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Thursday 12 December 2013

'They would have hated me'- Oprah on why she doesn't regret having kids

TV legend Oprah Winfrey chose not to get married or have children and she says looking back now at age 59, she doesn't regret her decision. In an interview with Hollywood Reporters, Oprah said if she'd had children they would have been neglected because of how busy her life was.
"If I had kids, my kids would hate me. They would have ended up on the equivalent of the Oprah show talking about me, because something in my life would have had to suffer and it would've probably been them. Gayle (now a mother of two) was the kind of kid who, in seventh grade class, was writing down her name and the names of her children while I was having daydreams about how I could be a Martin Luther King".
With a net worth of $2.9 billion, Oprah is one the richest women in the world. She owns TV Network OWN, the O and Oprah Magazine as well as vast real estate stakes. She has been in a relationship with Stedman Graham since 1986.

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Rough Diamond said...

Anon 3:23 nne gi na nma gi psychos!

Anonymous said...

Na cover up joor. na ur own problem be dat. Lilly abeg next

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Unknown said...

Opah spends lots of money on charity every year. She has had many adopted kids of which many are blacks. To me oprah's life is more fulfilling dan many parents.

Toronto Finest said...

Anonymous 4:06pm. Thank you x grammar Nancy.

Unknown said...

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Anonymous said...

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Toronto Finest said...

Ok I'm sry I don't mean to lol

Unknown said...

Well if she thinks she won't b able to take care of kids if she have dem,she might as well not av dem.buh to me motherhood is d best thing dat culd eva happen 2 u

Aymii said...

Lol.......59 years????? Nawaooo ..she 4 years older than my motha!!!!!! ....i just imagined my momma giving this kinda retarded excuse???? .........where would my lovely self be????? Unborn?????
Hell No! .....i do not concur with her! ......wasted 2.9 billions.....




On 2 the Next!

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Unknown said...

@ Lauren,pls get a life! ugly hungry bitch

PAVOUR said...

That's her decision so respect it. Watin be una biz sef..

Anonymous said...

blog queen, if that is how you feel then honestly my heart goes out to you in sympathy.. this is a woman who has had a tremendous on many and you think all that means nothing because she doesn't run home to make dinner and change nappy. if you think the essence of your life is procreation and breeding then pls how are you different from an animal?

Anonymous said...

One of the many problems of this world... Women that are satisfied with not being able to care for anyone else except themselves.

I know her past was hard.. but the greatest joy a man or woman with a difficult past can having kids who u can build the paradise u never had for.. and its not about wealth.. its just giving them virtues u had to learn the hard way

Anonymous said...

Normally I won't comment, but I'm going to ask for something.
Linda I know you've said you're involved in a charity already but please if you'll make a donation to Nuhu Kwajarfa of GIPLC or so. I honestly don't have the names spelt well(Other blog visitors can check him out On fb and even make donations)But he's doing a great job with his NGO remember the baby okiki's story?He's having an Xmas party soon and I'm sure whatever donations they get will cover some children's fees for the next term.
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Anonymous said...

I think her decision is her biz. Love her loads. Guys we all have our strength and weakness . At least she admitted her weakness.

Alloy Chikezie said...

Linda please dear don't be like her, I love Oprah mama Oprah a lot, but I fink she should have given birth to at least one child, that's my opinion anyway

Patricia Paul said...

Nigerians with their mentality, Marriage is/was not meant for everyone and I see the point she is making here. She wanted to be a star and not depend on anyone, she has a busy life and to be that star she has to work hard for it. I love her courage and will, which has finally made her dreams come true. When she is too old, she will employee a maid to take care of her or move into the old people's home, after all it's her money so she can spend it as she likes. It's her opinion so lets respect it.

Unknown said...

I loooove Oprah but hate this her comment with passion. She should have maintained silence on this child issue.

Unknown said...

I loooove Oprah but hate this her comment with passion. She should have maintained silence on this child issue.

Anonymous said...

Your glasses make you look like mumu...your fat buffoon body look like mumu...your incorrect English confirms your middle name is MUMU.... You broke ass mumu

Anonymous said...

If your parents have the same believe (Oprah) where would you have been?.........mtcheeew.

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Anonymous said...

She a VIRGIN ???

MY TURN said...

Onyinbo no dey think like Nigerians. She'll give it all to her dogs if she has too. Lets not bother her estate good for her, love her still

Alicia says... said...

Dont mind those frustrated beings. Especially the women who are receiving all sorts of abuses from their so called husbands and staying in dead lifeless marriages because of the 3+ children they have with the man. Then they come here in their bitterness and frustrations and hate on Oprah who made all this money and has all these achievements despite being married with no children. Bad belle people

Anonymous said...

It is called choice! What ever u chose in life is just ok.

Unknown said...

With all d money she has? No child abeg make una advise her to write her WILL in farvor of d charity home cos no kides to will all d money to.hmmmmmm rubbish

Anonymous said...

@ Atinuke quari Stop Hating. Free the girl please!!!

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thaddy said...

So by your judgement a Nun taking a vow of celibacy is being narcissistic by not partaking in procreating....I hope you do see how flawed ur reasoning is... Oprah is right in taking the decision not to have any biological kids, it's her life and her reasons r perfectly sound...she's wealthy and has probably done more than with her life than you can achieve with yours....and talking about posterity history is littered with childless folks and it doesn't diminish their achievements.


Rough Diamond said...

Ur mama n papa psychos !

Anonymous said...

Which one is burial you?? Looool smh for your English o.

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Alesh said...

Tirana, I wish to take u up on this one, think carefully and list what in your own opinion she needs children for.

Anonymous said...

Behind every fact is a hidden truth, the fact is that she never got married nor had children but the truth is that she can reverse that decision anymore so she is consoling herself

Anonymous said...

Nonsense homosexual already regretting her foolishness? What's the whining about? Can non-existing children hate?

Anonymous said...

Hi Linda, The title should read 'Oprah on why she doesn't regret NOT having kids'

MY TURN said...

Anyone insulting Oprah can never be wealthy. No be curse a woman has her reasons for not wanting children. Would she rather be an absentee mother to biological kids or have adopted kids round the world who can feel her love for them even when she's not there? This is why we are very backward.

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Anonymous said...

hmm nawa for dis woman

Roseline said...

I for one, have always loved oprah, if that's her decision, i think everyone should respect it. am happy she did what she is happy with, not everyone can be a mother or father. so we should learn to respect people's decisions.

Cocoz said...

i guess motherhood aint for everyone

Nnodim said...

Fammie said ..." who is going to inherit all she is laboured for these years?" And I say: her dog and other pets. Why should it be your business?

Adedeji Ola said...

Great job...my first comment. but the headline is wrong...it should be: `why she doesn`t regret not having kids`

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