swinging.Be strong...
If he wnts you to invite another woman for a threesome,I hope he will also consider you inviting a man too. Dont agree,I consider it an insult, and that will also not stop him from cheating on you in future.
unfortunately these things happen.I know a married couple who does this and they are Nigerian.It's also very rampant among unmarried couples.my advise is ,if u arent comfortable,don't do it.My boyfriend once asked me for anal sex but i refused because i wasnt comfortable with it.He didnt insist and has never brought up the topic.love
Awon ur still in d bush so try come out frst bfr u say wat u dnt kw...... Madam to save ur marriage u beta do d threesome coz if u dnt ur husby will go out.....Nva do wif pple u kw,is beta to take a random babe fr t.
Swtie, Nigerians are no different 4rm human beings so they can have these kinds of problems but maybe I'll just bet with ya that this is some silly man checking 2 see if he'll be supported. Is he mad? Does he have no selfrespect? Dear writer, ask him if u can invite a man in2 ur bed to spice up ur sex life.. Let's see how he takes it. I bet he's a selfish man 2. I bet he thinks its easy 2 have sex with him alone cs he's maybe the sex god!! Na who frce him marry ni.. See wahala o. If he wanted 3somes. He should've stayed single Some wives have seen somthing sha..smh He shuld hve said it when u didn't have a baby so I can advice u 2 kick him 2 the curb but I see I can't say such so easily cs I'm thinking of u n that baby. Sry boo this world is full of unstable people like the persons that'll say things like not a bad idea or if u love him why not ----C21
I hope ur future wife suggests it boo u knw with another man so we'll test n see whether it kills you that she's even thinkin of other men. Please sayin Amen right nw will nt kill you ----C21
Two years marriage and he is already talking about spicing things up, what will happen when the marriage is 15, 30 years. Maybe he was doing it behind your back while he was still single. If you are leaving in South east London and require a Childminder please contact me on 07863678893
Wow. Marriage has really lost it's sanctity in today's world. What an abomination. He doesn't have to be married if he wants to indulge in threesomes. Many ppl are heading straight to hell, no gallop. Heaven is real, so is hell. I always say, even if you don't believe in all things transcendental and spiritual, the fact that there are volcanos that we can see with our eyes proves that there is something boiling, hot and fiery down there.
Don't just conclude to say it's a lie. They might be living abroad & want to copy what some whites do. And no you shouldn't agree, its just dirty & filth. I'll rather divorce that kind of man.
Your husband has no atom of respect for you. Period! You too, agree to have the threesome, but insist that the invited guest must be male. Don't just stop there, list out your preferences. He should be tall, handsome, have a broad chest with 6pacs, have huge muscles, as well as long/big down there. Am sure your husband will never mention this ever again.
Your thinking is so myopic - white people problems!
Woman I suggest you let him know where you stand. He doesn't need to cheat to spice up his marriage, such a new marriage as well. You both Gould get counselling, change your friends, find a good church where you can be involved with the things of the spirit and I proay God helps you.
I doubt he'll like it if you told him you wanted another man in the bed with him.
Some women think very shallow. So u think because u satisfy his so called sexual fantasy, he won't still cheat on u outside? Things like this don't change anything, instead it will get worse.
From the tone of your message, I think the MOST fundamental & pertinent advise is for you & your husband to GENUINELY find Christ and be born-again. All these immoral urges are symptoms of a carnal mind which can only be cured by the conviction of the Holy Spirit and the washing by the Blood of Jesus Christ. Kindly locate a Faith & Bible Preaching Church closest to you. You'll find help. God bless you!!!
Fucking fool. That's cos you ain't got no self esteem..... and you're a dumpbag. We all know your "man" is married.....l laugh at you. Cheap ass bitch. Shut that bin you call a mouth if you ain't got nothing good to say.
Bonita you have spoken well. I do not understand why people get married when they are sooooo not ready for it. Woman, get ready for some serious heart ache if u agree to this nonsense.
Hope you read this: set your standards now. Since your conscience is not comfortable then dont. Tell him no. Plain and simple. Cos after this, it could be anal sex or dogs. Just dont. If it gets too bad, then leave. You cant control cheating cos trust me he is already cheating on you. Step up your game, look hot and tell him he can have only you at a time. Also suggest std tests. Cos he is not safe as long as he keeps fooling around. Lastly talk to someone important to him. Do not be seduced and do not be afraid.
Ha! Ha! Ha! I know right? But my sister's Nigerian fiance asked her for the same oh in Lagos, not one but six times. Men! He is ex now, my sister had to Waka.
You don't want him to cheat on you, but you are "ok" with him wanting to bring sin into your household. That man is already cheating on you in his heart, what kind of company are you guys keeping? U have a 17month old, is that the kind of household you want your child to grow up in? Both of you need help, go for Godly counselling and get rid of those so called married friends, they are not healthy for you guys.
