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Wednesday 8 April 2015

Sitting next to the man who raped and made her pregnant, Afghan woman forced to marry her attacker to avoid prison

Afghan woman known only by her first name Gulnaz, (pictured left) was just 16 years old when was raped by her cousin's husband, a man named Asadullah (pictured right), in 2008. She fell pregnant as a result of the rape. But in Afghanistan, sleeping with a married man is a crime, and it doesn't matter if the married person forced themselves on you. How sad! Rejected by her family and facing 12 year in prison for 'adultery by force' and falling pregnant for a married man, Gulnaz had no choice but to marry her depraved attacker. That was her only hope to get a reduced sentence. She later gave birth to the girl in the photo above.

Talking to CNN about her life, Gulnaz said she only agreed to marry her rapist so that her daughter - named Smile could live a shame-free life in the Afghan capital's 'traditional' society. 

 
 Gulnaz married the rapist in 2013 after her family told her she couldn't return home because she'd 'shamed' their family. Gulnaz said marrying her attacker was her only choice
"I didn't want to ruin the life of my daughter or leave myself helpless so I agreed to marry him. We are traditional people. When we get a bad name, we prefer death to living with that name in society,' Gulnaz said.
And through out the interview, she refused to look her husband in the eye. The man, Asadullah - who was jailed for the rape in 2008 but later released, said the woman owed her freedom to him.
'If I hadn't married her according to our traditions, she couldn't have lived back in society. Her brothers didn't want to accept her back. Now, she doesn't have any of those problems." He said.
Asadullah is still married to Gulnaz's first cousin - with whom he has five children.

143 comments:

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

My goodness. What???

Davido's driver said...

Brutal

Davido's driver said...

What is life?lindaobserve

Davido's driver said...

What is life?lindaobserve

7F098C19 said...

No na. This won't end well is just a matter of five years. Someone will kill someone. Engr Emy

Unknown said...

Dis is so wonderful, and how I wish they wol bring dis tradition to Nigeria. Definitely it wil b abused.

Unknown said...

So Sad . What kind of life is that

Chidinma Grace said...

All these islamic countries. Can u imagine? What a pity. God pls fight for our women all over d world.

tsalz c.e.o said...

Wicked world..

ANYA IKENGA said...

Linda you de carry last these days. This na old news na.

Unknown said...

All these traditions, tofiakwa

Unknown said...

Rubbish!!! That their useless law is bullshit.

Unknown said...

This Afghanistan and their laws,
Which favours only men.
What a wicked law.
A woman who is suppose to get justice for the evil done to her, is now suffering from someone else's sins.

Miss R said...

Wow! A society that has no regard/respect for women, that see women as inferior and disposable; such a shame. I feel so sad for her because rape is possible one of the worst things that can happen to any woman; then to be forced to marry the animal that took your pride as a woman forcefully is saddening. We have a long way to go to be civilized all over the world

Mzz_Mary said...

All dis pple nd deir tradition

Unknown said...

Wonders shall never end. What does dis imply dat every victims of rape will marry those that rape them or wht?

Alexis said...

Bastard!

AQO said...

Madness!!









Jesus is Lord.

seun said...

Shackled by the rules of men... how sad!

Anonymous said...

Islam is satanic aswear! Wat kinda life is dis, wickedness @ it's peak... He practically ruined her life & says she owes him, idiot!

Anonymous said...

Baad country baad policy

Unknown said...

Women are just commodity in muslim. Very stupid and usless religion.

shzy said...

Stupid country, useless tradition!!

Unknown said...

Imagine, bad culture n bad tradition. Rubbish

Unknown said...

Imagine, bad culture n bad tradition. Rubbish

Anonymous said...

ATYMS I GET CONFUSED ABT DES PPLES LAW..HW CAN U IMPRISONED SMONE DAT WS RAPED?? DAT MEANS SME MEN WIL JST B GOIN ABT PERPERTRATIN EVIL KNWIN DE OUTCOME WNT B A PRBLM TO DEM..WILL DS WOMAN EVR B API IN HER LYF??WITH DS MAN??Y NT JAIL D MAN, FROM DS ONE HE WIL GO ABT RAPIN ODAS KNWIN DEY WIL B COMPEL TO MARRY HIM...SHAME ON U PPLE...DS IS SO ANNOYIN. TOMJERRYSWIT

ujunwa said...

What a world.. can it be possible?

yawanow said...

Living in bondage.

Anonymous said...

OMG such a depraved soul. Isn't that incest on some level?

Flavia said...

Such stupid tradition. Why would a woman have to go through all these?some cultures sha!

ASAMPOKOTO said...

Your headline is super misleading. I watched the interview, she wasn't forced to marry him to avoid jailtime. It was one of the previous conditions for her release, but later scrapped. and her brother's disowned her because she married her rapist. They wanted her to come and live with them in Pakistan, but she refused and married him so her daughter wouldn't be shamed andd such growing up in their comunity.

Anonymous said...

Monster, may God deliver women 4rm wicked men. Dis is real bondage, God 4bid

Unknown said...

It doesn't matter if the married person forced themselves on you.. This is deeply disturbing. ----C21

Unknown said...

D bastard still has d guts to talk.all dese countries sef,God have mercy oo

Unknown said...

Sick

Kponskii said...

...speechless.

Unknown said...

Some traditions eeh, how can someone that was raped receive punishment for been raped Odiegwu ooo

Unknown said...

God will not forgive him for what he did

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Chai....so much abuse in d world

Unknown said...

What a culture! Its a pity.

Unknown said...

What a shame!!! These people are animals

Unknown said...

It is a wa o...

Anonymous said...

these middle east countries have anti-feminine laws.its so sad.why wont the men continue to commit these crimes wen they kno they will walk free. there are some places i will neva step foot in. na them claim holiness pass n they are so evil

Unknown said...

God 4gv mi, am gonna poison him no b lie geeeez ds is humilating afta bin raped u ll nw tel mi 2 marry d he-goat God forbid ha women don suffer. Pele ooooooooooo

Juleslouis said...

Some laws in ds Arab countries r just heartbreaking.

Dazey Maureen said...

hmmmm...this bad...really bad

Unknown said...

Depraved human beings living in a religiously backward society. I weep for the women who have to live with these animals

Unknown said...

Cruel religion.I wonder the kind of hatred she has for him.
Faceoflib

Unknown said...

OMG! Wat a tradition. Mtchww

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Unknown said...

Bloody HELL!!!!!

Unknown said...

Things dat happen in dis world.....cn u imagine d nonsense..all dis arab countires cn be so inhumane with dia laws

Nomso said...

some traditions need serious interventions. this is totally sickening.

Unknown said...

Outragous..




...JOSHSAYSO...LIB..FAN

Anonymous said...

There is untold wickedness going on in this world.
Who says one gender is less than the other smh

Celine Oma said...

What nonsense! Where are those people raving about gender marginalization nd injustice? This backward country is a good place to start! How can men commit such evil and d women folk are forced to pay for it? My goodness! This is d height of it. And d damned man is even gloating about marrying her...so in other words, he's saying he's her messiah when he shuld be rotting in jail along with d inconsiderate morons dat made dat law! #so pained



#linda's apprentice says

Anonymous said...

No wonder there is no comment!

Unknown said...

Nawa o

Egobliss said...

What a tradition! Take heart dear

Anonymous said...

Linda enjoys these postings so islam can be abused. Well sorry to disappoint you, they are afghan traditions not islam. Just like how a living igbo man can inherit his late brother's wife. Thank you.

Unknown said...

Savage Custom! I detest!

Anonymous said...

Muslim..... The Center of Fools. The people of Satan. The End of the world. The Terrorists, The Rapers, The Killers.

The Muslims... The Dead of Humanity.
Allah.... A god of Rape, Death, and Evil Warlord.

Anonymous said...

Muslims and their stupid laws. What inhuman treatment for a woman that was raped. From getting married to underage girls to silly laws that oppress and intimidate women. I just hope Buhari will not be so stupid to think about bringing laws that will make him die in Aso Rock. The fire of God almighty is protecting Nigerians especially Christians from all this barbaric Islamic laws. May God protect Nigerians from silly laws capable of destroying the peaceful co-existence of all religion and tribes in the country. GEJ remains the best president ever since the inception of democracy. You all will regret rigging him out when Buhari start his own clueless and naive leadership.

Unknown said...

What a weird custom and tradition. The Lord is her strength. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

What a weird custom and tradition. The Lord is her strength. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

What a weird custom and tradition. The Lord is her strength. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

What a weird custom and tradition. The Lord is her strength. Linda take note!

FIZZICHILLIO said...