Lmao! Why another woman. Tell him na another man u want make e join and see how he likes a taste of his own med. Mstcheew. Pls this life is not a bag of bricks. Dont spit in my face if u dont want me to spit in urs. Oshi ati iranu. Someone that is already cheating on. Why wud he suggest another woman if he loves you. Some men can be so utterly selfish. Instead ooof thinking of ways to make a better life and be more supportive of raising his child. He's looking for women to spice up his sex life. Why not put curry and ata rodo? Those r spices too. It simple logic, if he needs a woman then u need a man, shikena. Make e be foursome. The more the merrier. Mstcheew
I don't understand how you need Linda Ikeji's commenters to tell you what to do. This is YOUR marriage, if you're not comfortable with it don't do it, simple! Otherwise please knock yourself out.
These days adultery means nothing to married men/women. It is a sin to cheat talk more of threesome. The marital vow should be sacred and not toiled with.
Sometimes I just feel lyk beating some sense in2 some female brains. Dis is so absurd mehnn, & who told u he wouldm't cheat on u after a 3 or 10some. Dis are one of such issues u don't need 2 give a 2nd thought or even ask a 3rd party. Goshhhhhhhhhh
ITS A NO OOOOOOO, kEEP SOUNDING IT INTO HIS DUMP EARS!! U married a jerk.
Ma dear, if diz story is really true...I will advice u to b prayerful it's not a normal it, it's spiritual! Nd bringing another woman into ur home...it means ure ready to face it.
Call a family meeting ooo & let everyone know wht is going on....chinekemeh!!we see dis tins in movie nvr thght it cld happen oo..may God av mercy ijn!!
And you wud know because...? Dumb ass! LIB poster don't listen to this moron...your husband is a HO! Say no! Don't give the devil an upper hand in your home! Be prayerful, nne...
Your husband is a whore Hehehehe, tell him it's cool. Then go bring some dude and have him tear his asshole. Sister he won't think of Sex again for a long while. He's a stupid pussy sucking whore of satan
you're stupid for even considering it!! this is why your husband can even boldly ask you such rubbish. he has no regards for you and you make it easy for him by being weak for even asking in the first place!!
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 282 of 282Personally, I think it's very selfish for a person to pressure another person to do something that they are not comfortable doing. It is sad that your husband has succeeded in putting fear into you in believing that if you do not agree to his request then there's that chance he'll do it behind your back. If I was in your situation, I would agree to his request only on the condition that we also invite another man into our bed. Of course you wouldn't do that, but all you wanna see is his reaction to your condition and see if he feels comfortable letting another man have sex with you
U should not even think of it all u have to do is find out what is makin him cum up wit such develish idea, and if it z u dat hav not been doin it 2 his satisfaction employ any strategies 2 spiece ur sex lyf up n believ me he wil neva tink of it again
Its only a foolish that receives gift and do not come back to say thank you. With that being said, Linda I finally received the alert for "LIB giveaway Monday" for the month of September, thank you so much and may God continue to replenish your pocket. Chubby4snooz
Pray about it. What type of demonic request is that. I can't handle sharing my man I will either shoot the woman or him. Just pray about it. Is your husband even a christian?
What kind of man is that, he doesn't love u at all.talk to God abt it
My dear the moment you invite another woman,your home is set 4 destruction.
That is the kind of stories you hear ladies, when u marry a man who does not fear God and not a christain.
hmm association matters a lot,u need to pray hard sweet
I tink your hubby and his set of friends are sick, do what your mind tells you, but know that you can never satisfy a man, if u like agree to it, that will not stop him from cheating on you
Prayer is the key, how can u even consider such an insult to ur person. Do not cave in, God is ur strength.
Threesome Oya! Lol
Threesome Oya! Lol
Very wrong thing to do as a couple. Don't allow that except ou want to bacome a slave in your marriage cos that will be the beginning of your marital trouble.
In one word,you do it, you have aided abetted his sin of adultery. Am married meanwhile.
Na wa ooo hian
approach this in prayer pls. don't ever agree to this. If he doesn't change his tot, divorce him. He's a beast.
I dont like the idea, hand over the situation to God, there is nothing impossible for him to do
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If he will allow me organize the next threesome by bringing another guy i will consider it. Useless men one sees now adays. End times things
You are a big fool.Is that how to keep a man? Shameless woman.Sure he knows marrying you was a favour he did you . Tomorrow he will ask for ur daughter and u will submit her.U have lost ur dignity as a woman.The man has no single respect for you and ur union.What a shame.
for this our Nigeria?
And who told you having threesome will make ur husband not to cheat if he want. Be wise
Uwa mmebi. Please don't even think about it. It's totally wrong. Be praying for your husband and find a way you and your husband to cut off from those so called friends. They are bad influence.
Swinging is something that should be done only when both parties are comfortable with it and it doesnt stop the man from cheating on you with another woman.Swinging is mentally draining and its after effects are immense.if you really love your woman i dont tink u can imagine her with another man sexually.My dear,talk to him,perhaps his pastor or his parents.There are a million other ways to spice up ones sex life apart from swinging.Be strong...
If he wnts you to invite another woman for a threesome,I hope he will also consider you inviting a man too. Dont agree,I consider it an insult, and that will also not stop him from cheating on you in future.
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A threesome wat? Beta allow him cheat on u behind u dan do dirty tins wit him on ur bed. Which kind enjoymnt be dat one.yamayama.
unfortunately these things happen.I know a married couple who does this and they are Nigerian.It's also very rampant among unmarried couples.my advise is ,if u arent comfortable,don't do it.My boyfriend once asked me for anal sex but i refused because i wasnt comfortable with it.He didnt insist and has never brought up the topic.love
Wat sort of a dumb question is this? Pls help? Help u with Wat? Make I come be d other woman? ODE!!!!!
My dear, also try to suggest to him to bring another man in. Hit me up if he agrees. Thanks. Yours in Fantasy World, Zuby
Awon ur still in d bush so try come out frst bfr u say wat u dnt kw......
Madam to save ur marriage u beta do d threesome coz if u dnt ur husby will go out.....Nva do wif pple u kw,is beta to take a random babe fr t.
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Perverse Generation.what is this world turning into.
Ewu! Have you experienced it? Be saying what you dont know. Bloody faggot. You want to turn her to a sexual pervert like you. Idiot. Mscheeeeew
Swtie, Nigerians are no different 4rm human beings so they can have these kinds of problems but maybe I'll just bet with ya that this is some silly man checking 2 see if he'll be supported. Is he mad? Does he have no selfrespect? Dear writer, ask him if u can invite a man in2 ur bed to spice up ur sex life.. Let's see how he takes it. I bet he's a selfish man 2. I bet he thinks its easy 2 have sex with him alone cs he's maybe the sex god!! Na who frce him marry ni.. See wahala o. If he wanted 3somes. He should've stayed single Some wives have seen somthing sha..smh He shuld hve said it when u didn't have a baby so I can advice u 2 kick him 2 the curb but I see I can't say such so easily cs I'm thinking of u n that baby. Sry boo this world is full of unstable people like the persons that'll say things like not a bad idea or if u love him why not ----C21
I hope ur future wife suggests it boo u knw with another man so we'll test n see whether it kills you that she's even thinkin of other men. Please sayin Amen right nw will nt kill you ----C21
Two years marriage and he is already talking about spicing things up, what will happen when the marriage is 15, 30 years. Maybe he was doing it behind your back while he was still single. If you are leaving in South east London and require a Childminder please contact me on 07863678893
Uwa nmeibi, may God have mercy on him. That is why when u want to marry, marry a God fearing man don't marry money
Wow. Marriage has really lost it's sanctity in today's world. What an abomination. He doesn't have to be married if he wants to indulge in threesomes. Many ppl are heading straight to hell, no gallop. Heaven is real, so is hell.
I always say, even if you don't believe in all things transcendental and spiritual, the fact that there are volcanos that we can see with our eyes proves that there is something boiling, hot and fiery down there.
Her husband is having threesome with other family already! This is what westerners use to spice up their marriage
What u re is disgusting!
If all he really wants to do is spice up your sex life, ask him if another man can come and have sex with you in his presence.
10000000 likes....... Jeez, you just cracked me up.
Exactly
Are you ok?
Don't just conclude to say it's a lie. They might be living abroad & want to copy what some whites do. And no you shouldn't agree, its just dirty & filth. I'll rather divorce that kind of man.
consequences of too much porn
I love ur comment. Lmao! Reduce his potency
Hahahaha. So hunger dey catch U. Sorry o
Your husband has no atom of respect for you. Period! You too, agree to have the threesome, but insist that the invited guest must be male. Don't just stop there, list out your preferences. He should be tall, handsome, have a broad chest with 6pacs, have huge muscles, as well as long/big down there. Am sure your husband will never mention this ever again.
LMAO! We just love to deceive ourselves in Naija. So threesome is "white man's problem" but sleeping around on your wife tradition? Imbeciles.
Your thinking is so myopic - white people problems!
Woman I suggest you let him know where you stand. He doesn't need to cheat to spice up his marriage, such a new marriage as well. You both Gould get counselling, change your friends, find a good church where you can be involved with the things of the spirit and I proay God helps you.
I doubt he'll like it if you told him you wanted another man in the bed with him.
#Joshua
Some women think very shallow. So u think because u satisfy his so called sexual fantasy, he won't still cheat on u outside? Things like this don't change anything, instead it will get worse.