Pathetic laws!!!

#FiZz

Unknown said...

What a weird custom and tradition. The Lord is her strength. Linda take note!

iyke cindy said...

May d so cald Asadullah go dumb. Wat insolence, he stil av d mouth to blab....rapist of a man. Afghanistan shud reconsider deir laws jor,wat a country!!!

Anonymous said...

so Nigerian chics should appreciate us to some more. okay

Anonymous said...

This man is an HEdiot

Idyllic Prince said...

Pathetic! Evil Tradition that needs to be abolished.
~Idyllic has spoken~

jiddah said...

Islamically,it is wrong. The afghans are insane for making women scapegoats. This is law has nothing to do with Islam bt their tradition

Anonymous said...

na so islamic tradition be. backward and barbaric. dont know why people practice such. ptsheew.

Anonymous said...

This has nothing to do with religion, this is purely about their lost culture, islam actually permits you to abort a baby conceived through rape as far as u are in your first trimester. So nothing to do with religion!

Anonymous said...

Madam ella John, did u c dat she wrote tradition, foolish religious bigot

Oluwadamilola said...

Madness! Something needs to be done about these people..

Unknown said...

Oluwa dey

Unknown said...

Too sad and unacceptable!


OKORO UPGRADED**

Unknown said...

This tradition is so lame.....

Anonymous said...

I swear!

Anonymous said...

You are already cursed for uttering such words! So many idiots in here.

Unknown said...

Imagine! They should kip dat dat stupid tradition in there fucked up country...fucking people

Unknown said...

Priesthood, u must be a rapist for saying such rubbish idiot. Anumanu

Anonymous said...

Abeg I dey vex. I dey vex.

Anonymous said...

ds idiot i am sure u wia amng dose dt wia condemin d oba of lag n u com hia on social media postin (reliogion) hate comment cos dts wat i term ur comment to be.....d write clearly n repeatedly used d term"TRADITION" n u carelesly n uselessly changed it to religion....dia is a difference btw a language n a religion cos i hanvt seen wia d word ARABIC means ISLAMIC

Anonymous said...

if u lyk dont post d comment

Anonymous said...

i wonder y ds linda girl usually pist som useless comments n i tot ur rules r "comment are posted after approval..so hw dare u aprove ds hate comment,??? if ur rules r usrless den dia is no need to set dem..n i gues ds person lacks al d available morals in ds worl eg domestic n religous.....

Unknown said...

hummmmmmmmmmm

Laundry enthusiasts said...

Tufiakwa

Anonymous said...

Like me killing u Emy! U can only run... bt u can't hide! It's a tradition dat doesn't respect women, just lik u don't Emy! Horror!!!

Just Julia!

DGBASKY said...

I can't stop laughing ooo, lols

Anonymous said...

But it is only Islam that imposes such sick shit!

Anonymous said...

@Anon. 8:01, u're an idiot too! Who cares, Islamic n Arabic r d same! Arabic is an Islamic language, wats d diff! Smh, wat a tradition!

Just Julia!

Unknown said...

Auntie Linda, please how does one "FALL" pregnant?

proud muslima said...

Read more about Islam. There was emphasis on TRADITION in d story.

Anonymous said...

Yes oh @Anon, it's an Islamic tradition, or a tradition in Islamic countries e.g Afghanistan! Stop all dis insulting defence oooh, it won't change our minds dat Islam lives, loves n thrives in violence!!! Al-qeada, Al-sahaab, Boko Haram, Jihad, d list is endless oh! U beta open ur inner eyes!

Pink Bananas said...

Reading your comment gives me a headache, Islamic anon

Unknown said...

Retarded people finding a rape victim Guilty with a stupid law @ Adultery by Force#.
Can u imagine this level of stupidity.

Unknown said...

Hmmm too bad,,,, what???

Unknown said...

How unfair

Anonymous said...

You r just a foolish fool an idiot very squid omg I don't know what to call goodness u irritate me

Walata said...

Wtf I'm speechless

NOORDEAN said...

Some people are just very stupid, grace, don't you knw the diff between Tradition and Religion???!!!

Unknown said...

The most stupid comment for de year @ priesthood.

NOORDEAN said...

Dont you people know the different between Tradition and Religion.
You complain about Oba's hate speechh to Igbo, wot about your hate speech to Islam. Know more about Islam before you criticise it.

Unknown said...

Choi..........ewoooo......I'm speechless!



#TeamBlessed#

barrister said...

Anonymous orubebe.

mz jenny said...

N somewhere in America, someone is screaming about feminism simply cus she wants to walk the streets half naked. *sighs*

mz jenny said...

N Somewhere in America, someone is screaming "feminisim!" simply cus she wants to walk the streets half naked *sighs*

kidykuz said...

Tnx for educating dat igbo fagot

jiddah said...

It is not an Islamic tradition!!!!think with your head for once. I'm sure there are some outrageous traditions in some xtian countries which has nothing to do with xtianity.

Anonymous said...

Even yu?...as old as u are...u shld b clocking 50 by nw if am not mistaken...well am not expecting les from an igbo rapist lyk u..the likes of u make me to hate igbos..

Anonymous said...

Islam is the devil himself. I don't talk to Moslem. I don't care how peaceful the pretend to appear. Underneath every single Moslem is a terrorist. Wicked demons. God punish all of them.

Anonymous said...

Seriously?....... ur brain is totally Dead...Allah means God in Hausa/Arabic.. jst lyk d way igbos call chukwu nd yorubas olorun.... I hope God 4givs u 4 dis.........SMH

Anonymous said...

R u a fool?....we have muslims in Nigeria, wia have u hrd of dah? Tradition my dear.... u go skul at all?

Anonymous said...

To hell with ialam and their evil traditions

Anonymous said...

Oga, u sabi read at all. Dis has Notin 2 do wit religion, it's jus der afghan foolish custom.

Anonymous said...

Idiot @priest u a big fool I swear

Unknown said...

Islam is a religion of the perverts.

Anonymous said...

Bullshit!

Unknown said...

Sad....

Unknown said...

...A MAN WHO THEY SHOULD CUT OFF HIS BALLS

Unknown said...

Is there something about priesthood and rape?....just wondering...

Unknown said...

Excellency you for get 19000 husbands as soon as you enter afghan....no near there oo

Unknown said...

I have no time for religious arguments. Your comment says it all

Anonymous said...

Seriously, you're more satanic and evil if you have such hatred for your fellow human being. Think of your comment" I don't talk to moslem. I don't care how peaceful they pretend to appear. You are part of these hate problems. You all need to get yourselves together and see the wrongs in you. Stop bad mouthing and think of your hereafter.

Anonymous said...

Oga Chukwura, I think you guys should always proofread stories before you comment. It sad that you can only respond to issues because of your feelings towards some sect. Even Jesus our Lord preached against judging others. Is it in the bible to call others religion stupid. You know less. God help you

Wandoo Peters said...

Linda, I watched the interview. You forgot to mention that she's pregnant for her third child by the 'husband' right now.

Also she had the opportunity to leave Afghanistan to the states through a human rights group and a few of her relations but majority of her family members pressured her into staying and marrying the man.

Anonymous said...

It's Islam ooo even in Saudi if u get raped u get flogged ..or imprisoned..didn't u read how a girl was killed cos she killed her rApist in self defense..women are commodities in islam

Anonymous said...

Women are deficient in Islam..they are commodities..if u get raped u get arrested

Anonymous said...

In Saudi if u re raped u get flogged

Anonymous said...

Why is ur prophet not like Jesus..u say he is the last prophet why does his character not resemble any of the previous prophets of God

Anonymous said...

Stop comparing Christians and Muslims..christainty do nt say women are half of men..Christians don't wke up And kill and have u noticed that around the world na Muslim they cause wahala

Flora said...

TF? I no get talk 4 mouth..

crowny said...

@ royal yes n men will end up rapin ur sisters,ur daughters n evn ur mother.Ewu,aturu nmeeeee.idiot if u dont hav anytin to say den close u guter mouth.

ejigbo said...

Elitism have finished third world countries like this GOD will be staying all that stuff. I don't have to know this is annoy me, if anyone tried it in general nigeria that point I will send through my mind to the man who did this action.

Anonymous said...

Issues!!!

Anonymous said...

So when next you complain about being a Nigerian, remember there is a country where the women are still slaves. God bless my country.

Anonymous said...

This people are barbarians.no regard for women.god help us.

Mrs TC said...

Hmmm like seriously? The man even get mouth to talk instead of being ashamed for his actions.

JBLINKZ said...

This is cruel, God have Mercy!

Unknown said...

What?

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