From the tone of your message, I think the MOST fundamental & pertinent advise is for you & your husband to GENUINELY find Christ and be born-again. All these immoral urges are symptoms of a carnal mind which can only be cured by the conviction of the Holy Spirit and the washing by the Blood of Jesus Christ. Kindly locate a Faith & Bible Preaching Church closest to you. You'll find help. God bless you!!!
Stupidity is a sin.women should don't allow men make them act stupid,No matter the situation.know ur worth.
This is what i dread!
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Stupidity is a sin.women should not allow men make than act stupid,No matter the situation.know ur worth and also know ur right as a woman.
D both of u nid Jesus in ur lives.....
Fucking fool. That's cos you ain't got no self esteem..... and you're a dumpbag. We all know your "man" is married.....l laugh at you. Cheap ass bitch. Shut that bin you call a mouth if you ain't got nothing good to say.
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Bonita you have spoken well. I do not understand why people get married when they are sooooo not ready for it. Woman, get ready for some serious heart ache if u agree to this nonsense.
Hope you read this: set your standards now. Since your conscience is not comfortable then dont. Tell him no. Plain and simple. Cos after this, it could be anal sex or dogs. Just dont. If it gets too bad, then leave. You cant control cheating cos trust me he is already cheating on you. Step up your game, look hot and tell him he can have only you at a time. Also suggest std tests. Cos he is not safe as long as he keeps fooling around. Lastly talk to someone important to him. Do not be seduced and do not be afraid.
Ha! Ha! Ha! I know right? But my sister's Nigerian fiance asked her for the same oh in Lagos, not one but six times. Men! He is ex now, my sister had to Waka.
You don't want him to cheat on you, but you are "ok" with him wanting to bring sin into your household. That man is already cheating on you in his heart, what kind of company are you guys keeping? U have a 17month old, is that the kind of household you want your child to grow up in? Both of you need help, go for Godly counselling and get rid of those so called married friends, they are not healthy for you guys.
Big idiot ...I had a gf say that too . Bringing in another guy. Na there I know say my D*** no fit do her again so I gass run for my life @adedarkdick
I pity the womb that carried you for 9months! U need Jesus desperately!
Wahala.
Lmao! Why another woman. Tell him na another man u want make e join and see how he likes a taste of his own med. Mstcheew. Pls this life is not a bag of bricks. Dont spit in my face if u dont want me to spit in urs. Oshi ati iranu. Someone that is already cheating on. Why wud he suggest another woman if he loves you. Some men can be so utterly selfish. Instead ooof thinking of ways to make a better life and be more supportive of raising his child. He's looking for women to spice up his sex life. Why not put curry and ata rodo? Those r spices too. It simple logic, if he needs a woman then u need a man, shikena. Make e be foursome. The more the merrier. Mstcheew
I don't understand how you need Linda Ikeji's commenters to tell you what to do. This is YOUR marriage, if you're not comfortable with it don't do it, simple! Otherwise please knock yourself out.
These days adultery means nothing to married men/women. It is a sin to cheat talk more of threesome.
The marital vow should be sacred and not toiled with.
Sometimes I just feel lyk beating some sense in2 some female brains. Dis is so absurd mehnn, & who told u he wouldm't cheat on u after a 3 or 10some.
Dis are one of such issues u don't need 2 give a 2nd thought or even ask a 3rd party. Goshhhhhhhhhh
ITS A NO OOOOOOO, kEEP SOUNDING IT INTO HIS DUMP EARS!! U married a jerk.
Since he wants to spice it up why not also suggest to him to also include another fresh bobo in ur bed too. #dumbasshusband#!!!
Ma dear, if diz story is really true...I will advice u to b prayerful it's not a normal it, it's spiritual! Nd bringing another woman into ur home...it means ure ready to face it.
Call a family meeting ooo & let everyone know wht is going on....chinekemeh!!we see dis tins in movie nvr thght it cld happen oo..may God av mercy ijn!!
And you wud know because...? Dumb ass! LIB poster don't listen to this moron...your husband is a HO! Say no! Don't give the devil an upper hand in your home! Be prayerful, nne...
Let me not look for my comment o
kai! story of my life... I posted similar story on SDK's. mine, I have been married for 7yrs and the pressure is still there....
pls tell him that ur okay, but u will start first by bringing in a man first to spice it up
Your husband is a whore Hehehehe, tell him it's cool. Then go bring some dude and have him tear his asshole. Sister he won't think of Sex again for a long while. He's a stupid pussy sucking whore of satan
You pple be blaming the devil for the foolishness of man.
This is what you get when you marry money and not true love.
you're stupid for even considering it!! this is why your husband can even boldly ask you such rubbish. he has no regards for you and you make it easy for him by being weak for even asking in the first place!!
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